Really sorry to hear that you were bullied. I'm 39 and when I was in elementary, middle and high school there were times I was picked on for being skinny and small myself, especially as a guy. Sometimes people would shove me, lightly push me with their finger, etc, to make a point about my small size. It slowed down though in mid highschool but still happened once in a while. When I turned 20 my metabolism slowed and I finally packed on weight. Flash forward to today and now I go to the gym and have been losing weight since I put on way too much for my height. Since working out consistently I've been getting a lot more respect and positive attention from people and I have to say, it feels good. I don't get bullied at work or anything. I love working out and feel privileged to be able to do it. It's my favorite thing now. It sucks, but this world is really shallow Madeline. I'm glad you're realizing you're worth and understand that you shouldn't take online hate seriously or personal at all. Like you said, you can be the nicest person in the world and people will still find a reason to hate on you. It's like water off of my back at this point and glad to see it's like that with you now. Your video is pretty motivational and reminds me of these things as well. Thank you. Btw, I think you look great and I hope you have a great day, week, year, etc!
@@Solitude633 Because we come across as uninterested and cold but that is quite the opposite! We are extremely sensitive but its very focused and meaningful. We are not like normies, fake and vacuous. When we feel its genuine and selective to those who are worth it!!
You cannot escape it. We will always have somebody watching us who is wishing on our downfall. It might be ppl close to you too! Like family & friends!
You are very smart and I know what you mean about fake friends/frienemeies! This world is full of hateful people sadly. Keep shining keep smiling you are worthy in Gods eyes.
And keep your personal life goals to yourself..if you achieve them others will notice, be humble but don't feel the need to explain. And don't ask them how YOU should achieve them. Follow your own gut.
You're 100 percent right about covert narcs and workplace bullying. So many good points there. I experienced the exact things you mentioned at my last job my boss was a covert narc and used her role to bully people. She was always passive aggressive and demeaning but never in a way where you could overtly call her out or report her. She would just talk over you and have a condescending tone. She would intentionally assign arduous tasks that weren't necessary and overload you if she felt like messing with you. She would sit there and spend 90 percent of her day attacking her own team (nitpicking everything we did) instead of progressing anything or making things more efficient. She targetted me the most because I was the most autonomous and at first she used to piss me off so bad and angered me to tears many times. Until I finally realized the best way to deal with her was to completely check out and ignore her. TO do the absolute bare minimum and just agree and then do whatever you were going to do anyway. I wanted to be fired. And she wouldn't do it because she liked bullying me.
Some also can relate immediately to what you are expressing. Having been through these trials in their life. Others who can relate though perhaps can't express what they are feeling are also drawn in because you can word it for them.
I can relate to all this I to have Dealt with so many haters too. because I am a hard worker. and I don't gossip at work. I had bullying in school to growing up.
Can't live for other people, I love myself first, I Act on my beliefs GOD gives, I make heavan my goal in the afterlife,I be honest to myself and GOD. ❤😊
I’m 5 foot two and curvy and always get haters for my small waist and big hips, but 5 foot two isn’t that short when people make fun of me for being being short, I’m like there’s a lot of people that are 5 foot and under
Really sorry to hear that you were bullied. I'm 39 and when I was in elementary, middle and high school there were times I was picked on for being skinny and small myself, especially as a guy. Sometimes people would shove me, lightly push me with their finger, etc, to make a point about my small size. It slowed down though in mid highschool but still happened once in a while. When I turned 20 my metabolism slowed and I finally packed on weight. Flash forward to today and now I go to the gym and have been losing weight since I put on way too much for my height. Since working out consistently I've been getting a lot more respect and positive attention from people and I have to say, it feels good. I don't get bullied at work or anything. I love working out and feel privileged to be able to do it. It's my favorite thing now.
It sucks, but this world is really shallow Madeline. I'm glad you're realizing you're worth and understand that you shouldn't take online hate seriously or personal at all. Like you said, you can be the nicest person in the world and people will still find a reason to hate on you. It's like water off of my back at this point and glad to see it's like that with you now.
Your video is pretty motivational and reminds me of these things as well. Thank you.
Btw, I think you look great and I hope you have a great day, week, year, etc!
People don't like introverted, focused people like us. It's a blessing and a curse!
Why don't they like us? If I may ask
@@Solitude633 Because we come across as uninterested and cold but that is quite the opposite! We are extremely sensitive but its very focused and meaningful. We are not like normies, fake and vacuous. When we feel its genuine and selective to those who are worth it!!
You cannot escape it. We will always have somebody watching us who is wishing on our downfall. It might be ppl close to you too! Like family & friends!
Don't be a hater. Be a skater.
I became very good at spotting covert narcissist
You are very smart and I know what you mean about fake friends/frienemeies! This world is full of hateful people sadly. Keep shining keep smiling you are worthy in Gods eyes.
People that hate have issues within and you're triggering it. We should have compassion for it while remaining guarded.
And keep your personal life goals to yourself..if you achieve them others will notice, be humble but don't feel the need to explain. And don't ask them how YOU should achieve them. Follow your own gut.
good video!! I have had strangers attack me. I think I raise anger in some people.
You're 100 percent right about covert narcs and workplace bullying. So many good points there. I experienced the exact things you mentioned at my last job my boss was a covert narc and used her role to bully people. She was always passive aggressive and demeaning but never in a way where you could overtly call her out or report her. She would just talk over you and have a condescending tone. She would intentionally assign arduous tasks that weren't necessary and overload you if she felt like messing with you. She would sit there and spend 90 percent of her day attacking her own team (nitpicking everything we did) instead of progressing anything or making things more efficient. She targetted me the most because I was the most autonomous and at first she used to piss me off so bad and angered me to tears many times. Until I finally realized the best way to deal with her was to completely check out and ignore her. TO do the absolute bare minimum and just agree and then do whatever you were going to do anyway. I wanted to be fired. And she wouldn't do it because she liked bullying me.
💯. Exactly what I dealt with at all my jobs.
Don't worry, hyper inflation, our weak economy & poor job market will get to her
@@Solitude633 truee
I clicked the video cause I saw your style and loved it, stayed cause of the great message keep it up
@@ajamsess4204 thank you. ⭐️
I love your videos. Keep up the positive attitude. Trollers are out there, and they are hurt, angry, and alone. They crave on negative energy.
I love you! Keep being you and let the haterz wait outside where they belong xx
love you too! if that isn't the truth!
Some also can relate immediately to what you are expressing. Having been through these trials in their life. Others who can relate though perhaps can't express what they are feeling are also drawn in because you can word it for them.
I can relate to all this I to have Dealt with so many haters too. because I am a hard worker. and I don't gossip at work. I had bullying in school to growing up.
You are a gem in a sea of gravel
You are beautiful !
❤ Thank you for sharing! ❤ Sending u lots of love and light. Keep shining ur beautiful light and uncovering the truth.
so grateful we connected. ❤️
@@bbmadeline me too ❤️
Rooting for you. ❤
Can't live for other people, I love myself first, I Act on my beliefs GOD gives, I make heavan my goal in the afterlife,I be honest to myself and GOD. ❤😊
I have endured that before
I'm flat chested
Wise commentary
My ego inflated
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They are like snakes
I’m 5 foot two and curvy and always get haters for my small waist and big hips, but 5 foot two isn’t that short when people make fun of me for being being short, I’m like there’s a lot of people that are 5 foot and under
@TheHardTard
Nibbler is ready to be picked up at the groomers!
Hey u beautiful ❤