I’m a night shift nurse, a wife and a mom of 2 young boys. Life gets so crazy sometimes. I feel like I have no grasp of any part of my life. I was also doing UA-cam and instagram videos on top of it. I felt anxious most of the time. Now I’m taking a break from social media. I feel free and my anxiety is gone. In fact, I don’t even feel like I want to get back to social media until my kids grow older. There is so much peace in disconnecting from the social media world. I am now living in my soft era. I do lots of activities with my boys. I journal. I garden and take care of my home. it feels like I have so much time and it’s so peaceful. Everything happens in my own pace, and I have time. It can be done! Thank you for this inspiring video
I second this! As a fellow nurse & shift worker I am too in my soft era. I was burnt out after the Pandemic and hadn’t been looking after myself. Always working… all of this stress led to a slipped disc in my back & have been off on leave the past 9months. I have also deleted my IG and don’t really use other platforms (besides YT of course!) and the difference in impeccable! I’m not constantly looking at friends and influencers stories constantly on my phone. Since stepping back I can see how toxic it can be. I’ve also taken up gardening and yoga and my life has changed drastically for the better 🙏🙌
So interesting...I give up on Social Media in November and since then I live a soft life, working with two kids...it was like something was erase from my brain
I love that you're making this work for you! Removing things from your plate and schedule is so important. I think so many of us spend way too much time rushing around. Thanks for watching and for sharing your perspective ❤
@HabeshaNurse Your comment gives me inspiration to let go of social media as I am realizing I'm better off without it. It takes time away from things I want to do without even noticing in the moment. Thanks for posting! 💛
I'm a nurse and working nights is not good x I gave up nights yrsrs ago when I became so stressed with not sleeping . If u can manage fine but if u can't I'd find a job which doesn't require night duty x trust me it's not worth it x I regret ever working nights when my kids were small.
I heard once that if you want to find things you enjoy doing for fun, remember what you did as a child. For me, drawing, swimming and being out in nature. 💕💕
4 steps I took -no social media except UA-cam and not after 9 -moved to a smallish town (under 10000 people) - no traffic, safe, quiet, peaceful -work from home only -got the kind of dogs I’ve always wanted regardless of the stereotypes and judgment and walk them every morning after my at home workout and then sit in my in home sauna Still grinding and still work a lot!!! ….but these 4 things were game changers for me and those are my “soft life” hacks Not a rich white lady either I took a pay cut to work remote but saved up for my sauna and dogs and not going to the gym or buying Starbucks etc being in the streets, eating out has also improved my physical health and the financials to do these other things .
Oh I LOVE this! Thanks for sharing 🫶 moving to a small town has made a big difference for me too, as well as the dog part! They bring so much joy to life. Love your idea about social media too.
I grew up in the 1970s and my mom was married and was the epitome of the working mom who also taught classes at church and volunteered. But, she never had time for herself or her children. Unfortunately, I became just like her just in a different form. I was the Sahm who homeschooled our children and made everything from scratch. We both burned out with serious mental and physical issues
When my children were little, I embraced slow living. It completely transformed my life. I make myself my priority and I am a much better person and more focused in what and who really matters in my life. No more running around and feeling like I am not doing enough or able to cope. Priorities really shifted and life is beautiful.❤
@@meesh2015 Just focusing in what is really important and saying no to everything else. With an intention to be present for my children and family moments. I didn’t make too many plans that we had to stick to, just going with how the day unfolded. And of course making time for myself. Taking a bath, reading a book in my room, having my favorite coffee etc…Toddlers teach you to be in the moment because when you are not all hell brake loose 😄
I am a healthcare worker, working in admin at a hospital. I've just been diagnosed with burnout and wow, the side effects are so real!! I am not the person I used to be, no more go, go, go, high energy, getting up at 5am to workout etc. etc. This video is really helpful on my road to healing. Thank you!!
We moved from the big City to a smaller state more like a country life style last Jan. We can’t believe the change it’s had on our entire lifestyle, stressors, everything we do. We are still learning but the planning ahead is so true and I resonate with you.
My question is...what if ive always been living in the soft life era but my family/friends arent and they judge my lifestyle? Also at times being around them makes me feel less just because im not as busy as they are? For example one of my friend, who seems to LOVE her busy lifestyle and have lots of social circles kept asking me what do i do at home (in a condescending way at times)? Im a happy sahm most days just busy with my children and works around the house and i like my me time like netflix, walks atound the park, trying new recipes...and why does that seems too boring for her? 😅 help me explain.
Dont let other people decide your lifestyle, people will judge you even if you have a too busy life, trust me I used to have a too busy life and got judged, so be free like a bird, give your dreams wings and let your dreams fly...do whatever you feel like doing, everyone's life purpose is different...
I couldn't have said it better than the other person who has commented! It's YOUR life. Don't wait for or expect acceptance from others. Live your life unapologetically and enjoy. Life is short!
The past decade of my life has literally fight or flight mode as I fought & beat cancer 3x, however, treatment has left me with debilitating pain, which makes it even more important for me to s l o w d o w n and just be still. Embrace the moment, actually chew and savor my food, etc. I hardly check/use my phone unless it's to play something educational;) or meditative. Getting sick showed me how important it is to slow down and that life is truly what you make of it. ❤ To a healthy, softer life.🎉🎉🎉
I’m chronically stressed and tired of it. I work from home, have 3 kids, husband does shift work, I’m late for everything, barely sleep and constantly doing cooking and cleaning from the moment I wake up you the minute I lay my head to rest. I feel like I’m doing a crappy job at everything. I’m always in fight or flight. I NEED to make some changes in my life
You are doing your best and you should be proud of that. Is everyone fed? Do your kids feel loved? That’s already enough to pat yourself on the back. Let the dishes sit overnight. Give yourself some grace. We’re all doing the best we can.
A perfect lifestyle for an unemployed and childless person... Just can't imagine a working mom who can incorporate all this good stuff mentioned in this video in her everyday life(
Take from the video whatever is helpful for you. Being a working parent definitley makes life more full-on! The point I took from this trend is to try and make life easier for ourselves and to be kind to ourselves.
Thank you for helping me put a name to how I have learned to deal with life. I have had so many ups and downs-spouse and children gravely ill, loss of income, death of family and friends-in short, I have lived a full life so far. And as I deal with all of this head on, I know that if I do not embrace a quiet home life, if I do not choose to eliminate things that have no real value and live each moment with grace and intention, I will “go down with the ship”. You do not have the luxury of choosing what life throws at you. But the greater luxury is deciding who you are and how to deal with it.
All these things you mentioned hit home for me. The worst part is that my busy lifestyle came in so subtle and I fell into the trap of feeling guilty if I’m not productive. Now I’m taking the steps to lessen my workload and prioritize God and my well being.
I feel this ❤ from 2020 until end of last year I was very much in my villain era. I had finally gotten out of an emotionally abusive relationship end 2020 and I was not going to let anyone treat me like that ever again, so I worked myself to the bone to get myself away from that life. It’s been 3 years since I left, I’ve healed a lot and I think it’s time to lay those weapons down and enter my soft era ☺️
Dear, I adore you. You still have time to make videos. My nurse bf couldn't even take me to the movies. 😭 I am getting more and more resentful. Oh, do you know how I understood his worklife? I started watching fb videos of a nurse influencer who makes skits of how stressful their job is. 😅 I live in Southeast Asia. The healthcare worker = patient ratio here is bad
Really enjoyed the video. I am currently looking for a job after having quite a lot of time at home. I was worried that I will be going back to a hectic, stressful working life but am going to try and remember that being productive is not about being stressed. I can do a really good job and be very productive without loading stress onto myself and trying to do a hundred things at the same time (and trying to second guess what everyone thinks of me :)
On the beginning of the video I felt very judgmental like : I have 2 small kids, sick husband, job what is she going to tell me… but I absolutely loved that video and I will pay more attention to my life to make it less stressful.. thank you, it was a pleasure to watch it
New to your channel Sarah but thank you for this. I am constantly stressed, constantly rushing from thing to thing, exactly as you describe at the start. I am really going to use the tips in this video 😊
I remember that feeling so well 🫠 this way of living that I mention in the video has changed my entire life! It starts with your mindset and your habits keep it going. Best of luck to you!
I agree this is a nice way to live. But, it's unrealistic. We will always have to do things that stress us out or make us unhappy. Unless you have someone, who basically does everything for you--from cooking, cleaning, navigating through traffic, paying your taxes, doing your job for you, repairing things like your car, managing your kids and spouse, while you lay in a lawn chair pampering yourself, you will never live a fully soft life. I love my job, but it is very fast-paced and sometimes stressful. I'm not going to quit because I get tired or there are things I dislike dealing with. I get through it. No matter how much you try to buffer your mind and body from the demands of just living to live a life of ease and mental comfort, there will ALWAYS be challenges. Sorry to rain on the Zen here, but the best we can do is accept Life's challenges as they come, but find moments of sanctuary for ourselves. These trends of striving for zero stress in life are non-sustainable and just not reality. 😢
My husband and I had a good laugh at this with two of our kids who are medically fragile, both with chromosome triplications. We kind of look at life the opposite now, you don’t know what you CAN handle until you have to. Life will mess up plans in a hot minute, and I think we have to accept and embrace that sometimes. This video seems like some kind of fever dream to a lot of us, but cheers to you if you can really do all that is blissful here. But please don’t feel bad if , like me, you had to find big humor in this because of life circumstances that just are right now.
I think the point is to be aware...do what you can. Get up early enough to not be running late every day. Be prepared for events ahead of time..buy and wrap the gift. Plan meals so you aren't stressed about meals and wasting money on fast food. There are so many small things which can help reduce some stress while raising kids...don't overbook their schedule or yours. Enjoy your family time more and less panic mode helps the kids also. Best wishes to you.
I'm sorry life is throwing you lots of curveballs and that this video was shown to you when it probably feels completely at odds with your reality. It sounds like you're doing an amazing job and my intention wasn't to shame anyone or make you feel bad about life. I agree, this way of living is totally impossible if you're just trying to keep your head above water every day. I hope you're doing well.
not everyone can do preparation/organisation this so easily - I am dyslexic & "executive dysfunction" is a real thing. Similar for people with adhd. It takes extra time/effort/energy to achieve these things and that can be the cause of stress which kinda defeats the object. C'est la vie
Life can be hard. I think it can be very wise to make life more "simple", I think I like that word better than soft. Because life can be hard, no matter if you have a sauna and the dogs you want, and the home job making enough money. I think it is definitely smart to take out the speed with which some of us think our lives have to operate, which can make life very stressful, simply because we think that is how life should be....I guess, that has been our model throughout our lives. What I hear from this is that there is a lot of calculated control over making things soft, but life is full of ups and downs, and it doesn't matter how much we try to always have our life going smoothly and most comfortably, shit happens! And we must learn to accept and embrace those challenges, whether they be health, financial, family, problems etc,....We don't really learn any of the bigger lessons in life, unless we have adversity in our own lives, which will inevitably show up. So I think we all have to be careful, no matter how "soft" you are making your life, be realistic and accepting of the challenges that will show up. Human beings get stuck in ruts and go to the total opposite end of the spectrum, protecting their lives from any stress, which is impossible, and we were built to handle stress, which is a reassuring thought when the shit does hit the fan. Life can't be soft and controlled all of the time....life is full of obstacles and challenges, so don't over protect yourself so much that you freak out when something hard comes your way. A good meditation practice and always focusing on how grateful we are for our lives, and truly looking at what you are grateful for, like a roof over our heads, good food, pets, kids, we are not living in a war zone, we are healthy, on and on.....These routine practices really do bring a depth into our lives, so that this "soft" life isn't just about the superficial. Be of service in your life to others, like the planet, animals, people, etc. We don't need so much stuff, something else that is confused with "soft" but very terrible for us and the planet.
15 years ago I gave up my science career to look after my two young children. I started working part time in early years education when they were at school. It was less stressful. Less money but more outside time, playing and art with kids. I have never looked back. ❤ Time for yourself and the ones you love ❤
good presentation! One thing I’ve done is only scheduled appointments on Tuesday, wednesday. or thursday. i was finding I had a little bit of this and a little bit of that almost every day of the week. Of course there are always emergencies, but now I choose, which days I go to the dentist, the doctor and other things. It gives me a few days in a row off on either end, It feels like a vacation. ❤
We def live in a chaotic era that a soft life is the best favour and gift we can give ourselves. I liken a soft like to a peace-filled life. Glad I found your channel. I enjoyed your vid a lot and just subscribed🤎
I think we’re all insecure about being good enough as we are and so we feel we must push ourselves to extremes. It’s also the influence and repercussion of a decade of hustle culture being bragged about on social media. A lot to unlearn but not impossible. Your field especially. It’s unreal the long hours doctors and nurses are expected to endure. PS Thank you for making this video 🤗
I'm also a doctor in the NHS, currently in fy1 so I can't leave yet, but work is the main thing stressing me out :( looking forward to finishing fy2 and then starting my own aesthetic practice!
Ugh I love this so much. 31 and I just hit my soft life era. My first sign is that I DO NOT WANT TO BE RUSHED! I’m living in the moment more. Love this era
This is a great video ❤ I’m a student midwife with 3 young children and life doesn’t seem to ease off but I’m learning to pause or remove things in my life and it’s becoming a bit more manageable. Also find with being so busy I make time for the opposite, peace, outdoors, me time is just important to recharge 😊
I absolutely love this, coming as a current SAHM, previous social worker in health care. I definitely hit burnout and knew I needed to step back from the field, and it's working out really well to be at home. Not that it's easy or isn't busy, but I'm really learning how to live life slower, focus on my family and making my home an environment I want to be in. (Although yes with a toddler it's a disaster every day lol). Everyone has the capacity to pick and choose small things that improve their lives, and that will look different based on your circumstances. Sure, my time is almost never my own, but I do small things here and there that bring me joy. I just need to get the courage to hire a cleaner now..
Watching your video in the morning made my day , i don't usually put comment in videos but i want thank u for reminding me , I'm new mama with beautiful twins and stay home all the time so stressful , but now i have many ideas to start soft era ❤❤
Huge congratulations on your new babies 💫❤️ sending you so much love! I can imagine it's been a huge transition for you. I hope you can be kind to yourself and ask for lots of help when you need it. You're amazing!
I'm so glad I just found you on youtube. What a blessing!! Since I love learning & doing new things, it's easy to over schedule. Before I retired my work/life was frenetic. I promised myself I would never do that again but I seriously need to re-evaluate what is important & pare down. Thank you for giving me the boost I need Right Now to do this!!
I have been struggling with getting enough sleep for 5+ years now. My sleep got worse when I started working in a hospital setting. It’s because my life has never been aligned with such an early wake up time and early bed time. It’s impossible for me to get to bed by 9 unless I neglect exercise, cooking, playing with my pets, showering. I’m not sure if I am trying to do too much or if this schedule is hard for everyone.
It's so difficult isn't it? I've really struggled with this too. I've realised I have to condense down the amount I do and let go of some things, delegate and outsource as much as possible. I've realised over time that sleep is the most important thing for me feeling well, so I try to prioritise that over anything. It's annoying sometimes, but I always feel better for it!
@@SarahNicholls wow soo rude xD joke joke! Easy free natural health. How to feel better. Wake up more relaxed and be less stressed in the softer life. You just felt like a person who would think something like this is awesome :)
@mickett Oh I see! That's cool, thank you! We actually recommend it to patients with gastric reflux too. I can confirm my dog also loves to sleep at an incline. Thanks for the info 🙌
I'm curious about the feminine aspect you mentioned. I wonder if you could talk about that but in a way that would be inclusive of men and non-binary people who want to get in touch with their feminine side.
Such a great video! Thanks for sending this message out. There are too much productivity and hustle energy to female being the boss babe. Having this type of message is such a balance and a blessing! ❤
The realisation that we are putting our faith, and often our *lives* in the hands of doctors who are having such little sleep that it’s pretty much a given that they will be making mistakes, and literally cannot be functioning at anywhere close to full mental capacity, has been a terrifying one for me, especially as a chronically ill individual. This goes for all healthcare professionals, nurses, HCAs, and all other hands on supporting staff, including the cleaners and canteen staff, etc. Everything is interconnected, everyone is connected, every interaction matters. We *all* need enough rest, and we *all* have a responsibility to look after ourselves as best we can so that we *can* look after others, and allow that care to cycle back to us as and when we may need it. Blah blah - Put your own oxygen mask on first - blah blah - Self-care is vital, not selfish - blah blah - One cannot pour from an empty cup - blah etc. etc. It’s only when our own needs are fulfilled that we have enough to give to others, too. Sadly, I can’t remember the last time I spoke to someone who felt this was even an option, myself included…
I always practices slow oiling as I do live in the highlands, but since losing my husband in December, he was only 59, I'm 54, I realize even more now that life is just too short. You only get one life, some people choose to go out and live life fast and furiously, sky diving, tightrope walking, running marathons, others (like me) live slow, redecorate the house, spend more time in the garden grow my own produce, cosy by the fire on rainy cold days,get outside in the sun and cook outside in the sunny days, I'm going to quit my job in a couple of years and try and make my cottage table top small business pay for itself
@the_greenhouse_gardener I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband 😞 how are you doing? 59 is so young. I'm glad to hear you're spending time redecorating and gardening etc. Those things must bring a lot of comfort and purpose to your days. We sadly lost my stepdad in September and my Mum has been dooms the same sorts of things as you. It's a stark reminder of how short and precious life is and I'm glad to hear you're filling your days with beautiful activities. I hope you're doing well.
I started my soft life era in 2020 with the pandemic and I was forced to stop everything. Before that I felt like a shark, like I’d die if I stopped moving/going.
Hi! I enjoy your chanel! But What to do When you have a special need kid and the sleep is a big problem? Because he didnt sleep, he cries. And with this came the craving, the anxiety, the frustation
Hugs from a mom with two profoundly disabled daughters. Read my comment to the commentator above yours. Find humor, lots and lots of humor, everywhere. Something that was life changing for us was a service dog. The process was hard and very stressful, but once she was trained to the specific needs, she will alert before the monitors, allowing me my first full few hours of sleep because I didn’t have to half sleep listening for the monitors. If at all possible, when your child is the right age, push though the looooooong, often stressful process of a service dog if needed and if you can. Seriously, that first block of sleep when I knew the dog would alert, knew to my core that she would, was such a night of extreme gratitude. So, I guess, lots and lots of humor ( even dark humor, all kinds of humor) and gratitude when you do find things or moments of reprieve that help- deep gratitude for any “sparks” if you will. When my girls were babies, I literally could not picture surviving, so I hear you, I get you - hugs!!
That sounds incredibly challenging, I'm sorry. I don't have all the answers I'm afraid. I hope you have a good support network around you. Sending love and strength ❤
Great question - it is HARD. I focus on my self care outside of work so that I arrive at work with energy and a good attitude. When I'm at work, I try to tell myself "I have time", so that I feel more calm (even when it's busy and there's too much to do, just repeating this mantra to myself helps a lot)
Great question! I made a video here where I talk about setting boundaries. I also included a free cheatsheet with examples of how to have those awkward conversations. Let me know what you think! ua-cam.com/video/KQci_GAfBTg/v-deo.html
Good question!! I don't have kids, but there are plenty of other people in the comments who have good suggestions and other youtubers with videos of how to do slow living with kids 🫶 go easy on yourself, I'm sure you're doing an amazing job!!
Hmm I’m stressed out but don’t think I have reason to be 😂 my tolerance is clearly very low haha. I’m a SAHM mum of 3 so can’t really get rid of them 😄 and I’m retraining but excited for that
You're allowed to be stressed! Being a SAHM is a full time job. You're amazing 🙌 I hope you get time to give yourself little pockets of time for yourself.
Hey sarah in glad i just meet your Channel. Just asking : how medics bear with death and seeing people die? I think it desensitivises you in the long road right ?
Great question. It's always hard to be honest. We have training on it during med school and once you're a doctor, but it's one of those things you have to experience to learn how to handle it. It does get easier in some ways, but I think that it's natural to feel some level of emotion about it as we are all human.
@milicavojnovicradosavljevi6096 Good question! When I hit rock bottom with burnout, followed by long covid, I realised something had to change. I had been running myself into the ground for too long by working too much, being too busy all the time and being a people-pleaser!! I decided to start noticing the problems in my life more (rather than just pushing through them and 'coping') and then looking for solutions for them. Basically, I developed a solution-focused mindset. Then I started reading *every* book I could get my hands on that might have the solutions to my problems (basically lots of self help, philosophy, autobiography and psychology books). If the books had exercises or homework in them, I would do it. Also from youtube, reading articles and listening to lots of podcasts. When I could afford it, I hired a life and business coach for 6 months. I'm still learning and growing and hope I'll never stop!! Hope that helps 🫶
Ugh why can't American radiators look like those. They look like they would be way more efficient. I spend 400/month on electric heating in a 750 square foot two story house.
@@SarahNicholls I feel like they look so cute. Almost like wainscoting. Yes they are electric. I have to get a mini split system soon because I can't keep spending thousands on electricity. I keep my house at 58 to 60 degrees too, so it's not like I'm using a lot to heat to a high temp!
I’m a night shift nurse, a wife and a mom of 2 young boys. Life gets so crazy sometimes. I feel like I have no grasp of any part of my life. I was also doing UA-cam and instagram videos on top of it. I felt anxious most of the time. Now I’m taking a break from social media. I feel free and my anxiety is gone. In fact, I don’t even feel like I want to get back to social media until my kids grow older. There is so much peace in disconnecting from the social media world. I am now living in my soft era. I do lots of activities with my boys. I journal. I garden and take care of my home. it feels like I have so much time and it’s so peaceful. Everything happens in my own pace, and I have time. It can be done! Thank you for this inspiring video
I second this! As a fellow nurse & shift worker I am too in my soft era. I was burnt out after the Pandemic and hadn’t been looking after myself. Always working… all of this stress led to a slipped disc in my back & have been off on leave the past 9months. I have also deleted my IG and don’t really use other platforms (besides YT of course!) and the difference in impeccable! I’m not constantly looking at friends and influencers stories constantly on my phone. Since stepping back I can see how toxic it can be. I’ve also taken up gardening and yoga and my life has changed drastically for the better 🙏🙌
So interesting...I give up on Social Media in November and since then I live a soft life, working with two kids...it was like something was erase from my brain
I love that you're making this work for you! Removing things from your plate and schedule is so important. I think so many of us spend way too much time rushing around. Thanks for watching and for sharing your perspective ❤
@HabeshaNurse Your comment gives me inspiration to let go of social media as I am realizing I'm better off without it. It takes time away from things I want to do without even noticing in the moment. Thanks for posting! 💛
I'm a nurse and working nights is not good x I gave up nights yrsrs ago when I became so stressed with not sleeping . If u can manage fine but if u can't I'd find a job which doesn't require night duty x trust me it's not worth it x I regret ever working nights when my kids were small.
I heard once that if you want to find things you enjoy doing for fun, remember what you did as a child. For me, drawing, swimming and being out in nature. 💕💕
That's so lovely!
Luxury to me is eating a dessert item at home on a fancy antique plate that I used to only reserve for looking at 😊.
That's so cool I'm going to copy you 💖
I'm using my thinest, finest glass for "everyday- glass" 🥰 I inherited them from my great grandma ❤
Yessss 🙌 it's so important to use the fancy things now!
4 steps I took
-no social media except UA-cam and not after 9
-moved to a smallish town (under 10000 people) - no traffic, safe, quiet, peaceful
-work from home only
-got the kind of dogs I’ve always wanted regardless of the stereotypes and judgment and walk them every morning after my at home workout and then sit in my in home sauna
Still grinding and still work a lot!!! ….but these 4 things were game changers for me and those are my “soft life” hacks
Not a rich white lady either I took a pay cut to work remote but saved up for my sauna and dogs and not going to the gym or buying Starbucks etc being in the streets, eating out has also improved my physical health and the financials to do these other things .
Oh I LOVE this! Thanks for sharing 🫶 moving to a small town has made a big difference for me too, as well as the dog part! They bring so much joy to life. Love your idea about social media too.
I waste too much time being stressed. This was a great reminder that there’s no medal for that and I should try to relax and enjoy life more 😊
Definitely! Life's too short to be stressed all the time ❤️
Doing a job that YOU want to do, not what your family, your culture or society says is a "good job" or "good career" 🥰
Love this! I wish I could upvote you 100 times
Wish I knew this earlier! You’re so right!
THISSSS
I grew up in the 1970s and my mom was married and was the epitome of the working mom who also taught classes at church and volunteered. But, she never had time for herself or her children. Unfortunately, I became just like her just in a different form. I was the Sahm who homeschooled our children and made everything from scratch. We both burned out with serious mental and physical issues
I can relate. Big hug❤
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I am so sorry to hear that! How does life look for you now?
What happened next Simply Beautiful 516?
When my children were little, I embraced slow living. It completely transformed my life. I make myself my priority and I am a much better person and more focused in what and who really matters in my life. No more running around and feeling like I am not doing enough or able to cope. Priorities really shifted and life is beautiful.❤
Omg how did you do this? With toddlers slowing down feels extra hard😭
@@meesh2015 Just focusing in what is really important and saying no to everything else. With an intention to be present for my children and family moments. I didn’t make too many plans that we had to stick to, just going with how the day unfolded. And of course making time for myself. Taking a bath, reading a book in my room, having my favorite coffee etc…Toddlers teach you to be in the moment because when you are not all hell brake loose 😄
This is so beautiful! Thank you for sharing ❤
I am a healthcare worker, working in admin at a hospital. I've just been diagnosed with burnout and wow, the side effects are so real!! I am not the person I used to be, no more go, go, go, high energy, getting up at 5am to workout etc. etc. This video is really helpful on my road to healing. Thank you!!
Burnout is no joke. How are you doing? I hope you're getting the opportunity to slow down and take life at a different pace.
I am thankful for quiet days.
So peaceful 🫶 I'm finding as I get older I appreciate calm and quiet so much.
We moved from the big City to a smaller state more like a country life style last Jan. We can’t believe the change it’s had on our entire lifestyle, stressors, everything we do. We are still learning but the planning ahead is so true and I resonate with you.
Oh how lovely! Such a beautiful change of pace. Enjoy it 💕
At 55 I learned how to RELAX and enjoy life ! Chill out that’s what I’d tell my younger self and all women !!!!!
Ahh I love this!!
My question is...what if ive always been living in the soft life era but my family/friends arent and they judge my lifestyle? Also at times being around them makes me feel less just because im not as busy as they are? For example one of my friend, who seems to LOVE her busy lifestyle and have lots of social circles kept asking me what do i do at home (in a condescending way at times)? Im a happy sahm most days just busy with my children and works around the house and i like my me time like netflix, walks atound the park, trying new recipes...and why does that seems too boring for her? 😅 help me explain.
Dont let other people decide your lifestyle, people will judge you even if you have a too busy life, trust me I used to have a too busy life and got judged, so be free like a bird, give your dreams wings and let your dreams fly...do whatever you feel like doing, everyone's life purpose is different...
I couldn't have said it better than the other person who has commented! It's YOUR life. Don't wait for or expect acceptance from others. Live your life unapologetically and enjoy. Life is short!
The past decade of my life has literally fight or flight mode as I fought & beat cancer 3x, however, treatment has left me with debilitating pain, which makes it even more important for me to s l o w d o w n and just be still. Embrace the moment, actually chew and savor my food, etc. I hardly check/use my phone unless it's to play something educational;) or meditative.
Getting sick showed me how important it is to slow down and that life is truly what you make of it. ❤ To a healthy, softer life.🎉🎉🎉
I’m chronically stressed and tired of it. I work from home, have 3 kids, husband does shift work, I’m late for everything, barely sleep and constantly doing cooking and cleaning from the moment I wake up you the minute I lay my head to rest. I feel like I’m doing a crappy job at everything. I’m always in fight or flight. I NEED to make some changes in my life
Me too
You are doing your best and you should be proud of that. Is everyone fed? Do your kids feel loved? That’s already enough to pat yourself on the back. Let the dishes sit overnight. Give yourself some grace. We’re all doing the best we can.
Sending you love and strength, you are doing an incredible job!
Thank You! I will start living my soft life! 😊💯
A perfect lifestyle for an unemployed and childless person... Just can't imagine a working mom who can incorporate all this good stuff mentioned in this video in her everyday life(
Take from the video whatever is helpful for you. Being a working parent definitley makes life more full-on! The point I took from this trend is to try and make life easier for ourselves and to be kind to ourselves.
Thank you for helping me put a name to how I have learned to deal with life. I have had so many ups and downs-spouse and children gravely ill, loss of income, death of family and friends-in short, I have lived a full life so far. And as I deal with all of this head on, I know that if I do not embrace a quiet home life, if I do not choose to eliminate things that have no real value and live each moment with grace and intention, I will “go down with the ship”. You do not have the luxury of choosing what life throws at you. But the greater luxury is deciding who you are and how to deal with it.
So sorry that life has thrown so many difficulties your way. Sending so much love 🫶✨️
@@SarahNichollsthank you
Living like my childhood hero Pippi Longstocking together with my spirited-2 year old daughter is our soft life era!
@Solin.28 love that so much!!
You’re so right! We are all deserve a stressless life and we’re capable to create it for ourselves! ❤
All these things you mentioned hit home for me. The worst part is that my busy lifestyle came in so subtle and I fell into the trap of feeling guilty if I’m not productive. Now I’m taking the steps to lessen my workload and prioritize God and my well being.
I feel this ❤ from 2020 until end of last year I was very much in my villain era. I had finally gotten out of an emotionally abusive relationship end 2020 and I was not going to let anyone treat me like that ever again, so I worked myself to the bone to get myself away from that life. It’s been 3 years since I left, I’ve healed a lot and I think it’s time to lay those weapons down and enter my soft era ☺️
I am so pleased to hear you got out of that relationship. What strength you have! Hope you're doing well 💗
Dear, I adore you. You still have time to make videos. My nurse bf couldn't even take me to the movies. 😭 I am getting more and more resentful. Oh, do you know how I understood his worklife? I started watching fb videos of a nurse influencer who makes skits of how stressful their job is. 😅
I live in Southeast Asia. The healthcare worker = patient ratio here is bad
Sending you hugs!! Thank you for watching ❤️
Hello who are the nurse influencer
Really enjoyed the video. I am currently looking for a job after having quite a lot of time at home. I was worried that I will be going back to a hectic, stressful working life but am going to try and remember that being productive is not about being stressed. I can do a really good job and be very productive without loading stress onto myself and trying to do a hundred things at the same time (and trying to second guess what everyone thinks of me :)
Yes!! Being productive doesn't have to mean being stressed. So true 🙌
On the beginning of the video I felt very judgmental like : I have 2 small kids, sick husband, job what is she going to tell me… but I absolutely loved that video and I will pay more attention to my life to make it less stressful.. thank you, it was a pleasure to watch it
Thanks for sharing!! I hope it was helpful to you 🫶✨️
New to your channel Sarah but thank you for this. I am constantly stressed, constantly rushing from thing to thing, exactly as you describe at the start. I am really going to use the tips in this video 😊
I remember that feeling so well 🫠 this way of living that I mention in the video has changed my entire life! It starts with your mindset and your habits keep it going. Best of luck to you!
I agree this is a nice way to live. But, it's unrealistic.
We will always have to do things that stress us out or make us unhappy. Unless you have someone, who basically does everything for you--from cooking, cleaning, navigating through traffic, paying your taxes, doing your job for you, repairing things like your car, managing your kids and spouse, while you lay in a lawn chair pampering yourself, you will never live a fully soft life.
I love my job, but it is very fast-paced and sometimes stressful. I'm not going to quit because I get tired or there are things I dislike dealing with. I get through it.
No matter how much you try to buffer your mind and body from the demands of just living to live a life of ease and mental comfort, there will ALWAYS be challenges.
Sorry to rain on the Zen here, but the best we can do is accept Life's challenges as they come, but find moments of sanctuary for ourselves.
These trends of striving for zero stress in life are non-sustainable and just not reality. 😢
My husband and I had a good laugh at this with two of our kids who are medically fragile, both with chromosome triplications. We kind of look at life the opposite now, you don’t know what you CAN handle until you have to. Life will mess up plans in a hot minute, and I think we have to accept and embrace that sometimes. This video seems like some kind of fever dream to a lot of us, but cheers to you if you can really do all that is blissful here. But please don’t feel bad if , like me, you had to find big humor in this because of life circumstances that just are right now.
I think the point is to be aware...do what you can. Get up early enough to not be running late every day. Be prepared for events ahead of time..buy and wrap the gift. Plan meals so you aren't stressed about meals and wasting money on fast food. There are so many small things which can help reduce some stress while raising kids...don't overbook their schedule or yours. Enjoy your family time more and less panic mode helps the kids also. Best wishes to you.
@@lindaanderson4990 well, good luck!! Seriois hats off if you can pull it off without life constantly pulling the rug out in all its crazy ways .
I'm sorry life is throwing you lots of curveballs and that this video was shown to you when it probably feels completely at odds with your reality. It sounds like you're doing an amazing job and my intention wasn't to shame anyone or make you feel bad about life. I agree, this way of living is totally impossible if you're just trying to keep your head above water every day. I hope you're doing well.
not everyone can do preparation/organisation this so easily - I am dyslexic & "executive dysfunction" is a real thing. Similar for people with adhd. It takes extra time/effort/energy to achieve these things and that can be the cause of stress which kinda defeats the object. C'est la vie
Life can be hard. I think it can be very wise to make life more "simple", I think I like that word better than soft. Because life can be hard, no matter if you have a sauna and the dogs you want, and the home job making enough money. I think it is definitely smart to take out the speed with which some of us think our lives have to operate, which can make life very stressful, simply because we think that is how life should be....I guess, that has been our model throughout our lives. What I hear from this is that there is a lot of calculated control over making things soft, but life is full of ups and downs, and it doesn't matter how much we try to always have our life going smoothly and most comfortably, shit happens! And we must learn to accept and embrace those challenges, whether they be health, financial, family, problems etc,....We don't really learn any of the bigger lessons in life, unless we have adversity in our own lives, which will inevitably show up. So I think we all have to be careful, no matter how "soft" you are making your life, be realistic and accepting of the challenges that will show up. Human beings get stuck in ruts and go to the total opposite end of the spectrum, protecting their lives from any stress, which is impossible, and we were built to handle stress, which is a reassuring thought when the shit does hit the fan. Life can't be soft and controlled all of the time....life is full of obstacles and challenges, so don't over protect yourself so much that you freak out when something hard comes your way. A good meditation practice and always focusing on how grateful we are for our lives, and truly looking at what you are grateful for, like a roof over our heads, good food, pets, kids, we are not living in a war zone, we are healthy, on and on.....These routine practices really do bring a depth into our lives, so that this "soft" life isn't just about the superficial. Be of service in your life to others, like the planet, animals, people, etc. We don't need so much stuff, something else that is confused with "soft" but very terrible for us and the planet.
What a fantastic contribution! Thank you for taking the time to write this, and I agree with everything you've said 🫶
15 years ago I gave up my science career to look after my two young children. I started working part time in early years education when they were at school. It was less stressful. Less money but more outside time, playing and art with kids. I have never looked back. ❤ Time for yourself and the ones you love ❤
@@erikabossie how amazing 👏 that's so lovely
good presentation! One thing I’ve done is only scheduled appointments on Tuesday, wednesday. or thursday. i was finding I had a little bit of this and a little bit of that almost every day of the week. Of course there are always emergencies, but now I choose, which days I go to the dentist, the doctor and other things. It gives me a few days in a row off on either end, It feels like a vacation. ❤
What a brilliant idea! Thanks for sharing ✨️
We def live in a chaotic era that a soft life is the best favour and gift we can give ourselves. I liken a soft like to a peace-filled life. Glad I found your channel. I enjoyed your vid a lot and just subscribed🤎
Thank you so much 💓
I think we’re all insecure about being good enough as we are and so we feel we must push ourselves to extremes. It’s also the influence and repercussion of a decade of hustle culture being bragged about on social media. A lot to unlearn but not impossible. Your field especially. It’s unreal the long hours doctors and nurses are expected to endure.
PS Thank you for making this video 🤗
Thank you!!
I'm also a doctor in the NHS, currently in fy1 so I can't leave yet, but work is the main thing stressing me out :( looking forward to finishing fy2 and then starting my own aesthetic practice!
The struggle is real! If you want to talk about it, I offer free 30 minute coaching calls. Just drop me an email drsarahnicholls@gmail.com 😘
Ugh I love this so much. 31 and I just hit my soft life era. My first sign is that I DO NOT WANT TO BE RUSHED! I’m living in the moment more. Love this era
@@Haiokbai yessssss 👏👏👏 I feel this SO much!!
This is a great video ❤ I’m a student midwife with 3 young children and life doesn’t seem to ease off but I’m learning to pause or remove things in my life and it’s becoming a bit more manageable. Also find with being so busy I make time for the opposite, peace, outdoors, me time is just important to recharge 😊
I absolutely love this, coming as a current SAHM, previous social worker in health care. I definitely hit burnout and knew I needed to step back from the field, and it's working out really well to be at home. Not that it's easy or isn't busy, but I'm really learning how to live life slower, focus on my family and making my home an environment I want to be in. (Although yes with a toddler it's a disaster every day lol). Everyone has the capacity to pick and choose small things that improve their lives, and that will look different based on your circumstances. Sure, my time is almost never my own, but I do small things here and there that bring me joy. I just need to get the courage to hire a cleaner now..
Glad you stepped back and life is getting a little easier. Did you hire the cleaner?!
Hadn't heard of this term. Thinking of going back to an OT for help with activities of daily living.
Your content is addictive! Please keep doing more😍❤ YOU SLAY!!
Probably the vest comment I've ever received 😍🥰🥳 thank you!!
Loving the new Videos Sarah 👏👏👏 as always, the content always on point, whether you are in the medical field or not, nuggets for everyone.. Thank U!
That's so kind Amanda! Thank you 🥰
I do things I enjoy every day after work. ❤
Love that!
Watching your video in the morning made my day , i don't usually put comment in videos but i want thank u for reminding me , I'm new mama with beautiful twins and stay home all the time so stressful , but now i have many ideas to start soft era ❤❤
Huge congratulations on your new babies 💫❤️ sending you so much love! I can imagine it's been a huge transition for you. I hope you can be kind to yourself and ask for lots of help when you need it. You're amazing!
You’re voice and accent are a beautiful addition to the soft life. It sounds relaxing and classy.
Oh thank you!
I'm so glad I just found you on youtube. What a blessing!! Since I love learning & doing new things, it's easy to over schedule. Before I retired my work/life was frenetic. I promised myself I would never do that again but I seriously need to re-evaluate what is important & pare down. Thank you for giving me the boost I need Right Now to do this!!
I'm so pleased to hear this was a boost for you! It's so easy to allow things to get too busy and hectic. Thanks for watching 🫶
I have been struggling with getting enough sleep for 5+ years now. My sleep got worse when I started working in a hospital setting. It’s because my life has never been aligned with such an early wake up time and early bed time. It’s impossible for me to get to bed by 9 unless I neglect exercise, cooking, playing with my pets, showering. I’m not sure if I am trying to do too much or if this schedule is hard for everyone.
It's so difficult isn't it? I've really struggled with this too. I've realised I have to condense down the amount I do and let go of some things, delegate and outsource as much as possible. I've realised over time that sleep is the most important thing for me feeling well, so I try to prioritise that over anything. It's annoying sometimes, but I always feel better for it!
look into incline bed theory. it is just simply raising the head side of your bed 15 cm or 5-6 inches. Animals sleep in an incline if they can.
Interesting point! Not sure what it has to do with this video? (Not trying to be rude, just curious)
@@SarahNicholls wow soo rude xD joke joke! Easy free natural health. How to feel better. Wake up more relaxed and be less stressed in the softer life. You just felt like a person who would think something like this is awesome :)
Sleeping inclined increase circulation in the body and lowers heartrate alot among many other benefits. Look it up :) it can be step 11
@mickett Oh I see! That's cool, thank you! We actually recommend it to patients with gastric reflux too. I can confirm my dog also loves to sleep at an incline. Thanks for the info 🙌
Please do more on soft life. I love this idea and would like to know more.
@@chixxy100 will do!! Stay tuned 😉
I'm curious about the feminine aspect you mentioned. I wonder if you could talk about that but in a way that would be inclusive of men and non-binary people who want to get in touch with their feminine side.
I love these ideas. Thanks for sharing.
Hope it was helpful!
We can learn a lot from our dogs too 🐶 thank you for this wonderful video
excellent video… all valid points… and i love the pup!
Thanks for watching!
Such a great video! Thanks for sending this message out. There are too much productivity and hustle energy to female being the boss babe. Having this type of message is such a balance and a blessing! ❤
Thank you!! Yes, I'm a recovering hustle-boss-babe 😵💫😆
Great ideas thank you.
Definitely need more blank spaces in my calendar
100%
Thank you loved it. 🌹
❤loved the video- so well done and useful tips
Thanks so much! 😊
Love this video.Such helpful tips.
Glad it was helpful!
The realisation that we are putting our faith, and often our *lives* in the hands of doctors who are having such little sleep that it’s pretty much a given that they will be making mistakes, and literally cannot be functioning at anywhere close to full mental capacity, has been a terrifying one for me, especially as a chronically ill individual. This goes for all healthcare professionals, nurses, HCAs, and all other hands on supporting staff, including the cleaners and canteen staff, etc.
Everything is interconnected, everyone is connected, every interaction matters.
We *all* need enough rest, and we *all* have a responsibility to look after ourselves as best we can so that we *can* look after others, and allow that care to cycle back to us as and when we may need it.
Blah blah - Put your own oxygen mask on first - blah blah - Self-care is vital, not selfish - blah blah - One cannot pour from an empty cup - blah etc. etc.
It’s only when our own needs are fulfilled that we have enough to give to others, too. Sadly, I can’t remember the last time I spoke to someone who felt this was even an option, myself included…
I can relate to a lot of things you mentioned that stress you out!!!
Good suggestions and I love your dog.
Thank you 🥰 she's the star of the show!
I can't believe I have just discovered your channel. Thank you ❤ this video was so helpful xxx
So glad to have you here!! Thanks for watching 🫶✨️
What an amazing video. I feel so inspired to live 'that' life. Thank you so much.
Glad you enjoyed it! Go for it 🙌🌸😘
Hi Sarah.. it was great video and helpful and I couldn’t find the training link that you mentioned in the video about how to stope being stressed
Hello! Sorry I have removed that training for now
Also called slow living I've been doing this for years
Love it!!
I always practices slow oiling as I do live in the highlands, but since losing my husband in December, he was only 59, I'm 54, I realize even more now that life is just too short. You only get one life, some people choose to go out and live life fast and furiously, sky diving, tightrope walking, running marathons, others (like me) live slow, redecorate the house, spend more time in the garden grow my own produce, cosy by the fire on rainy cold days,get outside in the sun and cook outside in the sunny days, I'm going to quit my job in a couple of years and try and make my cottage table top small business pay for itself
@the_greenhouse_gardener I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband 😞 how are you doing? 59 is so young. I'm glad to hear you're spending time redecorating and gardening etc. Those things must bring a lot of comfort and purpose to your days. We sadly lost my stepdad in September and my Mum has been dooms the same sorts of things as you. It's a stark reminder of how short and precious life is and I'm glad to hear you're filling your days with beautiful activities. I hope you're doing well.
Sorry to hear about your family loss Sarah.
I started my soft life era in 2020 with the pandemic and I was forced to stop everything. Before that I felt like a shark, like I’d die if I stopped moving/going.
New concept for me! Thank you
This was wonderful and so helpful!! When you said take care of your wellness or you will take care of your illness 🤯🤯🤯
It's such a tough life lesson but it's so true!!
Thank you for your advice!😊 By the way, you look stunning❤
That's so kind, thank you 💫
This is exactly what I needed
I like hearing her voice !!!
Just found you!! Wonderful! Really needed this - thanķ you ❤
You're so welcome!
Excellent advice ❤❤❤
Glad you think so!
What about when you say yes because it seems a good idea at the time or you haven’t thought it through and then regret saying yes later
Hi! I enjoy your chanel! But What to do When you have a special need kid and the sleep is a big problem? Because he didnt sleep, he cries. And with this came the craving, the anxiety, the frustation
Hugs from a mom with two profoundly disabled daughters. Read my comment to the commentator above yours. Find humor, lots and lots of humor, everywhere. Something that was life changing for us was a service dog. The process was hard and very stressful, but once she was trained to the specific needs, she will alert before the monitors, allowing me my first full few hours of sleep because I didn’t have to half sleep listening for the monitors. If at all possible, when your child is the right age, push though the looooooong, often stressful process of a service dog if needed and if you can. Seriously, that first block of sleep when I knew the dog would alert, knew to my core that she would, was such a night of extreme gratitude.
So, I guess, lots and lots of humor ( even dark humor, all kinds of humor) and gratitude when you do find things or moments of reprieve that help- deep gratitude for any “sparks” if you will. When my girls were babies, I literally could not picture surviving, so I hear you, I get you - hugs!!
That sounds incredibly challenging, I'm sorry. I don't have all the answers I'm afraid. I hope you have a good support network around you. Sending love and strength ❤
@@SarahNicholls Thanks !!!
Love this 💗
Thank you so much once again for the incredible advice 💖
You're so welcome 🙏 thanks for watching!!
Great video 🎉 well done Sarah 😊
Thanks Dan! ✨️
What about your (work as a doctor) sara, how do you go soft living with that?
Asking coz I'm a doctor myself and I can't get over that :/
Great question - it is HARD. I focus on my self care outside of work so that I arrive at work with energy and a good attitude. When I'm at work, I try to tell myself "I have time", so that I feel more calm (even when it's busy and there's too much to do, just repeating this mantra to myself helps a lot)
Love from India💓 Dr sarah
Thank you
Sleep is so important. As well a blank space. Also, how do you get your eyes so white?
Definitely! I don't do anything to make my eyes white.
✨Wow✨ You are just delightful❣️I’m so glad to have found your channel…How do you not have 1M subscribers⁉️❤️✨
Wow, thank you so much!!!
Great video! ❤
Nice colours of the background
Liked the video
Subscribed
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Thank you so much 😀
Hello from Florida! Just found your channel and subscribed.
Yay! Thanks for being here 🥰
THANKYOU❤
Soft life of your dreams
Love the video. Keep it up
Appreciate it!
Looks like her doggy wants to live the soft life too 😂 🐕
😂 that doggy is clearly already living the soft life❤
@@profpat24 touché 😂
She has the softest life 😂 living the dream!!
How would you go about informing coworkers that you're not interested in toxic/gossip chatting? I find that this is a big stressor of mine.
Great question! I made a video here where I talk about setting boundaries. I also included a free cheatsheet with examples of how to have those awkward conversations. Let me know what you think! ua-cam.com/video/KQci_GAfBTg/v-deo.html
Is there a way to live a soft life with a husband and 3 boys ages 2, 6 & 7? I feel like my sons are all so active and make me busy all the time
Good question!! I don't have kids, but there are plenty of other people in the comments who have good suggestions and other youtubers with videos of how to do slow living with kids 🫶 go easy on yourself, I'm sure you're doing an amazing job!!
Oof this. I'm a therapist in community mental health and I'm tired of being so stressed all the time.
Thank you for the work you do! Go easy on yourself 💕
Loved it!!
Thank you!!
“…take EXQUISITE care of yourself.”
YES 🙌✨️🫶
Doggo wants to be on camera too ❤️
She really does 😂
Hmm I’m stressed out but don’t think I have reason to be 😂 my tolerance is clearly very low haha. I’m a SAHM mum of 3 so can’t really get rid of them 😄 and I’m retraining but excited for that
Bring home with 3 littles is extremely stressful, and it’s a job you can’t clock out from. You have every reason to feel the way you do!
You're allowed to be stressed! Being a SAHM is a full time job. You're amazing 🙌 I hope you get time to give yourself little pockets of time for yourself.
Hey sarah in glad i just meet your Channel. Just asking : how medics bear with death and seeing people die? I think it desensitivises you in the long road right ?
Great question. It's always hard to be honest. We have training on it during med school and once you're a doctor, but it's one of those things you have to experience to learn how to handle it. It does get easier in some ways, but I think that it's natural to feel some level of emotion about it as we are all human.
But the big question is how did you learn? I learned to do things ahead, to arrive on time, to...but how?
@milicavojnovicradosavljevi6096 Good question! When I hit rock bottom with burnout, followed by long covid, I realised something had to change. I had been running myself into the ground for too long by working too much, being too busy all the time and being a people-pleaser!!
I decided to start noticing the problems in my life more (rather than just pushing through them and 'coping') and then looking for solutions for them. Basically, I developed a solution-focused mindset.
Then I started reading *every* book I could get my hands on that might have the solutions to my problems (basically lots of self help, philosophy, autobiography and psychology books). If the books had exercises or homework in them, I would do it. Also from youtube, reading articles and listening to lots of podcasts.
When I could afford it, I hired a life and business coach for 6 months.
I'm still learning and growing and hope I'll never stop!!
Hope that helps 🫶
Thinking about soft life is such a privilege. Only if you’re healthy and in safety you can think about these things
Absolutely! Being healthy and safe are the top priorities for sure.
Prepping...time management Yes Yes Yes 2024
Ugh why can't American radiators look like those. They look like they would be way more efficient. I spend 400/month on electric heating in a 750 square foot two story house.
Oh gosh that is expensive!! Are they electric heaters? Ours are good, but I always think they are very ugly 😂
@@SarahNicholls I feel like they look so cute. Almost like wainscoting. Yes they are electric. I have to get a mini split system soon because I can't keep spending thousands on electricity. I keep my house at 58 to 60 degrees too, so it's not like I'm using a lot to heat to a high temp!
@HipsterSpinster_ oh my gosh, that's so much money just to be at that temperature 🫣 cost of living in the US is no joke
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Nah I'm pretty sure my 2 year old is the CEO of my life right now...
2 year old tend to have that effect, don't they?!
Hellooo!!!!