you are benefitting greatly from the toxic people in your life...here's how
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you're actually benefitting from the toxic people in your life...here's how
Having had the "honor" of having to deal with a lot of toxic people in my life, even from a young age, I can smell them a mile away. They do NOT get my attention, nor a reaction. I see them for what they are worth. I can literally see their insecurity and immaturity and I do not give them the pleasure of playing their little gradeschool games. First sign of disrespect and I am gone. I deserve to recieve the same respect I give to others and refuse to be a doormat for emotionally immature adult children.
well said
I literally snapped yesterday and walked out of a job I poured my soul into because I'm done with the toxic environment and being controlled, and then I opened UA-cam to this video ❤ I needed this today
proud of you!
I was raised by an abusive mother since the age of 11 I used her behavior as a visual learning tool of how not to behavior and conduct myself as a woman.
GIRL - I started following you during your KC days. We worked at the same company. It was TERRIBLE. I also was traveling and I would be taking my therapy appointments in the car on client site BAWLING my eyes out. I knew I had to get tf out. SO glad you followed your heart and did what was best for you. & so happy to see you grow and shine throughout the years! :)
Wake up babe. Bestie B is giving substantial life advice for the girlies again.
Some people literally became toxic in themselves and live in it , just to relieve me from the burden of favouring them repeatedly in the future , they took the loss to give me freedom , I get it now , it was all meant to make me less burdened ❤
I swear your channel hit me right at the exact moment. When you talk about “I’m never working for anyone again” i was so unhappy in my job and my boss literally made me cry daily. I seriously asked god for a sign everyday driving to work. I said this last year, I received a cancer diagnoses in January 2023. I received the all clear in November and I told my boss I wasn’t coming back.
I truly believe that there was a reason for it, it’s taught me so much and I will never, ever put myself in a position to be so mistreated again.
I refuse to go and find a job and I will find a way for myself!
Your videos make me feel so seen ❤️ thank you Bria ❤️
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I went through the same exact thing at my corporate job at 23. I'm 25 now and this was really motivating 💙
Not Spirit talking to me through you, thanks for the reminders
The thing is, I know you're right, but I have a sit of work to do. I genuinely can't believe how some people think it's okay to interact with others.
I have a toxic coworker and came to the conclusion that he’s in my life to teach me something maybe 5 minutes before I picked up my phone and stumbled across this video on UA-cam. ❤️
Woooo! I think we’ve all had that breakdown moment after the doors being closed to a flight 😂
I needed this video. I love it when you're unapologetic
Crazy you mentioned the Artist way, I am on week 3 of journaling with the book. I love it!
I love your energy, the way you are open and comfortable being vulnerable about your past and looking at it in a positive way and be able to share that with us is true power! 💪😢❤
9:38 lolllll “oh I was mad”
When I tell u this is exactly the way I think ….! It’s just so refreshing to not feel as crazy as people think I am when I tell them that everything is happening for u, working for u. Perspective. U are the star of your own movie called life. Literally everything feel. And coming not from a book but from experience. Ugh. It’s just so refreshing.
But u know what. I also needed a reminder. So thank u universe for sending you/ this video to me. Because. I know what I have to do now. Lol.
You’ve done it again, wonderful video! I had a similar situation with an ex boss. She would nitpick every single thing that I did, hover over me, and even find mistakes that literally didn’t exist then she would backtrack when I corrected her. Anyways, leaving that job led me on a much greater path and I finally found a great job with amazing colleagues and leaders who actually value me as an employee. If I had allowed that last boss to traumatize me, I’d probably be at another similar job but that experience really shook me up and made me get more intentional with my job search.
Oh Bria that part where you played the ancestors on the McDonlads mic just made so much sense and so funny at the same time. Definitely needed to hear this. Lol ❤❤❤❤❤
Absolutely on point!
This came at the most Divine Timing honestly cause this is just another sign from my spirit team AND I just recorded my first video that I need to post saying the SAME THING about detachment and your spirit team
Yup, this one's also right on time :)
Grand rising 🤗☀️ I definitely needed to hear this 🥲.. someone once told me “say whatever it is you need to say to make yourself feel better” and much more etc but all I replied was “ok I’m sorry” bcs truthfully they could have worded things a lot differently but calmly peacefully god was with me during that time and I felt a weight lifted off my shoulder and I was shocked at the same time so for a few days I sat with god and asked questions and journaled about the situation and you know what I found out “Heck Yeah Im Allowed To Feel Better Bcs I Deserve Joy Peace And Happiness… and why would a “friend” wish that upon me? I believe words are powerful they stung me and one thing I wasn’t allowing was them to control me bcs i know who I am! 👏🏼🎉 THANK YOU💕
you nailed it!
Its weird we have a mutual associate and i know the details of your time at cerner lol and i even know the day you quit girl... I respect how far you came i hope to meet you one day
I’m late but I just watched this video and I needed this. Thanks!
It is funny you mention it because I haven’t responded to a friend in almost a week know and don’t know whether or not to cut off the relationship for good
*_I'm new here and woahh i already love your Channel "bestiee" you've got a new subscriber!_*
This really is divine timing! Trippy but I know I needed to hear this message. Thank you!😅
Thank you so much for this video bestie B. We love you :*
mind blowing point of view ! 10/10 😱😱
I Love You Bria! Thank Youuu!!
A friend of mine decided to cut me out of her life cold turkey. I don’t know what I did. I kept thinking again and again and again. I just wanted to know why so that I can at least say I’m sorry. Like, the day before we were super close, the next day it’s like we never knew each other. I have abandonment issues and I told her about it, and she still did it. I don’t know how to even trust people again.
Of course I don’t know what the deal is between you all. But I had to cut off a friend who expressed she had abandonment issues and we were the same. However she was mean spirited to others and she had controlling issues. Maybe to protect herself from being hurt but I simply couldn’t help her and it was starting to make me feel ill. So it had to be over, no matter how much I still love her, I don’t like her ways so it just made sense to walk away.
@@erickamitchell5122 gotcha. I made everything in my power to not be controlling or needy. We never fought. I made sure to have an open communication with her and I told her that I am open to criticism. It keeps bugging me up all night because if it’s something I have done, I can take notes of that and never repeat it again with anybody. But well….
I was definitely spinning out earlier this year over school,like crying considering dropping a class. Nearly regretting going back after being gone for year.
I’m so happy you uploaded also happy birthday B!! I hope you have a great day ⭐️
thank you so much!
thank you Bria I soo needed this, this was the answer to my prayer that i needed to and for my situation, Divine alignment in deed, thank you a million Bria
Ok I needed to hear this!! Love it❤❤❤
Imma man but I gotta lot of respect for you and your knowledge you share thank you and keep it going! 💙
Thank you ❤
Love you Bria !! Keep shining the light 🤍
This was soooooo good!!!!
Amazing video ❤ Thank you
Whew! My first male manager in the tech industry and my experience with him sounds exactly like this 😒
Thanks!
Thanks ❤❤❤
You are who I daydream about being in the future
Hey Bria! I'm happy to watch this video😍 Could you give us a video "how to stop getting nervous about the fact that you may lose smth that you got earlier" (why the idea that yours won't leave you is true), please?
2:28
bria: what comes to mind when you think of toxic people?
me: well for starters, they’re all out of my life 😭
Awesome content Bria! Thank you!
Good morning Bria happy Saturday morning and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter
good morning! have a great day!
@@BriaJones good morning your welcome sending you hugs ❤️ 🤗
Just clicked and got my 1 month free audible. I got Britney book
yay!! i just finished it, it was so good. Let me know what you think!
Hi! 😀I’m new to your channel! This video of yours just showed up on my phone ! I just liked and subscribed to you! Thank you for giving this good advice and sharing your experience-it helps me with my new job, coz I know who the toxic people are.
Who are some of the spiritual teachers that you have watched and resonated with on UA-cam?
Love your videos
I love your confidence and videos like this :)
This video is a 10/10 ❤
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Hey bestie❤🇿🇦
hi bestie!
Hii bestie❤
good morning bestie
bria your hair is giving what it’s supposed to give! 🫶🏽😘
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This video was amazing 🫶🏽
This … was .. right.. on TIME 👏🏾💖💕💕💕
Love your energy 🌸💕
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Thank you for sharing about your spiritual connection, Bria! I really loved the McDonald’s metaphor it had me cracking up it’s so true!! It’s been such an essential part of my confidence journey to follow my dreams ❤
Aw so happy to her that! Yes keep going after it!
Your hair!!! Please do a tutorial on how you are for it
I needed this! I’ve been trying to leave corporate and this was sign that I need to commit on myself ❤
This…………………….7:30-So Relatable
This too……………….9:22
And this too…………10:33
Edit: So that is what my spiritual team is doing-they’re not trying torture me 12:36
I had just started asking what the lesson is-everywhere but at work 😮
I can’t thank you enough for this video🌈🌈💎💎💫💫
This has helped me look at the reason why l kept getting toxic and manipulative men in my life, "the mirror is at me and they are trying to get what they want." This helped me in many ways in the future and so forth, thank you!! ❤❤❤❤
❤pray for toxic people and protect your heart at all times ❤
i'm on the other side of some toxic friendships and MAN - I wish I had this as a resource when I was going through it, but grateful that I made it and can reframe the experience!
Literally quitting my job after this. THANK YOU 🙏🏾
9:35 lmfaooo that killed me because same
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Wow nice one so glad you shared this keep it up someone that come across this video will be great trust me.
When you upload i click and watch immediately. I like, comment and share. ❤
What makes me lean into watching your content is your authenticity. You captivate me from beginning till end. I am so happy I came across your channel. Loving it.
so sweet of you, thank you for supporting!
Thank you so much for this video❤I really needed this
Briaaa! Firstly, you look and sound like you are doing amazing!! You are radiating pure confidence and positivity energy. I love this for you, I felt so happy inside watching you speak.
2nd, this was a MESSAGE, okay?! . A message the world needs to hear.
Thank you for this video. I am currently dealing with toxic family who I still live with and this video has changed my perspective on my whole situation.
Wow, I loved this so much! So much confirmation thank you Best B✨🥰
The energy in this video was top tier! Perfect timing babe! I knew I subscribed for a reason🙌🏼🥰
The way I love bestie B, omg she’s so relatable, funny and wise!!
Bria, thank you so much for this video !
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my mom texting me good morning the SECOND i start this video is absolutellllyyyy wild, lmao
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@@BriaJones I heard Cobra by Meg Thee Stallion, came to see the video, saw this video and knew I needed to see it, immediately tapped and skipped the ad and as soon as the video began, her text popped up, lol. I know the lessons, I just needed this video as confirmation ❤ The lesson from her is different from the others but still important
OMG I CAN LITERALLY CRY RIGHT NOW! THANK YOU SO MUUUCHHH FOR THIS VIDEOOOO!🥹💕!! I’m currently right now dealing with my toxic hyper aggressive uncle on drugs! Lastnight he kicked my dog HARD for no reason and tried to hit me and called me Homophobic names , I didn’t know what to do but pray HAARDDD to finally get out of this toxic environment that I grew up in , living with him has always been a nightmare but I kinda got used to it but IM DOOONNEE , hearing my dog whimper and seeing how he flew when my uncle kicked him is the last straw or everything!!! I needed to see this video 🥹