8 IMPACTS Of Going RADIO SILENCE On Your EX (why it might be better for you than no contact)
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- Going radio silent on an ex after a breakup can have various psychological and emotional effects on your EX, depending on the dynamics of the relationship and the personalities involved.
Here are some potential impacts:
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6:14 1. Sense of Loss and Realization
When you cut off contact, your ex may start to miss the interaction and the emotional support you provided. This absence can lead to a heightened sense of loss and might make them realize the value of the relationship.
9:28 2. Curiosity and Uncertainty
Silence often breeds curiosity. Your ex might wonder what you are doing, how you are coping, and whether you have moved on. This uncertainty can lead to them re-evaluating their decision to break up.
9:10 3. Guilt and Regret
If your ex is the one who initiated the breakup, your silence can make them feel guilty or regretful.
They may start to reflect on whether they made the right decision, especially if they see you handling the situation with grace and independence.
10:38 4. Perceived Strength and Independence
Going radio silent can be seen as a sign of strength and independence. It demonstrates that you are capable of moving on and taking care of yourself without relying on the ex, which can be an attractive quality and might make them rethink their decision.
10:40 5. Emotional Distress
For some, the lack of communication can cause significant emotional distress. If they were used to regular communication and suddenly it stops, it can be jarring and lead to feelings of loneliness or abandonment.
13:00 6. Power Shift
Silence can shift the power dynamics in a relationship. Initially, the person who breaks up might feel in control, but when the other party goes silent, it can make the initiator feel powerless and out of the loop.
15:42 7. Space for Healing
On a positive note, radio silence can give both parties the space needed to heal. It allows for self-reflection and personal growth without the constant reminder of the past relationship.
16:00 8. Possible Reconnection or Final Closure
In some cases, going silent might prompt your ex to reach out and attempt to reconnect, leading to a potential reconciliation. Alternatively, it can also solidify the breakup, providing both parties with the closure needed to move on.
17:51 Conclusion
The effect of going radio silent on your ex can vary widely based on individual circumstances. It can lead to introspection, regret, and a possible reevaluation of the relationship. However, it can also provide the necessary space for both individuals to heal and move forward independently.
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My mom left my stepdad because he wouldn't commit. She moved across the country. Went radio silent. He damn near lost his mind! Came after her & proposed and they were together 40 years.
How long did it take before he reached out or came back?
I hope my situationship is losing his mind over me... 6 weeks NC so far.
I feel you my friend!
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Just start your new life. They don't come back all the time.
No contact is for my healing not to punish or manipulate anyone to want me.
Yes! Exactly 👍🏽
They will reach out eventually, its important to be prepared and know terms of reconciliation but also act like that day may never come. She needs to apologize and show 100% of effort for me to even consider anything. Don’t cut corners, don’t disrespect yourself.
Are they the enemy ?
No Contact only works in some situations
Not every ex gives a toss
Not all will miss You in the way You want or at all
Fact
Yup! I'm way too good for him and he couldn't care less that I cut him off!
@@kristinm2577he didn’t reach out?
@@haneen.rmy7 well he has now!
True, but I went radio silence, not because of my ex, I did it because of her coworkers and family that would drag information back to them !
This video is really helpful. She ghosted me two months ago when it seemed like everything was going perfectly. I went completely silent and I thought by now I’d feel better but I’m still devastated.
childish way to end a relationship. your better off brother. you dont want someone like that to come back.
Radio silence A strongest method to get ex back I used it. And she came back in 27 days
@@shabbirkhan4585 nice to see positive news! Praying for the same. Highly recommend reading the book attached. Hope you guys take your time and last! Amen 🤞🙏
NC is awesome. You begin to wonder why you even wanted that person in your life. 😂 So there's no going back to a person who needs NC to act right.
I left and will never return under anyone’s conditions. He didn’t want to commit , I don’t have time to waste playing in a circus with a clown
Be a ghost. Let that expectation of seeing them having regrers sink. Dont confront ur emotions but say to urself that u made them special. You deserve much more.
This is so true they can feel you wanting them even in no contact. I’ve fasted to let them go and was at complete peace and then the next day they reach out after a month of no contact.
Tnx for sharing your story!!! It will help many 🙏🏽
Great video my friend. I've just implemented it today after her cheating and texting me breadcumbs😊
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Always here for you my brother Omry 💪🏽
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I went radio silent on my ex, not so much because of my ex but her coworkers and family, who would drag information back to her.
If they dump you more than once audios
You're helping me a lot, thank you for your videos
Happy to hear that! Always here for you my dear friend!
Please feel free to ask me any questions or if you have any video suggestions I will make them for you !
I don’t think this will work if they are in a new relationship right after the break up
Unfortunately it's not worth it if that happens anyway. It's still better than to pursue and validate them more..
It doesn’t effect them one bit!
NC is self healing!
Amazing hermano!Muchas gracias!
Thanks coach! ❤
I blocked him on social media and WhatsApp. Should I also block him on FB? We’re not friends and my profile is private, but I do post publicly sometimes. His sister in law and her father’s profile are coming up as friend suggestions which makes no sense since I never met them, the father lives in another country! He visits his brother and his wife pretty much every weekend so I assume he’s lurking when he goes there. This week he text me after 3 months. I replied the next day, not cold but not warm. He’s gone silent again. It’s foolery. I’m not reaching out to him ever.
Ignore breadcrumbs.
I think that creates unnecessary anxiety. You can communicate and just express uninterested attention that will hit just as hard. Disappearing is just running.
But how can you act uninterested to someone who's already uninterested and checked out of the relationship ?
@@itme7297 you don't give them anymore of your energy. You move w/o them. Bc if they are ignoring you, you are forced to move w/o them anyway. And if it is you(self) that is no longer interested in the connection, it is better to state that, rather than going radio silent. Silence hurts. Communication heals.
@@angiemoreno1013 I think this video is about how to deal with someone breaking up with you, post breakup. You go silent. Don't beg for them back.
@@itme7297By doing exactly the same
Radio silent i presume also means blocking, on whatsapp etc
@@Al-jh2wy Block on EVERYTHING
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Thank you very much!
Radio silence sounds very effective
Yes, it is!
but it depends on your situation
Thanks you brother
Question! I already did do radio silence on him for about one whole week and he reached out to me because I'm assuming he couldn't handle the fact that I was going silent on him. Should I respond or continue to stay in no contact for at least 6 weeks if I want to try to get him back? I have a very strong feeling that it may be possible to get himm back, that's why im asking.
Thank you so much for sharing this with me.
I have a much better understanding of your situation, and I wanted to ask you what do YOU want to do next?
By the way, I think that the best thing will be for us to get on a private 1-on-1 Video call where we can unpack this and I can give you further the support and guidance that you need because it will be very challenging for me to explain everything and be clear in an email.
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Does it work if he is with somebody else?
Worked for me
How long did that take for you?
Very good advice. I have been steadfast in not contacting my ex but I'm still guilty of social media stalking. I don't even want her back so I don't know why I do it. It's just habit at this point, like checking facebook. I hate facebook, but I still check it once a day for some reason I can't figure out haha
lol. Same. I use an anonymous IG viewer. My ex now mainly only posts stories..when we dated he posted more actual posts that can’t be tracked, but I also never looked at his stuff ever. Last week he posted a pic saying sorry for the distance, he’s been barely existing. Then two days later text me apologizing for just now responding to me after 3 months but never addressing anything I said in my text. Smh. The fear avoidants have is debilitating. I refuse to engage in this childish nonsense. (Other than lurking lmao)
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Paz, does this video apply if they monkey branched me?
Unless your ex is a narcissist. Which means if she broke upnwith you she has already another supply.
She will nit give a f.. for no contact. Thusnis what she wants. That's why she broke up with you in a so ugly way. By the time you gather your pieces she will have created time and space .
Wrong. Narcissists don't know themselves as a result never know exactly what they want. I've been down this road. They break up & a while later they come back for round 2 or 3 or 4 if you let them. You have no idea!
What should I do in the event my ex is watching my social media? Should I full throttle block him?
I look forward to watching your video. It would behoove you to put on a shirt. You'd appear more credible and dignified, brother.
Great content. Were you in the Israeli army?
Yes, I am my dear friend!
And fading affect bias.
How do you do this when she is my neighbor?
I have the same problem , my ex is my neighbor.
This makes 3 ... it can work but you gotta even avoid them when you can... trust me, they'll get the message
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What’s your advice if you share two little kids?
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But would they even care if you’re gone out of their world when they already have someone else
It depends. NC and RS are intended to fix a good relationship when the couples broke up due to insubstantial causes. If the ex joined another person there is no need for their return , even if they change their mind.
I'd let it go. Focus on having a full, significant life. Turn your heart to Christ.
If she’s watching my stories on fb after six months can I go radio silent now and see what happens or is it too late?
Help me out here- how do you know she's watching your FB stories? Facebook is designed so no one, ever can see who is looking at their profile or posts. Not even with any kind of 3rd party software. I shouldn't be looking at her profile but I do.
@@SCnative64 she told me and also you can see it shows in the bottom left corner.
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