More people need to hear this. Every one sets him, or her, self first. They are happy that some one helped them, but don´t give a duck about that person afterwards. The problem magically goes away, and does not change anything actually. Example: One of my friends friend was sad. I asked why, turned out he got a new apartment and no one of his friends wanted to help him move. So i helped him, and he was acting grateful. Two weeks later he had a housewarming party in his new crib, all his friend were invited, i was not.
There is a quote from a Korean movie that if you do someone favors repeatedly, that someone will start to believe that it is his right to receive those favors. That principle is explained in the first segment of this video..
More people need to hear this. Every one sets him, or her, self first. They are happy that some one helped them, but don´t give a duck about that person afterwards. The problem magically goes away, and does not change anything actually. Example: One of my friends friend was sad. I asked why, turned out he got a new apartment and no one of his friends wanted to help him move. So i helped him, and he was acting grateful. Two weeks later he had a housewarming party in his new crib, all his friend were invited, i was not.
This is one of the wisest videos I’ve ever watched! I’ve always been very helpful, but sometimes it has gotten to be too much, so thank you
Very true! I used to help a friend many times, but when I had to say no once, he got angry. Now we are no longer friends. Bad luck for him.
There is a quote from a Korean movie that if you do someone favors repeatedly, that someone will start to believe that it is his right to receive those favors. That principle is explained in the first segment of this video..
But no one is my family is Jew. So when offering help never expect anything in return