Understanding Emotional Manipulation: BK Shivani's Eye-Opening Talk

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  • @JM11423
    @JM11423 8 місяців тому +168

    Recipe for Peace
    1) watch bk Shivani ji's videos every morning and before sleep consistently.
    2) Absorb the messages
    3) Take every situation as practical sessions for what you have learnt
    4) Note and Acknowledge the positive transformations in you.
    Congratulations you are on the path to peace😍
    Based on my experience😍
    I watched her videos from 2018 religiously then stopped & started practicing. Now i am unaffected by others behaviors. Even if i get affected i shift as soon as possible.

    • @sreevidyavenugopal5352
      @sreevidyavenugopal5352 7 місяців тому +4

      U said it❤

    • @Rosepham301
      @Rosepham301 7 місяців тому +4

      Congratulations.And I am really happy to hear that. It's the same experience for me as well.

    • @Rosepham301
      @Rosepham301 7 місяців тому +1

      That's the recipe for happiness, for being powerful... And actually it's a way to find our own self, to get back to our nature of peace, love, happiness, power, bliss, knowledge and wisdom.

    • @cinthaa1
      @cinthaa1 7 місяців тому +1

      You are SUCH an inspiration ❤😊 🙏🏽

    • @alpsalangad2898
      @alpsalangad2898 7 місяців тому +1

      Your Words are So Precious 💞 💕 Thank you so much ❤

  • @JoanneLim-w2t
    @JoanneLim-w2t 11 місяців тому +397

    I came across your video last month and I am hooked. You have answered all my questions in my life. I’m taking notes and reading it every night before I sleep. You are God send to me. I wished I had seen it sooner but I guess there’s a right time for everything. To everyone who reads this my blessings to you all. Words cannot express how much and how grateful I am to you. Om Shanti.

  • @lankankeys8310
    @lankankeys8310 7 місяців тому +4

    Sometimes we seek profundity in complexity. Her message is so simple and straight to the point, which leaves no room to decipher words, but understand her wisdom. Blessings upon her and all the people her energy affects, each day.

  • @JoanneLim-w2t
    @JoanneLim-w2t 11 місяців тому +97

    Thanks for your reply. I have seen some improvement on my daughter. This is what I am sending to her everyday. I’m sorry for the pain that I have caused you in the past . I’m sorry for all the critical and the judgmental thoughts I had about you. I forgive you for what you did to me. Past is past and it’s over. My past karmic account is over, never ever to come again. From now onwards my thoughts for you are love, respect and blessings. I understand you, I accept you, I bless you and I heal you. You are a pure and a powerful soul. You are peaceful, lovefull and a confident soul. You are changing to be your best. This is what I summarised after listening to her so many videos. I’m changing also and I’m at peace. Sister Shivani you are Godsend to us. Om shanti.

    • @deepalideshmukh456
      @deepalideshmukh456 10 місяців тому +1

      Such great thanks

    • @ShammaNayak
      @ShammaNayak 8 місяців тому +4

      When a mother has damaged her kid beyond repair ...their is n should be no forgiveness hence if u r not mature enough to be a good mother then don't be at an age ....my mother destroyed me even though I was gud in everything n she made me doubt myself every single day ....my talents were curbed n they spend 40 lakhs on some1 who was aggressive n manipulative n still support the bad one over the good one ...some women should never be mothers

    • @shilpar4848
      @shilpar4848 7 місяців тому

      ​@@ShammaNayakEven I have had the same experience.

    • @pushpamuljiratna9589
      @pushpamuljiratna9589 5 місяців тому

      thx for sharing your experience

    • @thembekalupuzi
      @thembekalupuzi 5 місяців тому

      ​@@ShammaNayak❤

  • @ClassesMANI
    @ClassesMANI 10 місяців тому +34

    I had been through this. Someone manipulated me like hell. I cried all day and all night. Finally took step , got touch with you on one random reels. The world is changing!

    • @positiveMindset665
      @positiveMindset665 9 місяців тому +5

      Sorry that you had to go through it. One thing I’m trying to learn these days is the reason we allowed for ourselves to be manipulated and work on myself, so that I have the knowledge and cannot be manipulated by anyone easily, or know when someone is trying to manipulate me. Take care.

    • @charissastella8920
      @charissastella8920 7 місяців тому +2

      How did you come out of the manipulation? But their toxicity affects you? Though I'm far away from them in very irritated by the thought of the.

    • @Amitsinghgouria_2002
      @Amitsinghgouria_2002 Місяць тому

      @classesMANI same thing did to me by a girl for 3 years...

  • @padmajasalkar2358
    @padmajasalkar2358 8 місяців тому +25

    Sister Shivani....the universe sent me this video of yours in the middle of a crisis in my life, to keep my unnecessary needs and desires aside and to have peace back in my life. I have truly blessed to receive so much awareness and knowledge from you 🙏 ❤

  • @sanjayarora856
    @sanjayarora856 11 місяців тому +114

    She is a blessing to human kind. Pure bliss. ❤

  • @ananyachakraborty4665
    @ananyachakraborty4665 11 місяців тому +43

    According to me, She is a guide for positive culture not for abusive culture. SO do consciously whatever feels good to you. Forgive and Forget practice is great when the abuser takes accountability for their abuses not for the repeatance of their abuses. This affirms them that whatever they do will be considerable! Therefore they gets the confirmation and validation for their victim card playing to their next target and thus it goes on. SO choose wisely where to give your positive aura and where to not because there are energy vampires who will suck all out of u and will still blame you to be a dracula... 😊❤

    • @Itsgirlmia
      @Itsgirlmia 7 місяців тому +1

      Yes this is true

    • @sowmyasola
      @sowmyasola 4 місяці тому +2

      So true I too thought the same.peoplw will simply use it as advantage.

    • @SKiTzME
      @SKiTzME 4 місяці тому +1

      Agree to this

    • @NiNa-jr7fp
      @NiNa-jr7fp 3 місяці тому +7

      I understand you have been through some difficult relationship and experienced pain. Shivani sister is God sent in my life too. In some video, she explained like, if someone abuses your goodness, in outer world you have to take steps to stop it. Not keep taking abuse because I am spiritual. But within you, we respect them as pure soul and bless them with no negativity for them.. lov to all

  • @asmasheikh5001
    @asmasheikh5001 10 місяців тому +16

    Allah aap ki hifazat farmaye. Ameen keep up with the great work

  • @ravzp
    @ravzp 11 місяців тому +25

    Use the “POWER to CHOOSE your right way” :
    The right way is
    - that will increase my inner strength
    - that will increase my flexibility
    - that will allow me to be the master of my mind not dependent on other
    - that will radiate good vibrations in me and keep me healthy
    - that will keep me happy always
    Now choose your right way.
    If you do not teach yourself the right way over time, you will loose the power
    the time when things go wrong, when the positive energy is needed must; you lost your power; when you change yourself to the response of ‘the obviously’ negative energies from outside.
    🙏🙏

  • @pritidharadasgupta5648
    @pritidharadasgupta5648 4 дні тому +1

    I am.going thru this job crisis for the past 6 months... Terribly worried to sustain myself... God give me strength to rebound!

  • @jessicahou8340
    @jessicahou8340 11 місяців тому +17

    I can’t change people! They themselves when they want can change them

  • @surindercheema5663
    @surindercheema5663 8 місяців тому +1

    Blessed to have sister in my generation.Waheguru Satnam 🙏

  • @saundryakaushal
    @saundryakaushal 9 місяців тому +2

    Seems like all my questions are answered today.. baba always shows me what I need to see when in confusion without even expecting. Om Shanti

  • @jessye5418
    @jessye5418 11 місяців тому +14

    Very much practical and factual remedies to be broad minded and peaceful in society..... I really like many of your videos. There's a lot of suffering behind to give a courageous remedy to problems.

  • @lizbethbautista4781
    @lizbethbautista4781 10 місяців тому +3

    Bk Shavani you are getting me through this wave in my life they ask me how can I be so positive and I say because of you!!

  • @SenthilKumar-cr3ql
    @SenthilKumar-cr3ql 5 місяців тому +4

    You are my God. You are giving positive vibrations to me. I am starting to see the positive side in everything. The world is changing good for me. Thank you.

    • @Lisa_M_V
      @Lisa_M_V 4 місяці тому

      God is within you. The ‘I am’ is God

  • @vipulaahuja8042
    @vipulaahuja8042 8 місяців тому +1

    So true!!! Thanks, sister Shivani.May God always be with you🙏❤️

  • @29197404
    @29197404 23 дні тому +1

    they will never change. I tried from last so many years your techniques . after 11 years now I am tired. relation will be ending

  • @KM-lo1rp
    @KM-lo1rp Місяць тому

    I wish I came across this video about 2 years back, I could have saved myself from the horrific situation I got myself into all due to being an extremely emotional person. I was in a toxic relationship wherein my partners was gaslighting and guilt-tripping me for two whole years. This experience really made me think at 40 years old, am capable to taking healthy decisions? made question my self worth, and lost my confidence. I had to get therapy and go away for for a few months to fully understand what I was going through and rationally address each obstacle. My journey is still on, somewhere I have lost hope and trust in the simple act of being loved unconditionally. I am still rebuilding my emotional and physical strength and its a hard, tough, teary filled journey.... This video helps a lot. Thank you mam for you words of wisdom...

  • @inspirationalwomandebasree1080
    @inspirationalwomandebasree1080 11 місяців тому +10

    I dont miss any of your videos didi. Every morning after meditation I listen to your speech and takes strength. I am inculcating slowly the teaching of yours. Om shaanti

  • @Sap25122
    @Sap25122 16 днів тому +1

    Giving away power to another, say, you control my mind

  • @sidduhiremath2866
    @sidduhiremath2866 9 місяців тому +1

    Sister you are right,we can't change people instead of that we should take control of our mind,if we are an emotional person then people will make us weak emotionally, mentally unstable better we should create positive thoughts which make our mind strong and emotionally stable.thank you sister.

  • @CS-pk1nr
    @CS-pk1nr 4 дні тому

    Thank you I really enjoyed this lecture. Thank you for you're time .

  • @shaguftasheikh5337
    @shaguftasheikh5337 27 днів тому

    Thank you Sister Shivani jee. Always the best advice to keep yourself free from negativity to keep and stay healthy and wealthy to help others with positivity. Bless you are a LIGHT FOR ALL ROUND THE WORLD. ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @mamtabhattacharyya73
    @mamtabhattacharyya73 11 місяців тому +5

    It is a tough proposition. Duty and compliance can be misconstrued as weaknesses. The time when I spoke up or made them aware then sometimes the behaviour changed. So it got me thinking if I had done this earlier I would have enforced changed behaviour long before.

  • @RadheyRadhey108
    @RadheyRadhey108 8 місяців тому +2

    Shivani Didi a blessing to all the Sanatanis !!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🕉️☮️💟💞💕🍀🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸love ❤and light 💡 ❤❤❤❤

  • @vinodsury
    @vinodsury 4 місяці тому +1

    Every time I listened to Sister Shivan, I feel blessed by God's knowledge. Thanks. Om Shanti 🙏

  • @indunrn
    @indunrn 2 місяці тому

    For the past 10 years I conquered some of my weaknesses by following BK Shivaniji and my life is so peaceful now. Yes I agree she is god and I thank her for coming into my life. Om Shanti🙏

  • @mythreeshagowda6535
    @mythreeshagowda6535 11 місяців тому +14

    Forgive and forget them. Next time greet them with a smile with out any expectation.

  • @wordsrevealed2784
    @wordsrevealed2784 11 місяців тому +4

    Thank you ma'am. What a wonderful phrase " Take charge"

  • @igobothwaysallidoismakewav5039
    @igobothwaysallidoismakewav5039 2 місяці тому +1

    "Keep me happy, always" 🙌🏻

  • @rajasekharvenkataswamy3163
    @rajasekharvenkataswamy3163 10 місяців тому +2

    A great insigt of life to change ourselves to have all the lost things back again.

  • @CS-pk1nr
    @CS-pk1nr 4 дні тому +1

    The point is self forget the worldly way of doing or saying things it's about self that matters

  • @saradakv
    @saradakv 3 місяці тому

    Giving away the power... you control my mind.. lines that took me years to even know that I was doing this which made me labeled moody. Thanks for making it loud and clear!

  • @aditiprasad8961
    @aditiprasad8961 9 місяців тому

    Dhanyawaad mata jii for bringing BK Shivani in our life.

  • @rajashreesharma4067
    @rajashreesharma4067 11 місяців тому +2

    Such a precious wisdom didi.if all of us were to follow it,world will be heaven.God bless you.

  • @PsychCounselingClinic
    @PsychCounselingClinic 2 місяці тому

    It is appreciated to have this lecture. Please relate it to real stories especially ur personal experiences.
    I f we face the whole day.

  • @EvoFox-s1f
    @EvoFox-s1f 4 місяці тому

    Om shanti sister Shivani always have a ambition to bring like you❤❤❤❤😊😊😊

  • @praveennov
    @praveennov 11 місяців тому +7

    Gautama transformed Angulimaala through his sheer presence.
    Atleast according to the Buddhist folklore.

  • @StarLightPlanets
    @StarLightPlanets 9 місяців тому +3

    Your Own Mind You Have Power Over, Once You Conquer Your Own Mind , Then One Can Conquer The World.

  • @Manraji
    @Manraji 10 місяців тому +7

    Sister, you encourage me to be a better person with all your wisdom! 🙏 Your guidance is much appreciated!

  • @AnilGupta-mn2iz
    @AnilGupta-mn2iz 11 місяців тому +1

    It's Global implications of your religiously spiritual discourses which affect one-in-all & all-in-one,alike.❤🎉THX.

  • @ulrikehohn6707
    @ulrikehohn6707 9 місяців тому +1

    Fantastic reminder ! Thank you so much 🙏

  • @Sap25122
    @Sap25122 16 днів тому

    Focus on the solution, radiate power to my family

  • @MrFelipefelop
    @MrFelipefelop 10 місяців тому

    Put this on double speed,you got this,thank you for your point of view 😢

  • @neeturaj3317
    @neeturaj3317 7 місяців тому

    Om Shanti sister you are my Real Angel 💓

  • @indirakb6163
    @indirakb6163 11 місяців тому +7

    Absolutely inspiring message ❤️

  • @AliceWarnock
    @AliceWarnock 8 місяців тому +1

    A very fascinating video , this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t , I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him..

    • @AliceWarnock
      @AliceWarnock 8 місяців тому

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @Bharti_pal
      @Bharti_pal 6 місяців тому

      It’ll pass. Focus on yourself, stay busy. Love yourself and your existence. Think yourself as a pure soul , start chanting , walking on grass, take solace in spirituality. Cry as much as you can in front your loved ones. Return to your childhood and your life till now. You’ll heal ❤

    • @geetbhasin5765
      @geetbhasin5765 2 місяці тому

      @@AliceWarnockvisit brahmakumaris nearest centre near you and visit

  • @kimberleyshott8970
    @kimberleyshott8970 3 місяці тому

    Thank you THANK YOU for this Gift ❤❤❤

  • @kayvanshah994
    @kayvanshah994 5 місяців тому

    Words of wisdom. Can save one from emotional manipulation...

  • @rashi2044
    @rashi2044 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you ma'am I needed this so much.

  • @sarat6071
    @sarat6071 4 місяці тому +1

    You are really going deep In to our mind to help.

  • @PritiKumari-j4c9p
    @PritiKumari-j4c9p Місяць тому

    Good morning mera baba,Om Shanti mera baba ❤😊

  • @Tales_with_her
    @Tales_with_her 3 місяці тому

    The angel who really changed my life❤

  • @chandneeramsaroop7101
    @chandneeramsaroop7101 11 місяців тому +4

    Really words of wisdom

  • @MargieNaidoo-s3f
    @MargieNaidoo-s3f 7 місяців тому

    Absolutely true. What we do quite often is what you've said. So much to learn from this. Thank you❤

  • @peacockLife
    @peacockLife 9 місяців тому

    it is really a breach of trust .. i think those relations will never last too long. have to be careful that in changing ourself we don't change for the worse

  • @vdubey-co2eo
    @vdubey-co2eo 5 місяців тому

    Hi Shivani
    I have heard your thoughts /videos many times however this one has changed my problem which I was facing since last two year, I tried all m best however one person who was very very imp to me has manipulated and left me like tea bag , I was not able to digest it and was in pain long time but your this Video has given me a light on road and I think I can improve my emotional level and would live normal life .
    Thanks a lot 😊

  • @annapurnasuresh3668
    @annapurnasuresh3668 11 місяців тому +6

    I have watched almost all videos in English. You are really next to God. He sent you as a guru. Please if anyone translates all your videos in all regional languages it will be a great help in better understanding. Hope it comes soon. Jai Ho didi

  • @balwantbarwal1169
    @balwantbarwal1169 10 днів тому +1

    Good morning baba ❤❤❤

  • @JyotiShivShakti
    @JyotiShivShakti 6 місяців тому

    💯Accept how it is. And don't rely on anyone. No you have. Yes you can get.

  • @aditisheoranc
    @aditisheoranc 6 місяців тому

    Absolutely amazing lessons ..thanks Sister Shivani for these precious nuggets

  • @eeman_ali
    @eeman_ali 10 місяців тому +1

    Really needed to hear this today! Thankuuu

  • @tomicafrance9515
    @tomicafrance9515 11 місяців тому +3

    I love her so much

  • @sreeparnabiswas2033
    @sreeparnabiswas2033 2 місяці тому

    Om shanti didi!

  • @hemavathislreddy1725
    @hemavathislreddy1725 11 місяців тому +3

    Om shanti ❤

  • @bkharshn
    @bkharshn 11 місяців тому +5

    Beautiful!

  • @monikasingh5799
    @monikasingh5799 10 місяців тому +1

    Heart feel the pain mind forgets

  • @bhanugopal7132
    @bhanugopal7132 7 місяців тому

    Came across this thoughtful video just when I needed some guidance and thank you so much Amma for your inputs. 🙏🏽

  • @penny6921
    @penny6921 10 місяців тому

    Om Shanti Sis.🙏

  • @anamei9923
    @anamei9923 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you.🙏🏽💖

  • @rahelkassa9717
    @rahelkassa9717 4 місяці тому

    I needed to hear you today. Thank you.

  • @drfouziayasmeen066
    @drfouziayasmeen066 11 місяців тому +4

    Very beautiful talk

  • @CoudyCanvas
    @CoudyCanvas 5 місяців тому

    Yes at times we all go through this! But if once a person manipulated you he will always try that! This is a big red flag! True friends donot hurt. Who could hurt will try multiple times the same things.

  • @My2centsonhere
    @My2centsonhere 4 місяці тому

    Very beautifully explained ❤thank you!

  • @maycornelius3101
    @maycornelius3101 2 місяці тому

    100 per cent correct mind is very powerful

  • @ViraCoutinho
    @ViraCoutinho 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much 🙏

  • @aditiprasad8961
    @aditiprasad8961 9 місяців тому

    God bless you maam, thank you🙏

  • @sharadakshetry5768
    @sharadakshetry5768 11 місяців тому +3

    ॐॐॐॐ ओम शान्ति good morning मेरा परंमपिता प्रमात्मा शिव बाबा मे बाबा का बाबा मेरा मिठे मिठे प्यारे प्यारे बाबा शुक्रिया मेरा शिव बाबा नमस्ते नमस्ते 🙏🙏❤️❤️💐💐

  • @neeturaj3317
    @neeturaj3317 11 місяців тому +5

    Good morning sister om Shanti.

  • @Janvi1Chand
    @Janvi1Chand 11 місяців тому +3

    God bless u always

  • @geethpriyasaravanan8460
    @geethpriyasaravanan8460 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you🙏

  • @shrur3527
    @shrur3527 7 місяців тому +1

    Tq so much ma🙏🙏❤️❤️
    My way of thinking and analysing the situation has changed in a very positive way
    I feel very good listening to your voice especially when i am low
    Keep educating us 🙏🙏❤️❤️
    Very grateful to u🙏🙏❤️❤️

  • @geddadavijayalakshmi489
    @geddadavijayalakshmi489 11 місяців тому +3

    Excellent motivational guidance 🙏

  • @shellyedwards2875
    @shellyedwards2875 11 місяців тому +2

    Love you for this ❤

  • @rajendraprasadsharma8807
    @rajendraprasadsharma8807 5 місяців тому +1

    Ok all right🌹🌹❤❤om shanti👏👏

  • @ushareddy3237
    @ushareddy3237 6 місяців тому

    Thank you BK Shivani

  • @jayaraonagarajan9450
    @jayaraonagarajan9450 3 місяці тому

    Eye opening lessons 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @doolariesingh2502
    @doolariesingh2502 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank u 🙏🌺

  • @parathuvayalilayurvedaclin2056
    @parathuvayalilayurvedaclin2056 10 місяців тому +1

    Great thoughts......

  • @wamanbhide4410
    @wamanbhide4410 11 місяців тому +3

    Due to Artificial intelligence, the situation described here can raise in our life. So, human has to be careful against side effects of AI. and has to keep ourselves strong by minds.

  • @AbhishekSingh-mb6eo
    @AbhishekSingh-mb6eo 3 місяці тому

    Thanku so much ji

  • @JoanneLim-w2t
    @JoanneLim-w2t 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks and you too.

  • @divyaaggarwal9860
    @divyaaggarwal9860 8 місяців тому

    Thank you Didi❤❤❤

  • @TakJhalMishtiMB
    @TakJhalMishtiMB 11 місяців тому +3

    Om Shanti

  • @faridafahrtash1617
    @faridafahrtash1617 6 місяців тому

    Om Shanti Peace / Joy Shivani

  • @sindhura1341
    @sindhura1341 3 дні тому

    Love you Didi ❤🙏

  • @Sajjadkhan-n2k
    @Sajjadkhan-n2k 4 місяці тому

    vey nice, good skills of delivering of speeches!!!

  • @ilaydalakontie
    @ilaydalakontie 5 місяців тому +1

    literally ı m all gratefull it has a funny part that if she eplain me any math ı ll learn ı wish some people try give different courses also :D