Give me 8 minutes, and I'll improve your communication skills by 88%...

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  • @loumovies2004
    @loumovies2004 2 місяці тому +9484

    "Don´t try to attract, but try to connect!" Great advice!

    • @Tine_dondo
      @Tine_dondo 2 місяці тому +51

      Reminds me of one of my friends, he tries to attract people to be friends with him by doing what they do, basically peer pressure

    • @kingretro2360
      @kingretro2360 2 місяці тому +9

      Fr I'm going to write that down

    • @Jayhuntman-n3c
      @Jayhuntman-n3c 2 місяці тому +2

      indeed

    • @UR_Cri5tiano
      @UR_Cri5tiano 2 місяці тому

      This literally helped me , thank you

    • @tongobong1
      @tongobong1 Місяць тому +5

      Even better is to just silently give her love. If she takes it then it is great and if she returns it then it is even better.

  • @Strokeboi123
    @Strokeboi123 2 місяці тому +10182

    Bro never stop at helping this generation

    • @Tarunuknowbitch
      @Tarunuknowbitch 2 місяці тому +205

      Indian detected😂😂

    • @Goosboi
      @Goosboi 2 місяці тому

      @@Tarunuknowbitch 🤣😂

    • @Serenity1.0_
      @Serenity1.0_ 2 місяці тому +105

      ​@@Tarunuknowbitchthat's right.. we are indians

    • @Danielking-d2m
      @Danielking-d2m 2 місяці тому

      @@Tarunuknowbitch mf what?

    • @Tarunuknowbitch
      @Tarunuknowbitch 2 місяці тому +24

      @@Serenity1.0_ ikr🤣😅

  • @notyourmommy
    @notyourmommy 2 місяці тому +4804

    1. Intention must be not to validate yourself
    2.Books to improve vocabulary
    3. Improving looks to improve confidence
    4. Speaking on camera

    • @antoniogr8600
      @antoniogr8600 2 місяці тому +14

      This said 8 days ago from now just hits

    • @Crazedfolk
      @Crazedfolk 2 місяці тому +52

      Saved me 7 mins ty

    • @Jayhuntman-n3c
      @Jayhuntman-n3c 2 місяці тому +4

      easy peasy lemon squesay yet i aint got a phone, ill ask my friend then.

    • @user-ne3hi3hw2i
      @user-ne3hi3hw2i 2 місяці тому +35

      @@Crazedfolk you can’t even watch an informational 7 minute video

    • @Crazedfolk
      @Crazedfolk 2 місяці тому +8

      @user-ne3hi3hw2i it's not informational lmao it's only tips for communication skills chill. it ain't as deep as you think it is.

  • @godxmessi
    @godxmessi Місяць тому +1405

    I'm leaving this comment so that when anyone replies or likes it, I can come back to this video when I have a lot of anxiety or less confidence.

    • @SenkuSun
      @SenkuSun Місяць тому +2

      👀

    • @secession.rixiik
      @secession.rixiik Місяць тому +8

      Come here bruhh it's time to watch this video again 😅

    • @Pulse_Eska
      @Pulse_Eska Місяць тому +1

      ✌️

    • @CrazyMan-qs4so
      @CrazyMan-qs4so 29 днів тому +1

    • @sorkinquinzel
      @sorkinquinzel 26 днів тому +6

      what a way to farm likes. hey, it's my opinion and you can disagree with it or just respect my opinion, but don't share it.

  • @426F6F
    @426F6F 2 місяці тому +77

    I completely agree. The more calm and collected you are and the more confident you feel, the greater your ability will be to communicate effectively.

  • @PoorlyCroppedVenomshankImage
    @PoorlyCroppedVenomshankImage 2 місяці тому +5721

    he doesn't GIVE people inspiration, he IS inspiration.

    • @Sivaji_E.R
      @Sivaji_E.R 2 місяці тому +74

      I'm not IN danger Skyler, I AM the danger

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +262

      You attract what you are 👊❤️

    • @Baxterandbro
      @Baxterandbro 2 місяці тому +4

      True

    • @ITSMONA7777
      @ITSMONA7777 2 місяці тому +2

      real

    • @FrenchInHarvestTF2
      @FrenchInHarvestTF2 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@Sivaji_E.R it is actally: i am not in danger skyler, I AM THE DANGER

  • @TigerBro8
    @TigerBro8 2 місяці тому +3322

    1. Intention creates tension
    2. Read books (specially the one who improves your future)
    3. Improve your overall appearance (for confidence)

    • @mr.p1759
      @mr.p1759 2 місяці тому +112

      Third one I can relate with the most, i started exercising and did skin care and was starting to see results and was gaining more confidence but at some point stopped and i feel like I am losing confidence, definitely gotta pull myself together now

    • @dasshrs
      @dasshrs 2 місяці тому +101

      4.Speak on camera

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +138

      W Tiger

    • @mustangcody
      @mustangcody 2 місяці тому +8

      Recommendations for 2?

    • @gouthamkrishna3021
      @gouthamkrishna3021 2 місяці тому +12

      ​@@mustangcody Atomic Habits,The Subtle Art of Not giving a F...k.

  • @laraineely7536
    @laraineely7536 2 місяці тому +1201

    Recap
    Core idea: anxiety creates blockage to communication
    1) When meeting someone new, try to share and connect your hobbies, passions, life style, etc with them instead of just trying to attract them
    2) Read books 30-60 minutes a day to improve vocabulary, you need to know a base number of words to express yourself clearly
    3) Improve your appearance and health, it makes you confident and people will want to talk with you naturally
    4) Talk to yourself on camera 10 minutes a day, make videos on things you're interested in or to share your knowledge

    • @Deepanshucantcommunicate
      @Deepanshucantcommunicate 2 місяці тому +8

      Thank you u really summed it up while also adding some tips

    • @Enthusiastic_247
      @Enthusiastic_247 2 місяці тому +4

      That's great 👍

    • @Mesanjii
      @Mesanjii 2 місяці тому +3

      perfect, thank you

    • @wolfkash6826
      @wolfkash6826 Місяць тому +3

      thanks for saving my 8 minutes of life time

    • @ExacoMvm
      @ExacoMvm 19 днів тому +1

      1) Check
      2) Check
      3) For that I need around $80K+. Jawline/chin surgery which is not only for apperance but potential cure for sleep apnea and eliminating nasal speech and fixing my teeth by full-mouth extraction and prosthetic replacement and I'm only 30yo.
      4) Not all ppl can do this, because it's a skill that needs to be developed. I once tried to record an unboxing and I failed miserably, my voice, the way I talk, the body language was way off almost as if I was drugged or something. There's just some mental barrier trying to talk to yourself in a mirror or on camera.

  • @AliYassinToma
    @AliYassinToma 6 днів тому +12

    After watching this video, I was reminded of how much I dislike speaking. It's not that my communication skills are not good, it's just that I am an introvert and prefer to avoid talking much unless someone initiates a conversation.

    • @morfx9911
      @morfx9911 17 годин тому

      If you dislike speaking that can be something else rating than just being an introvert, maybe there's some shame too

  • @JodieFoster-m5t
    @JodieFoster-m5t 9 днів тому +6

    You work for 40yrs to have $1M in your retirement, meanwhile some people are putting just $10K in crypto from just few months ago and now they are multimillionaire

    • @MarkDaniel-yl6on
      @MarkDaniel-yl6on 9 днів тому

      That's great! I'm motivated too! How can we achieve this challenge?

    • @AmyJones-p2h
      @AmyJones-p2h 9 днів тому

      No specific one really, because there are lots of investment plans and strategies littered all over the internet today, for instance, investments like real estates,gold, drop shipping crypto currency and lots more

    • @ChrisRobot-q9v
      @ChrisRobot-q9v 9 днів тому

      I've heard alot about crypto currency investments and how effective it can grow your income! Any recommendations on a guide?

    • @djeechizzy9818
      @djeechizzy9818 9 днів тому +2

      Warren T. Sonia is an amazing tutor for crypto. Highly recommended! She’s been my Tutor and Mentor for past solid 8years!

    • @djeechizzy9818
      @djeechizzy9818 9 днів тому

      F. A. C. E. B. O. O. K.

  • @VincentPaulS
    @VincentPaulS 2 місяці тому +675

    People ask me all the time how do you know so much, why are you smart, who taught you how to speak, etc. They assume it’s because I went to a fancy university and got a fancy degree, which is true, but has nothing to do with my knowledge or ability to clearly articulate ideas and concepts. The truth is that everything I know and all of my abilities are from reading books. If you want to be smart, read books, if you want to expand your cognitive capacity, read books, if you want to communicate articulately, in clear and concise verbiage, then read books. If you hate reading then start small, just spend 15 minutes a day, every day, and read something that you know you will enjoy. Do you prefer fantasy, sci-fi, or romance? Then pick up one of the many great novels written for that genre. If you do it every day you will eventually get to the point where it is no longer a chore and you will breeze through those 15 minutes and be hungry for more.

    • @JohndoeDoe-q7u
      @JohndoeDoe-q7u 2 місяці тому +11

      Hello my friend I would like to start reading books NOW. Can you recommend like 5 books I am open to wide variety of genres just want to start asap

    • @Thaitanium73
      @Thaitanium73 2 місяці тому +11

      Reading has not helped you with syntax.

    • @somethingaboutthenamejesus2199
      @somethingaboutthenamejesus2199 2 місяці тому +7

      What if you can’t remember what you read ?

    • @Check_Hook
      @Check_Hook Місяць тому +8

      @@JohndoeDoe-q7u
      The power of NOW
      Rich dad Poor dad
      The Psychology of Money
      Can't hurt me
      Laws of Human Nature

    • @nafisachowdhury3687
      @nafisachowdhury3687 Місяць тому +8

      @@somethingaboutthenamejesus2199 annotate. If you’re reading for enjoyment, don’t bother with memory. But if you’re reading educational books or with the intention of improving your communication, then take notes. Highlight words you’d like to use in your daily vocabulary, learn the meaning and pick a few at a time to practice inserting in your vocabulary for the next couple days until it comes to you naturally. If you’re reading for gaining knowledge, again, take notes.

  • @Hustlery
    @Hustlery 2 місяці тому +1219

    I was outgoing as a child, I felt free, happy and in-control, but when high school started everything changed, I developed social anxiety and insecurities, this caused me to have no friends and become a loner. I could never forget the the suffering as it was the worst part of my life. I graduated high school 2 years ago and glad that its finally over, I'm becoming more confident and the people at college are welcoming and easy to get along with.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +112

      Same here brother, I was EXACTLY the same. I have a few close friends though which I have very grateful to have. Keep going brother, be the best you and you'll attract the best out of others ❤

    • @Hustlery
      @Hustlery 2 місяці тому +12

      @@JakPiggott Thank you for the tips and inspiration! you're one in a lifetime individual

    • @Inxvisible
      @Inxvisible 2 місяці тому +12

      Its the same for me currently in highschool and never ever felt worse than here, i cant wait to graduate and meet new people. In highschool i feel like every single person (with exceptions of course) are just fake AF and talk behind your back 🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @captainchaos1741
      @captainchaos1741 2 місяці тому +6

      Holy fck those first few sentences describe how my life was perfectly

    • @64imma
      @64imma 2 місяці тому +5

      I was always a pretty shy kid, and I'd say I started developing anxiety as early as 3rd grade or around 8 years old after getting kind of branded as the weird kid. Looking back, it was probably undiagnosed autism. I think my kindergarten teacher actually said something about it, but my parents refused to listen to her. In retrospect, I'd say the symptoms were very obvious. I remember most of my k-12 experience being a constant stream of being picked on and bullied, and teachers never doing anything about it. They were certainly quick to act when I was doing it, but nobody ever seemed to stand up for me. It's hard to develop confidence and self-love when most people in your life seem to attack you on a daily basis, and the adults who should do something about it rarely, if ever, did. I mean, I'm 29, and I feel like most of my 20s have basically been me trying to play catch up on development most people had completed a long time ago.

  • @ComedyTalks0110
    @ComedyTalks0110 2 місяці тому +75

    4 lessons from the video:-
    1. Change your mindset from attracting the people to connect with the people
    2. Increase your vocabulary for impressive and effective communication
    3. Improve your looks to feel confident
    4. Rehearsal in front of camera at least 10 minutes a day
    Literally speaking I can connect with all these point from my day to day life... Valid points...
    Thanks for sharing.. 🎉🎉🎉

  • @bob-jo6rn
    @bob-jo6rn 20 днів тому +9

    5:59 🤣🤣🤣 keeping that in the video is really cool of you as it showes your only human. It also proves that you are genuine and trying to actually look out for younger people. 📈📈📈

  • @Andy-lj9pr
    @Andy-lj9pr 2 місяці тому +4

    1) Selfless conversation
    2) Read books to expand your ability to express yourself
    3) Self care: haircut, diet, skin care, sleep, meditate
    4) Record yourself speaking or doing things in general and post on social media.

  • @st0rminecraft62
    @st0rminecraft62 2 місяці тому +960

    I can confirm that your level of insecurities DRASTICALLY changes your quality of speech, I’m a high schooler, so I talk to people every day, and I’m often given compliments on my public speaking skills, but any day that I feel my hair looks funny, I have a cough, or my shirt has something wrong with it, it ALL goes down the drain 😂. My ability to explain things drops off a cliff, even though it really shouldn’t. Just remember everyone, YOU are your biggest critic, so just don’t be so hard on yourself and that alone will make you much more confident.

    • @Zavouk
      @Zavouk 2 місяці тому +9

      Inspiring words man. Im in High School as well. Hopefully i sound as suave as you someday

    • @st0rminecraft62
      @st0rminecraft62 2 місяці тому +8

      @@Zavouk Haha thanks, sadly I’d say most of the time I’m anything but suave, but if you just try to be funny and just connect with people, you’ll do well 😁!

  • @MikhailTukachevsky
    @MikhailTukachevsky 2 місяці тому +72

    don't ever, EVER, care what you think other people will think. never let others push you around, and don't mold to others desires. be yourself, and you won't have to suffer through any anxiety about playing a fake persona

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +8

      100%. I wish I could have told this to my younger self

    • @nicolae-alexandruluca7853
      @nicolae-alexandruluca7853 2 місяці тому +2

      You have to act like a fake? Hmmmm, I guess we've all been there at some point or another

    • @carsonhunt4642
      @carsonhunt4642 22 дні тому

      @@nicolae-alexandruluca7853yes op must be a child. Go in for a job interview and act that way and you’ll never hear back. You must learn to play dumb and be likable and mold to what they want.

  • @romankril1640
    @romankril1640 2 місяці тому +121

    1. Intention must be not to validate yourself
    2. Books to improve vocabulary
    3. Improving looks to improve confidence
    4. Speaking on camera
    Thanks for this exciting inspired video!

  • @myteriousguy5670
    @myteriousguy5670 11 днів тому +10

    The title is actually right, after the video, my social skill increased to zero.Shout out to this channel ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @minemastercool9421
    @minemastercool9421 4 дні тому +1

    This video just changed my after 15 years. If I could jump out of my screen and hug this dude I would Thank you so much

  • @henloisiyu
    @henloisiyu 2 місяці тому +691

    The Real Slim Shady is now straying away from breaking down people and focusing on building them up. Bravo, Mr. Marshall Mathers!

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +67

      Haha thanks brother 😂❤

    • @WarLightning042
      @WarLightning042 2 місяці тому +3

      What?

    • @jodekoje
      @jodekoje 2 місяці тому +9

      ​@@WarLightning042 I don't know either but it's an Eminem reference

    • @WarLightning042
      @WarLightning042 2 місяці тому

      @@jodekoje I found the koke

    • @ELpacodelosCOJONEs
      @ELpacodelosCOJONEs 2 місяці тому +1

      He is blonde and has the buzz cut, that's the joke

  • @DaReaISaturn
    @DaReaISaturn 2 місяці тому +302

    "God knew i'd be too powerful if I had social skills"

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +24

      😂😂

    • @Mihail-69
      @Mihail-69 2 місяці тому +16

      God knew I will be to powerfull if I had confidence

    • @kenzoetheveganlover4685
      @kenzoetheveganlover4685 2 місяці тому +10

      @@Mihail-69god knows you'll be too powerful if you had a better grammar

    • @vintxge_taetae
      @vintxge_taetae 2 місяці тому +7

      @@kenzoetheveganlover4685God knew you’d be too powerful if you knew “grammar” isn’t singular💀

    • @kenzoetheveganlover4685
      @kenzoetheveganlover4685 2 місяці тому +1

      @@vintxge_taetae guess I'm powerful now

  • @rivalgaming4689
    @rivalgaming4689 2 місяці тому +257

    "because i had built those insecurites my communication skill suffered " damn bro that was eye opening reality

  • @IHaruu_
    @IHaruu_ 2 місяці тому +78

    idk why I cried lol! when u mentioned that fear of judgments is what holding us back it made me sad, I too was extremly judged and outcasted in elementry school era and even my family would judge me so it's very hard to overcome my social anxiety for it has deep roots, I grew with it. it's been like 4-5 years since I first discovered that I have social anxiety and I started working on it since then, I've seen a big proggress and difference but I still can't say that I'm finally free. this video helps a lot, I thought it was a seperated problem, thank you!!

    • @CookieThug
      @CookieThug 2 місяці тому +1

      wow i feel this comment so much

  • @Fabio_TP
    @Fabio_TP 2 місяці тому +23

    I had the same issue, as you, mine got blocked at 17 years old, my confidence exploded when i moved into another country, my clients in my new job started praising me and my job, girls were eating me with their eyes.
    Improve yourself and confidence are the key.
    Now people say i have high ego, my haters, they were used to a no confidence guy.

  • @anicob3480
    @anicob3480 2 місяці тому +139

    I’m 31yrs old and I’ve been working in sales for approximately 12yrs now. This video is absolutely golden. Well done!

  • @orithespirit7295
    @orithespirit7295 2 місяці тому +161

    I really appreciate your video. I am a visual leaner, so i really like this style of yours. Unfortunately, I can't relate much, cuz my blockage is on the genetic level. I am on the spectrum and while those advices can "correct" the issues, they don't necessarily remove it down to the root. I still appreciate your work tho, you can't help me a lot, but you can change others.I am Not thinking of myself as some insignificant little brat, even though my style might seem like it, it just hurts to realize that i will be falling behind, even if it's just one small step in every day live. But hey, still trying to embrace my strengths, recently found gf, and got accepted to uni, so life isn't that bad, still trying to watch your channel, simply because it makes me calm down and just chill even though they don't help much. I am really grateful to be living on the same planet with you.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +86

      You're a legend man, you did not need to do this but it says so much about your character. Keep being the best you every single day, everyone gets a stack of cards at the start of life, some are at a disadvantage but if you're strategic enough you can win the game. Put trust in that brother 👊❤

    • @Muslim-in3nz
      @Muslim-in3nz 2 місяці тому +19

      May allah heal you and guide your heart to Islam. That's the best prayer I can give someone. You look like a really good person. I'm sorry about your autism I know it's really hard.

    • @ohhjah
      @ohhjah 2 місяці тому +8

      @@Muslim-in3nz I hope you find Christ brother. Jesus is the truth and the light. Jesus is God

    • @Muslim-in3nz
      @Muslim-in3nz 2 місяці тому +8

      @@ohhjah thanks for your concern about me, I appreciate it a lot, but islam is the one and only religion

    • @ohhjah
      @ohhjah 2 місяці тому

      @@Muslim-in3nz Its a false religion brother, I pray you find Jesus, the evidence is un deniable.

  • @Acalmman
    @Acalmman 2 місяці тому +26

    "Your intention creates your type of tension"
    I felt this one REALLY, i never wanted to connect with people
    Ever, because i always liked to be alone , but i forced myself to do so
    So i can develop good social skills and be successful...

    • @mateuszkozieja7537
      @mateuszkozieja7537 2 місяці тому +1

      Same bro, looking back at the
      interactions I had with people I can now say that I was focusing too much on my feelings and my well-being ignoring other people's emotions

  • @mineralmizue
    @mineralmizue Місяць тому +2

    this is the type of influencers the younger audience should watch. W vid btw, I learned a lot from this especially I'm in the field where we have to put ourselves out there and this actually helped me instead of school lol,, THANKYOUU !!

  • @jagannathmondal4128
    @jagannathmondal4128 Місяць тому +4

    Just watching any communication video lifts up your confidence a bit at least even if you don't get anything. Yes its true- because you realize that are many people out there just like you.

  • @Sivaji_E.R
    @Sivaji_E.R 2 місяці тому +382

    He's winning life and helping his fellow brothers and sisters too. Road to 1 million in few months. Mark my words ❤

    • @Alexvondark
      @Alexvondark 2 місяці тому +1

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +29

      I have my ups and downs just like the rest of us brother, but thank you ❤️

    • @CVG_Flights
      @CVG_Flights 2 місяці тому +8

      It didn't take a few months!! Congrats on 1m @JakPiggott !!!

    • @Sivaji_E.R
      @Sivaji_E.R 2 місяці тому

      ​Let's goooo🔥💥​@@CVG_Flights

  • @sougamerz_621
    @sougamerz_621 2 місяці тому +17

    Basically the 2 things you need to improve your communication
    1. Confidence
    2. Language Skills
    To improve your confidence, you should improve your skills at certain tasks, improve your appearance, get more fit and start working out
    To improve your language sklils, you should read more books, and practice your english/whatever language you're speaking. Try to socialize a bit more as talking to more people will naturally improve your vocabulary skills

  • @drummernicky3423
    @drummernicky3423 2 місяці тому +156

    Another tip is to understand that when you talk to someone they are not gonna judge you on what your saying and even if they do they will forget in minutes. This applies to many other actions you make and it will help with some of that social anxiety.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +38

      No one's ever thinking about you as much as you think they are ❤

    • @wickedapplecss4872
      @wickedapplecss4872 2 місяці тому +10

      Do you ever go to a party and wake up in the morning feeling bad about a way you acted that seems embarassing in reprospect? A question that was kind of stupid or something you had to ask twice or forgot about someone. Maybe a moment when you got anxious while dancing? Well noone fucking noticed. And even if they are also too much in their own head that they wont remember it anyways.

  • @gabebork
    @gabebork 15 днів тому +5

    "The intention creates your tension" what a great advise!

  • @ralphwbms
    @ralphwbms 14 днів тому +1

    I caught myself smiling many times while watching this as it connects perfectly to my experience.
    And now that I need to communicate daily in a second language, things have become even more blurred.
    You helped me tons! Thanks!

  • @Linkin-2603
    @Linkin-2603 2 місяці тому +693

    I came here for the free advice, not to be reminded that I'm single and 21

    • @Entryy
      @Entryy 2 місяці тому +23

      rope

    • @actionboi05
      @actionboi05 2 місяці тому +9

      ​@@Entryy😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😂😂😂

    • @nicolae-alexandruluca7853
      @nicolae-alexandruluca7853 2 місяці тому +35

      You want advice? Get up from the bed, get out of the house and start training, confidence will come from itself and with it everything that you ever wanted

    • @Linkin-2603
      @Linkin-2603 2 місяці тому +29

      @@nicolae-alexandruluca7853 Funny thing. I actually do go to the gym lol and it has helped. I even matched with a girl about a week ago and convo has been going good

    • @liquidsorrow
      @liquidsorrow 2 місяці тому +1

      It's all good pal we're both in the same boat

  • @Ford-c1q
    @Ford-c1q 2 місяці тому +240

    THIS is what educational videos need to be like, just down to earth dudes teaching something. not heavily edited bullshit

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +36

      I feel you bro, I feel like sometimes when I don't add heaps of edits to my vids that people won't enjoy them, but funny enough the videos that I spend the least amount of time on - people enjoy them the most 😂

    • @vihariii4754
      @vihariii4754 2 місяці тому +5

      Hey ! If you enjoyed these types of videos, there is a youtube channel called jetavanaramaya buddhist monastery and it's about a Buddhist monk who has a whiteboard like this and he speaks about super cool stuff and life improvement! I really enjoy that channel, and i think you would too if you like these types of simple content, one downside is the videos are long about 2 hours, but they're super interesting and they help me learn so much about life. Thank you

  • @ackerman__levi
    @ackerman__levi 2 місяці тому +8

    Point of this video:
    1. Read more books
    2. Talk in front of the camera at least 10 min daily
    Thank me later.

  • @phanhuOngLt7
    @phanhuOngLt7 13 днів тому +1865

    The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Mareska Manipulation on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

    • @tanmay1807
      @tanmay1807 12 днів тому

      Where can i find that book

    • @ericadams3756
      @ericadams3756 12 днів тому

      @@tanmay1807 on vexoner

    • @danijel6832
      @danijel6832 12 днів тому

      ​@@tanmay1807I read it, it's on vexoner and it's interesting. I would recommend

    • @danijel6832
      @danijel6832 12 днів тому

      ​​@@tanmay1807i read it, it's on vexoner and it's interesting. I would recommend

    • @danijel6832
      @danijel6832 12 днів тому

      ​@@tanmay1807I read it, it's on vexoner and it's interesting. I would recommend

  • @mugdhashrivastava
    @mugdhashrivastava Місяць тому +5

    i have interview tomorrow and i was all over place, fear of rejection, nervewreck , overwhelmed. I clicked on video to perform better in interview communication wise but when you talked about having just pure intention I realised my task is just and just to give my 100% and probably learn if not accepted and to comprehend my knowledge better why I have this gunk of rejection already. After watching this I have new perspective and all my anxiety just disappeared. I only need to focus on myself and my intentions rest is up to them. I am so glad I clicked this video. Thank you so much 🥺🥺

    • @Yasminijhum
      @Yasminijhum Місяць тому

      How was it going buddy?

    • @mugdhashrivastava
      @mugdhashrivastava Місяць тому +2

      @@Yasminijhum I got rejected but I learned what to improve and it was an experience

  • @FireflamesMc
    @FireflamesMc 2 місяці тому +13

    5:57 I love how he shows his imperfection here, it really shows how human we are!
    It's okay to not be perfect

  • @ch0mpp327
    @ch0mpp327 2 місяці тому +33

    In elementary school I got "bullied" for my looks, these days people compliment me and say I look good, but still I can't leave what happend back then and it always haunts me. No matter how many compliments I get my confidence just stays the same because I doubt if they are even real.
    Great video, thanks

    • @Mihail-69
      @Mihail-69 2 місяці тому +3

      I feel that,I used to get called ,,Autist,, ,,Retarded,, and other bad things just because Im too calm(Im fighting myself to not lose my control because of anger).I have zero confidence and when I try to talk I remember these horible moments when everyone was against me while I was trying to talk. All I wanted was peace and all I got was suffering.

    • @sheazoom
      @sheazoom 2 місяці тому +2

      Sounds to me as if there could be guilt involved. For example when kids only get rejection from their parents when they talk to them or want something from them, want to show them sth etc. basically what happens is that just for being themselves - they develop "false guilt" for having a personality that has own interests. Because the parents only punished them for their individuality - later in life every time when this urge arises to express themselves from the bottom of their hearts they partly feel like crap. That is the false guilt for being alive and vibrant and strong, having own interests or being confident. So they cant live their lives fully and they might not think that they are unwothy of a good life but because of how the parents conditioned their nerveous system, they will often have this unconscious drive to put themselves down.
      Maybe that is what happens to you. Just make sure you would wish every person alive to be confident and happy with themselves and to go out strong and good looking and allow yourself too.

  • @rozan622
    @rozan622 2 місяці тому +8

    Love your videos bro
    I’m just done being depressed
    Watched 5 of your videos and I’m gonna be better person soon
    Loads of love ❤

  • @JuhoSprite
    @JuhoSprite 15 днів тому +5

    7:30 "add a zero on top of that 4" ruthless 😭😭😭

  • @lynic-0091
    @lynic-0091 2 дні тому +1

    This video is a gem.

  • @petru7696
    @petru7696 2 місяці тому +6

    An advice I often hear from people of age who passed through life is to care less, or better say, don't give a f about it. The idea is to still be connected to the world around you but don't let the ideas of the people influence you because the thoughts will overwhelm you so you either care less or live a stressful life.

  • @plane2232
    @plane2232 2 місяці тому +28

    Hey jack i know you're not going to see this but i just wanted to let you know that you've changed my life completely man. You have one of the most unique and best advices ive heard and i'm just so grateful that i found you bro. Keep up the good stuff man. Much love from Sydney ❤

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +8

      Nah man don’t doubt it, I read as many comments as I can, you should be immensely proud of yourself brother ❤️

  • @TwilightSagaCullen
    @TwilightSagaCullen 2 місяці тому +246

    0:56 so cute 😂
    *Read a thousand books and your words will flow like a river*
    -Lisa See

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +21

      Ayeee I love that quote

    • @nicolae-alexandruluca7853
      @nicolae-alexandruluca7853 2 місяці тому +4

      I have read one book in my entire life and honestly it's not always books that are the root of improving yourself in every way possible but listening to others especially cult people, the kind of peoe who have lived through constant learning and improving themselves to be the best they can be

    • @RichardDark
      @RichardDark 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@nicolae-alexandruluca7853 Relatable

    • @seppuku-
      @seppuku- 2 місяці тому

      @@nicolae-alexandruluca7853Nah bro all it takes is one good book to change your life and i’ll forever stand by that. Check out Lonesome Dove or 11/22/63, reading in school sucks and that’s coming from an avid reader. Reading for enjoyment outside of school is a completely different thing, just trust me man I have no reason to tell you BS.

  • @HoangTuongNguyenDang
    @HoangTuongNguyenDang 18 днів тому

    Lí do chúng ta hạn chế khả năng giao tiếp: cứng họng vì sợ đánh giá, thiếu tự tin (phong thái), quá ép buộc bản thân. Các yếu tố trên càng nhiều càng ảnh hưởng.
    Hướng giải quyết:
    1. Là chính mình & đôi khi đừng quan trọng hoá vấn đề quá (the intention makes tension). Ví dụ nếu muốn tán gái, thay vì cố gắng tỏ ra thu hút thì chúng ta nói chuyện như 1 ng bạn và tìm cách kết nối, bản chất là nói những thứ người khác muốn nghe
    2. Đọc sách để cải thiện tư duy ngôn ngữ. Chọn cuốn sách giao tiếp và lựa chọn các từ thấy hợp lí ko quá màu mè đẻ ứng dụng trong cuộc trò chuyện
    3. Ngoại hình ảnh hưởng tới phong thái tự tin. Khi bạn ăn uống đầy đủ, chăm sóc cơ thể mình tốt thì bạn cảm thấy tốt về bản thân, tự khắc bạn sẽ tự tin
    4. Luyện thói quen nói chuyện, kể cả độc thoại. Ví dụ, dành ra 5-10’ mỗi ngày quay video kể về cuộc sống thường ngày của bạn với từ ngữ theo cách bạn muốn truyền đạt

  • @Psoewish
    @Psoewish Місяць тому +3

    You could re film this exact video with the exact same points, but in the framework of literally any other self improvement end goal, and it would still be fantastic. This isn't just good communication advice, this is great life advice.

  • @Thatguy-cs8mv
    @Thatguy-cs8mv 2 місяці тому +13

    Can never relate better. I was a very mid looking teenager, still am. But when I appeared more on stage and showing my face in a lot of places, connecting and communicating with people, the quality of life just went 1000x better. My friends started to ask (mock) me 'how are you pulling girls?'. It even came from a point of attracting 0 girls to now avoiding unwanted attention from them, got placed before everyone with a really low grade... stepping out of my insecurities and being a communicator really paid off.

  • @sanskarmavai51
    @sanskarmavai51 2 місяці тому +73

    1:08 absolute chad

  • @aitry_0110
    @aitry_0110 2 місяці тому +5

    Thank you, bro. I've been struggling with communication as I am growing up. As a girly who is very insecure with her looks and speaking skills, I want to change all over the years. This video is a perfect timing for me to see.

  • @jdmes4586
    @jdmes4586 10 днів тому +1

    Condensed instructions for myself and others. First address the root cause blocking yourself from being a good communicator (e.g. anxiety)
    To improve your communication quality:
    1. Be mindful of the intention behind why you speak (connect vs. attract)
    2. Read books (enhances vocabulary/mentally rehearses speech)
    - Highlight 1-2 words/phrases you heard before but haven’t been using.
    3. Improving overall appearance (improves self-image and confidence)
    - Nicely fitting clothes, hair cuts/styling, skin care
    - Better sleep and clean diet also improves how you feel
    4. Practice speaking on camera (watch it to identify areas of improvement)
    - E.g. Document your life everyday (video journal)
    Good luck everyone :)

  • @PagesOfPoem
    @PagesOfPoem 12 днів тому +1

    I read Books on programming 24/7 and it has made my data exchange process has got worse.

  • @SeitzSilvio
    @SeitzSilvio 2 місяці тому +7

    Really appreciate that you’re just helping people not trying to sell us anything.

  • @rofler3270
    @rofler3270 2 місяці тому +4

    The moment about connecting with people instead of aiming for validation from them - teared me up. I realised that that's my main problem, because of my insecurities and mental problems, i often look at people as a source of validation, which is obviously repulsive. Im gonna work on that, thanks man.

  • @Typical-Golfer
    @Typical-Golfer 2 місяці тому +31

    Enjoy your life to the fullest no matter what circumstances there are , cause at some point we will regret what we have not tried when we could.

    • @buttercup86900
      @buttercup86900 2 місяці тому

      I'm being abused by my psychopathic sister and sociopathic sister :(( it's hard to enjoy my life

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +8

      Embarrassment lasts a moment, regret will last you a lifetime

  • @prodbyJxttt
    @prodbyJxttt Місяць тому +1

    Your gonna be a great father when you grow up an you can be a great father figure for this generation by teaching us these mandatory lessons and im just 13 so thank you brother.

  • @tahamushtaq1579
    @tahamushtaq1579 Місяць тому

    i am watching your video for the first time and i have gotta say i am truly impressed. You have such a calm and composed tone while speaking and on top of that you use the most compatible non verbal cues. I can also relate to the part where you develop insecurities and anxiety and it messes up a lot more than just communication. Thanks for the great advices.

  • @Dinosalmon14
    @Dinosalmon14 2 місяці тому +30

    Thank you, Jak. You dont know how much you have helped me in the past 4 months. I am happier. I am more concentrated and productive. You are a blessing. Keep doing what you do.

    • @pixelio01
      @pixelio01 2 місяці тому +2

      so true

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +4

      Thank you for sharing this man, much love ❤

  • @aaaaa-p5t
    @aaaaa-p5t 2 місяці тому +4

    The most positive dude on the internet. I love your content.

  • @kocajjonathan
    @kocajjonathan 2 місяці тому +9

    I totally sympathize with the logic in this video. I talk with a few of my best friends and I have trouble speaking at times, and the reasons contributing to this video shows exactly why. Thank you!

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +1

      Hope this can help brother ❤

  • @aliyuwali4923
    @aliyuwali4923 15 днів тому +2

    Been a while since I clicked on any of your videos, did'nt realize how much I missed your vibe.

  • @rajjasoliya9147
    @rajjasoliya9147 25 днів тому +1

    Bro this is insanely best video I've ever watched on communication. Salute man
    Thanks and lots of love from India my brother 🇮🇳 ♥🙌

  • @C2X01
    @C2X01 2 місяці тому +5

    Thanks bro I’ve just started UA-cam and I find talking quite hard on camera but I’ve seen you’re journey and I believe in myself

  • @GeriatricGuitarist
    @GeriatricGuitarist Місяць тому +4

    This man was not alive when my first son was born and I’m watching his video on how to be a better communicator. You can never be too old to be taught and you can never be too young to teach.

  • @santirosas
    @santirosas 2 місяці тому +5

    Just be your self, but for that You have to know yourself, start there😉

  • @jonathanrubi7174
    @jonathanrubi7174 15 днів тому

    I love how he didn't cut off the part when he was trying to recall a word, which shows even him can make mistakes and that is okay! It's not the end of the world. and I love how he shows it in the video.

  • @revvedrey
    @revvedrey 9 днів тому

    The best advice I've seen here in YT for people like me with anxiety to communicate. Thank you

  • @SevyPATata
    @SevyPATata 2 місяці тому +311

    7:54 "Ten minutes per day, five minutes per day, sit in the chair and just yap at the camera."
    This is exactly what I did when Philippines went into lockdown. Being bored, I picked up an old microphone and plugged it into my computer. A year later, my voice has improved so much that I've been scouted for local radio stations.
    Trust me, the first few recordings will make you feel embarrassed. Like "OH MY GOD. WHAT IS THAT" type of feels. I have some of my old recordings still with me (I believe?), last time I took time to listen it made me cringe so much.

    • @yourfellowducky2712
      @yourfellowducky2712 2 місяці тому +19

      Well if you’re cringing, I’m pretty certain that means you’ve improved as a person.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +39

      Yeah ahah I used to hate my voice on camera, but now I don’t even notice a difference. I think it’s more of a placebo issue. Definitely the most effective thing I have done to improve my speaking that’s for sure

    • @TermNon
      @TermNon 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@JakPiggott i can tell how much effort and pratice youve put into speaking!

    • @thefatrat5240
      @thefatrat5240 2 місяці тому

      ​​@@JakPiggottThis is exactly what happened to me actually because my school asked us to make regular voice memos, or just something to record the day or the last 12 hours.
      I used to think it was stupid that they told us to do this, but I realise why they did now.

    • @devvv4616
      @devvv4616 2 місяці тому

      how did it affect your public speaking? i imagine it will improve your english speaking alot (if it's not your mother tounge)

  • @Oceanqtic
    @Oceanqtic 2 місяці тому +42

    Every like this comment gets, I’ll do 2 push ups, I will post video proof. I’m done with being lazy

  • @vincentopperman1420
    @vincentopperman1420 2 місяці тому +10

    So glad I’ve found creators my age who share their experiences, it’s difficult to find people who go through the same struggles.❤

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +3

      We need more authenticity in today's world for sure ❤

  • @mohammedusama718
    @mohammedusama718 5 днів тому

    though i am older than you, your advice has a special effect on my mindset and motivation in a positive way. Good channel and good vids you got here.

  • @TiagosMentor
    @TiagosMentor 2 місяці тому +1

    That's really resonating with me brother, i've been applying all this skills development lately, intentionally and in just a few months i've become more confidence with not only my sense of feeling physically but in overall in my inner dialogue and definitely document the mind or the life adds tons of self awareness to the equation, thanks for this type of value, props to you man.

  • @spizzz2
    @spizzz2 2 місяці тому +18

    5:28 yes bro, i keep my phone nearby when reading and just ask siri if i don’t know. it has improved my vocabulary a ton.

  • @bit-edits20563
    @bit-edits20563 Місяць тому +5

    I physically stutter, like in everyday life, and speech therapy is expensive... so it's even worse for me in ANY public speaking stuff or for presentations...

    • @singmysong1167
      @singmysong1167 Місяць тому +2

      I was a stutterer too, but only in school. Not at home, around familiar faces and surroundings., it seemed.
      Like he mentioned, there is a blockage and we need to find the source or event where the stuttering might have begun, friend. Hope this helps..

  • @JyotiDevi-i8h
    @JyotiDevi-i8h 2 місяці тому +25

    Bro cleaned my throat blockage for being judged by people,
    now l'll try to not think what others think about me

  • @aarimations5158
    @aarimations5158 Місяць тому

    1. Get to the root of insecurity
    2. Intention behind why you talk causes the tension, have the right intention
    3. Read more books, start using thes words in public
    4. Improve looks to feel more confident
    5.Speak on camera-use it as a journal

  • @daniels2767
    @daniels2767 Місяць тому

    When I search for communications skills, improvement video, your video popped up, I was actually shocked that a young boy would have millions of views, so i was curious what you have to say but, after listening to you, I feel more respect to you! Keep the good work. ❤

  • @csclonemaster5780
    @csclonemaster5780 2 місяці тому +20

    2:34 You were speaking to me directly here

    • @aaa.aa2311
      @aaa.aa2311 Місяць тому

      can relate it felt like a personal attack not kidding I had tears listening to those couple lines 🙂

  • @CoryCouttee
    @CoryCouttee 2 місяці тому +5

    Dude if only i could have met you earlier , you aint even directly talkin to ne but yet you are still a better friend that almost all the people ive met so far

  • @Christopher-fx6ow
    @Christopher-fx6ow 2 місяці тому +205

    Jak. You probably won’t see this but I feel pressured to leave this comment anyways. So I can at least say I tried. I need help. I’m addicted to… corn… and anytime I think I’m getting better I fall back into the same habits. I hate myself also. I’m ugly, I hate the way I talk to people, my confidence is in the negatives, I’m stupid, I’m starting college pretty soon and I feel like I have no control. I feel like I’m a spectator of my own freaking life… more than anything I want someone that I can make happy. But talking to girls terrifies me. I have someone right now that I kind of like, and have made some conversation with. I’m sure she’s just being nice though, and even the idea of approaching her and talking to her terrifies me. I could go on and on for hours typing this comment but I’ll just stop there. I basically have no idea what to do, and I’m tired of life. I’m not sure why I’m even making this comment but at least I’m making some kind of effort.

    • @hungduy4655
      @hungduy4655 2 місяці тому +28

      It’s ok, man. Just take your time and try to change what you can still control, for the better. I believe in you

    • @Christopher-fx6ow
      @Christopher-fx6ow 2 місяці тому +13

      @@hungduy4655 thanks man, I really appreciate that. I hope it does get better.

    • @mikeydotexe
      @mikeydotexe 2 місяці тому +21

      I'm no far off, but you must keep in mind that miracles are just consequences, but unanticipated. There has to be effort to turn things into something you want. Now ofc there's some things you can't do anything about, so just dig your path around them and believe that you can change the other ones. I believe in you and since you have made this comment, might as well consider it a little piece of "something which reminds me of the need to change" sorta thing. Really hope it gets better

    • @Christopher-fx6ow
      @Christopher-fx6ow 2 місяці тому +7

      @@mikeydotexe thanks man, I agree with you, and I have a strong desire to make changes in my life. But I can’t seem to actually do it. Sometimes I’ll start living me positivity but then every time I make progress, I get screwed over by my addiction and am back at square one. I just feel trapped. I think my only way out is to talk to someone I know, but I feel like there’s an equal chance of me getting better on my own, then there is me actually talking to someone. I just can’t do that lol.

    • @Bananaman-h1o
      @Bananaman-h1o 2 місяці тому +9

      Set a base for your freedom like- tell yourself everyday that you love yourself and you won’t go back, something like that. If you find yourself finding corn to be a escape from reality then play video games or hang out with friends or something that takes your mind off everything. And mate there’s always a tomorrow so try your best, tell yourself your free. It will get better.

  • @lifestephen
    @lifestephen Місяць тому

    This young man has got it and inspiring many! practicing on camera tip alone is gold because of the demonstration of his improvement, what a nice video content!

  • @kostakakagiannis9192
    @kostakakagiannis9192 Місяць тому

    i think the camera thing is amazing. i think it’s so important to familiarise ourselves with our own voice and personality, and not be ashamed or embarrassed by it. thanks for the video❤

  • @Marcocappp
    @Marcocappp 18 днів тому +8

    Mostly it comes from overthinking, once you realize that you are enough, it shows in your confidence. Love yourself people, love yourself

  • @letsgoletsgoletsgoletsgoletsgo
    @letsgoletsgoletsgoletsgoletsgo 2 місяці тому +4

    for the people in the western world , this is what you do for better confidence .
    for us Asians in south east asia , we put on a fake british or american accent and we feel instantly better about ourselves

  • @randomguy3097
    @randomguy3097 2 місяці тому +58

    brooo , i am the main speaker in an upcming event in my school and my partner is female classmate of mine that i have never spoken too , wish me luck bro

  • @paulothedogg
    @paulothedogg 10 днів тому

    Another couple of things for older folks:
    - Fix your posture
    - same goes in business meetups, don't try just to "sell" try to connect and see how you can actually be helpful.
    - Learn to listen. You know, that desire of talking and sharing your thoughts, and thinking about what you're going to say instead of what the other person is saying. Learn how be present and listen. other people can easily notice when you're distracted or when they finish speaking and you just jump straight into what you want to say. They feel ignored.

  • @ThomasSpringer-j6s
    @ThomasSpringer-j6s 18 днів тому +3

    This is just what I needed, thank you 🙂

  • @kyrondsilva5258
    @kyrondsilva5258 2 місяці тому +19

    Jak really is the guy who would help the people before him to fix problem that they struggle in
    Thank you jak

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +4

      Give to give brother not just to receive 👊

    • @nicolae-alexandruluca7853
      @nicolae-alexandruluca7853 2 місяці тому

      To him if he fixes others problems he fixes his own, he is intelligent and reliazed this

  • @WilliamGomberg
    @WilliamGomberg 2 місяці тому +13

    please never lose your integrity. sure, don’t be afraid to monetize, you deserve to. but i pray you do so ethically & morally. your content is truly helpful, and unlike most creators, ive failed to find the “catch”. no link in your descriptions or your youtube bio promoting a course, or paid mentorship taking advantage of vulnerable people. it makes me truly happy to see.

  • @ahabawan5007
    @ahabawan5007 4 дні тому

    Thanks brother,
    These were best 8 minutes that I have spent on myself
    May god bless you ❤️

  • @JesseltonGaming
    @JesseltonGaming 22 дні тому

    Your story just made me realised why I couldn't speak better and communicate better after my teenage years. I'm 21 now , changing but thank you for sharing this light to everyone. Earned my subscription!

  • @MrMorale386
    @MrMorale386 2 місяці тому +5

    Bro i was literally suffering because of my communication skills and i journaled about it and guess what! Your video showed up. What a coincidence !

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому

      Haha lets go man, W timing 👊

  • @GG_FROZTY
    @GG_FROZTY 2 місяці тому +10

    Are we not going to talk about how well you drew that tap.

  • @Mr.personcoolman
    @Mr.personcoolman 2 місяці тому +15

    Jak should open a discord community because it's pretty much going to be the best community ever button

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  2 місяці тому +5

      It would be good, I might make a free skool community, but not a discord, to many trolls 😂

    • @Brave_blkan5
      @Brave_blkan5 2 місяці тому

      @@JakPiggottyou should actually donit anyway you would help us even more

  • @Vidap446
    @Vidap446 24 дні тому

    Omg i think this is legitimately helpful, it’s more than just practicing vocal exercises, which is what I was expecting when I clicked on this video, it’s more about the intention of why you’re communicating ! Building up vocabulary could be helpful too because I never know if I’m using words right and that holds me back. Thanks so much!

  • @sahilgautam7092
    @sahilgautam7092 Місяць тому

    this man right here is giving such great advice . ngl all these things he said right now can change our life.

  • @samble-j8s
    @samble-j8s 11 днів тому +3

    Love the background music!