This was so hard for you to tell obviously, I'm sorry for this! I know your story will/or has impact(ed) many though! Thank you for being brave and doing this!
@@brittanyxavier I don't want to sound cynical, but consider yourself lucky that you met your husband. Majority of the guys won't date single mothers tbh.
@@sushilsharma4202 If you listen to the video carefully, you'll see that she mentions having guy friends, going to parties quite a lot while being with her boyfriend, and places where guys go. 11:11 "there was a pool party and I was gonna go" :) It's a matter of probability. The more you're surrounded by men, the more chances you'll have to find someone. The more time you spend with them, the more you learn how to behave and attract them. Experience. :) Practice makes perfect. Lots of single moms just focus on their kids and work and then complain about why they cannot find someone. They don't do the work. They are blessed though with spending every free sec with their kid, which is in my opinion, the best time spent. No man in the world can compete with that. :)
I can relate in so many ways. I had my son when I was 15 years old. He's now 20 and in college. It wasn't easy and I don't recommend being a teen parent. But, I can proudly say he's one of my greatest accomplishments.
I’ll never forget the day you shared this story with me. 😭 So many young girls look up to you and I know your truth is going to inspire so many. Jadyn is blessed to have a strong, courageous and loving mama like you! You’re the best. Love you britt!
Wow, your story is really a testimony. You booking that shoot was such a clear message from God. I’m so glad to see your success and you’re such a beautiful mommy!!
I was in an extremely abusive relationship back in high school (16-18 years old). I couldn’t help but choke up when you mentioned he locked you in his room, because my ex would lock me in his bathroom and take my phone and keys so I couldn’t leave or call anyone for help. Hearing how you felt embarrassed and ashamed because you always deemed yourself a strong independent person resonates with me so much. Even now 10 years later I still carry the shame of that relationship and the things I would do out of fear, and his threats. It’s something that still affects me, and I finally decided to seek therapy for. However seeing I’m not alone, and someone like you share this is very impactful specially as an influencer. I find most influencers seem or come off as having this “perfect life” and I know everyone has issues, I get that but that’s not the IG portrayal right? Who wants to share their struggles right? It takes a completely different level of courage to share those things, but thank you for doing so. It helps to know and see that public figures are more relatable than we think, and in a way helps me be less ashamed of my story if you can share it with millions of people. Sometimes the toughest life lessons, although we don’t see it then can bring the biggest rewards down the line for you Jayden and Anthony.
Can I just say how refreshing and amazing it is to hear you admit that you were ‘naive’ and admit things like ‘you thought it was below you for this to happen’ - wow. You’re inspiring xx sending love
I had my baby when I was 21, I'm turning 23 next month and I know exactly how you felt:( I cried my eyes out watching this. I also started dating my first boyfriend at 19, he was very abusive and toxic to me. Luckily now we've separated and I have my little baby girl
Wow thank you so much for being so courageous and opening up. Being a 19 year old and thinking 'I don't want my kid to grow up with a guy like him' and knowing you should get away is such a sign of strength.
I just left a terribly toxic relationship where this also happened (without the pregnancy). Thank you so much for sharing your story. I feel less lonely
I’m 4 months pregnant, and I went through a very similar experience. I’m also 19... so your story inspires me so much. I look up to you so much. Thank you for this 💙 I love you! Thank you.
I’m 22w5d so 5.5 months, I’m also having a daughter and I decided to keep my baby, I honestly didn’t even really consider an abortion. My ex was also controlling, narcissistic, and extremely emotionally manipulative, so I ended things. I plan to file for sole custody.
I am SO sorry you were abused like this let alone at all. I am so sorry. You are so strong and resilient and a real inspiration of strength for SO many women. Thank you for sharing your story
Thank you so much for having the strength to share your story so publicly. I'm confident that you're helping so many others by knowing that they aren't alone and that you rose up from this and reclaimed your life to build such a beautiful and loving family
So brave that you are accepting yourself who’d been through all the things that you didn’t and couldn’t even imagine. acceping unimaginable myself is so brave
I can feel how difficult it is for you to speak about this😔I really pray for your healing from these dark times♥️ you’re wonderful and strong for sharing this and for raising a beautiful child x
hearing you talk about your dating situation was really scary. I had a VERY similar situation back when I was 19 and dated a narcissist who was 26. he turned me away from my friends and family, was super controlling, and a whole lot of other things that I'm still coming to terms with today. So glad you were able to get out and find love
@@miywws thank you! After getting into a healthy relationship there was a lot of inner work to undo all the things that I "thought" was the way relationships were supposed to be like. I'm actually in a really healthy 3 year relationship now!
I’ve a similar life to yours! I was so naive, and I’m the oldest of 5 siblings, thought I was invincible but the life happens, I wish I were brave enough to share my story but I feel so thankful to you for hearing this ❤️
I had a five year relationship like this when I was 20. He forced me to get an abortion and was the most horrible experience. These relationships are so traumatizing. I'm so glad that you were able to move past this and had your family/friends support
Brittany your emotion and honesty and detail, although so heartbreaking to see you re-live was so beautiful. I have never seen this side of you from following you/your videos for so long. You’ve clearly come so far and it’s amazing to see the life you created for yourself after hitting such a scary low. I admire/respect you SO MUCH more after watching this. THANK YOU!!!!
You are such a strong woman and so brave for sharing this on here! :) You can be so proud of the family you have now and Anthony being the man that you deserved in the first place. Wish you guys all the love in this world and looking forward for part 2!
girl i know how you feel youre so strong! i was raped freshman year and never told my parents until my sister brought it up the following year at the beach and i was so scared and sad but youre strong and beautiful and young and you are inspiring young woman!
I honestly got so emotional watching this video. I was surprised at how you told this first part of your story in such a raw and unfiltered way. You explained how the idea of pregnancy was not at all in your plans and yet the universe sent you a signal to make you realize that having your baby was instead the best choice you were ever going to make. It always happens like this. Maybe at first we don’t understand what the universe has in store for us and why it often makes us learn through such difficult experiences, but most of the time, in the end, everything becames clear to us when we then realize that it is precisely through these difficult experiences that we can reach the purest form of happiness and joy of living, and that is exactly what you now have with your family. Powerful story and even more powerful woman. 🤍 sending you lots of love from Italy x
My gosh Brittany. This made me so emotional. You’re so brave, and such a wonderful human with a wonderful family. I love you, and thank you for telling your story. ❤️
Thank you for sharing. Women, protect yourself ALWAYS! use protection. And if you choose to go forward with your pregnancy, then turn being that strong woman into a strong mother. Protect yourself.
Girl, I know your pain all too well & my heart breaks for what you went through. I met my husband of 19 years when I was 19 years old. Three months into our relationship, I had a surprise pregnancy following a round of antibiotics making my birth control fail. Now, here I am 4 daughters & 19 years later & as of two weeks ago, I finally worked up the courage to end my emotionally & psychologically abusive marriage. It's scary & overwhelming but the sense of peace I now have is greater than I could have ever anticipated. I appreciate you sharing your story & admire your courage. Thanks so much!! 💌 Much Love from Oklahoma 💌
This is so heartbreaking yet so heartwarming, thank you for opening up. You’re very strong and thank you so much truly for being so raw and open. To anyone who’s in a similar situation, whatever you decide to do, is what’s right for you, no matter what others do or say. We need more kind people. Have a good day💛
I just came across your account, I have a VERY similar story… Pregnant at 18 in an abusive relationship, he told my parents behind my back immediately after I found out I was pregnant. So proud of how far you’ve come.
i'm so happy there are UA-camrs who r open to discussing sensitive things like this. my mom was in the exactly same situation when she had me- pregnant at 19 fourteen years ago. im now fourteen and my mom and i r SUPER close. I just love how relatable Brittany and Jadyn are to my life. luv u 🥰
I'm a random viewer and this is the best video I've watched in my entire life. I'm 28 years old and I think I share pretty traits as you (always trying to be independent, confident,etc) so when you say "you were so embrassed", I completely understand what you must have felt (although there's no way I could ever imagine when you had to go through). Thanks for sharing this video, you're so brave, so beautiful, and you are above and beyond of all these experiences you've had so far. You've done nothing wrong, nothing's your fault. You felt embrassed so much because you have really high sense of moral values 🥰 so much respect for you, all the way from Australia
I am a sobbing mess. I didn't expect it to end abruptly but you are possibly an actual superhero for young women. I am speechless by your grace, power and candour. Sending you a gigantic universe hug x
I’ve rewatched this again because of how inspiring you are such a strong independent women that you are!Jadyn is super lucky to have such a great mum!💕💞💓
I'm crying with you, wow, that is amazing how you went on that photo shoot, that was God helping you with your decision. Love you, and you're a very strong woman.
i went through something similar in college. and i wanted to keep everything from my parents as well, but they ended up finding out through something i had no control over. i was so scared to disappoint them and i know they were a little disappointed but parents really love us more than anything and will do anything for us
i've been subscribed for a while, but now more than ever i realise how incredibly brave you are for sharing your story! i'm so glad i look up to such a strong woman 💙
I was in a mentally & emotionally abusive relationship for 4 years, back when I graduated college 2012, I ended the relationship in November 2015. I had all the red flags, all the signs that was telling me “‘no, you need to get out of this” but he would apologize for saying terrible things to me. He would say he’d try to change and make it up to me, but that never happened. He called me dumb & stupid, make fun of me, getting jealous, argue about what happened in the past, he was always starting the argument to a point where we were yelling at each other. Looking back, like you said, I was naive, I knew the red flags were there. I couldn’t end it because I felt that I had already put so much time and effort into the relationship, I didn’t want to start over. I also felt that he has accepted me for who I was (unfortunately it was all just his words) I didn’t think I’d find someone better. I watched your video on Tiktok, and was curious to hear your story, and I appreciate that you decided to share yours. I understand that you felt disgusted, I felt disgusted about myself after my friends and family telling me it’s not good for me, me ignoring the signs. I felt ashamed an all but I felt so relieved, and learned a lot through my experience as well.
10:52 I’m crying my mom was in the exact situation with her first born coming from a Mexican family, but she didn’t let that Asshole take control. You’re such a huge inspiration! Thank you for sharing your story.
I’m sorry for the bad things that happened. Thank you for sharing the story with us. I’m really proud of you. We know it wasn’t easy for you to share this, but it’s gonna help many people. You are a wonderful mother to Jadyn. Love you, have a good day❤️ sending blessings i’m subscribed😽
Thank you for sharing this! I know it is really hard but it is so important for other teen moms to hear stories like this. There is no shame and people need to realise that.
you’re so strong and i’m so invested in your story, we all know the ending but life isn’t as simple as beginning and end, the inbetween is messy but it’s also the best part
Thank you for being honest about this type of issues britt, coz ive never seen women open up about her "not so good" history. We all know that you're gonna be the best mother of your child
Your story is inspiring and important and I think so many people will be touched by this. You are so brave and everything definitely happens for a reason. Seeing the joy you have now with Jadyn is a true testament of your strength! Thank you for letting us into your story.
you are such an amazing role model. I truly admire your relationship with your daughter and your family dynamic As a 19 year old girl, interested in a career in fashion, you are an inspiration. You are beautiful inside and out.
Your gender reveal and other pregnancy videos I just watched makes me feel so much more emotional now because you had the control this time to tell your parents exactly the way you wanted, that is so powerful. I never realized how powerful that is until hearing that was taken away from you. For you to have wanted so badly this time to be pregnant with the love of your life, and you receiving, just wow girl🥺💕✨💕✨💕 hearing this story and then reflecting on the those other moments for you I just watched really has me thinking just wow ✨
I’m not sure if you’re religious at all but the second I heard about your shoot being related to what you were going through at the time, and seeing that little girl there, I got teary eyed and thought to myself, “wow that was so a sign from the Lord to have Jadyn.” I’m so proud of how far you’ve come with all that you’ve been through, and I’m glad you’re posting this series❤️
This is so raw.. You might have kept this to yourself for so long and moved on because of life and raising a child. I appreciate you for sharing this, it seems like a significant part of your past healed for opening this up. Some of us may not be able to have a courage to speak about our past to people. So brave of Brittany ❤️
Brittany, I'm crying while watching this. The amount of control ripped from your decision making and manipulations by this horrible man makes this hard to watch, yet look at the unexpected blessings that happened as a result of the speed-bumps in your history - look at your beautiful life now!
My story is similar to yours; I was 18. I’m now with the most wonderful person and we have a son. Huge age gap just like Jayden and poppy. I had to go through every single thing I did in order to have the life I have now. Not one detail could have been different. Life is as it’s meant to be!
I have never write a comment on a youtube video, but I had to do it here. I was crying in the first 30 seconds! Thank you for sharing it with all of us. You're so brave, God and the Universe bless you and your family ❤️🙏
You know what... I really wish I could see your ex right now! THE FACT THAT HE TRIED TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR AGAIN YOUR BODY IS NOT OK!!! I’m so happy that you got through this!! You are such an amazing and strong women! And Jayden is going to be just like you🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I’m 22 and went through a very similar situation fairly recently. I feel your pain and I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. Thank you for sharing this. There are such terrible people like him but such a huge blessing came from such experiences❤️
I'm so proud of you Brittany, this video would've been so so hard for you to film as would have been such a difficult time in your life! you are an amazing mum and I aspire to be just like you one day
You are so brave to share when you still tear up about it..!!! Hope this helps younger people who feel they can’t talk to their parents because of similar reasons. Btw love your other content too!
Your vulnerability and strength is truly felt in this video. It's true what they say; what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. You are such a brave good person & wonderful mom to Jadyn. Thank you for sharing your story Brittany 💕💕💕
I was thinking throughout the whole video that it would be great if there was part 2.. I also never expected a video like this, thank you for choosing to share your story in much more detail.. I’ve always strongly believed in signs from the universe and your story confirms how powerful this is.. also idk if it’s not the right time to say this but your makeup is amazing in this video 😻
Thank you for sharing this story Brittany! I also went through an emotionally abusive relationship for 7 years and it’s bringing back so many emotions hearing your story. I believe everything happens for a reason, and you are now being a light to others who are going thru similar situations. You have become a much stronger woman and Jadyn is blessed to have a mom like you 🙏🏽
My parents found out too without me being able to tell them first. I can relate so much with that part of your story and the pain. He called them and told them behind my back. I still haven’t gotten over that to this day.
You are powerful. I don't care that he tried to disarm you. You are a powerful woman and you will always be that. I'm sitting here across the world in Asia and your story brought me strength and courage. You. Are. Powerful
Hi Brittany, I just wanted to say I have watched this video series before but now I'm coming back to watch because I just recently found out I'm pregnant *unplanned* at 19 years old. I just really needed some guidance I have been having such a hard time figuring out what to do. I just wanted to thank you for spreading your story it's helped me and so many other women🫶
I started university at 22y/o, my best friend on my degree started when he was 37. It’s not too strange in general, some of us have had struggles or a previous career. He sounds so awful though, I’m so sorry you had to go through this 💙
You are so incredibly brave, Brittany❣️ Thank you so much for being so courageous and honest and forthright about your feelings and your challenges. I had no idea. I’ve been following you guys for a while and I’ve always loved your blogs. You lift me up and it’s just great to see your fantastic taste, and to watch your children grow . It’s also incredibly refreshing to see a healthy family dynamic and a beautiful couple who are just loving and sweet all of you guys. I’m so excited to see more of Elliot and to see new videos from you guys and just to enjoy watching more of your beautiful story unfold. I wish you all all the beautiful things that life has to offer. You certainly deserve it. Love you guys so much.❤🎉🙏✨💖✨
Sending you all the love, sharing something so personal, and in a way having to relive those moments again by just speaking out loud about it is very strong of you❤️❤️❤️❤️
God was giving you all those signs! That's incredible. I cannot wait to hear more about your story. You are so brave to share it with all of us. I have also thought about the what ifs of having children and I don't know what I would do if I got pregnant. This is speaking from a 32 year old who is single. It is always a scary thought for me but I admire your journey. Thank you for that.
I had to pause your video just so i can tell you how i feel right this moment! I have been following you on Instagram little over 2 years and you are the best mom and dad to Jadyn!!!! I truly appreciate how vulnerable you are in this video. Obviously you do not regret your decision to keep your child and who you are and how you raised your daughter is truly inspiring. Anthony is from a different planet as well and he’s so lucky to have you two girls🤍 I had my child at an early age and its not easy when you’re not fully matured yourself. You are the coolest, youngest, hottest mom🙌🏼
I’ve followed you for years. I can’t even express how proud I am to follow and support you. You’re such a strong incredible woman and role model. Thank you for being so open about this. You’re a rockstar ❤️
I've been following your social media's for some time. you seem like such a strong women. I hope the absolute best for you and your family.Also, I love how supportive your parents were in this situation. x
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This was so hard for you to tell obviously, I'm sorry for this! I know your story will/or has impact(ed) many though! Thank you for being brave and doing this!
as a teenager (14 yrd girl) this really did open up my eyes to never settle for less. and have a good support team to rely on.
aww I love this!! Yes never settle 💞
@@brittanyxavier I don't want to sound cynical, but consider yourself lucky that you met your husband. Majority of the guys won't date single mothers tbh.
@@sushilsharma4202 l wouldn’t to
@@sushilsharma4202 If you listen to the video carefully, you'll see that she mentions having guy friends, going to parties quite a lot while being with her boyfriend, and places where guys go. 11:11 "there was a pool party and I was gonna go" :) It's a matter of probability. The more you're surrounded by men, the more chances you'll have to find someone. The more time you spend with them, the more you learn how to behave and attract them. Experience. :) Practice makes perfect. Lots of single moms just focus on their kids and work and then complain about why they cannot find someone. They don't do the work. They are blessed though with spending every free sec with their kid, which is in my opinion, the best time spent. No man in the world can compete with that. :)
@@sushilsharma4202 that’s rude
I can relate in so many ways. I had my son when I was 15 years old. He's now 20 and in college. It wasn't easy and I don't recommend being a teen parent. But, I can proudly say he's one of my greatest accomplishments.
lots of love and power
Yep, I was 17 and my son is now 26 - so proud of the young man he is today, I wish the nasty midwives could see how he turned out.
Omg y’all are bosses
I’m 20 and expecting 🥳😭
Protection is the key to avoid pregnancy.
I’ll never forget the day you shared this story with me. 😭 So many young girls look up to you and I know your truth is going to inspire so many. Jadyn is blessed to have a strong, courageous and loving mama like you! You’re the best. Love you britt!
Aww thank you so much, love you Sazan! 😘
Omg tht is so sweet of you
@@brittanyxavier omg u are the best mom even u never gave up I’m so happy for u u find your love of the life
Wow, your story is really a testimony. You booking that shoot was such a clear message from God. I’m so glad to see your success and you’re such a beautiful mommy!!
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Yes very clear sign from God!!
Couldn’t have said it any better. You’re a hero for sharing your story. ❤️
I agree! God aligned all the signs for her.
I was in an extremely abusive relationship back in high school (16-18 years old). I couldn’t help but choke up when you mentioned he locked you in his room, because my ex would lock me in his bathroom and take my phone and keys so I couldn’t leave or call anyone for help. Hearing how you felt embarrassed and ashamed because you always deemed yourself a strong independent person resonates with me so much. Even now 10 years later I still carry the shame of that relationship and the things I would do out of fear, and his threats. It’s something that still affects me, and I finally decided to seek therapy for. However seeing I’m not alone, and someone like you share this is very impactful specially as an influencer. I find most influencers seem or come off as having this “perfect life” and I know everyone has issues, I get that but that’s not the IG portrayal right? Who wants to share their struggles right? It takes a completely different level of courage to share those things, but thank you for doing so. It helps to know and see that public figures are more relatable than we think, and in a way helps me be less ashamed of my story if you can share it with millions of people. Sometimes the toughest life lessons, although we don’t see it then can bring the biggest rewards down the line for you Jayden and Anthony.
Can I just say how refreshing and amazing it is to hear you admit that you were ‘naive’ and admit things like ‘you thought it was below you for this to happen’ - wow. You’re inspiring xx sending love
I had my baby when I was 21, I'm turning 23 next month and I know exactly how you felt:( I cried my eyes out watching this.
I also started dating my first boyfriend at 19, he was very abusive and toxic to me. Luckily now we've separated and I have my little baby girl
Wow me and you have the exact same situation. Love my baby girl to death💓 I'm 24 now & she will be 2 this month🥺
🙏❤️❤️❤️🙌🙌🙌😍😍😍
Amazing! So happy that you were able to separate yourself from that relationship and realize that wasn't the best situation for you and your baby ❤️
It’s hard getting away from someone who has such a strong emotional hold on you. I applaud you for having the strength to move on past it.
Wow thank you so much for being so courageous and opening up. Being a 19 year old and thinking 'I don't want my kid to grow up with a guy like him' and knowing you should get away is such a sign of strength.
Exactly
You are so brave for sharing and I feel like this will help a lot of young moms :)
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You are so brave for sharing you are a true inspiration :)
I just left a terribly toxic relationship where this also happened (without the pregnancy). Thank you so much for sharing your story. I feel less lonely
I’m 4 months pregnant, and I went through a very similar experience. I’m also 19... so your story inspires me so much. I look up to you so much. Thank you for this 💙 I love you! Thank you.
I’m also having a daughter. So this feels so personal to me.
i’m sure your going to be a great mom 🥰
I’m 22w5d so 5.5 months, I’m also having a daughter and I decided to keep my baby, I honestly didn’t even really consider an abortion. My ex was also controlling, narcissistic, and extremely emotionally manipulative, so I ended things. I plan to file for sole custody.
Kira Dunlap praying for you and your baby! You’re going to be a great momma!!! 💗
@@victoriaobermann3811 thank you so much :)
I am SO sorry you were abused like this let alone at all. I am so sorry. You are so strong and resilient and a real inspiration of strength for SO many women. Thank you for sharing your story
Thank you so much for having the strength to share your story so publicly. I'm confident that you're helping so many others by knowing that they aren't alone and that you rose up from this and reclaimed your life to build such a beautiful and loving family
So brave that you are accepting yourself who’d been through all the things that you didn’t and couldn’t even imagine. acceping unimaginable myself is so brave
i’m really proud of u for opening this up with us!!
Me to ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I can feel how difficult it is for you to speak about this😔I really pray for your healing from these dark times♥️ you’re wonderful and strong for sharing this and for raising a beautiful child x
She looks so much like Dua Lipa
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Dua looks like her*
I have always thought this
I’ve been looking comments like these and finally someone else noticed too
She looks like a mix of Dua and J-Lo
hearing you talk about your dating situation was really scary. I had a VERY similar situation back when I was 19 and dated a narcissist who was 26. he turned me away from my friends and family, was super controlling, and a whole lot of other things that I'm still coming to terms with today. So glad you were able to get out and find love
Girl glad you're fine! I feel like guys older than 24 dating 18-19yos are often red flags. Similar experiences ....
@@miywws thank you! After getting into a healthy relationship there was a lot of inner work to undo all the things that I "thought" was the way relationships were supposed to be like. I'm actually in a really healthy 3 year relationship now!
I’ve a similar life to yours! I was so naive, and I’m the oldest of 5 siblings, thought I was invincible but the life happens, I wish I were brave enough to share my story but I feel so thankful to you for hearing this ❤️
I had a five year relationship like this when I was 20. He forced me to get an abortion and was the most horrible experience. These relationships are so traumatizing. I'm so glad that you were able to move past this and had your family/friends support
Brittany your emotion and honesty and detail, although so heartbreaking to see you re-live was so beautiful. I have never seen this side of you from following you/your videos for so long. You’ve clearly come so far and it’s amazing to see the life you created for yourself after hitting such a scary low. I admire/respect you SO MUCH more after watching this. THANK YOU!!!!
You are such a strong woman and so brave for sharing this on here! :) You can be so proud of the family you have now and Anthony being the man that you deserved in the first place. Wish you guys all the love in this world and looking forward for part 2!
Aw thank you so much!
girl i know how you feel youre so strong! i was raped freshman year and never told my parents until my sister brought it up the following year at the beach and i was so scared and sad but youre strong and beautiful and young and you are inspiring young woman!
I honestly got so emotional watching this video. I was surprised at how you told this first part of your story in such a raw and unfiltered way. You explained how the idea of pregnancy was not at all in your plans and yet the universe sent you a signal to make you realize that having your baby was instead the best choice you were ever going to make. It always happens like this. Maybe at first we don’t understand what the universe has in store for us and why it often makes us learn through such difficult experiences, but most of the time, in the end, everything becames clear to us when we then realize that it is precisely through these difficult experiences that we can reach the purest form of happiness and joy of living, and that is exactly what you now have with your family. Powerful story and even more powerful woman. 🤍 sending you lots of love from Italy x
My gosh Brittany. This made me so emotional. You’re so brave, and such a wonderful human with a wonderful family. I love you, and thank you for telling your story. ❤️
What a strong, badass momma bear!!! You and Jayden were truly made for each other, God and the stars aligned for the two of you!!!💗💞
THIS IS SO BRAVE OF YOU TO SHARE, strong woman
Sharing your story is so brave I can’t even imagine, you are such a strong and positive women!
Thank you for sharing. Women, protect yourself ALWAYS! use protection. And if you choose to go forward with your pregnancy, then turn being that strong woman into a strong mother. Protect yourself.
Girl, I know your pain all too well & my heart breaks for what you went through. I met my husband of 19 years when I was 19 years old. Three months into our relationship, I had a surprise pregnancy following a round of antibiotics making my birth control fail. Now, here I am 4 daughters & 19 years later & as of two weeks ago, I finally worked up the courage to end my emotionally & psychologically abusive marriage. It's scary & overwhelming but the sense of peace I now have is greater than I could have ever anticipated. I appreciate you sharing your story & admire your courage. Thanks so much!!
💌 Much Love from Oklahoma 💌
This is so heartbreaking yet so heartwarming, thank you for opening up. You’re very strong and thank you so much truly for being so raw and open. To anyone who’s in a similar situation, whatever you decide to do, is what’s right for you, no matter what others do or say. We need more kind people. Have a good day💛
I just came across your account, I have a VERY similar story…
Pregnant at 18 in an abusive relationship, he told my parents behind my back immediately after I found out I was pregnant.
So proud of how far you’ve come.
Wow, I have literal goosebumps! There is no doubt in my mind that photo shoot was God sent! You were destined to be Jadyn’s mom ❤️
i'm so happy there are UA-camrs who r open to discussing sensitive things like this. my mom was in the exactly same situation when she had me- pregnant at 19 fourteen years ago. im now fourteen and my mom and i r SUPER close. I just love how relatable Brittany and Jadyn are to my life. luv u 🥰
I'm a random viewer and this is the best video I've watched in my entire life. I'm 28 years old and I think I share pretty traits as you (always trying to be independent, confident,etc) so when you say "you were so embrassed", I completely understand what you must have felt (although there's no way I could ever imagine when you had to go through). Thanks for sharing this video, you're so brave, so beautiful, and you are above and beyond of all these experiences you've had so far. You've done nothing wrong, nothing's your fault. You felt embrassed so much because you have really high sense of moral values 🥰 so much respect for you, all the way from Australia
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I am a sobbing mess. I didn't expect it to end abruptly but you are possibly an actual superhero for young women. I am speechless by your grace, power and candour. Sending you a gigantic universe hug x
Aww thank you 😊
Such a firm believer in everything happens for a reason! Thank you for sharing your story 💕
I’ve rewatched this again because of how inspiring you are such a strong independent women that you are!Jadyn is super lucky to have such a great mum!💕💞💓
I'm crying with you, wow, that is amazing how you went on that photo shoot, that was God helping you with your decision. Love you, and you're a very strong woman.
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i went through something similar in college. and i wanted to keep everything from my parents as well, but they ended up finding out through something i had no control over. i was so scared to disappoint them and i know they were a little disappointed but parents really love us more than anything and will do anything for us
Thank you so much for telling this story on UA-cam to a bunch of people online! My mom got pregnant with me when she was only 18. You are so amazing!😊
i've been subscribed for a while, but now more than ever i realise how incredibly brave you are for sharing your story! i'm so glad i look up to such a strong woman 💙
I was in a mentally & emotionally abusive relationship for 4 years, back when I graduated college 2012, I ended the relationship in November 2015. I had all the red flags, all the signs that was telling me “‘no, you need to get out of this” but he would apologize for saying terrible things to me. He would say he’d try to change and make it up to me, but that never happened. He called me dumb & stupid, make fun of me, getting jealous, argue about what happened in the past, he was always starting the argument to a point where we were yelling at each other. Looking back, like you said, I was naive, I knew the red flags were there. I couldn’t end it because I felt that I had already put so much time and effort into the relationship, I didn’t want to start over. I also felt that he has accepted me for who I was (unfortunately it was all just his words) I didn’t think I’d find someone better. I watched your video on Tiktok, and was curious to hear your story, and I appreciate that you decided to share yours. I understand that you felt disgusted, I felt disgusted about myself after my friends and family telling me it’s not good for me, me ignoring the signs. I felt ashamed an all but I felt so relieved, and learned a lot through my experience as well.
10:52 I’m crying my mom was in the exact situation with her first born coming from a Mexican family, but she didn’t let that Asshole take control. You’re such a huge inspiration! Thank you for sharing your story.
Im so stressed
*drinks le croix*
Mood 😂
Just wanted to put a boost comment❤️ love u britt
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I’m sorry for the bad things that happened. Thank you for sharing the story with us. I’m really proud of you. We know it wasn’t easy for you to share this, but it’s gonna help many people. You are a wonderful mother to Jadyn. Love you, have a good day❤️ sending blessings
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Thank you for sharing this! I know it is really hard but it is so important for other teen moms to hear stories like this. There is no shame and people need to realise that.
I’m so proud of you for coming this far! You are so brave to be sharing this.
you’re so strong and i’m so invested in your story, we all know the ending but life isn’t as simple as beginning and end, the inbetween is messy but it’s also the best part
Thank you for being honest about this type of issues britt, coz ive never seen women open up about her "not so good" history. We all know that you're gonna be the best mother of your child
Such an inspiring and admirable woman... you're so brave for wanting to share this!!
Yes, breathe. You are so strong for sharing this story as vulnerable as it may be. 🤍
She’s honestly such an amazing person mom wife and more 🤗 and I’m so happy she’s sharing her story for others that may be struggling.
Your story is inspiring and important and I think so many people will be touched by this. You are so brave and everything definitely happens for a reason. Seeing the joy you have now with Jadyn is a true testament of your strength! Thank you for letting us into your story.
you are such an amazing role model. I truly admire your relationship with your daughter and your family dynamic As a 19 year old girl, interested in a career in fashion, you are an inspiration. You are beautiful inside and out.
That’s all GOD! Such a strong mama! Your daughter is so blessed to have you for LIFE 💗
Your gender reveal and other pregnancy videos I just watched makes me feel so much more emotional now because you had the control this time to tell your parents exactly the way you wanted, that is so powerful. I never realized how powerful that is until hearing that was taken away from you. For you to have wanted so badly this time to be pregnant with the love of your life, and you receiving, just wow girl🥺💕✨💕✨💕 hearing this story and then reflecting on the those other moments for you I just watched really has me thinking just wow ✨
I’m not sure if you’re religious at all but the second I heard about your shoot being related to what you were going through at the time, and seeing that little girl there, I got teary eyed and thought to myself, “wow that was so a sign from the Lord to have Jadyn.” I’m so proud of how far you’ve come with all that you’ve been through, and I’m glad you’re posting this series❤️
This is so raw.. You might have kept this to yourself for so long and moved on because of life and raising a child. I appreciate you for sharing this, it seems like a significant part of your past healed for opening this up. Some of us may not be able to have a courage to speak about our past to people. So brave of Brittany ❤️
Brittany, I'm crying while watching this. The amount of control ripped from your decision making and manipulations by this horrible man makes this hard to watch, yet look at the unexpected blessings that happened as a result of the speed-bumps in your history - look at your beautiful life now!
This is the story that brought you Jadyn. It's amazing
Very interesting story! Its proud to look at such a strong and brave woman like you! Love you, Brittany! ❤️🥰
I'm so sorry you went through that nightmare. 😔 Respect.
My story is similar to yours; I was 18. I’m now with the most wonderful person and we have a son. Huge age gap just like Jayden and poppy. I had to go through every single thing I did in order to have the life I have now. Not one detail could have been different. Life is as it’s meant to be!
I have never write a comment on a youtube video, but I had to do it here. I was crying in the first 30 seconds! Thank you for sharing it with all of us. You're so brave, God and the Universe bless you and your family ❤️🙏
This was everything a testimony. I love the verse you shared cause I just shared the same verse a day ago Jeremiah.
You know what... I really wish I could see your ex right now! THE FACT THAT HE TRIED TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR AGAIN YOUR BODY IS NOT OK!!! I’m so happy that you got through this!! You are such an amazing and strong women! And Jayden is going to be just like you🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I’m 22 and went through a very similar situation fairly recently. I feel your pain and I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. Thank you for sharing this. There are such terrible people like him but such a huge blessing came from such experiences❤️
I'm so proud of you Brittany, this video would've been so so hard for you to film as would have been such a difficult time in your life! you are an amazing mum and I aspire to be just like you one day
You are so brave to share when you still tear up about it..!!! Hope this helps younger people who feel they can’t talk to their parents because of similar reasons. Btw love your other content too!
you are so strong B! thank you for opening up 💓 as a 19 years old myself is really useful to have someone like you to look up to! ily
Your vulnerability and strength is truly felt in this video. It's true what they say; what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. You are such a brave good person & wonderful mom to Jadyn. Thank you for sharing your story Brittany 💕💕💕
I was thinking throughout the whole video that it would be great if there was part 2.. I also never expected a video like this, thank you for choosing to share your story in much more detail.. I’ve always strongly believed in signs from the universe and your story confirms how powerful this is.. also idk if it’s not the right time to say this but your makeup is amazing in this video 😻
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Thank you for sharing this story Brittany! I also went through an emotionally abusive relationship for 7 years and it’s bringing back so many emotions hearing your story. I believe everything happens for a reason, and you are now being a light to others who are going thru similar situations. You have become a much stronger woman and Jadyn is blessed to have a mom like you 🙏🏽
Wow! I'm so proud of you! God and Universe sent you signs ! You are so brave to share this! Without this whole experience you wouldn't be who you are
My parents found out too without me being able to tell them first. I can relate so much with that part of your story and the pain. He called them and told them behind my back. I still haven’t gotten over that to this day.
You are powerful. I don't care that he tried to disarm you. You are a powerful woman and you will always be that. I'm sitting here across the world in Asia and your story brought me strength and courage. You. Are. Powerful
I love how open and honest you are about your thoughts and how you felt during that time in your life.
This is just an example that God makes NO mistakes and will eventually lead you to the right path🙏 You're so brave and thank you for sharing this❤
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I have never been more honored to watch one of your videos. This was truly beautiful to watch. You’re beyond inspiring ❤️
You are literally so brave for putting this on the internet!! ❤️❤️
I love that you share this . I am going through a hard time too. Seeing you shine so bright , makes me want to keep pushing ❤️
Really lovely of you to share this! Hope you and your family is well xx
Hi Brittany, I just wanted to say I have watched this video series before but now I'm coming back to watch because I just recently found out I'm pregnant *unplanned* at 19 years old. I just really needed some guidance I have been having such a hard time figuring out what to do. I just wanted to thank you for spreading your story it's helped me and so many other women🫶
You are so strong and such an amazing woman. You are so brave, I look up to you so much 💕
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I started university at 22y/o, my best friend on my degree started when he was 37. It’s not too strange in general, some of us have had struggles or a previous career. He sounds so awful though, I’m so sorry you had to go through this 💙
You are so incredibly brave, Brittany❣️
Thank you so much for being so courageous and honest and forthright about your feelings and your challenges. I had no idea. I’ve been following you guys for a while and I’ve always loved your blogs. You lift me up and it’s just great to see your fantastic taste, and to watch your children grow . It’s also incredibly refreshing to see a healthy family dynamic and a beautiful couple who are just loving and sweet all of you guys. I’m so excited to see more of Elliot and to see new videos from you guys and just to enjoy watching more of your beautiful story unfold. I wish you all all the beautiful things that life has to offer. You certainly deserve it. Love you guys so much.❤🎉🙏✨💖✨
your skin is absolutley glowing!! you should film a skincare routine
Wow this took a lot of bravery thank you for tell your story it could definitely help tons of people who are going through what you went through ❤️👏🏽
Thank you for sharing!Definetly sharing this with all my younger family members, you’re a great example for Jayden and all young viewers 💖
You had me tearing up, you are such a strong woman ❤️
So raw, so authentic, so heart breaking. You're strength to speak open heartedly is something I truely admire.
Sending you all the love, sharing something so personal, and in a way having to relive those moments again by just speaking out loud about it is very strong of you❤️❤️❤️❤️
God was giving you all those signs! That's incredible. I cannot wait to hear more about your story. You are so brave to share it with all of us. I have also thought about the what ifs of having children and I don't know what I would do if I got pregnant. This is speaking from a 32 year old who is single. It is always a scary thought for me but I admire your journey. Thank you for that.
I got chills when you said what the shoot was for. Thank you for sharing your story 💕
I had to pause your video just so i can tell you how i feel right this moment! I have been following you on Instagram little over 2 years and you are the best mom and dad to Jadyn!!!! I truly appreciate how vulnerable you are in this video. Obviously you do not regret your decision to keep your child and who you are and how you raised your daughter is truly inspiring. Anthony is from a different planet as well and he’s so lucky to have you two girls🤍 I had my child at an early age and its not easy when you’re not fully matured yourself. You are the coolest, youngest, hottest mom🙌🏼
I’ve followed you for years. I can’t even express how proud I am to follow and support you. You’re such a strong incredible woman and role model. Thank you for being so open about this. You’re a rockstar ❤️
I've been following your social media's for some time. you seem like such a strong women. I hope the absolute best for you and your family.Also, I love how supportive your parents were in this situation. x