PREGNANT AT 19! - My Story of Being a Young Mom

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  • Опубліковано 2 лис 2024

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  • @mariajosezacariasperalta2530
    @mariajosezacariasperalta2530 5 років тому +216

    i got teary eyes, particularly because of Anthony being so okay with you having a kid, and embracing being dad :) Jadyn is beautiful kid, you have done it great, badass!!!

  • @adub8119
    @adub8119 4 роки тому +363

    Anyone else here from TikTok?

  • @EsraaBassiouni
    @EsraaBassiouni 5 років тому +131

    I love how honest you are in this video

  • @heyhorinshi
    @heyhorinshi 5 років тому +122

    This was the realest thing I watch in a long time

  • @sailormoonXx
    @sailormoonXx 2 роки тому +8

    I got teary eyed I had my son at 19 too but was pregnant at 18 at graduation. I was so scared I wouldn't know what to do but now I'm proud of myself and my son and now I'm 24 weeks with my daughter at 24 :) thank you for being an inspiration to me and others 💗

  • @shraddhakochar9830
    @shraddhakochar9830 5 років тому +17

    When you see beautiful pictures on social media, you don't realise what goes behind. Really amazing and inspiring. Thanks for sharing.

  • @ashleysiebes
    @ashleysiebes 5 років тому +41

    My Mom had me at 20 as well! I think the bond is so special and I’m so grateful for all the hard work she had to put in to provide for me. Jadyn is so blessed to have you!! Thank you for sharing your back story, it’s beautiful!

  • @mw5425
    @mw5425 5 років тому +12

    I love watching personal stuff like this, it’s motivating for me as a uni student and also kind of humanizes influencers that I assume have perfect, privileged lives

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  5 років тому +1

      MW aw love hearing that! Will be sharing more again! :)

  • @taylormatchett
    @taylormatchett 5 років тому +100

    I also always assumed Anthony was Jadyn's dad as they seem so happy together. Would love to see more videos like this discussing your personal journey! I have followed you on UA-cam/Instagram for the awesome fashion inspo but I also love seeing content with Jadyn. She's so cute and seems so kind, probably because her mom is an awesome role model. Happy Mother's Day!

  • @flozy5275
    @flozy5275 4 роки тому +7

    I think it’s really amazing how on board your family was, without the support of your family and those that willingly took care of your daughter would’ve made school and a job sm harder but you did so well, honestly you seem like an amazing mother!!

  • @torybergmann3971
    @torybergmann3971 5 років тому +3

    Been following you for awhile and I never put the ages together. Truly incredible how your plan was thrown off but instead of giving up, you refocuses and decided to set an example with everything you did for your daughter from a young age. Honestly incredible.

  • @juliagmonty
    @juliagmonty 3 роки тому +5

    You seem like such a strong, kickass woman, your parents should be so proud

  • @LayneFable
    @LayneFable 3 роки тому +21

    YOU'RE STUNNING

  • @kesinekaur8049
    @kesinekaur8049 4 роки тому +46

    Wow my story is exactly the same, we’re the same age, I had my son at 21, met my new partner 2010, we now have a daughter and she’s 8. Life is funny we think we’re alone in this but so many of us are experiencing the same things.

  • @maramkraida1481
    @maramkraida1481 5 років тому +4

    It is awesome how you spoke truly and realistically about your experience.

  • @lindafernandez7697
    @lindafernandez7697 4 роки тому +20

    I got pregnant at 19 as well. I’m currently working and going to college while my 8 year old follows you and Jayden on tiktok 😆 We love watching you guys! Thank you for sharing and being my inspiration.

    • @lovelytan2692
      @lovelytan2692 4 роки тому +1

      Linda Fernandez same sis

    • @g-6-
      @g-6- 3 роки тому +2

      why does an 8 year old have tik tok 😃

  • @jillgilbert5115
    @jillgilbert5115 5 років тому +60

    Wow that must’ve been so hard. I’m in college right now and I couldn’t imagine having a kid now. You really are a badass, Britney 💗

    • @savispice23
      @savispice23 5 років тому +5

      Jill Gilbert Same I can barely handle college only having to take care of myself😫😂

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  5 років тому +6

      Jill Gilbert haha aw thank so much!

  • @digitalshiro
    @digitalshiro 5 років тому +46

    Thanks for sharing! I have been following you for years and when you mentioned Jadyn was your daughter I was so thrown off bc I wouldn't have expected that! Everything happens for a reason - your fam inspires me!

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  5 років тому +3

      A lot of people are lol Aww thank you :)

  • @haileybrynn6182
    @haileybrynn6182 5 років тому +2

    Such a boss mom. All I can say is I’m not as big of a person as you are and I’m so in awe. What a goodie mom. Such a hard worker. Wow.

  • @PRINCESSCHIVLOG
    @PRINCESSCHIVLOG 5 років тому +1

    Exactly dear,you plan your life,but one can't predict what happens. Motherhood is not easy at all,but there is joy dat comes with it,when u look at your angel in your arms. You are a strong woman Brittany❤️

  • @dela_ruthh
    @dela_ruthh 5 років тому +5

    It was so incredible to learn about your experience of being a young mother! You are truly an exceptional person and it's amazing to hear about your resilience and love through this story. Thank you for sharing!

  • @achikuy9148
    @achikuy9148 5 років тому +9

    Thank you for sharing. Love your authenticity. Happy Mother’s Day!

  • @greciamedero2808
    @greciamedero2808 4 роки тому +16

    My mom had me at 19 too. I’m 26 and she’s 46 and people always think we’re sisters cause she looks really good and young

  • @mariakap4226
    @mariakap4226 5 років тому +50

    Wow! I follow you on instagram for a few years but i never searched your back story or something, i just really liked your content. These years i never even thought that antony is not jadyn's dad. You have an amazing family and i hope to inspire single moms with this video, to not give up! Much love

  • @caitlintarrant5636
    @caitlintarrant5636 4 роки тому +3

    Wow, your outlook on life is so inspirational!

  • @Kammie2123
    @Kammie2123 3 роки тому +3

    More of the “real life” content!! So amazing to know the woman behind the glam!🖤

  • @monayca6749
    @monayca6749 4 роки тому +7

    This story is so inspiring, even though I’m 13 I learned something from her

  • @Parmsi
    @Parmsi 5 років тому +4

    Awwww this just melt my heart! I love you guys! Such a great family! My mom went through almost the same thing when she had me at 20 years old. Happy Mother’s Day beautiful ❤️❤️

  • @lynne4865
    @lynne4865 4 роки тому

    Beautiful story, I got emotional. My Mum had the same start and she worked her butt off for us. Mums are the best.

  • @3aaas7
    @3aaas7 5 років тому +16

    One of the things I like most about your IG are your family insta stories.

  • @AM257.
    @AM257. 5 років тому +5

    This story has made me inspired by you even more, thank you for sharing Brittany 💞

  • @clairenichol
    @clairenichol 3 роки тому

    I LOVE you story. Mine is similar, I had my son at 22, and it’s just been us all these years. I do resonate. It’s really beautiful to see your family now :)

  • @couldbeYMAS
    @couldbeYMAS 5 років тому

    Love that you shared your story with us, I can imagine it’s not easy to put yourself out there for everyone to judge... but just know- this has been my favorite video of yours so far, it’s SO nice getting to know the people you follow in social media everyday a little better. Everyone’s just human, we all go thru it sometimes. Please, never be afraid so share such delicate content, we’re all here for you, supporting you, loving you!🖤

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  5 років тому

      couldbeYMAS aw wow that’s so good to hear! :)

  • @oliviag7590
    @oliviag7590 5 років тому +6

    Loved this video! Your clearly a beautiful person inside and out. Really loved hearing about that part of your life, especially as a young person myself and questioning what I should be doing and what path to take especially after finishing university. Love your channel so much!!!!

  • @nameavailable987
    @nameavailable987 4 роки тому +7

    Single mom here, definitely insecure about it but this helped a million times

  • @daisyd3535
    @daisyd3535 5 років тому +7

    I love this video!! glad you got to share your story about Jadyn, happy Mother’s Day ❤️❤️

  • @lilyjones86
    @lilyjones86 3 роки тому

    You put this out there perfectly. This is exactly how I felt too and how I had to navigate too. It's not easy at all but they truly are blessings ❤

  • @salvianacarissa1419
    @salvianacarissa1419 3 роки тому

    you are such a strong woman, love you brittany!

  • @juliannatrure
    @juliannatrure 4 роки тому +7

    This is a beautiful story. I’ve been following you for a while and did notice Jadyn didnt look like Anthony so I was super confused but I love the part where you said when you introduced yourself to anthony you didnt give a damn what anyone thought that you had a child. So many women try to cover up who they are and I loved your confidence for that. 👍👍👍

  • @eunicesueanne
    @eunicesueanne 3 роки тому

    she is the CUTEST!!! so lucky to have a best friend like her!

  • @jessicamclennaghan3614
    @jessicamclennaghan3614 3 роки тому

    you're such a strong women and the bond you have with Jay is everything💕 you have built the cutest little fam with Jadyn, Anthony and the pups🥰 love your videos Brittany xx

  • @michelleberenice
    @michelleberenice 5 років тому +6

    Lol.... I was one of those people that thought Jayden was your sister and your parents would make you baby sit her when they were away or something. It wasn’t until I started watching your UA-cam videos that I realized she was your daughter. This video was really good, honest, and sincere. Thanks for sharing!

  • @profmj7630
    @profmj7630 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing your story as a young mom

  • @aimeecordeirodias1568
    @aimeecordeirodias1568 5 років тому +85

    I had no idea he wasn’t her biological father, or that you were married, I thought you were the kind of person who wouldn’t want to get married

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  5 років тому +33

      Aimêe Cordeiro Dias originally never wanted to get married! So funny how different life experiences can change ur views

  • @debbieyanta5753
    @debbieyanta5753 4 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing everything in your past.. I also wanted to say that watching Anthony talk about becoming a Dad and the entire video, it was watched with tears in my eyes. His feelings and thoughts he shared were so honest. I appreciate you both sharing parts of LIFE. Loved the How you got started videos and even though I'm old enough to be your Mom, I enjoy everything your blog is about. Fashion has always been important to me, fashion has no age barrier. Love you guy's.

  • @savispice23
    @savispice23 5 років тому +1

    I’ve always been curious in your family story! Thanks for sharing, you’re such an inspiration! It’s just been me and my mom since my mom was pregnant lol and I could really relate to that special relationship you talked about. Happy Mother’s Day!

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  5 років тому

      Savi Spice aw so good to hear thank you!

  • @Postmarome
    @Postmarome 3 роки тому

    Would love to hear more or a series on your experience as a single mother. Thanks for sharing this.

  • @alinprom
    @alinprom 5 років тому +3

    thank you for sharing. not everyone are brave like you

  • @pennywhite34
    @pennywhite34 Рік тому

    I just found your page and was watching some of your old videos. Your backstory is similar to mine so I can really relate. Thanks for opening up and sharing. We all know what happens when people assume…

  • @pamelameyer3046
    @pamelameyer3046 4 роки тому

    You’re beautiful and your family is beautiful!! Much love and blessings your way 🤍🤍

  • @Peinaj
    @Peinaj 5 років тому

    Thank you for sharing. You are so strong and love that you own your situation even while being so young.

  • @jennascottscott4488
    @jennascottscott4488 2 роки тому

    Awe Britney she so adorable

  • @ElizabethTran
    @ElizabethTran 5 років тому +3

    Really loved this video! I started following you about four years ago, and I always love your relationship with Jadyn (as well as Anthony's relationship with her)! It's so heartwarming!

  • @MirandBeauty
    @MirandBeauty 5 років тому +4

    I love yooooouuuuu so much!! i feel really connected with you, god bless you guys!!! ❤️❤️ Happy mothers day ❤️

  • @kelseywilson4170
    @kelseywilson4170 5 років тому +2

    Thank you for sharing! You’re such a great mom! 💗

  • @aleenaregi9821
    @aleenaregi9821 5 років тому +2

    I'm a new follower of yours on instagram and I had my doubts cuz you look really young. Now that I know your story I'm really happy for y'all ! You are really inspiring and strong.

  • @amandamsanchez
    @amandamsanchez 5 років тому +3

    Love!!!! Ugh you’re the coolest.

  • @janknitshooked7031
    @janknitshooked7031 5 років тому +3

    Glad you shared this ❤️

  • @jjajangmyun92
    @jjajangmyun92 4 роки тому

    wow. don't know u rlly, just went down the social media rabbit hole. but i have so much respect for ur journey.

  • @ruthaguilarretamoza5361
    @ruthaguilarretamoza5361 4 роки тому

    You are an AMAZING mom, thanks for sharing 🖤

  • @meaganzylstra4889
    @meaganzylstra4889 4 роки тому

    What a beautiful story ❤

  • @shayitaintsew
    @shayitaintsew 5 років тому

    Love this video! Been following you for quite awhile (PS love your content!) and was always curious about your story and thank you for sharing it. You inspire me to work on my fashion blog because I sometimes feel like it’s “too late” for me I’m 24 but I always compare myself to people who are younger than me and more ahead of me. Your work ethic is unreal, I can’t imagine what it would be like to raise a child at such a young age and working but you proved that’s it’s possible to achieve anything. Thanks again for inspiring girl ❤️

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  5 років тому +1

      Shayla E.M. Noooo never too late for anything. The more you wait the more time u waste- go after what u want! :)

    • @shayitaintsew
      @shayitaintsew 5 років тому

      Brittany Xavier do you have any advice on building a successful blog or instagram in today’s time? :)

  • @Nowwhattowear92
    @Nowwhattowear92 5 років тому +1

    So inspired by you and your story. Please upload a series! ❤️ Happy Mother’s Day gorgeous!

  • @leilacuevas1937
    @leilacuevas1937 3 роки тому

    It made me go in tears ❤️

  • @antoninat7027
    @antoninat7027 3 роки тому +1

    Hi I subscribed + I followed you on tiktok and Instagram and I love you and your whole family, your such an inspiration to me. I really need a new phone because mine is old and broken. Ilysm 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗 and also I made the effort to comment on your EVERY VIDEO!

  • @nadiagraveran3289
    @nadiagraveran3289 3 роки тому +26

    I can’t believe Dua Lipa has successfully hidden a child from the world this entire time... 😳🙌🏻

    • @ioanniskoukas9971
      @ioanniskoukas9971 3 роки тому +2

      Lol em this is not Dua Lipa...

    • @nadiagraveran3289
      @nadiagraveran3289 3 роки тому +6

      @@ioanniskoukas9971 I was being sarcastic because of how much she looks like Dua Lipa lol

  • @saydahaimes312
    @saydahaimes312 4 роки тому

    Love your story, you are very courageous woman !!!

  • @lisagroenewald
    @lisagroenewald 4 роки тому

    Such a beautiful story 💕

  • @roxicado6760
    @roxicado6760 4 роки тому

    Thanks so much for sharing. That gives me so so so much hope

  • @pamelameyer3046
    @pamelameyer3046 4 роки тому

    Your are inspiring, thanks for sharing your story. ❤️

  • @ABC-ts4wq
    @ABC-ts4wq 4 роки тому +1

    I just finished watching a video of a 15yr old mom from her UA-cam channel and then brought me this channel, and I literally laughed when Brittany said “i was so young” “I got pregnant at a very young age” 🙉🤯🙆🏻‍♀️

  • @claudiaalvarez6599
    @claudiaalvarez6599 5 років тому

    Love this sit down and chat content

  • @TheSocialite1
    @TheSocialite1 5 років тому +1

    Awww love this story

  • @majesticlioness9763
    @majesticlioness9763 3 роки тому +1

    I turned 21 literally not even a month before I had my first baby & I was not with the father anymore,he actually told me that “it wasn’t his” I was like WOW,really 😠 so when I was 6 mo prego I moved to San Diego with my older sister & that’s where my son was born..And my pre-pregnancy bod was a size 5 jeans & I’m 5’3” & my son was 9 lb 5 oz 😳 And that San Diego heat was at 103 to109 during my last trimester so I was miserable.. But I wanted this baby so much & I didn’t care what this pregnancy was doing to my poor tummy”I got super big stretch marks” but it was all worth it & I started calling my stretch marks my tiger stripes,I earned every one of them.. But when I moved back to my hometown,my son was 6 mo old & I thought I’d get in touch with his biological & let him know about his son & he told me that my son looked Mexican,that I went and got pregnant in San Diego & he looks nothing like him.. He is so ignorant saying such things to me,like I was already at 6mo when I left home but I just said to myself, Cool we don’t need you in our lives cuz I been doing it on my own from day one & will keep on raising my son by myself..Now,my son Anthony is 26 & I also have 5 more children and they are my WORLD! I think your an AWESOME MOTHER and you went thru a lot too but us women are STRONG & when it comes to our babies there’s nothing stopping us from doing all that we do for them..Your Daughter is Beautiful, you & your daughter remind me so much of my 15 yr old and I.. I’m so glad your hubby Anthony came into your lives,your family is BEAUTIFUL (doggies included) 💗

  • @cycywanyeki
    @cycywanyeki 3 роки тому

    It's the lashes for me..😍

  • @momdeuse
    @momdeuse 4 роки тому +1

    I have now 33 and my older kid almost 13. I wanted her so bad so no accident at all 😅 And I really kind of feel the same way you do. I found your account on Tiktok and followed because you remind me of us. The funniest moment we had I think it was with my mom (she had me on her twenties too) when in a supermarket a lady ask her if she was breastfeeding and she said « no I’m the grand mother » . Kisses from France 🇫🇷 ♥️

  • @autumnaddison5008
    @autumnaddison5008 5 років тому +3

    Love this story and the bond between you and jadyn, and Anthony and jadyn!! Do you guys plan on having any other kids?

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  5 років тому

      Autumn & Addison maybe! He never experienced the newborn stage so I think that would be fun- in a few years if anything

  • @evelynhernandez2680
    @evelynhernandez2680 4 роки тому

    this is so inspiring ♥️

  • @rayannemay9572
    @rayannemay9572 5 років тому +9

    I’ve been following you for a long while now and I’ve always been curious about your family dynamic, it is really inspiring that you shared this with all of us. Maybe this is too personal, but does Jayden ever see her biological dad or is he not in the pic? Much lovee

  • @susanacardenasss
    @susanacardenasss 4 роки тому

    Thanks sososo much for sharing! Im about to become a mom and I'm super excited but nervous about time managment and how am I still gonna be able to pursue my dream while having my baby. So inspiring, thanks

  • @tylerlaughlin2042
    @tylerlaughlin2042 2 роки тому

    Im loving your all gold chains on your neck line big fan of them special gold herringbone necklace

  • @lilyjones86
    @lilyjones86 3 роки тому

    I knew she was your baby..but honestly I think because I can relate. I am 34 and my oldest is almost 15 ❤

  • @evareyes664
    @evareyes664 5 років тому +6

    I grew up in Glendora too!😂

  • @skibusia7
    @skibusia7 3 роки тому

    God kept his promise He gave you througt that passage you mentioned in the other video. He restore you and blessed you with a good husband and life. Best wishes!

  • @chiarasatelier1515
    @chiarasatelier1515 5 років тому

    This was so inspirational :)

  • @anatjub
    @anatjub 4 роки тому +8

    Ok I thought Britanny was 17 or 19 the first time I saw her on TikTok 🤯

  • @hummelum1739
    @hummelum1739 5 років тому

    Love your content!

  • @makeuplvr12
    @makeuplvr12 5 років тому

    Loved this so much!💛💛💛💛 Id love to hear more where you left off in the story. What happened in your career as it shifted from attorney to your blog? What was the in between process, and how did it all begin? Also, more on your family!🥰😘

  • @gabriellarosen2158
    @gabriellarosen2158 4 роки тому

    haha this is funny becasue i randomly watched this and mothers day was yesterday! and today is the day you filmed this but in2019

  • @Lianastudioss
    @Lianastudioss 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much for sharing xx

  • @mimituico
    @mimituico 4 роки тому

    You are an amazing mom

  • @rajbaee7517
    @rajbaee7517 5 років тому +1

    I love you brittany ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Andy-nc3np
    @Andy-nc3np 3 роки тому

    I think prego at 19 isn't bad a lot of woman get pregnant at that time. But I think what people get confused with is cause u look young. U literally haven't aged u are a beautiful gem and so is ur daughter. As long as yall happy its all that matters

  • @susanacardenasss
    @susanacardenasss 4 роки тому +1

    I would love toknow how you started your blog? Maybe some tips on how you managed to makeit grow + having a kid.

  • @PRINCESSCHIVLOG
    @PRINCESSCHIVLOG 5 років тому

    Hi Brittany,new family in your house,we met at ADA'S DELICACY live stream earlier today,just stopping by to check your content,and I wish to have you too in my family soon.

  • @Aspasela
    @Aspasela 5 років тому +3

    Good for you Brittany! I think you have done such a great job with Jadyn. I wonder - is her biological father around at all? Do you split your time with her or does he not want to be involved. Regardless you do you - happy Mothers day!

  • @NicoArtLife
    @NicoArtLife 4 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your story. It was really great to hear more about you. We have had a little correspondence on IG about your outfits etc- which are always impeccably styled :) What I found particularly interesting about your personal journey is that you didn’t see yourself having a family or married- and I have to say, I felt that same way. Then we had our daughter, and everything changed. I also worried too about a child changing my life- which if I’m honest she did, but I was happy with the change and I tried hard to keep my own identity throughout which I feel is important as a woman. My Daughter is my best friend- we are so close and it’s amazing to have that relationship. Again it was great to hear your journey- IG: @Nicoartlife 🤗

  • @cindyting7558
    @cindyting7558 5 років тому

    Your story is so inspiring! Thank you for sharing that. Just out of curiosity, what made you decide to become a fashion blogger after working in a marketing firm? Did you regret not pursuing your dream of becoming an attorney?

  • @sarinawright5579
    @sarinawright5579 3 роки тому

    so honest sobrave

  • @annaruth1057
    @annaruth1057 Рік тому

    When did Anthony adopt her?! Love y’all’s story.