1.don’t gossip 2.dont judge openly 3. Don’t over Exaggerate 4. Don’t take opinions as facts 5. Be true to yourself 6. Have integrity in your words( do what you say 7. Weave love into your words 8. Learn to shapeshift(engage your body while speaking) 9. Do things differently as you do usually 10. Journal 11.our thoughts are not always valid 12.speak with your diaphragm???13. Don’t get monotonous 14. Pace of speech should be slow 15. Don’t use filler speech 16. Warm up your voice and tongue
@@Yourlocal_Vampirelover i don’t mean to press religion on everyone, it’s just that in my religion Christianity spreading the good news or gospel of what we believe is required of every believer. But i’m sorry if i came off in a pushy way💝💝
@@iloverobbie9042 no no, I have no problem with you spreading the gospel as I am Christian myself. It's just we have to keep in mind not everyone is religious due to prior toxic Christians in a way. But continue to spread the gospel ❤️
1. be kinder and set reasonable expectations. give yourself credit. 2. create good habits and keep removing your bad habits. 3. i cannot explain this well as this isn’t something i have a strong belief in. 4-8. this: - avoid using the presentation voice for silly things. - be less judgmental. - be less negative. - stop using hyperbole. - don’t speak of opinions like they’re facts. - be honest - have integrity - put love into your words - engage your body while speaking (shows true honesty) - do things differently than usual - journal - thoughts aren’t the most valid - didn’t understand, sorry - don’t be too monotone - slow pace when talking - don’t use filler speech - warm up the voice and tongue
just stumbled upon your channel, and i felt like its a sign that i need to get out of the toxic mindset cycle i’ve been in for years. been in and out of working on my personal growth, but this is finally my sign to push past this uncomfortable feeling of change!🍀⭐️
These are some good tips for chatting with someone! Especially love the beginning chapter "setting expectations", we really do set extremely high expectations when we start to talk with someone (many times its subconscious), when in fact we should really just start talking with them. nice vid Mae!
Dropped by this video randomly but got hooked. The content and connections make you stay and actually make you understand the topic. I hope you continue with such useful content 😊😊.
To have articulate speaking skills, you should first believe in yourself, say positive affirmations to yourself,then u can use AI to have a small talk; avoid gossip, judge anyone, dont try to exaggerate, stories from anyone can be different, we need to accept cuz the colour also doesn't only have black and white❤
after several head injuries I'v) e had a hard time being confident in my eloquence and writing, now im realizing it is all in my head (lol) I can be helped.
You know what I love your soul the effort you putted in this video is a SAVIOR act making me feel confident enough to engage in such a way I LOVE YOU FOR THAT love😭😭🙏❤
mae and thewizardliz are both carrying the light of truth in this world. Nearly everything you said parallels and is exactly what I have learned as well which means that we must be doing something right. Love the concept of neuroplasticity.
I love this channel. It is full of excellent information and doesn't meander to draw out watch times or spend the whole video trying to sell us things. I've really enjoyed watching every video, and it brought me out of my "conditioning" and got me back on track.
Thank you thank you! I have a hard time expressing myself and talking efficiently for what I want to say, versus what I actually say lol. I really appreciate this!!
I rarely even use youtube unless im listening to an audiobook or watching a music video but, I am so happy I stumbled across your channel! Really great advices with tangible explanations!
This is exactly what I needed Mae. Omg like spot on. I used to have 3 jobs (customer service and I was a supervisor while juggling school for nursing😭😭)and my communication skills were top tier. But after working a year of introverted job I sorta lost that ability and needed this video so much ily ily ily.
I am very grateful for your videos cause every morning I start my day with your videos now I can’t afford therapist so instead I listen to you you are like my sister
i just found your channel, it’s only been 2 minutes but i already know i’m in love w you & your videos! thank you for dropping all these life gems i’ve got hours of level ups! ❤
Thank you so much for your videos, they give me so much confidence and it’s really nice to see your inputs on these topics, especially since I relate to your journey so much myself.
In fact 🤓☝️ expressing ourselves in another language releases stress and makes us be more confident as we speak, so if you struggle talking abt your emotions in your mother tonge journaling in other language is a good option it has work for me¡!
I'm not good with people by a long shot, but one thing I've noticed is that you should monitor the emphasis of words you use. If you always use dramatic words like 'absolutely,' you can lose dramatic emphasis in times you need it because you condition people to expect that from you.
learned a lot in this video, also found ways to relate lkike your customer service experience. I find that I am a rather anxious individual outside of work , however while working I lose most if not all sense of anxiousness or nerrvousness while speaking. Lots to digest.
Honestly?- life's not about "being ahead of the game". No one is competing against anyone , we are all sojourners.. fellow-comrades, one big family on earth, come from one BIG SOURCE that is full of LOVE, POWER AND ABUNDANCE! There's no competition! We are all just meant to enjoy this beautiful , exhilarating, "physical " adventure, which we call 'life' alongside each other and do so by recalling to our memory who we REALLY are - we are POWERFUL, magnificent, ABUNDANT "conscious creators". And we are all ONE at our core having different physical expressions, we are not separate in true sense. So, there's no one to get ahead of really. Rather, to just create beautiful things for our individual, beautiful expressions. This has been my greatest revelation in life, so grateful!! 🥰🥰🥰
Glad this showed up in my recommendation I literally lost my communication skills because of the ppl I started surrounding myself with, they made me feel unheard that’s why I just stopped talking and gradually I lost the ability to hold a conversation and I started becoming awkward I also sounds like I’m muttering rubbish words while speaking thats why they cant hear it:((
Thank you for such a helpful video. I have Asberger’s syndrome and difficulty with finding words and knowing when to speak. But I have high intelligence, so it gets frustrating because people often project that I don’t have confidence. This is a work in progress it’s not my easiest skill lol.
I just came across your channel and I just wanted to say that I resonated with everything you said, thanks for your advice and keep going with your channel! Also pls post a makeup tutorial bc you look amazing girl!!💗
Just ignore all the astrology bs and just focus on the key points of the topic of this video. Don't have to agree with everything she or anyone else says.
I'll say this skill is only as good as the message you're delivering. Can't tell you how many egomaniacs I've run into who can smooth talk their way into anything but it's of no substance in that it's only for them to hear how cool they are out loud lol.
I would love to work with you one day! I have friends who calls me crazy for using our astro chart to make some decisions but you're the first one to have the same theory as me. I am currently working on trying to introduce something similar to astro chart but its from the asian culture that's been around for thousands of years
“She was saying that humans may be easily provoked by the simple use of language. Because language is frequently misused to create conflict or war. She believes that humans are unsuitable as language users.”
Affirmations work. When you start telling yourself something that feels like it isn’t true.. for example if you feel unhappy with yourself start affirming that you are that.. for example if your inner voice says you are ugly.. rewrite that and say to yourself intentionally I am beautiful. It will be silly and be very difficult to say that bc you don’t believe that but keep at it.. everyday on the way to and from work or school. Overtime you will rewire your brain and you will start feel beautiful and most likely will take steps to improve your look and also inner happiness reflects outward.
for anyone who isn't sure, the Einstein quote she's referring to is "doing the same thing over and over again while expecting different results is insanity" this is not verbatim though.
This is my first time coming across your channel and I just wanted to say you're very elegant upon first impression. It's also really easy to see that you love what you're talking about and I think that enticed me to stay and watch the whole video⭐⭐you're excellent
I've noticed a big difference in my cognition, focus, mood etc from taking Tria Alchemy products the past few years… There are a couple that have the neuroplasticity properties along with pineal gland support etc.. pretty awesome stuff!
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I guess my phone heard that awkward conversation i had earlier
SAMEE
LMAO
Haha sameee
FOR REAL
Same 😭😭
1.don’t gossip 2.dont judge openly 3. Don’t over Exaggerate 4. Don’t take opinions as facts 5. Be true to yourself 6. Have integrity in your words( do what you say 7. Weave love into your words 8. Learn to shapeshift(engage your body while speaking) 9. Do things differently as you do usually 10. Journal 11.our thoughts are not always valid 12.speak with your diaphragm???13. Don’t get monotonous 14. Pace of speech should be slow 15. Don’t use filler speech 16. Warm up your voice and tongue
Looks like someone watches TED talks
17. Be with the Lord our God❤
@@iloverobbie9042remember not everyone is religious
@@Yourlocal_Vampirelover i don’t mean to press religion on everyone, it’s just that in my religion Christianity spreading the good news or gospel of what we believe is required of every believer. But i’m sorry if i came off in a pushy way💝💝
@@iloverobbie9042 no no, I have no problem with you spreading the gospel as I am Christian myself. It's just we have to keep in mind not everyone is religious due to prior toxic Christians in a way. But continue to spread the gospel ❤️
once i learn to stop stuttering it's over for yall
Honestly 😂😂😂
realest💯💯
🤣🤣🤣 its the end game
lmao fr
Same here
fellow introverts, we meet again
hello mate!
😂😂😂😂
heheh
hello (shy)
lmao being an introvert is so goddamn hard 😭😭😭
I'M REALLY SHOCKED WITH THIS TIMING! THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR!!. thanks Mae😭🔥
yay💜!
The universe
Same for me girl!!
Me too 🥺💜
Omg same ❤😂
I love that we are all growing together 💞
we have a lovely community here ☺️🤍
1. be kinder and set reasonable expectations. give yourself credit.
2. create good habits and keep removing your bad habits.
3. i cannot explain this well as this isn’t something i have a strong belief in.
4-8. this:
- avoid using the presentation voice for silly things.
- be less judgmental.
- be less negative.
- stop using hyperbole.
- don’t speak of opinions like they’re facts.
- be honest
- have integrity
- put love into your words
- engage your body while speaking (shows true honesty)
- do things differently than usual
- journal
- thoughts aren’t the most valid
- didn’t understand, sorry
- don’t be too monotone
- slow pace when talking
- don’t use filler speech
- warm up the voice and tongue
Hi I'm from Nigeria I just want to say Thank you so much ♥️
You're an angel!!
Your timing is perfect.
You know exactly what we need.
i love this for school, i used to stutter and fumble over my thoughts while speaking to someone who is being hostile towards me.
i hate that, how is it so far
just stumbled upon your channel, and i felt like its a sign that i need to get out of the toxic mindset cycle i’ve been in for years.
been in and out of working on my personal growth, but this is finally my sign to push past this uncomfortable feeling of change!🍀⭐️
CONGRATS ON REACHING 100K SUBSCRIBERS 💖
thank you!🙏
This is one of the most informative, no bs videos on communication that I have seen in a while, tysm for sharing your insights!
English isn't my mother tongue, and i am trying to improve my speaking skills.This is really helpful, thank you, 🙏🏻
These are some good tips for chatting with someone! Especially love the beginning chapter "setting expectations", we really do set extremely high expectations when we start to talk with someone (many times its subconscious), when in fact we should really just start talking with them. nice vid Mae!
Dropped by this video randomly but got hooked. The content and connections make you stay and actually make you understand the topic. I hope you continue with such useful content 😊😊.
To have articulate speaking skills, you should first believe in yourself, say positive affirmations to yourself,then u can use AI to have a small talk; avoid gossip, judge anyone, dont try to exaggerate, stories from anyone can be different, we need to accept cuz the colour also doesn't only have black and white❤
She’s gooooooddd at what she does, amazing!
never hesitate. if you gonna speak, speak clear or they will ignore you.
after several head injuries I'v) e had a hard time being confident in my eloquence and writing, now im realizing it is all in my head (lol) I can be helped.
I think you're very well spoken and insightful. Your words resonate with me ❤
You know what I love your soul the effort you putted in this video is a SAVIOR act making me feel confident enough to engage in such a way I LOVE YOU FOR THAT love😭😭🙏❤
mae and thewizardliz are both carrying the light of truth in this world. Nearly everything you said parallels and is exactly what I have learned as well which means that we must be doing something right. Love the concept of neuroplasticity.
this is actually something i really needed 😵💫
ALSO CONGRATS ON 100K ITS VERY WELL DESERVED!!
Girl your cat is so cute and thank for telling me I needed this
I love this channel. It is full of excellent information and doesn't meander to draw out watch times or spend the whole video trying to sell us things. I've really enjoyed watching every video, and it brought me out of my "conditioning" and got me back on track.
Your videos are helping me improve on my self and I want to thank you.
whaattt u can donate on youtube now that's crazy
im happy it helps you! :)
Wow!!!! Your subscribers are growing really fast!!! You deserve it!!! Keep inspiring and influencing us to be the best version of us!!!
"You're more smarter than you think". I personally felt it
I love how she added subtitles too bcz I can't understand English when I hear so subtitles helps me😂💗
CONGRATULATIONS ON 100K !!! ❤❤❤❤ LOVE YOU
Thank you thank you! I have a hard time expressing myself and talking efficiently for what I want to say, versus what I actually say lol. I really appreciate this!!
I rarely even use youtube unless im listening to an audiobook or watching a music video but, I am so happy I stumbled across your channel! Really great advices with tangible explanations!
omg when i edit podcast eps and hear all the “likes” it’s SO annoying this video is perfect timing😭
This is exactly what I needed Mae. Omg like spot on. I used to have 3 jobs (customer service and I was a supervisor while juggling school for nursing😭😭)and my communication skills were top tier. But after working a year of introverted job I sorta lost that ability and needed this video so much ily ily ily.
this is the most beautiful human i’ve ever seen
I seen better(yes you asked)
truly
@@apparition149no. they didn’t
I don’t talk so much it actually feels like my brain is forgetting English some times, thank you for this❤
Congrats on exactly 100 k subscribers!! Also thanks for this video, it came at the perfect time as I am trying to work on this =)
I was looking for this just before school starts
is it just me or u look like beabadoobee
She does, I see it yes 😭
That was my first thought 😭
I am very grateful for your videos cause every morning I start my day with your videos now I can’t afford therapist so instead I listen to you you are like my sister
the cat sleeping in the background ❤0:32
after I noticed your comment, I cannot concentrate anything but the cutie cat 😂😂😂😂
First time watching her the intro definitely was made smartly!! It’s ear catching Thanks
Communication can be simple but language can be complex periodt ✨🎀
i just found your channel, it’s only been 2 minutes but i already know i’m in love w you & your videos! thank you for dropping all these life gems i’ve got hours of level ups! ❤
Mae!! Congratz on reaching 100k!! YOU DID IT!!
Thank you so much for your videos, they give me so much confidence and it’s really nice to see your inputs on these topics, especially since I relate to your journey so much myself.
Let it out. If you store it up, you are a ticking time-bomb. Just release emotions as they pass. Express yourself.
In fact 🤓☝️ expressing ourselves in another language releases stress and makes us be more confident as we speak, so if you struggle talking abt your emotions in your mother tonge journaling in other language is a good option it has work for me¡!
I have an interview tomorrow so this is really helpful!
How did it go ?
Love the way you put across everything you want to say, more power to you Mae❤
I'm not good with people by a long shot, but one thing I've noticed is that you should monitor the emphasis of words you use. If you always use dramatic words like 'absolutely,' you can lose dramatic emphasis in times you need it because you condition people to expect that from you.
learned a lot in this video, also found ways to relate lkike your customer service experience. I find that I am a rather anxious individual outside of work , however while working I lose most if not all sense of anxiousness or nerrvousness while speaking. Lots to digest.
youre truly an inspiration !!! thank you Mae :)
your channel is exploding. very happy for you!
Honestly?- life's not about "being ahead of the game". No one is competing against anyone , we are all sojourners.. fellow-comrades, one big family on earth, come from one BIG SOURCE that is full of LOVE, POWER AND ABUNDANCE! There's no competition! We are all just meant to enjoy this beautiful , exhilarating, "physical " adventure, which we call 'life' alongside each other and do so by recalling to our memory who we REALLY are - we are POWERFUL, magnificent, ABUNDANT "conscious creators". And we are all ONE at our core having different physical expressions, we are not separate in true sense. So, there's no one to get ahead of really. Rather, to just create beautiful things for our individual, beautiful expressions. This has been my greatest revelation in life, so grateful!! 🥰🥰🥰
i need you on spotify 😩
Glad this showed up in my recommendation I literally lost my communication skills because of the ppl I started surrounding myself with, they made me feel unheard that’s why I just stopped talking and gradually I lost the ability to hold a conversation and I started becoming awkward I also sounds like I’m muttering rubbish words while speaking thats why they cant hear it:((
I was just thinking about how to better the way I talk and then I SAW YOUR VIDEO
MOTHERR THANK YOU
Thank you for such a helpful video. I have Asberger’s syndrome and difficulty with finding words and knowing when to speak. But I have high intelligence, so it gets frustrating because people often project that I don’t have confidence. This is a work in progress it’s not my easiest skill lol.
U made me cry and motivated me too thank you 😭😭 gonna watch this whenever I feel low 😭
I just came across your channel and I just wanted to say that I resonated with everything you said, thanks for your advice and keep going with your channel! Also pls post a makeup tutorial bc you look amazing girl!!💗
I was hooked but she lost me when she started talking about astrology
Lost all her credibility with one word
Just ignore all the astrology bs and just focus on the key points of the topic of this video. Don't have to agree with everything she or anyone else says.
What a refreshing voice on UA-cam ✨
I'll say this skill is only as good as the message you're delivering. Can't tell you how many egomaniacs I've run into who can smooth talk their way into anything but it's of no substance in that it's only for them to hear how cool they are out loud lol.
this comment is so spot on
I would love to work with you one day! I have friends who calls me crazy for using our astro chart to make some decisions but you're the first one to have the same theory as me. I am currently working on trying to introduce something similar to astro chart but its from the asian culture that's been around for thousands of years
Congratulations for 100k subscriber ❤
My mercury is in cancer too! You are so inspiring 🤩🤩🤩
Congratulations for 100k!
i needed this badly THANKK YOU SO MUCH
DAYM HER VOICE IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOA
“She was saying that humans may be easily provoked by the simple use of language. Because language is frequently misused to create conflict or war. She believes that humans are unsuitable as language users.”
Affirmations work. When you start telling yourself something that feels like it isn’t true.. for example if you feel unhappy with yourself start affirming that you are that.. for example if your inner voice says you are ugly.. rewrite that and say to yourself intentionally I am beautiful. It will be silly and be very difficult to say that bc you don’t believe that but keep at it.. everyday on the way to and from work or school. Overtime you will rewire your brain and you will start feel beautiful and most likely will take steps to improve your look and also inner happiness reflects outward.
i watched a video on this topic and i actually wished you were the one making it! and what do you know :3
Love your channel, and congrats for reaching 100K subs 💗💗💗
this timing is crazy
Tips to train your brain while speaking: practice speaking in front of mirror, try to move your body in relaxation way, notice your postures ❤
You are very interesting human to listen to mae. I love your vibe. Please make more videos on social confidence and improving conversational skills
Thank you so much!!! I just found your channel and I love it. 😍
Congratulations Mae 🎉 on 100k 😊
please create a podcast channel!! I need more of this!!
Hii Mae this video is so helpful thank you for sharing your knowledge !! I’ll make sure to give Astra a try 😊
great video, gonna check more content of yours pretty soon. much love from Brazil ❤
This was super insightful.. thank you
Thank you universe for sending me this video
for anyone who isn't sure, the Einstein quote she's referring to is "doing the same thing over and over again while expecting different results is insanity" this is not verbatim though.
this vid felt like an ad
THANNNNKK YOU SO MUCH G ❤YOU ARE SUCH A SAINT
cant even focus properely u so pretty
i like ur vibe so muchhh girlll
Keep it up Mae! So happy for you.
You’re channel is blowing up
THE MORE YOU DO IT THE MORE YOU'RE GONNA GET THERE
You look so much like Innah Bee!❤️
I love your videos so much thankyou!
Omg you would look so good and powerful with chin length hair! You are really beautiful 🫶🏻✨
2:15 I do indeed adore your vibe so far 😂
This is my first time coming across your channel and I just wanted to say you're very elegant upon first impression. It's also really easy to see that you love what you're talking about and I think that enticed me to stay and watch the whole video⭐⭐you're excellent
I've noticed a big difference in my cognition, focus, mood etc from taking Tria Alchemy products the past few years… There are a couple that have the neuroplasticity properties along with pineal gland support etc.. pretty awesome stuff!
Congrats on 100k
Nice
Congratulations for reaching 100k subs!! 🎉