How & Why to Set Goals (for people who feel lost in life)
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- Опубліковано 16 лис 2021
- How and Why to set goals - from lost to found.
Worksheet: drive.google.com/file/d/1J6F7...
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Lol I'll straighten my posture for the next vid, I spent the mic stand money on frames
I was just about to ask :D
Hahaha! Was wondering!! :D
Thank you, this video is quite visually incongruous with the message you are trying to convey.
Ha, I was thinking... why the mic is so short, that must be uncomfy! xD
Lol.. looks like you're super into us. I didn't mind it.
On my channel, I just use the sewing machine cover as my microphone stand. 🤣 Maybe you could use a shipping box from your garment line.
I love how you always tackle that darkness. You're the opposite of toxic positivity. You're healthy positivity. Tackling that dark shit is half the battle. And you short cut it so easily. "Because it feels good" 🤯 thank you. I love your videos
I felt like crying as early as "without you the world would probably still be as bad. with you, you do have the potential to make it slightly better." struthless is truly a gift and the world is definitely substantially better with you in it - thank you!
I was crying two hours ago about the fact that I couldn't set goals correctly. Two possibilities : you're my spiritual mentor or google is listening . Cheers from Belgium, I love everything you do 🤘
I think social media can listen to our thoughts, already
@@Sholpanization if it's true then good luck social media, it's not a quite place down there :D
@@ronie_artwork haha
Both of them 😂
linking jealousy with direction is one of the best things I've heard in a while. great advice
I've noticed your videos are the type of videos you have to watch at least 2 times to get the most out of it. One to enjoy the video and visuals, to get that mind blowing feeling out of it. The second to "do your homework" and apply to practical life.
Getting people to watch stuff is hard, but your content is so good it deserves a double watch. Thanks for your videos. All of them, even the ones you think aren't that good. I've learned at least 1 useful thing in each of them or they have moved me to a better state of mind with your sense of humor and metaphors. Just bought your book and it is helping me understand the stuff my therapist can't. Thanks
"Follow the fun!" Ferrrr sure. I really struggle with this, as most times I've followed the fun I've managed to turn something I really enjoy into drudgery. Mostly just pinning too much importance on it, and trying to do too much of it, thinking about it in my off time etc...burning out on it.
Anyway, your videos help so much and I'm starting your book once the kid is in bed tonight. Cheers!
Same for me. I'm having to teach myself that it's okay to take breaks, even from fun. Depression and perfectionism really make you think that fun things arnt as fun anymore. If you're up for advice(I dont know you so feel free to ignore this I may be wrong), try to relax. Practice being okay with taking a 30min break from EVERYTHING without feeling bad about it, then once you're relaxed, make an achievable goal and do it. This is kind of what he touches on in the video lol but with an added "it's okay to get burned out so give yourself a break so you can get back to it". :)
Same here, I learned my problem was I put a huge expectation on everything I touch. I feel like I have to be the “best of the best,” and shouldn’t it be easier to do that if I choose something I actually enjoy? It very quickly takes the fun out of it. I’m slowly but surely cutting out the expectations, negative thoughts, judgements, criticisms, and comparisons I not only get from others but also myself 😅 Best of luck to you and finding the fun again!
I am struggling with the same thing. I think a part of my problem is that I take things too seriously and too personally. I have always been extremely harsh on my self and being that way over the years has caused me to avoid playfulness for fear of looking like an idiot. I don’t care if others judge me it’s me and the viciously pessimistic voice in my head that bother me more.
When I needed him the most, he appeared.
Cheers yellow hat guy, luv u
Great video. My problem is I suffer with anxiety, and goals make me anxious. I have abandoned so many that when I set a goal and I DO manage to complete it, I am more relieved that it is over than getting a sense of achievement. So a long term goal, even broken down, is a wait on my shoulders.
The only "self help" channel that I never miss a video of, thanks mate!
Thanks so much for the start point of 'lost'!!!!! It's definitely rare to find a video like this because everywhere presumes we already have our 'goal'.
Yes so true subscribed after that
Can we have a struthless journal with all your journal prompts PLEASE. I risk spending 2 days of my life binge-watching (again) all your videos just to note them all down in one place!
Thanks for doing these videos.
I keep ending up in depression. Poeple tell me I have a lot to offer, but I often don't see it that way myself, or am totally bogged down by mental health issues.
Sometimes a video like this can give a little push in the right direction.
Thanks! I am actually linking a bunch of your videos in my class for graduating high schoolers taking an alternate route to graduation.
If anyone in my life would have provided me with this when I was graduating, I don't think I would have been so lost in the world. Your students are lucky to have you
I love how he recognizes on some days we feel like shit and others we feel like we can accomplish anything. This bipolarity in my own emotions from day to day really set me back and i’m glad he points this reality out.
Hey i saw ur video two years ago, i set big ambitions, ive achieved 95%. Was looking at my paper i wrote and i am never where i thought i would be.
I have tons more dreams to keep going. Just wanna say ur video is still as relevant and i remember seeing this, after having had written what i was working on.
Thinfs even 10 years ago i thought were impossible. Im having new types of goals, like meeting people and things but i still have my fire in my belly
I love how you mentioned that quote "following the fun" and if you are not having fun then you are doing it wrong! Because life is supposed to be enjoyed and your goals should have something that excites you!
Sometging that helped my busy brain is taking social media detoxes. Not checking my phone when I wake up gets me out of bed faster, I stop comparing myself to other, and stop distracting myself/procrastinating
This video came at the exact right moment - I want to organize and perform in a solo recital by sometime next year because it’s an opportunity i didn’t seize when I was doing my BA in music... ready set gooooo!!!
Hey good luck! I'm doing a BMus at the moment and find recitals fucking terrifying! It's compulsory in my course to do them, otherwise I don't know that I would. What's your instrument?
Best of luck!!!
Eeeyooooo we got the same goals, god speed my friend
Your channel is one of the best things I found on UA-cam this year. I really appreciate your content and it has helped me a lot.
fair play to you admitting your jealous tendencies! Especially in the online world it's easy to fall into the trap of portraying perfection, but what I love about you is that you're authentic 💜
its so nice to be remembered that you aren't alone in this. no one has it all figured out and thats okay. Keep pushing everyone
This video has given me some hope thank you! Been feeling lost on what makes me happy and what to dooo x
I've had a shit day and I am en route to my winter job in Colorado; a shit place that is overrated in every single way. Hearing you say you're calling your series "Shit Dads" resuscitated my dead heart. Thank you.
What you said about jealousy is so life-changing man... I appreciate so so much that you always try to give us an option to use our negative feelings in a useful way. Thank you so much ❤️
This changed my life, I made a list of decisions a little over a year ago, and because of this video, I’m in a much happier place today. However, I stopped doing the journaling after only a few months, and I can tell that my goals have fallen to the wayside. But a friend asked me today how they could keep up with their goals and daily stress, and I suggested this video. I decided to watch it again myself, and I’m filled with motivation to restart the journaling I started when you first released this video. I hope it turns out well, thank you and keep doing you.
You the teacher I wish I had as a Kid.
I swear your uploads come at the exact right time. Thanks so much!!
Thank you struthless, i really needed this!
I've discovered goals work differently with different people. Some people need them in order to function, while it causes severe anxiety in others. The whole "I need to be a millionaire by the time I'm 30" goal is SO common and causes so much unnecessary stress and anxiety. The points in this video are great, just do what works for you king 👑
I agree and with the millionaire by 30 goal, if you think about it it’s so ludicrous. Often the only reason we want to aim for that is because we see it all over social media
Cool content on your channel by the way!
Always love and appreciate this content, thank you Struthless!
Just love this - thanks Sturthless
this is literally the best youtube channel ever. thank you so much. you changed my life 3 years ago and now i kinda lost the direction a bit again and came back here to find this amazing video. thanks man.
As always, thank you struthless!!!
I just found your videos and I love them. Your approach is so helpful and makes so much sense. Really needed this. Thank you.
Thanks man good to see a vid up. Worth the wait. I appreciate you bringing reality and a strong positive outlook. (:
I've never been more excited about an upload!!! Thank you!!
Thanks for being real man, it’s hella refreshing
thanks for the worksheet man!
I was on a long car ride looking for a good video and I got this notification. Off to a good start today ♡
Thanks for this vid Cam! Also I started reading your book 2 days ago and I'm enjoying it so much, can't thank you enough!
thank you man this was needed in my life these days
As always thank you 🙌🏼 just what I needed to hear
i LOVED this video. I felt it was very authentic and different from the other goals setting vids i've watched. Thanks man, keep posting!
YOU'RE THE BEST!!! Really helped clear my head!
Thanks man. Much love and appreciation.
All of your videos are so unexpected and exciting! I am never disappointed!
I honestly love your videos so much. Every time I step in one of your videos, you give me a breath of fresh air.
You’re the goat, such a unique balance, keep up the good work mate!
hey, Campbell, your impact is priceless!
thanks for the wisdom 🙌
Thank you for the worksheet ☺️👍🏼
I love your content so much! One of the most authentic UA-camrs out there 💛
You are a wonderful human being with wonderful content, that comes across perfectly - easy to take in and relaxing to watch! X
Think this is one of your best vids yet and certainly hits the spot. 🙂
Thank you for creating and sharing this! Such a helpful tool!!
I just live how passionate you are about your art and guiding others. you're the best :')
mate your videos are bloody brilliant, deeply insightful, full of deep wisdom and come at exactly the right time -- appreciate your work brother!!
Thank you for existing man
Thank you for starting at the point of "lost..." So relatable!
There's so much helpful stuff in this video that I had to get out paper and a pencil and take notes! Thank you so much for making these videos!
I didn't' even hesitate to buy your book just now. Each video I watch is teeming with fun tidbits of life with just enough wit and critical thought to keep me entertained and growing as a person. I'm really excited to read it.
This is so helpful . Thank you so much for sharing this with us. And I can not believe I saw this video for free on UA-cam. The quality is too perfect!
I'm s happy i found your channel a couple of months ago, one of my favourite youtubers right now. Keep being yourself man :)
i just absolutely freaking LOVE your videos and everything about them, you inspire me SO MUCH, AAAAHHHGGG!!!! (this is me hugging you for very far away, hope you felt some warm fuzzy feeling or whatever). have a great day man
I get so excited to see your videos. Thank you so much for sharing.
Awesome video! i was just writing goals when i saw this when looking for music. Keep up the good work, you're awesome.
dude this is one of your best videos yet
Finally! A new video I've waited it from yesterday and then it came out today :D
this video has become one i go back to multiple times when i feel lost. thanks for reminding me/us there is a life to be lived somewhere between extremes.
Sometimes it's the most simple solutions (setting goals) which solve what feels like the most complex problems (feeling no direction in life)
your animations are so dope! you make everything so short and simple, lovin' it. 👌🙃
Love the jumper/sweater/fish thing!
Dude, you are brilliant!!!
Thank you for the clarity and making it fun.
I’m 80 pages into your book and I love it. I can really hear your voice in it. I’ve been using it to get some Struthless content between your last post and this one. :)
I literally love you and your videos.
Thank you for this video, you seriously always have the perfect video at the perfect time
I absolutely love your content and the way your brain works, thank you for sharing this wisdom, this is gold 🏆 especially for people with ADHD like me
Thank you for videos like these. Love your content and it usually pulls me out of downward negative spirals my mind tends to follow. 🖖
Thank you for this brother. Your Uber line really got me because I have done that more time than I can remember. I feel grateful for this breakdown my dude. It really makes goal setting a whole lot easier with these steps. What gets me excited is making entertaining videos based on daily situations when learning a new language. Purely for entertainment, but that’s all I have for now. Will do the breakdown and mapping of it all this week! Thank you so much. Have a wonderful day!
This video helped and also made me excited for your upcoming projects!!
Great video, thanks for the upload. I'm "between goals" atm and was looking for a bit of inspo. I found your thought process really uplifting. I know you posted this a while ago but still wanted to say that I'd noticed and enjoyed the animation even before you mentioned it as your goal :)
I love this swirly font. It gives me happy „you can do it“-vibes. 👀
Thank you for the worksheet! 🧡
Totally appreciate your talking style. For this type of videos it's very important to be not annoying, and you got it rly well
I love your book. It’s also the only book about anxiety that I can get my husband to read. Thanks for creating it.
Thank you so much!! Perfect timing!
You're becoming easily my fav UA-camr
This is a keeper. Thank you!
I don't know how it is possible for someone all the way across the earth to speak to exactly who I am as a human, but I appreciate it. Thank you for sharing everything you do. You've given me a lot of hope. Keep it up, man. 👍👍✌
Thank you!! I really like the fun element ! 😊
Thanks for the reminder! Your book is on my amazon Christmas wish list
Already having a worksheet instead of always writing notes helps a lot, thanks for posting it.
Thank you so much for making this video.
great video as usual! thanks cam, love you xoxo
I can't explain how much this helped omg
You're a champion mate. Thanks
I really like all of this video but specifically the part 4 and putting the tasks on the wall with the arrow. Wow!
Incredibly informative and concise. Thank you for what you do! I really feel understood.
Man, so glad you've came back!!! Awesome setup though!
i like your videos because they give me the motivation and direction i need in a simple, funny and casual way
my dear, your book is great! I just finished reading and it is a MUST for most people in this day and age. Thanks for your great work and video