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  • @yvonneasante7836
    @yvonneasante7836 Місяць тому +1312

    Having a child with the wrong person will make u cry more than the baby 😢😢

    • @parkandplaywithdorathy
      @parkandplaywithdorathy Місяць тому +5

      Like it is well with our soul

    • @olaideadedokun9895
      @olaideadedokun9895 Місяць тому +19

      Some men are dubious, manipulative, selfish. God have mercy on me. Thank God am not barren. Have beautiful kids

    • @somoyesimileoluwa2283
      @somoyesimileoluwa2283 Місяць тому +7

      Very true 😢😢😢

    • @SMar-yu6od
      @SMar-yu6od Місяць тому +5

      Especially 😢when you first have the baby😢.

    • @kisakyeolivia3411
      @kisakyeolivia3411 Місяць тому +1

      Why not be on pregnancy preventive measures. It is like we are saying that we are children who have sex as a test, to know how it feels and what happens. For people 18 years and above, there is nothing like pregnacy accidents expected only in rape cases or where someone's mind is unstable. engage get the by product.

  • @oluwatomithomas180
    @oluwatomithomas180 Місяць тому +461

    Tosin, you are a powerful woman to talk about your experience. It is a sign that you are an overcomer. May God continually protect you and use you to help our younger generation.

  • @aSuperHeroStateofMind
    @aSuperHeroStateofMind Місяць тому +264

    You will see the red flags, but the wounds in your soul will urge you to continue....Powerful words. This is why I never talk about ppl who are in an abusive relationship. The only thing I would tell somebody is heal from the trauma in your past, from the things that you don't talk about. HEAL the Wounds in your Soul..❤❤❤

  • @daciagriffith6568
    @daciagriffith6568 Місяць тому +381

    Run Sista Run!!!Being alone DOES NOT mean being lonely.

  • @princewillokwoche6845
    @princewillokwoche6845 Місяць тому +13

    She survived to tell her story! Many don’t make it out of the contraption

  • @swagservices7025
    @swagservices7025 Місяць тому +30

    It’s so easy to pass judgment when you are not a victim, this lady would be a great counselor to people going through similar issues she just explained

  • @nic_niko1003
    @nic_niko1003 Місяць тому +25

    Manipulation is a dangerous thing in a relationship. You think you are compromising, but you are being taken advantage of. I'm happy you are speaking your truth. Sometimes, people never see it.

  • @hyeldaapollos3879
    @hyeldaapollos3879 Місяць тому +208

    Lord have mercy on us. This generation is in need of light. The darkness is real. What happens in relationships is truly mind blowing 🤯🤯🤯

    • @rayannphillip931
      @rayannphillip931 Місяць тому +13

      There is nothing new under the Sun.

    • @princeboateng4395
      @princeboateng4395 Місяць тому +9

      It’s always the worst kind of men they loose themselves to and visit the wounds on the best men. It’s crazy

    • @chestchirecateyes
      @chestchirecateyes Місяць тому +2

      They're in need of nurturing and lessons in self-love.

    • @hyeldaapollos3879
      @hyeldaapollos3879 Місяць тому

      ​​@@rayannphillip931 Yeah,.. But I love the fact that this is novel to me. The Bible would have us wise unto that which is good and simple (innocent) as to what is evil. (Rom 16:19) This kind of activity actually crosses the borders of just being bad... This is in the country of evil! This man clearly is into something dark! 😳

    • @gloryplufelpride4766
      @gloryplufelpride4766 Місяць тому

      That word "self love " 📌📌📌 should be ultimate/utmost importance in ones life ... ​@@chestchirecateyes

  • @sdcaldwell8882
    @sdcaldwell8882 Місяць тому +123

    This is so true. 10 years after the divorce and I am still dismantling and renouncing the seeds that were planted during the marriage. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @helensomy2769
      @helensomy2769 Місяць тому +2

      Thanks for sharing this, it never occurred to me that this can still take place even after leaving the marriage.

    • @cleverchakabva9901
      @cleverchakabva9901 Місяць тому +2

      God be with you my sister

    • @TadeMakun
      @TadeMakun Місяць тому +1

      God will heal your heart and bind your spirit. Open up to Him... BE HONEST.

  • @user-en5xj6lb1r
    @user-en5xj6lb1r Місяць тому +106

    😮my goodness. Relationships can be dangerous to your spirit, soul and body. To get pregnant and getting rid of it intentionally is madness

    • @florencenyandia2202
      @florencenyandia2202 Місяць тому +5

      Initiation

    • @Tee_Africa
      @Tee_Africa Місяць тому +8

      It's sacrifice to Moloch, the guy knew what he was doing.

    • @cleverchakabva9901
      @cleverchakabva9901 Місяць тому +10

      Having someone tell you the plan of getting you pregnant and then "getting rid of it", that's just evil, it's heartless 😢😢

    • @nkemo65
      @nkemo65 Місяць тому +6

      Simply demonic

    • @LestAnyManBoast
      @LestAnyManBoast Місяць тому

      Actually it's not madness, it's witchcraft, the kind of witchcraft that is found in the Apocrphya aka hidden books of the Bible removed from the modern KJV during the the corrupt Council of Nicea

  • @graystevens939
    @graystevens939 Місяць тому +11

    I'm so sorry you went through this sister. A man who is constantly chasing personal gratification is a dangerous man,as a woman stand your ground. The wrong man will eliminate himself.

  • @matildaojeh4950
    @matildaojeh4950 Місяць тому +59

    I want to watch the whole episode, its so painful but thank God you came ouy stronger

  • @enthroned_one
    @enthroned_one Місяць тому +69

    Same happened to my best friend; Ify and after she left the marriage upon return front America; she died!!! LADIES...PROTECT UR DYNASTIES..THIS IS REAL

    • @LyndaDeniseJones
      @LyndaDeniseJones Місяць тому +4

      😢 my deepest deepest condolences, I lost my bbf to a jealous spineless manchild. It's been 20 years since her passing and I miss her more everyday. Hugs to you and all that love her ❤❤

  • @ChijiubaJanet
    @ChijiubaJanet Місяць тому +75

    I can relate very well. Experience teaches you a lot. Thank God you are free.

  • @tredinabrown2249
    @tredinabrown2249 16 днів тому +1

    WE CAN NO LONGER ALLOW ANY MORE NEGATIVITY AND TOXICITY IN OUR PRECIOUS LIVES! BE BLESSED ALWAYS!

  • @williamseghe4066
    @williamseghe4066 Місяць тому +3

    This is emotional, I'm already liking this lady

  • @ElsaCamus-gd7es
    @ElsaCamus-gd7es Місяць тому +68

    We, women, can see red flags in day one but somewhere we think we can fix through love.. some souls cannot be fixed. They need divine intervention, if you stay in wrong relationship, your divinity dies. So eventually, your survival instinct makes you leave.. On His time. Not yours🤲🏽.leaving a toxic relationship is a divine protection.
    ☮️🫡💕

    • @irenemark9219
      @irenemark9219 Місяць тому +4

      "if you stay in a toxic relationship, your divinity dies"
      Very powerful!

    • @theajcchannel1331
      @theajcchannel1331 Місяць тому

      Divinity. We are immortal beings not The Trinity

    • @user-lo6cb8pm3p
      @user-lo6cb8pm3p Місяць тому

      Yes my dear I thought so too but it get even worst and worst , as a matter of fact my health is been affected, I'm lost and don't know how to start all over again. But I will not give up until I get my freedom.

  • @bukolaechue9538
    @bukolaechue9538 Місяць тому +134

    I have watched this excerpt more than 6times…and I’m still in shock

    • @fruitinspector8247
      @fruitinspector8247 Місяць тому +14

      Same here. She was dating a demon.

    • @ChideraOkorie-ls9qb
      @ChideraOkorie-ls9qb Місяць тому +1

      What a ministry

    • @spyksyde
      @spyksyde Місяць тому

      Where’s the full video

    • @TadeMakun
      @TadeMakun Місяць тому

      Don't just be in shock, dear... BE CONSCIOUSLY INSTRUCTED.

  • @Susankaaya
    @Susankaaya Місяць тому +35

    That’s why we should pray for them and with them. The devil be trying to destroy God’s people but that battle is won by His blood.

  • @OluwatobilobaWonders
    @OluwatobilobaWonders Місяць тому +4

    You'll see the red flags but the wounds in your soul will urge you (push you, drive you) to continue.
    Thank God for light.

  • @toidiaz5136
    @toidiaz5136 Місяць тому +3

    Very true- MANY of us have experienced this on some level- ladies we are a SISTERHOOD- may not always get along or do each other right- but we can still be supportive of our individual experiences and share to uplift!! Your words may speak to someone’s soul. Stay compassionate

  • @chinenyeorakwue6233
    @chinenyeorakwue6233 Місяць тому +23

    That should have been a wake up call!

  • @ancientDna1979
    @ancientDna1979 Місяць тому +71

    I understand, my late husband used to tell me I was dumb, when I was overachieving him in everything.

    • @Folakanbi
      @Folakanbi Місяць тому +1

      Wow!!!😮

    • @blandinamyinga9489
      @blandinamyinga9489 Місяць тому +5

      Narcissistic behavior"he was angry that your shining.

    • @STAR-w5i
      @STAR-w5i Місяць тому +2

      ✝️JEALOUSY N INSECURITY OF U. N.IGNORANCE.✝️

  • @lavenderlillies8149
    @lavenderlillies8149 Місяць тому +8

    Purposely get pregnant just to abort? What sort of sociopath is that? He's not thinking of the possible emotional trauma/extreme fear that an unplanned pregnancy and abortion/losing a child would have on you?
    My goodness. Thats just evil.

  • @koyejoolanrewaju4157
    @koyejoolanrewaju4157 Місяць тому +16

    Can one believe an intelligent lady like this could be a victim? You're brilliant, bold and beautiful. I'm happy that you live to share your experience.

  • @heavenforum9124
    @heavenforum9124 Місяць тому +40

    It is called, The Power of IMAGINATION! If you can imagine it, it's only a matter of time. It must come to pass.

    • @Dainess365
      @Dainess365 Місяць тому +8

      The only thing I want to imagine and come to me is winning $100 million dollars 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @heavenforum9124
      @heavenforum9124 Місяць тому +1

      @@Dainess365 Well, the ball now is in your court. If you call see it, then nothing stops you having it. If you can imagine it, then it's all yours! Rise up and make it happen but remember me when thou cometh into thy kingdom.

    • @eseoghenewealthmychamber6365
      @eseoghenewealthmychamber6365 Місяць тому +1

      ​@Dainess365 lols.., ha! your own big oo. Mine is just 3 million naira . I don imagine tire and still dey imagine 😂. The smaller is inclusive in the greater. My dear remember me when your imagination becomes reality.

    • @Dainess365
      @Dainess365 Місяць тому

      I’m in Australia and people have been winning lotteries lately, so now I’m waiting for my turn. So I hope that I’m next.
      No long ago someone won, $150 millions Aussie , another $40 millions, $12 millions . So I hope that I’m the next lucky winner 🏆

    • @niunice
      @niunice Місяць тому +1

      @@Dainess365it will come to pass 😊

  • @annhome7099
    @annhome7099 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for the message. Greetings from Barbados. Blessing on you 🙏🏾

  • @Mywatercrystaltv
    @Mywatercrystaltv Місяць тому

    You go gurrrll!!
    Don't waste the pain!!!
    You're a phenomenonal woman!!❤❤❤

  • @MureBeauty1
    @MureBeauty1 Місяць тому +2

    I've always said it.
    It takes a broken person to break someone and those in an environment where broken records are playing would soon find themselves dancing to the tunes

  • @arekeogbonna7359
    @arekeogbonna7359 Місяць тому

    I love Tosin. Such a beautiful testimony.

  • @khairakhalid6083
    @khairakhalid6083 Місяць тому +60

    He wanted to traumatise her for life and damage her mentally . He knew one of the worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting rid of her unborn baby.

    • @sosohe4018
      @sosohe4018 Місяць тому +5

      And she will forever remember him without him remembering her or being bothered, abuse and control equal narcissism.

    • @teresaosborne2209
      @teresaosborne2209 Місяць тому

      Wow.

    • @cleverchakabva9901
      @cleverchakabva9901 Місяць тому +1

      Yes and that, 'getting rid of her unborn baby' can haunt and scar her mentally and emotionally.
      People are alive but carrying burdens.

    • @augustaukandu5838
      @augustaukandu5838 Місяць тому +1

      It could also be a Satanic blood covenant he wanted to make with her!!

  • @uzoamakaukoh6624
    @uzoamakaukoh6624 Місяць тому +2

    I love this woman ❤

  • @henchilamcokej
    @henchilamcokej Місяць тому +3

    Basic principle of accountability requires that you be accountable for your actions. People, including mass murderers, who do terrible things often have others, including the victims, to blame for their actions

  • @user-rz6oq3ey2r
    @user-rz6oq3ey2r Місяць тому +111

    I left my husband on a beautiful day which happened to be my birthday. We woke up romantically together. Took me shopping, Gave me cash and driver took me to my work station. Instead of leaving the car with me I told the driver to take it back and that was it. He almost ran mad. It's 7 years now. I am very grateful for breaking me from the shackles. If you judge me wrongly I wish you just 5% of what I went through without mercy. Ladies REMOVE yourself and do it sooner

    • @miniasikusara2936
      @miniasikusara2936 Місяць тому +10

      What made you do it?

    • @billionairejumzietopbabe3304
      @billionairejumzietopbabe3304 Місяць тому

      Abuse of course! 🤷​@@miniasikusara2936

    • @Lu_cc_ee
      @Lu_cc_ee Місяць тому +11

      It's the 5% for me 😂😂
      My dear, wish them 80%

    • @psalmzoe3746
      @psalmzoe3746 Місяць тому +7

      Let them judge, believe me when I tell you it's out of ignorance they do it... They'll never understand

    • @OfficialDubemXB
      @OfficialDubemXB Місяць тому +10

      ​@@miniasikusara2936 this question is very necessary cause I don't understand how she woke up romantically together, went for shopping and still left him that day.

  • @joydaniel1327
    @joydaniel1327 Місяць тому +1

    I'm happy you're talking about it.

  • @emmanuelaafari9434
    @emmanuelaafari9434 Місяць тому +4

    Thank you for sharing this story!!! I almost entered into a relationship I knew God was telling me not to enter! And I was finding many ways to doubt it and to be in the relationship. But it’s not God’s will for me, and so I won’t venture. At first the pressure was so much! But now I know what to do. Thank God for answered prayers 🙏🏾

  • @uduaklawrence5237
    @uduaklawrence5237 Місяць тому +56

    This is a similar story of my friend. I ran to me for help, I had to hide her in my house till now. I pray she gets over this 😭

  • @IrisAgnes
    @IrisAgnes Місяць тому +38

    Wow! That program you are referring to is POWERFUL!

  • @rejoicemmachukwu
    @rejoicemmachukwu Місяць тому +52

    Only people who had not been in a toxic relationship will not understand 🥹

    • @chiomajaneoside4157
      @chiomajaneoside4157 Місяць тому +2

      I understand Ma, I've been there. I understand perfectly, I can relate to everything she is saying 😢😢😢

    • @tonyelegbuanya3401
      @tonyelegbuanya3401 Місяць тому +8

      You don't have to be in a toxic relationship to understand. What is evil is evil. Don't wait until it happens to you

    • @amaoparebea2990
      @amaoparebea2990 Місяць тому

      ​@@tonyelegbuanya3401ikr

    • @manifoldhitslunargrace7603
      @manifoldhitslunargrace7603 Місяць тому

      Thanks well said​@@tonyelegbuanya3401

    • @manifoldhitslunargrace7603
      @manifoldhitslunargrace7603 Місяць тому

      I don't have to have been in a toxic shit to identify toxicity, I just have to run once I notice a red flag

  • @fridaledale2024
    @fridaledale2024 Місяць тому

    Sista you are right.. Your experience is going to help a lot of people. Pls do not keep quiet. Continue exposing relationship red flags. ❤

  • @adadiigbomma3217
    @adadiigbomma3217 Місяць тому

    Thanks so much for your bravery in being this honest. May God bless you with happiness 🙏

  • @DaughterOfEncouragement
    @DaughterOfEncouragement Місяць тому +110

    I thought he was gonna ask if he could bring another girl into the mix or something crazy like that, but that request was so specific, so sinister, that you KNOW it was a seed from the devil himself. Lord have mercy 😔

    • @SASK_M_Y
      @SASK_M_Y Місяць тому +27

      I thought of blood covenant

    • @DaughterOfEncouragement
      @DaughterOfEncouragement Місяць тому +8

      @@SASK_M_Y oh dang, that's right!! A requirement of sacrifice 😟

    • @ovedjerory
      @ovedjerory Місяць тому

      ​@@SASK_M_YSame.

    • @deolake
      @deolake Місяць тому

      ​@@SASK_M_Y, it's already a blood covenant in a complex and deeper form. They both create a life and sacrifice it via abortion😢. Oh God, there are demons everywhere😮.
      May we be shielded always by God's light.

    • @tonyelegbuanya3401
      @tonyelegbuanya3401 Місяць тому +6

      ​@@SASK_M_Ythat's exactly what I thought because such happened to me. But this particular request ? Devil dey pay ten ten for the man head, I swear

  • @tiannahmo1581
    @tiannahmo1581 Місяць тому +13

    I can relate truly words are seeds

    • @irenemark9219
      @irenemark9219 Місяць тому

      Yes so can I. You don't know when it's planted until you see yourself doing something you've sworn you'd never do because of a passive suggestion someone made.
      But how can one protect themselves from these word seeds that begin to supplant godly ideas you've always held onto?

  • @irenedontoh9692
    @irenedontoh9692 Місяць тому +1

    This is so deep. I subscribed immediately the lady made her point💯✅

  • @placeofalltrends7596
    @placeofalltrends7596 Місяць тому

    I am so much in anticipating mode. Please release this podcast soon

  • @Mailerd
    @Mailerd Місяць тому +2

    These words are short but really powerful. Let every woman listen and reflect on this.

  • @HarrietAgbenya-qs1vf
    @HarrietAgbenya-qs1vf Місяць тому +4

    I have watch this a million times just today

  • @zemskincare5965
    @zemskincare5965 Місяць тому +1

    May God help the guy to change . I thank God for your life sister!

  • @JamesORileyMukonda
    @JamesORileyMukonda Місяць тому +29

    The things we date

  • @Nickidtytan
    @Nickidtytan Місяць тому

    Indeed a strong Woman to pass through such experience and talks about it😊😊 , some relationships has weird things involved

  • @ceciliamelato3866
    @ceciliamelato3866 16 днів тому

    The wounds in your soul will make you push forward with the relationship, even as you see the red flags. I was wounded in my soul,my esteem was none existent. I wanted to be validated,I was in my mid 20's. Got in a relationship, I knew I didn't want to be with him,I knew I didn't love him. But the promises he made,made got me in a relationship with him. I had kids (2) based on promises...10 years later,none of the promises came true. I got out of the relationship, he still doesn't believe I left him.

  • @_Divine1
    @_Divine1 Місяць тому +29

    The programming is often subtle but sometimes blatant. Don't ignore red flags

  • @dan-jumbonengimarvy6000
    @dan-jumbonengimarvy6000 Місяць тому +10

    Yes they’ll spend years programming you to believe something.
    Now when the real person shows up you don’t see it. You see the programming.
    Thank God for saving me.

    • @gabrielchristiana3150
      @gabrielchristiana3150 Місяць тому +3

      They are not the programmer😢
      They are the programming.

    • @graceoluwadunsin
      @graceoluwadunsin Місяць тому +2

      What you just said made me think....
      Thank you for saving me Lord.

  • @aminualiyuabbas7341
    @aminualiyuabbas7341 Місяць тому +2

    Yo! It takes two to tangle. The red flag you saw was the kind of person you actually wanted. So he became that which you wanted. In every relationship, man treats a woman how he wants to be treated. So if you display bad at first. Well, vis a vis.

  • @elizabethm8610
    @elizabethm8610 Місяць тому

    Thank you for saying all this❤❤ I appreciate you ❤

  • @VeraAmarachukwu
    @VeraAmarachukwu Місяць тому +6

    I can relate...
    Loving a person or being in a relationship that draws you away from God is a red flag on its own
    We ladies should be careful out there...
    The world's really crazy
    God would protect us all❤

  • @arababecca6432
    @arababecca6432 Місяць тому +2

    Staying means ready to lose your life in an abusive relationship. Leave to live!

  • @ghananaturals8525
    @ghananaturals8525 Місяць тому +6

    "you will see the red flags and the wounds in your soul will urge you to continue". phew, that's a word.

    • @mtp472
      @mtp472 Місяць тому +2

      Which nonsense wound? RUN RUN RUN... I STILL DON'T KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH WOMEN. LEAVE AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. SIMPLE! IMAGINE STAYING IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP BCOZ OF THE FEAR OF WHAT PIPU WILL SAY. LEAVE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. LEAVE ABUSIVE MARRIAGE. RUN!

    • @joyerhabor2229
      @joyerhabor2229 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@mtp472 I don't think it is that easy to just leave and run. It is easy for many of us ( myself included) to say leave and run but we don't know what's really going on in there. I am not in a relationship and I have never been in an abusive relationship but I have seen relationships and marriages with abuse,so if the shoe fits . Sometimes these people just need push and help to get out of it while some just need God .

    • @2oubleD
      @2oubleD Місяць тому

      @@mtp472if it was so easy to run from bad things, sun wouldn’t even be an issue and we would all be in right living with God. Ppl need healing to see the truth and until we acknowledge God and be transformed by the renewal of our minds we will stay stick in crippling situations and not fulfill our God-given mandates.

    • @mtp472
      @mtp472 Місяць тому +1

      @@2oubleD MY OWN IS THAT IT'S BETTER RO LEAVE AN ABUSIVE MARRIAGE THAN TO DIE. INFACT

    • @mtp472
      @mtp472 Місяць тому +2

      THAT 'TIME TO HEAL' MAY NOT BE THERE O IF U ARE GONE! RUN FIRST AND BE HEALING LATER. DON'T TRY TO HEAL BEFORE RUNNING. THE PIPU JESUS HEALED FIRST MAKE MOVEMENT BEFORE HEALING CAME O. JESUS WOULD SAY, "RISE, TAKE YOUR BED AND ..." PLS OOO... LEAVE VIOLENT AND ABUSIVE MARRIAGE BEFORE HEALING O. YOU CAN'T HEAL IN THE MORTUARY OOO...

  • @Okafor_chioma6.
    @Okafor_chioma6. Місяць тому +35

    Now where’s the complete video???

  • @PhilbertOtasowie-xy4uj
    @PhilbertOtasowie-xy4uj Місяць тому +2

    I cant wait for the full video 😢

  • @Ozmarc254
    @Ozmarc254 Місяць тому +2

    And the saddest part is that she will always be bonded to him giving any guy who comes after nothing but headache

  • @Egorpy
    @Egorpy Місяць тому

    💯 accurate about the "programming" ❤

  • @francesmbewe8457
    @francesmbewe8457 Місяць тому

    I enjoyed listening to this so much ❤❤

  • @saphirwenzi5882
    @saphirwenzi5882 Місяць тому

    Stay strong beautiful lady!!❤❤

  • @lovendannachi2303
    @lovendannachi2303 Місяць тому

    Your story is inspiring,. 🙏 thank you.

  • @sourceinsights
    @sourceinsights Місяць тому

    Amen.... This is truth. Live 🆓

  • @ogamini
    @ogamini Місяць тому +1

    As empathetic as I'm inclined to feel for ladies like this.. It's pertinent to state clearly that we all know that women generally love the bad guys, they always choose the bad guys over the good ones coz they say they are more interesting and adventurous then tomorrow we begin to hear stories like this.. A woman will always blame a man for her mistakes even the ones she knows very clearly could have been avoided.. Ladies feel free to get offended.. But it's the bitter truth.. I hope every victim (male or female) recovers from their terrible relationships..

  • @simplyblessed1516
    @simplyblessed1516 Місяць тому +1

    Yes! So many people dont understand that mental abuse occurs first before any violent abuse. Manipulation and lies ... the enemy tried to plant in fertile ground.

  • @rubytuesday9831
    @rubytuesday9831 Місяць тому +2

    What an intelligent girl...so on point😢

  • @graceadoro
    @graceadoro Місяць тому +30

    Please can we get the full video 😢

  • @chibuikeanyadike8288
    @chibuikeanyadike8288 Місяць тому

    Best way to learn is through your experiences, but a better way to learn is through other people's experiences.

  • @user-cv8me7vw3y
    @user-cv8me7vw3y Місяць тому

    May we have the capacity to speak up and save others

  • @JustUdoro
    @JustUdoro Місяць тому +1

    WOOOOOOOOOOOOOW…this is eerily on point. My goodness. May God continue to deliver us from strongholds and false fruits. In Jesus’ name. Amen!

  • @mrsddrake
    @mrsddrake Місяць тому +2

    You will see the red flags, but the wounds your soul will urge you to continue.😢

  • @dukeisang
    @dukeisang Місяць тому +4

    He simply meant... let's shed innocent blood 😢😢😢

  • @All-as1
    @All-as1 Місяць тому +2

    This is why virginity was cherished. Get with a woman that has those ties, and mad problems ensue. Even virgins in this time can be messed up. Virtue matters more than anything

  • @doodeeventures8581
    @doodeeventures8581 Місяць тому

    Devil is wicked. Thank God you are free. Embrace God to heal properly.

  • @OGBAESTHER-jf6cm
    @OGBAESTHER-jf6cm Місяць тому +1

    this is very true!! they will think you're doing it with ur power

    • @SASK_M_Y
      @SASK_M_Y Місяць тому +3

      And most of the times it takes you to free yourself and that's why people say such things. Till you come to your senses and make that intentional decision,you will continue to be programmed

  • @maydeed3964
    @maydeed3964 Місяць тому

    Please go tell Morayo of TVC this! With her recent fllipant comments about DV. It beggers believe that she doesnt understand DV abuse the "programming" and evil manipulations. God bless you Sister and HEAL UP

  • @manfredmichaelwilliam6681
    @manfredmichaelwilliam6681 Місяць тому

    God bless you for this deliverance. May God use your message to deliver many that are in such condition.
    Really life without Christ is crisis

  • @reshaeparson7242
    @reshaeparson7242 Місяць тому +1

    Yes and once that seed is spoken it will definitely blossom!😢

  • @gideonozuluoha9029
    @gideonozuluoha9029 Місяць тому

    People be acting stupid all in the name of Love.

  • @sonofokere
    @sonofokere Місяць тому +5

    Can you please prompt me when the full interview goes online

    • @hilarysmartt5809
      @hilarysmartt5809 Місяць тому

      Same

    • @TemplingRight
      @TemplingRight Місяць тому

      The full interview is out now. Check the channel

    • @TemplingRight
      @TemplingRight Місяць тому

      @@hilarysmartt5809it’s out now on the same channel as this short

  • @manifoldhitslunargrace7603
    @manifoldhitslunargrace7603 Місяць тому +1

    I don't have to have been in a toxic shit to identify toxicity, I just have to run once I notice a red flag

  • @Ozmarc254
    @Ozmarc254 Місяць тому

    Beautiful words are often the children of trauma. Whenever you hear eloquent speech, moving poetry or uplifting music, it's almost always comes from a place of pain

  • @thereawakener9554
    @thereawakener9554 Місяць тому +15

    What in the evil toxic relationship is going on here.. omgg

  • @adaezema1130
    @adaezema1130 Місяць тому

    I really don't know why some men are heartless and wicked

  • @tosinakin2508
    @tosinakin2508 Місяць тому

    She said my name and it took me a sec to realize she was referring to herself 🤦🏿‍♀️😅

  • @dee_alden
    @dee_alden Місяць тому

    It's quite simple. If the soil is fertile, and the seed isn't dead, growth is inevitable. Of course not all growth is positive

  • @hildatee2002
    @hildatee2002 Місяць тому

    That request is demonic! Lord have mercy!

  • @rebbybam230
    @rebbybam230 Місяць тому +1

    Yes those in abusive relationship dont ever judge them z pray theyll get out some day

  • @curtisantonieospears3885
    @curtisantonieospears3885 Місяць тому

    It's All About Control. Great Video. Love It.

  • @damionhenry6730
    @damionhenry6730 Місяць тому

    It is this your adult who lack accountability, finding excuse!! Smh Jah Jah.

  • @demetria7076
    @demetria7076 Місяць тому

    Don't even start compromising. One thing leads to another.

  • @uchify
    @uchify Місяць тому

    Though i feel bad Tosin had to go through this, i am happy she is self aware, regrets her mistakes and is doing better by at least being able to share, but in all of this, i feel completely afraid fpr the guy...
    The devil dont play fair.

  • @326vega
    @326vega Місяць тому

    Well spoken😢

  • @tolua.3094
    @tolua.3094 Місяць тому +4

    Abusive??? What’s abusive here??? Who was abusing who??? Two dumb adults living recklessly is now an abusive relationship??? Y’all just lost in this world

    • @ijeomanwichi1242
      @ijeomanwichi1242 Місяць тому +1

      Look for the full clip and know what led to her telling this story of pain.Then you will understand the Genesis

    • @userexperienceconsulting6725
      @userexperienceconsulting6725 Місяць тому +3

      Abuse is not only insults and beating, it goes far beyond that. The guy definitely knew what he was doing. He wanted to share his personal trauma with her to the point that she establishes demons such as he has and he drove it far!
      Brings to mind a psychopath.

    • @tolua.3094
      @tolua.3094 Місяць тому +1

      @@userexperienceconsulting6725 and you know this because you know the guy. Y’all just jump to conclusion with one side of a story. In all she has said here in this short, I see no abuse…just two lost souls

    • @ayotundesoaga404
      @ayotundesoaga404 Місяць тому

      Sensible comment so far.. He told u to engage in some senseless stuffs like smoking 🚬 weed etc and u agreed to it.. Very funny.

  • @cisereo
    @cisereo Місяць тому

    This woman is pretty!

  • @joyjaiyesimi8946
    @joyjaiyesimi8946 Місяць тому +1

    Wow! You’re a woman of wisdom . Pls help our young girls. Marriage is beautiful! But never rush into it and don’t follow unwise women.

  • @okezieugwa8271
    @okezieugwa8271 Місяць тому

    If you don't take responsibility for your mistakes, you will repeat the same mistakes all over again.