How Should I Navigate A Legal Separation?

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  • Опубліковано 11 гру 2024

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  • @choicemeatrandy6572
    @choicemeatrandy6572 2 роки тому +17

    "You sound tired brother"
    - Deloney if he was there

  • @matthewchulo7514
    @matthewchulo7514 2 роки тому +8

    Hats off to these two dudes. Though they are not physiologists nor marital counselors, they certainly did their best to help this caller. George Kamel’s facial reaction is priceless😮😮😮😮 through out the call.

  • @diggernash1
    @diggernash1 2 роки тому +6

    Avoid marriage, or a strong prenuptial with no outs if you decide to ignore that advice.
    She should definitely get out though; bipolar is destructive for everyone involved.

  • @FTYC2022
    @FTYC2022 2 роки тому +19

    This is the wrong show to call for this.

    • @Sizukun1
      @Sizukun1 2 роки тому

      Yeah he's having mental health issues and a wife leaving him and his first question is should he get a second job to get more income? huh? He's either bussing from the Ramsey Kool Aide or has no firm grasp on reality on what he should do in the next hour.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 2 роки тому

      Money is everything.

    • @FTYC2022
      @FTYC2022 2 роки тому

      @@blackworldtraveler3711 what?

  • @jimmymcgill6778
    @jimmymcgill6778 2 роки тому +14

    Sometimes divorce is the only options.
    It's better for her and the kids.
    She's probably scared that he may do something to her, or even the kids.

    • @Ryan_DeWitt
      @Ryan_DeWitt 2 роки тому +3

      I agree. While I don't think the caller is some evil person, he doesn't exactly give off a good vibe. Unless it is extremely well controlled, bipolar people can be truly miserable to live with.

    • @summerforever6736
      @summerforever6736 2 роки тому

      Make more kids??

  • @oswaldohernandez1961
    @oswaldohernandez1961 2 роки тому +1

    My dude your wife is long gone !!

  • @Winnie-Kay
    @Winnie-Kay 2 роки тому +10

    Caller needs to add a psychotherapist to his team.

  • @bonjoursophie
    @bonjoursophie 2 роки тому +9

    What did he say that was bleeped?

  • @Nomad332
    @Nomad332 2 роки тому +13

    This is why a prenuptial agreement is necessary before a marriage! It makes more sense to have something in place.

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 2 роки тому +1

      What does a prenuptial agreement do for you?
      Washington is a Community Property State.
      Pre-nups usually protect pre-marital assets.
      A legal separation separates you financially from your spouse.

    • @pauljensen4773
      @pauljensen4773 2 роки тому

      @@aolvaar8792 it gets the state out of your divorce if there is one and your marriage contract.

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 2 роки тому

      @@pauljensen4773
      The State is in your marriage because
      Washington is a Community Property State.
      Community Property, Assets acquired in marriage are 50/50.
      You cannot draw up a pre-nup that violates State Law.
      Pre-nups usually protect pre-marital assets.
      They are much less useful in a Community
      Property State.
      A legal separation separates you financially from your spouse.
      I married in a community property State,
      My wife had to sign paperwork to accept
      50% ownership of my home, making it OUR home.
      I show her the paperwork when she says YOUR home.

  • @krobdawg
    @krobdawg 2 роки тому +5

    That beep threw me off

  • @ana10g
    @ana10g 2 роки тому +47

    call another show.

  • @David-wo9un
    @David-wo9un 2 роки тому +5

    Don’t bring in more income before a divorce because she will walk off with half of it.

  • @blueTY6
    @blueTY6 2 роки тому +1

    Always great to see George Kamel and Ken Coleman

  • @mjcarrasquillo
    @mjcarrasquillo 2 роки тому +6

    The marriage is already beyond repair and ALREADY destructive to the kids. The damage has already been done. The best option is to heal separately. "Fighting to save this marriage" is pointless at this point. There's already significant unrepairable damage done to all involved.

  • @barryetherton4889
    @barryetherton4889 2 роки тому +7

    I feel for the kids.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 2 роки тому +1

      II rather be honest/realistic and say I don’t. Too common nowadays.
      Became numb from this sort of thing back in high school.

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 2 роки тому

      @@blackworldtraveler3711 lol

  • @erickisel8668
    @erickisel8668 2 роки тому +1

    Does anyone proofread the titles of the videos?

  • @rnt45t1
    @rnt45t1 2 роки тому +8

    Marriage is absolutely not worth it at this point, especially when the woman can just choose to pick up and leave without cause.

    • @cherylnielson4710
      @cherylnielson4710 2 роки тому

      Without cause? Five kids in 16 years and a husband who is self-described as mentally unstable? What took her so long?

    • @ceecee8757
      @ceecee8757 2 роки тому +4

      Goes both ways, buddy. @rnt45t1.

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 2 роки тому +2

      Then your picker is broken. Marriage has worked out great for me.

    • @rnt45t1
      @rnt45t1 2 роки тому

      @@ceecee8757 The majority of divorces are initiated by women.

    • @rnt45t1
      @rnt45t1 2 роки тому +1

      @@kbanghart I haven't "picked" anyone or been picked in over ten years. try again!

  • @hello9945
    @hello9945 2 роки тому

    Bing Crosby is from Spokane, Washington

  • @Josh_Morales
    @Josh_Morales 2 роки тому +3

    I believe in marriage as a Christian but that said, it is an unfair legal system in the case of divorce

  • @perrysrawsoul
    @perrysrawsoul Рік тому

    If we filed for a legal separation, can my wife apply for health insurance as a 'single' person in order to keep the cost of the premium down? This is because I am english and live in the UK, my wife and I are separated but dont wish to divorce, as we hope to get together in the future, when things have been resolved. She lives in the US and at the moment has to file married and so the premium is higher .. hope that makes sense. Many thanks if you reply

  • @hvaball150
    @hvaball150 2 роки тому +1

    legal separation was proposed. dude, the first thing to throw away is "we". that's out of your vocabulary. "I" can pay half, but not "we" can split.
    drain the joint account or let her do it. don't put more money into her. period.
    she is not helping. not motivated.
    sign away nothing. ever.
    consider moving some distance away.
    always start with she left you and took a large percentage of your income. truth.

  • @uriel-heavensguardian8949
    @uriel-heavensguardian8949 2 роки тому +4

    Awesome video

  • @myyt3824
    @myyt3824 2 роки тому +1

    Sounds like they literally cannot afford to split. He needs a therapist STAT.

  • @djpuplex
    @djpuplex 2 роки тому +1

    Mental health and marriage don't go together. A woman is never gonna stick by a man in this situation. They just don't in almost all cases. This might have just been gaslit into his mental health issues.

  • @DLIX2DCLI
    @DLIX2DCLI 2 роки тому +5

    People rely too much on meds. That's what is screwing alot of people mentally. It's not difficult to just take some time out and get fresh air. Go out and meet people and have conversations. Go out for a walk. You don't need meds you need a breath of fresh air!!

    • @RealGalaxyGamers
      @RealGalaxyGamers 2 роки тому +3

      This is bipolar disorder not depression. While That may help somewhat, it cannot fix it.

    • @DLIX2DCLI
      @DLIX2DCLI 2 роки тому

      @@RealGalaxyGamers
      Bipolar disorder does include symptoms of depressions.

  • @stevenporter863
    @stevenporter863 2 роки тому +1

    Ya, a book is what he needs. That will fix everything... 🤦

    • @britneyog9537
      @britneyog9537 2 роки тому

      It's a... tool.

    • @stevenporter863
      @stevenporter863 2 роки тому

      @@britneyog9537 I know and sure the caller is aware that there is a place that allows you borrow books free. He was looking a little more guidance than read a book. Otherwise what is the point of the show?

  • @yayyareaa2997
    @yayyareaa2997 2 роки тому +2

    Call for the Delony Show

  • @niekoadan195
    @niekoadan195 2 роки тому +9

    I subscribed for Dave, not these randoms

    • @davidpaul9961
      @davidpaul9961 2 роки тому +4

      They’re trying to incorporate more people cause of Dave nearing retirement age. They spoke about this on their 30 year anniversary video.

    • @ItsMe-ko6sz
      @ItsMe-ko6sz 2 роки тому

      😂

    • @summerforever6736
      @summerforever6736 2 роки тому

      Dave is an old fool better off with this two

  • @lukeharris2622
    @lukeharris2622 2 роки тому +1

    ✝️🙏

  • @vision103
    @vision103 2 роки тому +1

    😂😂😂😂

  • @Steven-rp8zo
    @Steven-rp8zo Рік тому

    Step up and be a man. Drop the drugs and pick up weights. Consecrate your whole family to Jesus Christ because the family that prays together stays together. If you and your wife will put God first in your lives, the rest of the family will follow. "Disorder in society is the result of disorder in the family" - St Angela Merici

  • @johnathanpessetti295
    @johnathanpessetti295 2 роки тому +1

    Raid the account and split town

  • @edgehodl4832
    @edgehodl4832 2 роки тому +1

    someone about to get reeeeekt

  • @SlurpingSoup
    @SlurpingSoup 2 роки тому +5

    Why do people bother getting a marriage license? Call her your wife, treat her like your wife but don’t sign anything, it’s a nightmare.

    • @user-jy7yw5kw3w
      @user-jy7yw5kw3w 2 роки тому +1

      The norm, it was always taught that’s the way it should be. Tax benefits too I suppose.

    • @crazykaitlyn
      @crazykaitlyn 2 роки тому +1

      I think it's also when the spouse passes away, they are entitled to what is left of the other person. it's for protection too in the case you marry someone who is thinking of you, I guess the case is no one is really thinking, or only thinking about themselves in the moment.

    • @KS-cl8br
      @KS-cl8br 2 роки тому

      If you call them your spouse and live together you are married in states like Texas.