I'm a dude and i came up on your video. It's great to see a woman being proud in her femininity and promoting it onto other women in this where its very need. Just wanna say men really appreciate the effort
1. Spend more on Ease 2. You don’t need to do everything yourself - overwhelmed, burnout 3. See beauty in the journey - Life is a marathon, not a sprint 4. You don’t need to know everything 5. You are in control - friendship, job, environment 6. You are not the same everyday 7. Go slower - slow down / rest 8. Don’t self sabotage
I’m so glad to see a young woman who is able to enjoy life and is not hustling to survive. I think it depends on which career you choose and what your calling is in life. I’ve been in the healthcare field all my life and it’s not realistic to even think about softer life when you work full time and you dedicate your life to serving others. I did get burned out eventually and so I moved to Florida and as a result I’m able to work part time and enjoy life more😉
Career definitely plays a huge part in it I think. I find it much easier to live a softer life when I work for myself doing a job I love…vs working a very intensive corporate job where people care deeply about how many hours you can work for. But the good thing is is that we can always change direction if something isn’t working for us anymore 💕
I am in healthcare, too, and it’s a very machismo field. Being strong mentally and physically is part of the job. Softness is not valued in healthcare, unless you’re a social worker. I try to bring some softness/caring/femininity/inspiration to our patients, and they appreciate it.
These days it's all about bling, material goods, jewelry, being half naked, and flashing wads of cash. You can also thank rap and hip-hop culture for that since that's where it really started to take off, back in the early 2000's.
It's not about that. People work because they don't want to be poor and go hungry. Then they work even harder than before because now that they are no longer poor and hungry, they want to buy nice things and live in a nice place. Simple as that. People don't work hard because society tells them to. If I wanted to travel the world I need a decent amount of money to do it. It won't be cheap.
ive been living this way for years and others (including family), always gave me flack for it lmao. at the same time, they were admittedly jealous but also happy for me. they chalked it up to me just being "lucky". Nope, just a conscious decision to live this way. I'm glad more people are catching on because it truly is so freeing and everyone deserves to feel that peace within. It also doesnt have to be a permanent shift. Allow yourself to go through phases as well as life ebbs and flows. I see it almost as medicinal, doing what feels right depending on the circumstance at the time.
Jillz, thanks for all your videos - they have been a huge part of my recent growth! Slowing down my lifestyle and being respectful of my body's menstrual cycle has been instrumental to tapping into my femininity. I internalized "hustle culture" in early college and 10 years of this ultimately left me wiped out and unhappy. I thought slowing down was weakness, so you can imagine after ovulation and before my period I was absolutely miserable and pushing myself beyond my means. Although the hard work did lead me to management positions in my workplaces, once I was at the top I was totally exhausted and subconsciously resentful towards other people. I think the way we treat (and think of) others directly correlates with how we treat ourselves. I appreciate your ability to maintain your channel and website all while embracing your femininity and helping others achieve the same. Super excited to see your future continue to evolve Jillz! (:
This is so timely! I've been renovating my mother's house to live in and I just realized I've felt like I need to do all the work myself in order to feel like I've earned it once it's all nice and renovated - like if I haven't suffered over it enough I don't deserve to enjoy it. I am trying to be okay with allowing others to help and do things for me!
Oh this resonates with me! I am a new widow and my husband wouldn’t allow any one in to fix things. I now have a house that needs a lot of work and am struggling to allow myself to pay professionals to do the work for me, and friends to help me.
@@hiannahgus574 think of it as spreading love - presuming you are going to pay them to help you, that means you are helping feed their family, nurture and support them etc. So by allowing them to help you, you are also directly helping them, and their family! ❤
GREAT topic! Your point about how we get used to the chaos and non-stop stress is so true. It feels almost selfish to take the time for a bubble bath while sipping some wine, to take the time to do a facial massage instead of just a splash of water and go. Why do we associate guilt with self-care and not allowing ourselves to take a quiet walk or sit and look at the clouds? We CHOOSE our frenetic pace! We CHOOSE to keep doing for others and not considering ourselves important as well. Well, I am easing into the softer life in joyful increments and loving every minute! Just like you, I would recommend it for everyone!
While I agree with most of what you are saying, I think that the number one aspect that will help everyone become softer is also to make your life simpler, and that requires no extra money. Eliminate all external source of stress, own and commit to less things, select your relationships very carefully, and your life will automatically improve, leading you to become softer. We all have the same basic needs ultimately, so it’s up to us to scale those needs with our resources to the best of our abilities. Making your life simpler will lead to a softer, more fun and more relaxed life
I had my children incredibly young. My entire adult life I struggle spending any money on myself. I feel, this is money I could be spending on them. However, they already have everything. Not only that, but they truly get happy seeing me do or buy something for myself. It is my own block. I’m trying to work through this.
I feel the same way about my mother! She deserves so much more than she allows herself to have. I hope you’ve been treating yourself to a softer life recently ❤
think of it as spreading love - presuming you are going to pay them to help you, that means you are helping feed their family, nurture and support them etc. So by allowing them to help you, you are also directly helping them, and their family! ❤
Hi Jillz! I just wanted to say your channel is my go-to every time I want to reconnect with my feminine energy. I gotta give you credit for the amazing work you do! Sending all the love your way and to all the amazing women here! ❤❤❤❤
I love this video !! 💘💘💘 I loved when you said: 'doing everything yourself doesn't make you a better person it just makes you more stressed out.' So true and valuable to recognise! xxx
Thanks a lot for promoting such feminine energy! Nowadays it’s hard to find bloggers who will give precious advices without being too extreme in their reasoning.
Hi Jillz! I would love to see a video on how to cultivate good relationships and goodwill between women, whether it be between friends or acquaintances or just people who don't even know each other
I love your videos. ♥️ People are all talking about hard work. What does this even mean? Does this mean working hours and hours on end without a break? Does this mean never sitting down and rest? Does this mean your attention should always focus on the outside rather than how i feel? I'm a perfectionist and constantly burnt out if i work. So i want to redefine "hard work". "Hard work" didnt do me good. Hard work means for me staying focused and get the things done i need to do that day. I'm sick of the husstle culture. It did make me ill.
Tip #1 already calling me out! I recently ruined my hair by trying to cut it myself, because I didn't want to spend the money to get my hair cut. It was nice and long before and is now way too short for my liking. Never again. I'm so cheap with myself ... I really need to change that.
Your body didn't make you sick. You did. You aren't separate from your body, you ARE the body. You ARE the brain, and every single inch of yourself. Another major problem that induces stress and a feeling of distance from one's self is thinking you are piloting around a meat bag separate from you. Of course people will feel alienated when that is their mindset.
Hey Jiilz, could you make a video about how to be feminine in leadership positions? Like how to a feminine leader, a feminine boss. Because when you are in power positions is hard to not rely on your masculine energy to be in comand. Is it possible to be a boss and still be feminine? I mean, to use your feminine energy to be a leader. I don't know if I could pass the ideia right haha but I would really love to see a video like that and this is something that I'm struggling at. Thank you!
Not true, read the book of Esther in the Bible. This Queen saved her nation in the most Feminine way. (And even if you are atheist, it’s still a Good read, major lessons on Feminity )
I genuinely don’t think there could’ve been a better timed video. This was literally what I was searching for! Thanks Jillz. Hope you’re having a great day! ❤
Great ideas. I know I feel guilty if I do something for myself. I should not but I do. I had all the chores planned but instead, I felt so depleted, that I could not do anything, and wound up taking the day easy. My body could not give anymore. I felt badly but now I hear you and I understand I did the right things! Thank you!
Awesome video as always. Loved the video game reference. I’m 20 right now and I really appreciated your point on not knowing everything. I don’t known why but At this stage I feel like I need to be knowledgeable on everything that’s going on around me especially about politics and the economy. I’m so glad you mentioned this point because now I’m more aware. Thanks Jillz !!🥰
Thank you so much for this video. I feel like you provided such pratical tips I can start to do. I resonated with what you said about not earning a " badge of honor" for overworking.
I first read the title as The Soft Lie and I thought to myself, “huh I wonder what that is?” Haha lol. Great video. I always looks forward to your videos 💕
Dear Jillz, how do you deal with contrast? Our world is very masculine, women are being that way too, so when you embrace your femininity, it makes other women uncomfortable and creates friction. How do you deal with that? Love Aya :)
I have encountered this “tall poppy syndrome “ amongst other women, too. Some women are jealous and angry at another’s femininity, while others are inspired.
I really needed to hear this now. I have been struggling with my own resistance to the softer life and even conciously been looking for reasons as to why/how things cant change for me. It's clearly a fear of the unknown even though the unknown seems to be good. Anyway thank you for your precious contents, lots of mind opening points you make everytime. Helps me in my pursuit of personal growth and fulfillment
Hey Jillz, I am addicted to your content 🌻 you have helped me embrace my true feminine and softer side of myself. I was wondering, in this video you mentioned cycle syncing and using that as a way to navigate our life as women. Do you have a video that dives deeper into that topic or are you open to creating more content on that? It would be greatly beneficial for me and I'm sure for other fellow women as well 😌
Sometimes it's not possible to ask someone else. My boyfriend is disabled so I'm the only one at home who can do stuff. I can't afford to hire help either. So I am struggling, tired and burnt out.
Well, I'm drawing in acne. I suffer from insomnia since my teenages (in 27 now) and my life didn't allow me to a "softer journey" until a while ago. - I love my job, but I don't have a good relationship with it. - I love my family, but we don't always get along too well too. - I am single, but I don't like being single anymore! I'm so in a new - successful - moment of my life, but I don't enjoy it. I need help, I need change.. 😓
Thanks for this video!! I can relate to the tip where you said that you felt like you had to know everything...I'm currently going through that phase right now, I'm going to try to step away from this mindset! thanks a lot for these tips!
The book with a heart on the cover always gets my attention, I don’t know why, why this book the shelves are full of books...I think it says to me read me😊. May I know the title of the book ?
@ Jillz and friends in the comments: Anyone have any advice about living a soft life while in nursing school? In one way, I feel like I'm leaning into my femininity (caring for others, learning and developing myself) but it's also a very demanding program (one exam a week, hours of class time, and 12-hour shifts at the hospital.) I'm tired, haha! I'm trying to think of ways to create moments of softness into my day even when I have to work hard ... thank you!
So amazing you’re in nursing school! Little moments of presence in your day can help a lot. For example, when you take your lunch break…take 10 mins to just sit with your food and enjoy it. No phone or anything, just being present in that. Or taking a 5 min walk outside when you have a break. Breathing deeply and relaxing into your body. Lighting a candle as you get ready for bed. It’s the little things 💕💕 But also remember that life has seasons, this might just be a more demanding season of your life and that’s okay. Just don’t forget to take care of yourself too! ❤️
Place your faith on Jesus. Jesus died so that you can have everlasting life. Jesus is the way the truth and the life. No one gets to the Father but by him. Trust Jesus. Repent. Have a good day.
Because its needed to pay the bills. Things cost money. Unless you live in a communist country where everything is free. If you're happy without material things that's a fine way to live too but you can't have it both ways. You either live the "soft girl" life and never get to where you want to be because your finances are not in order/non-existent, or you pull yourself up by the bootstraps, work hard and sweat to make your money so that you can one day live the lavish lifestyle you've always dreamed of.
everyone talking bout like TAP INTO YOUR FEMININE ENERGY RN no one talking about how being in masculine energy makes us feel safe especially after being abused by men as a child/teenage girl. like I AM SCARED. i am scared to live in my city full of filtthy 45+ men ttalking to me, trying to get close. or young men grabbing me because they think they can. what do i do stay quiet//?? never
I’ve mentioned in some other videos that for a woman to be in her feminine energy, she has to feel SAFE. It’s a non negotiable. Try to create that feeling of safety as much as you can 💕
I hear you! The 'soft life' is actually/originally a black movement (among black women) to try to erase the negative stereotypes around them based on racial issues and their own hard communities. Especially for their mental health and self care. So it's actually very specific to a certain group of people who already know how to navigate being 'masculine' and know how to protect themselves. As a non POC, please find your sense of safety first, because being feminine in a vulnerable world/situation without a back up plan is dangerous. It seems like too many of these topics are simply co-opted and don't even make sense anymore. Protect yourself first, be soft later or when you can.
There's no such thing as masculine or feminine energy. It's all made up and a way to describe hormones and testosterone. Men and women have the exact same "energy", all living creatures do. Do you see female chimps or gorillas channeling "feminine" energy? Nope. And they never will.
One of the best things I've been told while on my feminine journey is that you don't get an award for having the hardest or most difficult life.
I'm a dude and i came up on your video. It's great to see a woman being proud in her femininity and promoting it onto other women in this where its very need. Just wanna say men really appreciate the effort
That’s so sweet.
I love this! Thank you so much for sharing.
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1. Spend more on Ease
2. You don’t need to do everything yourself - overwhelmed, burnout
3. See beauty in the journey - Life is a marathon, not a sprint
4. You don’t need to know everything
5. You are in control - friendship, job, environment
6. You are not the same everyday
7. Go slower - slow down / rest
8. Don’t self sabotage
Emerald purple hi love you💋💋💋😘💓
Thanks for the summary!
“Doing everything yourself doesn’t make you a better person, it just makes you more stressed” PREACH 🙇♀️🙇♀️🙇♀️🙇♀️
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I so wish I’d known this when I was younger - so younger ladies - listen to her, because she is very smart! ❤
I’m so glad to see a young woman who is able to enjoy life and is not hustling to survive. I think it depends on which career you choose and what your calling is in life. I’ve been in the healthcare field all my life and it’s not realistic to even think about softer life when you work full time and you dedicate your life to serving others. I did get burned out eventually and so I moved to Florida and as a result I’m able to work part time and enjoy life more😉
Career definitely plays a huge part in it I think. I find it much easier to live a softer life when I work for myself doing a job I love…vs working a very intensive corporate job where people care deeply about how many hours you can work for. But the good thing is is that we can always change direction if something isn’t working for us anymore 💕
@@JillzGuerin super!
@@JillzGuerin precisely 💯 so many people think they are stuck, but the truth is there is always a choice and all we have to do is choose wisely 😉
I'm a cook. I have no time to slow down, turning over the dining room 3 times in one night, serving over 300 people in 120 degree heat. But it's fun.
I am in healthcare, too, and it’s a very machismo field. Being strong mentally and physically is part of the job. Softness is not valued in healthcare, unless you’re a social worker. I try to bring some softness/caring/femininity/inspiration to our patients, and they appreciate it.
I agree I’m so tired of the hustle culture…
The mentality that if you aren’t being productive than you were not a good person
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These days it's all about bling, material goods, jewelry, being half naked, and flashing wads of cash. You can also thank rap and hip-hop culture for that since that's where it really started to take off, back in the early 2000's.
It's not about that. People work because they don't want to be poor and go hungry. Then they work even harder than before because now that they are no longer poor and hungry, they want to buy nice things and live in a nice place. Simple as that. People don't work hard because society tells them to. If I wanted to travel the world I need a decent amount of money to do it. It won't be cheap.
Stopped watching the news last year. Found it boosted my feminine energy 100 fold.
ive been living this way for years and others (including family), always gave me flack for it lmao. at the same time, they were admittedly jealous but also happy for me. they chalked it up to me just being "lucky". Nope, just a conscious decision to live this way. I'm glad more people are catching on because it truly is so freeing and everyone deserves to feel that peace within. It also doesnt have to be a permanent shift. Allow yourself to go through phases as well as life ebbs and flows. I see it almost as medicinal, doing what feels right depending on the circumstance at the time.
Yes! Not watching the news is the secret sauce-it really helps my mental health x
Jillz, thanks for all your videos - they have been a huge part of my recent growth! Slowing down my lifestyle and being respectful of my body's menstrual cycle has been instrumental to tapping into my femininity. I internalized "hustle culture" in early college and 10 years of this ultimately left me wiped out and unhappy. I thought slowing down was weakness, so you can imagine after ovulation and before my period I was absolutely miserable and pushing myself beyond my means. Although the hard work did lead me to management positions in my workplaces, once I was at the top I was totally exhausted and subconsciously resentful towards other people. I think the way we treat (and think of) others directly correlates with how we treat ourselves. I appreciate your ability to maintain your channel and website all while embracing your femininity and helping others achieve the same. Super excited to see your future continue to evolve Jillz! (:
I’m so glad this video resonated with you. I love how you said being respectful of our menstrual cycle - such a good way to put it 💕💕
That's also story of my life...
your point about not needing to know everything is so liberating! love this vid and your channel
That one was so huge for me! And thank you!! 💕💕
@@JillzGuerin beautiful girl💋💋💋
This is so timely! I've been renovating my mother's house to live in and I just realized I've felt like I need to do all the work myself in order to feel like I've earned it once it's all nice and renovated - like if I haven't suffered over it enough I don't deserve to enjoy it. I am trying to be okay with allowing others to help and do things for me!
Oh this resonates with me! I am a new widow and my husband wouldn’t allow any one in to fix things. I now have a house that needs a lot of work and am struggling to allow myself to pay professionals to do the work for me, and friends to help me.
@@hiannahgus574 think of it as spreading love - presuming you are going to pay them to help you, that means you are helping feed their family, nurture and support them etc. So by allowing them to help you, you are also directly helping them, and their family! ❤
GREAT topic! Your point about how we get used to the chaos and non-stop stress is so true. It feels almost selfish to take the time for a bubble bath while sipping some wine, to take the time to do a facial massage instead of just a splash of water and go. Why do we associate guilt with self-care and not allowing ourselves to take a quiet walk or sit and look at the clouds? We CHOOSE our frenetic pace! We CHOOSE to keep doing for others and not considering ourselves important as well. Well, I am easing into the softer life in joyful increments and loving every minute! Just like you, I would recommend it for everyone!
Yes exactly!! ❤️❤️
While I agree with most of what you are saying, I think that the number one aspect that will help everyone become softer is also to make your life simpler, and that requires no extra money. Eliminate all external source of stress, own and commit to less things, select your relationships very carefully, and your life will automatically improve, leading you to become softer. We all have the same basic needs ultimately, so it’s up to us to scale those needs with our resources to the best of our abilities. Making your life simpler will lead to a softer, more fun and more relaxed life
100% agree!! 🙌
True 👍
eliminating sources of stress absolutely costs money for most people
I had my children incredibly young. My entire adult life I struggle spending any money on myself. I feel, this is money I could be spending on them. However, they already have everything. Not only that, but they truly get happy seeing me do or buy something for myself. It is my own block. I’m trying to work through this.
I feel the same way about my mother! She deserves so much more than she allows herself to have. I hope you’ve been treating yourself to a softer life recently ❤
think of it as spreading love - presuming you are going to pay them to help you, that means you are helping feed their family, nurture and support them etc. So by allowing them to help you, you are also directly helping them, and their family! ❤
Hi Jillz! I just wanted to say your channel is my go-to every time I want to reconnect with my feminine energy. I gotta give you credit for the amazing work you do! Sending all the love your way and to all the amazing women here! ❤❤❤❤
Aww thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️❤️
your voice, your aura, your smile give me ease
I love this video !! 💘💘💘 I loved when you said: 'doing everything yourself doesn't make you a better person it just makes you more stressed out.' So true and valuable to recognise! xxx
Love this video, always notice the difference when I am more relaxed versus hustling. When in soft woman era I attract more good in my life naturally.
Thanks a lot for promoting such feminine energy! Nowadays it’s hard to find bloggers who will give precious advices without being too extreme in their reasoning.
Hi Jillz! I would love to see a video on how to cultivate good relationships and goodwill between women, whether it be between friends or acquaintances or just people who don't even know each other
You said it! I am on my journey towards a softer life as well. Thank you for your channel.
I love your videos. ♥️
People are all talking about hard work. What does this even mean? Does this mean working hours and hours on end without a break? Does this mean never sitting down and rest? Does this mean your attention should always focus on the outside rather than how i feel? I'm a perfectionist and constantly burnt out if i work. So i want to redefine "hard work". "Hard work" didnt do me good. Hard work means for me staying focused and get the things done i need to do that day. I'm sick of the husstle culture. It did make me ill.
Yes for peace, presence and peace ❤
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I am so happy I found your channel. I can resonate to every word, especially working hours, and being productive all the time.
I’m a gen xer and I’ve been living the soft life for years …. Listening to this maybe I should write an ebook about lol
Tip #1 already calling me out! I recently ruined my hair by trying to cut it myself, because I didn't want to spend the money to get my hair cut. It was nice and long before and is now way too short for my liking. Never again. I'm so cheap with myself ... I really need to change that.
Your body didn't make you sick. You did. You aren't separate from your body, you ARE the body. You ARE the brain, and every single inch of yourself. Another major problem that induces stress and a feeling of distance from one's self is thinking you are piloting around a meat bag separate from you. Of course people will feel alienated when that is their mindset.
I got sick around 13 hehe
Hey Jiilz, could you make a video about how to be feminine in leadership positions? Like how to a feminine leader, a feminine boss. Because when you are in power positions is hard to not rely on your masculine energy to be in comand. Is it possible to be a boss and still be feminine? I mean, to use your feminine energy to be a leader. I don't know if I could pass the ideia right haha but I would really love to see a video like that and this is something that I'm struggling at. Thank you!
No. Feminine energy is not leading energy.
Not true, read the book of Esther in the Bible. This Queen saved her nation in the most Feminine way. (And even if you are atheist, it’s still a Good read, major lessons on Feminity )
@@christchild1711I will read it, thanks for the suggestion.
@@bunniewood ??? Why not?
I genuinely don’t think there could’ve been a better timed video. This was literally what I was searching for! Thanks Jillz. Hope you’re having a great day! ❤
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Love your channel!
"I don't need to have an opinion on everything happening out there" I've just come to start thinking this. Really took a burden off my brain.😊
You are like a guiding angel❤
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Yay! New upload :) So happy. Best thing about a Sunday evening.
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This is a beautiful and healing message. Thank you
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You should have a million subscribers. Great advice ❤
Awww thank you ❤️❤️
Great ideas. I know I feel guilty if I do something for myself. I should not but I do. I had all the chores planned but instead, I felt so depleted, that I could not do anything, and wound up taking the day easy. My body could not give anymore. I felt badly but now I hear you and I understand I did the right things! Thank you!
Totally understand, this is how I felt all this weekend! But since I just let myself rest I feel sooo much better 💕💕💕
Awesome video as always. Loved the video game reference. I’m 20 right now and I really appreciated your point on not knowing everything. I don’t known why but At this stage I feel like I need to be knowledgeable on everything that’s going on around me especially about politics and the economy. I’m so glad you mentioned this point because now I’m more aware. Thanks Jillz !!🥰
I just like watching you , you are one of the women I look up to 💗💗💗
Awww 🥰🥰🥰
Seeing the beauty in the journey- facts!
Love your videos! This was much needed during my time of stress❤
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Thank you so much for this video. I feel like you provided such pratical tips I can start to do. I resonated with what you said about not earning a " badge of honor" for overworking.
Love this approach. Wonderful video.
I can relate to this so much! It's safe to live a soft life, thank you Jillz!
I first read the title as The Soft Lie and I thought to myself, “huh I wonder what that is?” Haha lol. Great video. I always looks forward to your videos 💕
Hahaha I guess it got your attention! 😂 And thank you so much 💕💕💕
❤ love this! Thank you!
Dear Jillz, how do you deal with contrast? Our world is very masculine, women are being that way too, so when you embrace your femininity, it makes other women uncomfortable and creates friction. How do you deal with that? Love Aya :)
I have encountered this “tall poppy syndrome “ amongst other women, too. Some women are jealous and angry at another’s femininity, while others are inspired.
wow just found your youtube channel and its so nice!! thank you you are telling great tips and being so chilled out :)
Wow I love that content never heard about that, my start page was filled with hustle stuff
I love you. Thank you for this. ❤️
Thank you. This was exactly what I needed! Thank you so much
Thank you so much! That's exactly what I needed right now
You’re so welcome 💕
perfect time!
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Love your top
Vero well put Jillz. Thanks for sharing this
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great advice for women
I really needed to hear this now. I have been struggling with my own resistance to the softer life and even conciously been looking for reasons as to why/how things cant change for me. It's clearly a fear of the unknown even though the unknown seems to be good. Anyway thank you for your precious contents, lots of mind opening points you make everytime. Helps me in my pursuit of personal growth and fulfillment
Fantastic 😃
Hey Jillz, I am addicted to your content 🌻 you have helped me embrace my true feminine and softer side of myself. I was wondering, in this video you mentioned cycle syncing and using that as a way to navigate our life as women. Do you have a video that dives deeper into that topic or are you open to creating more content on that? It would be greatly beneficial for me and I'm sure for other fellow women as well 😌
Yes I do!! Check the description box - I put a link to my cycle syncing video! 💕💕
I DARE TO BE MY BEST SELF❤
Sometimes it's not possible to ask someone else. My boyfriend is disabled so I'm the only one at home who can do stuff. I can't afford to hire help either. So I am struggling, tired and burnt out.
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Well, I'm drawing in acne. I suffer from insomnia since my teenages (in 27 now) and my life didn't allow me to a "softer journey" until a while ago.
- I love my job, but I don't have a good relationship with it.
- I love my family, but we don't always get along too well too.
- I am single, but I don't like being single anymore!
I'm so in a new - successful - moment of my life, but I don't enjoy it. I need help, I need change.. 😓
same! I've seen so much videos and everything but it ended up being overwhelming and I don't even know where to start, it's exhausting
I love you Jillz❤
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Thanks for this video!! I can relate to the tip where you said that you felt like you had to know everything...I'm currently going through that phase right now, I'm going to try to step away from this mindset!
thanks a lot for these tips!
You’re very welcome! 💕❤️
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Thx
I needed tip 6 :')
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Hey Jillz, I like your videos 🙂. Just a small thing that I noticed is that you pronounce women (plural) the same as woman (single). 🤗
Haha I know I say it wrong sometimes. Working on it lol 💕💕
Love it❤️ you are so beautiful and talented. Which country are you from?
Thank you!! From the US 🇺🇸
Less stress doesn't mean to be a loser 😉 !!
The book with a heart on the cover always gets my attention, I don’t know why, why this book the shelves are full of books...I think it says to me read me😊. May I know the title of the book ?
It looks like “you can heal your life” by Louise Hay :)
It’s one of my favorite books 💕
@@Beyourbest88 thank you so much 😊
Is cycle syncing pointless if you’re on birth control?
Can you live a soft life in the city?
No. How would that work?
@ Jillz and friends in the comments: Anyone have any advice about living a soft life while in nursing school? In one way, I feel like I'm leaning into my femininity (caring for others, learning and developing myself) but it's also a very demanding program (one exam a week, hours of class time, and 12-hour shifts at the hospital.) I'm tired, haha! I'm trying to think of ways to create moments of softness into my day even when I have to work hard ... thank you!
So amazing you’re in nursing school! Little moments of presence in your day can help a lot. For example, when you take your lunch break…take 10 mins to just sit with your food and enjoy it. No phone or anything, just being present in that. Or taking a 5 min walk outside when you have a break. Breathing deeply and relaxing into your body. Lighting a candle as you get ready for bed. It’s the little things 💕💕 But also remember that life has seasons, this might just be a more demanding season of your life and that’s okay. Just don’t forget to take care of yourself too! ❤️
@@JillzGuerin Aww amazing! Thank you so much for this pearl of advice! I will definitely practice it!! "It's the little things 💕"
Place your faith on Jesus. Jesus died so that you can have everlasting life. Jesus is the way the truth and the life. No one gets to the Father but by him. Trust Jesus. Repent.
Have a good day.
does jillz have a podcast🥰
Haha no I don’t! Maybe one day! 💕
Now I realise how self sabotaging i was !!! 😢
Why didn't I discover you earlier
Im so sick of the 8-6 life. How are humans ok with working this much. I can’t seem to find any part time work employers only want full time.
Because its needed to pay the bills. Things cost money. Unless you live in a communist country where everything is free. If you're happy without material things that's a fine way to live too but you can't have it both ways. You either live the "soft girl" life and never get to where you want to be because your finances are not in order/non-existent, or you pull yourself up by the bootstraps, work hard and sweat to make your money so that you can one day live the lavish lifestyle you've always dreamed of.
everyone talking bout like TAP INTO YOUR FEMININE ENERGY RN no one talking about how being in masculine energy makes us feel safe especially after being abused by men as a child/teenage girl. like I AM SCARED. i am scared to live in my city full of filtthy 45+ men ttalking to me, trying to get close. or young men grabbing me because they think they can. what do i do stay quiet//?? never
I’ve mentioned in some other videos that for a woman to be in her feminine energy, she has to feel SAFE. It’s a non negotiable. Try to create that feeling of safety as much as you can 💕
Noone isn't really accurate. People talk about this
I hear you! The 'soft life' is actually/originally a black movement (among black women) to try to erase the negative stereotypes around them based on racial issues and their own hard communities. Especially for their mental health and self care. So it's actually very specific to a certain group of people who already know how to navigate being 'masculine' and know how to protect themselves. As a non POC, please find your sense of safety first, because being feminine in a vulnerable world/situation without a back up plan is dangerous. It seems like too many of these topics are simply co-opted and don't even make sense anymore. Protect yourself first, be soft later or when you can.
There's no such thing as masculine or feminine energy. It's all made up and a way to describe hormones and testosterone. Men and women have the exact same "energy", all living creatures do. Do you see female chimps or gorillas channeling "feminine" energy? Nope. And they never will.
I need a sugar Mommy to live a softer life
Thank you for the video every time, i really love it and i am learning a lot 🫶
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Hi Jil! Thank youuuu for the video! It would be great for you to make another video with your favorite books both fiction and some development! 🤍✨😍
I will do another soon! Probably towards the end of the year!
I definitely get anxious when spoiling myself. It’s like I’m afraid I’m wasting money and it’s gonna run out 🫣