He thought I wasn't going to leave him. Hell I thought I couldn't. The light switched on and I walked away no more words no long text just no more of the bull. I'm sure he thinks im coming back as i do. No more crown back on. Ladies self- worth self- care self -esteem self -confidence. Valued!
You’re so true I’ve been there my first love of 7 years just up and left me to raise our children on my own and after that: I didn’t speak to him for 30 years and I moved on and then he tried to come back after I left a 20 year marriage and I said no I don’t love you ; God has ( Delivered ) me from him and my ex husband; I’m at peace and working on my business and I thank my Heavenly Father.❤
Derrick, Please continue to give these deep teachings on social media and not just in your private groups. You have no idea how much you helped me today. Thank you, and thank you for considering what I've requested. Lastly, thank you for being the big brother I never had.
Know your value, know your worth focus on the importance of life a womans job is never done. U allow them to be happy in their relationship and find you. Smile 😁 God loves you.
D you've been called for this . Many people do this just for the sake of doing something but you king was ordained for this. Thank you for not allowing your own circumstances stand in the way of your calling.
I have been listening to you all this afternoon and I learned so much, it gave me the clarity to see he was not there to begin with, and I was delusional to think that he cared, and I have hard time to forgive myself for who I thought he was.
Hey brother, please don't worry about being raw . Truth of the matter is, most if not all women have gotten into these situations with good intentions but road to heel is paved with good intentions. So personally, I feel, u being raw is exactly what is needed. It may be tough love, but it is real love and honesty you're providing as a great brother would and should . There's that saying, "If u do the crime, u must do your time". This is sort of like this situation, except here, your crime is that u let the new shiny thing that just walked into your life with hope and promise, drown out your inner consciences voice until u can no longer hear it. Then slowly it dawns on u, that u lost far more than u thought, u lost u. So sometimes the only way back is to hear the real truth, no matter how ugly , shameful or even painful it is. Some truths are bitter, but u have to face the music. So raw is exactly what we need. Thank u so much, it truly warms my heart to know, that there are still good men in this world. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow this is exactly what I have been through for years he told me early on in the relationship that he was abused for years by his mom and abandoned by many including his dad and asked me to never leave him yet he left me for another woman who promised that she was gonna make his life better she gave him keys to her car and apartment and the code to her bank account we were married for 26 years they now have 2 children
Derrick I swear you know my situation. My story I feel you know . I’d like to join your podcast but can’t financially yet but listening to you gives me strength and I know I’m healing . Thank you for being so clear and to the point .
Brilliant take on everything- that happened last time leaving me feeling so broken in every way . How to manage healthier relationships in future starting with the one with myself .
Hey Gwendolyn, I can sense how much you're struggling right now, but I want you to know that you're not alone in this. It's completely normal to feel lost and overwhelmed at times, especially when it comes to relationships. Remember to be kind to yourself and take things one step at a time. You have the strength and resilience to overcome any challenge that comes your way. If you're looking for more guidance and support, I highly recommend checking out my new master class that delves deeper into this topic. You can find the link in the description of this video. Keep pushing forward and never forget that you deserve happiness and fulfillment in your relationships. You've got this! ❤️
Derrick, you're a blessing to us ladies 😊 I've been binge watching your videos for insight, trying to wrap my head around why he could so easily treat me badly. I know now, he was sent by the devil 😈 I will not be anyones option. Selfish season all the way. He's blocked as I don't want him, but it has been eye opening for me, I need to love myself more to attract better quality men ❤
I feel the right person will fit you and of course there is room for improvement but with the right person or people in your life there shouldn’t be an issue because where everybody is at and that has earned the space in your life, everyone should get it.
If he left you for another woman, she didn't take your boyfriend, she took your problem!
Amen
I wish her (probably, more than one 'her') well; she just inherited a whole 100% demon.
Yes!!! 100% 💯
Yup. Let her take him off your hands. 🙌🏾
Absolutely 🎉
The partners that leave, were only using us. A partner that loves us, commits, they never leave.
So true.
Hmm
Absolutely right.
He thought I wasn't going to leave him. Hell I thought I couldn't. The light switched on and I walked away no more words no long text just no more of the bull. I'm sure he thinks im coming back as i do. No more crown back on. Ladies self- worth self- care self -esteem self -confidence. Valued!
Been there with him , that back and forth mess . Finally I guess it had to end. 😊
Congratulations I respect your strength!!
Thank You.
Absolutely! I was just a placeholder
Same 😢
It’s making so much sense. I had to walk away for my health. I could feel my decline( depression and anger), I do wish him the best though
He was not even aware of himself.
people only do to you what you allow it was a hard pill to swallow thank you bro
True true 💯
You’re so true I’ve been there my first love of 7 years just up and left me to raise our children on my own and after that: I didn’t speak to him for 30 years and I moved on and then he tried to come back after I left a 20 year marriage and I said no I don’t love you ; God has ( Delivered ) me from him and my ex husband; I’m at peace and working on my business and I thank my Heavenly Father.❤
Amen. Sis
You are a thousand percent correct, he was never there
Absolutely 😮😮😮😮
Drug addict
Derrick, Please continue to give these deep teachings on social media and not just in your private groups. You have no idea how much you helped me today. Thank you, and thank you for considering what I've requested. Lastly, thank you for being the big brother I never had.
Let. Go. Let. God take. Control. Of. Heart. Stealers. Remember. There. Is. Reaping. Time. For. Those. That. Goes. Around. Breaking. Good. People. Hearts. ❤❤. God. Bless
I told him he needs to heal from past childhood trauma and he said maybe I don’t want to be healed ✌🏽
Least he was being honest!
Know your value, know your worth focus on the importance of life a womans job is never done. U allow them to be happy in their relationship and find you. Smile 😁 God loves you.
💯
ITS EXACTLY WHAT I WENT THROUGH WITH HIM AFTER 10 YEAR RELATIONSHIP, WAS LONG DISTANCE. NEVER AGAIN, IM DONE.
Thank you for the message this is why you guard your heart
So true! This resonated in your first few words!
I like that analogy of the person controlled by drugs, it’s just the shell of the person..
D you've been called for this .
Many people do this just for the sake of doing something but you king was ordained for this.
Thank you for not allowing your own circumstances stand in the way of your calling.
I have been listening to you all this afternoon and I learned so much, it gave me the clarity to see he was not there to begin with, and I was delusional to think that he cared, and I have hard time to forgive myself for who I thought he was.
When I’m listening to D videos I’m not even looking at the phone I’m just listening to his PURE FACTS! ❤ ❤❤
No, you are helping women.. I love it.
Absolutely! Ghosting... and more ghosting! Oh my! What have I been thinking?!
I am this person I dont understand people who operate from malice
My my... its so hard to hear this truth, but nescassary for the future to avoid repeating this mistake.
Good evening Derrick Jeannette here, you are absolutely right...
Hey brother, please don't worry about being raw . Truth of the matter is, most if not all women have gotten into these situations with good intentions but road to heel is paved with good intentions. So personally, I feel, u being raw is exactly what is needed. It may be tough love, but it is real love and honesty you're providing as a great brother would and should . There's that saying, "If u do the crime, u must do your time". This is sort of like this situation, except here, your crime is that u let the new shiny thing that just walked into your life with hope and promise, drown out your inner consciences voice until u can no longer hear it. Then slowly it dawns on u, that u lost far more than u thought, u lost u. So sometimes the only way back is to hear the real truth, no matter how ugly , shameful or even painful it is. Some truths are bitter, but u have to face the music. So raw is exactly what we need. Thank u so much, it truly warms my heart to know, that there are still good men in this world. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you thank you thank you soooo much for this video, Derrick. This is a really powerful message.
Everything you have said makes so much sense and it exposes soooooooo much he needs THERAPY, IF HE WILL EVER HAVE ANY % OF a CHANCE for change!!!!!!!
Thank God that you are not afraid to speak the truth.
Wow this is exactly what I have been through for years he told me early on in the relationship that he was abused for years by his mom and abandoned by many including his dad and asked me to never leave him yet he left me for another woman who promised that she was gonna make his life better she gave him keys to her car and apartment and the code to her bank account we were married for 26 years they now have 2 children
WOW!!!!!!. I am truly sorry this happened to you...😢
He sounds like he has Borderline Personality Disorder. Adios! You deserve better. 🫶💪
I am sooo sorry!!😢
Thank you so much! You did a deeper dive than usual here and it was so helpful! ❤
I needed to hear this! Thank you
Derrick I swear you know my situation. My story I feel you know . I’d like to join your podcast but can’t financially yet but listening to you gives me strength and I know I’m healing . Thank you for being so clear and to the point .
Yes you are making sense. Thank you for sharing your experiences, wisdom and providing clarity to the collective. ❤
This help change my life because it’s really important to love me
Brilliant take on everything- that happened last time leaving me feeling so broken in every way . How to manage healthier relationships in future starting with the one with myself .
This is a great topic! Thank you!!!
You hit the nail on the head with this subject for me thank you
I am so grateful for you 🙏
Derrick I think you should do more videos like this. This is very interesting and informative.
I love the way you related this . I know about all this but the way you present are so needed ❤
Thank you so much for your wisdom.
Thank you big bro I needed this confirmation... I'm soooooooooo happy and you are telling the truth 💯💯
Handsome Derrick,love your channel!😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤
Wow I needed this
Love the stray dog analogy!
I just came across this page today, and I've watched video after video. I know men are upset about this 😂. I Am highly anticipating the next one.
Thank you so much for this video. I so needed to hear everything you spoke about about.
So many good messages here. Thank you ❤
Sorry brother I have no social media to share to. 100% truth once again ❤
Great message ❤
A big Thank you 🤩🙏🏼❤️
Thank you thank you
Thank you for letting God speak through you you have been a blessing to me 🙏
Thank you for your time and effort. Bless you and your family AMIN ❤
Amen! Thank you for this amazing insight!
I kept my word and stayed i kept that promise but i couldn't fight against the streets
Thank you for helping us all try understand each other and want to be better people ❤
Thankyou so much for the guidance and insight 💯
Thank you 🙏🏽
This is making alot of sense right now
im not staying fuck that
Wish I had said and done that.
Thank you ❤
Than you my big brother ! I needed to hear this message you gave some very good pointers and i needed it. Thank you so much!
I'm so grateful to u I've learned so much
i so needed this thank you so much big brother
Tried to make me feel he was invested,but when I started to call him on it and took initiative to set things in real motion..out came the excuses 😊
I think that obsessive thinking and the need to make sense why they left is linked to insecure attachment ergo abandonment (really self abandonment)
I GET IT ... Thank You Derrick !!!
Make perfect sense thankyou for such powerful message
Hey Gwendolyn, I can sense how much you're struggling right now, but I want you to know that you're not alone in this. It's completely normal to feel lost and overwhelmed at times, especially when it comes to relationships. Remember to be kind to yourself and take things one step at a time. You have the strength and resilience to overcome any challenge that comes your way.
If you're looking for more guidance and support, I highly recommend checking out my new master class that delves deeper into this topic. You can find the link in the description of this video. Keep pushing forward and never forget that you deserve happiness and fulfillment in your relationships. You've got this! ❤️
@@JaxnVideos thankyou
Hi , I am new to your channel ...yes I understand . Thank you
Thank you soooo much❤
Your speaking truth❤
Derrick, you're a blessing to us ladies 😊 I've been binge watching your videos for insight, trying to wrap my head around why he could so easily treat me badly. I know now, he was sent by the devil 😈 I will not be anyones option. Selfish season all the way. He's blocked as I don't want him, but it has been eye opening for me, I need to love myself more to attract better quality men ❤
Yesss after 9 years
FACTS / TRUTH 2 POWER / THANK YOU ROYAL KING
This definitely resonates❤
Wow , thank you, eye opening for me!
Thank you- just, thank you
Thank you for this video.
Thank you for this. ❤️
You actually look like my brother. This was like one on one with me
I t made a lot of sense in each step you take
appreciate the truth
WOW RIGHT ON POINT 👍🙏
Oooh, re-play of my life.
Yes, I understand, I am going through, thank you for your help.
I would say leave the door closed a job well done he not going to change make sure you make yourself happy it’s problems when you open the door
👶👶👶🍼😭they baby!!!! “Uh u mean imma runnin away wa wa wa”
So helpful. Thank you.
You definitely made sense
Making so much sense
You are absolutely right 👍💯😊
This makes a lot of sense
I’m dealing with an avoidant…….. we’re in that game stage.
You make straight up sense
I feel the right person will fit you and of course there is room for improvement but with the right person or people in your life there shouldn’t be an issue because where everybody is at and that has earned the space in your life, everyone should get it.
Thank you
You hit the nail on the head
He didn't leave me. I told him to leave. And he left with know problem. Didn't have know problem with it.
My husband said he had to leave the country to get a job. He forgot to tell me and his 2 year old daughter that he was also leaving us.
I am going some where and not looking back.....❤