honestly, i don't have many friends

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  • Опубліковано 27 лис 2024

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  • @sonny1redvw
    @sonny1redvw 16 днів тому +2

    I appreciate your transparency and openness. It’s refreshing.

  • @CuteeCupee
    @CuteeCupee Місяць тому +9

    I don’t want ppl near me anymore. I’ve used to be social but I think I prefer to be completely isolated now. I’ve gotten abused and burned so bad by friends, colleagues, just in general, and people like me may not realize until it’s too late how many bad people there are out there. I think I am autistic and I have bad adhd, depression, anxiety and a lot of my triggers are from other people being cruel. If friends are too clingy it’s prob a red flag anyways.

    • @CuteeCupee
      @CuteeCupee Місяць тому

      Have you looked into women masking in autism…the outcast stuff you brought up makes me wonder.

    • @bbmadeline
      @bbmadeline  Місяць тому +1

      sending you so much love! as cliché as it sounds you are not alone in feeling that way. it’s difficult to trust when you’re constantly being betrayed. i was evaluated for ASD but i did not meet the criteria. i have depression, anxiety, a personality disorder and some ADHD traits. hope you get the answers you are seeking.

  • @someoneelse5581
    @someoneelse5581 4 місяці тому +10

    Friendships take energy . And I have trust issues. 😅 I rather keep to myself .

  • @ThousandairesClub
    @ThousandairesClub 4 місяці тому +7

    *small minds discuss people, great minds discuss ideas* 🙌

  • @rachellevy180
    @rachellevy180 Місяць тому

    Thank you for saying out loud how u feel!!!!!! Im 53 and have felt soooooo guilty for feeling the way you describe in this video. Thank you very much for not making me feel so alone!!! I think you have a great personality for making these videos and you should keep going with it. I admire your ambition and the leap of faith doing what you are doing to make yourself successful in life. God bless. Take good care. Big hugs❤

  • @X-jj9zs
    @X-jj9zs 4 місяці тому +4

    I love this. I feel normal after hearing you say this. Thank you!

  • @mysticrose123
    @mysticrose123 4 місяці тому +4

    Girl, this is why I love u. I am the same way. I literally have one friend, and we text once a week or so, but we only see each other once every few years. I have tried to have close friends, and it just does not work. Thank u for sharing. Helps me to know I am not alone. This also reminds me of Anita Sirene's dark feminine vs light feminine video. This is her latest video. U might want to check it out. I found it to be very interesting.

    • @bbmadeline
      @bbmadeline  4 місяці тому +1

      love you too! grateful we connected. it’s difficult to navigate friendships being this way, happy that you relate. that’s why we get a long so well. currently watching her video. ✨

    • @mysticrose123
      @mysticrose123 4 місяці тому

      @@bbmadeline exactly ❤️ I hope u enjoy the video. I watched the first part of it yesterday. I will finish the rest today, but what I liked was how Anita described that being a dark feminine is often a response from the way we are treated by people. It made me feel understood.

    • @mysticrose123
      @mysticrose123 4 місяці тому

      I am watching the second half now.. I don't do hexes or curses, so I think I am a combo of the dark feminine and light feminine.

    • @bbmadeline
      @bbmadeline  4 місяці тому +2

      totally see you as a combo! the video is very informative. i feel like both too.

  • @trashyteddy
    @trashyteddy Місяць тому +1

    I appreciate how real you are, all the points you are listing are hitting, thank you for being so vulnerable.

  • @GodIsLove7377
    @GodIsLove7377 Місяць тому +4

    Girl I don’t blame you!

  • @chikaka9347
    @chikaka9347 3 місяці тому +4

    I resonate with everything you're describing 😮

  • @Wenndylao
    @Wenndylao 21 день тому

    Don’t feel bad. I don’t have friends because I feel like people are so fake… I hate the small talks being fake nah I dislike that.. I’m also an introvert and I can tell when someone is being fake with me… even family. So imagine… yeah I rather just be around true genuine people or just my own company.. which I love.💕

    • @bbmadeline
      @bbmadeline  21 день тому +1

      @@Wenndylao thank you for watching, you get it. proud introverts. ⭐️ just subscribed to your channel!

    • @Wenndylao
      @Wenndylao 19 днів тому

      @ thank you love

  • @neww0lf611
    @neww0lf611 Місяць тому

    You read my mind.

  • @sugarskulllyfe5890
    @sugarskulllyfe5890 Місяць тому +2

    love your videos can relate alot!

  • @GarysActionManChannel1970
    @GarysActionManChannel1970 4 місяці тому +2

    I'm the same need my own space

  • @BlakeIsaacs68
    @BlakeIsaacs68 4 місяці тому +2

    Love your honesty

  • @kimnguyen6160
    @kimnguyen6160 4 місяці тому +1

    Me the same! However, I could pretent and tolerate it! That is how I could do my job in customer service! They make me so drained of energy! 😂

  • @vitalie96
    @vitalie96 Місяць тому +1

    Oh, looks like there are people like me too. But we don't know about the existence of each other because we don't need a lot of communication :)

  • @willgurr
    @willgurr 9 днів тому

    I'm the same way

  • @gotinogaden
    @gotinogaden 3 місяці тому +4

    I get you. 34 yo. no friends. Most people don't know about it, and the ones who do usually see it as a big red flag. The prejudgment sucks, but at least people filter themselves out of my life in that way.

    • @bbmadeline
      @bbmadeline  3 місяці тому +1

      exactly! it's important to live our authentic truth. thanks for sharing. 🙂

  • @Fearless-Excellency
    @Fearless-Excellency Місяць тому

    Let’s be friends… 😊 you’re cute too

  • @davidmotyka2708
    @davidmotyka2708 Місяць тому +1

    Don’t worry I am 69 and single and happy.Go your way.

  • @software_training-ck9ng
    @software_training-ck9ng 21 день тому

    There are no introverts who speak in a video
    You mean suppressed in life

  • @adrian3747_
    @adrian3747_ Місяць тому +2

    lol i’m just like u!

  • @trashyteddy
    @trashyteddy Місяць тому

    12:06 is me! 🚩

  • @kingandqueengaming1103
    @kingandqueengaming1103 Місяць тому +1

    People suck friends are fake same here i hate ppl they look at you or stare or send bad energy im good off ppl and thy always wanna argue or fight im not foing back to jail so id rather stay home away from ppl but i can perform infront of 300 ppl easy but away from them 😅😂 your 30 grow up and go put sometimes stop making excuses like i did

  • @aguilar69
    @aguilar69 4 місяці тому +1

    Who needs them??

    • @bbmadeline
      @bbmadeline  4 місяці тому +3

      @@aguilar69 real ones are rare.

  • @3USRNAM3
    @3USRNAM3 Місяць тому +3

    damn are we the same person

  • @ugonnacegbuchulam1417
    @ugonnacegbuchulam1417 Місяць тому +2

    Am that guy. Lol

  • @Ks-em4em
    @Ks-em4em Місяць тому

    Hi beautiful ❤