Interrogation Of A Narcissist
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- Опубліковано 11 жов 2022
- #jcsinspired #Interrogation
This Video Is For Educational Purposes. It is meant to show the psychology behind how police interact with suspects to try and get their confession.
In this JCS Inspired video, we take a look at the interrogation of Sherri Papini. After going missing for several week, Sherri is finally found but her story doesn't make sense to the police
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Want to hear my theories in the comments section? You sure you want that kind of descriptive language on your channel? lol
You say help like he knew what she was doing. Maybe reword that so it's not implying something it isn't. Which it wasn't. So..... Do that..
She belongs to the Streets
I love your videos
@@jakeminner6650 right... i can only come to 3 logical conclusions and speculate that the likelihood of truth is in this order...
- Bait for more revenue
- Did not watch the full interrogation and/or currently accessible public records
- Vitriolic
Mate
The loudest statement in that room is Keith messing with his wedding ring before scooting his chair away from her. It's sad to see the exact moment that someone realizes that their life is a lie and the love of their life is a scheming narcissistic cheat.
Awe I wish this came with a timestamp
9:19
It was something I noticed IMMEDIATELY. Like sirens.
I feel so bad for him. The media branded him a liar, too. However he's just a prime example of a truly-good guy living with a manipulative sociopath.
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The narcissists prayer:
That didn't happen.
And if it did, it wasn't that bad.
And if it was, that's not a big deal.
And if it is, that's not my fault.
And if it was, I didn't mean it.
And if I did, *YOU DESERVED IT.*
literally
A-me......
Absolute gold.
To be honest, the first point is something that one might say to a BPD/Narcissist to defend yourself when they try and distort your grasp of reality through lies and manipulation.
*Cough* *cough* our last president
My brother is a narcissist. If he repeats the lie often enough then he believes it, then everybody else starts to believe it and then it becomes the truth! How fantastic to see a narcissist confronted by facts and people who won’t be swayed by her repeated lies.
You should talk to him about his troubles in child hood. Kids lie like that to mask a troubling truth or to disassociate from a bad reality they live in.
Yeah! Good way to explain it, my dad is a narcissist and when we absolutely, 100%, catch him in a lie, he sobs and can’t handle the facts.
@@shailonnoelle7175 narcissists will never take the blame. It’s impossible for him to realize he has a problem and impossible for him to change. You have to cut those people out of your life. I’ve been abused by a narcissist my whole life and have learned a lot about them.
@@nikkis7375 yes, they will take the lie to the grave
Your lying
I dated a covert narcissist once. This is pretty typical behavior. They all act like this. Evil. Crazy lies. She won't acknowledge that she was caught so she keeps trying to say "I can't believe it was James" trying to implicate him instead of taking responsibility. Narc 101. They live in delusions, and have no bar that's too low for them to go.
Absolutely true.. I also experienced one of these narcissistic psychopaths
And they can produce tears on command
@@chuckd4877 can and often do. Vampires and Sirens
Facts!
I believe Sherri and she is super cute too
Keith has strong morals. He stuck by his wife believing she was telling the truth..Then got up and left and cut her out of his life when he found out she lied.
He should have just done a flying haduken on her. Soon as he worked out she'd mugged him off so much.
Bullshit. He knew exactly who she is/was...
@@R0YDEME0 ..I truly believe she is a master manipulator and he had no idea whatsoever she planned all this.
@@sarahmurphy8030 ya know you are probably right. And I agree with that more now that I've seen this in its entirety Sarah. Thanks for reply.
@@sarahmurphy8030 there would have been signs. He was probably in denial. Just didn't want to believe it. He probably still loves her and would probably take her back. I've seen the type front row. Chances are probable they would stay together for a long time. Do you know where to find an update on him? Chances are very probable he has moved on as well lol!
Oh man. The way Keith instantly knew the cops were right… it’s like he could finally say to himself “I guess I’m not crazy after all.” The amount of gaslighting this guy must’ve experienced is unimaginable. Dude is gonna have PTSD and a tenuous trust in reality for the rest of his life.
Once you're out of the contact of gaslighters, it does get better.
@@universeelwezen6685 Yup, I grew up with one and dated too many.
@@universeelwezen6685 Time, just helped, and learning to accept kind people as truly kind. Learning to trust again bit by bit.
Definitely
@@folkloreofbeing that is truth... i was married to one... ended in 2015 and ive never been more at peace...
The way they treated the husband through this whole ordeal is shameful.
He was a viable suspect, the wife had been telling her friends he was abusing her so the cops had to be careful not to dismiss that right away
They never did anything to him besides interrogating him. I've never seen an interrogator treat anyone nicer unless it was a kid
I love how despite everything she did he now needs to tip toe & do backflips to protect himself & his kids. YET if they had a domestic where she “felt unsafe” he would be removed from his house.
Can you imagine how sick and embarrassed and furious her husband was feeling as this was happening? I would have thrown up if I were in his position.
How he stayed in the interrogation room with her is beyond me.. I would have got up as said arrest her please before I lose my cool. Just wow!!!
08:40 her husband seemed remarkably unconcerned about the things he’s hearing. He even starts to play with his nails 😳 Plus when he said he was concerned because he found hairs in her headphones & thought maybe she’d been grabbed, that sounded quite odd.
You guys should check out the case of Cari Farver
Her boyfriend Dave Kroupa's got manipulated big time!
@@jonlaroche5239 Same. I would have lost my sh!t pretty quickly.
@@sideglance Thanks!!
You can tell that crying and sobbing has gotten her out of tough/uncomfortable situations many times in the past, that’s why it’s her go-to move here.
@Céline Snl Branding, in this case, is taking a piece of metal that has been made to have someone's initials, or a design of some type formed. Then, it is heated to a high temperature, then pressed against her skin to burn the now permanent design onto her.
The hockey stick was used to break her nose.
Fun stuff, huh?
Yea. It's like her throwing a temper tantrum like a child..her balling up and crying like that....seems to work well for her in the past so that ppl would feel bad and leave her alone. F U K I N G B I T C H.
CANNOT STAND HER!
It's called ulting and every woman starts with this ability at level 1.
@@ataridc hers is very low level because it usually works on me at least to a certain degree and hers did not affect me at ALL
@@celinesnl5338 branding you take metal and heat it up and put it on skin. We do it to livestock so you know who owns them. She did it but said the gang did . Cause they owned her now.
The Hockey stick was to break her nose.
My sympathy goes out to her husband but i am glad he is now free. I fully enjoyed this whole video. To watch a narrcisist being unable to use their usual tactics to manipulate situations and people was pure joy
Biggest fear of a narcissist is when they get exposed
The fact that the husband didn’t even bother saying a word to her or getting angry…she lost a amazing man! I hope he finds someone better❤
He got back with her.
@@BlueAmerican26 no he didnt? source?
He kept his cool alright, but remember he's in a room with Police
@@BlueAmerican26 Say sike right now!
please tell me that was a joke, I am crying!
@@Antes42 he divorced her
Watching the husband’s physical manifestation of him separating himself from her as he processes what they’re saying is fascinating.
Yes! It was like a reflex, he immediately moved his body away from her!
My favorite part.
The actions of moving away from her were steady and practically continuous. Just fascinating. I wish I could've seen Keith's face when Sherry was obviously looking for his support. His body language said he was pretty much done with her.
I was aware of that also…his instincts finally were validated. As a typical narc, she was probably bored and craved excitement…her poor husband and kids.
She’s obviously acting and doing it really bad
Lining the husband up as an abuser, disgusting
Keith seems like such a nice, sweet guy. Hope he and his kids are doing better now and he finds someone who deserves him and makes him happy.
Keith sucks... He's a doormat. His existence allows people like this to proliferate.
Keith you are a decent guy you do not deserve all this. I hope you have found happiness again I believe you deserve it but put your children 1st. .
Did he say eighteen mos?
This is better divorce court proofs than a private detective. Count your blessings my dude and leave this trick in the dust
He did. Also got full custody.
@@moomama217 nice!! So deserved
What?
@@MaryClareVideos lol ... in "divorce court" this is his proof to get out ... no need for a private detective no need to drag the divorce out. She's psycho
@@moomama217 He sure did. But too late.....
He knew after she came home she was lying. Maybe not the full part of her lies. But he knew she wasn't being 100. He should have trusted his guy and left after a few months.
So glad you included the conversation with the poor husband afterward. Good to see the guy had balls. This is 4 years after it happened and he supported her the whole time.
I grew up with Keith. Never was a very close friend but always knew him and played baseball with him all the way through little league to college. That was really good to see from him.
@@MsCwebb man I see more and more comments like these every day. It’s crazy being able to hear from people who know the victim or perpetrator(s). So wild what the internet has done in such short time
Please don’t tell me he didn’t have suspicions. He had been with this compulsive liar for about a decade. He’s obviously a good guy but nobody can be that stupid. I think he’d been praying for this day. Surely??
It was the sex that kept him there
Steve Buscemi
The husband was concerned about the children, and the detective said “…It’s been 4 years since” ……And? And? So what? The husband is right to be afraid, if she went to those lengths just to “visit” an ex boyfriend and not let a soul know that secret. You really think for a second she won’t do something MORE drastic? Now that she is exposed? I hope the husband can heal from this! Because he has been through ALOT 😢
Yeah, they straight up looked at the ball, and was like "oh I was supposed to catch that?"
They offered no help. They are a little narcissistic themselves.
If it were a woman, she'd get full support, instant restraining orders and protection meanwhile men are told to man up and deal with it. Sad.
I think what they meant was that in the eye of divorce court it might not hold up. They didn't want to give him any hopes as to what could happen, mostly because legally they can't give legal advice but also divorce court is a whole separate game where, unfortunately, sexism exists sometimes. But I mostly think it's because it's really not their job to tell people what to do legally, especially when they're at work being recorded.
There is an award winning novel called Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn about a wife staging her abduction (also a film made on that novel). So I think she probably read the novel and was fascinated by the attention and heroism that wife received in the story, and how the whole community gathered to look for her and to help her an so on.
Great novel, by the way.
You can't handle the truth! You are the person who trolls everyone on Facebook! I told you that I would find out the reason why you said that you were going on holiday and I have not heard anything back from you
When I first heard this story my immediate thought was "This is Gone Girl. She pulled a real life Amy Dunne." This is how I wish the book had ended. The movie is a pretty close adaption too.
She most likely watched the movie that came out 2 years before this happened.
My first thought while watching this was "gone girl"
I never saw that movie. And now it’s ruined
Prediction: a year into her sentence, she'll keep repeating to her cellmate: "This doesn't make any sense!"
🤣🤣😂😂
😆🤣😆🤣😆🤣😂
😂😂😂
3 years in:
“James! It CAN’T be James!!”
😂😂😂😂😂
The poor husband. He’s such a solid dude.
She turned his poor brain into pudding mush 😔
He's weak why do you think she was out banging people like me LOL you know how many chicks I bang cuz their husbands are weak and pathetic like this one LOL and they like to be choked and slapped and treated like garbage hell most of the time they pay for my food and drinks and drive me around and if I need gas I'll hit them up because you know what that's what they're good for.
I completely agree, hope he’s happy now with someone who is truly deserving of his love
@@clare1971 I'm laughing so hard because I bang chicks like this all the time. The dudes just a weak synth a pathetic loser he obviously can't please his wife she's probably embarrassed by him probably couldn't even beat someone up if they were trying to hurt her anyway that's why she did this. So funny how pathetic you people are this happens every day guarantee you when you're pathetic and weak is this dude your chick's definitely out there sucking and f****** any dude she can to have a good time and she's probably using his money to do it I date married chicks all the time why I wouldn't say date but you know what I mean and like I said I make them pay for everything and they're usually using their husband's credit cards and s*** and it's awesome I've even gotten cars and stuff off of it.
Ikr
Reminds me of the ridiculous lie my ex wife told me after she was confronted by her lover’s wife who told her she was going to tell me about it. She did come to my home to tell me the truth and my ex said “Here he is tell him whatever you want “. The second she started speaking my ex started screaming over her and the friend she brought along and tried to physically attack them. I restrained my ex so she wouldn’t be arrested for assault, in hindsight I should have let her go. The next day her lover came to my house at her behest to try to convince me his wife was just insanely jealous and always accusing him of being unfaithful. I found out where his wife worked and spoke to her. She was much more convincing than our narcissistic partners. She lost the control she had over me after this and it drove her insane. I didn’t know what narcissism was back then, I just thought she was crazy. These kind of people are toxic black holes with no guilt or remorse for their actions. She had another man living with her and our two kids in my house two months after we split up and they eventually married but she was incapable of happiness and destroyed herself with drugs and alcohol. She died five years after we split at the age of 42.
Holy smokes! You know stories like this make me glad my life is pretty dull :) Hope you are doing ok.
@@dextercool Thanks Bro. I’m doing good now. My ex wife was a overt narcissist who openly admitted she wanted to control me and our kids but a few years later I became engaged to a covert narcissist, it’s a kinder, gentler form of control but their end game is the same. They want to destroy you mentally.
I actually think the covert did more damage because I believed she loved me. I knew my wife didn’t love me so that break up was easier to accept.
I was raised by narcissistic parents which programmed me to accept being treated badly. I’ve learned a great deal about narcissism and myself and will never fall for one of these demons again.
The worst curse to put on someone:
"May you live in interesting times."
@@mikehoncho35 yep. I was raised by narc parents. they are demons, not people
Ah a happy ending
This poor man was married to a sociopathic borderline personality and had no idea of it until this interview. I feel so bad for him and can say from experience that being lied about will make you feel like YOU are the crazy one. I’m glad he was able to get rid of this human leach and move on with his life.
It's like voting for the left and then finding out who they really are.
There's no such a thing as sociopathic borderline personality
He knew he just fell in Love and thought he could fix it!
There sure is
Play Misty for Me and Fatal Attraction were Borderline Personality Disorders
She's so manipulative in this interview. She's used to her crying and helpless girl attitude working
Who would fall for that? But women say they dnt get privileges
@@iamthefuss934 works for men too...either way it's unfortunate to be on the other end of
She cries as a blocking method and to buy time
@@shannonbobby1914 of course a woman would say that. because they know it is a complete lie and no man would use crying as a manipulation tactic, it is not in a man's nature, but IT IS in a woman's nature.
The only real tears from a woman is when she's home crying alone....
What a crazy chik. What on earth. At least no one got physically hurt, or worse.
Well she did, but on purpose??? Yeah, crazy. Leaves me really curious as to why. I don't really think it's narcissism because narcissists don't usually hurt themselves, but something is definitely wrong with her, and with the ex boyfriend who said oh sure, I'll break your nose and burn letters into your shoulder...???
Total Duration of eye contacts she made during entire interview spanning over hours = 35 seconds
I couldn't help but get tickled at how little by little Keith's chair moved backwards distancing himself from her. Finally he left the room. 😅 It says more than words could.
Lmao I was reading this comment and he immediately slid back at 12:45 😂
@@leo8049 😁
Also notice that when he went back into the interrogation room to speak with the detectives alone, he initially sat in her chair and then got up and moved to the other one.
His body language is very very telling in this one. I'm glad he divorced her and got fill custody what she did to him is so selfish.
@@justtry2benice You're absolutely right!
Keith has some AMAZING anger management skills 😮 I would have been FREAKING out if I was sitting in there and my spouse got caught lying about their abduction. Wow.
08:40 her husband is remarkably unconcerned about the things he’s hearing though. He even starts to play with his nails 😳 Plus when he said he was concerned because he found hairs in her headphones & thought maybe she’d been grabbed, that sounded quite oddly specific. I don’t think he’s as blindsided as we think
Wow who does something like that!!!!!!!
Maybe he’s hiding something.
@@allisonjames2923 You should be a body language expert that is so spot on. Not SMH you have no idea how he reacts to hearing something like that he’s literally picking at his nails somethings people do when they have anxiety. So again what do you think he knew about lol detective Allison?
@@gotlandia1588 nah.
Thanks for making these. I love this channel.
She even tried to blame James. What a piece of work. Typical Karen
I feel bad for Keith. He seems like a really good guy. Hate all this happened to him.
Her reaction vs Keith… the first thing he speaks to the police about is how to keep the kids safe from her
Me too
Keith had to shift into joke mode in order not to completely break down. That’s a sad state of affairs to be Joker-fied by your wife
Good guy or not, he should advised his wife to shut up and seek counsel.
Regardless of what's happened, in the moment, it still the spouses job to protect their other half.
@@pendejo6466 When the first thing they mention is evidence of her lying and the "captor" being her ex, I don't see how it's his job to protect her at all. And I do not agree that it's the spouses job to protect their other half regardless of what's happened.
One pattern I've learned about the narcissists I've known: Always the hero or the victim; never the villain. This one seems to have taken the role of victim to another level.
While in reality always the villain mastermind
In rare cases, the narcissist will intentionally choose the role of the villain, "so long as they are confident that they will have admirers" or even more rarely can become so off the deep end that they become completely vindictive.
I know just like personally, still has no grip on reality or life.
Ever noticed how it is always the "heroes" who win wars?
@Colonthree Enterprises I think that may be less about narcissism, more about an ongoing narrative. And yet there's still some overlap. Interesting observation.
They just dropped that bomb on the husband and then at the end of it all, just expect him to happily drive home with his wife like nothings wrong?! I don’t blame him for not wanting to be around her! Or not wanting her around his kids! The detectives seemed so cold to him and not helpful at all. I really hope he’s okay now.
9:22 There’s something so satisfying about seeing the husband do that motion. You just know when someone’s trying to practice self restraint when they do that.
What’s so unbelievable is that Keith stood behind her for years. He defended her, helped her, protected her. And to save her own ass, she was willing to throw him under the bus with claims of abuse. She didn’t deserve him 😡
that's when you see that narcissists like this don't really love anyone. they only "love" you as long as you are of use, and when you're not, you are thrown away just like everyone else. your well-being doesn't matter in the least when it comes right down to it.
@@florencehenderson3707 Yup. A lot of people want to believe that the narcissist loved them in some way. Nope, they only loved using you. You were convenient and that truth hurts deeply.
Basic standard woman behavior. Nothing to be shoked about.
What an unbelievably dimwitted little
He did the right thing, and left. that's all you can do, social isolation they use manipulation to get you back into the same routine of enabling their behaviors when you confront them, you just need to get away from that person and get them out of your life
Very rarely does a narcissist get caught in their lies this is gold!
Agree, I couldn't help but enjoy it for this reason
I helped look for her. I took my horse and rode country that I thought could possibly have her body, or that had old shacks where she could have been possibly held. The whole community was upset and worried for her safety, and reached out to her husband and family.
There was tremendous grief when she wasn't immediately found, and then shock, and anger that we had been deceived by a spoiled brat seeking attention. It was a travesty of justice when she only received 18months. She didn't just accuse two women of abducting her. She accused two Hispanic women of doing it. There was tremendous racial tension in our area due to her accusations.
Thanks for the insight. One thing I don't understand from this story is why she'd go through any of this? What's the motive? I thought the branding was some type of fetish to commemorate some secret extramarital affair type thing, but then the detectives said there was no sex involved. She also had her nose broken, ON PURPOSE!! I mean... it just doesn't make sense. What kind of attention would this bring that she was craving?? Is it possible she craves the pain, not the attention, but this is her way of appearing normal, while still getting whatever stimulation she was looking for?
Sheesh... so many questions, such a weird story.
Men put themselves in so much risk. Why would the ex boyfriend help her to do this?
Female privilege is real.
Freak.
Binging on your channel. Please don't stop making this amazing content!
The second he scooted the chair back to leave her on guilty island all by herself was subtle but so respectable. Feel bad for him, glad he walked out of this with full custody and is able to move on from this.
Yes, it was at 12:43, Detective said when James branded you on your shoulder, her husband half stood up to scoot his chair back and she even half stood up. As if he's going to hug her or whatever. Then she sat back down. That is one of my favorite parts of this interview! She needs to have her balloon popped.
@@ritawashere5787 Branded meaning? branded with a knife or tattoo?
@@creamerasant i would assume branded like they brand animals. with a hot metal pole? i’m not sure tho
@@creamerasant Branded with semen
@@creamerasant With a branding iron.
Update: she was sentenced to 18 months in prison by a Judge, above the sentencing guidelines and above what the prosecution was asking for and well above the house arrest that the defense attorneys asked for.
She deserves more. She should be doing 10 years at a minimum. The amount of money, manpower and resources chasing a ghost is insane. While they were playing her little game, they could have been catching rapists, murderers, etc.
@@southernfried19 this. But i think that they wanted to not set an examole out of her due to her having kids. But I do agree that she should have received 5 years and a $100,000 fine AT LEAST.
@@southernfried19 10 years smh lol
@@southernfried19 You wanna talk about cost? Do you know how much it would cost to jail her for 10 years for a crime that only (physically) hurt her
Good, but not nearly enough. Her husband...that poor man has to raise their children. And see her for the rest of his freaking life. He's the one with the life sentence. She should get it.
I love your videos. Thank you for your hard work.
She was a bad girl, trying to pretend that she's a good girl, trying to keep a good guy. She got bored, snuck out for some bad boy time and got busted. Men, if you suspect something is going on with your other half, you're probably right.
Allegedly they never slept together. It's all so strange.
@@CatalinaFOIA DNA says otherwise as if that really matters tho.
People will go to great lengths to excuse women of wrong doing
@@CatalinaFOIA no, she just uses everybody, the almighty power of the P!
@@darthbrooks4933 Not excusing anyone but they never said they found semen, just DNA. Which can be touch DNA if he touched her sleeve or from his nose if he sneezed on her. It is bizarre. No sex but starving herself, the branding and breaking her own nose, the ex boyfriend agreeing to do it, severe mental issues both of them, none of this is normal or makes any sense
The most annoying part of her interrogation is she gets higher and louder pitch whenever they start getting closer to the truth of what happened, like she's trying to drown them out. I think she should have gotten longer in prison.
That's narcissism.
20
Straight
Years
she tries to make herself really tiny too
I agree. There's a point at which I say that someone who has a mental or personality disorder has behaviors that are pitiable but not excusable. With personality disorders it often takes faaaaaar longer than 18 months of being at rock bottom or denied a supply of attention to finally convince them that they need hard core, ongoing therapy.
Anyone who has been around drama addicted ex-high school popular girls recognizes this exact behavior, right down to the high pitched whiny denial. They love drama and attention and always cause havoc to anyone who has the misfortune of being in the same social circle. When the dumb bishes inevitably get caught in their lies, their default is to act like victimized innocent little girls who didn't know what to do.
Ha ..ha...dumb bishes..🤣
Well said. Exact 💯
Yep, truly the little pond in High School was their ’prime time in life’ but they can’t cope in the big seas.
Bang on.
You described one of my ex
I’d love to see a interview from her husband about her behavior before during and after meeting her. Like a deep dive into a narcissist woman in a relationship and what he realized about it looking back
Keith’s chair was almost on their side at the end 🤣🤣
This poor man - thanks for covering the case. It appears Keith has custody of the children now, I can only hope he recovers and the family can support eachother.
What are the odds d she wont comeback knocking at the door anytime soon?
I hope Keith finds someone who appreciates what a solid, caring man he is. I remember watching interviews with him being so torn up. He was truly heartbroken over what she went through. I hope he gets to experience a relationship with someone who is not a narcissist. It will be life changing.
@@johnjr7070 wat?
He’d be doing way the hell better if he met me. ❤
@@cocofellas Why are you so after him? This is the second comment you've left on this channel. Kinda creepy
I was living in Redding and going to the community college there at the time this happened. I went to a city council meeting a couple days after she went missing and her husband took the stand there, holding their son and sobbing, he begged for her captors to release her and said how much he loved her and wanted her to come home, mentioning also that their kids needed her before he sat back down because he couldn’t talk anymore he was so upset.
Really really sad.
A few months before this at the college a student was walking to her car after a night class and was ACTUALLY almost abducted.
It scared the hell out of everyone at the college and in the local area, especially young women. We all thought that people were going around kidnapping blonde girls. Night class students were walked to their cars by security and the campus was really pressing about reporting anyone strange.
When she showed back up we all knew it was a scam. Pretty much all of Redding would talk about how she was a liar and a cheater. Years before her ex came forward the whole city was already assuming she had run off with some guy but had to come back because her family wasn’t giving up the search. The local facebook pages were full of Sherri Papini memes.
My guess is that she wanted to take advantage of this sadly not unheard of thing that happens in Redding and use it as an excuse to run off with her ex and get away from her family for a bit without them thinking she was a deadbeat.
Gross and sad. I’ll always feel bad for her husband. I’m assuming that after she came back he had put a few things together, but at that city council meeting he was obviously a very distraught and depressed man. I hope she enjoys jail.
Wait.....how come it was clear when she came back that she was a liar? She had a broken nose and a burned brand...what did you hear in those early days that was suspicious?
@@donperegrine922 the fact that she came back in and of itself was weird unfortunately. Everyone thought it was kid of crazy they would just let her go on the side of the road randomly. Also at the time the sheriffs office and police wouldn’t release anything about her condition. We didn’t know anything about any of her injuries. Basically it was “Sherri Papini found and safe”. And then like 2 days later they said she had gone home with her family. So we all thought, why would they let her go? Who took her? Is she mentally or physically injured? No one knew any details, it just seemed to make more sense that she was suspicious
@@staliaoftheknife9623 Oh wow! Absolutely wild situation for you to be near! What a crazy person. I couldn't break my own nose, if it meant my worst enemy died.....to do so just to break up with your lovely boyfri
end!?!?! insanity.
Wow she really affected the community and put you all through an ordeal.
There's another woman who went missing around the same time who was totally overshadowed by this case, too. Her disappearance is still unsolved.
We need a psychological analysis here. What would drive someone to fake their own capture??? This is really bizarre.
Bro, these detectives have incredible patience to deal with all the blatant bullcrap theatrics.
She wanted attention and sympathy more than anything. In her mind this would make everyone appreciate her and treat her like she's special. It would make her husband never take her for granted. It would make everyone scared to lose her. The attention from the community, and any fame and fortune from it, is a bonus. There's no downside to her, this was a win-win situation.
Narcs want to be special above all else, and they don't give a shit what anyone else feels outside of how it affects themselves.
DONT STOP TILL UR PROUD but this is nothing to be proud of! Role model for ur children which makes this even more sick. Her husband & children whom she was supposed to LOVE not HURT! She hurt all the time of LE that couldve spent searching for real missing women!💜🙏💜✌️
Oh yeah she probably enjoys even the negative attention she is getting with a mind like that and you can tell she is used to turning on the water works and everything is alright, mummy and daddy probably made it all better because she is their special little Sherri who can do no wrong. Can't help think of Gone Girl.
Positive Negative attention
Makes 0 difference to a narc
Amen! Narcs that are psychopaths are pure evil and drain their victim drier than a vampyre!
If I was her husband I would have been scrolling on my phones for a divorce lawyer during the interogation. The one thing about narcs is that they ALWAYS play the victim. They second thing is they NEVER change. As Rhett Butler said, "Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn."
This girl saw “Gone Girl”, and said “Hold my white claw!”
Perfect comment 😂😂.
Worst joke ever pffhhhh
@@ItsKittenn dumb comment... There I fixed it for you lol
I think it’s hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You win the comment section with this one!! Don't let haters spoil the laughter. That was pure gold!! 🤣🤣🤣
I had an ex who was very much like this. Not to the extent of faking a kidnapping but would slap herself until her cheeks were red and then claim I hit her so I would go to jail and she would hit the bars and hook up with whoever she could. She was a very attractive woman so it worked for her for a while. Eventually one observant cop caught on and arrested her for filing a false report. During this period my life became a total hell and literally drove me to panic attacks and depression. I'm a very docile person who was raised to never hit a woman. Thank God I was eventually proven innocent but the damage she did lives on to this day. My son is 29 and hasn't spoken to his mother since he was 16. She lives only a few miles from him. I still encourage him to reach out to his mother but he wants absolutely nothing to do with her. I can tell it has a very negative effect on him. People if you get a divorce and there are children involved please don't use the kids as pawns in your battle. It WILL come back to haunt you. Never bad mouth your ex to your kids. It hurts them more than you'll ever know.
I'm scared that I'm running into a troubled person atm. There are some red flags, but I don't have a spark with females too often.
@@freddyfox5002 Not worth your time bro, dating a chick with multiple red flags is like driving through a red light, neither scenario is worth the inevitable crash and burn
I’m sorry for you and your son, glad you don’t have the stress of dealing with your witch of an ex anymore
@@freddyfox5002 It can only end bad. Save yourself before you get in too deep.
Narcisist behavior is so dangerous because they don't have feelings and people are just tools to exploit: no shame, no remorse, no mercy...they are sick self centered ..an endless manipulation
That she cannot immediately say that her husband should be with her in the room is a red flag right off the bat.
That's interesting how that works. She is a Narcissist but she is also willing to put herself down first as a victim in order to become a hero.
I suppose that means she isn't the grandiose type because they would never stoop that low and ALWAYS needs to be perceived as the hero.
That poor dude...I can't even imagine the anger and pure frustration he felt
Wow I can imagine what that husband was feeling. He was so quiet. His thoughts must have been racing. Idk how he sat there so long
He prolly knew something was fishy. She has probably pulled something like this before on a smaller scale.
@user-bx2ff4mv2m "Smaller" = "Un- provable to himself" probably. He has juuuust enough inclinations and evidence to piece it together but just enough to doubt at the same time. I'm living this.
Pathological liars. They're best avoided.
Godspeed to ya, Keith. Hope you find happiness.
Body language of the husband is far more interesting and tragic than any others.
"No I can't believe James would do something like that"
"We have the evidence that you corroborated with James to fake this kid napping"
"James would never kidnap me"
"Ya he didn't it was fake and we have the proof"
Lmao wtf am I watching
Typical narcissistic. Play with words to a point where you start to wonder what's real and what fiction is.
Textbook gaslighting
LOL! 🤣 Me too, bud! I was in the same place!
"I can't believe James would do something like that!"
"We have the evidence that you corroborated with James to fake your own kidnapping."
"James would never kidnap me!"
"No, he didn't. YOU did. And we have the Proof. YOU'RE the guilty one, here..!"
"James would never hurt me! Why would James lie to me?!"
"Jist!...Forget that we even mentioned James! It was YOO! YOO, YOO, YOO!!"
"...James just isn't that type of person...!"
A relative of mine through marriage is someone with this mental disorder. It's been a living nightmare to watch that person lie, manipulate, and make false accusations like their son has, which may be following in his parent's footsteps. I avoid having anything to with them anymore.
I remember this case... I knew at the time something didn't add up but there weren't a lot of people willing to question it too deeply
Her husband walked because as soon as he heard the penny dropped. Respect to him.
Proves what a class act he is! Has a dagger in his heart! Ouch💜🙏💜😳
Check google they are still together hahah
@@lloydchristmas1086 no
@@lloydchristmas1086 this is straight cap
“ our society treats victims like heroes ” so true
No....just White people!!! They would not be so gentle to a person of color. That is a Fact!
depending on who defines victim and hero.....
@@am5790 juicy smollette? George Floyd?
People want that "hero" attention, which is why all kinds of people claim to be "victims" or "oppressed". That's why we have a toxic society of people saying "everyone is sexist against me", and "everyone is rayyyycis", and "there's systemic rayyyycism". Because they'll get treated as a hero by the Dems for their lies.
@@P12ooF Saint Floyd
my jaw dropped when she said "It just doesnt make any sense!" xD
Ive known women like this. It is so rare that anyone believes how diabolical they can be.
This happened in my hometown around thanksgiving and there was a huge media frenzy around finding her and her husband pleading for her safe return while people thought he was involved! She let that search go through Christmas so during the holiday season this woman had people out in the cold looking for her when she knew damn well she is fine and safe. Disgusting!! She’s one of those horrible people to falsely accuse others.
Not only going out in the cold to search for her but she ruined peoples Christmas . How could anyone celebrate the holiday thinking she was laying somewhere dead . Awful woman.
@@operacarmen ew nigga get a grip. Just because you like a face doesn't make you obligated to enter and fuck up someone else's life with your CLEAR poor decision making
The (debunked) 1st psychopath theory:
A psychopath was born. This was not normal and did not seem healthy. But it was a member of the group. People began to emulate this thing, mistaking its weakness for strength. Eventually a culture began and it spread across the world.
Now we know about the MOA gene but this theory always seemed close to the true, though still wrong of course, to me.
She was “found” on thanksgiving day though… what would Christmas have to do with this?
That's cold bro for what tho😮
Ive had the misfortune of dealing with a narc in the family. I can confirm, no matter how obvious it is that they have done wrong, they will never ever admit to it.
damn!! i wouldnt even be mad lol seeing this unfold, i would grab some popcorn and do exactly like Keith after. Thanks for the show byyyye
High respect for the 2 men questioning Sherry, very calm all throughout 🙏
I think Keith knew deep down that she was lying all along but didn’t quite know what to believe. He was calm because he had lots of scenarios in his head and this didn’t shock him. He has been living with her for years. He seems smart enough to know who she is.
narcissists are amazing manipulators, he probably did have some suspicion but she likely gaslighted it out of him and whatnot
@@sicariusflamus3033 plus Keith is 💯 fully on, hardcore beta. She KNEW she could treat him like that because of his betaness. Awful women and hopefully realises it's OK to have standards and respect himself a bit more now.
@@EFFEZE she chose him because he was so easy to manipulated, i hope this hardened his heart
@@EFFEZE jeeesus dude. Keith is going through enough and you call him a "beta"?? yikes...
@@sicariusflamus3033 bingo! Gaslight is the perfect word for this. Glad he’s free now.
The cops acted like dicks to the husband at the end. He just found out the mother of his children is a lunatic and the cops are cold and dismissive to his concerns.
@LichenSand I saw a bunch of people bring this up in the comments
Kid gloves with her, cold scorn for him.
It’s the way the world works, better start acting accordingly.
@LichenSand YES !!! What you said is exactly what it is!! “ same people just on a different side of the room” ! A lot of police are “crooked” so it’s crazy to me they sit in a room and lie to people to try to get them to “ tell the truth” innocent or not… smh.
Because husband was IN ON IT! And the cops know it. They just can’t get him yet. Or maybe they want to leave one parent for the kids.
Investigators have to have procedures to follow. Was still a possibility that the husband was in on it. They offered what they could. It's not like the case had gone before a jury already. I appreciate they could have shown a little more feeling, but please, they are cops, not kindergarten teachers. It's okay to be clean and have boundaries. They couldn't tell the husband what the wife said/etc. Nor can they advise him what to do.
Finally! I could see the interrogation!!
After soo many ppl telling about it
She did it to sneak away and cheat, then to lie to get out of trouble and being the victim, receiving attention is the ultimate drug to a narcissist.
That's what I initially thought, but the detectives said they had no sex (polygraph confirmed). Is it possible she cheated with other men and that was found out, so she did this to essentially overshadow the infidelity? Make sure her husband feels like he's lucky to have her?
Sometimes I wish the investigators would just point to the camera and say "how dumb do you want to look, cut the act"
they can’t
@@eliza2312 Why not?
@@jedross2136 then that shows bias to the idea that she is already guilty before given a chance to prove innocence no matter how little proof there may be
@@SleepyFl0wer They do that in interrogations all the time, they even lie about evidence they don't have. To the point that innocent people sometimes confess to crimes they didn't commit.
The #1 goal (and problem) is to keep the perp talking, any way possible. Snark or sarcasm does nothing for the investigation, the perp will quickly shut down or ask for a lawyer. To get info, cops have to pander to perps by tolerating their theater and fake-consoling them ("you're not really that bad" etc)
The things that makes me the most angry in this case is the fact that... by lying and putting on this whole show, Sherri STOLE money and resources that could have been applied searching for ACTUAL victims.
300k in restitution she owes, so she'll be broke forever after she gets outta prison.
Keith, no more MR NICE GUY!!!! Period. END OF STORY bud! I know it’s hard bc I use to be the same way, but there is light at the end of the dark tunnel. God bless you and your family 🙏
I love how the detectives stay calm and collected while sherries freaking out, just to show that their not entertaining her bull shit
I feel for the dude, he seemed like a genuinely good dude, I hope things work out for him
He has a sickness himself. He's attracted to women like this and that never goes away. With that said I hope he is the one in a billion exception and turns his life around.
@@MsCwebb Wow victim blaming
@@meepmop9662 Love it!!! 🤩
@@MsCwebbthanks for the diagnosis doc. Definitely not a chance she’s a dedicated manipulator and he’s just a naive good hearted guy.
@@brandonabbott6225 guuuuuurl!!! U sassy 🤩
I feel like Keith must’ve always doubted her a little to remain so calm, I would’ve freaked out
Everyone handles stress and shock differently.
@@celinesnl5338 She pretended to be hurt & she hurt herself to make it look real. Her husband just found out the TRUTH rt here so he had to step out of the rm so he wouldnt go crazy in the rm. Her family was worried sick that she was kidnapped. U could write in ur language & google will translate. Ur doing well for 2nd lamguage!
@@celinesnl5338 branding is when a hot metal tool is used to burn a mark into something's skin, usually it's used for animals to mark what farm they belong to. The hockey stick was used to hit her in the nose to break it, she pressed the stick to her face and her friend hit it
@@celinesnl5338 She hurt herself completely beyond hurting those who were worried sick about her. She even starved herself& talked her ex into making her look like she was violated.
@@mabelmavelia4562 Damn. She was really committed to make it look “real”.
That poor husband... and his poor children....
Listening to this pampered blonde princess and her over dramatic "crying" was almost unbearable. You can tell she’s been used to getting her way her entire life.
Yip..Daddy never said no
And the Academy Award for worst performance and liar goes to...
Yes, likely worked with her parents (and they allowed her lies thinking they were "cute"). The parents create these horrible pampered spoiled idiots.
It’s wonderful how women can spot this type of behavior a mile away . She’s embarrassing to the rest of us
Princess lol more like blonde moron
The Gone Girl Sherri Papini is always fascinating. I don't think I've ever seen the interrogation so I am glad there is something new.
Fascinating? It’s disgusting that humans like her exist
I think there is a longer version on Explore With Us. Or maybe it's the same but just different commentary.
Drip drop has the entire video also
I highly recommend watching the full breakdown of this case!
Both your suspicions are spot on. She either wanted to escape reality or ditch mom life, however, the starvation and self harm is clearly some Jussie Smollett ish.
💯.
İs that an "either or" grammatical sentence construction? Or just an either question?
@@garrysekelli6776 either or. But the “or” wouldn’t make sense how I constructed the sentence.
She either wanted to ditch mom life or act like a victim like Mr. Smollett 🤣 idk.
*my English isn’t A1 but I hope you get it
That second sentence made my brain short circuit
@@Frewition my bad 🌝🫣
The husband backing his chair away from his soon-to-be ex wife and asking to speak to one of the detectives outside the room was a pretty intense moment. So long good bye, just like that.
Unreal how she tried to continuously go with the lies.
12:47 good catch Red Tree Crime. Exactly! Perfect caption too 💯
I feel for her husband Keith. He was under her spell the whole time. He deserves a good woman, not her.
Keith is the reason women like her can exist in this world. He is a net negative to society and men as a whole. To everybody really. Fumbling, weak men deserve nothing but trouble. He got what he deserved. She is the same but a woman. I would almost say they were made for each other. Complete goofballs that made a mockery of their entire lives.
Just think for a minute about the term 'controlling relationship '
Dudes a simp they are still married and living together. 🤦♂️
I’ve known 2 people just like her. Couldn’t get away quick enough. Very toxic and dangerous
You said it 💯
Aye Keith… u deserve better💯💯💯
I am going through this myself right now, the only difference is at the end she then blamed me for the crime’s instead of placing the blame on her ex !!
Feel sooo SORRY for the husband, I was married to an narcissist for 28yrs they stop at NOTHING, their whole life is one big LIE. Hope the husband got on with his life and FREE.
I had a girl friend like that for 7 years. Like you’ve said….
28 years holy fuck!
Yeah and what kind of dude is the James fucker to go along with her, branding her, helping her break her nose.....she must have a killer fuck bag
21 years for me Susan. You are 100% correct.
Now you a victwm
One thing that has always struck me about Sherry's photos with Keith is that the photos usually center on her and her poses. When couples pose together for photos, the focus is usually on both partners.
Exactly
Keith is a little off.
@@markmnorcal Maybe, but I think anyone would be after going through something like this with a spouse.
Exactly. One of the photos just shows the back of his head. He’s weird, but she’s morally bankrupt.
@@markmnorcal He is. I think he may have something like Aspergers. Don’t think he really has a PD like her.
I love how they act like Polygraphs are even remotely reliable hahah. Poor husband though, you can see him slowly realize how deep it goes, he slowly slides further and further away.
Polygraph doesn’t mean shit! Not even admissible in court. That should tell you everything you need to know about it’s veracity.
The *AliExpress Gone Girl* lol
Kinda like this whole channel lmao.
Lol
You *wish* .....(I thank you 😁)
😂
So her husband is AliExpress Affleck