@@TheLatinaiaok let’s talk about it bc no one told me and I started following a lot of cooking tutorials on TikTok and using whole garlic cloves and my body turned into a small rocket engine and I got no warning.
In 2020 I started a new job, bought a home and was dating a man I thought I’d spend the rest of my life with… in 4 years I lost the man, the job, my mother developed a terminal illness and I became a full time caregiver. Thankfully I still have the beautiful home I planned on filling with children, and I do have a great job that allows me the flexibility I need to care for my mom. But I’m now 40 and have no plans of dating ever again, lol. I’m thankful for the life I’ve lived, and I’m happy that God blessed me to see 2025. I have no idea what the future holds but I’m hopeful that it will be bright. You’re a beautiful person Stephanie, and truly a gift. I hope you get whatever it is you want in life ❤
@@DawnNa_22 THIS is such a good reminder that life, as we know it, can change in an instant, sometimes quicker! I tell myself to always remain grateful for what is and for what was (to have gotten you to this place) and always remain hopeful for your hopes and dreams to come true in the future. Your Dream Life is out there, and I am a believer in working on you (which is an ongoing task) and keeping that hope alive, it WILL find you. Sometimes it isn’t exactly when we want, but it is already yours 🤍✨
Mid thirties black female here. I watch all of your content because I like hearing your perspective on things, even though I may not always agree with your takes. I have yet to stumble across another creator who even remotely reminds me of you. As far as I’m concerned, you’ve managed to carve out a lane of your own. Keep doing you, Steph. Much love from Toronto.
Yes Steph I appreciate your content and I love your takes and I am intrigued by your perspective. I am 29 but to me you are relatable. I honestly love how you speak and think you are such a great story teller 🤗 and I love your sense of humour 😂. Also love from Toronto 😊. Also even if what you talk about I cannot relate it doesn't matter to me,I just enjoy you as a person.
Writing an email that long to a complete stranger to tell them how much you despise their content is wild. I hope you figure out how to use your USP to benefit you and us. I’m rooting for you!
I just want to add to the record that I'm a subscriber who's watched every single one of your videos, even the ones about reality TV shows I've never seen, simply because I love your point of view and the way you explain it. You so genuinely, articulately and humorously share your experiences. It's something that not only narrative television and movies can't touch (Insecure could never) but other UA-camrs can't achieve. There's a kind of relatability to your content that surpasses even our very different life experiences and goals: I'm a bisexual polyamorist who never wants to get married or have children, but your very specific feelings and reactions and the way that you talk through them have been so elucidating to me. I know you focus all too much about making this a job, and I also know that positive comments have a fraction of the impact negative ones do, but I watch your videos within the first hour they come out because I'm so genuinely interested and whatever you have to say.
My friend is 54 and she just got married! You’re never too old. I’m 43 and just now about to purchase my 1st house. I didn’t become financially stable until I was about 39.
@@hellostephco84 I feel same Stephco. However if it is the desire of your heart, ask God for him and He will bring him in due course, in perfect timing.
Please don’t apologize for the long videos. I could listen to you talk for hours honestly. You’re incredibly insightful and entertaining and I can’t tell you how so many things you’ve said in prior videos have stayed with me!
Steph, it's the WAY you let us into your personal world that is so engaging. It's like you're saying all of things people are afraid to say for a variety of reasons. I've watched plenty of storytime vids but very few hit like yours. Plus you are FUNNY AS HELL!
Aside from you being a good storyteller you're also funny! I often laugh out loud watching your videos. Especially when you're doing impressions of people (quoting them in funny ways) 😊
I don't have a uterus lol. It's a long story but i've explained it in another video. I have advanced fibroids and the next step is a hysterectomy and I don't want to do that until after menopause bc it might not be necessary since the fibroids do shrink during that time. I'm blessed to still have regular cycles and not have a body or life that's too impacted, but I can't carry my own children. But i do know that some women can still get pregnant in their forties! Just not me. The baby would not survive. Sad stuff! But I'm happy for others and it took a long time to get to this point of acceptance and I'm super proud of me (it took a really long time omg)
@@hellostephco84I hope this doesn’t sound dismissive as I have deep empathy for you. But have you gotten a second opinion on this? I find many Obgyn’s are quick to do hysterectomies and it’s a lazy option for doctors who aren’t as skilled. You’re in Austin and I recommend seeing Jennifer Travieso at Ascension.
@@hellostephco84 This happened to me too Steph. I ended up getting a hysterectomy (my fibroids were so enlarged and was affecting my health). I also made peace with it and I'm proud of it. I'm proud of you, too. 💖
Agreed, plus the idea of relatability in today's world usually comes with some kind of monetary gain for the creator. It's sad but there are still creators that can remain genuinely relatable and carve out a living for themselves without the obvious scrambling for ad reach.
Wow. I just read the email she received from the viewer or ex viewer and i couldn't disagree more. I'm very much helped by Stephco's videos. I find her videos fun, informative, entertaining, reassuring, and cathartic. I find comfort in her stories and I'm proud and encouraged by her bravery in trying things out and putting herself out there. She's doing something and having experiences and while they may not always produce the best feeling in the end, she's living and doing something rather than being so afraid of criticism that she hides away and refuses to move. A lot of ppl are too afraid to do anything and she really encourages the faint of heart to be brave and that we're not alone so that means there's someone out there just like me and therefore there's someone out there just for me. I love Stephco's content and would be sad to not have her voice on UA-cam
100% agree, Steph’s amazing. And frankly people like the lady who wrote that email remind me of the older folks in my family that think the best way to handle things is to sweep it under the rug
Listening to Steph is like sitting down with a girlfriend and a good cup of coffee and just talking life. So many people want to run from reality and pretend everything is ok. It’s a shame folks can’t just be themselves and if the content isn’t for them why hate watch, just move on.
Hi Stephanie. I think you are absolutely spot on in your analysis of your channel. It’s not just that a lot of your content is be considered ‘vinegar’ . As we all know, the Internet is already a negative space . Bad news sells better than good news. The problem arises when people who look like you or are in a similar situation regarding love and marriage see you as a reflection of themselves. So when you say things like ‘ I may never get married’ Or ‘ I will probably never have kids’, It feels as if you’re telling them that they may never get married or have children. Now they feel like the negativity is towards them and not just some random celebrity. At the end of the day, I strongly believe that you have a gift for speaking and storytelling. I prefer your Storytime and talking videos, not because they’re negative but frankly, because you could talk about anything and I would still listen to you. Have you ever considered including stories with positive outcomes every once in a while? Maybe that’s something that the algorithm will love but dunno 🤷🏽♀️. Anyways, keep doing what you do and I wish you all the best xxx
@@hellostephco84 what about having people write in their own dating stories/struggles and then do commentary on the social issues that are related to it. Not necessarily advice or offering the solution, but just discussing how people in society are when XYZ situation happens. Sort of how you do your social commentary on celebrity gossip. Your perspectives are very empathetic and nonjudgmental so I think people will feel safe sharing their stories with you.
I don’t understand these people who have left comments or sent emails criticizing your content or experiences as a black woman over the years. That email from that older black lady was so unhinged. If the videos are so triggering, just don’t watch them!!! I am a 20-something black woman and have loved your videos for several years, Stephanie. Whether it’s a sad, upsetting story or something more lighthearted, you are an amazing storyteller and are fun to watch/listen to. I hope you make content for as long as it makes you happy! 💕
I have been saying this for years … you are an excellent storyteller, naturally hilarious. I don’t understand the “woe is me” comment since you’re just sharing your experience. You also take accountability too, what more can people want ?
Are you serious? I’ll be 46 this month and I have so many dreams and aspirations. I’m in the best shape of my life and I’m super excited about life. I hope your perspective changes.
Yeah I’m very serious. I hope it changes too and im happy your time is going so well. I can only give perspective based on my experience so far and I just got to this MF decade lol. I really don’t know what to expect and I explained why VERY CLEARLY. If you’re in a different situation you will have different feelings. It’s not hard to understand.
@@hellostephco84 Some people are just incapable of conceiving of experiences that are different from their own and this is the type of tone-deaf comment they'll make. Steph, you are far from alone in how you're feeling about life right now. Personally, I think your 40s is the time you let go of having (needing?) "dreams and aspirations" and simply live and be...which means you're already on the right track.
You know what? I've said this before, but you're my favourite UA-camr. I haven't even watched the video yet, and I know I'm going to enjoy hearing your perspective.
I’m a married mother of 4, listening to the transparency in your content makes me more empathetic and aware of what some of my single friends may or may not be going through.
Steph, I understand why you would be making these changes to you life and to your channel. People saying they want your story times and want you to stay on and are giving you all of this encouragement will be some of the same ones heaping negativity when you say something they don’t agree with. People are fickle and selfish. They don’t care how you feel or how they helped make you feel. People need to listen to what you are saying. They can’t just want they want from you just to then hate on you once you do it. I enjoy your storytimes like everyone else and your stories are very freeing for some of us who have experienced the same things but don’t speak about it. I appreciate your content even when I don’t always agree or understand. I hope you continue but keep your peace regardless.
You are my favorite creator. I relate so much so so much you share and I respect you for sharing your experiences and the reasons for the decisions you make about content creation. Happy New Year!
I love your content! My UA-cam pet peeve is when creators make videos essentially saying “I was secretly struggling with singleness/fertility/finances/career/life for the past six months/ten years ago/always but now everything’s great and I’ve got my happy ending”. I have so much more respect and interest for content that documents the journey, not just a positive outcome. There are woes and wins and wonderings! I have found some of your content relatable, some aspirational, and some to be challenging of my existing ideas. Your content is REAL in all its complexity. Thank you for creating it.
Steph, you are not alone!! I'm here at 36 and a half (yes ive gotten to a point where I am counting month until my next birthday) because I feel like time is running out and I'm tired 😫. I just don't know what I want to accomplish anymore because life got me feeling low. I love your content because you are SO relatable, like if we worked together, you'd be my bestie inside and outside of work LOL. I liked the solo travel video to PR, it was a whole vibe! You channel feel very authentic and I love that 🩷 Wishing you a VERY fruitful 2025 babes ❤🎉🫂
I’ve decided I’m staying single for the rest of my life. My dog sleeps in my bed. Everyone is weird, including me and I don’t see myself adapting to a person at this point.
I totally understand the sentiment. People accuse you of "giving up" because this kind of choice forces them to confront their own fantasies and fears. They have no clue all the time and energy it takes to *invest* hope in a fruitless endeavor. Free yourself!
18:14 yes people dont want to confront hard truths but ur videos are so impactful and healing and touch many who are ready to face the truth and creates community of shared experirnce
You're not in this alone it was not the year for a lottttttt of people including myself. The highlights of my 2024 was traveling. The lowlights of my 2024 was gain 30lbs due to work/man stress, Let my job Christmas Eve, left my man Christmas Day, lost about 6 friends.. It's the 3rd day in 2025 and i'm currently jobless, manless, friendless and looking for a job, apt, and man in NYC. At 25 I did not see my yr starting off this year but here we are. I am delusion enough to believe things will all work out. I am a dryer and doer ... if something doesn't work keep switching it up and trying other avenues that will work. My Primary Goals this year: A weekend job that accomodates around masters program, a sugar daddy /sugar boyfriend, sugar fiancé/ sugar husband, a good apt, losing 30lbs, eating healthier.
I actually like your content Steph. Idk how i found your channel but your videos are relatable to me and for alot of people. Life isn't always full of rainbows and sometimes you need confirmation that you are not the only one going through a storm. Keep doing what makes you happy ❤.
Well I love your vlogmas and solo travel videos 😅 I've watched the Disney World one like 4 times now. I've noticed how skewed the views are but I love that about your channel; there's variety and something for me to watch in any mood. I don't typically comment but I just wanted to say that I enjoy your channel, so thank you.
It's always interesting to me how people can read/watch the exact same thing and interpret it so many different ways. I read the email before I heard steph's summary of it and I didn't get any of what she said. I believe (but def could be wrong) I can typically tell when somebody is having good intentions, shady intentions or bad intentions. I really think that commenter thought she was doing good, even though it was just unnecessary feedback. I also understand her perspective on how she experiences thia type of content. Doesn't mean Steph has to change anything about her content.
I came to say this. I didn't really see anything wrong with the e-mail in and of itself (or at least, I felt that the woman had good intentions and wrote it in good faith...)
I will say Steph I absolutely adore just hearing you talk about whatever topics and would honestly tune in if you had a podcast. I’m just not really a vlog watcher 😅 unfortunately but love hearing you talk. Wouldn’t mind if you just gave your input on random reality shows like you did with love is blind. Maybe hearing you talk about a show like big brother would be cool too
Your content is always such a guiding light and validates our experience as women in our 40s in this time. 6:26 We also never hear the stories of people who forced matters in their late 30s. Not all people had these serendipitous experience where everything came together. For me, I’m not writing another freaking manifesting list. I now plan and make decisions. Someone had the gall to ask me at my big age if God knows what I want? Like at my big age? TF
I really wish people would stop asking Steph about her story times because clearly people can’t handle it and become stalkers . People are messy about the men and friends stories . It’s insane!! Self preservation is a good thing ❤
Not to monopolize your comments, but as a singer/songwriter, I came to this same conclusion. The market didn’t really want my brand of unproblematic, uplifting music, so I got a regular job in the industry and only perform and put songs out when I want. I felt like a gave up for a while, but having insurance and a retirement plan made up for that. Such is life.
💯 As an indie author, I concur. Sometimes that's the balance an artist has to strike to stay authentic and sane. You can make peace with that compromise when you're willing to release attachment to the outcome you originally hoped for. Those who cannot release have to lean into being pidegonholed in order to earn fame.
Steph, even though I'm in my early 30s and married, your videos validated my dating experience as a dark-skinned black woman. I wish you were on UA-cam in the mid-2010s when I was out there. I would have appreciated knowing that I wasn't crazy. Back then Molly on Insecure was probably the closest representation I had to being on those dating streets. I am praying that 2025 will be your year like 2024 was Reesa Teesa's year. You are just as talented of a story teller and have insightful takes into pop culture and media.
I find your authenticity addicting. I love that it's not all sunshine and roses all the time. I don't need to agree with you on everything to find you hilarious and relatable. I loved hearing you say you aren't paying for nothing this time around, and that you are doing YOU in 2025. I think this will be an amazing year for you, and I cant wait to hear about it, if you feel like sharing. ♥️
That complaining lady wants to stay in her DELUSIONAL BUBBLE. Your content is wonderful, and it's comforting to know that you are not the only one that life has not gone the way we planned! Whoo is me... Is REALITY for 75% of the population. Keep being your Authentic self, and it will pay off
I got up with a positive attitude and made my son an omelet that I realize I haven’t cooked in almost 6 months. Today I’m taking my kids to the movies. Thank you for allowing me to listen while I cooked cleaned and reminisced over my year. Your content is the best. You already carved out a lane and you are the only one on it!
@carolwyre4171 My dear. You haven’t cooked in 6 months? And you have children? How have they been eating? Your husband does the cooking? Or your kids are old enough to feed themselves? Food is a basic need. Sounds like a sign of depression. I hope you are receiving help. It’s great you’re feeling better today. But I really do hope you reach out to a therapist.
You’re never going please all of the people all of the time. This is YOUR channel. You share and produce what YOU want. If ppl don’t like it, they can simple unsubscribe and keep it moving.
I completely understand maybe trying to do a career switch. I tried to do the content creation/entrepreneur thing and it was a long drawn out hot mess 😭 so when I recently got a new job I decided to kinda quit trying to make money with it and focus on using my channel to document my hobbies and creative journey. Just filmed my first video on that for the year. I’m excited to just let go of trying to make it work, I’m ready to just have fun and create art again. Hoping the same for you too! Here’s to a great 2025🎉
I never comment but I want to say that I love listening to your stories and psychological break downs of pop culture. You are very interesting and relatable🫶🏾
Hey Steph, I make it through all your videos and I never comment but I just wanted to say I love all your videos even the vlogs but the way you tell your stories is truly an art that I appreciate a lot and wanna learn how to do ! If you ever want to teach a masterclass on that I will be the first person to sign up! Happy new year ❤
Firstly, I'll give you your flowers by saying that you are a FANTASTIC content creator. I enjoy your content because of the following: your storytelling abilities, the humour you add to them, the lessons you've learnt... This video is like a combo of a therapy session and a sermon because you spoke so many truths and dropped many gems. Thirdly, I thoroughly enjoyed hearing your plans for the future because it's like you had an epiphany, and you're truly prioritising your well-being and growth. It's giving I'm in my I DON'T GIVE A FUCK ERA! And I bloody love it because it's exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you for bringing comfort to many, and I wholeheartedly wish you the BEST!
Honestly, I just love your story telling..The cadence in which you speak is music to my ears. And now I love the way you teach and reflect.. Maybe you should turn your story telling into teachable moments!❤
Interestingly I don’t listen to anyone else on UA-cam. I love your content! Keep doing what is best for you. I literally wish we could be friends. Maybe it will happen serendipitously. I’ll keep watching all 2025. These long ones are my favorite so I can listen like a podcast while driving or cleaning.
It’s only the 2nd and I’m already overwhelmed with getting started with any of my goals lol I’m already kind of over it but trying not to give up too early. I ended my 2024 with optimism and am starting my 2025 with confusion and a feeling over overwhelming lol
Love this channel and you! Fellow Ohstephco’s, let’s show this talented woman some love! Let’s help push the algorithm to give her the recognition she truly deserves.
I love your stories. No matter what you want to share about. Your storytelling is masterful and I’m engaged from beginning to end. Talk about what you want to talk about that brings your coint! Happy New Year!
20:37 Hun I can’t lie for NY story time I probably watched it 20 times. I found it healing because it related to an experience I had many years ago. I did watch the vlogmas video 2 times each though 😅
That lady who sent you that email talking about your life...are we not allowed to express ourselves for the chance that other people will watch and redicule? I say if they don't really care about us they would leave us alone and not make fun of us. If someone is pressed male or female that is their problem. I will not be silenced, and you shouldn't feel that way either.
Something I wanted to say that I didn't include is that while I respect her choice to talk about her issues with a mental health professional and leave them within the confines of the therapist office, what about people who don't have access to mental health resources? What about people who are not currently seeing the right mental health professional? I had people reach out and tell me "my therapist told me these things were in my head, you've convinced me they're not". Expressing yourself in a public way and allowing others to hear your struggles may be a bad content strategy but it can be a very helpful tool for human connection. Her suggestion that I only express myself in the way that she (and many others) have decided is the "approved" way was classist and restrictive. But, I have seen her sentiments expressed many times so I included them here even if I don't agree, I do acknowledge and understand.
Happy New Year, I love watching your content. Hope 2025 is your year? For me, I would like to get a great job. Meet the love of my life. I'm also considering applying to go to university/college. I'm 41 year old. The last time, I went to university, was almost 20 years ago. One of the university, that I have apply for; is a Film School, in London. There is so much, that I want to do, this year. I haven't had a proper job, for almost five years.
Was it John Lenon who said: “Life is what happens when you’re busy making plans”? Regarding your content: you’re so damn funny! Comedy is tragedy plus time. I thought your last movie review was fabulous. I’d be interested to know the views you had on that!
Steph, I am sending you well wishes, love and prosperity. You deserve it ♥ Hoping you find what you are looking for. Im glad you are letting go of expectations, because I found expecting my life to get suddenly better always made me so sad when a new year came and it didn't. (which is why i steer clear of astrology - makes you believe in something that is purely up to chance). After covid I decided whatever happened, happened and in that year, i met my partner, moved out of my cold damp house share from hell, quit teaching and found a high paying job in Project Management (and yes I do travel for work - LOOK INTO IT!!! Many transferable skills from teaching oddly) and now im pregnant. It all happened once I let go. I wish this for you.
23:10-23:17 🤔That email reminds me a convo being had on some podcast or something and they were talking about older women would quiet younger women from voicing discomfort, or displeasure. People born or raised during a certain decade 1920s-1960s) have a behavior of being silenced and how having a voice was always shunned. I think thats what that angry email viewer might be doing not realizing she needs therapy. They have been robbed of openly and confortably expressing themselves without consequences.❤
You know what’s interesting? I read that e-mail and did not think the writer was angry. I thought she is just a person who is grappling with the very abrasive realities of her life that are linked, in part, to her Blackness and to her physical appearance. I posit that her e-mail (at least the part we saw) did not have solutions because she is still trying to find a way to carry the immutable elements of herself with grace and dignity. She is trying to be indefatigable while life delivers a series of brutal body blows. But, that’s just how I saw it. I know other’s opinions will differ.💖
Omg I so so enjoyed this video! Especially the end when you talked about not accepting foolishness in romance or from the internet. I definitely have noticed the growth you’ve experienced and I’m happy to be along for the ride.
Not everyone is going to relate to a creator’s content, that’s why target and core audiences exist. If folks want to want to see recounts of black women being painted in a different light, there are many black female creators who share a different experience. Your recount of your experiences resonate with a lot of folks, including myself, and there are very few creators who make content like yours. I feel seen because I can relate to you. I appreciate it.
I do not see you as negative at all, never he’d bad feeling after your videos. You are just one creator, only one person on the internet that, I feel, understands what I’m going through. And I’m the person on the opposite side of the world. 😊 So thank you, I wish u only the best in 2025
It is inherent in human that when you complain about something , they automatically think, even deep inside, it is your fault. Like U said in previous video, they often reply " I would never allow to be treated like that", when one can see they do desperate things as well😢
Also another content idea especially during the new year is a glow up journey. It’s still authentic (dare I say relatable 👀) but it’s also aspirational ✨
Happy new year pretty girl ! ❤❤🎉🎉🎉 You are not going to be able to please everyone . Wishing you amazing opportunities and many doors to open in 2025 and beyond !
I love your content Steph and will always support you. Unfortunately no matter what you do, there will always be someone finding something to complain about. Post what makes you happy and works for you. The A1s since day one will always be there. I find your content relatable, inspiring, and innovative. Thank you for saying the things no one has the guts to say. Thank you for being open and thank you for being honest.
hi, steph. i love your content and i watch every video even if i don't relate to it. so, you make and i will watch it including the ads. i hope and pray that everything you wrote on your list will come true. happy new year!!! 🎉🎉🎉
I'm just going to add that I like your commentary style vidoes best. Whether its dating content, woeful, joyful, advice, or talking about a dating show.
I watched the whole thing. Your ending was really sweet! I love that youre giving yourself more credit in this video. I always remember your video where the school kids took it upon themselves to make sure you had enough numbers for the extra class you had to be in charge of. Charisma and humor and smarts and thoughtfulness 🎉
I've been watching since 2021 and saw the fallout you're talking about so I completely understand and respect why you want to hold back on stories, but personally, I always appreciate hearing the real talk - good, bad and ugly - from you in an online world where most of what we see and hear is an act.
That email for that lady is the exact opposite feeling I have and why I have chosen to stay. All of your commentary and conversation videos have felt like a friend I am catching up with that's either going through what I am going through or is feeling how I am feeling. And it's comforting in the sense that, I feel like I have someone to root for which in turn, makes me feel like I'm rooting for myself too. I pray for all of the success for you this year sis. You are amazing and aspirational
I have seen confusion when it comes to my body's ability to digest garlic. Am I the only one? Is there no one else who struggles?
I struggle with garlic too! It makes me so bloated 😆
Can't do raw onions.
@@TheLatinaiaok let’s talk about it bc no one told me and I started following a lot of cooking tutorials on TikTok and using whole garlic cloves and my body turned into a small rocket engine and I got no warning.
@@sharonthebaron88very tough stuff to digest also!!
I eat Blaze pizza with roasted garlic cloves and feel sorry for my boyfriend. But I love garlic for the taste and health benefits. ❤
In 2020 I started a new job, bought a home and was dating a man I thought I’d spend the rest of my life with… in 4 years I lost the man, the job, my mother developed a terminal illness and I became a full time caregiver. Thankfully I still have the beautiful home I planned on filling with children, and I do have a great job that allows me the flexibility I need to care for my mom. But I’m now 40 and have no plans of dating ever again, lol. I’m thankful for the life I’ve lived, and I’m happy that God blessed me to see 2025. I have no idea what the future holds but I’m hopeful that it will be bright. You’re a beautiful person Stephanie, and truly a gift. I hope you get whatever it is you want in life ❤
I hope your mum is well ❤️🩹❤️🩹
@@DawnNa_22 THIS is such a good reminder that life, as we know it, can change in an instant, sometimes quicker! I tell myself to always remain grateful for what is and for what was (to have gotten you to this place) and always remain hopeful for your hopes and dreams to come true in the future. Your Dream Life is out there, and I am a believer in working on you (which is an ongoing task) and keeping that hope alive, it WILL find you. Sometimes it isn’t exactly when we want, but it is already yours 🤍✨
Mid thirties black female here. I watch all of your content because I like hearing your perspective on things, even though I may not always agree with your takes. I have yet to stumble across another creator who even remotely reminds me of you. As far as I’m concerned, you’ve managed to carve out a lane of your own. Keep doing you, Steph. Much love from Toronto.
Yes, she’s an original and it’s always hard to be the only one, but that’s how real stars are made.
Yes Steph I appreciate your content and I love your takes and I am intrigued by your perspective. I am 29 but to me you are relatable. I honestly love how you speak and think you are such a great story teller 🤗 and I love your sense of humour 😂. Also love from Toronto 😊. Also even if what you talk about I cannot relate it doesn't matter to me,I just enjoy you as a person.
Writing an email that long to a complete stranger to tell them how much you despise their content is wild. I hope you figure out how to use your USP to benefit you and us. I’m rooting for you!
Yeah- that’s says a lot about that person because who even has that kind of time 😂
I just want to add to the record that I'm a subscriber who's watched every single one of your videos, even the ones about reality TV shows I've never seen, simply because I love your point of view and the way you explain it. You so genuinely, articulately and humorously share your experiences. It's something that not only narrative television and movies can't touch (Insecure could never) but other UA-camrs can't achieve. There's a kind of relatability to your content that surpasses even our very different life experiences and goals: I'm a bisexual polyamorist who never wants to get married or have children, but your very specific feelings and reactions and the way that you talk through them have been so elucidating to me. I know you focus all too much about making this a job, and I also know that positive comments have a fraction of the impact negative ones do, but I watch your videos within the first hour they come out because I'm so genuinely interested and whatever you have to say.
This is so well said!❤
Thanks for being my partner on the treadmill!!!
Same same whenever I see her videos I’m like yes I can make it through this workout now especially the longer ones
My cleaning partner
Omg me too 😂
@@nataliepyn1 same here!
This is so real 😭🫶🏿
My friend is 54 and she just got married! You’re never too old. I’m 43 and just now about to purchase my 1st house. I didn’t become financially stable until I was about 39.
I don’t know if I want to get married anymore bc I don’t see the point, maybe that will change but I don’t see it at the moment.
@@DreamAboutMe823 how was the home buying process. I want to, but I’m not sure it makes sense anymore.
@@AlaciaLaRobin I’m in the middle of it. It’s ok. I guess.
@@hellostephco84 I was married before. I’ll never get married again
@@hellostephco84 I feel same Stephco. However if it is the desire of your heart, ask God for him and He will bring him in due course, in perfect timing.
Please don’t apologize for the long videos. I could listen to you talk for hours honestly. You’re incredibly insightful and entertaining and I can’t tell you how so many things you’ve said in prior videos have stayed with me!
Long videos are very necessary and have their place. I need them when I'm washing my hair or going on a long drive lol
Same
Steph, it's the WAY you let us into your personal world that is so engaging. It's like you're saying all of things people are afraid to say for a variety of reasons.
I've watched plenty of storytime vids but very few hit like yours. Plus you are FUNNY AS HELL!
Aside from you being a good storyteller you're also funny! I often laugh out loud watching your videos. Especially when you're doing impressions of people (quoting them in funny ways) 😊
Right! ❤ it!
She is hilarious. I watch her at work, and one time I burst out laughing so hard that my boss and I had a talk about it 😅
The voices took me out this video. I literally went back to listen to them again 😂
Steph, keep being you. All of it matters to us.
It feels so good to sit down for a long detangling sesh with one of your videos! yayyyyyyy
It does! Love these videos
@@DanielleAbigail haha! I thought I was the only one!
I’m deep cleaning my kitchen lol
lol I flat iron my hair and listen to Steph
I was just winding some yarn while listening to her lol. Really wishing her nothing but the best ❤
May all your dreams come true
Amen!
Listen! I am a postpartum/ antepartum nurse and I have moms who deliver well into their 40’s all the time. It’s not too late for you, believe me
I don't have a uterus lol. It's a long story but i've explained it in another video. I have advanced fibroids and the next step is a hysterectomy and I don't want to do that until after menopause bc it might not be necessary since the fibroids do shrink during that time. I'm blessed to still have regular cycles and not have a body or life that's too impacted, but I can't carry my own children. But i do know that some women can still get pregnant in their forties! Just not me. The baby would not survive. Sad stuff! But I'm happy for others and it took a long time to get to this point of acceptance and I'm super proud of me (it took a really long time omg)
@@hellostephco84 Steph! 😢 Sending you lots of love! I can’t wait for you to get your happy ending. May 2025 be a beautiful year for you. 🙏🏾❤️
@ I am so sorry, I did not know this. Glad you’ve come to terms and are at peace with this.
@@hellostephco84I hope this doesn’t sound dismissive as I have deep empathy for you. But have you gotten a second opinion on this? I find many Obgyn’s are quick to do hysterectomies and it’s a lazy option for doctors who aren’t as skilled. You’re in Austin and I recommend seeing Jennifer Travieso at Ascension.
@@hellostephco84 This happened to me too Steph. I ended up getting a hysterectomy (my fibroids were so enlarged and was affecting my health). I also made peace with it and I'm proud of it. I'm proud of you, too. 💖
Completely agree with the take that 'relatability is a scam'. Internet popularity is very fickle and not something one can pin their self esteem on.
Agreed, plus the idea of relatability in today's world usually comes with some kind of monetary gain for the creator. It's sad but there are still creators that can remain genuinely relatable and carve out a living for themselves without the obvious scrambling for ad reach.
It is not easy to talk about these things publicly. I respect your honesty and vulnerability. Thank you
Wow. I just read the email she received from the viewer or ex viewer and i couldn't disagree more. I'm very much helped by Stephco's videos. I find her videos fun, informative, entertaining, reassuring, and cathartic. I find comfort in her stories and I'm proud and encouraged by her bravery in trying things out and putting herself out there. She's doing something and having experiences and while they may not always produce the best feeling in the end, she's living and doing something rather than being so afraid of criticism that she hides away and refuses to move. A lot of ppl are too afraid to do anything and she really encourages the faint of heart to be brave and that we're not alone so that means there's someone out there just like me and therefore there's someone out there just for me. I love Stephco's content and would be sad to not have her voice on UA-cam
100% agree, Steph’s amazing. And frankly people like the lady who wrote that email remind me of the older folks in my family that think the best way to handle things is to sweep it under the rug
Listening to Steph is like sitting down with a girlfriend and a good cup of coffee and just talking life. So many people want to run from reality and pretend everything is ok. It’s a shame folks can’t just be themselves and if the content isn’t for them why hate watch, just move on.
Hi Stephanie. I think you are absolutely spot on in your analysis of your channel. It’s not just that a lot of your content is be considered ‘vinegar’ . As we all know, the Internet is already a negative space . Bad news sells better than good news. The problem arises when people who look like you or are in a similar situation regarding love and marriage see you as a reflection of themselves. So when you say things like ‘ I may never get married’ Or ‘ I will probably never have kids’, It feels as if you’re telling them that they may never get married or have children. Now they feel like the negativity is towards them and not just some random celebrity.
At the end of the day, I strongly believe that you have a gift for speaking and storytelling. I prefer your Storytime and talking videos, not because they’re negative but frankly, because you could talk about anything and I would still listen to you. Have you ever considered including stories with positive outcomes every once in a while? Maybe that’s something that the algorithm will love but dunno 🤷🏽♀️. Anyways, keep doing what you do and I wish you all the best xxx
I am waiting on the opportunity!! The writers need new material!
@@hellostephco84 what about having people write in their own dating stories/struggles and then do commentary on the social issues that are related to it. Not necessarily advice or offering the solution, but just discussing how people in society are when XYZ situation happens. Sort of how you do your social commentary on celebrity gossip. Your perspectives are very empathetic and nonjudgmental so I think people will feel safe sharing their stories with you.
I don’t understand these people who have left comments or sent emails criticizing your content or experiences as a black woman over the years. That email from that older black lady was so unhinged. If the videos are so triggering, just don’t watch them!!! I am a 20-something black woman and have loved your videos for several years, Stephanie. Whether it’s a sad, upsetting story or something more lighthearted, you are an amazing storyteller and are fun to watch/listen to. I hope you make content for as long as it makes you happy! 💕
I have been saying this for years … you are an excellent storyteller, naturally hilarious. I don’t understand the “woe is me” comment since you’re just sharing your experience. You also take accountability too, what more can people want ?
Are you serious? I’ll be 46 this month and I have so many dreams and aspirations. I’m in the best shape of my life and I’m super excited about life. I hope your perspective changes.
Absolutely! I just started a business at 51 and have goals to be financially independent . She is too young to just sit down .
@@rogers5622Soo happy to hear this perspective
Yeah I’m very serious. I hope it changes too and im happy your time is going so well. I can only give perspective based on my experience so far and I just got to this MF decade lol. I really don’t know what to expect and I explained why VERY CLEARLY. If you’re in a different situation you will have different feelings. It’s not hard to understand.
@@hellostephco84 Some people are just incapable of conceiving of experiences that are different from their own and this is the type of tone-deaf comment they'll make. Steph, you are far from alone in how you're feeling about life right now. Personally, I think your 40s is the time you let go of having (needing?) "dreams and aspirations" and simply live and be...which means you're already on the right track.
You know what? I've said this before, but you're my favourite UA-camr. I haven't even watched the video yet, and I know I'm going to enjoy hearing your perspective.
I’m a married mother of 4, listening to the transparency in your content makes me more empathetic and aware of what some of my single friends may or may not be going through.
Steph, I understand why you would be making these changes to you life and to your channel. People saying they want your story times and want you to stay on and are giving you all of this encouragement will be some of the same ones heaping negativity when you say something they don’t agree with.
People are fickle and selfish. They don’t care how you feel or how they helped make you feel. People need to listen to what you are saying. They can’t just want they want from you just to then hate on you once you do it.
I enjoy your storytimes like everyone else and your stories are very freeing for some of us who have experienced the same things but don’t speak about it. I appreciate your content even when I don’t always agree or understand. I hope you continue but keep your peace regardless.
You don’t have a dumb ass romantic life. You are the Black Bridget Jones and we love you for it!
That’s good branding, she should really run with this.
You are my favorite creator. I relate so much so so much you share and I respect you for sharing your experiences and the reasons for the decisions you make about content creation. Happy New Year!
She's my fave too 😊
“What I bring to the table? Me.” A whole sermon, ma’am. lol 👏🏾
I love your content! My UA-cam pet peeve is when creators make videos essentially saying “I was secretly struggling with singleness/fertility/finances/career/life for the past six months/ten years ago/always but now everything’s great and I’ve got my happy ending”.
I have so much more respect and interest for content that documents the journey, not just a positive outcome. There are woes and wins and wonderings! I have found some of your content relatable, some aspirational, and some to be challenging of my existing ideas. Your content is REAL in all its complexity. Thank you for creating it.
Steph, you are not alone!! I'm here at 36 and a half (yes ive gotten to a point where I am counting month until my next birthday) because I feel like time is running out and I'm tired 😫. I just don't know what I want to accomplish anymore because life got me feeling low. I love your content because you are SO relatable, like if we worked together, you'd be my bestie inside and outside of work LOL. I liked the solo travel video to PR, it was a whole vibe! You channel feel very authentic and I love that 🩷
Wishing you a VERY fruitful 2025 babes ❤🎉🫂
I’ve decided I’m staying single for the rest of my life. My dog sleeps in my bed. Everyone is weird, including me and I don’t see myself adapting to a person at this point.
You get it! It's about adapting to another person...can I do it? Do I want to? I don't think so?!
I totally understand the sentiment. People accuse you of "giving up" because this kind of choice forces them to confront their own fantasies and fears. They have no clue all the time and energy it takes to *invest* hope in a fruitless endeavor. Free yourself!
I actually watch your videos because I enjoy your speaking voice! Doesn’t matter what you’re speaking about 🤷🏽♀️
18:14 yes people dont want to confront hard truths but ur videos are so impactful and healing and touch many who are ready to face the truth and creates community of shared experirnce
You're not in this alone it was not the year for a lottttttt of people including myself. The highlights of my 2024 was traveling. The lowlights of my 2024 was gain 30lbs due to work/man stress, Let my job Christmas Eve, left my man Christmas Day, lost about 6 friends.. It's the 3rd day in 2025 and i'm currently jobless, manless, friendless and looking for a job, apt, and man in NYC. At 25 I did not see my yr starting off this year but here we are. I am delusion enough to believe things will all work out. I am a dryer and doer ... if something doesn't work keep switching it up and trying other avenues that will work.
My Primary Goals this year: A weekend job that accomodates around masters program, a sugar daddy /sugar boyfriend, sugar fiancé/ sugar husband, a good apt, losing 30lbs, eating healthier.
I actually like your content Steph. Idk how i found your channel but your videos are relatable to me and for alot of people. Life isn't always full of rainbows and sometimes you need confirmation that you are not the only one going through a storm. Keep doing what makes you happy ❤.
Well I love your vlogmas and solo travel videos 😅 I've watched the Disney World one like 4 times now. I've noticed how skewed the views are but I love that about your channel; there's variety and something for me to watch in any mood. I don't typically comment but I just wanted to say that I enjoy your channel, so thank you.
It's always interesting to me how people can read/watch the exact same thing and interpret it so many different ways. I read the email before I heard steph's summary of it and I didn't get any of what she said. I believe (but def could be wrong) I can typically tell when somebody is having good intentions, shady intentions or bad intentions. I really think that commenter thought she was doing good, even though it was just unnecessary feedback. I also understand her perspective on how she experiences thia type of content. Doesn't mean Steph has to change anything about her content.
I came to say this. I didn't really see anything wrong with the e-mail in and of itself (or at least, I felt that the woman had good intentions and wrote it in good faith...)
I had to go back to read the email, and I agree with you.
I will say Steph I absolutely adore just hearing you talk about whatever topics and would honestly tune in if you had a podcast. I’m just not really a vlog watcher 😅 unfortunately but love hearing you talk. Wouldn’t mind if you just gave your input on random reality shows like you did with love is blind. Maybe hearing you talk about a show like big brother would be cool too
Your content is always such a guiding light and validates our experience as women in our 40s in this time.
6:26 We also never hear the stories of people who forced matters in their late 30s. Not all people had these serendipitous experience where everything came together.
For me, I’m not writing another freaking manifesting list. I now plan and make decisions. Someone had the gall to ask me at my big age if God knows what I want? Like at my big age? TF
I really wish people would stop asking Steph about her story times because clearly people can’t handle it and become stalkers . People are messy about the men and friends stories . It’s insane!! Self preservation is a good thing ❤
I don't think people are aware of the lore and how wild it got!
@@hellostephco84 it’s sad .
Not to monopolize your comments, but as a singer/songwriter, I came to this same conclusion. The market didn’t really want my brand of unproblematic, uplifting music, so I got a regular job in the industry and only perform and put songs out when I want. I felt like a gave up for a while, but having insurance and a retirement plan made up for that. Such is life.
💯 As an indie author, I concur. Sometimes that's the balance an artist has to strike to stay authentic and sane. You can make peace with that compromise when you're willing to release attachment to the outcome you originally hoped for. Those who cannot release have to lean into being pidegonholed in order to earn fame.
Appreciate you too hun! Hope you have a great year as well
I've watched this video in its entirety while doing my hair. I agree with everything you said.
Steph, even though I'm in my early 30s and married, your videos validated my dating experience as a dark-skinned black woman. I wish you were on UA-cam in the mid-2010s when I was out there. I would have appreciated knowing that I wasn't crazy. Back then Molly on Insecure was probably the closest representation I had to being on those dating streets. I am praying that 2025 will be your year like 2024 was Reesa Teesa's year. You are just as talented of a story teller and have insightful takes into pop culture and media.
I find your authenticity addicting. I love that it's not all sunshine and roses all the time. I don't need to agree with you on everything to find you hilarious and relatable.
I loved hearing you say you aren't paying for nothing this time around, and that you are doing YOU in 2025. I think this will be an amazing year for you, and I cant wait to hear about it, if you feel like sharing. ♥️
I agree with this comment 1000 percent
Hi Steph! Here’s to a great 2025!! Your content gets better and better every year!
Hi Stephco 👋🏽 Since people love your stories, tell other people's stories. Use your talents, girl. 😊💖
Your storytimes are so GOOD that I rewatched them like they were tv series lol.
That complaining lady wants to stay in her DELUSIONAL BUBBLE. Your content is wonderful, and it's comforting to know that you are not the only one that life has not gone the way we planned! Whoo is me... Is REALITY for 75% of the population. Keep being your Authentic self, and it will pay off
I got up with a positive attitude and made my son an omelet that I realize I haven’t cooked in almost 6 months. Today I’m taking my kids to the movies. Thank you for allowing me to listen while I cooked cleaned and reminisced over my year. Your content is the best. You already carved out a lane and you are the only one on it!
@carolwyre4171 My dear. You haven’t cooked in 6 months? And you have children? How have they been eating? Your husband does the cooking? Or your kids are old enough to feed themselves?
Food is a basic need. Sounds like a sign of depression. I hope you are receiving help. It’s great you’re feeling better today. But I really do hope you reach out to a therapist.
You’re never going please all of the people all of the time. This is YOUR channel. You share and produce what YOU want. If ppl don’t like it, they can simple unsubscribe and keep it moving.
I got to the point of the video where you said this!! GOOD FOR YOU!!! ❤❤❤❤
I completely understand maybe trying to do a career switch. I tried to do the content creation/entrepreneur thing and it was a long drawn out hot mess 😭 so when I recently got a new job I decided to kinda quit trying to make money with it and focus on using my channel to document my hobbies and creative journey. Just filmed my first video on that for the year. I’m excited to just let go of trying to make it work, I’m ready to just have fun and create art again. Hoping the same for you too! Here’s to a great 2025🎉
Yay! You get it! I just want to be able to create and have fun!
@ Yeah I totally get it. Good luck! I’m excited for you!
I understand your sentiments but they are some people who can’t even get past 1k likes. Gotta be grateful what what you have ❤️
I would definitely pay to see you in a show! I love your content, the good, the bad, and the ugly. Looking forward to your next upload.
Love you Steph! Excited to see what blessings 2025 brings you 💖
The comment you shared was a very tough read. It saddens me that you cant express all your stories in the way you intend it.
Wasn't it??? i hadn't read it in along time and I was like "MY GOD" it was definitely alot to take in and I think I just blocked it out.
Yaaaaay! Already liked! Wishing you a great 2025!
I never comment but I want to say that I love listening to your stories and psychological break downs of pop culture. You are very interesting and relatable🫶🏾
Hey Steph, I make it through all your videos and I never comment but I just wanted to say I love all your videos even the vlogs but the way you tell your stories is truly an art that I appreciate a lot and wanna learn how to do ! If you ever want to teach a masterclass on that I will be the first person to sign up! Happy new year ❤
Firstly, I'll give you your flowers by saying that you are a FANTASTIC content creator. I enjoy your content because of the following: your storytelling abilities, the humour you add to them, the lessons you've learnt...
This video is like a combo of a therapy session and a sermon because you spoke so many truths and dropped many gems.
Thirdly, I thoroughly enjoyed hearing your plans for the future because it's like you had an epiphany, and you're truly prioritising your well-being and growth. It's giving I'm in my I DON'T GIVE A FUCK ERA! And I bloody love it because it's exactly what I needed to hear.
Thank you for bringing comfort to many, and I wholeheartedly wish you the BEST!
Oh Steph ❤ I am really rooting for you. I pray and hope you win & all your dreams come true🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💕💕💕
Honestly, I just love your story telling..The cadence in which you speak is music to my ears. And now I love the way you teach and reflect.. Maybe you should turn your story telling into teachable moments!❤
Interestingly I don’t listen to anyone else on UA-cam. I love your content! Keep doing what is best for you. I literally wish we could be friends. Maybe it will happen serendipitously. I’ll keep watching all 2025. These long ones are my favorite so I can listen like a podcast while driving or cleaning.
Happy 2025 ✨
It’s only the 2nd and I’m already overwhelmed with getting started with any of my goals lol I’m already kind of over it but trying not to give up too early. I ended my 2024 with optimism and am starting my 2025 with confusion and a feeling over overwhelming lol
Love this channel and you!
Fellow Ohstephco’s,
let’s show this talented woman some love! Let’s help push the algorithm to give her the recognition she truly deserves.
Happy New Year Everyone 🎊
I love your stories. No matter what you want to share about. Your storytelling is masterful and I’m engaged from beginning to end. Talk about what you want to talk about that brings your coint! Happy New Year!
20:37 Hun I can’t lie for NY story time I probably watched it 20 times. I found it healing because it related to an experience I had many years ago. I did watch the vlogmas video 2 times each though 😅
That lady who sent you that email talking about your life...are we not allowed to express ourselves for the chance that other people will watch and redicule? I say if they don't really care about us they would leave us alone and not make fun of us. If someone is pressed male or female that is their problem. I will not be silenced, and you shouldn't feel that way either.
I agree!
I hope they were able to unpack all the necessary sh*t they needed to unpack with their therapist because.... tf???
That wasn’t a lady!
Something I wanted to say that I didn't include is that while I respect her choice to talk about her issues with a mental health professional and leave them within the confines of the therapist office, what about people who don't have access to mental health resources? What about people who are not currently seeing the right mental health professional? I had people reach out and tell me "my therapist told me these things were in my head, you've convinced me they're not". Expressing yourself in a public way and allowing others to hear your struggles may be a bad content strategy but it can be a very helpful tool for human connection. Her suggestion that I only express myself in the way that she (and many others) have decided is the "approved" way was classist and restrictive. But, I have seen her sentiments expressed many times so I included them here even if I don't agree, I do acknowledge and understand.
I would definitely buy your book (: love your content but hate that people think there’s only one “right” way to have an experience with dating
Happy New Year, I love watching your content. Hope 2025 is your year? For me, I would like to get a great job. Meet the love of my life. I'm also considering applying to go to university/college. I'm 41 year old. The last time, I went to university, was almost 20 years ago. One of the university, that I have apply for; is a Film School, in London. There is so much, that I want to do, this year. I haven't had a proper job, for almost five years.
Was it John Lenon who said: “Life is what happens when you’re busy making plans”? Regarding your content: you’re so damn funny! Comedy is tragedy plus time. I thought your last movie review was fabulous. I’d be interested to know the views you had on that!
Steph, I am sending you well wishes, love and prosperity. You deserve it ♥ Hoping you find what you are looking for. Im glad you are letting go of expectations, because I found expecting my life to get suddenly better always made me so sad when a new year came and it didn't. (which is why i steer clear of astrology - makes you believe in something that is purely up to chance). After covid I decided whatever happened, happened and in that year, i met my partner, moved out of my cold damp house share from hell, quit teaching and found a high paying job in Project Management (and yes I do travel for work - LOOK INTO IT!!! Many transferable skills from teaching oddly) and now im pregnant. It all happened once I let go. I wish this for you.
i love when i see a new video from you. i'm sat!!
I watch because your content is relatable.
I listened to this on my drive your content is a breath of fresh air. You are so witty and intelligent. ❤
23:10-23:17
🤔That email reminds me a convo being had on some podcast or something and they were talking about older women would quiet younger women from voicing discomfort, or displeasure.
People born or raised during a certain decade 1920s-1960s) have a behavior of being silenced and how having a voice was always shunned.
I think thats what that angry email viewer might be doing not realizing she needs therapy. They have been robbed of openly and confortably expressing themselves without consequences.❤
You know what’s interesting? I read that e-mail and did not think the writer was angry. I thought she is just a person who is grappling with the very abrasive realities of her life that are linked, in part, to her Blackness and to her physical appearance. I posit that her e-mail (at least the part we saw) did not have solutions because she is still trying to find a way to carry the immutable elements of herself with grace and dignity. She is trying to be indefatigable while life delivers a series of brutal body blows. But, that’s just how I saw it. I know other’s opinions will differ.💖
I love how we all bond with Steph in different ways 🥹
Omg I so so enjoyed this video! Especially the end when you talked about not accepting foolishness in romance or from the internet. I definitely have noticed the growth you’ve experienced and I’m happy to be along for the ride.
Wow I thought you are 28, so beautiful and glowing 😍
Not everyone is going to relate to a creator’s content, that’s why target and core audiences exist. If folks want to want to see recounts of black women being painted in a different light, there are many black female creators who share a different experience. Your recount of your experiences resonate with a lot of folks, including myself, and there are very few creators who make content like yours. I feel seen because I can relate to you. I appreciate it.
All the best for 2025!
I do not see you as negative at all, never he’d bad feeling after your videos. You are just one creator, only one person on the internet that, I feel, understands what I’m going through. And I’m the person on the opposite side of the world. 😊
So thank you, I wish u only the best in 2025
Stephanie! Please get into narrating and voice acting. I truly think this could be your calling ✨
It is inherent in human that when you complain about something , they automatically think, even deep inside, it is your fault. Like U said in previous video, they often reply " I would never allow to be treated like that", when one can see they do desperate things as well😢
May your BIG year find you soon!! 🙏🏽 💛
Also another content idea especially during the new year is a glow up journey. It’s still authentic (dare I say relatable 👀) but it’s also aspirational ✨
This is the vibe for 2025!
Happy new year pretty girl ! ❤❤🎉🎉🎉
You are not going to be able to please everyone . Wishing you amazing opportunities and many doors to open in 2025 and beyond !
I love your content Steph and will always support you. Unfortunately no matter what you do, there will always be someone finding something to complain about. Post what makes you happy and works for you. The A1s since day one will always be there. I find your content relatable, inspiring, and innovative. Thank you for saying the things no one has the guts to say. Thank you for being open and thank you for being honest.
hi, steph. i love your content and i watch every video even if i don't relate to it. so, you make and i will watch it including the ads. i hope and pray that everything you wrote on your list will come true. happy new year!!! 🎉🎉🎉
I'm just going to add that I like your commentary style vidoes best. Whether its dating content, woeful, joyful, advice, or talking about a dating show.
I absolutely love you and your content ❤
You're fantastic Steph. We love you and appreciate all you share and how you share it. A StephCo Live show has to be the next step.
1:05:10 Stephanie you are so dang funny!!! I be cracking up - you are super entertaining and hilarious!
I watched the whole thing. Your ending was really sweet! I love that youre giving yourself more credit in this video. I always remember your video where the school kids took it upon themselves to make sure you had enough numbers for the extra class you had to be in charge of. Charisma and humor and smarts and thoughtfulness 🎉
I've been watching since 2021 and saw the fallout you're talking about so I completely understand and respect why you want to hold back on stories, but personally, I always appreciate hearing the real talk - good, bad and ugly - from you in an online world where most of what we see and hear is an act.
Honestly i just love listening to you talk about things. Whatever the topic may be.
That email for that lady is the exact opposite feeling I have and why I have chosen to stay. All of your commentary and conversation videos have felt like a friend I am catching up with that's either going through what I am going through or is feeling how I am feeling. And it's comforting in the sense that, I feel like I have someone to root for which in turn, makes me feel like I'm rooting for myself too. I pray for all of the success for you this year sis. You are amazing and aspirational
speaking of featured guest, i enjoy seeing you with the doggos 🐕. we get to see a very sweet, caring, and fun positive side.
I love watching your videos Steph no matter what you are discussing. Happy 2025! ❤