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Sir aur un parents ko kya bologe, jo bdi bhu se toh sb karate h, ek din late nhi hona kitchen Mein nd all, ye lunch nhi bnaegi toh kheer tut jaega, inspite of being educated, Saas bimari se nhi uth rae, agli bcha bhi dekhe ghar bhi, pti family business seriously krta h....... Aur fir chota beta, jo already jail vel sb dikha chuka maa Baap ko, love marriage kre zabardasti vo bhi Baap k paiso se, uski biwi toh jaegi job pe... Ab Saas ki bimari bhi thek ho gyi eska bcha palne k liye, ab kitchen Mein Bhi kaam krti h....
सबसे ज़्यादा ज़हरीली शादी होती है जब आप ख़ुद के zodiac से दूसरे या आठवें zodiac से शादी करते हो(if you are leo then getting married to Virgo or pieces)। घना ज़हर फैलता है।ख़ुद के zodiac या सातवें zodiac से शादी में chemistry बेस्ट है।
@@Mathretaledvideos Most overt abuse cases are by men. Most covert abuse cases are by women. But there are exceptions on both sides. While most abusers are men, women abusers are slowly on the rise because of generations of repressed anger towards men.
Main main reasons for Kaleshhh turning to divorce!! 1 differences in Kitchen Rules and regulations 2. mothers wives insecurities MIL controlling son 3. Tana marna 4. Wives not understanding or taking responsibilities 5. No passion between couple 6. Money issues 7-- main reason not using brains / intellect to find and implement solution emotions ke chakkar main
5 Reasons! 5) Infidelity - Extra Marital affair of some other partner. 4) Saas Bahu Ke Issues- Both are not happy with each other. 3) Failure of a man to adjust to a wife which has got a mind of her own. 2) Normalization of Divorce. The girl after divorce is more desirable for marriage than a man. 1) Money Issues! - There are insecurities, fear in a women. 50% marriages are breaking due to money. Have the courage to talk about money issues even before marriage.
first issue should be infidelity, because I have seen this so much where i live and this happens in perfectly healthy marriage with kids. Like my father did this because he is an asshole
My marriage is dead no chance of improvement now..... Still carrying the burden from 20 years...😢 Divorcing.... Is not a solution for me....it will worsen my life
As a matrimonial lawyer i can cinfirm that each and every word of this video is true and currently playing in the society. Apart from that penetration of western culture is also a major reason.
@sowjanyap5827 Nobody has to TELL Me. Visit Chennai, Bangalore, Coimbatore and see for yourself how and where most of the parents are living. They seem to be better off than being with their children
Just like divorces are normalised these, in future living separate or living without marriage will be normalised.. as percentage of singles n happy persons is increasing...
DP... Very practical and eye opening videos..We get a closer view of what all is, happening in society through your videos...Atleast you're talking about such taboo topics as well..That too free..lot of appreciation for that👏👏👏. Thanks a lot Sir👍
Money can be a reason for divorces, but now that many women are financially independent they fulfill their materialistic desires by themselves and also contribute to household expenses. The problem that I am seeing among my female peers is that we are physically, mentally and emotionally drained out by trying to balance between career, motherhood and household chores. We are expected to excel everywhere with no appreciation or empathy by our partners or any other family members.
Im happy that people r taking divorce instead of rotting in name of sanskars. Infedility n creepiness is something that cant b tolerated. N infedility has always been high. N yes girl emotions n needs n respect r totally ignored. Insecure men cant stand strong women.
Sir ...The most main Reason of divorce now days is Financial issues or low earning of Husband and Dominating nature of Husband or wife and also Long term relationship is a reason, Infedility, Sexual Unsatisfaction, Lack of Children etc.
Sir my husband abandoned me with newborn for his parents….. He sent notice within 3 months and bribed judges to get divorce judgement without giving me any alimony…. He did not visit even one day to see his son and my son is now 8 years …. He is business man in Dubai and his parents and also his sister with her husband live with him
Genuine advice, even if you're someone who's liberal and don't care 100 men, maybe more went through her before, never marry/date someone who wasn't 2-3 years off from her last relation. Unless you think you can deal with with baggage from her past relation and ruin your mental health trying to fix her.
Wo actual % se batate hai ye apka prospective se nhi bata sakte jo maximum divorce reason wo handle karte hai yaa dekhte hai use bata rahe….go nd check google maximum marriage falling dur to son family interference nt daughter
It's not called controlling. It's her telling her daughter that she doesn't have to put up with abuse by her in-laws. It's the ego of man and his family that they are "ladke wale"
@@NikhilDixitMusic nope. I am absolutely right. In a patriarchal society, where most power lies with men, it's natural for women to resort to other ways to assert their own dominance. Human beings have a tendency to take others for granted. If a wife is good, she is being taken granted by her in-laws. If the in-laws are good, then the daughter in law takes them for granted. The same goes for husband and wife. Women were abused a lot in their in-laws families. The parents of girls back then just asked them to put up with abuse. Now they don't. It's pretty simple.
I think if there is great rapport between husband and wife, there is love and respect between them, then no saas, no money matters. Understanding, love and respect is a must between partners. And this comes with open communication. Lack of communication related to expectations, real life goals, mutual emotional and physical needs leads to all problems. No female would want to ruin her relation because of saas or money and no male would like to divorce his partner for petty matters. It is the problem between the partners which gets reflected in other areas and leads to complications.
How will that rapport begin? It'll start when both do things which others appreciate, it should start small and investment increases later on. But patience is important for that
A Big DP, DP, DP, DP, DP, 🙏🙏🙏-----only thing in this video that if Possible you could have elaborated that in the 5th reason, when you said that when there is an extra marital affair the marriage is already dead means it has gone through certain stages n then extramarital affairs starts. But I feel it's not always the case---sometimes it starts very early in marriage n sometimes after having kids, so I would be very pleased if you could explain the last point in detail in some other video during similar discussion . I wanted to hear more. N in between this video I laughter my heart out during some comment like maa ko rent me bagal vali flat me rakh kar seva ho jati . 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽💜💜
@@skalrask8097if there are children in first marriage, then they have to stay in touch . If there are no children and still staying in touch , that’s cheating
Thank you Sir for wonderful video. I would like to tell you about one more reason about Divorce, " Husband doesn't want to be emotionally invested for his wife. Doesn't see problems happening with in-laws with Girls perspective. "
@@sanskritiverma8010ine. Quote a monthly budget that you might seek in your man. That information is valuable and helpful. Isn't it? Do u intend to be a housewife and depend fully on the man. In that case will u take over full household chores like olden days?
Sango ji,,,One of the Major reasons for breakdown of marriage is if ONE PARTNER takes a unilateral decision to not have children.... without the consent of the other partner.
I think ,if both the spouse have mutual respect and 'friendship' b/w them, they can sail through money and family issues ( been there and survived them together)
What is wrong in divorce? If marriage doesnt work out, divorce and move on...better than dying slowly in a toxic relationship! Wish there was a way to "divorce" toxic parents and siblings too!
@@manikyum what do u mean keep divorcing?? its not a hobby. Read my comment properly, if marriage turns toxic then only divorce. Marriage doesnt mean u r trapped for life in some prison.
I like your thought process very much and appreciate also I want to add sonething on *parents of the boy should be looked after by the daughter in law*. Here we forget that the parents of the girl are also living alone 100% if they have only one/many daughter/s. At that time nobody cares or thinks of them. I always think that borh set of parents should live some what at a distance from the first day of marriage. Let the couple adjust themselves. If they ask for advice then only both inlaws sets should give advice and not interfere in any other case. The parents of a boy should be ready now to live away from their son like the daughter's parents. So that many issues would not even arise. (4rh reason according to you). If you want your son / daughter's happiness don't meddle into their affairs at all. Also there are some other things which I have followed but can't say here because of lack of space.
@@manikyum his mother she interfered alot between us n finance problem he was at a good position job but his family was poor so all his salary went for them n we were left with nothing in hand also I was a non working women then so the problems aggravated
@@shikha4466 Deep inside you wanted to stay or leave? Couldn't you two have sat and figured something out? Like waiting for sometime till situation improves.
Oh pls, extramarital affair is definitely NOT only 5% of marriages. It's way more than that. At least above 50% from what I have observed. Most of them don't know (as you know someone is a cheater only when he/ she gets caught). And the rest know about their spouse's affair, but are not bold enough to end the marriage because of kids or other reasons.
Same case meri marriage mein b tha when i got married i was having my own strong opinion for everything and my hubby wants to control me that was a reason of so many disputes
Sir , plz make more videos on all aspects of ground realities .You dont know but you are changing the old mindsets . New generation needs such precious advises for a better life .
Very perfect analysis... Guruji, one out of the box suggesation with regards to Indian marriage system.... In india parents invite relatives and others for their sons and daughters marraige.... This is flawed system and set wrong narrative right from the start till the end... Iske karan iski kimat sabko chukani padti hai, visheshkar husband wife ko.... So going forward, man who is not a boy anymore and woman who is not a girl anymore should jointly take control of their lives and furthermore send marriage invitation to whosoever they want to including their respective parents and relatives... Parents should not be sending marriage invitation of their kids to relatives and friends anymore.... This single thing can change whole game altogether.... No more farmaeshi programs from either side leading to conflicts and ultimate collapse.
It is said that money cannot buy happiness, I say money buys you (almost) everything and solves 99% of issues. Request 🙏🏻 to all women please don't give up careers and jobs and dreams and money.
You are correct fr the 1st reason. But divorce is not only 50% fr money,its more than 75%. Now everyone wants money to enjoy life. Though both partners are good earners still they do not want to take responsibility of their parents or younger siblings 😢
DP Apart from money there are. two more prime factors for div. One is sex /physical incompatibility nd second is certain facts are supress from either sides at the time of marriage.
Money is an important issue in marriage but not always, for example, we are financially quite well off but my MIL still wanted us to live with her forever...coz she was afraid of losing control over her son. Its about control of power...i feel saas bahu or joint family is the biggest reason for divorce.
@@abhishekverma4561 pehle aur bhi bohut galat cheezen hoti thi... Jaise sati, ya female infanticide etc iska matlab ye nhn ke aage bhi hoti rahe. Ye tumhara bohut weak argument hai... People need to change with time and accept equality. Agar joint family se itna pyar hai toh tum jaake apni biwi ki maaike me kyon nhn rehte?
@@RR-kl5ht Aapne mera point galat way me liya... mera matlab ye hai ki hum pehle se hi mindset bana chuke hai ki joint families me problem hongi... samay ke saath badlna chahiye ye bhi jaroori hai... log apni zindagi me kam se kam log chahte... akele rehna pasand kar rahe hai .. isme in-laws ke yaha rehne ka point hi nahi hai...
@@abhishekverma4561 toh tumhari point kya thi? Joint family ka matlab aur kya hota hai? Chacha chachi mama mami ke saath rehna? Saara desh jaanta hai relatives ke saath rehne se kitne issues hote hai. . Isme mindset ki kya baate hai.. It's a fact. Similarly in-laws ke saath rehne se bhi maximum problems hote hai... Aur ye cheez sirf ladki se kyon expect ki jaato hai? Ladke bacche hai kya... Woh bhi ladki ki family me reh sakte hai na?
@@RR-kl5ht sati, female infanticide ka joint family se kya relation hai?? Stay on cource and don't get deviated from the topic. Joint family is good. Only issue comes when wife is controlling. She won't be able to adjust
Sir, after every video of yours, my respect for you increases. Seriously, every word you say is so true. 💯 money is the biggest problem for a failed marriage. DP
Another reason is rise in psychological and mental health issues among youth. A large number of young population today is suffering this and sometimes they hide it at the time of marriage amounting to fraud.
Namaste sir.. aapki govt services ki barikyan batane wali video se I got stuck to your channel as everything you said was deeply true and can be fully appreciated by someone who is already in it. Since then, all day long, I have been watching your videos only. In case of marital series, I have two questions to ask sir: First, Should one be marrying someone within profession or outside? Own profession (PSBank) looks toxic and ham khud hi bahar nikalne ke raste khoj rahe (but can't say about future) but then dusre profession ka vyakti problems samajh nahi paega. But then thode time bad to job leave hi karni h 😬 so is it better to choose someone jiske sath thinking zada match kare goals and cheezo ko lekar. Sath me dono kuch kar sake but then ye sare thoughts khyali pulao to nahi?! Second: Isn't a delayed marriage in today's complex world better than divorces? My mother pesters for marriage but somewhere understands that you cannot study or do things with that vigour or focus after marriage. Priorities have to be changed and it is a big task. Shadi se pahle jo kar liya kar liya. And that will become your base. Looks anyway doesn't matter beyond a point and life has to be spent with a man and not a boy. Delayed marriage me atleast both persons are more matured and a better version of themselves. Before marrying, they are better able to gauge and discuss the real things that can matter. It may be less of teenage love and excitement etc but atleast more understanding, more practical and less eronneous. Bachhe 4 5 sal bad paida ho gae to zada issue nai h, atleast they will have better traits and better atmosphere to live in. Itna antar ho jaega ki friends ke bacche 7 sal ke hain and hamare 2 sal ke. Looking forward to your perspective on these issues 🙏🙏
Mere pados me almost 8+ marriage tut chuki h... Aur lggbhg hrr jagah...ego issue tha...kuch jagah ldki ka.. Kuch jagah ldk ka.. But 8 me...1-2 jagah ki ldk ka issue tha... Baaki 6 jagah ldkio ka tha... Isliye ab mujhe khud drr...lgta h
Are you okay if your wife does the same with you? Hide things which she likes to do but you particularly dislike her doing so? Think and answer this question for yourself.
Sir kuch saas aisi bhi hoti hai jo pass Wale Ghar nahi agar saat samundar paar bhi baithae bahu ke ghar main zehar gholti rehti hain... Itni dangerous hoti hai saas ..
BC no 1 reason Maine Sahi guess kiya tha. Mujhe Pehle lagta tha ki main duniya se alag sochta hoon. Lekin aapke videos Dekh ke mujhe lagta hai ki main bilkul normal aur practical sochta hoon.
You explain in your own style making grave matters sound simple. 😊There are no divorces in my or my greater family so the thought to get divorced does not come easily. But when men think their wife and all she earns is his property, problem starts. He will not look after 2 sets of parents. So surely as working she will take care of her parents as a duty.That should be accepted.
Strong independent Feminazis are going to get really pissed off by this. But I 100% agree with sir. Absolutely true. I am also a man with less income and I have decided that I will never marry till I get rich enough. If that's not going to happen I will die single. DP
Mat karo bhai aur mera ghar bhara hua h examples se women earning more then men.....with sustainable marriage.....aur jitne marriages kharab h mere khandan mei woh sab non working women h victim of domestic violence during pregnancy n stuff. Mat kar achha hi h marriage market se kachra khud hi saaf hojayega toh achha ladka dhoondhna easy hogi
@@ankitamishra0405 Toh mujhe kya bta rahi ho behen. Jisse shadi karna hai karo. Waise mujhe lgta nhi ki tumhe shaadi karne ke liye kachre ke alawa kuch milega.😂🤡 I wish you good luck and happy kachra life. Khush raho apne kam income wale gareeb pati ke saath. 😂
sir u didn't put much emphasis on saas-bahu point. I see wife struggling to cope up with her in laws exploitation for years and expects her husband to save her which is absolutely right. otherwise who else she can go to in that family assuming her own parents no more want to entertain her and see her as a burden. That helpless woman is living for years with that grieving heart of her where her husband is still not available emotionally and rather tries to prove his innocence and provides fake assurance to not let things repeat again. Here husband is the culprit and divorce should happen asap as the kids are suffering mentally and turning into a traumatized soul everyday. There is no future for such a family.
Good Day Sir. I thoroughly enjoy your insightful videos. However they are all delivered in Hindi. Do you have any in English so that your message can be delivered globally. Not many youngsters born overseas can understand Hindi. Please advice.
Sir, thanks for amazing content. You said money is top reason for divorce. Sir i have a doubt regarding marriage. What I have understood that marriage is based on money and physical relationship. In my view both money and human body are extremely transitory especially in age when diabetes and heart attacks are occuring in 30s and 40s. So how can marriage based on transitory elements can last for one lifetime in current era. Kindly enlighten.
Dp... Mere husband mujhe Job chhodne k liye pressure karte the...mai job nhi chhodi to ab divorce dene Jaa rhe hai .... mutual divorce dene k liye pressure de rhe hai.... mujhe ghar se nikal dia hai 7 month se akele reh rhi hu
Rightly said about first reason . Mother in law takes it for granted that if her husbad does she will live with her son . But when the daughter in law's father dies then her mother cannot live with the daughter . Why such discrimination ? And i have seen the brothers of the husband accusing the mother of such daughter in law as to why is the mother living in the house . In fact when their iwn mother went to stay with them they themselves could not adjust even for a year .
Should we marry a single mother if we are in a relationship and we love each other but i am unmarried and she has two daughters so please suggest us what should we do??
Sir I have an issue with you that you talk mostly about elite and high class society, where there problems are not whole india problems. Yes it is true that north India people like delhi , Punjab Haryana and Western up have some urban mentalities but their mentality is not about the whole india. These parts which i mentioned have high trend of feminism, modernisation, alcoholism, nuclear family, little bit racism towards lower class peope, and English obsession culture but their shitty issue is not the matter of concern for whole india. So my suggestion is to please bring the issues which are facing normal people who are earning 20k-50k because they are in the majority. Sir you are doing great because you bring the light on the social areas where most consultants never ever talk.
Sir,i have faced lots of issues,he is not settled and his age is 43,i helped him from everyside but he don't look serious,and i have problems of intimacy too......
DP, social media addiction among women, buying useless things among women and infertility due to pornography among men is also a very big reason for divorces these days.
Pornography & Prostitution cause indefinitely not infertility. But no women right activists will stop it but will do march for maintenance and property rights. hypocrisy of high class women
A man without options is slaves of his circumstances.a women can leave u at any moment of ur life .if you think thumari wife achi hai , just wait for some hard day .they will leave like super jet .😂
ab tumhari family ki ladkiya aise hai to hum kya kare humari to wife acchi hi hai 0 se shuru kia tha unke sath aaj 8 saal ho gaye happy relationship hai 2 son bhi hain rista na chalne mein dono ki galti hoti hai sirf 1 ki nhi
I don't agree that lack of proper supply of money is the top reason for divorces. If it is so in America everyone have lots of money, why is that there is 60% of marriages end in divorces there? Actually lack of family values and lack of patience and tolerance is the top reason for divorces everywhere in world, whether it is India or America. This is my opinion. Please let me know if it is correct or not.🙏
One more thing to add You always say stay away from parents when it is your marriage is new. You always give example of families where both parents are alive. What to do if only one parent is there like only mother or only father and son is the only son. We cant leave mother alone.
Jab tak hum marriage ko saat janm ka rishta mante rahenge yehi hoga. Divorce law ko easy banay jay. Bharat me 90 percent bimariyan ka karan loveless marriage ko kheench a hai.Husband aur wife andar hi andar suffocate hote hain lekin parampara ke naam par isko dhoye ja rahe hain.
@@varunmittal3617 hamse lakh Guna behtar hai. Hum kyon sabhi bimarriyon me top par hai. Statistics dekh len. Chahe diabetes ho ya cancer etc. Hamara to culture bahut achha hai na. Vishwa guru hai hum. Aur hamare log kyon vahan bhagte hain acchi naukri aur research ke liye. Main ye nahi kah Raha hun ki divorce accha hai lekin Mera ye kahna hai ki loveless marriage jo samaj ko dikhane ke liye kheenchte hai vo bahut badi frustration aur bimarriyon ka karan hai. Videsh me sab kuch accha nahi hai lekin vo hamse relationship ship ko lekar jyada honest hain. By the way porn dekhne me india world ke chauthe number par aata hai. Ye hamare sexual frustration ko darshata hai. Bhartiya sanskriti ka sayyam aur videshi sanskriti ki imandari dono jaroori hai. Is par koi baat nahi karna chahta nahi to charitraheen ka label lag jayega lekin chupke chupke sab chalta hai hamare samaj me.
@@salaar75 bilkul. Bhartiya sanskriti ka niyam samyam jaroori hai tanavvbhare vivah ko sirf samaj ke liye banaye rakhna Kahan Tak uchit hai. Ye bahut badi bimari aur urja ko kheechne vala karan hai jiski taraf sochna hoga. Sirf Bhartiya sanskriti ke naam par samajik vishayon par naye tarike se na soche ye theek nahi. Sanatan dharm beshak sabse uttam hai lekin sanskriti badalti rahati hai hamne sanskriti ko hi dharm liya hai.
@sangolifesutras sir, many times it is also male egos and chauvinism. An acquaintance was once going through a divorce when well-wishers suggested the same thing… to have parents live in a separate house nearby. The man’s response was: If I give in to this “demand” now, there will be more demands from his wife that he will need to give into in the future. He does not want to compromise in that way, so he wants to get divorced.
One advice to all men who are searching for their better half - if you are getting a girl who is earning more than you, make her preference for marriage. I bet you initially you might feel uncomfortable, but later you won't feel any issues.
So sorry to disagree with you, Sir. There are men who enjoy their wifes money along with their parents but are still not satisfied. Inferiority complex needs to be considered at this stage. But yes whosoever is intelligent will definitely have a good life if wife is earning more 😊
@@mbmb7521 I agree with you. There are men like this. But these types of guys are not subscribers of this channel and I am not addressing them. Sango ji never appreciates dowry and those types of things. The point which I want to convey is in today's world if a girl is earning more and ready to marry a guy who is earning less than her, how much value she finds in him. The men which I am addressing, they also should not be greedy like how they are shown in movies. Men should also respect how girls are valuing them as a person. Initially if they are settled in this bar, they won't face any big issues for most of the cases.
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Sir aur un parents ko kya bologe, jo bdi bhu se toh sb karate h, ek din late nhi hona kitchen Mein nd all, ye lunch nhi bnaegi toh kheer tut jaega, inspite of being educated, Saas bimari se nhi uth rae, agli bcha bhi dekhe ghar bhi, pti family business seriously krta h....... Aur fir chota beta, jo already jail vel sb dikha chuka maa Baap ko, love marriage kre zabardasti vo bhi Baap k paiso se, uski biwi toh jaegi job pe... Ab Saas ki bimari bhi thek ho gyi eska bcha palne k liye, ab kitchen Mein Bhi kaam krti h....
Meri to acchi income bhi hai, ek hi sahar me rehte hue maa papa se alag bhi rehna pada. For bhi divorce hua.
@@biks.1 bura hua bro..
...apna kaam kar, bhagwan mat ban...tu real estate pe hi video bana...tere bas ki nai hai
सबसे ज़्यादा ज़हरीली शादी होती है जब आप ख़ुद के zodiac से दूसरे या आठवें zodiac से शादी करते हो(if you are leo then getting married to Virgo or pieces)। घना ज़हर फैलता है।ख़ुद के zodiac या सातवें zodiac से शादी में chemistry बेस्ट है।
Marriage is a holy concept so divorce is not right . So think 100 times before marrying as a man . Rather stay single and enjoy life .
What about sex😂
Sirji, you have left out a very very important reason. *Abuse*
Abuse of all kinds - emotional, mental, sexual, physical, financial
Correct... it arises wen man feels he cant control the woman
@@Mathretaledvideos Most overt abuse cases are by men. Most covert abuse cases are by women.
But there are exceptions on both sides.
While most abusers are men, women abusers are slowly on the rise because of generations of repressed anger towards men.
वॉयलेंस मैटर नहीं करता इनको according
@@IamSoangelic Sango Sirji hasn't said so anywhere. It maybe just that he has left out mental health issues....
I think most abuse happened in lower middle class and wife dependent on husband so divorce not happen s most of the time
Money solves 99.9 percent problems 😅
Shut up
1 second m video khtm kr dia 😂
Well said
@@modellocomotiveworks2215
Bollywood celebrities Mouz masti k liye
Correct
Main main reasons for Kaleshhh turning to divorce!!
1 differences in Kitchen Rules and regulations
2. mothers wives insecurities MIL controlling son
3. Tana marna
4. Wives not understanding or taking responsibilities
5. No passion between couple
6. Money issues
7-- main reason not using brains / intellect to find and implement solution emotions ke chakkar main
5 Reasons!
5) Infidelity - Extra Marital affair of some other partner.
4) Saas Bahu Ke Issues- Both are not happy with each other.
3) Failure of a man to adjust to a wife which has got a mind of her own.
2) Normalization of Divorce. The girl after divorce is more desirable for marriage than a man.
1) Money Issues! - There are insecurities, fear in a women. 50% marriages are breaking due to money. Have the courage to talk about money issues even before marriage.
thank you for summary
#5 is becoming common these days due to Western culture 😢
@@kavitathakur2223 it's opposite, wives are not spending. They want their husband to spend all.
You saved my time
first issue should be infidelity, because I have seen this so much where i live and this happens in perfectly healthy marriage with kids. Like my father did this because he is an asshole
My marriage is dead no chance of improvement now.....
Still carrying the burden from 20 years...😢 Divorcing.... Is not a solution for me....it will worsen my life
As a matrimonial lawyer i can cinfirm that each and every word of this video is true and currently playing in the society. Apart from that penetration of western culture is also a major reason.
Sir kya aap mujhe guide kar sakte hai
@@Iamsmitasharma regarding?
@@advocatesharma5670 फैमिली इश्यू
In South most of the inlaws live in senior citizen's home. Only some live with their children.
@sowjanyap5827 Nobody has to TELL Me. Visit Chennai, Bangalore, Coimbatore and see for yourself how and where most of the parents are living. They seem to be better off than being with their children
Just like divorces are normalised these, in future living separate or living without marriage will be normalised.. as percentage of singles n happy persons is increasing...
He blindly advocates marriage system without considering the fact that marriage is a personal choice & does not guarantee happiness
Yes👍🏽
That will be Great Time in Future
unless we take women's rights away
True 💯💯 being unmarried is normal nowadays but society and people should understand this
DP... Very practical and eye opening videos..We get a closer view of what all is, happening in society through your videos...Atleast you're talking about such taboo topics as well..That too free..lot of appreciation for that👏👏👏. Thanks a lot Sir👍
Money can be a reason for divorces, but now that many women are financially independent they fulfill their materialistic desires by themselves and also contribute to household expenses. The problem that I am seeing among my female peers is that we are physically, mentally and emotionally drained out by trying to balance between career, motherhood and household chores.
We are expected to excel everywhere with no appreciation or empathy by our partners or any other family members.
Ditto
@pooja absolutely right. He hasn't even addressed that issue.
Yes
If wife has someone (bf) in her heart and couldn't get away from it after marriage then who is right in this situation...
Im happy that people r taking divorce instead of rotting in name of sanskars. Infedility n creepiness is something that cant b tolerated. N infedility has always been high. N yes girl emotions n needs n respect r totally ignored. Insecure men cant stand strong women.
Sir ...The most main Reason of divorce now days is Financial issues or low earning of Husband and Dominating nature of Husband or wife and also Long term relationship is a reason, Infedility, Sexual Unsatisfaction, Lack of Children etc.
DP....we handle family court matters. Your practical discussions on intricate issues are very informative and inspiring too. Regards. 😊
DP
@@Parth_k92 @sangolifesutras DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP
You are absolutely right sir...money problem is the main problem behind disputes in marriages ❤❤❤
Sirji gaanv mein jakar dekhiye wahan divorce rate jayada h wo panchayat se kar lete hn to count ni hota
Sachmei?
Sir my husband abandoned me with newborn for his parents….. He sent notice within 3 months and bribed judges to get divorce judgement without giving me any alimony…. He did not visit even one day to see his son and my son is now 8 years …. He is business man in Dubai and his parents and also his sister with her husband live with him
Ur husband did the right thing with u
@@Ashleysarash yeah …. Let this right thing as you said happen will all the females in your family
Any perticular reason ??
@@Ashleysarashhow can you even say this to any woman 😮😮😮
What about gf_bf system.. Multiple partner before marriage
shaadi hi nhi krte log agar multiple partners hote h past mai
Genuine advice, even if you're someone who's liberal and don't care 100 men, maybe more went through her before, never marry/date someone who wasn't 2-3 years off from her last relation. Unless you think you can deal with with baggage from her past relation and ruin your mental health trying to fix her.
characterless ladki/ladko se shaadi hi nhi karni chahiye,
Interference of girl's parents on daily basis is a majorvreason which you have missed.
Correct in parallel universe.
what about interference of boys parents on hourly basis??
Wo actual % se batate hai ye apka prospective se nhi bata sakte jo maximum divorce reason wo handle karte hai yaa dekhte hai use bata rahe….go nd check google maximum marriage falling dur to son family interference nt daughter
@@swethamr87boys parents live with the couple so they have the right to speak on a regular basis.
Absolutely right.. But ldke k parents ko bbi involve nhi hona chahiye unki married life me😊
I agree with your 1st point. I saw one of my relative getting divorced because he cannot afford to stay separate
Real truth is that more more expectations in our life which is directly connected with money, is the main reason of divorce.
गाँव मे एक बड़ा कारण शराब भी है.. आधे से ज्यादा घर बरबाद है.. जहाँ आदमी शराब पी कर अपनी wife ko abuse krta h
Happily married for 4 years , and taking notes Sir. Thank you for your insights Sir🙏🙏
No need to mention here..
Kahi nazar na lag jaaye😮
The way you have change the word from control to adjust 😂 says everything
You missed - wife's mother interfering and teaching wife control tactics. Most lawyers know.
Exactly. One of the major reasons.
This is very real
It's not called controlling. It's her telling her daughter that she doesn't have to put up with abuse by her in-laws. It's the ego of man and his family that they are "ladke wale"
@@archiem654 you’re absolutely wrong pal.
@@NikhilDixitMusic nope. I am absolutely right. In a patriarchal society, where most power lies with men, it's natural for women to resort to other ways to assert their own dominance. Human beings have a tendency to take others for granted. If a wife is good, she is being taken granted by her in-laws. If the in-laws are good, then the daughter in law takes them for granted. The same goes for husband and wife. Women were abused a lot in their in-laws families. The parents of girls back then just asked them to put up with abuse. Now they don't. It's pretty simple.
I think if there is great rapport between husband and wife, there is love and respect between them, then no saas, no money matters. Understanding, love and respect is a must between partners. And this comes with open communication. Lack of communication related to expectations, real life goals, mutual emotional and physical needs leads to all problems. No female would want to ruin her relation because of saas or money and no male would like to divorce his partner for petty matters. It is the problem between the partners which gets reflected in other areas and leads to complications.
Aapne ekdum sahi bola Charuji.
Dp
Yes love and respect is a must
Love & respect must dp
How will that rapport begin? It'll start when both do things which others appreciate, it should start small and investment increases later on.
But patience is important for that
A Big DP, DP, DP, DP, DP, 🙏🙏🙏-----only thing in this video that if Possible you could have elaborated that in the 5th reason, when you said that when there is an extra marital affair the marriage is already dead means it has gone through certain stages n then extramarital affairs starts. But I feel it's not always the case---sometimes it starts very early in marriage n sometimes after having kids, so I would be very pleased if you could explain the last point in detail in some other video during similar discussion . I wanted to hear more. N in between this video I laughter my heart out during some comment like maa ko rent me bagal vali flat me rakh kar seva ho jati . 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽💜💜
Sir please make a video about people who are constantly keeping in touch with their ex even after marriage.
Good question!!
haha,,, good one 😄
Yes much needed video I have seen such cases
@@skalrask8097if there are children in first marriage, then they have to stay in touch . If there are no children and still staying in touch , that’s cheating
Thank you Sir for wonderful video. I would like to tell you about one more reason about Divorce, " Husband doesn't want to be emotionally invested for his wife. Doesn't see problems happening with in-laws with Girls perspective. "
99% divorce ka kaaran insecurities hai
💰 money bohut important ha ladies ka liya
@@sanskritiverma8010 toh kamao bsdk
@@sanskritiverma8010hermit like u, what a reply 😂😂
@@sanskritiverma8010ine. Quote a monthly budget that you might seek in your man. That information is valuable and helpful. Isn't it?
Do u intend to be a housewife and depend fully on the man. In that case will u take over full household chores like olden days?
@@sanskritiverma8010 Exactly 😂
Kaam waali Bai chahiye hoti hai inko😂
Sango ji,,,One of the Major reasons for breakdown of marriage is if ONE PARTNER takes a unilateral decision to not have children.... without the consent of the other partner.
I think ,if both the spouse have mutual respect and 'friendship' b/w them, they can sail through money and family issues ( been there and survived them together)
well said
What is wrong in divorce? If marriage doesnt work out, divorce and move on...better than dying slowly in a toxic relationship! Wish there was a way to "divorce" toxic parents and siblings too!
If you want keep divorcing then why are you even marrying
@@manikyum what do u mean keep divorcing?? its not a hobby. Read my comment properly, if marriage turns toxic then only divorce. Marriage doesnt mean u r trapped for life in some prison.
I like your thought process very much and appreciate also I want to add sonething on
*parents of the boy should be looked after by the daughter in law*.
Here we forget that the parents of the girl are also living alone 100% if they have only one/many daughter/s. At that time nobody cares or thinks of them. I always think that borh set of parents should live some what at a distance from the first day of marriage. Let the couple adjust themselves. If they ask for advice then only both inlaws sets should give advice and not interfere in any other case. The parents of a boy should be ready now to live away from their son like the daughter's parents. So that many issues would not even arise. (4rh reason according to you). If you want your son / daughter's happiness don't meddle into their affairs at all. Also there are some other things which I have followed but can't say here because of lack of space.
Truth.....money plays an important role in everybody's life!!
DP... I am also a divorcee and a 30 year old woman all the reasons you have said are 💯 true i have personally faced all this 😢
What was the main reason for your divorce
@@manikyum his mother she interfered alot between us n finance problem he was at a good position job but his family was poor so all his salary went for them n we were left with nothing in hand also I was a non working women then so the problems aggravated
@@shikha4466 Was it your decision to leave or his?
@@manikyum it was his decision first then I also agreed for divorce
@@shikha4466 Deep inside you wanted to stay or leave? Couldn't you two have sat and figured something out? Like waiting for sometime till situation improves.
Pillars for divorce.
1. Finances
2. Addictions
3. Infidelity
4. Family
5. Children
Oh pls, extramarital affair is definitely NOT only 5% of marriages. It's way more than that. At least above 50% from what I have observed. Most of them don't know (as you know someone is a cheater only when he/ she gets caught). And the rest know about their spouse's affair, but are not bold enough to end the marriage because of kids or other reasons.
Above 35 years most of the d females don't have much sexual drive. Hence men may be the reason
Wife doesn't work so can't separate
@@Dee14444yes that's y wife ko sehna padta kutte husband ko
@@sonalverma9490your father is also kutta ?? That means
@@vikasdubey1960yes u r right
Extra marital affair comes when any or more than 4 causes have already exist in a marriage
Same case meri marriage mein b tha when i got married i was having my own strong opinion for everything and my hubby wants to control me that was a reason of so many disputes
Physical incompatability is the 1st reason other reasons can make way due to this reason being affected
Not convinced
U mean sexual compatibility right?
Very important but not not first one
not at all, I and my partner are both asexual yet in a happy marriage from 10+ years
Then everyone should have divorced in elder age
Sir , plz make more videos on all aspects of ground realities .You dont know but you are changing the old mindsets . New generation needs such precious advises for a better life .
Financial issues top reasons for divorce
Very perfect analysis... Guruji, one out of the box suggesation with regards to Indian marriage system.... In india parents invite relatives and others for their sons and daughters marraige.... This is flawed system and set wrong narrative right from the start till the end... Iske karan iski kimat sabko chukani padti hai, visheshkar husband wife ko.... So going forward, man who is not a boy anymore and woman who is not a girl anymore should jointly take control of their lives and furthermore send marriage invitation to whosoever they want to including their respective parents and relatives... Parents should not be sending marriage invitation of their kids to relatives and friends anymore.... This single thing can change whole game altogether.... No more farmaeshi programs from either side leading to conflicts and ultimate collapse.
I decided not to get married in this birth and live with the wisdom of God 🙏
I am happy with whatever I have as a single person
Its not for the faint hearted
Tujh se na ho paayi 😂😂😂😂😂😂 how much i enjoy this dialogue from sir that इ have begun saying it to myself when feeling down😂😂😂😂😂😂
It is said that money cannot buy happiness, I say money buys you (almost) everything and solves 99% of issues. Request 🙏🏻 to all women please don't give up careers and jobs and dreams and money.
DP.. a very much needed video from you sir plz make a video on this topic. 🙏🏻
You are correct fr the 1st reason. But divorce is not only 50% fr money,its more than 75%. Now everyone wants money to enjoy life. Though both partners are good earners still they do not want to take responsibility of their parents or younger siblings 😢
DP Apart from money there are. two more prime factors for div. One is sex /physical incompatibility nd second is certain facts are supress from either sides at the time of marriage.
Exactly ur 2nd point is so true. People hiding things before marriage
Sexual compatibility is not enough. If a men believes in having multiple partners, because hecwants more and more then he will cheat.
👍👍
Top most reason is absolutely correct money is cause of all issues👍
Kitne log dekh rahe hai ye vedio mere tarah jinki shadi nahi hui ...
1st is money, You are absolutely right 👍🏻
Money is an important issue in marriage but not always, for example, we are financially quite well off but my MIL still wanted us to live with her forever...coz she was afraid of losing control over her son. Its about control of power...i feel saas bahu or joint family is the biggest reason for divorce.
pehle bhi to log joint families me nibha rahe the...to ab achanak se kya change ho gaya....
@@abhishekverma4561 pehle aur bhi bohut galat cheezen hoti thi... Jaise sati, ya female infanticide etc iska matlab ye nhn ke aage bhi hoti rahe. Ye tumhara bohut weak argument hai... People need to change with time and accept equality. Agar joint family se itna pyar hai toh tum jaake apni biwi ki maaike me kyon nhn rehte?
@@RR-kl5ht Aapne mera point galat way me liya...
mera matlab ye hai ki hum pehle se hi mindset bana chuke hai ki joint families me problem hongi...
samay ke saath badlna chahiye ye bhi jaroori hai...
log apni zindagi me kam se kam log chahte...
akele rehna pasand kar rahe hai ..
isme in-laws ke yaha rehne ka point hi nahi hai...
@@abhishekverma4561 toh tumhari point kya thi? Joint family ka matlab aur kya hota hai? Chacha chachi mama mami ke saath rehna? Saara desh jaanta hai relatives ke saath rehne se kitne issues hote hai. . Isme mindset ki kya baate hai.. It's a fact. Similarly in-laws ke saath rehne se bhi maximum problems hote hai... Aur ye cheez sirf ladki se kyon expect ki jaato hai? Ladke bacche hai kya... Woh bhi ladki ki family me reh sakte hai na?
@@RR-kl5ht sati, female infanticide ka joint family se kya relation hai?? Stay on cource and don't get deviated from the topic. Joint family is good. Only issue comes when wife is controlling. She won't be able to adjust
100% correct. I am not working now my Husband say he wants separation
How is the love life
Sir, after every video of yours, my respect for you increases. Seriously, every word you say is so true. 💯 money is the biggest problem for a failed marriage. DP
Another reason is rise in psychological and mental health issues among youth. A large number of young population today is suffering this and sometimes they hide it at the time of marriage amounting to fraud.
In villages most people hav extramarital affairs but not taking divorce.
Cities and small towns too!! 👍👍
@@skalrask8097 Exactly! Quality people r less n economic class doesn't matter .
even in villages there are affairs?
Which state villages
@@chaimaxx1642 Ur village n ur grandfather village
Namaste sir.. aapki govt services ki barikyan batane wali video se I got stuck to your channel as everything you said was deeply true and can be fully appreciated by someone who is already in it. Since then, all day long, I have been watching your videos only.
In case of marital series, I have two questions to ask sir:
First, Should one be marrying someone within profession or outside? Own profession (PSBank) looks toxic and ham khud hi bahar nikalne ke raste khoj rahe (but can't say about future) but then dusre profession ka vyakti problems samajh nahi paega. But then thode time bad to job leave hi karni h 😬 so is it better to choose someone jiske sath thinking zada match kare goals and cheezo ko lekar. Sath me dono kuch kar sake but then ye sare thoughts khyali pulao to nahi?!
Second: Isn't a delayed marriage in today's complex world better than divorces? My mother pesters for marriage but somewhere understands that you cannot study or do things with that vigour or focus after marriage. Priorities have to be changed and it is a big task. Shadi se pahle jo kar liya kar liya. And that will become your base. Looks anyway doesn't matter beyond a point and life has to be spent with a man and not a boy. Delayed marriage me atleast both persons are more matured and a better version of themselves. Before marrying, they are better able to gauge and discuss the real things that can matter. It may be less of teenage love and excitement etc but atleast more understanding, more practical and less eronneous. Bachhe 4 5 sal bad paida ho gae to zada issue nai h, atleast they will have better traits and better atmosphere to live in. Itna antar ho jaega ki friends ke bacche 7 sal ke hain and hamare 2 sal ke.
Looking forward to your perspective on these issues 🙏🙏
Understand the opportunity cost. You will conclude everything for you.
Dhamaakedaar mazza Aa Gayaaaaa Guru Ji! 🔥🔥🔥👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻 please make a video on giving top 5 solutions as well 💯
@@Lavanyachawla55 Yes, it’s a per month subscription plan!
Mere pados me almost 8+ marriage tut chuki h...
Aur lggbhg hrr jagah...ego issue tha...kuch jagah ldki ka..
Kuch jagah ldk ka..
But 8 me...1-2 jagah ki ldk ka issue tha...
Baaki 6 jagah ldkio ka tha...
Isliye ab mujhe khud drr...lgta h
Hari Bol
You spoke very nicely
Everything you said is true.
Hari Bol
Hare Krishna
Can we get divorce from our parents and children and siblings?
New topic, Should we disclose everything with wife? Ex. Once in a while social drinking, especially when we know that it will create big issue...
First study what kind of control freak and blackmail tactics ur wife uses love her spend on her but never open ur heart secrets 😊😊
Are you okay if your wife does the same with you? Hide things which she likes to do but you particularly dislike her doing so? Think and answer this question for yourself.
ap sahi kh rhe h sir,apki bat hr kisi ko sunni chahiye.
Sir kuch saas aisi bhi hoti hai jo pass Wale Ghar nahi agar saat samundar paar bhi baithae bahu ke ghar main zehar gholti rehti hain... Itni dangerous hoti hai saas ..
5. Infidelity
4. Saas Bahu issues
3. Failure of a man to control a wife who is strong
2. Normalisation of divorce
1. Money Issues
@@AnuSeetha Oh, sorry. I didn't write it correctly. You are correct. I hope you never get divorced.
Sir meri married life bhi dead hai meri beti mujhe hi blame karti hai plz is topic par video banaye
Next Divorce proof video Guruji .. my friend she is also facing issue due to mil .. hope her marriage is saved
BC no 1 reason Maine Sahi guess kiya tha. Mujhe Pehle lagta tha ki main duniya se alag sochta hoon. Lekin aapke videos Dekh ke mujhe lagta hai ki main bilkul normal aur practical sochta hoon.
Very insightful video sir these issues are prevailing in every family today
I have seen enough videos of yours to know that the content you will give will be A1
You explain in your own style making grave matters sound simple. 😊There are no divorces in my or my greater family so the thought to get divorced does not come easily. But when men think their wife and all she earns is his property, problem starts. He will not look after 2 sets of parents. So surely as working she will take care of her parents as a duty.That should be accepted.
Strong independent Feminazis are going to get really pissed off by this. But I 100% agree with sir. Absolutely true. I am also a man with less income and I have decided that I will never marry till I get rich enough. If that's not going to happen I will die single. DP
why do u have a problem with strong independent women that u call them feminazis?? do u want women to be weak and dependent??
Mat karo bhai aur mera ghar bhara hua h examples se women earning more then men.....with sustainable marriage.....aur jitne marriages kharab h mere khandan mei woh sab non working women h victim of domestic violence during pregnancy n stuff.
Mat kar achha hi h marriage market se kachra khud hi saaf hojayega toh achha ladka dhoondhna easy hogi
@@ankitamishra0405 Toh mujhe kya bta rahi ho behen. Jisse shadi karna hai karo. Waise mujhe lgta nhi ki tumhe shaadi karne ke liye kachre ke alawa kuch milega.😂🤡 I wish you good luck and happy kachra life. Khush raho apne kam income wale gareeb pati ke saath. 😂
Definitely need Divorce Proof video as well sir, please! DP
sir u didn't put much emphasis on saas-bahu point. I see wife struggling to cope up with her in laws exploitation for years and expects her husband to save her which is absolutely right. otherwise who else she can go to in that family assuming her own parents no more want to entertain her and see her as a burden. That helpless woman is living for years with that grieving heart of her where her husband is still not available emotionally and rather tries to prove his innocence and provides fake assurance to not let things repeat again. Here husband is the culprit and divorce should happen asap as the kids are suffering mentally and turning into a traumatized soul everyday. There is no future for such a family.
Same thing happened with my mom. My dad never stood up for her. Now I am not just judging the guy ,but also his parents when coming for proposals.
Good Day Sir. I thoroughly enjoy your insightful videos. However they are all delivered in Hindi. Do you have any in English so that your message can be delivered globally. Not many youngsters born overseas can understand Hindi. Please advice.
Sab kuch sambhav ho jata man nahi ghabrata very true😂😂😂 very nice sir jii
Sir, thanks for amazing content. You said money is top reason for divorce. Sir i have a doubt regarding marriage. What I have understood that marriage is based on money and physical relationship. In my view both money and human body are extremely transitory especially in age when diabetes and heart attacks are occuring in 30s and 40s. So how can marriage based on transitory elements can last for one lifetime in current era. Kindly enlighten.
Nice question
Dp...
Mere husband mujhe Job chhodne k liye pressure karte the...mai job nhi chhodi to ab divorce dene Jaa rhe hai .... mutual divorce dene k liye pressure de rhe hai.... mujhe ghar se nikal dia hai 7 month se akele reh rhi hu
So sweet 😂Sangwanji and so true at 11:37
Every man become like Ambani. Then man can get marry. Today extra material affairs is common in every family. Today femal ratio is highest.
Rightly said about first reason . Mother in law takes it for granted that if her husbad does she will live with her son . But when the daughter in law's father dies then her mother cannot live with the daughter . Why such discrimination ? And i have seen the brothers of the husband accusing the mother of such daughter in law as to why is the mother living in the house . In fact when their iwn mother went to stay with them they themselves could not adjust even for a year .
Sir , latest reason is not interference of parents of husband but parents of wife .
Really, what about Husbands parents especially Mother in law. Vo Devi Mata hoti hai kya❓❓❓❓❓
D.P
Salute to you, about tell the truth about divorce in marriage.
Thanks you
Money k ilawa bhi is a big issue more than money is lack of intimacy among partners, sexual life is zero in urban areas
100%
Should we marry a single mother if we are in a relationship and we love each other but i am unmarried and she has two daughters so please suggest us what should we do??
Sir I have an issue with you that you talk mostly about elite and high class society, where there problems are not whole india problems. Yes it is true that north India people like delhi , Punjab Haryana and Western up have some urban mentalities but their mentality is not about the whole india. These parts which i mentioned have high trend of feminism, modernisation, alcoholism, nuclear family, little bit racism towards lower class peope, and English obsession culture but their shitty issue is not the matter of concern for whole india. So my suggestion is to please bring the issues which are facing normal people who are earning 20k-50k because they are in the majority. Sir you are doing great because you bring the light on the social areas where most consultants never ever talk.
Echo the same. Thanks for bringing this up.
Sir,i have faced lots of issues,he is not settled and his age is 43,i helped him from everyside but he don't look serious,and i have problems of intimacy too......
DP, social media addiction among women, buying useless things among women and infertility due to pornography among men is also a very big reason for divorces these days.
Pornography & Prostitution cause indefinitely not infertility. But no women right activists will stop it but will do march for maintenance and property rights. hypocrisy of high class women
Social media from both sides many males spent all time of house on social media
Money issues sir you are definitely right, only from the perspective of either side, w or H.
A man without options is slaves of his circumstances.a women can leave u at any moment of ur life .if you think thumari wife achi hai , just wait for some hard day .they will leave like super jet .😂
ab tumhari family ki ladkiya aise hai to hum kya kare humari to wife acchi hi hai 0 se shuru kia tha unke sath aaj 8 saal ho gaye happy relationship hai 2 son bhi hain rista na chalne mein dono ki galti hoti hai sirf 1 ki nhi
@@lalitsharma8166Abe Bhai bakchodian band kar. Woh general nature of females ki baat karra hai
@@lalitsharma8166haha 🤣🤣 your inscurity is more louder than ur words 😅
@@codingwalebhaiya9879 sab nhi bhagti bhai or ye hi sach hai ya meri kismat bakiyo se jyada acchi hai
I like both your content and your style guruji.
I don't agree that lack of proper supply of money is the top reason for divorces. If it is so in America everyone have lots of money, why is that there is 60% of marriages end in divorces there? Actually lack of family values and lack of patience and tolerance is the top reason for divorces everywhere in world, whether it is India or America. This is my opinion. Please let me know if it is correct or not.🙏
One more thing to add
You always say stay away from parents when it is your marriage is new.
You always give example of families where both parents are alive.
What to do if only one parent is there like only mother or only father and son is the only son.
We cant leave mother alone.
Family life is like रायता 🤓 कैसे निभाए यह सिखाइए with narcissist society of members 🙏🏻
😂 agree.
Great perception
Do kan hai ..ek se suno dusron se nikal do...aise to iss planet mein rehna mushkil ho jayega...dusre planet mein Ja nahi sakte😂😂😂
@@priyankapattanaik5414are tho vha kya alien ke sath shadi karogi. earth ka admi hi lejana padega na
Jogan banjo😂 Sanyasini bano aur Vrindavan Ajao😂
What about partner’s sexual needs not getting satisfied? It is the base of marriage
Jab tak hum marriage ko saat janm ka rishta mante rahenge yehi hoga. Divorce law ko easy banay jay. Bharat me 90 percent bimariyan ka karan loveless marriage ko kheench a hai.Husband aur wife andar hi andar suffocate hote hain lekin parampara ke naam par isko dhoye ja rahe hain.
Correct
@sanjaykumar-sx8v0 Ye toh west mein toh hai hi na...waha pe bhi toh loneliness kaafi hai na?
bhai jha divorce easy hai vha ki halat dekhto lo before suggestion
@@varunmittal3617 hamse lakh Guna behtar hai. Hum kyon sabhi bimarriyon me top par hai. Statistics dekh len. Chahe diabetes ho ya cancer etc. Hamara to culture bahut achha hai na. Vishwa guru hai hum. Aur hamare log kyon vahan bhagte hain acchi naukri aur research ke liye. Main ye nahi kah Raha hun ki divorce accha hai lekin Mera ye kahna hai ki loveless marriage jo samaj ko dikhane ke liye kheenchte hai vo bahut badi frustration aur bimarriyon ka karan hai. Videsh me sab kuch accha nahi hai lekin vo hamse relationship ship ko lekar jyada honest hain. By the way porn dekhne me india world ke chauthe number par aata hai. Ye hamare sexual frustration ko darshata hai. Bhartiya sanskriti ka sayyam aur videshi sanskriti ki imandari dono jaroori hai. Is par koi baat nahi karna chahta nahi to charitraheen ka label lag jayega lekin chupke chupke sab chalta hai hamare samaj me.
@@salaar75 bilkul. Bhartiya sanskriti ka niyam samyam jaroori hai tanavvbhare vivah ko sirf samaj ke liye banaye rakhna Kahan Tak uchit hai. Ye bahut badi bimari aur urja ko kheechne vala karan hai jiski taraf sochna hoga. Sirf Bhartiya sanskriti ke naam par samajik vishayon par naye tarike se na soche ye theek nahi. Sanatan dharm beshak sabse uttam hai lekin sanskriti badalti rahati hai hamne sanskriti ko hi dharm liya hai.
@sangolifesutras sir, many times it is also male egos and chauvinism. An acquaintance was once going through a divorce when well-wishers suggested the same thing… to have parents live in a separate house nearby. The man’s response was: If I give in to this “demand” now, there will be more demands from his wife that he will need to give into in the future. He does not want to compromise in that way, so he wants to get divorced.
One advice to all men who are searching for their better half - if you are getting a girl who is earning more than you, make her preference for marriage. I bet you initially you might feel uncomfortable, but later you won't feel any issues.
So sorry to disagree with you, Sir. There are men who enjoy their wifes money along with their parents but are still not satisfied. Inferiority complex needs to be considered at this stage. But yes whosoever is intelligent will definitely have a good life if wife is earning more 😊
@@mbmb7521 I agree with you. There are men like this. But these types of guys are not subscribers of this channel and I am not addressing them.
Sango ji never appreciates dowry and those types of things. The point which I want to convey is in today's world if a girl is earning more and ready to marry a guy who is earning less than her, how much value she finds in him. The men which I am addressing, they also should not be greedy like how they are shown in movies. Men should also respect how girls are valuing them as a person. Initially if they are settled in this bar, they won't face any big issues for most of the cases.
सर मेरी बेटी प्रोफेसर है IIT मे उसकी शादी हो गई है उसके एक बेटा है उस बेटे की देखरेख के लिए उसके हस्बैंण्ड ने अपनी माँ को रखे था तो उसकी माँ रहती तो हैं लेकिन लड़ाई झगड़ा करती जिससे उसके जीवन मे बहुत परेशानी आ रही है अगर वह जल्दी सो के नहीं उठती तो बहुत लड़ाई करती हैं लड़की कहती हैं मै अगर जल्दी सो कर उठ जाती हूँ तो मेरे सर मे दर्द होने लगता उसी जगह उसका बेटा 12 बजे तक सोता तो कुछ नहीं कहती और बहुत तरह के ताने देती रहती जिससे मै लड़की माँ हूँ बहुत परेशान हूँ मैने शादी भी 30 लाख की थी लेकिन लडके की माँ लडके को एक गिलास भी नहीं उठने देती और कहती है तुम लडके हो तुम ये काम ना करो जो भी काम करे लड़की करे नहीं तो लड़ाई झगड़ा होता हैं उसका बेटा राजा बेटा है लड़की को उसी के पैसे को खर्च नहीं करने देती ओर लड़ाई करती मेरी बेटी भी बहुत अच्छा कमाती है
फिर भी लड़की की इज्जत नहीं है लड़का लड़की मार देता तो सास कहती अरे लडके लोग मार देते हम भी मार खाते थे लड़का भी प्रोफेसर है मै बहुत परेशान हूँ सर समस्या का समाधान बताये हाथ जोड़ कर आप से निवेदन है।