I'm American and can't stand American TV & movie brainwashing. I need a Filipina who doesn't rule her life by American TV and American movies. I'm 8,000 miles from home to get away from that. Did the Filipina learn bad behavior that makes us choose someone else in #2 from American TV & movies? The man will quickly without word just leave.
Exactly 💯. It all makes sense when someone explains it to you. I had one with soooo many of the red flags. I still think she was very loyal and very loving... but ruined herself with all the jealousy and crazy childish games! The games seem to be in the genes. Their great when their great but all turn on you in the end! Always have an end game
If you are into Southeast Asian women, I would go for Thai women. They are hotter, more daring, and less headaches because they do not play games. They will give you sex and if it does not work out she will just leave you gracefully without playing or stealing you. With Filipinas, they pretend to be religious and family oriented and are stealing your money and will rob you of everything. Most thai women do not engage in these games.
Whenever a filipina gives me some sad story about money. I say this "have faith, god will provide and see you through...". They shut up and go away. They have zero come back because its based on them being religious 😅
If you are into Southeast Asian women, I would go for Thai women. They are hotter, more daring, and less headaches because they do not play games. They will give you sex and if it does not work out she will just leave you gracefully without playing or stealing you. With Filipinas, they pretend to be religious and family oriented and are stealing your money and will rob you of everything. Most thai women do not engage in these games.
Tampo never worked on me. My solution was to wait until she made the first move. In the meantime, I just move forward. The key for me was to be willing to walk away from the relationship.
This goes for ALL woman from ALL cultures. How perfectly well put and accurate to the core. This needs to be standard education for all men young and old. Thank you .
NEVER chase a filipina. Let them chase you... they will if they like you. Chasing a filipina means you are playing their game. Instead... treat them well, enjoy them, show them new experiences, let them pamper you, but do NOT start trying to please them. It will never work out once you go down that path.
No marriage, no family, no green cards = no problems. It's all beta-bux$ unless the man can induce romantic love passion which is based on looks and age (young and hot).
Western society is now a gynocentric woke society. It's a loose loose for men. More and more men are going out of the country every day and the Western women are FURIOUS. 😂😂😂
Philipinas can be very immature it's hard for them to say there sorry about something a lot of foolish pride and then with all the tampo bs it's a little to much drama don't think the juice is worth the squeeze
When your country is backwards & poor. Against birth control/ legal abortion- poverty & corruption dominate. Philippines 🇵🇭 needs to legalize abortion & promote birth control 2 kid maximum. Catholic Italy 🇮🇹, France 🇫🇷 & Spain 🇪🇸 LEGALIZED ABORTION in the 1980s but stupid Philippines 🇵🇭 will NOT - so you have this…. Poor desperate women who will sell their bodies & souls for SEX TOURISM. I think prostitution should be legalized but this & all passport bros who fly to fk are just sad , pathetic vultures. The nightmares of mail order bride who marry for citizenship are HILARIOUS. You asked for it.
At least the women who are playing the games elsewhere look 20-times better, slimmer with long NATURAL hair and more FEMININE than the ones in the USA.
@@crisalcantara7671Internet, ruining women, is everywhere. Except maybe way out in the jungle among the people who have to work to stay alive instead of looking on videos online...
Once you date 1 Filipina and you try to observe and learn her tricks, no other Filipina can deceive or manipulate you. Why? Becaus 99% of them use the same strategy. Feels like they either went to the same school of manipulation tactics or they consult with each other. It is so funny how their sob stories are exactly the same irrespective of the Filipina.
@@crisalcantara7671 Its bc they don't hesitate to dish the dirt to each other and share what works. I think women have been honing their manipulation skills for generations to extract resources from men. It's really not surprising, it was survival for women.
When your country is backwards & poor. Against birth control/ legal abortion- poverty & corruption dominate. Philippines 🇵🇭 needs to legalize abortion & promote birth control 2 kid maximum. Catholic Italy 🇮🇹, France 🇫🇷 & Spain 🇪🇸 LEGALIZED ABORTION in the 1980s but stupid Philippines 🇵🇭 will NOT - so you have this…. Poor desperate women who will sell their bodies & souls for SEX TOURISM. I think prostitution should be legalized but this & all passport bros who fly to fk are just sad , pathetic vultures. The nightmares of mail order bride who marry for citizenship are HILARIOUS. You asked for it.
I’m a 55 year old male unless you got a lady pregnant, DONT DO THE WORK!! If you have to honestly allways work on a relationship find a different lady life is a struggle I don’t need my relationship to be a struggle it should be a place of peace
Very well explained. My gf here after a full year together has become manipulative especially with money. Controlling yes but my relationship has now entered the love bombing stage to get what she wants. No intimacy for months yet she’s just been on a lovely paid for holiday in Indonesia. On our return the word of financial help lend has appeared. Lend means give and I told her this. A promise to pay back was forthcoming yet when I handed the money she said thanks for giving. It’s not as I know going to be returned. Done with all of this now and the tampo.
Filipinas are GREAT...you just gotta find the right one. There's nothing wrong with Christian Filipina. This video is to help you identify the ways they MAY try to manipulate you so you can know how to respond. Filipinas make great wives and girlfriends...you just need to be aware of how things work.
She's not saying that every filipina you encounter will use all these tactics. My guess is it would be pretty hard to find one that does all of these. But some will use several. It's mostly cultural and they are learning that foreigners will not tolerate these behaviors. They are the reason we left our country to come to find a filipina in the first place. Most filipina are wonderful, peaceful women that want to make your life better than you have ever had it. And from what I've seen, Christian filipina Dios more yo eres out the scammers than any other site. There are still some there but much fewer than anywhere else. Don't give up. Filipina are worth it in the end. Just find one you are compatible with.
Good quality Filipina exists. You just need to be wise and a little bit of luck to find them. 😊 There are successful marriages and relationships that we know foreigners found from their Filipina woman. This video will definitely help you wise up.
@@davidtharp2125 5 % western women are traditional and 95% Philippino women are traditional so you do the math and do the math of risk , I've been with my Philipina 10 years and never been happier . Foreigners here with Philipinas are aways smiling 😃
Not all of em. I've known women who had the bestest personalities, and were genuinely great human beings. Unfortunately, they were already taken. And I wasn't worthy of them.
lol not even close man. Good women don’t do this crap. Maybe 1 or 2 things very rarely sure, humans are humans. But heck no not all women do this stuff. I’m seeing a 19 year old right now and she is just perpetually happy. No trauma, no toxic ex boyfriends, no hoe phase, parents are happily married still. I wouldn’t ever consider dating a girl half my age, 19 is almost half, I’m not one of the 50+ guys over there. But dude she is just a breath of so much fresh air. So easy to be around, so kind and sweet. That I may actually reconsider dating her. No kids either which is pretty common here
Damaged women do this. Traumatized women do this. Insecure women do this. Manipulative girls do this. Dishonest women do this. Healthy, happy, confident women have better ways to communicate and get their needs met
Oh wow, a filipina who was not disingenuous. Daisy, you were talking from firsthand experience and from the heart. Your previously relationship has taught you well. You will be a better girlfriend, lover and wife. Salamat :)
Salamat Smart Girl You and the other younger lady are creating a very good style of video. I love it....but do not fall into making them too long. 39 minutes is a long time to keep our attention. You can split your video in two parts and call it Part 1 and Part 2 for the topic. I am a College professor and I know listeners do not hold the attention for too long. Good luck
I met a Philippina through a coworker, after almost a year, it was pretty clear that she was was simply trying, and trying to know me in order to financially suck me dry down to the last penny, to the point where she wanted me to go into quite a bit of credit card debt, she wanted to squeeze me for every last penny that I could get regardless of completely ruining me, fortunately I cut off the relationship before ruining my finances to the point of no return.
I appreciate you so much!! I forgiven the Filipinos but it hurts that they can see right through my good heart. I notice good people get recognized by evil people. So when a Filipina says good things and I feel red flags. I must remember we are all human but some times people don't learn about Manipulation Tactic. I promise to not judge someone based on race or ethnic background but on their morals.
There are good Filipinas. I married a genuinely faithful one. The rest if her family is also very genuine. With that being said I've seen what people are afraid of here. Be careful about it for sure.
This is a very good and important video! Every man thinking about going to the Ph should watch this, its worth the 39 minutes! Good Job Daisy! - All topics in this video are valid for all women worldwide as well. - Most behaviours mentioned in this video are based on immaturity, childishness, egoism or toxic narcissm.
All of your Smart Girl Phillipines videos are terrific, very well done, and applicable to insincere individuals, men and women, of all cultures. May you Ladies each find your own happiness, however that may look like! Love and Peace, Jim
A very informative and logical summary of the manipulative techniques of women. Unfortunately, not only for the Filipino ones, but all of them in general. Thank God and with a bit of luck and common sense I avoided most of them. Thanks for the video.
Hi Daisy, It's great to know that you are giving advice on Philipina mind set. There are many many broken hearts, trying to find a loving relationship.
I wonder how you know all this? An incredible piece of work, I’ve experienced most of this over the years. To hear an articulate Filipina lay this out so clearly is mind blowing. Daisy is our fairy god sister / Angel 😇. Many thanks Daisy 🙏🥰
Thank you Daisy and greetings from Bacolod 👍. Great video_ Your information and perspective is always helpful. Gents protect yourself. Do not ignore the red flags... trust your gut.
This is my first time seeing one of your videos. I'm not going to comment the way many men on here have which i see all the time. I can tell that you have a good head on your shoulders and you actually have a decent personality which is very good. You have also shown that you hold yourself accountable for any wrongs you have done but the most important things is you actually learned from it changing your ways. 👏👏👏 There is hope for you where as with many others there is no hope because they don't learn or want to learn from their mistakes. You will make some lucky man happy one day. Good video and keep up the good work. 🙂🙏🏽
Dump her as soon at the manipulation/games begin. She can learn to hide the tactics until she gets the binding legal contract (marriage). At that point she can divorce in the United States and take half your possessions. No I am not a bitter man that this happened to, I have just dated a lot of women and see the commonalities. Find a woman without the tactics and manipulation.
I'm living in Manila one month now. I haven't dated anyone since I arrived here one month ago. I subscribed to you because this video indeed took a lot of work and I like the purpose you are on.
Hey Kabayan, this is so spot on. I dated Filipinas for over a decade when I was living in the Middle East... And they all use these tactics in some way or another. Some are really good though. I only had one girl who would hit me up for money a few times a year. Never in my life have I been around women who were so loving and so crazy at the same time. Im very glad I got to get into the Filipino culture and dating. Fun fun times. For those who haven't yet, but are wanting to get involved with Filipina girls: Don't start a long distance relationship. It can be difficult, frustrating, and you'll probably end up sending a lot of money. Many Filipinos are poor and looking for security, so be mindful of that. Go to a country where both of you can be together, or spend some time in the Philippines. Best to have a face to face relationship with a girl who's priorities are not money and material things, and get to really know and understand them. Dont find a girl to bring back to the states. They will be out of their element and comfort zone and can be hard for them. They are happiest when close to family and friends. If you meet one thats good, stick with her because the right one will treat you really well. She will.
Having to deal with this BS over 2 yrs ago and after having the Love of my life Walk out on me for Not Falling for Most of these Scams in Person once Being there with Her,Since Being in a semi famous Boy Band as a Job ect and having to deal with that Crap Nonstop!!! This Video is an Eye Opener for Sure Thank You for Making this Video and Giving us F guys Hope for Our Future in trying to find the Right fillippina Girl for Our Future!!! SPOT ON DAISY!!!
bro just do what i do. Let them know first hand you have other girls. They will compete for your attention with the other girls. So the games will be more between them than toward you. If they get upset about it remind them you let them know up front what they were signing up for. They'll get over it or leave.
Thank you for this video. It cleared up a lot of doubts with LDR relationship with my girl in Philippines. She hit about five of those cards but I can tell she’s maturing and hopefully when I go to see her the energy we have on video chat is the sane in person.
The moment a guy encounters: overbearing, major Tompo, manipulation and lies, run and don't look back. This type of girl will make a guy to be alone more often.
Good information....it does amaze me how men whom I assume( yeah I know about assuming) are mature enough to know how to act and what to look out for.....but in reality aren't and dont.
I had a woman here in the US get “angry” when I was not responding while working for like 45 minutes. I had warned her prior that I was going to be busy for several minutes and I would get back to her. When I finally got back to her, I was looking at her messages accusing me of not respecting her time. I ended up blocking her like an hour later. She was much younger and I have to wonder how society can function when so many only know how to take without giving like her behavior.
Hi, yeah you need a Filipina who is open to you to balance more the financial expenses. They work all over the world and sacrifice everything to help their family, it's so deeply rooted. A good communication and balance expenses is key. Spend the money when you have had your salary, not the other way around.
Hey Kabayan, this iis so spot on. I dated Filipinas for over a decade when I was living in the Middle East... And they all use these tactics in some way or another. Some are teally good though. I only had one girl who would hit me up for money a few times a year. Never in my life have I been around women who were so loving and so crazy at the same time. Im very glad I got to get into the Filipino culture and dating. Fun fun times. For those who haven't yet, but are wanting to get involved with Filipina girls: Don't start a long distance relationship. It can be difficult, frustrating, and you'll probably end up sending a lot of money. Many Filipinos are poor and looking for security, so be mindful of that. Go to a country where both of you can be together, or spend some time in the Philippines. Best to have a face to face relationship with a girl who's priorities are not money and material things, and you get really grt to know and understand them. Dont find a girl to bring back to the states. They will be out of their element and comfort zone and can be hard for them. They are happiest when close to family and friends. If you meet one thats good, stick with her because the right one will treat you really well. She will.
The big issue with all of these tactics and with the vast majority of women in general is the adversarial nature of these games.There is no thought to the long-term.There is no thought to the couple, or the health and happiness of the family.These are all very immature and narcissistic tactics. That's why I will probably always be single. Women are 100% transactional.
Daisy, Of all the Smart Girls, you are absolutely my favorite. If I were the type to come to the Philippines looking for love, I would seek out someone exactly like you. I would imagine some smart guy has already scooped you up.
Wow - how smart, helpful and cute!! Really appreciate your great inside and summary❤ I have experienced most of these things and wish I would have seen this video 15 years ago😂 I fell for lots of these things, but in reasonable limits - I think in the end it balances. Looking forward to your next videos. You are awesome. All the best from Singapore
1. CHAT GAMES 2. LOVE BOMBING 3. LYING 4. WORD PLAY ("so how much money do you make?") 5. PUBLIC POSTS 6. CLINGY 7. SAVE ME! 8. SAVE MY FAMILY! 9. FACEBOOK STALKING 10. TAMPO 😮💨 11. JEALOUSY 12. PREGNANCY
Was talking to a girl , Justine. And she guilt tripped me alot, she basicly used half of all of tatics on me. And it was hella stressful. When she finally cussed me out was when i blocked her and her family. Cant believe it took me too long to cut her out of my life. Guess it took disrespecting me to my face to finally wake up.
It’s good you got out. I’m local but I knew that Filipinas are not what they seem to be. Never bothered to date them ever again after. Just had to live peacefully instead.
I've recently been online dating with Christian Filipina, already had 3 women asking for money for their "birthday", one wanted me to buy her an iPhone for her birthday, one wanted me to buy her a webcam when I asked her for video chat, one just flat out asked me for $50. All of that just in the 1st week. They all seem to have an almost child-like perspective about relationships. They all say they want "trust", but they don't really trust you. The all say they want "communication", but they don't really communicate. They all say they want "loyalty", but what that means is, they only want you to talk to them while it is very clear they are talking to other men. I have so many stories. I feel like I'm wasting my time here.
If a girl is constantly texting me, demanding to know where I'm at and what I'm doing, then, she has just demonstrated the fact that she is a control freak and I will send her packing.
Me and my Filipina have none of these issues. I do not understand why this happens. But then again we already met and talk a lot so we trust each other very much. I am greatful for my girlfriend because I hear so many horror stories/drama
When I dated my first wife (from a country in Central America) I would visit her home and family and I would bring some groceries like beans, rice, plantain, cooking oil, some seasonings and some meat or chicken when I arrived at their home. Other days I would bring bread and fish from the market and other times I would just show up. I like to contribute and I like to cook as well. When my mother in law came to my home later she would iron my clothes and do laundry without me asking, so I would give her a hug and stuff a $10 or $20 bill in her pocket. In 1990 that was a lot of money but to me it wasn’t much. I’m married to a Mexican woman now and I provide regular monthly support to my mother in law because she has no pension as my father in law died without a pension. I love her and my disabled sister in law. I’ve visited them regularly in Mexico and know their situation. I don’t spoil them but I help and I show them love. Lots of hugs and stolen kisses on their cheeks. I tell them all the time that I love them. I do the same for my wife. I hope this doesn’t make me a push over or anything like that. I’ve always been generous. I also set limits on my generosity. I keep to my budget. I’m not planning on going to the Philippines or date one since I am married but this info is helpful to other men that I know. I recognize many of these manipulation tactics that even my current wife has used on me. Withholding intimacy is one of them. I hate that one! She is fiscally responsible and a good mother and I like that. I don’t like that she isn’t very affectionate. Twenty years in and I’m still working on that. For over ten years she has withheld affection to a degree. That is what makes me sometimes consider divorce because I often feel like I have to work, provide, protect and I don’t feel like she reciprocates. Even after telling her what I want for years she discounts my needs like I am a problem for wanting it.
Years of that with multiple women. I've experienced them all, I'm done. I've walked away from a good Polynesian woman in Australia and one in LA... when I was a younger man. It is the empathetic heart of a woman and her undying loyalty to you. She may seem boring and not challenging, perhaps very average looking. But she'll give you a lifetime of peace. The older you get, that is all you'll ever want.
Relationships are not games. As soon as "games" enter into a relationship, it's time to end that relationship.
its all a game... you just suck at playing
I date multiply Ladies at one time just for that reason
I'm American and can't stand American TV & movie brainwashing. I need a Filipina who doesn't rule her life by American TV and American movies. I'm 8,000 miles from home to get away from that. Did the Filipina learn bad behavior that makes us choose someone else in #2 from American TV & movies? The man will quickly without word just leave.
@@ripwff7502 YOURE ALOSER
Have you ever dated a woman before?? Hahaha 🤣 they All play games to some extent.and so do many guy's.
This is GOLD! You just explained the 2 years of drama i’ve had in 39 minutes 🤣
Yeap. Went through he'll with a girl . Glad I wisedup
Exactly 💯. It all makes sense when someone explains it to you. I had one with soooo many of the red flags. I still think she was very loyal and very loving... but ruined herself with all the jealousy and crazy childish games! The games seem to be in the genes.
Their great when their great but all turn on you in the end!
Always have an end game
You are not alone brother 😂
😂😂😂 me too
If you are into Southeast Asian women, I would go for Thai women. They are hotter, more daring, and less headaches because they do not play games. They will give you sex and if it does not work out she will just leave you gracefully without playing or stealing you. With Filipinas, they pretend to be religious and family oriented and are stealing your money and will rob you of everything. Most thai women do not engage in these games.
I have zero tolerance for nonsense if she disappears she can stay gone
yes
facts
Same, take 24h to say yes/no/maybe. No problem good bye
Facts lol😂 happens almost all the time there
Passive aggressive and lying are instant dealbreakers
Whenever a filipina gives me some sad story about money. I say this "have faith, god will provide and see you through...". They shut up and go away. They have zero come back because its based on them being religious 😅
Me too.
Same. My fiance is very religious. This works every time. 😂
Same! I mean it too.
If you are into Southeast Asian women, I would go for Thai women. They are hotter, more daring, and less headaches because they do not play games. They will give you sex and if it does not work out she will just leave you gracefully without playing or stealing you. With Filipinas, they pretend to be religious and family oriented and are stealing your money and will rob you of everything. Most thai women do not engage in these games.
That’s a great one thanks
Tampo never worked on me. My solution was to wait until she made the first move. In the meantime, I just move forward. The key for me was to be willing to walk away from the relationship.
Perfect! Never Simp and live happy ever after
So you're giving peace & quiet for 2 days?
Great, now l know how to get some alone time. Lesson learned
save face
This goes for ALL woman from ALL cultures. How perfectly well put and accurate to the core. This needs to be standard education for all men young and old. Thank you .
NEVER chase a filipina. Let them chase you... they will if they like you. Chasing a filipina means you are playing their game. Instead... treat them well, enjoy them, show them new experiences, let them pamper you, but do NOT start trying to please them. It will never work out once you go down that path.
No marriage, no family, no green cards = no problems. It's all beta-bux$ unless the man can induce romantic love passion which is based on looks and age (young and hot).
They won't chase you just if they like you. They will chase you if they think they can get something they want. It can be many things 😮
This goes for all women.
@@N1co777 Correct.
My Philipina of 10 years has given me 100% more respect than the western women I dated did .
Western society is now a gynocentric woke society. It's a loose loose for men. More and more men are going out of the country every day and the Western women are FURIOUS. 😂😂😂
So 0% x2? 🤔
@@milkncookie hahahah! Hilarious
I’m 65. I had a vasectomy at 30, the best thing I ever did! Especially all those wonderful years in the Philippines and Thailand.
Pregnancy being weaponized: dangerous. Drama and silly games: run Forrest run. 39.02 minutes of Daisy: Priceless😊
Philipinas can be very immature it's hard for them to say there sorry about something a lot of foolish pride and then with all the tampo bs it's a little to much drama don't think the juice is worth the squeeze
Hello Daisy
@@SameulMartin they really are the Latinas of Asia
When your country is backwards & poor. Against birth control/ legal abortion- poverty & corruption dominate. Philippines 🇵🇭 needs to legalize abortion & promote birth control 2 kid maximum. Catholic Italy 🇮🇹, France 🇫🇷 & Spain 🇪🇸 LEGALIZED ABORTION in the 1980s but stupid Philippines 🇵🇭 will NOT - so you have this…. Poor desperate women who will sell their bodies & souls for SEX TOURISM.
I think prostitution should be legalized but this & all passport bros who fly to fk are just sad , pathetic vultures.
The nightmares of mail order bride who marry for citizenship are HILARIOUS.
You asked for it.
2 years in the Philippines has made me appreciate staying single
You said it 👍
if you're meeting city girls yeah, they can be as toxic as the West
Staying single is not a bad thing. But if you can find your other half who is supportive it is also a win win.
MGTOW is a great Retirement plan
Way to go dude. Like being at a smorgasbord, but sticking with soup. I’ll be out there in 4-1/2 years permanently, and will be doing the same 👍
Men leaving the west because of silly games will be disappointed to find them played out everywhere .
At least the women who are playing the games elsewhere look 20-times better, slimmer with long NATURAL hair and more FEMININE than the ones in the USA.
I came to the same conclusion or I just had bad luck.
But I guess women all over the world are pretty much the same.
women are like this everywhere
true dat
@@crisalcantara7671Internet, ruining women, is everywhere. Except maybe way out in the jungle among the people who have to work to stay alive instead of looking on videos online...
Once you date 1 Filipina and you try to observe and learn her tricks, no other Filipina can deceive or manipulate you. Why? Becaus 99% of them use the same strategy. Feels like they either went to the same school of manipulation tactics or they consult with each other. It is so funny how their sob stories are exactly the same irrespective of the Filipina.
it has nothing to do with being a philipino woman , it's most if not all women are like this .
@@crisalcantara7671 Its bc they don't hesitate to dish the dirt to each other and share what works. I think women have been honing their manipulation skills for generations to extract resources from men. It's really not surprising, it was survival for women.
Narcissists all use the same broad range of tactics to manipulate, use or control you.
When your country is backwards & poor. Against birth control/ legal abortion- poverty & corruption dominate. Philippines 🇵🇭 needs to legalize abortion & promote birth control 2 kid maximum. Catholic Italy 🇮🇹, France 🇫🇷 & Spain 🇪🇸 LEGALIZED ABORTION in the 1980s but stupid Philippines 🇵🇭 will NOT - so you have this…. Poor desperate women who will sell their bodies & souls for SEX TOURISM.
I think prostitution should be legalized but this & all passport bros who fly to fk are just sad , pathetic vultures.
The nightmares of mail order bride who marry for citizenship are HILARIOUS.
You asked for it.
Lol you have to find the Filipina scammer white paper . It's an introduction to romance scam tricks for the new Filipina scammer
Thank you for your 97 travel tips ,very good advices to be ready it's appreciated
Honestly I think it’s very cute of you to text when you wake up, shower, eat, etc..😊
Jealousy is a learned behavior. It doesn't have to be natural. What is learned can be unlearned.
The first time she does this you are out. No explanation needed. Vamos!
I’m a 55 year old male unless you got a lady pregnant, DONT DO THE WORK!! If you have to honestly allways work on a relationship find a different lady life is a struggle I don’t need my relationship to be a struggle it should be a place of peace
I'm just Retired and got Snipped ... clapped hands ... no worries.
While I watch most of the videos on your channel, I really enjoy your Daisy. Very mature, informative, and articulate. Thank you.
Thank you so much for your kind words. 🥰
Very well explained. My gf here after a full year together has become manipulative especially with money. Controlling yes but my relationship has now entered the love bombing stage to get what she wants. No intimacy for months yet she’s just been on a lovely paid for holiday in Indonesia. On our return the word of financial help lend has appeared. Lend means give and I told her this. A promise to pay back was forthcoming yet when I handed the money she said thanks for giving. It’s not as I know going to be returned. Done with all of this now and the tampo.
I really enjoyed learning about this topic, because it makes me thankful that i have a really great wife who i can trust.
You just made up my mind 😅deleted my Christian Filipina dating site , was almost ready to pay 😂😂didn’t thank you ❤❤
Filipinas are GREAT...you just gotta find the right one. There's nothing wrong with Christian Filipina. This video is to help you identify the ways they MAY try to manipulate you so you can know how to respond. Filipinas make great wives and girlfriends...you just need to be aware of how things work.
@@SmartGirlPhilippinesAgreed
She's not saying that every filipina you encounter will use all these tactics. My guess is it would be pretty hard to find one that does all of these. But some will use several. It's mostly cultural and they are learning that foreigners will not tolerate these behaviors. They are the reason we left our country to come to find a filipina in the first place. Most filipina are wonderful, peaceful women that want to make your life better than you have ever had it. And from what I've seen, Christian filipina Dios more yo eres out the scammers than any other site. There are still some there but much fewer than anywhere else. Don't give up. Filipina are worth it in the end. Just find one you are compatible with.
Smart move. Never Simp! Stay Off Line and meet a Lady in person ... if she wants you/interested she will let you know.
You should go to Satanic Filipina dating site. Much better.
Good quality Filipina exists. You just need to be wise and a little bit of luck to find them. 😊 There are successful marriages and relationships that we know foreigners found from their Filipina woman. This video will definitely help you wise up.
I found her 10 years ago , sorry guys she's my keeper lol.
Can you do one about games foreigners play as well? It would be good to see the other side of the coin. 🍻👍🏼
Good quality Filipina women don't fetishize Western men to begin with.
You’ve scared me away…
@@davidtharp2125
5 % western women are traditional and 95% Philippino women are traditional so you do the math and do the math of risk , I've been with my Philipina 10 years and never been happier . Foreigners here with Philipinas are aways smiling 😃
This isn't Filipina manipulation, this is a tactic employed by ALL women. From the slore to the nurse, from your mother to the dental assistant...
Not all of em. I've known women who had the bestest personalities, and were genuinely great human beings. Unfortunately, they were already taken. And I wasn't worthy of them.
lol not even close man. Good women don’t do this crap. Maybe 1 or 2 things very rarely sure, humans are humans. But heck no not all women do this stuff. I’m seeing a 19 year old right now and she is just perpetually happy. No trauma, no toxic ex boyfriends, no hoe phase, parents are happily married still. I wouldn’t ever consider dating a girl half my age, 19 is almost half, I’m not one of the 50+ guys over there. But dude she is just a breath of so much fresh air. So easy to be around, so kind and sweet. That I may actually reconsider dating her. No kids either which is pretty common here
Damaged women do this. Traumatized women do this. Insecure women do this. Manipulative girls do this. Dishonest women do this. Healthy, happy, confident women have better ways to communicate and get their needs met
its normal behavior in sea
@@MisterMikeTexas Na. That's just the side of themselves they showed you. There are just levels, that's all.
Oh wow, a filipina who was not disingenuous. Daisy, you were talking from firsthand experience and from the heart. Your previously relationship has taught you well. You will be a better girlfriend, lover and wife. Salamat :)
Salamat Smart Girl
You and the other younger lady are creating a very good style of video. I love it....but do not fall into making them too long. 39 minutes is a long time to keep our attention. You can split your video in two parts and call it Part 1 and Part 2 for the topic. I am a College professor and I know listeners do not hold the attention for too long. Good luck
I met a Philippina through a coworker, after almost a year, it was pretty clear that she was was simply trying, and trying to know me in order to financially suck me dry down to the last penny, to the point where she wanted me to go into quite a bit of credit card debt, she wanted to squeeze me for every last penny that I could get regardless of completely ruining me, fortunately I cut off the relationship before ruining my finances to the point of no return.
I appreciate you so much!! I forgiven the Filipinos but it hurts that they can see right through my good heart. I notice good people get recognized by evil people. So when a Filipina says good things and I feel red flags. I must remember we are all human but some times people don't learn about Manipulation Tactic. I promise to not judge someone based on race or ethnic background but on their morals.
Men in any country do not chase whisky or women.. if she is interested in you she will do whatever is needed to make you life easier.
You look like someone who makes big money online. You look successful ☯️
I already had no confidence in my relationship abilities before I saw this video. Now, I'm more introverted than ever! 😮
This is PURE GOLD and not just for filipinas :)
There are good Filipinas. I married a genuinely faithful one. The rest if her family is also very genuine.
With that being said I've seen what people are afraid of here. Be careful about it for sure.
This is a very good and important video! Every man thinking about going to the Ph should watch this, its worth the 39 minutes! Good Job Daisy!
- All topics in this video are valid for all women worldwide as well.
- Most behaviours mentioned in this video are based on immaturity, childishness, egoism or toxic narcissm.
All of your Smart Girl Phillipines videos are terrific, very well done, and applicable to insincere individuals, men and women, of all cultures. May you Ladies each find your own happiness, however that may look like! Love and Peace, Jim
Be direct, set expectations, set boundaries. 👍🏾 got it.
Great job Daisy! 39 minutes and the messages were never boring. 😉
A very informative and logical summary of the manipulative techniques of women. Unfortunately, not only for the Filipino ones, but all of them in general. Thank God and with a bit of luck and common sense I avoided most of them. Thanks for the video.
Hi Daisy, It's great to know that you are giving advice on Philipina mind set. There are many many broken hearts, trying to find a loving relationship.
I wonder how you know all this? An incredible piece of work, I’ve experienced most of this over the years. To hear an articulate Filipina lay this out so clearly is mind blowing. Daisy is our fairy god sister / Angel 😇.
Many thanks Daisy 🙏🥰
If she talks suicide, I'm gone
What if she talks homicide?
It's me or her then. And I'm not going down
@@nightowl7261 gone faster!
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@@nightowl7261 - LOL!
Thank you Daisy and greetings from Bacolod 👍. Great video_ Your information and perspective is always helpful. Gents protect yourself. Do not ignore the red flags... trust your gut.
You are very sensible and you come across as genuine.
lot of good advice.. wish more would listen and learn.
This is my first time seeing one of your videos. I'm not going to comment the way many men on here have which i see all the time. I can tell that you have a good head on your shoulders and you actually have a decent personality which is very good. You have also shown that you hold yourself accountable for any wrongs you have done but the most important things is you actually learned from it changing your ways. 👏👏👏 There is hope for you where as with many others there is no hope because they don't learn or want to learn from their mistakes. You will make some lucky man happy one day. Good video and keep up the good work. 🙂🙏🏽
Dump her as soon at the manipulation/games begin. She can learn to hide the tactics until she gets the binding legal contract (marriage). At that point she can divorce in the United States and take half your possessions. No I am not a bitter man that this happened to, I have just dated a lot of women and see the commonalities. Find a woman without the tactics and manipulation.
I'm living in Manila one month now. I haven't dated anyone since I arrived here one month ago.
I subscribed to you because this video indeed took a lot of work and I like the purpose you are on.
The culture is family based, and their family come first until your family of togetherness is strong. 🎉
Excellent info all the info in one place, all experienced or seen before but this is very comprehensive.
Hey Kabayan, this is so spot on. I dated Filipinas for over a decade when I was living in the Middle East... And they all use these tactics in some way or another. Some are really good though. I only had one girl who would hit me up for money a few times a year. Never in my life have I been around women who were so loving and so crazy at the same time. Im very glad I got to get into the Filipino culture and dating. Fun fun times.
For those who haven't yet, but are wanting to get involved with Filipina girls: Don't start a long distance relationship. It can be difficult, frustrating, and you'll probably end up sending a lot of money. Many Filipinos are poor and looking for security, so be mindful of that.
Go to a country where both of you can be together, or spend some time in the Philippines. Best to have a face to face relationship with a girl who's priorities are not money and material things, and get to really know and understand them.
Dont find a girl to bring back to the states. They will be out of their element and comfort zone and can be hard for them. They are happiest when close to family and friends.
If you meet one thats good, stick with her because the right one will treat you really well. She will.
Daisy, you are so articulate, intelligent and incredibly cute. The man who wins your love is going to be one happy guy!
I thought the same thing.
Best video out of all videos on this channel.
Having to deal with this BS over 2 yrs ago and after having the Love of my life Walk out on me for Not Falling for Most of these Scams in Person once Being there with Her,Since Being in a semi famous Boy Band as a Job ect and having to deal with that Crap Nonstop!!! This Video is an Eye Opener for Sure Thank You for Making this Video and Giving us F guys Hope for Our Future in trying to find the Right fillippina Girl for Our Future!!! SPOT ON DAISY!!!
bro just do what i do. Let them know first hand you have other girls. They will compete for your attention with the other girls. So the games will be more between them than toward you. If they get upset about it remind them you let them know up front what they were signing up for. They'll get over it or leave.
Wow you capitalize nearly every word... Insane
Wow that was on point!!! Absolute truth!
She just described every female in all of human history.
Facts
Thank you for this video. It cleared up a lot of doubts with LDR relationship with my girl in Philippines. She hit about five of those cards but I can tell she’s maturing and hopefully when I go to see her the energy we have on video chat is the sane in person.
And not too many other "brothers"
The moment a guy encounters: overbearing, major Tompo, manipulation and lies, run and don't look back. This type of girl will make a guy to be alone more often.
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Thank you for sharing this information
Good information....it does amaze me how men whom I assume( yeah I know about assuming) are mature enough to know how to act and what to look out for.....but in reality aren't and dont.
Very great advice my dear thank you very Much
I had a woman here in the US get “angry” when I was not responding while working for like 45 minutes. I had warned her prior that I was going to be busy for several minutes and I would get back to her. When I finally got back to her, I was looking at her messages accusing me of not respecting her time. I ended up blocking her like an hour later. She was much younger and I have to wonder how society can function when so many only know how to take without giving like her behavior.
This literally came up on my feed; not 2 days after I started an LDR with my own Filipiña
great job youtube algorithm; xD
Quality content, thank you!
You're welcome.
They always ask money ALL OF THEM!!!! Married to Filipina 1st year all about $$$ then she got help for her gambling 😅
Lmao
Hi, yeah you need a Filipina who is open to you to balance more the financial expenses. They work all over the world and sacrifice everything to help their family, it's so deeply rooted. A good communication and balance expenses is key. Spend the money when you have had your salary, not the other way around.
HIGH MAINTENANCE..IMMA PASS
Trad wives are high maintenance in this economy
Great teacher!
Thank you , you helped me to see that I am currently talking to a very high quality young Filipina . I appreciate your content ❤
Thank you for this video
Hey Kabayan, this iis so spot on. I dated Filipinas for over a decade when I was living in the Middle East... And they all use these tactics in some way or another. Some are teally good though. I only had one girl who would hit me up for money a few times a year. Never in my life have I been around women who were so loving and so crazy at the same time. Im very glad I got to get into the Filipino culture and dating. Fun fun times.
For those who haven't yet, but are wanting to get involved with Filipina girls: Don't start a long distance relationship. It can be difficult, frustrating, and you'll probably end up sending a lot of money. Many Filipinos are poor and looking for security, so be mindful of that.
Go to a country where both of you can be together, or spend some time in the Philippines. Best to have a face to face relationship with a girl who's priorities are not money and material things, and you get really grt to know and understand them.
Dont find a girl to bring back to the states. They will be out of their element and comfort zone and can be hard for them. They are happiest when close to family and friends.
If you meet one thats good, stick with her because the right one will treat you really well. She will.
The big issue with all of these tactics and with the vast majority of women in general is the adversarial nature of these games.There is no thought to the long-term.There is no thought to the couple, or the health and happiness of the family.These are all very immature and narcissistic tactics. That's why I will probably always be single. Women are 100% transactional.
Daisy, Of all the Smart Girls, you are absolutely my favorite. If I were the type to come to the Philippines looking for love, I would seek out someone exactly like you. I would imagine some smart guy has already scooped you up.
Very good explanation!
never use dating apps, approach on streets only
Wow - how smart, helpful and cute!! Really appreciate your great inside and summary❤ I have experienced most of these things and wish I would have seen this video 15 years ago😂 I fell for lots of these things, but in reasonable limits - I think in the end it balances. Looking forward to your next videos.
You are awesome. All the best from Singapore
seems like these flip woman always have a "nephew" that turns out to actually be their son...lol
1. CHAT GAMES
2. LOVE BOMBING
3. LYING
4. WORD PLAY ("so how much money do you make?")
5. PUBLIC POSTS
6. CLINGY
7. SAVE ME!
8. SAVE MY FAMILY!
9. FACEBOOK STALKING
10. TAMPO 😮💨
11. JEALOUSY
12. PREGNANCY
Excellent
Was talking to a girl , Justine. And she guilt tripped me alot, she basicly used half of all of tatics on me. And it was hella stressful.
When she finally cussed me out was when i blocked her and her family. Cant believe it took me too long to cut her out of my life. Guess it took disrespecting me to my face to finally wake up.
Move on. There's better Filipinas out there.
It’s good you got out. I’m local but I knew that Filipinas are not what they seem to be. Never bothered to date them ever again after. Just had to live peacefully instead.
When any girl disrespects you, time too leave; unless a child is in the picture, that's harder too solve.
SIMP Once ... OK ... SIMP Twice and you will never forgive yourself
Thanks for letting everyone know you have zero boundaries.
Smart and beautiful WOW !!!!!😮
this applies to every woman not just Filipinas
I've recently been online dating with Christian Filipina, already had 3 women asking for money for their "birthday", one wanted me to buy her an iPhone for her birthday, one wanted me to buy her a webcam when I asked her for video chat, one just flat out asked me for $50. All of that just in the 1st week. They all seem to have an almost child-like perspective about relationships. They all say they want "trust", but they don't really trust you. The all say they want "communication", but they don't really communicate. They all say they want "loyalty", but what that means is, they only want you to talk to them while it is very clear they are talking to other men. I have so many stories. I feel like I'm wasting my time here.
Good video, good for not experienced men, definitely will help. With me those tricks will not work.
Really - I appreciate your effort girls :) you are doing a really cool job! :)... I really like your approach and I am enchanted by your work :) 👍💕
When a man says "I love you," chances are 90% he means it. When a woman, Filipina or not, says "I love you," she's testing you.
Men are in love, but women are in business
If a girl is constantly texting me, demanding to know where I'm at and what I'm doing, then, she has just demonstrated the fact that she is a control freak and I will send her packing.
Whoever holds the money sets the expectations... or move on to the next
Great list of red flags and good advice for each.
Keeping this one forever as my reference guide😅❤🙏
Me and my Filipina have none of these issues. I do not understand why this happens. But then again we already met and talk a lot so we trust each other very much. I am greatful for my girlfriend because I hear so many horror stories/drama
You are so correct and Beautiful!!!
Ms. Daisy, your beauty is so understated, but as clear as day. Lovely lady ❤.
There seems to be a lot of fire damaged houses in the Philippines.
and Thailand.... ;)
What?
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Thanks I will be going to Cambodia then 😂
Thank for the Public Service Announcement
Thank you for this well articulated and educational video. I had to share this with others, yes, there're are some gems here.
Thank you for your support 🫶🏼
Just left one... whew! Single and proud.
When I dated my first wife (from a country in Central America) I would visit her home and family and I would bring some groceries like beans, rice, plantain, cooking oil, some seasonings and some meat or chicken when I arrived at their home. Other days I would bring bread and fish from the market and other times I would just show up. I like to contribute and I like to cook as well. When my mother in law came to my home later she would iron my clothes and do laundry without me asking, so I would give her a hug and stuff a $10 or $20 bill in her pocket. In 1990 that was a lot of money but to me it wasn’t much. I’m married to a Mexican woman now and I provide regular monthly support to my mother in law because she has no pension as my father in law died without a pension. I love her and my disabled sister in law. I’ve visited them regularly in Mexico and know their situation. I don’t spoil them but I help and I show them love. Lots of hugs and stolen kisses on their cheeks. I tell them all the time that I love them. I do the same for my wife. I hope this doesn’t make me a push over or anything like that. I’ve always been generous. I also set limits on my generosity. I keep to my budget. I’m not planning on going to the Philippines or date one since I am married but this info is helpful to other men that I know. I recognize many of these manipulation tactics that even my current wife has used on me. Withholding intimacy is one of them. I hate that one! She is fiscally responsible and a good mother and I like that. I don’t like that she isn’t very affectionate. Twenty years in and I’m still working on that. For over ten years she has withheld affection to a degree. That is what makes me sometimes consider divorce because I often feel like I have to work, provide, protect and I don’t feel like she reciprocates. Even after telling her what I want for years she discounts my needs like I am a problem for wanting it.
Years of that with multiple women. I've experienced them all, I'm done. I've walked away from a good Polynesian woman in Australia and one in LA... when I was a younger man. It is the empathetic heart of a woman and her undying loyalty to you. She may seem boring and not challenging, perhaps very average looking. But she'll give you a lifetime of peace. The older you get, that is all you'll ever want.