I started to get dressed everyday, even to go to the grocery store or the post office. why should I keep my nice clothes in the wardrobe for "special events" when every day is a special event. 🙂 People look at me and treat me in a differnt way, when I look good and feel good about myself.
Yes omg girl!! I almost puck when people ask me, why are you so dressed up, where are you going? Do you already have a boyfriend? Who do you want to show off for? Are you trying to impress your ex? WTH no!! I have clothes that need to be used, makeup that I need to wear, I don't produce myself every single day but when I do I get called for🤨😑
@@giocondakisses Those asking you those questions clearly need to level up their own lives. My Parents always had us dress “properly” when going in public. As kids “play clothes”were for play…..NOT going shopping with Mom…not for visiting a friends home. It carry’s over… seeing grown women with us brushed hair in sloppy sweats and what appear to be bedroom slippers is DISGUSTING. You keep on doing what you’re doing and let them to be the slobs they are 🎯♥
@@giocondakissesI love this! I've always hated my fine, thin hair. Even when I'm done up and its just been done I never feel that it looks nice and it really gets me down. A few weeks ago I ordered a long thick auburn wig, my man's jaw hit the floor when I walked in with it on and I've worn it out a couple of times for date nights and he said he loves the confidence it gives me. I'm building up the courage to wear it around other people I know and comments like yours make me think... why the hell not. We all deserve to feel our best whenever we want ❤
The dressing up one really resonated with me. Often I dress down because everyone here dresses so casually and I feel like I can’t wear that nice outfit I wanted to wear because then I’ll stand out too much. I’m going to try to start wearing the nice outfits Id like to wear and dress for myself rather than dress to fit in casually with everyone else. Thank you ❤
Jillz, we WOULD LOVE AN IN-DEPTH VIDEO ON HOW TO RUN YOUR BUSINESS WHILE STAYING IM UOUR FEMININE ENERGY! Also how to work through all these limiting beliefs of “I’m not a business woman, women like me don’t become successful business women, there’s only one way to do it (the typical manly “grind” and someone who went to business school) and that way is simply not for me”. I am a creative writer and ESL corporate trainer and MA student and wanting to reconcile all of these identities and reconnect with my feminine energy. :)
The two are not exclusive. You can be as feminine as you choose to be and still be a business woman. Strong women are feminine. you don't need to wear dresses and heels to be feminine. That is the catch and the misnomer. Women have been taught to think that being in dresses and heels, being demur and submissive = being feminine. that is not true. Take a look at pioneering women and literal pioneer women. Read your own history.
@@gusmonster59 I agree! It has more to do with the way I see myself, I think. And specifically in terms of venturing into a new career in business (without having seen anyone around me do that itms) - but I guess that's why learning about and from other women is more empowering than anything else. Currently reading Cat Bohannon's "Eve: How the Female Body Drove 200 Million Years of Evolution" and not to exaggerate, but it's changing my life. I think starting from our biology and then going from there is such an empowering place in terms of understanding female/women/femininity and how we come to be and it's honestly changing the way I think of myself. That seeps into every aspect of one's life including 21st Century business careers :-)
I quit my corporate job at 33 to become a day trader, it's been 3 years. It's difficult but i have no regrets. Always take the risk so when you die, you will not have any regrets. Great video 🎉
Thanks for this. I'm 32 and planning to quit a stable and well paying job where I've been working for 8 years. I'm not miserable so there's nothing truly pushing me to quit, except for the fact that I'm not excited about this job anymore. And that reason never seems enough to leave a well paying job. But this year I'm truly working on just going for it and seeing where life takes me. Your post may be the sign I need. xx 😌
Last August, I gave up almost all of my material things. I didn't want to be that person anymore. I was stuck. I needed something, new, fresh and most important, ME! I put all of my energy into moving into a new career field, at 48. This field is not anything I have done before. I didn't know anything or anyone in the field but I wanted to be there. I made a lot of space for what I wanted to do, be and present to the world. It was NOT easy. There was a point where I was almost financially broke, because I refused to come from a place of being desperate and just doing whatever instead of focusing on what I really wanted for myself. I moved in silence. I didn't ask or even tell anyone what I was doing. I knew what I needed to do and I just did it.
Thank you for sharing. I’m feeling this pull to change too. Even looking at inanimate objects I’d held onto for so long took me back to a past I no longer live in!
53 year old combat veteran, I've been preparing for this economic collapse for close to a decade. Your advice was serendipitous. Much appreciated. Also your advice is helpful to men, at least this one.
1-old identity 2-trading time for money 5:25 3-drinking alcohol 10:35 4-asking for too much advice 13:33 5-dressing casual for date night. 17:36 6-letting fear control me 18:56
Oh my goodness pleaseee make the video about creating a business. This video hit PERFECT timing for me. I despise my job and I share all of your same feelings around a 9-5. I know what I want to create for myself and that it will take years but, I think it is worth it! I would so appreciate hearing your experiences, advice, insight and perspectives. Thank you!❤
@@solarydays thanks for your input but I work in business operations and already own my own business. The topic Jillz is covering is not how to run a business.. I think some points were missed.
@@solarydays aren't you a ray of sunshine 🥴 Most ppl KNOW that a UA-cam video isn't going to teach them how to run a business...Noone is quite as gullible as YOU it would seem. We're hoping to get some TIPS.
@@solarydays Anyhow I am going to check out of this little interaction here but yes it is bad I hate it and I want to hear Jillz perspectives and insights around taking a totally different career path because I like her a lot and want to hear what she has to say. If she would make a ten hour video I would watch it because again, I like her content which is why I am here.
I was just saying to myself “I’ll probably just always be a supporting character” a few nights ago. And I had an epiphany today that made me feel so worthy! And that I shouldn’t talk down on myself. When you said supporting character… I thought I was meant to see this video today ! I’ve gotta see myself with new eyes 🥲 Thank you Jillz for creating content like this ! New subscriber 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼 sending love your way 💕💕
Thanks Jillz...I have started observing the Sabbath, which includes a Friday morning baking of bread and a deep cleaning of the house. This time I didn't feel it gained me extra merit from my partner, but your video reminded me that I am doing it for myself and not for him.
I remember reading a tag on a blouse I purchased a long time ago -- it said "Everyday is a special occasion." I don't know what brand it was but I live by that saying. I'm known as well dressed by my co-workers but I just love feeling good through looking good! Not sure why your upload didn't appear in my subscriptions but only on my homepage recommended 🧐
Love this! I have taught piano for 10+ years and having so many students was draining me. I took a risk and started reselling clothing during the pandemic and now am able to get by just teaching 3 days a week. I have so much more time for fun things and even joined a band too. Love all your videos! ❤
I really love this! I have been thinking of quitting my job as it doesn't feel aligned anymore. I was so pumped and excited about quitting that a warmth and a bright light felt like it wanted to escape my chest at that moment. So I have decided that that was a signal from my body that I'm ready to take a leap and that no matter what, I'll be okay. Thank you for this reminder Jillz! I really feel like God/the universe was talking to me through you.
Wow jill I used to watch you in 2021 when you had under 10k followers and I used to think "she's gonna be successful at this". Now look at you.. Soooo proud of you
100% on point no 3. I've been sober for a long time, but I mess around with dairy, sugar, and preservatives that clearly have no business in my body. My complexion immediately changes when I'm ingesting these things. This is so timely, because I just picked up some sunflower seed butter to swap out my white chocolate peanut butter cups. So glad to hear we're aligned on this 💕
My mom quit alcohol cold-turkey when she found out she was pregnant with me - now she is definitely an advocate for sobriety. I am 31 and have never been drunk. (Also, I was pregnant at 21. But I would not have been drinking, anyway.) It's important to be clear-headed. I am glad she instilled that drive in me.
Hi Jillz, This video means a lot to me. I quit drinking almost four years ago, originally to support a loved one who had an addiction, but I continued because I realized I felt so much better without it. I have a connective tissue disorder, too, and alcohol used to make my symptoms worse. It was difficult to quit when we did because alcohol is so engrained in our culture. But it was so worth going against the grain! I also love that you included trusting your own opinions and instincts about decisions. I have noticed, in following your advice in recent months, how little I am relying on others for their opinion on what I do. It has reduced my stress and made me feel like a friend and confidant to myself. It’s crazy to learn this at 36 years old, but I am so grateful for you and all of your ideas. You are a blessing on this platform. Thank you!
In my experience, overly asking people for their advice or opinion comes from a lack of self confidence and is setting yourself up to question your own judgement, as if you’re not already the expert on yourself.
12:26 i noticed too more and more people arent drinking that much! I really like it because i have been on a journey of not drinking every time i go out. I think there is certain pressure especially if it’s a dinner, bar setting, lounge setting, or party to have a drink. I started just getting mocktails and I love it no hangovers, you’re sound in mind !
Love your content. I did shift timelines completely. So if anyone is wondering if they can do it they 100 percent can. This year my focus is on me, my health, what I eat. My new identity loves Salads 😅
I absolutely love #5 and am thankful for the reminder that it’s best to bust it out now rather than wait for those “special” date nights/events!!! I appreciate you and all of your content 💕
I just binge watched 4 of your videos (while doing my chores) after not catching up for a while. You are definitely in my top favourite, if not favourite, thank you for providing such good advice❤️
I prayed to God last night to give me signs on my personal matters especially about how to level up my own life. And today, this morning, i got my way to your video and watched it. So many of it answers my questions.. thankyou for such a great content!
Going through a lot of this now! Adding, I had to get rid of people that no longer align to the new me. The old me was people pleasing, tolerating emotional abuse, accepting non reciprocal friendships but those days are gone!
Hi jillz. I just discovered you and I think I met you at just the right time. I am in a period where I am starting to change myself, my life and my thoughts. I'm 35 and I think I'm doing well. I have my loved ones with me. I have a nice yt channel. I see that I am truly moving towards my dreams and I close my eyes and my heart to avoid encountering those who pull me down. Yes I can achieve this. I'm happy. Thank you for being here, for reminding us of what we have forgotten in this life, for your help and support.❤
1) My old Identity (my old 'self'. See yourself differently) 2) Stop trading time for money 3) Stop drinking alcohol 4) Asking for too much advice or feedback (trust your own gut) 5) Stopped dressing casual for date night 6) Started taking more risks These are all very good. They are also a part of - be who you are and not what others think you OUGHT to be. I have never liked alcohol. I never drank it. Why drink something I don't like. I took a lot of crap for this when I was younger. But,as I pointed out more than once , why should I drink something I don't like? To impress you? Nope. Sorry. Not here to impress you or anyone else. Chasing money is a waste of time. Yes, money can buy you nice things, but they are just things. You are better off working at something you like. Your entire life will be happier. Asking for feedback is great, but you are not required to take it. Follow your heart/gut/instincts. You can take more than one person's advice by taking the parts that sing to you and combining them. One of the biggest things you can o is to stop, or highly cut back on, screen time and social media. Get your nose out of your phone and look up at life.
i am glad i am watch this, been quit my corporate job and pursue my dreams even i am scared about what will happen i will choose myself selfish bout what i want in my life, not listen to people anymore what should i do. im done with that. you are inspiring me jill gbu.
Regarding the tip about not asking for too much advice, some of the best advice I ever received actually came from when I was asking all my coworker friends whether or not I should go for a big hair change I’d been thinking about. One friend immediately was like “if you’re asking everyone you know for permission to do it then you obviously already wanna do it so just DO IT” and she was so right. Ever since, I’ve been a lot more honest with myself about things I feel that spark/pull towards, and just giving myself permission to do them as soon as I can identify that gut “yes this excites me and I wanna go for it” feeling instead of analyzing and asking and researching endlessly without making a decision.
Oh my gosh I dont think I've ever related to a youtube video SO much before! Thanks so much Jillz! It stinks when family doesn't support you even though YOU'RE the one who knows what's best for you. LOVE this video!! ❤
I’m starting this same process myself. I’m not sober but drinking less and less. While it’s fun, I really don’t feel well. Physically and mentally. A little sad to miss out on some social events but honestly my weekends are so much more productive and I feel like I have the energy to do the things I want to do without it.
People made fun of me when I dressed up to go to dinner and shopping . Strangers would make snide remarks, oh look the she is dressing up to shop at Costco, or she looks like a rag doll. It was not a prom dress or fancy clothes just fine tailored pains and shirt with ruffles with jacket and pumps. A strand of pearls or light gold necklace, the ladies were not happy with me .
It sounds like to need to move. Maybe Europe! I’m the same way, but I really don’t care of sad, envious strangers think or say about me anymore. You’re the one that has to be happy with yourself, not them ❤
That sounds like jealous haters who obviously aren't happy with themselves. Happy and positive people mind their business and would have given nice conpliments
Thank you so much Jillz ❤!!! I am dating a masculine man for the first time in my life, and I feel a big shift happening for me. It feels sooooooo good and soft and juicy and safe, but I have felt a little bit like an imposter! I like what you said about all of us shifting and changing as we grow. I am so ready to evolve into my more feminine self! I also quit drinking alcohol about 7 years ago. The current thing that I am getting rid of, in order to soften, is social media. I have replaced mindless scrolling with BOOKS 📚 and listening to you! I felt an immediate elevation in my mental clarity and self-esteem! Thank you thank you! 🙏🏽
What I love about your videos, other than they are informative, the editing is clean without too much footage which makes me focus fully with what you say! ❤😊
This is the exact message I needed to hear at this exact time. I’m preparing to make some huge changes in my life pretty quickly but at this moment I have no means and no game plan. Even with those unknowns it still feels like the right thing to do for myself and my children. I’m trying hard not to get caught up in the ’how’ and not to let fear take over; I’m just trying to focus on figuring out my next step. Thank you for sharing your gifts and such quality content. Your channel has been such a huge inspiration for me during this time 🙏🏽🤍✨
This is true... just trying on a few choice pieces of clothes ... just walking in front of the mirror... sometimes I wonder if this is the reason we like to shop... for a moment... we are transformed... just for a moment but the change in our being... lasts so much longer.... Thankyou... I have subscribed...
I’m so glad I found you at this juncture in my life. I LOVE all your videos, but this one really resonates with me. I would love to see a video regarding building a business while remaining in feminine energy.
Dear Jilllz, I watch all your videos since last summer, but a video about soft life while creating your own business would just be awesome because this is something that I'm getting unto ❤️
I appreciate how you address business and being a business woman. This is exactly where I'm at...on the threshold of starting a business. I know I'm called to it and it's time to just do it...walk in it. Anyway, so interesting how your channel showed up in my feed at this time in my life. Alot of what you say resonates with me. Thanks so much.
Jillz, enjoyed your positive inspirational video that applies to anybody.. A career is not about the most money you make but do you enjoy what you are doing. It took me until 45y/o to find a job I truly enjoy which is an Fire Department Manager. Bottom line like you said is to sometimes take risks, determination and reach for your dream and you can be anybody! Wishing you tremendous success with your YT Channel and all your endeavors.👨🚒🚒
Yeeeeesss please a video about finding your topic, your field in which you can provide value and how to build it while staying in femine energy. Would be amazing!! Thank You very much :))
Thanks for another awesome vid jillz! And YES PLEASE to a video on starting your own business as a soft life girlie with lots of passion, I have so many of the same sentiments on the 9-5 grind
I started a sales job a few months ago. Ive clashed with my boss because he's so driven and not affirming. It feels lifeless but its a good option to help me reach my goals. Im an eccentric artist at heart so its a challenge.
Hi Jill, lovely channel and love your calming encouraging vibe based on experience . Would be gr8 if the main 6 points of the video could be visible more clearly for viewers on timeline or as a breaker slide in video. Helps navigate the video quickly esp when on time crunch . Thanks & please keep doing the grt work 💞 Thank you! :)
You’re so right. This video just inspired me. Few years back I said bye to my old me. Started dressing up every day. Even when people ask me why are you so overdressed it didn’t matter anymore because I didn’t care I was doing that for myself. Because that selflove.
Jillz, your videos have helped me so much in so many aspects of my life 🤍 Before I found your channel… I had been filming during my late luteal phase…for the past 4 years 😂 needless to say.. your videos on cycle syncing, feminine energy… all of it has been a game changer. Thank you so much 🙏🏾
You GO GIRL!! I don’t know you but I’m proud of you! 👏🏼 💕🙏 Everything you said is spot on. Thank you for stepping into your power. I’m absolutely loving your content! The world needs you like this. Also, if you don’t know the Myers Briggs (MBTI), I’m almost positive you’re an INFJ. Check it out. ❤ I’m an INTJ and my Mom was an INFJ so I’ve got a special place in my heart for y’all. Teal Swan is another INFJ. We all share a dominant cognitive function of Introverted Intuition. Take care. Thank you. 🙏
What an amazing inspiring video! Please make a video that goes further into tapping into your intuition and how you can hear your inner gut. Also a video on on earning money by value and not hours! I recently started working self employed, but there is also only trading hours instead of value. I’m kind of stuck of what I could possibly do to learn these things, to make this happen! Would love to hear your advice :)😊
Your videos are such a joy to watch! I've heard of many of the concepts you talk about before but they just didn't convince me or motivate me on an emotional level, but you make it all make so much sense.
I started to get dressed everyday, even to go to the grocery store or the post office.
why should I keep my nice clothes in the wardrobe for "special events" when every day is a special event. 🙂
People look at me and treat me in a differnt way, when I look good and feel good about myself.
Yesss I love the idea of seeing every day as a special event 💕
I agree! People give their seat to you in public transportation 🤩
Yes omg girl!! I almost puck when people ask me, why are you so dressed up, where are you going? Do you already have a boyfriend? Who do you want to show off for? Are you trying to impress your ex? WTH no!! I have clothes that need to be used, makeup that I need to wear, I don't produce myself every single day but when I do I get called for🤨😑
@@giocondakisses Those asking you those questions clearly need to level up their own lives. My Parents always had us dress “properly” when going in public. As kids “play clothes”were for play…..NOT going shopping with Mom…not for visiting a friends home. It carry’s over… seeing grown women with us brushed hair in sloppy sweats and what appear to be bedroom slippers is DISGUSTING. You keep on doing what you’re doing and let them to be the slobs they are 🎯♥
@@giocondakissesI love this! I've always hated my fine, thin hair. Even when I'm done up and its just been done I never feel that it looks nice and it really gets me down. A few weeks ago I ordered a long thick auburn wig, my man's jaw hit the floor when I walked in with it on and I've worn it out a couple of times for date nights and he said he loves the confidence it gives me. I'm building up the courage to wear it around other people I know and comments like yours make me think... why the hell not. We all deserve to feel our best whenever we want ❤
The dressing up one really resonated with me. Often I dress down because everyone here dresses so casually and I feel like I can’t wear that nice outfit I wanted to wear because then I’ll stand out too much. I’m going to try to start wearing the nice outfits Id like to wear and dress for myself rather than dress to fit in casually with everyone else.
Thank you ❤
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Jillz, we WOULD LOVE AN IN-DEPTH VIDEO ON HOW TO RUN YOUR BUSINESS WHILE STAYING IM UOUR FEMININE ENERGY! Also how to work through all these limiting beliefs of “I’m not a business woman, women like me don’t become successful business women, there’s only one way to do it (the typical manly “grind” and someone who went to business school) and that way is simply not for me”. I am a creative writer and ESL corporate trainer and MA student and wanting to reconcile all of these identities and reconnect with my feminine energy. :)
Ok you got it!! I’ll for sure do this video soon! 💕
Yes!!
Yes, for sure!!!
The two are not exclusive. You can be as feminine as you choose to be and still be a business woman. Strong women are feminine. you don't need to wear dresses and heels to be feminine. That is the catch and the misnomer. Women have been taught to think that being in dresses and heels, being demur and submissive = being feminine. that is not true. Take a look at pioneering women and literal pioneer women. Read your own history.
@@gusmonster59 I agree! It has more to do with the way I see myself, I think. And specifically in terms of venturing into a new career in business (without having seen anyone around me do that itms) - but I guess that's why learning about and from other women is more empowering than anything else. Currently reading Cat Bohannon's "Eve: How the Female Body Drove 200 Million Years of Evolution" and not to exaggerate, but it's changing my life. I think starting from our biology and then going from there is such an empowering place in terms of understanding female/women/femininity and how we come to be and it's honestly changing the way I think of myself. That seeps into every aspect of one's life including 21st Century business careers :-)
I quit my corporate job at 33 to become a day trader, it's been 3 years. It's difficult but i have no regrets. Always take the risk so when you die, you will not have any regrets. Great video 🎉
Totally agree, and thank you! ❤️
I am stay at home mom. Did you take a course?
How did you learn in order to do it full time?
What is a day trader?
Thanks for this. I'm 32 and planning to quit a stable and well paying job where I've been working for 8 years. I'm not miserable so there's nothing truly pushing me to quit, except for the fact that I'm not excited about this job anymore. And that reason never seems enough to leave a well paying job. But this year I'm truly working on just going for it and seeing where life takes me. Your post may be the sign I need. xx 😌
Last August, I gave up almost all of my material things. I didn't want to be that person anymore. I was stuck. I needed something, new, fresh and most important, ME! I put all of my energy into moving into a new career field, at 48. This field is not anything I have done before. I didn't know anything or anyone in the field but I wanted to be there. I made a lot of space for what I wanted to do, be and present to the world. It was NOT easy. There was a point where I was almost financially broke, because I refused to come from a place of being desperate and just doing whatever instead of focusing on what I really wanted for myself. I moved in silence. I didn't ask or even tell anyone what I was doing. I knew what I needed to do and I just did it.
OMG I am literally in the this phase right now
This is so inspiring to know❤
Hope you are happy in your path❤
Thank you for sharing. I’m feeling this pull to change too. Even looking at inanimate objects I’d held onto for so long took me back to a past I no longer live in!
53 year old combat veteran, I've been preparing for this economic collapse for close to a decade. Your advice was serendipitous. Much appreciated. Also your advice is helpful to men, at least this one.
That's awesome
Thank you for your service! Wishing you the best.
1-old identity
2-trading time for money 5:25
3-drinking alcohol 10:35
4-asking for too much advice 13:33
5-dressing casual for date night. 17:36
6-letting fear control me 18:56
Thanks you!
Thank you!
Oh my goodness pleaseee make the video about creating a business. This video hit PERFECT timing for me. I despise my job and I share all of your same feelings around a 9-5. I know what I want to create for myself and that it will take years but, I think it is worth it! I would so appreciate hearing your experiences, advice, insight and perspectives. Thank you!❤
YES!!! I second this! I would love a video on starting a business!
Okay noted!! I will do this! 💕
@@solarydays thanks for your input but I work in business operations and already own my own business. The topic Jillz is covering is not how to run a business.. I think some points were missed.
@@solarydays aren't you a ray of sunshine 🥴
Most ppl KNOW that a UA-cam video isn't going to teach them how to run a business...Noone is quite as gullible as YOU it would seem. We're hoping to get some TIPS.
@@solarydays Anyhow I am going to check out of this little interaction here but yes it is bad I hate it and I want to hear Jillz perspectives and insights around taking a totally different career path because I like her a lot and want to hear what she has to say. If she would make a ten hour video I would watch it because again, I like her content which is why I am here.
YES! Do a video on building a business whilst staying in our feminine energy and living that soft beautiful life!
I was just saying to myself “I’ll probably just always be a supporting character” a few nights ago. And I had an epiphany today that made me feel so worthy! And that I shouldn’t talk down on myself. When you said supporting character… I thought I was meant to see this video today ! I’ve gotta see myself with new eyes 🥲 Thank you Jillz for creating content like this ! New subscriber 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼 sending love your way 💕💕
Thanks Jillz...I have started observing the Sabbath, which includes a Friday morning baking of bread and a deep cleaning of the house. This time I didn't feel it gained me extra merit from my partner, but your video reminded me that I am doing it for myself and not for him.
@thegrumpyhorticulturist sister you are sooo right! I enjoyed that shabbat immensely, and every one since!
I remember reading a tag on a blouse I purchased a long time ago -- it said "Everyday is a special occasion." I don't know what brand it was but I live by that saying.
I'm known as well dressed by my co-workers but I just love feeling good through looking good!
Not sure why your upload didn't appear in my subscriptions but only on my homepage recommended 🧐
Love this! I have taught piano for 10+ years and having so many students was draining me. I took a risk and started reselling clothing during the pandemic and now am able to get by just teaching 3 days a week. I have so much more time for fun things and even joined a band too. Love all your videos! ❤
I really love this! I have been thinking of quitting my job as it doesn't feel aligned anymore. I was so pumped and excited about quitting that a warmth and a bright light felt like it wanted to escape my chest at that moment. So I have decided that that was a signal from my body that I'm ready to take a leap and that no matter what, I'll be okay. Thank you for this reminder Jillz! I really feel like God/the universe was talking to me through you.
Wow jill I used to watch you in 2021 when you had under 10k followers and I used to think "she's gonna be successful at this". Now look at you.. Soooo proud of you
100% on point no 3. I've been sober for a long time, but I mess around with dairy, sugar, and preservatives that clearly have no business in my body. My complexion immediately changes when I'm ingesting these things. This is so timely, because I just picked up some sunflower seed butter to swap out my white chocolate peanut butter cups. So glad to hear we're aligned on this 💕
Oh ya those things mess up my skin as well!! You’re not alone haha
My mom quit alcohol cold-turkey when she found out she was pregnant with me - now she is definitely an advocate for sobriety. I am 31 and have never been drunk. (Also, I was pregnant at 21. But I would not have been drinking, anyway.) It's important to be clear-headed. I am glad she instilled that drive in me.
I'm 42 and I find your channel so helpful.
Hi Jillz,
This video means a lot to me. I quit drinking almost four years ago, originally to support a loved one who had an addiction, but I continued because I realized I felt so much better without it. I have a connective tissue disorder, too, and alcohol used to make my symptoms worse. It was difficult to quit when we did because alcohol is so engrained in our culture. But it was so worth going against the grain!
I also love that you included trusting your own opinions and instincts about decisions. I have noticed, in following your advice in recent months, how little I am relying on others for their opinion on what I do. It has reduced my stress and made me feel like a friend and confidant to myself. It’s crazy to learn this at 36 years old, but I am so grateful for you and all of your ideas. You are a blessing on this platform. Thank you!
In my experience, overly asking people for their advice or opinion comes from a lack of self confidence and is setting yourself up to question your own judgement, as if you’re not already the expert on yourself.
12:26 i noticed too more and more people arent drinking that much! I really like it because i have been on a journey of not drinking every time i go out. I think there is certain pressure especially if it’s a dinner, bar setting, lounge setting, or party to have a drink. I started just getting mocktails and I love it no hangovers, you’re sound in mind !
Or maybe… because you aren’t drinking as much, you are noticing other people who also aren’t?
17:12 "Alignment is the secret to truly leveling up yourself and your life" Fantastic video. Thank you so much!!!!
Yes, Jillz! Please make a video about starting your own business!!! So many people would love it!
Definitely going to!! 💕
"FORTUNE FAVORS THE BOLD", perfect qoute to star a new chapter in live, 🥰Thanks.
Love your content. I did shift timelines completely. So if anyone is wondering if they can do it they 100 percent can. This year my focus is on me, my health, what I eat. My new identity loves Salads 😅
I absolutely love #5 and am thankful for the reminder that it’s best to bust it out now rather than wait for those “special” date nights/events!!! I appreciate you and all of your content 💕
The way you blushed talking about date nights was so adorable! Thank you, you've helped me so much! 🌸💕
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I swear Jillz, your videos = some life changing stuff!!! 🙌 thank you for these amazing topics ❤
I just binge watched 4 of your videos (while doing my chores) after not catching up for a while. You are definitely in my top favourite, if not favourite, thank you for providing such good advice❤️
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I prayed to God last night to give me signs on my personal matters especially about how to level up my own life. And today, this morning, i got my way to your video and watched it. So many of it answers my questions.. thankyou for such a great content!
Going through a lot of this now! Adding, I had to get rid of people that no longer align to the new me. The old me was people pleasing, tolerating emotional abuse, accepting non reciprocal friendships but those days are gone!
Yes! Please do a video for us about adding feminine soft energy while starting a business. This has been perplexing me lately. Thank you so much!
I am so proud of you Jillz! Keep shining for us! It inspires me!!
Hi jillz. I just discovered you and I think I met you at just the right time. I am in a period where I am starting to change myself, my life and my thoughts. I'm 35 and I think I'm doing well. I have my loved ones with me. I have a nice yt channel. I see that I am truly moving towards my dreams and I close my eyes and my heart to avoid encountering those who pull me down. Yes I can achieve this. I'm happy. Thank you for being here, for reminding us of what we have forgotten in this life, for your help and support.❤
Good luck :)
I’m happy you’re here ❤️❤️❤️
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1) My old Identity (my old 'self'. See yourself differently)
2) Stop trading time for money
3) Stop drinking alcohol
4) Asking for too much advice or feedback (trust your own gut)
5) Stopped dressing casual for date night
6) Started taking more risks
These are all very good. They are also a part of - be who you are and not what others think you OUGHT to be. I have never liked alcohol. I never drank it. Why drink something I don't like. I took a lot of crap for this when I was younger. But,as I pointed out more than once , why should I drink something I don't like? To impress you? Nope. Sorry. Not here to impress you or anyone else. Chasing money is a waste of time. Yes, money can buy you nice things, but they are just things. You are better off working at something you like. Your entire life will be happier. Asking for feedback is great, but you are not required to take it. Follow your heart/gut/instincts. You can take more than one person's advice by taking the parts that sing to you and combining them. One of the biggest things you can o is to stop, or highly cut back on, screen time and social media. Get your nose out of your phone and look up at life.
All about the crash games here started on a whim now I can’t stop the excitement just builds
Asking for too much advice keeps us tied to expectations, so yes I highly highly agree to this! Love it!
Grabbed that welcome bonus right when I signed up such a great boost to start with
i am glad i am watch this, been quit my corporate job and pursue my dreams even i am scared about what will happen i will choose myself selfish bout what i want in my life, not listen to people anymore what should i do. im done with that. you are inspiring me jill gbu.
Would love a video on creating a business, especially whilst staying in that feminine energy x
Regarding the tip about not asking for too much advice, some of the best advice I ever received actually came from when I was asking all my coworker friends whether or not I should go for a big hair change I’d been thinking about.
One friend immediately was like “if you’re asking everyone you know for permission to do it then you obviously already wanna do it so just DO IT” and she was so right.
Ever since, I’ve been a lot more honest with myself about things I feel that spark/pull towards, and just giving myself permission to do them as soon as I can identify that gut “yes this excites me and I wanna go for it” feeling instead of analyzing and asking and researching endlessly without making a decision.
Oh my gosh I dont think I've ever related to a youtube video SO much before! Thanks so much Jillz! It stinks when family doesn't support you even though YOU'RE the one who knows what's best for you. LOVE this video!! ❤
Love the idea about creating a business! And Love all your content, thank you for sharing with us🥰
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Yes please share more on creating a business 🥰👏🏼👏🏼
You have a beautiful aura. Thank you for what you are doing to help empower the women of the world ❤
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Thank you for this message, beautiful! 💖🕊️
I’m starting this same process myself. I’m not sober but drinking less and less. While it’s fun, I really don’t feel well. Physically and mentally. A little sad to miss out on some social events but honestly my weekends are so much more productive and I feel like I have the energy to do the things I want to do without it.
People made fun of me when I dressed up to go to dinner and shopping . Strangers would make snide remarks, oh look the she is dressing up to shop at Costco, or she looks like a rag doll. It was not a prom dress or fancy clothes just fine tailored pains and shirt with ruffles with jacket and pumps. A strand of pearls or light gold necklace, the ladies were not happy with me .
It sounds like to need to move. Maybe Europe!
I’m the same way, but I really don’t care of sad, envious strangers think or say about me anymore. You’re the one that has to be happy with yourself, not them ❤
Just insecure
That sounds like jealous haters who obviously aren't happy with themselves. Happy and positive people mind their business and would have given nice conpliments
I am sure you were looking gorgeous ❤
Im amazed by you. Keep going 💪 ❤
Thank you so much Jillz ❤!!!
I am dating a masculine man for the first time in my life, and I feel a big shift happening for me. It feels sooooooo good and soft and juicy and safe, but I have felt a little bit like an imposter! I like what you said about all of us shifting and changing as we grow. I am so ready to evolve into my more feminine self!
I also quit drinking alcohol about 7 years ago. The current thing that I am getting rid of, in order to soften, is social media. I have replaced mindless scrolling with BOOKS 📚 and listening to you! I felt an immediate elevation in my mental clarity and self-esteem!
Thank you thank you! 🙏🏽
What I love about your videos, other than they are informative, the editing is clean without too much footage which makes me focus fully with what you say! ❤😊
I’m praying you hit 1 mill !! You deserve it
This is the exact message I needed to hear at this exact time. I’m preparing to make some huge changes in my life pretty quickly but at this moment I have no means and no game plan. Even with those unknowns it still feels like the right thing to do for myself and my children. I’m trying hard not to get caught up in the ’how’ and not to let fear take over; I’m just trying to focus on figuring out my next step. Thank you for sharing your gifts and such quality content. Your channel has been such a huge inspiration for me during this time 🙏🏽🤍✨
I would love a video about building a business! I am in that exact spot in life
Noted!! 💕
I would loveee to see a video on how to maintain business & being in your soft feminine energy!!
I love this video! Yes absolutely, please do give us the video on how to build a business while in your feminine energy!! ❤️
Love spinning the roulette it’s my Friday night ritual scored big last week
Love the date night step! I dress really nice all the time because I like to look good and put together. It's a boon to the energy you project!
This is true... just trying on a few choice pieces of clothes ... just walking in front of the mirror... sometimes I wonder if this is the reason we like to shop... for a moment... we are transformed... just for a moment but the change in our being... lasts so much longer.... Thankyou... I have subscribed...
Love the energies 💕💕
Your videos saved my life, thank you so much !❤
I’m so glad I found you at this juncture in my life. I LOVE all your videos, but this one really resonates with me. I would love to see a video regarding building a business while remaining in feminine energy.
your videos helped me clean my whole room !! it was like a podcast to me and I learned so much im obsessed ❤
Yes would love that kind of video..how to stay soft and feminine whilst having a very busy job and a lot of work pressures. Love your videos xx
Dear Jilllz, I watch all your videos since last summer, but a video about soft life while creating your own business would just be awesome because this is something that I'm getting unto ❤️
Thank you for your videos. The practical tips are helping me so much. I love to binge watch your videos while I work lol.
Yes! Would love a video on building a business while staying soft 🩷
i enjoy your content so much! this is my 4th video now & I‘m so glad I found your channel 🥰
Ahh welcome! 🩷
Yes please do a video on starting creative buissness that feel aligned!
Id love a friend like you such a genuine soul x❤
omg yes please make that video on how to manage a business while in a feminine energy!
Dear Jill, thank you so much! You are my psychologist❤🌹🙏
I appreciate how you address business and being a business woman. This is exactly where I'm at...on the threshold of starting a business. I know I'm called to it and it's time to just do it...walk in it. Anyway, so interesting how your channel showed up in my feed at this time in my life. Alot of what you say resonates with me. Thanks so much.
You are so welcome! I’m so glad to resonates 💕
Thankyou young lady. Took me a long time to show up 4 me instead of how others want me to be. 👍🏽
Jillz, enjoyed your positive inspirational video that applies to anybody.. A career is not about the most money you make but do you enjoy what you are doing. It took me until 45y/o to find a job I truly enjoy which is an Fire Department Manager. Bottom line like you said is to sometimes take risks, determination and reach for your dream and you can be anybody! Wishing you tremendous success with your YT Channel and all your endeavors.👨🚒🚒
Yes, please do that kind of video in the future! (referring to #2)
😀 Great points! Get rid of toxic ppl too. It helps a lot!!!
3 and 4 are so real for me. i gotta make my own decisions too
Great videos. I am glad I saw your videos. I just started a new job and it is time to level up.
I just want to cuddle your dog. So cozy and snuggled up ahhhh 😍
Yeeeeesss please a video about finding your topic, your field in which you can provide value and how to build it while staying in femine energy. Would be amazing!! Thank You very much :))
Thanks for another awesome vid jillz! And YES PLEASE to a video on starting your own business as a soft life girlie with lots of passion, I have so many of the same sentiments on the 9-5 grind
Jillz, thank you for sharing your knowledge! You are awesome 🎉
Would absolutely love a video on running a business and staying in feminine energy!
I started a sales job a few months ago. Ive clashed with my boss because he's so driven and not affirming. It feels lifeless but its a good option to help me reach my goals. Im an eccentric artist at heart so its a challenge.
Hi Jill, lovely channel and love your calming encouraging vibe based on experience . Would be gr8 if the main 6 points of the video could be visible more clearly for viewers on timeline or as a breaker slide in video. Helps navigate the video quickly esp when on time crunch . Thanks & please keep doing the grt work 💞 Thank you! :)
You’re so right. This video just inspired me. Few years back I said bye to my old me. Started dressing up every day. Even when people ask me why are you so overdressed it didn’t matter anymore because I didn’t care I was doing that for myself. Because that selflove.
I always look forward to Sunday evening because of you! Thanks for your content!
Aww I love that! Thank you for watching! 💕
DO THE BUSINESS VIDEO PLEASEEE
Okay will do!! 🙌
Jillz, your videos have helped me so much in so many aspects of my life 🤍 Before I found your channel… I had been filming during my late luteal phase…for the past 4 years 😂 needless to say.. your videos on cycle syncing, feminine energy… all of it has been a game changer. Thank you so much 🙏🏾
I am lovingggg your channel!! Thank you!
I love the living room (?) background. So cute, especially with the dog! Also, I love the table! Do you have a link? :)
Yes, those reload bonuses can be a lifesaver, especially when you hit a rough patch. Helps to keep playing without breaking the bank
Yes please share about starting a business in your feminine energy!
Thank you for making wonderful inspiring videos 🎉❤!!!! ⭐🌸
You GO GIRL!! I don’t know you but I’m proud of you! 👏🏼 💕🙏 Everything you said is spot on. Thank you for stepping into your power. I’m absolutely loving your content! The world needs you like this.
Also, if you don’t know the Myers Briggs (MBTI), I’m almost positive you’re an INFJ. Check it out. ❤ I’m an INTJ and my Mom was an INFJ so I’ve got a special place in my heart for y’all. Teal Swan is another INFJ. We all share a dominant cognitive function of Introverted Intuition. Take care. Thank you. 🙏
yes yes please make a video on business while being in feminine energy 🎀
Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Been tuning to a bunch of your videos during my 1hr 30 min gym session 🥰✨️💖
Thank you Jillz❤ Your channel is very helpful. Sending love your way 🩷🩷🩷 🎉
This is really valuable. I’m glad I stumbled upon it. Thank you for sharing.
What an amazing inspiring video! Please make a video that goes further into tapping into your intuition and how you can hear your inner gut. Also a video on on earning money by value and not hours! I recently started working self employed, but there is also only trading hours instead of value. I’m kind of stuck of what I could possibly do to learn these things, to make this happen! Would love to hear your advice :)😊
Your videos are such a joy to watch! I've heard of many of the concepts you talk about before but they just didn't convince me or motivate me on an emotional level, but you make it all make so much sense.