Understanding Emotional Manipulation: BK Shivani's Eye-Opening Talk

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  • @JoanneLim-w2t
    @JoanneLim-w2t Рік тому +444

    I came across your video last month and I am hooked. You have answered all my questions in my life. I’m taking notes and reading it every night before I sleep. You are God send to me. I wished I had seen it sooner but I guess there’s a right time for everything. To everyone who reads this my blessings to you all. Words cannot express how much and how grateful I am to you. Om Shanti.

  • @JM11423
    @JM11423 10 місяців тому +206

    Recipe for Peace
    1) watch bk Shivani ji's videos every morning and before sleep consistently.
    2) Absorb the messages
    3) Take every situation as practical sessions for what you have learnt
    4) Note and Acknowledge the positive transformations in you.
    Congratulations you are on the path to peace😍
    Based on my experience😍
    I watched her videos from 2018 religiously then stopped & started practicing. Now i am unaffected by others behaviors. Even if i get affected i shift as soon as possible.

    • @sreevidyavenugopal5352
      @sreevidyavenugopal5352 9 місяців тому +5

      U said it❤

    • @Rosepham301
      @Rosepham301 9 місяців тому +4

      Congratulations.And I am really happy to hear that. It's the same experience for me as well.

    • @Rosepham301
      @Rosepham301 9 місяців тому +1

      That's the recipe for happiness, for being powerful... And actually it's a way to find our own self, to get back to our nature of peace, love, happiness, power, bliss, knowledge and wisdom.

    • @cinthaa1
      @cinthaa1 9 місяців тому +1

      You are SUCH an inspiration ❤😊 🙏🏽

    • @alpsalangad2898
      @alpsalangad2898 9 місяців тому +1

      Your Words are So Precious 💞 💕 Thank you so much ❤

  • @JoanneLim-w2t
    @JoanneLim-w2t Рік тому +105

    Thanks for your reply. I have seen some improvement on my daughter. This is what I am sending to her everyday. I’m sorry for the pain that I have caused you in the past . I’m sorry for all the critical and the judgmental thoughts I had about you. I forgive you for what you did to me. Past is past and it’s over. My past karmic account is over, never ever to come again. From now onwards my thoughts for you are love, respect and blessings. I understand you, I accept you, I bless you and I heal you. You are a pure and a powerful soul. You are peaceful, lovefull and a confident soul. You are changing to be your best. This is what I summarised after listening to her so many videos. I’m changing also and I’m at peace. Sister Shivani you are Godsend to us. Om shanti.

    • @deepalideshmukh456
      @deepalideshmukh456 Рік тому +2

      Such great thanks

    • @ShammaNayak
      @ShammaNayak 10 місяців тому +6

      When a mother has damaged her kid beyond repair ...their is n should be no forgiveness hence if u r not mature enough to be a good mother then don't be at an age ....my mother destroyed me even though I was gud in everything n she made me doubt myself every single day ....my talents were curbed n they spend 40 lakhs on some1 who was aggressive n manipulative n still support the bad one over the good one ...some women should never be mothers

    • @shilpar4848
      @shilpar4848 9 місяців тому

      ​@@ShammaNayakEven I have had the same experience.

    • @pushpamuljiratna9589
      @pushpamuljiratna9589 7 місяців тому +1

      thx for sharing your experience

    • @thembekalupuzi
      @thembekalupuzi 7 місяців тому

      ​@@ShammaNayak❤

  • @ananyachakraborty4665
    @ananyachakraborty4665 Рік тому +51

    According to me, She is a guide for positive culture not for abusive culture. SO do consciously whatever feels good to you. Forgive and Forget practice is great when the abuser takes accountability for their abuses not for the repeatance of their abuses. This affirms them that whatever they do will be considerable! Therefore they gets the confirmation and validation for their victim card playing to their next target and thus it goes on. SO choose wisely where to give your positive aura and where to not because there are energy vampires who will suck all out of u and will still blame you to be a dracula... 😊❤

    • @Itsgirlmia
      @Itsgirlmia 9 місяців тому +2

      Yes this is true

    • @sowmyasola
      @sowmyasola 6 місяців тому +4

      So true I too thought the same.peoplw will simply use it as advantage.

    • @SKiTzME
      @SKiTzME 6 місяців тому +2

      Agree to this

    • @NiNa-jr7fp
      @NiNa-jr7fp 6 місяців тому +11

      I understand you have been through some difficult relationship and experienced pain. Shivani sister is God sent in my life too. In some video, she explained like, if someone abuses your goodness, in outer world you have to take steps to stop it. Not keep taking abuse because I am spiritual. But within you, we respect them as pure soul and bless them with no negativity for them.. lov to all

  • @sanjayarora856
    @sanjayarora856 Рік тому +121

    She is a blessing to human kind. Pure bliss. ❤

  • @ClassesMANI
    @ClassesMANI Рік тому +42

    I had been through this. Someone manipulated me like hell. I cried all day and all night. Finally took step , got touch with you on one random reels. The world is changing!

    • @positiveMindset665
      @positiveMindset665 11 місяців тому +7

      Sorry that you had to go through it. One thing I’m trying to learn these days is the reason we allowed for ourselves to be manipulated and work on myself, so that I have the knowledge and cannot be manipulated by anyone easily, or know when someone is trying to manipulate me. Take care.

    • @charissastella8920
      @charissastella8920 9 місяців тому +3

      How did you come out of the manipulation? But their toxicity affects you? Though I'm far away from them in very irritated by the thought of the.

    • @Amitsinghgouria_2002
      @Amitsinghgouria_2002 3 місяці тому

      @classesMANI same thing did to me by a girl for 3 years...

  • @asmasheikh5001
    @asmasheikh5001 Рік тому +17

    Allah aap ki hifazat farmaye. Ameen keep up with the great work

  • @padmajasalkar2358
    @padmajasalkar2358 10 місяців тому +25

    Sister Shivani....the universe sent me this video of yours in the middle of a crisis in my life, to keep my unnecessary needs and desires aside and to have peace back in my life. I have truly blessed to receive so much awareness and knowledge from you 🙏 ❤

  • @lankankeys8310
    @lankankeys8310 9 місяців тому +5

    Sometimes we seek profundity in complexity. Her message is so simple and straight to the point, which leaves no room to decipher words, but understand her wisdom. Blessings upon her and all the people her energy affects, each day.

  • @ravzp
    @ravzp Рік тому +30

    Use the “POWER to CHOOSE your right way” :
    The right way is
    - that will increase my inner strength
    - that will increase my flexibility
    - that will allow me to be the master of my mind not dependent on other
    - that will radiate good vibrations in me and keep me healthy
    - that will keep me happy always
    Now choose your right way.
    If you do not teach yourself the right way over time, you will loose the power
    the time when things go wrong, when the positive energy is needed must; you lost your power; when you change yourself to the response of ‘the obviously’ negative energies from outside.
    🙏🙏

  • @jessicahou8340
    @jessicahou8340 Рік тому +20

    I can’t change people! They themselves when they want can change them

  • @saundryakaushal
    @saundryakaushal 11 місяців тому +4

    Seems like all my questions are answered today.. baba always shows me what I need to see when in confusion without even expecting. Om Shanti

  • @jessye5418
    @jessye5418 Рік тому +14

    Very much practical and factual remedies to be broad minded and peaceful in society..... I really like many of your videos. There's a lot of suffering behind to give a courageous remedy to problems.

  • @inspirationalwomandebasree1080
    @inspirationalwomandebasree1080 Рік тому +11

    I dont miss any of your videos didi. Every morning after meditation I listen to your speech and takes strength. I am inculcating slowly the teaching of yours. Om shaanti

  • @pritidharadasgupta5648
    @pritidharadasgupta5648 2 місяці тому +3

    I am.going thru this job crisis for the past 6 months... Terribly worried to sustain myself... God give me strength to rebound!

  • @sidduhiremath2866
    @sidduhiremath2866 11 місяців тому +2

    Sister you are right,we can't change people instead of that we should take control of our mind,if we are an emotional person then people will make us weak emotionally, mentally unstable better we should create positive thoughts which make our mind strong and emotionally stable.thank you sister.

  • @saradakv
    @saradakv 5 місяців тому +2

    Giving away the power... you control my mind.. lines that took me years to even know that I was doing this which made me labeled moody. Thanks for making it loud and clear!

  • @surindercheema5663
    @surindercheema5663 10 місяців тому +1

    Blessed to have sister in my generation.Waheguru Satnam 🙏

  • @igobothwaysallidoismakewav5039
    @igobothwaysallidoismakewav5039 4 місяці тому +2

    "Keep me happy, always" 🙌🏻

  • @mamtabhattacharyya73
    @mamtabhattacharyya73 Рік тому +5

    It is a tough proposition. Duty and compliance can be misconstrued as weaknesses. The time when I spoke up or made them aware then sometimes the behaviour changed. So it got me thinking if I had done this earlier I would have enforced changed behaviour long before.

  • @wordsrevealed2784
    @wordsrevealed2784 Рік тому +4

    Thank you ma'am. What a wonderful phrase " Take charge"

  • @rajashreesharma4067
    @rajashreesharma4067 Рік тому +4

    Such a precious wisdom didi.if all of us were to follow it,world will be heaven.God bless you.

  • @vdubey-co2eo
    @vdubey-co2eo 7 місяців тому +2

    Hi Shivani
    I have heard your thoughts /videos many times however this one has changed my problem which I was facing since last two year, I tried all m best however one person who was very very imp to me has manipulated and left me like tea bag , I was not able to digest it and was in pain long time but your this Video has given me a light on road and I think I can improve my emotional level and would live normal life .
    Thanks a lot 😊

  • @rajasekharvenkataswamy3163
    @rajasekharvenkataswamy3163 Рік тому +2

    A great insigt of life to change ourselves to have all the lost things back again.

  • @leenachandak8801
    @leenachandak8801 27 днів тому

    Actually this video has answer for all the emotional problems one faces. Truly love to hear you didi. It feels i should have come across this 20 years back. I would have lived all the more happy and peaceful life.
    Love you Shivani didi 🙏🏻

  • @vipulaahuja8042
    @vipulaahuja8042 10 місяців тому +1

    So true!!! Thanks, sister Shivani.May God always be with you🙏❤️

  • @lizbethbautista4781
    @lizbethbautista4781 Рік тому +3

    Bk Shavani you are getting me through this wave in my life they ask me how can I be so positive and I say because of you!!

  • @EvoFox-s1f
    @EvoFox-s1f 6 місяців тому +1

    Om shanti sister Shivani always have a ambition to bring like you❤❤❤❤😊😊😊

  • @RadheyRadhey108
    @RadheyRadhey108 10 місяців тому +2

    Shivani Didi a blessing to all the Sanatanis !!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🕉️☮️💟💞💕🍀🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸love ❤and light 💡 ❤❤❤❤

  • @SenthilKumar-cr3ql
    @SenthilKumar-cr3ql 7 місяців тому +4

    You are my God. You are giving positive vibrations to me. I am starting to see the positive side in everything. The world is changing good for me. Thank you.

    • @Lisa_M_V
      @Lisa_M_V 6 місяців тому

      God is within you. The ‘I am’ is God

  • @SanskritiKumari-hk2ou
    @SanskritiKumari-hk2ou 5 місяців тому +4

    Summary of this video -
    If people around you whether it's a family member, friends, or whoever they are if they are going through some problem or struggling with stress, anxiety, tension etc and they share their problems with us then we don't have to feel sad instead we have have to stay calm, confindent, stable and with this state of mind we have to provide positive vibrations. So that people who are suffering from the problem will get out of it.
    That's all for today's session.
    Thank You
    Om Shanti 😊

  • @indirakb6163
    @indirakb6163 Рік тому +7

    Absolutely inspiring message ❤️

  • @sreeparnabiswas2033
    @sreeparnabiswas2033 4 місяці тому +1

    Om shanti didi!

  • @ulrikehohn6707
    @ulrikehohn6707 11 місяців тому +2

    Fantastic reminder ! Thank you so much 🙏

  • @AnilGupta-mn2iz
    @AnilGupta-mn2iz Рік тому +2

    It's Global implications of your religiously spiritual discourses which affect one-in-all & all-in-one,alike.❤🎉THX.

  • @chandneeramsaroop7101
    @chandneeramsaroop7101 Рік тому +5

    Really words of wisdom

  • @avon1413
    @avon1413 Місяць тому

    Thank you Shivani . This very very important talk, gave me relief from the everyday emotional turmoil I am going through that is being sent to me by my family members who are so pessimistic and stressed out . One of them has everything life has to offer, husband, security , a passport but yet unhappy because she hates the place she is living in . She wants to leave behind her marriage and leave the place that has so far given her security and spoil my peace of mind here where I am currently living. And I am so tensed that she will succeed in this plan and ruin my peace as her nature is very fierce and at times hurtful. And I needed your talk to calm me down and give me options to deal with my situation. Will appreciate if you could do more videos like these 🙏🙏🙏

  • @TakJhalMishtiMB
    @TakJhalMishtiMB Рік тому +3

    Om Shanti

  • @Ansh_8-5l
    @Ansh_8-5l 3 місяці тому +1

    Good morning mera baba,Om Shanti mera baba ❤😊

  • @hemavathislreddy1725
    @hemavathislreddy1725 Рік тому +3

    Om shanti ❤

  • @vinodsury
    @vinodsury 6 місяців тому +1

    Every time I listened to Sister Shivan, I feel blessed by God's knowledge. Thanks. Om Shanti 🙏

  • @rashi2044
    @rashi2044 Рік тому +2

    Thank you ma'am I needed this so much.

  • @mythreeshagowda6535
    @mythreeshagowda6535 Рік тому +17

    Forgive and forget them. Next time greet them with a smile with out any expectation.

  • @indunrn
    @indunrn 4 місяці тому

    For the past 10 years I conquered some of my weaknesses by following BK Shivaniji and my life is so peaceful now. Yes I agree she is god and I thank her for coming into my life. Om Shanti🙏

  • @aditiprasad8961
    @aditiprasad8961 11 місяців тому

    Dhanyawaad mata jii for bringing BK Shivani in our life.

  • @tomicafrance9515
    @tomicafrance9515 Рік тому +3

    I love her so much

  • @shaguftasheikh5337
    @shaguftasheikh5337 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Sister Shivani jee. Always the best advice to keep yourself free from negativity to keep and stay healthy and wealthy to help others with positivity. Bless you are a LIGHT FOR ALL ROUND THE WORLD. ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @KM-lo1rp
    @KM-lo1rp 3 місяці тому

    I wish I came across this video about 2 years back, I could have saved myself from the horrific situation I got myself into all due to being an extremely emotional person. I was in a toxic relationship wherein my partners was gaslighting and guilt-tripping me for two whole years. This experience really made me think at 40 years old, am capable to taking healthy decisions? made question my self worth, and lost my confidence. I had to get therapy and go away for for a few months to fully understand what I was going through and rationally address each obstacle. My journey is still on, somewhere I have lost hope and trust in the simple act of being loved unconditionally. I am still rebuilding my emotional and physical strength and its a hard, tough, teary filled journey.... This video helps a lot. Thank you mam for you words of wisdom...

  • @29197404
    @29197404 2 місяці тому +1

    they will never change. I tried from last so many years your techniques . after 11 years now I am tired. relation will be ending

  • @AliceWarnock
    @AliceWarnock 10 місяців тому +2

    A very fascinating video , this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t , I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him..

    • @AliceWarnock
      @AliceWarnock 10 місяців тому

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @Bharti_pal
      @Bharti_pal 8 місяців тому +1

      It’ll pass. Focus on yourself, stay busy. Love yourself and your existence. Think yourself as a pure soul , start chanting , walking on grass, take solace in spirituality. Cry as much as you can in front your loved ones. Return to your childhood and your life till now. You’ll heal ❤

    • @geetbhasin5765
      @geetbhasin5765 4 місяці тому

      @@AliceWarnockvisit brahmakumaris nearest centre near you and visit

  • @Bcbg21
    @Bcbg21 Місяць тому

    The problem with being like this, even though it makes sense to be like this is that you become everyone’s agony aunt and everyone comes to you with their problems but then forget about you afterwards. There is no one to fill your cup while you are filling everyone else’s. It becomes very draining and you go into depression. I have suffered this.

  • @bkharshn
    @bkharshn Рік тому +5

    Beautiful!

  • @Manraji
    @Manraji Рік тому +7

    Sister, you encourage me to be a better person with all your wisdom! 🙏 Your guidance is much appreciated!

  • @sarat6071
    @sarat6071 6 місяців тому +1

    You are really going deep In to our mind to help.

  • @annapurnasuresh3668
    @annapurnasuresh3668 Рік тому +6

    I have watched almost all videos in English. You are really next to God. He sent you as a guru. Please if anyone translates all your videos in all regional languages it will be a great help in better understanding. Hope it comes soon. Jai Ho didi

  • @neeturaj3317
    @neeturaj3317 9 місяців тому

    Om Shanti sister you are my Real Angel 💓

  • @drfouziayasmeen066
    @drfouziayasmeen066 Рік тому +4

    Very beautiful talk

  • @PsychCounselingClinic
    @PsychCounselingClinic 4 місяці тому

    It is appreciated to have this lecture. Please relate it to real stories especially ur personal experiences.
    I f we face the whole day.

  • @kimberleyshott8970
    @kimberleyshott8970 5 місяців тому

    Thank you THANK YOU for this Gift ❤❤❤

  • @CS-pk1nr
    @CS-pk1nr 2 місяці тому

    Thank you I really enjoyed this lecture. Thank you for you're time .

  • @eeman_ali
    @eeman_ali Рік тому +1

    Really needed to hear this today! Thankuuu

  • @kayvanshah994
    @kayvanshah994 7 місяців тому

    Words of wisdom. Can save one from emotional manipulation...

  • @Tales_with_her
    @Tales_with_her 5 місяців тому

    The angel who really changed my life❤

  • @praveennov
    @praveennov Рік тому +7

    Gautama transformed Angulimaala through his sheer presence.
    Atleast according to the Buddhist folklore.

  • @MargieNaidoo-s3f
    @MargieNaidoo-s3f 9 місяців тому

    Absolutely true. What we do quite often is what you've said. So much to learn from this. Thank you❤

  • @MphoyaBadimo66
    @MphoyaBadimo66 15 днів тому

    powerful thanks you

  • @StarLightPlanets
    @StarLightPlanets 11 місяців тому +3

    Your Own Mind You Have Power Over, Once You Conquer Your Own Mind , Then One Can Conquer The World.

  • @aditisheoranc
    @aditisheoranc 8 місяців тому

    Absolutely amazing lessons ..thanks Sister Shivani for these precious nuggets

  • @anamei9923
    @anamei9923 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you.🙏🏽💖

  • @geethpriyasaravanan8460
    @geethpriyasaravanan8460 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you🙏

  • @elavanti999
    @elavanti999 7 годин тому

    I think sometimes one can't change themselves also if it's their nature coming in the way. I have heard out nature remains same in every lifetime!

  • @MrFelipefelop
    @MrFelipefelop Рік тому

    Put this on double speed,you got this,thank you for your point of view 😢

  • @geddadavijayalakshmi489
    @geddadavijayalakshmi489 Рік тому +3

    Excellent motivational guidance 🙏

  • @monikasingh5799
    @monikasingh5799 Рік тому +1

    Heart feel the pain mind forgets

  • @nutankumari960
    @nutankumari960 13 днів тому

    This vdo is very peac thing and motivation thi gs

  • @JyotiShivShakti
    @JyotiShivShakti 8 місяців тому

    💯Accept how it is. And don't rely on anyone. No you have. Yes you can get.

  • @ViraCoutinho
    @ViraCoutinho Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much 🙏

  • @penny6921
    @penny6921 Рік тому

    Om Shanti Sis.🙏

  • @Janvi1Chand
    @Janvi1Chand Рік тому +3

    God bless u always

  • @vijayalakshminagammaubadam5990
    @vijayalakshminagammaubadam5990 Місяць тому

    Thank you behan ji I understand that what I should react with the situation in a day I received Thank you baba❤❤❤

  • @peacockLife
    @peacockLife 11 місяців тому

    it is really a breach of trust .. i think those relations will never last too long. have to be careful that in changing ourself we don't change for the worse

  • @bhanugopal7132
    @bhanugopal7132 9 місяців тому

    Came across this thoughtful video just when I needed some guidance and thank you so much Amma for your inputs. 🙏🏽

  • @aditiprasad8961
    @aditiprasad8961 11 місяців тому

    God bless you maam, thank you🙏

  • @shellyedwards2875
    @shellyedwards2875 Рік тому +2

    Love you for this ❤

  • @doolariesingh2502
    @doolariesingh2502 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank u 🙏🌺

  • @rahelkassa9717
    @rahelkassa9717 6 місяців тому

    I needed to hear you today. Thank you.

  • @My2centsonhere
    @My2centsonhere 6 місяців тому

    Very beautifully explained ❤thank you!

  • @Sap25122
    @Sap25122 2 місяці тому

    Focus on the solution, radiate power to my family

  • @neeturaj3317
    @neeturaj3317 Рік тому +5

    Good morning sister om Shanti.

  • @Sap25122
    @Sap25122 2 місяці тому +1

    Giving away power to another, say, you control my mind

  • @sharadakshetry5768
    @sharadakshetry5768 Рік тому +3

    ॐॐॐॐ ओम शान्ति good morning मेरा परंमपिता प्रमात्मा शिव बाबा मे बाबा का बाबा मेरा मिठे मिठे प्यारे प्यारे बाबा शुक्रिया मेरा शिव बाबा नमस्ते नमस्ते 🙏🙏❤️❤️💐💐

  • @JoanneLim-w2t
    @JoanneLim-w2t 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks and you too.

  • @ushareddy3237
    @ushareddy3237 8 місяців тому

    Thank you BK Shivani

  • @Fawkes021
    @Fawkes021 7 місяців тому

    Shree ShantaDurga Vijayate 🕉 🙏🏻

  • @CoudyCanvas
    @CoudyCanvas 7 місяців тому

    Yes at times we all go through this! But if once a person manipulated you he will always try that! This is a big red flag! True friends donot hurt. Who could hurt will try multiple times the same things.

  • @Candyhello77
    @Candyhello77 Місяць тому

    Use it or lose it Principle. Be kind.Give up the external control. Use yr power, change yr thoughts.. beliefs.
    Power of the mind is our own

  • @rajendraprasadsharma8807
    @rajendraprasadsharma8807 7 місяців тому +1

    Ok all right🌹🌹❤❤om shanti👏👏

  • @JamalTurdumatova
    @JamalTurdumatova 3 місяці тому

    Love and care

  • @parathuvayalilayurvedaclin2056

    Great thoughts......

  • @shrur3527
    @shrur3527 9 місяців тому +1

    Tq so much ma🙏🙏❤️❤️
    My way of thinking and analysing the situation has changed in a very positive way
    I feel very good listening to your voice especially when i am low
    Keep educating us 🙏🙏❤️❤️
    Very grateful to u🙏🙏❤️❤️