𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧?✨ 𝐌𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡
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- 𝐈𝐭'𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞, 𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐫 𝐧𝐨𝐭.✨
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Exactly... I'm so lucky to have had such a supportive in laws and hubby
I am not they are opposite 😢
Your husband is unlucky and you are privileged.
@@deepnarayanpaul3138 : sorry to see such a negative perspective... Don't want to comment
@@deepnarayanpaul3138 your parents are so unlucky ........to have a person like u as their child
@@ADITYA-zg5qmwell Said dear!
Blessed to have a supportive husband. He equally shares the responsibilities at home and with kids
My mom fell sick... Bro n dad burdening me to do all house chores..someone plz stop dis .. 😢
It’s your job to change that. If you don’t speak up then nothing will change. They are adults, they should be able to take care of themselves. You shouldn’t have to fulfil your mother’s role.
Treat them like babies, give them baby food, give them baby toys, give them to diaper to wear..
Challenge them if they are not child then behave like adult.
@@kater4126It's easy to say but when multiple men in the house put that burden on a daughter it's very difficult to fight back. Especially at a young age.
Just do the work ....that is actually necessary jaise cooking, basic cleaning ..kyuki ye basic skills hai sabko aane chaiye phir tum chahe akele kyu na rahi ....
Rest just stop talking to them .... Jitna zaruri ho utna hi bolna .... Kuch din mein sahi ho jayenge......trust me
Same happened with me aur tab mai competition ki preparation kar rahi thi .... Upar se kahenge ki tumne theek se padai nahi ki ....
I know es behaviour se kuch din toh wo tumhe aur kuch bhi bolenge ki batmeez hai , dekho dusro ki beti kitni achi hai .....
But agar tum healthy boundaries create nahi karungi toh yahan kya sasural mein bhi yahi hoga .... Ladna , chillana nahi hai .... Give them silent treatment 😊
@@manorama6565 oh god stop with your nonsense advice. This is exactly what girls are doing all the time. Keeping quiet and doing all the work. Even after marriage it will be like that only. Nobody will care. Only she will keep suffering. So stop giving useless advice. They need to speak up or else suffer whole life becoming everybody's servant.
Raveena looks ravishing. Great message. But all men are not the same.
There'll be exceptional dad's too.. only my dad was present everywhere school, hospital, shopping everything. My mom never stepped out nor took any initiative or interest in participating in my childhood activities. Neither she took household responsibility. She was too busy bossing around our maids and being narcissistic
Pehle MIL should have such thinking then her son will learn.
Women must understand another woman
Sahi baat hai pehle auratein toh badle meri didi k saas bhi aise hai 😭
What about FIL? Why does he have no responsibility? You just proved her point.
Expectation is only from the women.
Did the father not have a hand in the creation of the child… then why should he not have an equal responsibility in raising it.?
@@mrseskasi didi. Father in law nahi h na yahi toh problem h warna meri didi ki saas bhi kaam karti faltu baithi nahi rehti. Unki saas kehti hai humne bhi ghar sambhala h bacche paale h but ye nahi bolti ki vo bas ek housewife he thi. And my sister is working women. Aur waise b ek baat bata raha hu kuch time k baad na aadmi log q ki vo budhe ho rahe hote hai zyada chick chick nahi karte hai.
@@mrseskasi offcourse.... Main core bcz in some family MIL rulles and in some FIL.... Ultimately whom so ever, look in future what their grandchild will be, if they can provide much healthy envi mindset.
Hope 2024 onwards era......
@@bishtabhishek teri behen ki situation sabh ki nahi hoti. Sab ke FIL absent nahi hote. Obvious hai FIL nahi hai toh FIL kuch kese karega. I have seen situations where MIL is in power and situations where FIL is in power and there are also situations where there is no MIL. Toh har situation agal hoti hai.
Problem ati hai tab tum FIL/ father ki koi responsibility hi nahi mante bacho ki parvarish me.
Children deserve an equal participation from the father in their upbringing. It also strengthens the emotional and mental bonds between fathers and their offspring.( where father is not there obviously the story is different similarly there will be situations where mother is not there also)
Yes right
Perfect message
Stop calling a girl “beta” she is “Beti” ; and this word “beti” should be as powerful and loving as the word “beta” was historically.
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For some things, women's rights seem right, but it is completely wrong to strive for gender equality in everything. The amount of work women do at home, taking care of the family and children, is the same amount of hard work men have to do outside, going to work every day. If a woman gets physically tired from household chores, then a man also gets mentally tired from his job. So please stop comparing everything, and as for their statement about calling the mother first when a child is sick, it's because she understands people's emotions well and knows how to handle others' suffering. That's why God has blessed women with the privilege of motherhood. , all these are the whims of social media, women do not have this right, this is not fair, if you come out of social media and come into real life, all these things will seem insignificant. I still remember that in childhood, I fell very ill once, and after coming from school, Papa himself took half-day leave from his duty and took me to the hospital. So please don't say why only women should worry about the child, why not men also take responsibility of the child both knows their responsibility very well don't bring equal rights , gender equality in everything stop this toxic behavior !!
Well said mam
Equality is not doing same things equally, it’s sharing the responsibilities equally.. may be wife takes care of the whole family’s health, well being and upbringing kids, while husband needs to take responsibility of entire family’s financial needs and provide warmth and protection the problem starts with- men thinking their parents/siblings take precedence over their wives’
Comletely agree with you.
Only taking care of financial needs is not difficult
@@twoshakesofaratsass4748 nothing is difficult if you are happy to do it
What if both fo both..😊
True❤❤❤
Not really nowadays guys share to agreat extent. Its,we women who yhink we only do. Guys normally are silent about what they really do.
Got a supportive husband and i am also careful
Husband and wife have very clear and defined roles...she has to take care of children to prepare them for school and to Cook food for them,and husband responsibility is to provide resources and earn bread and butter for his family, if husband starts running for office because the child is sick so who will pay for the bills.. both are equal but have defined roles and responsibilities..you can never change these roles it will be big mess if don't believe try it..
My papa, chacha, mama, nana were exception in this regard and would rush back to home if there was emergency. Both men and women in my family worked both at home and outside and balanced home and work, multitasked and men never said taking care of elders, home or kids was not their job. My chacha even took care of his in laws as my chachi had no sibling and her father had died, so there was no male member to take care of her aged mom and emergencies at her maayka. I wish men also stepped up and rushed to home if needed.
bilkul sahi kaha app nee zimmadari sabke hone chayee sirf bahu ke nahin.
Totatly agree
You are right.
True
Change has been inserted.don't worry.here in south it is aiways expected from jents not ladies
Never this support system acts 😮😮
Biologically speaking women r more sensible & have a subtle perspective of understanding people's needs which men lack which is y men r not so gud at nurturing jobs.....
Kyunki ek ourat ko Bhagwan n Mamta se Sarabor kiya h 😌 jo pyar Sneh Mamta ek maa de Kanti h wo pita nhi de sakta 🥺 kyunki ek ourat hi janani hoti h 👏 wo dard is n hi Saha hota h 😌 jo apne bache k unter mn ko samjh pati h 😒 toh maa maa hoti h ❤️❤️🙂
I think women assume more that they are neglected than they actually are ..problem is their mindset..even with todays status of women they will cry even more than yesteryears women cried.
Similarly It is also expected for a man to earn for the family
Mere toh abba aate the❤
Happens only in India not abroad
Break these stereotypes. Come listen to my story as a son raised by my Mom and a paternal grand mother :)
So true
Nhi sab jagah aisa nhi hai ha but 70%hai
Right.
Raveena do u give funding to to your husband for your family expenses
Ye kabhi nahi ho sakti h mam
In-laws kbhi nhi bolte h ki go nd full fill ur dream
Ab aisa kuch nhi hai. Humari mom and mother in law ne bhot struggle dekhein hain life me. Wo jis life me rehkar aaye hain usme koi option nhi tha. Mazburi ki life hoti thi. Isliye first we have to respect our mom and mother in law both. Second ab to jo paise kama k ghar lata hai uski izzat hoti hai chahe ldki ho ya ldka. Ldkiyon pe bhi successful hone ka aur paise kamane ka pressure rehta hai. We have to come out of stereotypes and generalizations. Lets not make women's life harder by putting negative thoughts. We have lot of examples of women excelling career wise and parents and in-laws both supporting career choices bcos in the end career brings money and today's world only understands language of money nothing else.
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Tomorrow the people are gonna start questioning why it is only women's job to give birth?😐
Well said Raveena ❤
And she did nothing to change that but expose her body according to the instructions from male movie directors and then made money 😅
I think its not true anymore ..fathers are more caring to children and also tries to manage all ends.
Not now a days. It been changed. Kabhi kisise suna nh koi mrn ke liye bh bole.
Raveen you are talking about non changeable rules ...... nowadays....your mother you take care ....
Now a days it has changed madam….mother has no time to look after…
Not true.
Kabhi ye bola hai ki kahai na kahi kamane ki jimmedari aadmi par he hoti hai...aapne kabhi nahi suna hoga aurat bole ke mai kamati hu aur poora ghar chalUngi... Agar aurat kamati hai to uski kamai lekin aadmi kamaye to poore ghar pe kharch kare....ye bhi socho....why has women started demeaning the household things...fake feminism
I don’t agree, then how come making money n giving stable income is only mens’ responsibility??
Not only mens responsibility!
@@flibereyeegod_but a man is always expected to earn for the family
World order is maintained in hierarchy , look at nature .. Our mother and grandparents till date do not talk about equal darja which is the root cause of all evil( comparison) . Please understand that problems of boolywooodia , karachiwoodiya, soongne, phukne wale logon does not apply to people of Bharat ….!!
Ghar ki financial resp bhi women ko uthani chahiye vaha pe kyu ye expect kiya jata hai husband hi uthaye...
Toh divorce ke baad bhi bachcha equal time baap ke paas rahega right??
Jab ye movie krti thi. Uss samay sabko equal dekhti thi kya? Ghar mai money nai aayega to ye ghar ,grihasti,ghumna sab ghuss jata h ek baar mai. Ye shadi v rich aadmi dekh kar ki h. Yaha sabko chutiya bana rhi h equality ka.
Equality kah naam peh mardo ab zulm hoh raha hai aisa muche personally feel hota hai.
Ja aao ,, bakwas kar rahi hai , I am father , I am the first person beside my kid in every field , yeh bakwas Jake apne ghar kar .
Konsi duniya me jeete h ye celebrity...inke ghr me ni jate honge inke aadmi school ya ghr walo k sath Dr k yaha...middle class me aadmiyo k upar kitna boj h...wo ye log soch b ni skte...feminist k drame bsss...equal paise mil jaye bss
in middle class family even if the women goes for work still in the end of the the day all the house chores, in laws and child’s responsibilities comes on mother’s head . you just have to think from a mother’s pov u ll see the hardship , waking up early atleast by 4 am in the morning cooking food for everyone , wash the utensils, clean the house , get their children ready whereas the men get up , freshen up have their breakfast and leave for the office , same after the coming from work women goes to kitchen again the same cycle clean everything set things for next day and they sleep so late, whereas men come home watch tv have dinner and sleep . If you see around you will surely notice this.
Ohh bhai sahab. Aajkal mahilayein bhi kama rahi hai. Unke kehne ka matlab ahe dono pati patni kamate hai dono ka kaam jaroori hai par baccha bimar ho tar mahilayein hi apna kaam chodkar bacchon ke piche hoti hai. Mardon ko koi puchta nahi na taane marta hai agar woh apni bacchon ko andekha kare. Aur tumhari mamiyon ne kiya kyuki unpe bhi pressure tha. Aa jate hai moo uthake mummy se compare karne. Wahi hamne hamare pita se compare kiya mirchi lag jati hai.
तुझे तो billenier मिल गया ना
You are wrong ma’am
Why Everthing is expected from man ?
What else is expected from a man? Providing and protecting is what men say they do
While women are also working now and protecting is a vast concept
Madam I don't know kon c auraton ki bat kr rahi hain . 😂 Mery ghar mein to Bhai apny kapry wash b khud krty aur iron b . Aur kids ko b sanbhalty job k Sath . Jb k wife na job na ghar ka Kam 😂
What has she done with her face? Something is off...she is not looking herself
She is just ageing as people do. Don't overthink. She is still very beautiful. I feel sorry for female celebs. They are constantly scrutinised for their looks, and then when they get botox, etc, people make fun out of them. They just can't win.
aek aurat ka hamesha apna kaam hi bada dikhta h.mard to bas paisa kamane me apni puri umra marate h.mard to bawligand hi hote h 😢
No raveena ji I used to take care of kids more than my wife as I understand it is mutual...things have changed in last 30 years....
You are talking of 70s
Eh. Galat. Mentality. Pahele. Se chali. Aarahi. Hai. Abay. Isko. Ab. Badlo. Bht. Zaruri. Hai. Change.
Bus apne liye huck mangte rehna
Usy tarah se mardo se b expected hy wo sb ke kharche uthaye .. its a society norm
Wrong hai ye
Sab jagah hai bhadvi when u start living with ur in lwas
Drinking lady 😅😅
Jhoot
Go marry an unemployed man then take all of his and kid's responsibility be provider of the whole family and your husband should equally entitled to all of your property and money then talk this shit.
Inko kuch jyada hi dikkat ho rhi hai saala hum paise bhi kamaaye ,bacche bhi sambhale ,khaana bhi bana le ,aur bencho inke nakhre bhi dekhe jaise hamari mummyion ne ye sab kiya hi nhi hai
Tm wife dhundne nikle ho ya mummy
Tumhari mummy kiya toh sab karna hai?
Women earn bhi karna Hai kyun ki expensive world Hai aur Pura household work bhi karna Hai
Let me interrupt you Mam.... There are so many things which a Husband managed without saying a word... Just smiling and keep earning.... I had a worst time during covid but... As a husband I managed everything which till my death my family can't know ... So if you need equality you can't be .. because a woman can't store anything in their stomach but a man's chest is a graveyard 🪦🪦🪦
No you are very much wrong Madam
It’s not that
People like you have made wrong opinions in others mind
So please don’t differentiate between a man and a woman
A husband and a wife
A father and a mother
Don’t please don’t
Both of them give their hundred percent
Fathers do sacrifice as mother does