Why are all these beautiful Filipinas doing this kind of work? I explain everything in this video, the 2nd in a 7-part series I'm making about "Renting a Girlfriend in the Philippines." To really understand what's going on here, you need to do two things. Shift your perspective to understand what her life is really like and learn about how the game works - what questions to ask and how to sell the fantasy.
That is very unfortunate for your culture. To make "The game" the go to, rather than educate your women about birth control and the need for education is just wild. Especially after seeing generations of continued social decline. "Parents turn a blind eye" to daughters' new secret job that pays way more than it should is also wild. I understand the poverty issues, and that education is expensive after k-12, but based on this very well-articulated report on "how the game works," they don't sound ignorant to the core problem... Just lazy from parents on down to socially change the norm. In Thailand, its often ignorance that holds there people back. In the poorest areas, generation after generation are lucky to have completed 6th grade, but their young ladies too are sent into the big city to hustle for foreigner dollars through the sex trade. At least they have ignorance to blame. The PhP know what they are doing and don't intend to change it. Been going on for decades and probably started with soldiers visiting their lands during war time. Easy buck. My word choses here are not meant to offend, but I am not one to dance around a subject to protect people from how bad the truth is. (The word ignorant is not a negative word. It simply means lacking in knowledge. The word lazy, is a tough behavior. Likely starting at the parental level. I am not saying the PhP people are by nature lazy but rather aren't seeing the correlation between education & birth control and daughters doomed futures. She basically said that a good percentage of parents turn a blind eye. That is all about the money from the top down. In Thailand families specifically have children, hoping for daughters, just so they can put them out in the big cities, for big money to send home. I teach English & business for free in Thailand to Thais. I hope to improve as many lives as I can through no cost education and guidance. (now feel free to argue or trash me. Tell me how I am wrong, or could have said it better?)
You don’t live forever. Your soul we get judged for your doings here so paying for sex is NOT an option because it’s written that those who don’t repent of that along with accepting CHRIST shall not inherit The Kingdom of HEAVEN. Besides it’s way cheaper to keep her if you’re smart.
I've been traveling to the Philippines regularly and I always avoided the bar girls and the street prosties. What this guy needed to realize is that there are plenty of well-educated decent Filipinas who don't work in bars. College students, BPO workers, etc. Just honest ladies who would likely be a better fit. I get it that a lot of bar girls do it for a lack of other economic opportunities...but there's also millions of Pinoys who go abroad for work as well.
Down through the ages for more than 100,000 years, women have learned how to survive in a world dominated and controlled by men. This knowledge of learning to survive in a male-controlled existence has been bred into the psyche of ALL women. Today, ALL women use the "game" of survival for their benefit to survive. They have intelligence and that means they will always use their thoughts to manipulate any situation to get what they want. That is how they survive. Surviving means staying alive. Tasks required to stay alive are not based on whether or not women want to do those tasks, but they are necessary to eat and survive until the next day, day after day. Survival is not based on pleasant choices. Survival just allows one to live another day, pleasant or not pleasant. Women learn survival tasks to avoid abuse or even death. The irony of the whole situation is that men have created women's employing manipulative techniques to survive by controlling women's conduct. Because men have used women for men's purposes, women have learned to "play the role" while still getting what women want beyond just survival. Today, the willingness of women to continue "playing the role" has come to a crossroads. Women have established enough legal and social-cultural presence to allow women to become autonomous to the demands of men's wants. These new-found strengths are causing an alteration in the accepted roles demanded by men to allow for these new-found positions of women in our societies and cultures today. Women hold the process for the survival of the species. With women's new strengths, they want major control of men's demands. And many men do not like it.
Absolute truth, Irish. I'm married to a sweet Filipina from the province now who had a few years working OFW and she just wanted a family of her own and a husband. We''re living in the US now and she's already a citizen and we have 2 young kids, but before I met her, I also went with a few girls in a seedier area. All these stories I've already ran across. Sweet beautiful bar girl no college education and a worthless baby daddy that gave her 3 babies and couldnt earn. She was working as hard as she could for her children. I respected her. I also let a stray kitty pick me up one night and go with me and she was just a free lancer that was new to the game and she just had a baby 3 months before and had a boyfriend that was a drunk and abusive and didnt know she was doing this, and I believed her because she told me the story with tears in her eyes. Its very important that if you want to have a good relatioship with a nice girl even from the provinces you understand the culture over there and why the girls do what they do sometimes. Its not always that they are "scamming" you. They're just trying to survive. YOU need to manage YOUR money and stop blaming the girls for when you say yes too often.
You're speaking the truth. I'm an older guy, so I may buy a few drinks, pay the bar fine, and move on. It's a business transaction. She get's what she wants, and I get what I want! Single and free is the way to be in the Philippines.
Finding two that works well together is fun. They swing by 3 times a week on a motorbike and also brings me food. The hardest part is training them to be on time. Otherwise, great attitudes, and we laugh a lot. I pay the fee and never accept it free, just to keep it real and never cross the relationship line. Cash on the table, see you next time.
Yes it sounds like all the stories I've read watched on UA-cam about Thailand. Girls from outside of large cities with lives then lie to their patrons n then take their money 🤑💰 and or scam them.
Speaking of lots of truth, now we have to ask about Irish......is she married, boyfriend perhaps? Any kids? Her accent seems really unique, most Filipinas I know are soft spoken, her accent almost sounds like she is a bit from Laos. How about it Irish? Can you do a reveal video, like the Philippina Pea?
Thanks Irish, and thank you to the 3 other contributors of SGP. All of you do great work at speaking your truth about Filipinas, which allows us foreigners to proceed with caution, while in the beautiful Philippines. Take care and keep up the good work, you all are great
I watched this video 4 times, just to take it all in. VERY enlightening and honest! THANK YOU!!!! I will definitely make fewer mistakes in the future. The Philippines is like a huge candy store. Chose with respect to the candy, taste the fantasy and pay what it is worth with a smile.
SUBBED because you said Video and not Bideo. I had to stop pause subscribe and tell you about it. I was immediately impressed. I know that sound doesn't exist so it's either extremely difficult for you guys to do or most people just don't even bother to try. It makes you look really really smart and more.
Irish this is the best video of you that I have seen so far. And the summary of "the game" and "the fantasy" is on the money😄😄😃. You've nailed it! And it did not cost a peso to find out the truth :) You need to be more careful about the 'F' word, if someone complains about the swear words then poof all your work is gone. UA-cam is nice to you until it is NOT NICE to you. It's the same thing with the girls that you mention in the video -- they're nice when there's money to get. Once the sale of the fantasy is done, they're not nice anymore :)
I love that this girl loves Ireland. She plays harp,banjo, 🎸,fish n chips,bangers n mash,rugby 🏉, Guinness n Jameson s,and colder weather ☁️🌡️,the Philippines n hot humid weather ☁️🌡️ is not for everyone.
Never been to the Philippines, but I would like to visit someday. I did live in China on business for two years and she could have been talking about the girls there….same story, same MO. I quickly learned I did not want to mingle either the bar girls or go to the full service establishments. Many girls just wanted the $$$ from a foreigner, then move to the next target. I made friends the old fashioned way, slower, but enduring relationships that could grow. I never stopped being approached by random women and girls of all ages, at the plaza, at restaurants, in the park, on the street, but it was soon very easy to tell if she was after money, or was just interested in talking to a foreigner. I even was taken out by young and attractive girls a few times where they chose the restaurant, then they insisted on paying, never asking me for anything.
This is basically my story but it happened in the US not the Philippines. I met her and she taught me about some of the scams that I was naive to. But I wont forget the lessons she taught me.
Thanks, Irish, for your refreshingly honest orientation to the sad social situation there. I pray for stronger families, and for the Philippine economy that presently leaves so many destitute and desperate to make a living wage. 😕. What a resilient people!
I actually had a bar girl tell me, an American, right before she gave me incredible gfe pse experience that she hates her job, been doing it for 10 years and will keep doing for 3 more years - when she will have made enough money to build her business in the provinces. And, no way she would ever marry a foreigner, especially not an American. She plans to meet and marry a Filipino after building her business in the province. Overall feeling about her was her type with her smarts in USA I would never have a chance with - nor would she be a bar girl.
Wow.. great video and great information for both foreigners and Filipinas. I can tell that you speak from experience. I really appreciate your total open honesty. Thanks.
Just curious and I'm sure you have. You had poppies churches and jj fish and chicken? Haven't had JJ yet. Used to like churches but prices went way up quality way down 😭😢.
Great video; I would add "girls from the provinces" are every bit a minefield for foreign men as urban bargirls, if the goal is relationship or marriage.
I am an 'effing fan of you Irish. Great looking and edgy. You inspire me to seek out someone like you. It is icing on the cake that you are also a cherry girl in your own way. Much coveted.
One last comment 😅 the cleaning lady at my rental apartments, has 5 children and is a widow. She was beautiful, positive and very capable. What a catch in another life. She didn't choose the bar.
I have dated 5 filipina's in the U.S. Short and long terms. They are either the most trustworthy, loyal, stick to you like glue type of women OR they are high end users. Maybe for the resaons Irish spells out. Desperation, School, etc. I can't speak for the women in the PH because I've never been but it seems like there is little or no middle ground of the 2 types I mentioned. Men who fall for the latter type are just not thinking clearly or don't care. It's not that hard to see it.
never ceases to amaze me how / why women fall into this trap. Don’t older women share their experiences with young women? how to completely alter your life in nine months. And it’s an easy trap for first world men to fall into also. I met a stunning woman half my age in Rio, way out of my league, 7 months pregnant, baby daddy nowhere in sight. I talked myself into believing my own b.s. I was a good guy, she was just in a tough situation and I could easily provide for her and her child. I’m not judging how any woman in a developing country makes her money, I’m not in her shoes. I appreciate your straight forward messages, your reference to playing the game was spot on. For many western men, being the center of attention is a new experience, and you forewarning us of the nature of the game is invaluable information. Now if only you could chaperone us and warn us as when we are getting ourselves into a tricky situation 😉
« Imagine going to Disney World and trying to get Minnie Mouse to take off her mask. » What a clever metaphor! All the philosophical wisdom of the world in this statement. Thank you so much, dear Filipina. Much love. 🥰
Your English is perfectly fine and you are very easy to understand. Why I'm saying this is because you don't need to have your scrolling subtitles on your video. It's kind of distracting, and I'd rather be focused on watching you speak, rather than being distracted by the bouncing yellow highlighter. Great videos and hope you do well with your channel.
It’s the Pygmalion Affect. George Bernard Shaw wrote play where a rather uptight gentleman took in a woman of the gutter. He had made a bet that he could pass her off as a refined lady. No boom no boom! He did change her but she went with another man and things did not end well for everyone. The movie My Fair Lady came from this and they added a happy ending.
Truly a smart girl and truly an honest girl. All true to my experiences. Not so true with older mature women. If you want a serious relationship in retirement seek someone close to your age. Chances are better she is not playing this game. I accept the game. I don't want her around to long anyway. Trade her in on a new one. There is always another one
No Money/No Funny, Thats really any women on earth, Get yourself a good Catholic Pinay and set a Budget you both can live with, 5 years married, Life is Work but its Awesome!!
Btw, for those in the know, the dating scene in AC is great. Never go to the bars, just get dating. The sexual energy of the city seems to have created a free and easy dating environment. I was dating young successful working women from neighbouring cities, coming there just for dating.
My sister worked as an exotic dancer but not a sex worker for a while and I got to know her coworkers. The worst part of their situation was that she and some others became serious alcoholics. My sister had the same story. Lack of education for a better job and it's easy and fast money. Her main income was what we call B-drinking which is illegal here but the bars get away with it. They got paid a percentage of the drinks someone bought them. I'd like to visit the bars there, and I hope my past experience would keep me from spending too much in one night. Thanks for sharing the story.
I have been texting several Filipina for a while, young and older. An much of what you say in this video applies, I actually share your videos with some of them
I don’t understand why guys seriously get into a relationship with a bar girl/freelancer when there are 10x more normal women who would love to be in a relationship with them. Is it just the convenience and ease of meeting bar girls?
If you're an average or ugly guy the "normal girls" are probably not going to approach or be interested in you in most cases. A lot of men also don't have the confidence to go up and talk to girls on the street but bar girls will come and talk to you so the ice is already broken. Men will often fall for bar girls because they're the only women who have shown them some interest or affection and they mistake that for love or that they actually care for them as a person.
What you say is so true. When i was there i gave a girl the world and she cheated so i left her but got to keep my son and bring him to the USA. She kept the rebar and cement and i have a beautiful and wonderful son. She now has 4 more kids and her BF that is married. good luck to her. I was a stupid guy and spend a lot of money. i fell for all the stories but its ok because i have also so many good memories of the Philippines.
Hi Irish. A straight-talking, hard-hitting realist! Everything you say is sad but true. Economics is the great leveler in life. Some manage to break free, others remain trapped. A big thank you to all the wonderful Philippinas whatever their vocation. Without you, the world would be a sadder place.
Hi Irish, Lawler here. I've been wanting to tell you this for such a long time, but I had never mustered the courage to do it until now. I LOVE YOU. Irish, I truly do. 🥰 (wink) 🙃 Lawler
Your channel name is accurate. You are extremely intelligent and honest. Just the fact you quoted Raiders of the Lost Ark made me like you a thousand times more. I have subscribed. :) Thanks for the advice. If I ever come to the Philippines... I would like to find a province girl over a bar girl. For sure
Good girl. You said Video instead of Bideo.. U have Much much better language skills than 80 to 90% of English speaking locals in the Philippines . As I understand things the V sounds simply doesn't exist in your native language, Tagalog.
Why are all these beautiful Filipinas doing this kind of work? I explain everything in this video, the 2nd in a 7-part series I'm making about "Renting a Girlfriend in the Philippines." To really understand what's going on here, you need to do two things. Shift your perspective to understand what her life is really like and learn about how the game works - what questions to ask and how to sell the fantasy.
That is very unfortunate for your culture. To make "The game" the go to, rather than educate your women about birth control and the need for education is just wild. Especially after seeing generations of continued social decline. "Parents turn a blind eye" to daughters' new secret job that pays way more than it should is also wild. I understand the poverty issues, and that education is expensive after k-12, but based on this very well-articulated report on "how the game works," they don't sound ignorant to the core problem... Just lazy from parents on down to socially change the norm. In Thailand, its often ignorance that holds there people back. In the poorest areas, generation after generation are lucky to have completed 6th grade, but their young ladies too are sent into the big city to hustle for foreigner dollars through the sex trade. At least they have ignorance to blame. The PhP know what they are doing and don't intend to change it. Been going on for decades and probably started with soldiers visiting their lands during war time. Easy buck.
My word choses here are not meant to offend, but I am not one to dance around a subject to protect people from how bad the truth is. (The word ignorant is not a negative word. It simply means lacking in knowledge. The word lazy, is a tough behavior. Likely starting at the parental level. I am not saying the PhP people are by nature lazy but rather aren't seeing the correlation between education & birth control and daughters doomed futures. She basically said that a good percentage of parents turn a blind eye. That is all about the money from the top down. In Thailand families specifically have children, hoping for daughters, just so they can put them out in the big cities, for big money to send home.
I teach English & business for free in Thailand to Thais. I hope to improve as many lives as I can through no cost education and guidance. (now feel free to argue or trash me. Tell me how I am wrong, or could have said it better?)
You don’t live forever. Your soul we get judged for your doings here so paying for sex is NOT an option because it’s written that those who don’t repent of that along with accepting CHRIST shall not inherit The Kingdom of HEAVEN.
Besides it’s way cheaper to keep her if you’re smart.
I've been traveling to the Philippines regularly and I always avoided the bar girls and the street prosties.
What this guy needed to realize is that there are plenty of well-educated decent Filipinas who don't work in bars. College students, BPO workers, etc. Just honest ladies who would likely be a better fit.
I get it that a lot of bar girls do it for a lack of other economic opportunities...but there's also millions of Pinoys who go abroad for work as well.
That's only seen in thailand
Down through the ages for more than 100,000 years, women have learned how to survive in a world dominated and controlled by men.
This knowledge of learning to survive in a male-controlled existence has been bred into the psyche of ALL women.
Today, ALL women use the "game" of survival for their benefit to survive.
They have intelligence and that means they will always use their thoughts to manipulate any situation to get what they want.
That is how they survive.
Surviving means staying alive.
Tasks required to stay alive are not based on whether or not women want to do those tasks, but they are necessary to eat and survive until the next day, day after day.
Survival is not based on pleasant choices.
Survival just allows one to live another day, pleasant or not pleasant.
Women learn survival tasks to avoid abuse or even death.
The irony of the whole situation is that men have created women's employing manipulative techniques to survive by controlling women's conduct.
Because men have used women for men's purposes, women have learned to "play the role" while still getting what women want beyond just survival.
Today, the willingness of women to continue "playing the role" has come to a crossroads.
Women have established enough legal and social-cultural presence to allow women to become autonomous to the demands of men's wants.
These new-found strengths are causing an alteration in the accepted roles demanded by men to allow for these new-found positions of women in our societies and cultures today.
Women hold the process for the survival of the species.
With women's new strengths, they want major control of men's demands.
And many men do not like it.
You can take a girl out of the bar, but you can never take the bar out of her.
No matter what country. ❤
Maybe renting a girlfriend is cheaper than actually having one in the long run.
Lot less headache
And you can switch up rental options !
Youv'e got it right!
No questions about that
spot on
I appreciate your straightforward honesty
Financially the game is similar worldwide but at least a nerdy guy has more value in the Philippines. 😬
Absolute truth, Irish. I'm married to a sweet Filipina from the province now who had a few years working OFW and she just wanted a family of her own and a husband. We''re living in the US now and she's already a citizen and we have 2 young kids, but before I met her, I also went with a few girls in a seedier area. All these stories I've already ran across. Sweet beautiful bar girl no college education and a worthless baby daddy that gave her 3 babies and couldnt earn. She was working as hard as she could for her children. I respected her. I also let a stray kitty pick me up one night and go with me and she was just a free lancer that was new to the game and she just had a baby 3 months before and had a boyfriend that was a drunk and abusive and didnt know she was doing this, and I believed her because she told me the story with tears in her eyes. Its very important that if you want to have a good relatioship with a nice girl even from the provinces you understand the culture over there and why the girls do what they do sometimes. Its not always that they are "scamming" you. They're just trying to survive. YOU need to manage YOUR money and stop blaming the girls for when you say yes too often.
You're speaking the truth. I'm an older guy, so I may buy a few drinks, pay the bar fine, and move on. It's a business transaction. She get's what she wants, and I get what I want! Single and free is the way to be in the Philippines.
When you pepper in the F word it is simply adorable. Talk about emphasis.
Irish just lays down the facts. She is the best!
Truth
Finding two that works well together is fun. They swing by 3 times a week on a motorbike and also brings me food. The hardest part is training them to be on time. Otherwise, great attitudes, and we laugh a lot. I pay the fee and never accept it free, just to keep it real and never cross the relationship line. Cash on the table, see you next time.
“$70 for boom boom?” You can get it for wayyyyyyy less than that in Philippines
Anal is $8 in Pattaya
You can also pay WAYYYYYY more.
@ only if you are a chump
All of this is spot on. She is very kind to share so much
Yes it sounds like all the stories I've read watched on UA-cam about Thailand. Girls from outside of large cities with lives then lie to their patrons n then take their money 🤑💰 and or scam them.
Haha talking about boom boom & references game theory!! That’s awesome!! Good job!!
The girl who made the boom-boom offer was the most honest.
This was an outstanding video; lots of truth spoken here. Thank you for this.
Speaking of lots of truth, now we have to ask about Irish......is she married, boyfriend perhaps? Any kids? Her accent seems really unique, most Filipinas I know are soft spoken, her accent almost sounds like she is a bit from Laos. How about it Irish? Can you do a reveal video, like the Philippina Pea?
Haha i like when she throws in the F word now and then it makes me laugh she is a bundle of joy
Thanks Irish, and thank you to the 3 other contributors of SGP. All of you do great work at speaking your truth about Filipinas, which allows us foreigners to proceed with caution, while in the beautiful Philippines. Take care and keep up the good work, you all are great
I like only bars girls because Iam older and Iam not looking for relationship just move on and get another one and you have no problem
You are the man with a plan. Good luck (though you don't really need it).
I watched this video 4 times, just to take it all in. VERY enlightening and honest! THANK YOU!!!! I will definitely make fewer mistakes in the future. The Philippines is like a huge candy store. Chose with respect to the candy, taste the fantasy and pay what it is worth with a smile.
Please give me more like this?
SUBBED because you said Video and not Bideo.
I had to stop pause subscribe and tell you about it. I was immediately impressed. I know that sound doesn't exist so it's either extremely difficult for you guys to do or most people just don't even bother to try. It makes you look really really smart and more.
I've never heard any of the women doing videos like this swear, I love it. Irish is my favorite.
Man, I love your swearing. But it's so wrong, but so right. Haha
Never go for the ones that talk like your boys. I'm religious not a fanatic by any means tho, so maybe I see things differently.
Thanks! Irish ❤
Thank you! We'll buy Jollibee tomorrow with this. xoxo
@@SmartGirlPhilippines Jollibee is life haha
Omg girl…u has great psychological knowledge abt understanding people. Impressive. I was planing to visit phillipine this year.
Irish this is the best video of you that I have seen so far. And the summary of "the game" and "the fantasy" is on the money😄😄😃. You've nailed it! And it did not cost a peso to find out the truth :)
You need to be more careful about the 'F' word, if someone complains about the swear words then poof all your work is gone. UA-cam is nice to you until it is NOT NICE to you. It's the same thing with the girls that you mention in the video -- they're nice when there's money to get. Once the sale of the fantasy is done, they're not nice anymore :)
I love that this girl loves Ireland. She plays harp,banjo, 🎸,fish n chips,bangers n mash,rugby 🏉, Guinness n Jameson s,and colder weather ☁️🌡️,the Philippines n hot humid weather ☁️🌡️ is not for everyone.
Thanks!
I like how you show the theme and explain. Thank you for your explanation
Great advice, 62 year old here one of my bucket list items is living part time in the Philippines when I retire.
Cheaper and better in Thailand I feel, as long as you do it right.
I appreciate your insight and words of wisdom. I met my Filipino fiancé over 7 years ago but it’s always good to learn more about the culture 😊
Never been to the Philippines, but I would like to visit someday. I did live in China on business for two years and she could have been talking about the girls there….same story, same MO. I quickly learned I did not want to mingle either the bar girls or go to the full service establishments. Many girls just wanted the $$$ from a foreigner, then move to the next target. I made friends the old fashioned way, slower, but enduring relationships that could grow. I never stopped being approached by random women and girls of all ages, at the plaza, at restaurants, in the park, on the street, but it was soon very easy to tell if she was after money, or was just interested in talking to a foreigner. I even was taken out by young and attractive girls a few times where they chose the restaurant, then they insisted on paying, never asking me for anything.
-anyone who can't see what is really going on in these bars, needs to spend all their money and learn a lesson!
What if you offer to pay her tuition and support her through college. It is understood that you both walk away at graduation.
I really enjoy that you speak about topics that some people believe are taboo but are real life questions, even if it’s in the back of your mind.
All it took was a Starbucks and a breakfast less then 15 usd
🤣 🤣 🤣 Right 😂😂😂
I'm only here for the double entendres around that alternative meaning in many other countries. 😆
You look so pure.
How do you know the game so perfectly?
🤣
You are 100%
This is basically my story but it happened in the US not the Philippines. I met her and she taught me about some of the scams that I was naive to. But I wont forget the lessons she taught me.
Wow Irish,
Pretty straight forward education tonight!
Steve😊
As a game theory nerd, this was gold ☺️🥰
So glad you enjoyed it! I want to do a separate video all about game theory in relationships here. - Irish
@SmartGirlPhilippines Ill be tuning in for sure ☺️
Thanks, Irish, for your refreshingly honest orientation to the sad social situation there. I pray for stronger families, and for the Philippine economy that presently leaves so many destitute and desperate to make a living wage. 😕. What a resilient people!
Danke!
Thank you so much! We'll use this to buy Jollibee tomorrow!
Get that chicken 🍗,mango 🥭 🥧🥧,gravy,and rice. Your Disneyland analogy is sooo funny 🤣 good talk.
I actually had a bar girl tell me, an American, right before she gave me incredible gfe pse experience that she hates her job, been doing it for 10 years and will keep doing for 3 more years - when she will have made enough money to build her business in the provinces. And, no way she would ever marry a foreigner, especially not an American. She plans to meet and marry a Filipino after building her business in the province. Overall feeling about her was her type with her smarts in USA I would never have a chance with - nor would she be a bar girl.
Very well explained. It's not something I have done, or would do, but I appreciate your brutally honest explanation. It makes sense. New subscriber!
ty for your honesty maim ! hopefully people don't abuse it.
Wow.. great video and great information for both foreigners and Filipinas. I can tell that you speak from experience. I really appreciate your total open honesty. Thanks.
I really like your realistic view on the world in Philippines. Good job!
Truth that I never thought I'd hear from a Filipina.
It's impossible to overstate your honest answers and vlogs. Thank you? It's great that you exist. 😘☺☺
Very useful information Irish. 🥰
Thanks!
Wow! Thank you so much Brian! We're going to use this to buy Jollibee chickenjoy tomorrow. We really appreciate you. xoxo
@SmartGirlPhilippines You're welcome SGP. I've had Jollibee chickenjoy, and it's the best chicken I ever had 😁
Just curious and I'm sure you have. You had poppies churches and jj fish and chicken? Haven't had JJ yet. Used to like churches but prices went way up quality way down 😭😢.
Great video; I would add "girls from the provinces" are every bit a minefield for foreign men as urban bargirls, if the goal is relationship or marriage.
I am an 'effing fan of you Irish. Great looking and edgy. You inspire me to seek out someone like you. It is icing on the cake that you are also a cherry girl in your own way. Much coveted.
The girl turns into a pumpkin at midnight
I really appreciate her honesty. Unfortunately most men can't handle the truth.
This video is absolutely right for those who are new arrival in Philippines. Very interesting to learn
One last comment 😅 the cleaning lady at my rental apartments, has 5 children and is a widow. She was beautiful, positive and very capable. What a catch in another life. She didn't choose the bar.
$70 seems a bit high considering the situation.
It’s short time too.
Must be long time?
I have dated 5 filipina's in the U.S. Short and long terms. They are either the most trustworthy, loyal, stick to you like glue type of women OR they are high end users. Maybe for the resaons Irish spells out. Desperation, School, etc. I can't speak for the women in the PH because I've never been but it seems like there is little or no middle ground of the 2 types I mentioned. Men who fall for the latter type are just not thinking clearly or don't care. It's not that hard to see it.
never ceases to amaze me how / why women fall into this trap. Don’t older women share their experiences with young women? how to completely alter your life in nine months. And it’s an easy trap for first world men to fall into also. I met a stunning woman half my age in Rio, way out of my league, 7 months pregnant, baby daddy nowhere in sight. I talked myself into believing my own b.s. I was a good guy, she was just in a tough situation and I could easily provide for her and her child. I’m not judging how any woman in a developing country makes her money, I’m not in her shoes. I appreciate your straight forward messages, your reference to playing the game was spot on. For many western men, being the center of attention is a new experience, and you forewarning us of the nature of the game is invaluable information. Now if only you could chaperone us and warn us as when we are getting ourselves into a tricky situation 😉
« Imagine going to Disney World and trying to get Minnie Mouse to take off her mask. »
What a clever metaphor! All the philosophical wisdom of the world in this statement.
Thank you so much, dear Filipina.
Much love. 🥰
Very perceptive. Very real and non judgmental.
What a smart analysis. Very good video.
Nice explanation , very instructive and frank , I really like the way you express your ideas is such clear and considerate manner . Congratulations!
Dang.....it was only $10 in 1970!
That was under Marcos.... things were tough before Liberation.
Inflation of the US dollar is a global problem.
It is still $10 if you want it to be.
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I think it was less than that around Subic in ‘74
Your English is perfectly fine and you are very easy to understand. Why I'm saying this is because you don't need to have your scrolling subtitles on your video. It's kind of distracting, and I'd rather be focused on watching you speak, rather than being distracted by the bouncing yellow highlighter. Great videos and hope you do well with your channel.
It’s the Pygmalion Affect. George Bernard Shaw wrote play where a rather uptight gentleman took in a woman of the gutter. He had made a bet that he could pass her off as a refined lady. No boom no boom! He did change her but she went with another man and things did not end well for everyone. The movie My Fair Lady came from this and they added a happy ending.
Truly a smart girl and truly an honest girl. All true to my experiences. Not so true with older mature women. If you want a serious relationship in retirement seek someone close to your age. Chances are better she is not playing this game. I accept the game. I don't want her around to long anyway. Trade her in on a new one. There is always another one
She is telling the truth what happened at Philippines 🇵🇭 with these crazy women all over!
No Money/No Funny, Thats really any women on earth, Get yourself a good Catholic Pinay and set a Budget you both can live with, 5 years married,
Life is Work but its Awesome!!
You are extremely insightful!!
Btw, for those in the know, the dating scene in AC is great. Never go to the bars, just get dating. The sexual energy of the city seems to have created a free and easy dating environment. I was dating young successful working women from neighbouring cities, coming there just for dating.
Saki faki long time
Enjoyed your narrative. Nicely done with great humour.
Where can I find one of these "Girlfriend" to rent??? I'm asking for a friend 😂
Angeles City
My sister worked as an exotic dancer but not a sex worker for a while and I got to know her coworkers. The worst part of their situation was that she and some others became serious alcoholics. My sister had the same story. Lack of education for a better job and it's easy and fast money. Her main income was what we call B-drinking which is illegal here but the bars get away with it. They got paid a percentage of the drinks someone bought them. I'd like to visit the bars there, and I hope my past experience would keep me from spending too much in one night. Thanks for sharing the story.
Stripping , porn modelling , naked maid service , it's all sex work .
Great video..thanks..!
Good advice. Opened my eyes.
I have been texting several Filipina for a while, young and older. An much of what you say in this video applies, I actually share your videos with some of them
These are the facts for every place you visit thats pay for play.. Great perspective.
I don’t understand why guys seriously get into a relationship with a bar girl/freelancer when there are 10x more normal women who would love to be in a relationship with them. Is it just the convenience and ease of meeting bar girls?
Thats exactly what it is, most men that travel there are pressed for time. A lot of them are just looking for some side action.
If you're an average or ugly guy the "normal girls" are probably not going to approach or be interested in you in most cases. A lot of men also don't have the confidence to go up and talk to girls on the street but bar girls will come and talk to you so the ice is already broken. Men will often fall for bar girls because they're the only women who have shown them some interest or affection and they mistake that for love or that they actually care for them as a person.
The Disney World analogy was amazing.
Boom boom, excellent idea
Right on spot!!! You've saved an army of men LOL. BTW, is part of the testimony your own?
What you say is so true. When i was there i gave a girl the world and she cheated so i left her but got to keep my son and bring him to the USA. She kept the rebar and cement and i have a beautiful and wonderful son. She now has 4 more kids and her BF that is married. good luck to her. I was a stupid guy and spend a lot of money. i fell for all the stories but its ok because i have also so many good memories of the Philippines.
Hi Irish. A straight-talking, hard-hitting realist! Everything you say is sad but true. Economics is the great leveler in life. Some manage to break free, others remain trapped. A big thank you to all the wonderful Philippinas whatever their vocation. Without you, the world would be a sadder place.
Very nice Content ! 100% Truth.
Good and balanced explanations. Thank you.
Thank you for educating the man not be scammed when we want real women
Excellent video Irish with good boom boom content . 🥇
Will I get a discount by mentioning Smart girls?
Hi Irish, Lawler here. I've been wanting to tell you this for such a long time, but I had never mustered the courage to do it until now. I LOVE YOU. Irish, I truly do. 🥰 (wink) 🙃
Lawler
Then give her $70 and she will love you long time 😂
Cute dress, Irish.
I liked your vid, it was quite informative.
Wishing the best for you and your family.
Ingat sa Palagi, Irish 😘 😊
Your channel name is accurate. You are extremely intelligent and honest. Just the fact you quoted Raiders of the Lost Ark made me like you a thousand times more. I have subscribed. :)
Thanks for the advice. If I ever come to the Philippines... I would like to find a province girl over a bar girl. For sure
Where do I sign up😮
Good girl. You said Video instead of Bideo..
U have Much much better language skills than 80 to 90% of English speaking locals in the Philippines .
As I understand things the V sounds simply doesn't exist in your native language, Tagalog.
Same song yesterday. Any man who's hip to the game knows all of this info on your channel.
enjoyed your video, your are a breath of fresh air
At least she telling the truth that's what the game is there don't hate the player hate the game 😂
I think that you are giving the most honest information possible. Thank you.
REgards,
Geoff. Reeks
Prices have gone up evewhere, when I first went to the Philippines 25 years ago, the bar fine to take the lady with you was p1000 (about $20).
304 life is global and it’s the oldest profession. The baseline of this formula applies globally.