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Stop wasting time. Just put in your order and pay for it. If there is one thing western men understand is that everyone has their price. It is a simple exchange of cash and services regardless where you live. LDR is for unintelligent losers.
I LOVE your blunt honesty and "let's keep it real" attitude! Seen many You tube videos on the dangers of dealing with filipinas (I married one here in the US) and you are BY FAR the best at cutting to the chase and disabusing male simps ( I was one) of the games Pinays play. Very few of the women there will be as honest as you are (excluding Filipina Pea). You earned yourself a subscriber!
I probably met 100 Filipinas online, after eliminating the obvious scammers and gold diggers I found a sincere one, then spent 3 years corresponding.. ( yes, 3 years).. I came to the Philippines and don’t regret it.. they are out there guys, beautiful, loyal, honest, and delicious.. just be patient, don’t run to the first one you meet.. you will be rewarded, believe me..👍🏼
Thanks for all you do Smart Girl. I spent September in Cebu and Bohol. Quickly learned how to use the dating apps without wasting a bunch of time. Met some sweet respectful ladies. Already planning a return trip.
Excellent, excellent advice! Also consider that it is better to vet a lot of different women, rather than falling for the first one who shows you any interest or affection. This doesn't mean hopping into bed with them, but you do need to get to know them a lot better. A man first needs to identify exactly what he wants/does not want in terms of a woman. Anything from single motherhood, to religion, to smoking/drinking, to world views. Make a mental list of non-negotiables and immediately dismiss any women that have any of those. That may cut a lot of women after very minimal effort. You can be sure that many women are doing the same for you. If they leave, let them go. Why chase someone who doesn't want you? For those women who make the cut and who don't cut you, dig deeper. Get to know their families. Make statements that reflect your world views and see how she reacts. Filipinas are more reserved with that, so it's not as easy to gauge as with Western feminists who will implode if your world views don't match. One more thing ... do not send money to a woman you've never met. Ever.
The best video I have ever listen to ! I am impressed . I even contacted a real estate agent . Was working with her to find a condo in Cebu . She told me she started a job online . Then she told me she could not start the job without a laptop, I can say for sure 93 percent of contacts online are a scam . Just like in the US guys forget online . Just go and meet them like you would a girl in the Us.
Chats are't bad so long as they are lengthy and detailed chats, consistent and knowledgeable. I chatted with a Filipina for 8 months on specifics so to leave little to chance. Now we are living together in Cebu for our 16th month-a-vercary.
This could have been a 30 second video saying “in the Philippines you will meet women every time you walk outside. Don’t use online dating. Say hello to 5 different girls, and you will get 5 different new women in your contacts to go out with.” Don’t use online dating, especially if you don’t live there or are not there. It’s so easy and you have so many options you are settling for the mindset of a life of scarcity, rather than a life of abundance.
It's not easy for everyone to come up and get to know each other. I've never had a relationship because I'm afraid to get to know each other even online. 😢
THE BABY NEEDS... AUNT IN HOSPITAL NEEDS... UNCLE SICK NEED$... OTHER AUNT PREGGY NEED$.... THE WHOLE FAMILIA COMING WITH HAND OUT FOR HAND OUT??? POINTLE$$ WASTE OF $$$$
@@Dima-n4d7rthis is why you will fail. The people that are remembered and respected are the ones that aren’t living life scared of people. Take a risk and change your life? What is the worst that can happen? They say they have a boyfriend?? Come on, are you 10 years old?
@@A-xp6mywhat did you do so bad and illegal when you go up and say “hello, what’s your name?” To a girl that she legit screams and calls the police? Are you climbing in her bedroom window at night? Dude, what is wrong with you, genuinely asking cause this is not a normal situation or something that happens.
Good advice for guys looking for a Filipina here in the Philippines. I didn't have to do that. I found mine 22 years ago in Canada. She was an OFW contract Caregiver and I also worked in health care. Our paths crossed and the rest became history. Now, 22 years later, we are fully retired here in Davao and go back to Canada for holidays.
Guys, stop getting serious with any woman anywhere. She's not yours it's just your turn (even if she's a rental). She has to worship the ground you walk on and find a hundred ways to prove her love and loyalty before you consider the option of getting serious (have a backup plan just in case..). If you find the ONE, it's a blessing.
Now I understand why you're call the smart girl. You just hit the nail right on the head. You are a million times correct,and it takes a smart man to analyze and realize what you are saying is so true, keep up the good work.
Let's be honest. Most guys leave their home country because they're not doing well with the women there. So they'll be mad at the women, call them non-traditional, say they've been tainted by the internet and online dating, and head to the Philippines or Thailand thinking they're going to be in high demand and pull women left and right. If you can't pull quality women in your home country, you won't overseas either. And women in the Philippines and Thailand all have access to the same dating apps, social media sites. They watch the Kardashian's and the same reality TV the women in your home country do. Just keep your expectations low because again if you're not doing well with the women in your home country, it will be a lot of the same overseas. The women in Asia who come from very affluent families and have money typically don't want a foreigner. Good luck boys, it's the same all over the world. Travel for yourself! Travel to see new places, eat new foods, and just grow. Don't travel for the soul intention of meeting women; if you do that, you'll most likely be disappointed.
Great video! You're speaking the truth. I met several Filipinos at the mall. I just talked to them and we exchanged numbers. I got tired of wasting time on dating apps.
There is a big difference between dating and finding a good one. It is about 100X easier to date in phillipines than in USA. If you are from rich western country there will be many filipinas that will want to date you. Why because you make about 10X more income that the majority of the local filipinos. All women want men with resources. The difficult part is finding a good one to marry and establish a long term relationship with. Women in phillipines are almost as fucked up in the head as the women in the west.
Well Irish, this is the first time I have seen your channel. I like your direct and no nonsense approach. And it's a bit humorous too. Thanks. Your channel is appreciated.
Never seen you before. Love your channel. Of course everything you say applies to me only as an afterthought because (1) I already married a Filipina; (2) married 13 years; (3) finally divorced her because she became too hard-headed to control or trust. I don't regret meeting her or marrying her or divorcing her. Each decision was the very best decision I could make at the time. I'm just happy I survived. I'm now old, live alone, but happy with peace of mind and mostly fond memories. I will try to catch your channel again. GOOD LUCK! :)
It's called opportunity cost. It's a logical argument. Be strategic. Filipinas are beautiful and in general are very modest, traditional ladies. But the challenge I had with them (online and in real-life), their education was very low. Even the ones that had graduated from University had very little to non existent world-knowledge. I get it, they don't travel due to very little opportunities. In my time there, I can't recall ever meeting one that would meet the requirements to call her intellectual. Some will ask me if only stayed in the provinces... no, i travelled around and also met a few from Manila and Cebu (the big IT centers). I met several men who had pinoy gf or wives and they always said the same thing: the ladies are good, but they have to be directed to almost everything. Certainly there will be exceptions--but that's what they are, exceptional and rare. IF you found one, hang on to her. If you have high standards for a lady, in PH you either lower them or move on to other countries. Best of luck to everyone out there.
They `don`t know anything outside their culture` because schools & education in that place is of very low standard! Philippine people are known to have a tunnel vision.
I lived in Asia for 17 years guys many of those in Manila, Makati and Quezon City, before BGC was built. Enjoyed Subic Bay and Clark Field in the 70s. When it comes to Filipinas RENT DONT BUY. you don't want to be an ATM for her family and her boyfriend.
Oh yes, I remember being stationed in Subic Bay at the Naval Hospital for 3 years. Also, I remember spending time in Clark Airforce base. I agree rent don't buy !
I met mine future wife trough a friend. Never thought I would end up in Asia. I stopped dating Western girls long time ago. Two much hassle for left over women that are never satisfied and have more hidden history than the Tartarian empire!
Pogi Kalbo is here!!! I have had an ex, a Filipina before, from Pampanga, we were engaged, it didn't work out due to a lot, but she's back in the Philippines now I believe. Either way, I been on CF and constantly I am on there getting notifications after notifications daily. There's a 12 hour difference too
Dude, what are you doing on a dating site for women that are 6,000 miles from you! That is crazy! Just fly there. You don’t even need a visa. What an absolute waste of time. I’m assuming you never even met the one “ex” you had. Just a pen pal you sent money to yeah?
@@A-xp6mythis comment here shows you have 100% for sure never been to the Philippines. Even the 70 year old creepy and obese guys that haven’t showered in a week still have 25 year old women by their side. Rather than try to sound intelligent online, why not buy a $500 ticket to the Philippines and change your life. 100’s of guys 🤣 you are absolutely full of it man. Only reason a guy is single in the Philippines is cause he wants to be
Have to disagree on that one. If they drink they're generally easier to get into bed. Champagne works magic on women. If they also smoke, have tattoos and lots of rings on their fingers, piercings etc it's a dead cert. We're talking about one night stands here, not a wife or gf.
This was uniquely presented and well received. Great useful analogy, and also a lot of truth serum. The dating environment is exhausting...I think it's better to approach it with no expectations. That way you take more pressure off yourself. Just focus, indulge and appreciate the experience. Enjoy the ride! Whatever is meant to be, will be. I think everyone should stop accepting seasonal relationshhips as lifetime commitments.
Very entertaining and informative, and yes I recognise a lot of what you’re saying, in fact I’ve met a lot of timewasters over the years through not being switched on about the various motives they had which I wasn’t aware of initially. I have over 2000 blocked accounts from internet dating also over the last few years. The odds you talk about seem accurate to me.
Hey Cutie. Us white guys love Filipinas but those of us who are "educated" about the Filipino scene have to bail out of potential relationship. I speak from watching a wonderful Filipina of 25 years married to my best buddy. Every time the two of them go back to the Philippines my American buddy has to pay her relatives bribes of $10,000 to $14,000 to fulfill her relatives requests for money. No thanks Cutie - I can do without that.
So much different than most UA-cam channels. Very smart. Knew it was too good to be true. I guess it's the same around the world. There are good people and most are not worth your time.
Round trip airfare from New York $1,500. 2 weeks hotel @ $100 a night $1,500. Hilton Pattaya for example is $215 a night. So the 6 grand is down to 3. Food budget $30 a day about $450. Down to $2,500 before a single drink or date. Sure you could stay in a flea bag hotel for $20 a night thats $300. Money goes fast on vacation.
Let me say I have been watching a lot of videos about the Philippine but I never left a comment maybe a lot of time if I like it, I will give thumbs up but for you, I will because you sound like you were speaking from the heart and I believed everything I heard from you. I just wanted to say thank you for the advice. I will take it to the bank.
Funny how spot on your numbers were! I kind of geek out on numbers and just re-examined and decided on 14 days in the Philippines today. 100k is about my income, at the moment, too. The cost to visit sounds high, though… and most guys with vacation time are still getting at least some of their pay while gone, so the opportunity cost isn’t that bad as an employee or entrepreneur, but maybe as a purely contract worker. 6k to stay, though… I would think more like 4k including a 2k ticket.. hope I’m not that far off! Probably won’t be visiting any bars, though.. I think that would be a waste all-around. Cebu, then some provinces. Can’t wait!
Interesting comment. Although for me, it was a lot different. I met a Filipina on-line. The first one to show an interest, indeed the only one. We corresponded, for a long time we both were not chatting to others. She paid my return airfare and made all the arrangements for me to go from Sydney to Manila, including a visit to Bagiou, Singapore and many other places, she paid almost all the hotel and travel costs of my 3 week stay there. A year later she paid my fares again for another visit and we included a trip to Palawan. She bought many expensive gifts for me. It was a wonderful introduction. I met most of her family and friends. Sure I contributed to some of the costs of our travels, but she paid by far the majority. She then came to Australia and we went through the long process of visa, citizenship and marriage. We got married and were sort of happy for a year or two, then all her life was about work, work, work here and largely for the purpose of making money to send back to her family. She is a good and honest person. We were able to manage here because I own my home and I live modestly. In the end our marriage became a bit sad and she moved out and divorced me. Now the tables have turned and even though she earns much more than me, she often asks me for financial help.
When I was stationed in the Philippines, my buddy was dating this Filipina who was pretty jealous and convinced he was cheating on her. I don't actually think he was but honestly don't know for sure. Where we were there were pretty frequent power outages. The two of them were in a bar hanging out. She waited for a power outage and then broke her beer bottle on the counter and slashed him across the chest with it. Don't mess with a Filipina. I was on guard duty that night and so I saw the wounds when he came back to our ship. Pretty serious stuff. I'm sure he has large scars to this day. At least she didn't slash his face.
It's not as costly as you put it. I paid 1400 cad for a ticket from Toronto to Manila. Not direct flight, but I did not care. Airbnb was 250 cad per week in Makati Manila in a luxury condo with pool on the roof top. Food was not expensive either. You can eat well for much less than in the west. I'm handsome and in top shape. Never had a problem attracting interest even in the west, but in the Philippines it's even more. No need for bars.
Bet. I fit the same description. I am leaving New Orleans in a few weeks, heading to Manila, and staying in Makati. I was curious as to how they felt towards muscular guys? I don't online date or use social media, so I'll be moving around how I usually move state side. I haven't heard much from any of these content creators about built men..it's obvious they like the "dad bods."
😏 LOL similar experience in my home country de Nicaragua, I dont think theres really any way to do it smart tho, like u say they are all playing and hustling, the only way to do it smart is not to have that time constraint and be in country for 6 months to a year or more, but just two weeks i wouldnt waste my time, for two weeks only i would be only looking at freelancers and professionals and pay to play.
I bought a book of island ladies from frank in California, called pacific Island connection. I found a girl went to meet her and married her. Still married and it's been 24 years. Philippine ladies speak English and that's a big help.
just like a car, YOU CAN ALWAYS TRADE UP FOR A NEWER MORE SPORTY MODEL ! i did that for most of my life, mostly got a newer less used up model. if the newer model happens to be friends with the older model and lives right next door, you find out they are both lemons ! back in the early 1990's when i was writing the former soviet union girls, people always claimed that they would leave me once they got to america, my reply was ALWAYS " IF SHE LEAVES, ILL JUST GET ME A NEWER MODEL"!!! i use to NOT CARE if the woman wanted to exit stage left after they really got to know me. MY STEP DAD married the same woman 3 times, she divorced him every time! and she took every thing each and every time!!! he always said that it didnt matter as he was always going to buy newer and better things, than those she took!!!
When i do go to the Philippines for a wife, I'm going to make sure that she's spiritually inclined ( a heart for God ) that would be certainly worth my time 😊
Personally, I think it's better to go abroad to relax and unwind, not chase women, and if you happen to meet one then awesome. If not, whatever; you enjoyed a few weeks or months in a place with a better climate and cheaper cost of living than home. Mindset is very important. Women are accessories in a man's life, to make it better than it already is, not some magical cure for depression and loneliness.
I met my dream Filipina on Facebook in a website that features our common ancestral name. I go back every year. She meets me at the airport and is with me 24 seven for the two or three weeks that I can be there. We talked to each other every day. As far as the time wasters, yes there are many. It’s easy to spot them. Thanks for your comments.
I am so glad I met my Filipina wife pre-internet. I didn't have to deal with all of this extra BS. I courted her back when you had to be able to write a convincing letter and a poem or two.
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Stop wasting time. Just put in your order and pay for it. If there is one thing western men understand is that everyone has their price. It is a simple exchange of cash and services regardless where you live. LDR is for unintelligent losers.
Talk dirty to me Smart Girl and teach me about opportunity cost. Time well spent. It's always good to keep it real and keep your eye on the ball.
I feel educated now 😅.
you are so lovely with your pretty smile and you are so beautiful
Most WOMEN aren't worth your time.
Most humans are bored, running away from life rather than growing within it.
@@lui2271 lol
Facts
That's your opinion which many would not agree with
But still, living with a good woman is a thousand times better then being alone. The key is finding the good ones and skip the trash.
Most Filipinas in the Philippines always have a backup plan. You're never the only one. They will switch you out in a heartbeat. Remember that!
That's mostly all women from all countries bro
Women. And why wouldn't they? Wouldn't you?
It's called "Monkey branching." Most women everywhere do it. They won't let go of a dude until they already have another one in hand.
I think that applies to most women everywhere.
I have at least 4 backup plans so I can understand the thought process, just be a walk away joe and ghost them.
Ever since you took over the hosting duties for this channel, the advice has been breathtakingly helpful and wayyyyyy better!
I LOVE your blunt honesty and "let's keep it real" attitude! Seen many You tube videos on the dangers of dealing with filipinas (I married one here in the US) and you are BY FAR the best at cutting to the chase and disabusing male simps ( I was one) of the games Pinays play. Very few of the women there will be as honest as you are (excluding Filipina Pea). You earned yourself a subscriber!
I probably met 100 Filipinas online, after eliminating the obvious scammers and gold diggers I found a sincere one, then spent 3 years corresponding.. ( yes, 3 years).. I came to the Philippines and don’t regret it.. they are out there guys, beautiful, loyal, honest, and delicious.. just be patient, don’t run to the first one you meet.. you will be rewarded, believe me..👍🏼
Thanks for all you do Smart Girl. I spent September in Cebu and Bohol. Quickly learned how to use the dating apps without wasting a bunch of time. Met some sweet respectful ladies. Already planning a return trip.
That is awesome! Thank you so much xoxo
Excellent, excellent advice!
Also consider that it is better to vet a lot of different women, rather than falling for the first one who shows you any interest or affection. This doesn't mean hopping into bed with them, but you do need to get to know them a lot better. A man first needs to identify exactly what he wants/does not want in terms of a woman. Anything from single motherhood, to religion, to smoking/drinking, to world views. Make a mental list of non-negotiables and immediately dismiss any women that have any of those. That may cut a lot of women after very minimal effort. You can be sure that many women are doing the same for you. If they leave, let them go. Why chase someone who doesn't want you? For those women who make the cut and who don't cut you, dig deeper. Get to know their families. Make statements that reflect your world views and see how she reacts. Filipinas are more reserved with that, so it's not as easy to gauge as with Western feminists who will implode if your world views don't match. One more thing ... do not send money to a woman you've never met. Ever.
As an expat in the Philippines, I network and meet high quality women through my Filipino friends and church community. 👍
`Church community` 😄😆. Religious people are hypocrites.
The best video I have ever listen to ! I am impressed . I even contacted a real estate agent . Was working with her to find a condo in Cebu . She told me she started a job online . Then she told me she could not start the job without a laptop, I can say for sure 93 percent of contacts online are a scam . Just like in the US guys forget online . Just go and meet them like you would a girl in the Us.
Chats are't bad so long as they are lengthy and detailed chats, consistent and knowledgeable. I chatted with a Filipina for 8 months on specifics so to leave little to chance. Now we are living together in Cebu for our 16th month-a-vercary.
This could have been a 30 second video saying “in the Philippines you will meet women every time you walk outside. Don’t use online dating. Say hello to 5 different girls, and you will get 5 different new women in your contacts to go out with.”
Don’t use online dating, especially if you don’t live there or are not there. It’s so easy and you have so many options you are settling for the mindset of a life of scarcity, rather than a life of abundance.
It's not easy for everyone to come up and get to know each other. I've never had a relationship because I'm afraid to get to know each other even online. 😢
THE BABY NEEDS... AUNT IN HOSPITAL NEEDS... UNCLE SICK NEED$... OTHER AUNT PREGGY NEED$.... THE WHOLE FAMILIA COMING WITH HAND OUT FOR HAND OUT??? POINTLE$$ WASTE OF $$$$
@@Dima-n4d7rthis is why you will fail. The people that are remembered and respected are the ones that aren’t living life scared of people. Take a risk and change your life? What is the worst that can happen? They say they have a boyfriend?? Come on, are you 10 years old?
@@A-xp6mywhat did you do so bad and illegal when you go up and say “hello, what’s your name?” To a girl that she legit screams and calls the police? Are you climbing in her bedroom window at night? Dude, what is wrong with you, genuinely asking cause this is not a normal situation or something that happens.
May I recommend that you research and speak to your Doctor about Paxil. It's an antidepressant specifically for treating social phobia. @Dima-n4d7r
Good advice for guys looking for a Filipina here in the Philippines. I didn't have to do that. I found mine 22 years ago in Canada. She was an OFW contract Caregiver and I also worked in health care. Our paths crossed and the rest became history. Now, 22 years later, we are fully retired here in Davao and go back to Canada for holidays.
I am an old man now but in my day I went to the wet markets. Most were in plain cloths and no makeup. I never met a woman at a mall.
now they're in the malls with Gucci bags and Lacoste watches.
@@garyzies3486yeah avoid those ones
Guys, stop getting serious with any woman anywhere. She's not yours it's just your turn (even if she's a rental). She has to worship the ground you walk on and find a hundred ways to prove her love and loyalty before you consider the option of getting serious (have a backup plan just in case..). If you find the ONE, it's a blessing.
Now I understand why you're call the smart girl. You just hit the nail right on the head. You are a million times correct,and it takes a smart man to analyze and realize what you are saying is so true, keep up the good work.
Not a problem, just looking for 2-3 hours tops
😂
I trust you will make every hour count.
Better! Just rent...dont buy.
Thanks!
Thank you so much!
Let's be honest. Most guys leave their home country because they're not doing well with the women there. So they'll be mad at the women, call them non-traditional, say they've been tainted by the internet and online dating, and head to the Philippines or Thailand thinking they're going to be in high demand and pull women left and right. If you can't pull quality women in your home country, you won't overseas either. And women in the Philippines and Thailand all have access to the same dating apps, social media sites. They watch the Kardashian's and the same reality TV the women in your home country do. Just keep your expectations low because again if you're not doing well with the women in your home country, it will be a lot of the same overseas. The women in Asia who come from very affluent families and have money typically don't want a foreigner. Good luck boys, it's the same all over the world. Travel for yourself! Travel to see new places, eat new foods, and just grow. Don't travel for the soul intention of meeting women; if you do that, you'll most likely be disappointed.
Sole
Nah, It’s incredibly easy to get women in Asia.
Most ppl left the west because 70% of the women are obese. Who wants them ? No one.
Thank you! I knew this, but the reminder is still worthwhile.
Two things
1. She and her script are awesome!
2. Who wrote the script? Great delivery, perfect use of the word fuckery.
Indeed - who wrote it?
Using the word “fuckery” means she knows someone who served in the US Navy. 😂😂😂😂
Great video! You're speaking the truth. I met several Filipinos at the mall. I just talked to them and we exchanged numbers. I got tired of wasting time on dating apps.
You're absolutely right. I found the first year of dating Filipinas they are a complete waste of time.
I begin to grasp that also! They`re actually very selfish!
@HanzBergman narcissistic and extremely selfish.
Dating is much harder in the Philippines than vloggers make it out to be.
There is a big difference between dating and finding a good one. It is about 100X easier to date in phillipines than in USA. If you are from rich western country there will be many filipinas that will want to date you. Why because you make about 10X more income that the majority of the local filipinos. All women want men with resources. The difficult part is finding a good one to marry and establish a long term relationship with. Women in phillipines are almost as fucked up in the head as the women in the west.
many vloggers are here to entertain and make money by selling illusions to gullible and lonely men.
It can be hard no matter what country someone is from or in
If you aren’t attractive, you aren’t attractive. Period
@@garyzies3486 I swear some are paid by tourist agencies to lure men into traveling to certain locations
Well Irish, this is the first time I have seen your channel. I like your direct and no nonsense approach. And it's a bit humorous too. Thanks. Your channel is appreciated.
Never seen you before. Love your channel. Of course everything you say applies to me only as an afterthought because (1) I already married a Filipina; (2) married 13 years; (3) finally divorced her because she became too hard-headed to control or trust. I don't regret meeting her or marrying her or divorcing her. Each decision was the very best decision I could make at the time. I'm just happy I survived. I'm now old, live alone, but happy with peace of mind and mostly fond memories. I will try to catch your channel again. GOOD LUCK! :)
What was the the age gap.... between you and your ex-wife?
I wouldn't want to control my woman and I shouldn't have to but trust yes that is a must. With out trust there is no relationship period
Best advice I have heard on the internet..Thanks for the Honesty
When i was in the Philippines 8 out of 10 women tried to scam me out of money sorry to say
So its simply a `scam` country? & should be labelled as such!
It's called opportunity cost. It's a logical argument. Be strategic. Filipinas are beautiful and in general are very modest, traditional ladies. But the challenge I had with them (online and in real-life), their education was very low. Even the ones that had graduated from University had very little to non existent world-knowledge.
I get it, they don't travel due to very little opportunities. In my time there, I can't recall ever meeting one that would meet the requirements to call her intellectual. Some will ask me if only stayed in the provinces... no, i travelled around and also met a few from Manila and Cebu (the big IT centers). I met several men who had pinoy gf or wives and they always said the same thing: the ladies are good, but they have to be directed to almost everything. Certainly there will be exceptions--but that's what they are, exceptional and rare. IF you found one, hang on to her.
If you have high standards for a lady, in PH you either lower them or move on to other countries. Best of luck to everyone out there.
They `don`t know anything outside their culture` because schools & education in that place is of very low standard! Philippine people are known to have a tunnel vision.
I lived in Asia for 17 years guys many of those in Manila, Makati and Quezon City, before BGC was built. Enjoyed Subic Bay and Clark Field in the 70s. When it comes to Filipinas RENT DONT BUY. you don't want to be an ATM for her family and her boyfriend.
Oh yes, I remember being stationed in Subic Bay at the Naval Hospital for 3 years. Also, I remember spending time in Clark Airforce base. I agree rent don't buy !
Like everything else substantial in the Philippines! Rent, never buy. Especially tacos.
I met mine future wife trough a friend. Never thought I would end up in Asia. I stopped dating Western girls long time ago. Two much hassle for left over women that are never satisfied and have more hidden history than the Tartarian empire!
Pogi Kalbo is here!!! I have had an ex, a Filipina before, from Pampanga, we were engaged, it didn't work out due to a lot, but she's back in the Philippines now I believe. Either way, I been on CF and constantly I am on there getting notifications after notifications daily. There's a 12 hour difference too
Dude, what are you doing on a dating site for women that are 6,000 miles from you! That is crazy! Just fly there. You don’t even need a visa. What an absolute waste of time. I’m assuming you never even met the one “ex” you had. Just a pen pal you sent money to yeah?
@@A-xp6mythis comment here shows you have 100% for sure never been to the Philippines. Even the 70 year old creepy and obese guys that haven’t showered in a week still have 25 year old women by their side. Rather than try to sound intelligent online, why not buy a $500 ticket to the Philippines and change your life. 100’s of guys 🤣 you are absolutely full of it man. Only reason a guy is single in the Philippines is cause he wants to be
What I like about Filipinas is that they are smart and know how to fool a stranger.
@unknownsupertramp4897 Yes indeed, they're a conniving and deceitful bunch.
The average IQ in the Philippines is only 81, though, the lowest in East Asia. Their cleverness must be very specific.
it's lot that they are so smart
it's just that men are the emotional easily fooleable sex these days...
They are expert at painting a picture for you or the old GFE but most foreigners fall for it even when you put them on game
Never spend time with a woman who drinks....just sayin
Or worse, with a woman who thinks.
Right! You don’t want some woman drinking up all of your whiskey!
yeah, if she doesn't like drinking that's a good sign
women in my family hate drunks but have bad luck getting drunks 😂
Have to disagree on that one. If they drink they're generally easier to get into bed. Champagne works magic on women. If they also smoke, have tattoos and lots of rings on their fingers, piercings etc it's a dead cert. We're talking about one night stands here, not a wife or gf.
This was uniquely presented and well received. Great useful analogy, and also a lot of truth serum. The dating environment is exhausting...I think it's better to approach it with no expectations. That way you take more pressure off yourself. Just focus, indulge and appreciate the experience. Enjoy the ride! Whatever is meant to be, will be. I think everyone should stop accepting seasonal relationshhips as lifetime commitments.
Excellent advice, thank you for your honesty 👍
Hi there, I just discovered you and now I'm a subscriber- good work.
to summarize most people aren't worth your time... no matter where you go...
Wonderful and candid conversation….straight talk obviously very educated girls who are performing an invaluable service. Maraming salamat po
I prefer those working girls I love to get straight to the point
Smart Girl great explaination
Best video Iin awhile.
thank you for your help🙏
Absolutely speaking my language, your dignity matters, don't throw it away chasing something that doesn't want to be caught.
Thank you so much for this video and valuable information!
I married a Filipino woman, 8 years later I found out she was STILL married to her first husband back home...
They can't get divorced in the Philippines so could just be a technicality and the relationship ended long ago.
That is not correct .just Google
@bl1707 Google confirms that divorce is illegal for most residents of the Philippines.
Job done very well, young lady. Beautiful smile,Thanks for sharing!
I like your style. Funny, entertaining, educational. Going to hit the subscribe and like button :)
Very entertaining and informative, and yes I recognise a lot of what you’re saying, in fact I’ve met a lot of timewasters over the years through not being switched on about the various motives they had which I wasn’t aware of initially.
I have over 2000 blocked accounts from internet dating also over the last few years. The odds you talk about seem accurate to me.
Hey Cutie. Us white guys love Filipinas but those of us who are "educated" about the Filipino scene have to bail out of potential relationship. I speak from watching a wonderful Filipina of 25 years married to my best buddy. Every time the two of them go back to the Philippines my American buddy has to pay her relatives bribes of $10,000 to $14,000 to fulfill her relatives requests for money. No thanks Cutie - I can do without that.
Very good video, straight talk
So much different than most UA-cam channels. Very smart. Knew it was too good to be true. I guess it's the same around the world. There are good people and most are not worth your time.
IF YOU ARE SPENDING 6000 DOLLARS within 2 fukin weeks in the PH, you need to take yourself to a financial class…
Just go to a bar everynight and score a different one..no farking around..2 weeks is a waiste of time chasing one
Do the math. Round trip plane tickets, hotel, food, drinks, transportation, beach, island hopping, scuba, golf, exploring, dating...
@@SmartGirlPhilippines she said 4000…..PLUS 6000…LISTEN
Or have your top head check… shake it really good till you hear the screws and have the vet check you 🤪🙄🙄🥹
Round trip airfare from New York $1,500. 2 weeks hotel @ $100 a night $1,500. Hilton Pattaya for example is $215 a night. So the 6 grand is down to 3. Food budget $30 a day about $450. Down to $2,500 before a single drink or date. Sure you could stay in a flea bag hotel for $20 a night thats $300. Money goes fast on vacation.
I enjoy your blog. Very realistic and to the point. Your are a valuable women, no doubt.
This was funny as consultation. Thank you! 🤣🤣🤣
I like this chick. Straight up. My kind of people.
Not mine. I don't like women who swear. It isn't cool. It's low-class.
Let me say I have been watching a lot of videos about the Philippine but I never left a comment maybe a lot of time if I like it, I will give thumbs up but for you, I will because you sound like you were speaking from the heart and I believed everything I heard from you. I just wanted to say thank you for the advice. I will take it to the bank.
Absolutely truth.
Very educational log 👍
Right to the point..Great vid
Greetings. Thanks for being so honest. You are Special. Be blessed.
I fully agree. Love the honesty of her presentation. These are her people but she's warning suckers like me to beware.
I appreciate it. 😊
Good advice, thanks!
Funny how spot on your numbers were!
I kind of geek out on numbers and just re-examined and decided on 14 days in the Philippines today. 100k is about my income, at the moment, too. The cost to visit sounds high, though… and most guys with vacation time are still getting at least some of their pay while gone, so the opportunity cost isn’t that bad as an employee or entrepreneur, but maybe as a purely contract worker.
6k to stay, though… I would think more like 4k including a 2k ticket.. hope I’m not that far off!
Probably won’t be visiting any bars, though.. I think that would be a waste all-around.
Cebu, then some provinces. Can’t wait!
"Fuckery?!?!" 😅😂 I love it..
I was about to make a comment that’s a strong open solid! 😂
Ha! Instant sub. You're fun!
Interesting comment. Although for me, it was a lot different. I met a Filipina on-line. The first one to show an interest, indeed the only one. We corresponded, for a long time we both were not chatting to others. She paid my return airfare and made all the arrangements for me to go from Sydney to Manila, including a visit to Bagiou, Singapore and many other places, she paid almost all the hotel and travel costs of my 3 week stay there. A year later she paid my fares again for another visit and we included a trip to Palawan. She bought many expensive gifts for me. It was a wonderful introduction. I met most of her family and friends. Sure I contributed to some of the costs of our travels, but she paid by far the majority. She then came to Australia and we went through the long process of visa, citizenship and marriage. We got married and were sort of happy for a year or two, then all her life was about work, work, work here and largely for the purpose of making money to send back to her family. She is a good and honest person. We were able to manage here because I own my home and I live modestly. In the end our marriage became a bit sad and she moved out and divorced me. Now the tables have turned and even though she earns much more than me, she often asks me for financial help.
I love the way you present the truth Irish ❤ Thank you!
When I was stationed in the Philippines, my buddy was dating this Filipina who was pretty jealous and convinced he was cheating on her. I don't actually think he was but honestly don't know for sure. Where we were there were pretty frequent power outages. The two of them were in a bar hanging out. She waited for a power outage and then broke her beer bottle on the counter and slashed him across the chest with it. Don't mess with a Filipina. I was on guard duty that night and so I saw the wounds when he came back to our ship. Pretty serious stuff. I'm sure he has large scars to this day. At least she didn't slash his face.
WOW I will never forget this.
It's not as costly as you put it. I paid 1400 cad for a ticket from Toronto to Manila. Not direct flight, but I did not care. Airbnb was 250 cad per week in Makati Manila in a luxury condo with pool on the roof top. Food was not expensive either. You can eat well for much less than in the west. I'm handsome and in top shape. Never had a problem attracting interest even in the west, but in the Philippines it's even more. No need for bars.
Bet. I fit the same description. I am leaving New Orleans in a few weeks, heading to Manila, and staying in Makati. I was curious as to how they felt towards muscular guys? I don't online date or use social media, so I'll be moving around how I usually move state side. I haven't heard much from any of these content creators about built men..it's obvious they like the "dad bods."
😏 LOL similar experience in my home country de Nicaragua, I dont think theres really any way to do it smart tho, like u say they are all playing and hustling, the only way to do it smart is not to have that time constraint and be in country for 6 months to a year or more, but just two weeks i wouldnt waste my time, for two weeks only i would be only looking at freelancers and professionals and pay to play.
You just describe my first 2 wives but they were from USA. My 3rd wife who is Filipina is the best thing that has happen to me.
Thanks for the information. What you say is true.
I always enjoy watching your videos. I get a lot more information from you 😊
Good dating advice in general. Same thing with some slight variations wherever you go whether you want a filipina or a girl from somewhere else.
Very good presentation 😊
Awesome Video
I love this video!!!🤣🤣🤣
A lot of good tips here and with the cheat sheet as I'll be in the Philippines less than 2 months from now
I bought a book of island ladies from frank in California, called pacific Island connection. I found a girl went to meet her and married her. Still married and it's been 24 years. Philippine ladies speak English and that's a big help.
Thanks for sharing~
Best advice ever...Online apps dating...Treat it like a "Slot Machine"....And most likely in Vegas...Better odds....Good video...Peace
Very good info. from a very charming girl.
Guess I got lucky, found one liked her, got married, happy ever since.
Watching you I'm already in Love 😂
Pretty Lady entertaining and honest you look & sound like fun 😊
Simping dries out women like the Sahara
@@mateor7302U go Dude!! Cold blooded!!
New to your channel. You are funny and have a nice way of presenting your message. Happy Trails from Florida
Thankyou so much. I’m learning
Thank you for the honesty
Your funny. Good advice
Very good and entertaining video….
Who wouldn't fall in love with Irish.😇
no way
just like a car, YOU CAN ALWAYS TRADE UP FOR A NEWER MORE SPORTY MODEL ! i did that for most of my life, mostly got a newer less used up model.
if the newer model happens to be friends with the older model and lives right next door, you find out they are both lemons !
back in the early 1990's when i was writing the former soviet union girls, people always claimed that they would leave me once they got to america, my reply was ALWAYS " IF SHE LEAVES, ILL JUST GET ME A NEWER MODEL"!!!
i use to NOT CARE if the woman wanted to exit stage left after they really got to know me. MY STEP DAD married the same woman 3 times, she divorced him every time! and she took every thing each and every time!!! he always said that it didnt matter as he was always going to buy newer and better things, than those she took!!!
When i do go to the Philippines for a wife, I'm going to make sure that she's spiritually inclined ( a heart for God ) that would be certainly worth my time 😊
I think that your wisdom here is not particular to the Philippines, but applies anywhere.
I was fortunate to find a good one, but i met my share of cheating scammers.
Well explained
Personally, I think it's better to go abroad to relax and unwind, not chase women, and if you happen to meet one then awesome. If not, whatever; you enjoyed a few weeks or months in a place with a better climate and cheaper cost of living than home. Mindset is very important. Women are accessories in a man's life, to make it better than it already is, not some magical cure for depression and loneliness.
OK Beta
Damn Homegirl Spitting That Knowledge and The God Honest Truth 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾. Keep up the Great Work Homegirl 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Gave this video a like simply because I enjoy how many times she acknowledged f*ckery. Remember, play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
😂 Oh so funny!!!
I met my dream Filipina on Facebook in a website that features our common ancestral name. I go back every year. She meets me at the airport and is with me 24 seven for the two or three weeks that I can be there. We talked to each other every day. As far as the time wasters, yes there are many. It’s easy to spot them. Thanks for your comments.
Great advice.
Filipinas are so pure and honest and do in public what western women keep as a secret.
I am so glad I met my Filipina wife pre-internet. I didn't have to deal with all of this extra BS. I courted her back when you had to be able to write a convincing letter and a poem or two.