My boyfriend has a friend he knew from childhood. They recently recontected acouple of years ago, when she went through a divorce and so did he. They never got together then. He says he is not attracted to her, but she is attractive. He talks to her once a week. He says it neutral conversation, but she talks to him about her boyfriends not treating her right. He says he knows her past and would never think of dating her, but i don't like it.
No jealousy destroys marriage and men controlling women. Even if one partner cheats that's not the end I can be the beginning talking an honesty take over then and you build. Unless one of them really has had enough then part but stay friends
Opposite sex friendship does not relationship & marriage. Jealous destroyed marriage & relationships. My jealous destroyed my marriage. I was jealous of my ex wife friends & family
@@angelgarcia-ht9bl Then except you have a control problem. Women are not property And its classic controlling behaviour to feel what you describe did you also move her away from her friends and family as that's also a classic example
I was married 10 years ago. I learn my lesson from it. My ex fiance was jealous of my girl bestfriend. She tried to boundaries on her. As time went on. I said no boundaries because she will not set boundaries on her friends & family. She complained about my girl bestfriend, my friends & family. I told her that i was jealous of my ex wife family & push her away by being jealous. She not listen to me. She keep complaining. Now we are not together.
My husband had an affair with his long term friend at the bar. He always has to have attention from women or his friends about women etc. found out he had a sex addiction strippers and porn. But I say men and women can’t be friends. My dad told me this along time ago and I should have listened
Your spouse should be your best friend..... everyone else you must set boundaries with.... you can only have an opposite sex friend if you're not attracted to each other... the problem is straight people often have hidden feelings for each other
What do you do when your wife’s best friend is her boss, and it’s not income that we cant lose. But there have been plenty of instances where they have crossed the line. Holding hands to congratulate big deal, dosnt make sense, telling each other I love you, deleting txt messages. She admits it was wrong but swears it’s nothing more. I don’t know what to do anymore.
What is being described is cheating. This is micro-cheating behavior and is a direct threat to the primary pair bond (in this case, marriage). Honorable wives will not engage in this behavior. Perhaps, she needs to be informed by an honorable wife on how to conduct herself as a wife. Aside from this, opposite sex friends are a reserve list. Why is she keeping a reserve list? There seems to be a need for guided therapy, both individually and as a couple.
Her boss doesn't respect your relationship....he's abusing his power over her by being overly affectionate.... he may think she likes it if she's not discouraging it... he may turn on her if she asks him to back off..... so it may be time for her to go to another job before this goes further
The friendship and marriage go hand and hand, if you ruin the marriage you also ruin the friendship. And I dont talk to people Im generally not friends with. When a spouse chooses their friends over their marriage the message is clear, time to end it.
A guy argued the same thing backwards 23:06 that a guy might compromise the integrity of your relationship because they might not know what they are talking about concerning relationship issues but a woman can give advice from a women’s point of view …..
I have friends of both sexes and I wouldn't be in a relationship with anyone that didnt trust me to have those friends. And yes I would encourage my partner to gave friends of both sexes because I'm self confident and dont feel threatened and relly on the way I respect and treat her for her to be able to talk to me about anything in our relationship. Jealousy is an emotion that can do more harm than good.
That's totally OK, but the day your wife withholds from you: sex, intimacy, comfort, conversation ... would your opinion change? Could the friendship she has with other men be validating her withdrawal, or offering her a backup relationship? Would you approve of it then?
@@jinnantonix4570 I welcome my partners to have friends of any sex and if you have a loving carring honest relationship why would they withhold or blackmail you if they care about you and if they dont dont stay with them life is far to short to not have a fully rewarding relationship in every aspect and that means friends for both of you
@@steventostevin3085 I think you have an idealised view of platonic relationships. They can work, but they can often be very unstable due to the difference between male and female viewpoint. If you trust your wife, that's great, but all relationships have ups and downs. My own 30 year marriage has been renegotiated several times. Beware.
@@jinnantonix4570 my women friends are valued and I dont do anything to undermine there trust in me I tell my girlfriend when I see them what we did there is no need to be untruthful in my previous marriage we where swingers so I'm not a jealous person I think others especially men ruin good relationships by being controlling and jealous thinking they own women it's a partnership.
@@jinnantonix4570 I think anyone pushing that there partner cant have any friends they want mail femail trans gay straght is controlling and I would recomend looking very closely at that relationship if there happy being controlled then gine some are others though are very much not but because of the control cant leave.
As a crossdresing man I belive what anyone thinks of me. Is none of my business. Therefore anyone my partner sister or my kids can think and say whatever they like. It's none of my business
I have found that when you start dating a guy that has a female best friend, 100% of the time that is a huge red flag. 🚩
It is not a huge flag
As a man, I can tell you to stand for your this standard.
Don't fall for the " u r controlling n insecure" gaslighting
My boyfriend has a friend he knew from childhood. They recently recontected acouple of years ago, when she went through a divorce and so did he. They never got together then. He says he is not attracted to her, but she is attractive. He talks to her once a week. He says it neutral conversation, but she talks to him about her boyfriends not treating her right. He says he knows her past and would never think of dating her, but i don't like it.
It destroys relationships/marriages!
No jealousy destroys marriage and men controlling women. Even if one partner cheats that's not the end I can be the beginning talking an honesty take over then and you build. Unless one of them really has had enough then part but stay friends
Opposite sex friendship does not relationship & marriage. Jealous destroyed marriage & relationships. My jealous destroyed my marriage. I was jealous of my ex wife friends & family
@@angelgarcia-ht9bl Then except you have a control problem. Women are not property And its classic controlling behaviour to feel what you describe did you also move her away from her friends and family as that's also a classic example
I was married 10 years ago. I learn my lesson from it. My ex fiance was jealous of my girl bestfriend. She tried to boundaries on her. As time went on. I said no boundaries because she will not set boundaries on her friends & family. She complained about my girl bestfriend, my friends & family. I told her that i was jealous of my ex wife family & push her away by being jealous. She not listen to me. She keep complaining. Now we are not together.
Definitely disrespecting your person to take friends “out”
It not disrespecting
My husband had an affair with his long term friend at the bar. He always has to have attention from women or his friends about women etc. found out he had a sex addiction strippers and porn.
But I say men and women can’t be friends. My dad told me this along time ago and I should have listened
Your spouse should be your best friend..... everyone else you must set boundaries with.... you can only have an opposite sex friend if you're not attracted to each other... the problem is straight people often have hidden feelings for each other
I believe that too
What do you do when your wife’s best friend is her boss, and it’s not income that we cant lose. But there have been plenty of instances where they have crossed the line. Holding hands to congratulate big deal, dosnt make sense, telling each other I love you, deleting txt messages. She admits it was wrong but swears it’s nothing more. I don’t know what to do anymore.
What is being described is cheating. This is micro-cheating behavior and is a direct threat to the primary pair bond (in this case, marriage). Honorable wives will not engage in this behavior. Perhaps, she needs to be informed by an honorable wife on how to conduct herself as a wife.
Aside from this, opposite sex friends are a reserve list. Why is she keeping a reserve list? There seems to be a need for guided therapy, both individually and as a couple.
Her boss doesn't respect your relationship....he's abusing his power over her by being overly affectionate.... he may think she likes it if she's not discouraging it... he may turn on her if she asks him to back off..... so it may be time for her to go to another job before this goes further
N u r still in relationship with this woman????
Deleted text msgs????
Bro higher private investigator n gather the proof n leave her
Your situation sucks
20 year marriage and it’s heartbreaking. I’m still in it with the kids and no solid proof yet.
The friendship and marriage go hand and hand, if you ruin the marriage you also ruin the friendship. And I dont talk to people Im generally not friends with. When a spouse chooses their friends over their marriage the message is clear, time to end it.
A guy argued the same thing backwards 23:06 that a guy might compromise the integrity of your relationship because they might not know what they are talking about concerning relationship issues but a woman can give advice from a women’s point of view …..
I have friends of both sexes and I wouldn't be in a relationship with anyone that didnt trust me to have those friends. And yes I would encourage my partner to gave friends of both sexes because I'm self confident and dont feel threatened and relly on the way I respect and treat her for her to be able to talk to me about anything in our relationship. Jealousy is an emotion that can do more harm than good.
That's totally OK, but the day your wife withholds from you: sex, intimacy, comfort, conversation ... would your opinion change? Could the friendship she has with other men be validating her withdrawal, or offering her a backup relationship? Would you approve of it then?
@@jinnantonix4570 I welcome my partners to have friends of any sex and if you have a loving carring honest relationship why would they withhold or blackmail you if they care about you and if they dont dont stay with them life is far to short to not have a fully rewarding relationship in every aspect and that means friends for both of you
@@steventostevin3085 I think you have an idealised view of platonic relationships. They can work, but they can often be very unstable due to the difference between male and female viewpoint. If you trust your wife, that's great, but all relationships have ups and downs. My own 30 year marriage has been renegotiated several times. Beware.
@@jinnantonix4570 my women friends are valued and I dont do anything to undermine there trust in me I tell my girlfriend when I see them what we did there is no need to be untruthful in my previous marriage we where swingers so I'm not a jealous person I think others especially men ruin good relationships by being controlling and jealous thinking they own women it's a partnership.
@@jinnantonix4570 I think anyone pushing that there partner cant have any friends they want mail femail trans gay straght is controlling and I would recomend looking very closely at that relationship if there happy being controlled then gine some are others though are very much not but because of the control cant leave.
Being married is fine but it plugs no holes 😢
Truth
Nope not at all!!
As a crossdresing man I belive what anyone thinks of me. Is none of my business. Therefore anyone my partner sister or my kids can think and say whatever they like. It's none of my business
You are an intimate partner for a readon, not a friend. Respectc your current partner and dont hang on to exes.