Understanding Emotional Manipulation: BK Shivani's Eye-Opening Talk

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  • Опубліковано 12 тра 2024
  • It's important to recognize when someone is trying to manipulate your emotions. This can be done through guilt-tripping, gaslighting, or other tactics that are meant to make you feel a certain way. It's important to set boundaries and stand up for yourself when this happens.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 194

  • @user-gf7nn5jc1i
    @user-gf7nn5jc1i 5 місяців тому +225

    I came across your video last month and I am hooked. You have answered all my questions in my life. I’m taking notes and reading it every night before I sleep. You are God send to me. I wished I had seen it sooner but I guess there’s a right time for everything. To everyone who reads this my blessings to you all. Words cannot express how much and how grateful I am to you. Om Shanti.

  • @JM11423
    @JM11423 2 місяці тому +35

    Recipe for Peace
    1) watch bk Shivani ji's videos every morning and before sleep consistently.
    2) Absorb the messages
    3) Take every situation as practical sessions for what you have learnt
    4) Note and Acknowledge the positive transformations in you.
    Congratulations you are on the path to peace😍
    Based on my experience😍
    I watched her videos from 2018 religiously then stopped & started practicing. Now i am unaffected by others behaviors. Even if i get affected i shift as soon as possible.

    • @sreevidyavenugopal5352
      @sreevidyavenugopal5352 Місяць тому +2

      U said it❤

    • @rosepham3001
      @rosepham3001 Місяць тому +2

      Congratulations.And I am really happy to hear that. It's the same experience for me as well.

    • @rosepham3001
      @rosepham3001 Місяць тому +1

      That's the recipe for happiness, for being powerful... And actually it's a way to find our own self, to get back to our nature of peace, love, happiness, power, bliss, knowledge and wisdom.

    • @cinthaa1
      @cinthaa1 Місяць тому +1

      You are SUCH an inspiration ❤😊 🙏🏽

    • @alpsalangad2898
      @alpsalangad2898 Місяць тому +1

      Your Words are So Precious 💞 💕 Thank you so much ❤

  • @padmajasalkar2358
    @padmajasalkar2358 2 місяці тому +14

    Sister Shivani....the universe sent me this video of yours in the middle of a crisis in my life, to keep my unnecessary needs and desires aside and to have peace back in my life. I have truly blessed to receive so much awareness and knowledge from you 🙏 ❤

  • @sanjayarora856
    @sanjayarora856 5 місяців тому +77

    She is a blessing to human kind. Pure bliss. ❤

  • @asmasheikh5001
    @asmasheikh5001 3 місяці тому +8

    Allah aap ki hifazat farmaye. Ameen keep up with the great work

  • @user-gf7nn5jc1i
    @user-gf7nn5jc1i 5 місяців тому +49

    Thanks for your reply. I have seen some improvement on my daughter. This is what I am sending to her everyday. I’m sorry for the pain that I have caused you in the past . I’m sorry for all the critical and the judgmental thoughts I had about you. I forgive you for what you did to me. Past is past and it’s over. My past karmic account is over, never ever to come again. From now onwards my thoughts for you are love, respect and blessings. I understand you, I accept you, I bless you and I heal you. You are a pure and a powerful soul. You are peaceful, lovefull and a confident soul. You are changing to be your best. This is what I summarised after listening to her so many videos. I’m changing also and I’m at peace. Sister Shivani you are Godsend to us. Om shanti.

    • @deepalideshmukh456
      @deepalideshmukh456 3 місяці тому +1

      Such great thanks

    • @user-ci1eh3ip7s
      @user-ci1eh3ip7s 2 місяці тому

      When a mother has damaged her kid beyond repair ...their is n should be no forgiveness hence if u r not mature enough to be a good mother then don't be at an age ....my mother destroyed me even though I was gud in everything n she made me doubt myself every single day ....my talents were curbed n they spend 40 lakhs on some1 who was aggressive n manipulative n still support the bad one over the good one ...some women should never be mothers

    • @shilpar4848
      @shilpar4848 Місяць тому

      ​@@user-ci1eh3ip7sEven I have had the same experience.

  • @aditisheoranc
    @aditisheoranc 19 годин тому

    Absolutely amazing lessons ..thanks Sister Shivani for these precious nuggets

  • @ravzp
    @ravzp 5 місяців тому +13

    Use the “POWER to CHOOSE your right way” :
    The right way is
    - that will increase my inner strength
    - that will increase my flexibility
    - that will allow me to be the master of my mind not dependent on other
    - that will radiate good vibrations in me and keep me healthy
    - that will keep me happy always
    Now choose your right way.
    If you do not teach yourself the right way over time, you will loose the power
    the time when things go wrong, when the positive energy is needed must; you lost your power; when you change yourself to the response of ‘the obviously’ negative energies from outside.
    🙏🙏

  • @kirtinarang6994
    @kirtinarang6994 4 місяці тому +20

    BK Shivani is so much like a faithful teacher I ever had in my life..I am now going through a very emotional trauma these days and want my parents to support me ..I dont know why my parents dont have time but yes BK Shivani sessions helped me a lot to overcome the anxiety and depression..I am grateful to you mam...Om Shanti...

    • @lavi_arun
      @lavi_arun 3 місяці тому

      We r with u…don’t worry, God bless you!

  • @ushareddy3237
    @ushareddy3237 2 дні тому

    Thank you BK Shivani

  • @inspirationalwomandebasree1080
    @inspirationalwomandebasree1080 5 місяців тому +9

    I dont miss any of your videos didi. Every morning after meditation I listen to your speech and takes strength. I am inculcating slowly the teaching of yours. Om shaanti

  • @Manraji
    @Manraji 4 місяці тому +6

    Sister, you encourage me to be a better person with all your wisdom! 🙏 Your guidance is much appreciated!

  • @jessye5418
    @jessye5418 5 місяців тому +11

    Very much practical and factual remedies to be broad minded and peaceful in society..... I really like many of your videos. There's a lot of suffering behind to give a courageous remedy to problems.

  • @ananyachakraborty4665
    @ananyachakraborty4665 4 місяці тому +12

    According to me, She is a guide for positive culture not for abusive culture. SO do consciously whatever feels good to you. Forgive and Forget practice is great when the abuser takes accountability for their abuses not for the repeatance of their abuses. This affirms them that whatever they do will be considerable! Therefore they gets the confirmation and validation for their victim card playing to their next target and thus it goes on. SO choose wisely where to give your positive aura and where to not because there are energy vampires who will suck all out of u and will still blame you to be a dracula... 😊❤

  • @RadheyRadhey108
    @RadheyRadhey108 2 місяці тому +2

    Shivani Didi a blessing to all the Sanatanis !!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🕉️☮️💟💞💕🍀🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸love ❤and light 💡 ❤❤❤❤

  • @jessicahou8340
    @jessicahou8340 5 місяців тому +8

    I can’t change people! They themselves when they want can change them

  • @ClassesMANI
    @ClassesMANI 4 місяці тому +12

    I had been through this. Someone manipulated me like hell. I cried all day and all night. Finally took step , got touch with you on one random reels. The world is changing!

    • @positiveMindset665
      @positiveMindset665 2 місяці тому +2

      Sorry that you had to go through it. One thing I’m trying to learn these days is the reason we allowed for ourselves to be manipulated and work on myself, so that I have the knowledge and cannot be manipulated by anyone easily, or know when someone is trying to manipulate me. Take care.

    • @charissastella8920
      @charissastella8920 Місяць тому +1

      How did you come out of the manipulation? But their toxicity affects you? Though I'm far away from them in very irritated by the thought of the.

  • @mythreeshagowda6535
    @mythreeshagowda6535 4 місяці тому +7

    Forgive and forget them. Next time greet them with a smile with out any expectation.

  • @lankankeys8310
    @lankankeys8310 Місяць тому

    Sometimes we seek profundity in complexity. Her message is so simple and straight to the point, which leaves no room to decipher words, but understand her wisdom. Blessings upon her and all the people her energy affects, each day.

  • @wordsrevealed2784
    @wordsrevealed2784 4 місяці тому +4

    Thank you ma'am. What a wonderful phrase " Take charge"

  • @hemavathislreddy1725
    @hemavathislreddy1725 5 місяців тому +3

    Om shanti ❤

  • @sharadakshetry5768
    @sharadakshetry5768 5 місяців тому +3

    ॐॐॐॐ ओम शान्ति good morning मेरा परंमपिता प्रमात्मा शिव बाबा मे बाबा का बाबा मेरा मिठे मिठे प्यारे प्यारे बाबा शुक्रिया मेरा शिव बाबा नमस्ते नमस्ते 🙏🙏❤️❤️💐💐

  • @shellyedwards2875
    @shellyedwards2875 4 місяці тому +1

    Love you for this ❤

  • @mamtabhattacharyya73
    @mamtabhattacharyya73 4 місяці тому +4

    It is a tough proposition. Duty and compliance can be misconstrued as weaknesses. The time when I spoke up or made them aware then sometimes the behaviour changed. So it got me thinking if I had done this earlier I would have enforced changed behaviour long before.

  • @bkharshn
    @bkharshn 5 місяців тому +4

    Beautiful!

  • @surindercheema5663
    @surindercheema5663 Місяць тому

    Blessed to have sister in my generation.Waheguru Satnam 🙏

  • @ulrikehohn6707
    @ulrikehohn6707 3 місяці тому

    Fantastic reminder ! Thank you so much 🙏

  • @tomicafrance9515
    @tomicafrance9515 5 місяців тому +3

    I love her so much

  • @anamei9923
    @anamei9923 2 місяці тому

    Thank you.🙏🏽💖

  • @sidduhiremath2866
    @sidduhiremath2866 3 місяці тому +1

    Sister you are right,we can't change people instead of that we should take control of our mind,if we are an emotional person then people will make us weak emotionally, mentally unstable better we should create positive thoughts which make our mind strong and emotionally stable.thank you sister.

  • @rajasekharvenkataswamy3163
    @rajasekharvenkataswamy3163 4 місяці тому +2

    A great insigt of life to change ourselves to have all the lost things back again.

  • @rashi2044
    @rashi2044 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you ma'am I needed this so much.

  • @indirakb6163
    @indirakb6163 5 місяців тому +7

    Absolutely inspiring message ❤️

  • @user-fr6qt6qf7h
    @user-fr6qt6qf7h 18 днів тому

    Absolutely true. What we do quite often is what you've said. So much to learn from this. Thank you❤

  • @geethpriyasaravanan8460
    @geethpriyasaravanan8460 2 місяці тому

    Thank you🙏

  • @aditiprasad8961
    @aditiprasad8961 3 місяці тому

    God bless you maam, thank you🙏

  • @drfouziayasmeen066
    @drfouziayasmeen066 5 місяців тому +4

    Very beautiful talk

  • @neeturaj3317
    @neeturaj3317 5 місяців тому +5

    Good morning sister om Shanti.

  • @geddadavijayalakshmi489
    @geddadavijayalakshmi489 5 місяців тому +3

    Excellent motivational guidance 🙏

  • @JyotiShivaShakti
    @JyotiShivaShakti 7 днів тому

    💯Accept how it is. And don't rely on anyone. No you have. Yes you can get.

  • @saundryakaushal
    @saundryakaushal 2 місяці тому +1

    Seems like all my questions are answered today.. baba always shows me what I need to see when in confusion without even expecting. Om Shanti

  • @user-zb2rp1he5h
    @user-zb2rp1he5h 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much 🙏

  • @chandneeramsaroop7101
    @chandneeramsaroop7101 5 місяців тому +4

    Really words of wisdom

  • @penny6921
    @penny6921 3 місяці тому

    Om Shanti Sis.🙏

  • @avijitransingh4413
    @avijitransingh4413 5 місяців тому +2

    Om shanti jii

  • @bhanugopal7132
    @bhanugopal7132 Місяць тому

    Came across this thoughtful video just when I needed some guidance and thank you so much Amma for your inputs. 🙏🏽

  • @ratnamaissin80
    @ratnamaissin80 5 місяців тому +2

    Om Shanti. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @user-fn1qd1hl6x
    @user-fn1qd1hl6x 5 місяців тому +3

    God bless u always

  • @aditiprasad8961
    @aditiprasad8961 3 місяці тому

    Dhanyawaad mata jii for bringing BK Shivani in our life.

  • @deepapradeep876
    @deepapradeep876 5 місяців тому +1

    Ohm Shanti🙏🙏🙏

  • @vipulaahuja8042
    @vipulaahuja8042 Місяць тому

    So true!!! Thanks, sister Shivani.May God always be with you🙏❤️

  • @rajashreesharma4067
    @rajashreesharma4067 5 місяців тому +2

    Such a precious wisdom didi.if all of us were to follow it,world will be heaven.God bless you.

  • @divyaaggarwal9860
    @divyaaggarwal9860 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Didi❤❤❤

  • @monikasingh5799
    @monikasingh5799 3 місяці тому +1

    Heart feel the pain mind forgets

  • @faridafahrtash1617
    @faridafahrtash1617 15 днів тому

    Om Shanti Peace / Joy Shivani

  • @eeman_ali
    @eeman_ali 3 місяці тому

    Really needed to hear this today! Thankuuu

  • @erinjayawickrema7204
    @erinjayawickrema7204 2 місяці тому

    Much merits ❤

  • @praveennov
    @praveennov 5 місяців тому +5

    Gautama transformed Angulimaala through his sheer presence.
    Atleast according to the Buddhist folklore.

  • @AnilGupta-mn2iz
    @AnilGupta-mn2iz 4 місяці тому +1

    It's Global implications of your religiously spiritual discourses which affect one-in-all & all-in-one,alike.❤🎉THX.

  • @neeturaj3317
    @neeturaj3317 Місяць тому

    Om Shanti sister you are my Real Angel 💓

  • @anjalinicholas4441
    @anjalinicholas4441 4 місяці тому +1

    Great🎉🎉

  • @parathuvayalilayurvedaclin2056
    @parathuvayalilayurvedaclin2056 3 місяці тому +1

    Great thoughts......

  • @MrFelipefelop
    @MrFelipefelop 3 місяці тому

    Put this on double speed,you got this,thank you for your point of view 😢

  • @doolariesingh2502
    @doolariesingh2502 Місяць тому

    Thank u 🙏🌺

  • @amberdays3499
    @amberdays3499 8 днів тому

    Wow so good❤🙏🙏

  • @rooba1042
    @rooba1042 Місяць тому

    Om shanthi

  • @TakJhalMishtiMB
    @TakJhalMishtiMB 5 місяців тому +3

    Om Shanti

  • @drsuruchiupadhyay9375
    @drsuruchiupadhyay9375 2 місяці тому

    Superb ❤

  • @annapurnasuresh3668
    @annapurnasuresh3668 5 місяців тому +6

    I have watched almost all videos in English. You are really next to God. He sent you as a guru. Please if anyone translates all your videos in all regional languages it will be a great help in better understanding. Hope it comes soon. Jai Ho didi

  • @neelamkankariya1680
    @neelamkankariya1680 4 місяці тому +1

    Superb

  • @carolannburke5450
    @carolannburke5450 9 днів тому

    Wow....life-changing. Really great, xo

  • @jnuisahadas5916
    @jnuisahadas5916 Місяць тому

    Om Shantii Sister,,🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @lizbethbautista4781
    @lizbethbautista4781 4 місяці тому +2

    Bk Shavani you are getting me through this wave in my life they ask me how can I be so positive and I say because of you!!

  • @q2_20
    @q2_20 21 день тому

    om shanti didi

  • @user-bg4pc5mo6q
    @user-bg4pc5mo6q 3 місяці тому

    Om Shanti jiii

  • @jhansilakshmi7850
    @jhansilakshmi7850 4 місяці тому +2

    Nice words madam

  • @peacockLife
    @peacockLife 3 місяці тому

    it is really a breach of trust .. i think those relations will never last too long. have to be careful that in changing ourself we don't change for the worse

  • @user-ko2el7vs9o
    @user-ko2el7vs9o Місяць тому

    Truth

  • @lincykp1421
    @lincykp1421 5 місяців тому +1

  • @bhanurana5731
    @bhanurana5731 Місяць тому

    Dee acha bol rhe ho

  • @jayantakar6678
    @jayantakar6678 5 місяців тому +2

    🙏

  • @Durgesh_.Singh_sisodiya123
    @Durgesh_.Singh_sisodiya123 5 місяців тому +1

    ओम शांति

  • @archnaarchna3428
    @archnaarchna3428 5 місяців тому +2

    I love this

  • @syedruhullahrizvi8173
    @syedruhullahrizvi8173 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤

  • @shrur3527
    @shrur3527 Місяць тому +1

    Tq so much ma🙏🙏❤️❤️
    My way of thinking and analysing the situation has changed in a very positive way
    I feel very good listening to your voice especially when i am low
    Keep educating us 🙏🙏❤️❤️
    Very grateful to u🙏🙏❤️❤️

  • @savithatrsavithatr3131
    @savithatrsavithatr3131 4 місяці тому +2

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @ruthmanhoihching3204
    @ruthmanhoihching3204 19 днів тому

    Amen

  • @jayashree8512
    @jayashree8512 3 дні тому

    Super didiji

  • @wamanbhide4410
    @wamanbhide4410 5 місяців тому +3

    Due to Artificial intelligence, the situation described here can raise in our life. So, human has to be careful against side effects of AI. and has to keep ourselves strong by minds.

  • @Marywhite-pd1hw
    @Marywhite-pd1hw 2 місяці тому

    A very fascinating video , this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t , I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him..

    • @Marywhite-pd1hw
      @Marywhite-pd1hw 2 місяці тому

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

  • @padmiabenayake1524
    @padmiabenayake1524 5 місяців тому +2

    🙏🙏💐

  • @ayanbiswas2883
    @ayanbiswas2883 5 місяців тому +3

    om shanti 🙏✨.She's angel ✨👼🙏💫👑

  • @StarLightPlanets
    @StarLightPlanets 3 місяці тому +1

    Your Own Mind You Have Power Over, Once You Conquer Your Own Mind , Then One Can Conquer The World.

  • @dishau7541
    @dishau7541 5 місяців тому

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Quantumanandha
    @Quantumanandha 5 місяців тому +3

    I'm easily getting manipulation 😢

  • @adv2666
    @adv2666 Місяць тому

    That's the whole game 😢.... emotionally manipulate!!!
    Who is a glib talker , wins 🏆

  • @rakhiaggarwal3852
    @rakhiaggarwal3852 22 дні тому +1

    What about those who thinks that support is only money. Rest other things don't come in support for them

  • @arunajyothi2499
    @arunajyothi2499 5 місяців тому +2

    ❤please help me how to handle evil people in life

  • @caiby48
    @caiby48 24 дні тому

    👏🏻😁👏🏻

  • @pragatiesharma9194
    @pragatiesharma9194 3 місяці тому

    How to do this when you have made a energy bond with somebody?Is there a way to disconnect this bond.