Listen to him! My ex didn't leave me, I stopped seeing him cause he felt like he loved someone else. I let him have that and went no contact. He was constantly calling me and I wouldn't answer until the last time, and I told him to never contact me again. He's now begging to get back, asking if he can come over and see me, and I told him no! Sir we're gonna stand on business, go be with that other girl you felt like you loved more thwn than me. It will take 4 women to equal 1 me. Make these people stand on what they created, don't take them back!
1000%. No contact is to get myself back not my ex. He dumped me on Christmas Day. Why the hell would I want him back after that? Charchar7897 Good for you for taking out the trash. You are living no contact and took back your power.
Absolutely I have been going through same stage and its being 5 months we are not speaking with each other I have a strong feeling he is dating someone else and if he gonna come back I am not gonna take him he broke my trust It really hurts .... 😪😓
After 6 months of being in no contact after being abruptly discarded, today I was on the verge of reaching out to my ex, but I came across this video and it stopped me from making a huge mistake and disrespecting myself, I truly thank you for this video #wisdom
Dont be hard on urself. Let it hurt. It clearly shows u were genuine and caring. Its a loss for them who betrayed u and they cant replace u, never. Keep this mindset and remain silent. Let them find less.
3 year relationship 3 year no contact straight after first day of breakup My two faced devious sibling who talks to my ex and is friends with my ex keeps reporting back to my ex about absolutely everything I'm doing, from who I dated and who I loved, where I live, how much money I make and have, my lifestyle, my car, everything!, and I've now cut my sibling out my life My social media has and always been private, so no one can snoop on my profile, because I'm like James Bond, or James bond wishes he was like me What you think of this coach?
@5:24 I'm crackin' up with laughter 😆 listening as I drive. Wait, wait she knocked on your fuckin' 🚪 door.... The way you dropped that part if the story was hilarious.
Great advice! I went no contact immediately but I still tried to play the social media game by posting a lot and it probably came across as trying too-hard to impress her. I'm still posting but my energy has definitely shifted from trying to make my ex regret breaking up with me, to just joyfully expressing myself to the world. Since my energy and focus shifted I've had multiple beautiful and high value women in my orbit reach out to ME to flirt, and one childhood friend even confess her love to me! And she's better than my ex in every way! I now am facing the difficult decision of CHOOSING which amazing woman I want to be with next hahaha
my ex was very toxic/controlling/manipulative/cheater. I did all these things but don’t want them back. They never begged me back because I didn’t chase and that’s what they wanted because there too messed up in the head and don’t like rejection. Don’t ever try to get a toxic ex back. the games they play will always be better than yours. they already seeing someone else when they leave
Yessssss you turned your pain into power and now you are here helping us.Congratulations Bro.Am going through rebuilding future myself .Love ya.Glad I found your video this morning
Let's have a video on the universe .. energy .. vibration and how to harness its FULL potential ❤ And who the ex feels the disconnect from the deep bond we had
No revenge. That is childish! Become more yourself. That is the person that attracted the ex to you initially. Revenge will create a crisis. You already have one of those! Why have two?
These demons are sooooooooo damn delusional, disrespectful, liars, cheaters, manipulators etc,..,,, I would really like to know why with all things considering ( and i'm a confident women who just happened to fall for a narcissist without knowing what he was before I met him) but why are we (empaths) always told we need to work on ourselves as if they changed who we are?? I'm still the same person and I did not let him break me! I just feel like when were told to work on ourselves after a break-up with a narc that we all of a sudden are weaklings and are damaged from being with complete demon/idiots! It's like they are getting credit for something!
I've been watch your videos lately, especially after the post you placed about the scars. Me and my ex broke up at the and of april. It took me untill second week of may to go full no contact. She broke it twice now in then. But still no meet up even tough she agreed to that last time. It won't matter anyway. Im not done doing the work quite yet. So i'm glad s we didn't meet up. On top of that you are so right mr goldman. Dumpers usualy dont do the work. We broke up 2 before. One from my end on wich i did not do the work. The second was mutual on wich we knew really neede to work on things. When you don't know where to start or if you actually don't know if you've healed enough getting back is the same as a rebound. No she broke up. Probably still not understanding what it is she actually needs to work on. And if that's the case why even bother trying again. Thank you for your wonderful content.
I’m glad to hear that you got it, my friend thank you for your acknowledgment. I really appreciate it.! Please feel free to ask me any question or give me video suggestions so I can serve you better in the future 🙏🏽
My situation is horrible. I do no contact but I work with her and she's my boss. So I have to interact with her. After 7 years she left me and started a long distant relationship with her daughters father. Acted like I didn't exist. Are relationship was toxic because she is an alcoholic. She also lost her eldest daughter and never received help which I begged her to do. Lately she's been calling me drunk and acting suicidal. I ignore most calls but the suicidal ones and tell her to get help. I know I shouldn't care for her but 7 years is a long time and we went through a lot together. It's been a month and half since are breakup. Trying to stay strong and keep sane because I have to see and interact with her at work
Hello, thank you for your video. How is it working if you still lived with them together and they now moving out since 2 weeks. He will be gone on wednesday. Is nc then starting wednesday? There will be some reaching out points for him, because he still have his fishtank here... etc. he wants to grab in the following weeks. Also I saw he bought alot of new stuff, planned a lot of trips... maybe he is to fully distracted to think of me. I would appreciate your opinion. Thanks!
If you want em back and heal then block em for couple months or once youve stopped caring and you dont get a dopamine hit wen finking of em then unblock but dont reach out, if you want to heal and you dont want em back at all then block and never unblock, if she reaches out n breadcrumbs you reblock for another couple mths, shell soon learn not to waste your time!
Hi sir! I've been following the no contact rule for 1 month now, but my friends and I often go out and they post pictures of us on social media. They're also common friends with my ex, so I'm sure my ex sees the posts. Is that okay? Btw my ex already with a monkey branch/rebound relationship.
I fought for 5 years to keep the relationship afloat due to my love for her. Always compromising myself, to then become lost, to then be stabbed in the heart and be monkey branched upon. What a fool am I. I went radio silent. Yet, this is not about HER to regret me, it's for ME to grow and become that one that was regrettably tossed away if we ever even saw each other again. Hopefully we never do in public. But I want to be THE regret, not IN regret. Time to take my energy and power back to love myself. Thank you coach. I understand you.
She told me I was too old, even though she knew my age when she chased me! I can’t change my age, but I can say that I’m in better shape than I’ve been in years. That said, my age is what it is. How do you work on that?
Don't let your age deter you. Look for someone else who will appreciate you. Just maintain the following 1.keep in shape 2. dress well. 3. Smell good 4 Display characters of a leader. 5. Have an abundance mindset. You'll be good!
She can always take it back. That's perfect actually. Because when you think of breaking no contact you will go to jail. So makes it even easier to not do it. You now have a reason to not. Is what it is man. Live your life. She did you a favor. But the judge won't sign that unless she had legitimate reasons to present that.
Come on, stop with this narrow thinking. Sometimes its not about changing yourself, sometimes you just don’t fit with your partner anymore. Lets say they broke up cause they want to have kids and you don’t. How are you gonna fix this? Some things just have to end and why would you want someone to regret that they choose their own opinion?
You must maintain contact for the sake of the child, so to do no contact with a child means that the only point of connection is the child and nothing more than that you don’t talk about anything else.,
Listen to him! My ex didn't leave me, I stopped seeing him cause he felt like he loved someone else. I let him have that and went no contact. He was constantly calling me and I wouldn't answer until the last time, and I told him to never contact me again. He's now begging to get back, asking if he can come over and see me, and I told him no! Sir we're gonna stand on business, go be with that other girl you felt like you loved more thwn than me. It will take 4 women to equal 1 me. Make these people stand on what they created, don't take them back!
1000%. No contact is to get myself back not my ex. He dumped me on Christmas Day. Why the hell would I want him back after that?
Charchar7897 Good for you for taking out the trash. You are living no contact and took back your power.
Absolutely I have been going through same stage and its being 5 months we are not speaking with each other I have a strong feeling he is dating someone else and if he gonna come back I am not gonna take him he broke my trust It really hurts ....
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You are a narcissist
I’m in the same boat that’s what my ex gf did. Today is day 30 of no contact. How you feeling now? How long did it take you to start feeling better?
After 6 months of being in no contact after being abruptly discarded, today I was on the verge of reaching out to my ex, but I came across this video and it stopped me from making a huge mistake and disrespecting myself, I truly thank you for this video #wisdom
Wisdom 💪 She left me for another man! I have lost 30 pounds since the break up 2 months ago 💪
Same here brother! Busted my ass in the gym.
Dont be hard on urself. Let it hurt. It clearly shows u were genuine and caring. Its a loss for them who betrayed u and they cant replace u, never. Keep this mindset and remain silent. Let them find less.
No contact is not for them...its for you
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EXCELLENT ADVICE ! I'm doing exactly what you said to do .. And it feels great... Just work on yourself .. Be the best you know you can be ...
Yes!!! Good job my dear friend! Proud of you 👏🏽
3 year relationship
3 year no contact straight after first day of breakup
My two faced devious sibling who talks to my ex and is friends with my ex keeps reporting back to my ex about absolutely everything I'm doing, from who I dated and who I loved, where I live, how much money I make and have, my lifestyle, my car, everything!, and I've now cut my sibling out my life
My social media has and always been private, so no one can snoop on my profile, because I'm like James Bond, or James bond wishes he was like me
What you think of this coach?
@5:24 I'm crackin' up with laughter 😆 listening as I drive. Wait, wait she knocked on your fuckin' 🚪 door.... The way you dropped that part if the story was hilarious.
Great advice! I went no contact immediately but I still tried to play the social media game by posting a lot and it probably came across as trying too-hard to impress her. I'm still posting but my energy has definitely shifted from trying to make my ex regret breaking up with me, to just joyfully expressing myself to the world.
Since my energy and focus shifted I've had multiple beautiful and high value women in my orbit reach out to ME to flirt, and one childhood friend even confess her love to me! And she's better than my ex in every way! I now am facing the difficult decision of CHOOSING which amazing woman I want to be with next hahaha
So shouldnt we post much?
my ex was very toxic/controlling/manipulative/cheater. I did all these things but don’t want them back. They never begged me back because I didn’t chase and that’s what they wanted because there too messed up in the head and don’t like rejection.
Don’t ever try to get a toxic ex back. the games they play will always be better than yours. they already seeing someone else when they leave
Yessssss you turned your pain into power and now you are here helping us.Congratulations Bro.Am going through rebuilding future myself .Love ya.Glad I found your video this morning
@@novanewstories1487 thank you for your acknowledgement my dear friend ! Much love ❤️
Coach Paz another amazing video brother. I’m at 2 of 3.
Thank you so much my friend!
What is the 3rd for you?
Let's have a video on the universe .. energy .. vibration and how to harness its FULL potential ❤
And who the ex feels the disconnect from the deep bond we had
Wisdom brother, thank you :)
Wisdom, thank you I needed this to get through my breakup
@@RG-88229 thank you for your acknowledgement my dear friend
Loving your wisdom awsome, thanks so much for sharing.
My ex wanted to take a break a month ago...and i really needed to hear this video...i did go no contact...now i must continuo working on myself...
This Is so true, its hard but well worth it.
No revenge. That is childish! Become more yourself. That is the person that attracted the ex to you initially. Revenge will create a crisis. You already have one of those! Why have two?
Hola my friend, Have you watched the video? ;)
This is exactly what I talked about :)
Thanks for the wisdom brother paz
@@Skillspro14 thank you for your acknowledgement my dear friend
These demons are sooooooooo damn delusional, disrespectful, liars, cheaters, manipulators etc,..,,, I would really like to know why with all things considering ( and i'm a confident women who just happened to fall for a narcissist without knowing what he was before I met him) but why are we (empaths) always told we need to work on ourselves as if they changed who we are?? I'm still the same person and I did not let him break me! I just feel like when were told to work on ourselves after a break-up with a narc that we all of a sudden are weaklings and are damaged from being with complete demon/idiots! It's like they are getting credit for something!
I've been watch your videos lately, especially after the post you placed about the scars. Me and my ex broke up at the and of april. It took me untill second week of may to go full no contact. She broke it twice now in then. But still no meet up even tough she agreed to that last time. It won't matter anyway. Im not done doing the work quite yet. So i'm glad s we didn't meet up. On top of that you are so right mr goldman. Dumpers usualy dont do the work. We broke up 2 before. One from my end on wich i did not do the work. The second was mutual on wich we knew really neede to work on things. When you don't know where to start or if you actually don't know if you've healed enough getting back is the same as a rebound. No she broke up. Probably still not understanding what it is she actually needs to work on. And if that's the case why even bother trying again. Thank you for your wonderful content.
Am new here. Iyoh... eei , I love u from South Africa 🇿🇦, great advice brother
I became a ghost....
Exactly the video I was looking for :) I will take and embrace that wisdom to my core.
I got it 🙂Thanks for your videos!
I’m glad to hear that you got it, my friend thank you for your acknowledgment. I really appreciate it.!
Please feel free to ask me any question or give me video suggestions so I can serve you better in the future 🙏🏽
@@PazGoldmanOfficial Sorry but I don't have any smart suggestions. In my opinion everything was great. Greetings from Poland.
Wisdom - thanks Paz peace and love❤
Thank you so much, my dear friend, peace and love ✌🏽🤍
This is amazing wisdom... It's worth than what I think.. God bless you❤
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1 year no contact, after 10 years.
She doesn't care.
You won
@@dastanrasul yes. But only now understand it. 14 month later.
My situation is horrible. I do no contact but I work with her and she's my boss. So I have to interact with her. After 7 years she left me and started a long distant relationship with her daughters father. Acted like I didn't exist. Are relationship was toxic because she is an alcoholic. She also lost her eldest daughter and never received help which I begged her to do. Lately she's been calling me drunk and acting suicidal. I ignore most calls but the suicidal ones and tell her to get help. I know I shouldn't care for her but 7 years is a long time and we went through a lot together. It's been a month and half since are breakup. Trying to stay strong and keep sane because I have to see and interact with her at work
Wisdom . Thank you. I will start
WISDOM........................why married man cheats even though some had a good responsible wife and a mother to their children at home?
Some Men just want sex and more sex....wifey may not provide the sex as much and hubby will have sex with someone else without any attachments etc
Wisdom my brother.
Coach, can you do a video on complete radio silence and the impact it has on the dumper?
I’ll do this today for you!
got it boss #wisdom 🔥
WISDOM!!!
Hello, thank you for your video. How is it working if you still lived with them together and they now moving out since 2 weeks. He will be gone on wednesday.
Is nc then starting wednesday? There will be some reaching out points for him, because he still have his fishtank here... etc. he wants to grab in the following weeks. Also I saw he bought alot of new stuff, planned a lot of trips... maybe he is to fully distracted to think of me.
I would appreciate your opinion. Thanks!
My situation is hopeless. Girl left me cuz i took too long to give her a ring. Now shes in a 5month relationship with a new guy.
Move on and apply the wisdom learned on the new one
Wisdom ❤thank you
If you want em back and heal then block em for couple months or once youve stopped caring and you dont get a dopamine hit wen finking of em then unblock but dont reach out, if you want to heal and you dont want em back at all then block and never unblock, if she reaches out n breadcrumbs you reblock for another couple mths, shell soon learn not to waste your time!
Hi sir! I've been following the no contact rule for 1 month now, but my friends and I often go out and they post pictures of us on social media. They're also common friends with my ex, so I'm sure my ex sees the posts. Is that okay? Btw my ex already with a monkey branch/rebound relationship.
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What to do if you are already ripped and in shape when she break up with you? 😅
Get rich 🤑
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I love your cat❤ I am acatlover 😊 forget about the exes I am happy with my cats 🐈
But if you have kids you can not go no contact….
I fought for 5 years to keep the relationship afloat due to my love for her. Always compromising myself, to then become lost, to then be stabbed in the heart and be monkey branched upon. What a fool am I. I went radio silent. Yet, this is not about HER to regret me, it's for ME to grow and become that one that was regrettably tossed away if we ever even saw each other again. Hopefully we never do in public. But I want to be THE regret, not IN regret. Time to take my energy and power back to love myself. Thank you coach. I understand you.
Hey brother how can I do no contact when we share a daughter?
I made a video on it on my channel, please check it out to find out the answer 🙏🏽🤍
The name of the video is - no contact with child
wisdom!
I tried to contact till 1 month after breakup but now for over 2 months i am in no contact.Will it work.
She is hanging out with new boys and group
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She told me I was too old, even though she knew my age when she chased me! I can’t change my age, but I can say that I’m in better shape than I’ve been in years. That said, my age is what it is. How do you work on that?
Don't let your age deter you. Look for someone else who will appreciate you. Just maintain the following
1.keep in shape
2. dress well.
3. Smell good
4 Display characters of a leader.
5. Have an abundance mindset.
You'll be good!
@@Omnitrix8 Thanks.
I went no contact and got a restraining order for 2 yrs i wont take her back
She can always take it back. That's perfect actually. Because when you think of breaking no contact you will go to jail. So makes it even easier to not do it. You now have a reason to not. Is what it is man. Live your life. She did you a favor. But the judge won't sign that unless she had legitimate reasons to present that.
@@rangerdanger10 I got it on her
@@rangerdanger10 I got it on her for 2 yrs
I got the restraining order on her
Come on, stop with this narrow thinking. Sometimes its not about changing yourself, sometimes you just don’t fit with your partner anymore. Lets say they broke up cause they want to have kids and you don’t. How are you gonna fix this? Some things just have to end and why would you want someone to regret that they choose their own opinion?
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How you do with no contact when kids is involved?
You must maintain contact for the sake of the child, so to do no contact with a child means that the only point of connection is the child and nothing more than that you don’t talk about anything else.,
I’ll make a video on it today, check it out later 🙏🏽
This is correct what the coach said. Limited contact when it involves kids.
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