@desireeangelicmelodies8709 she's wrong don't listen to her, still encourage them but don't narrated them cause that is wrong and they just need a second chance
@@layback76 you aren’t a target for gold diggers. You are broke and have no gold for them to dig. And how i know you’re broke is cuz only broke men use the term “gold digger”
Stressing everyone out but themselves is a hallmark of men. The broke men I’ve dated were only stressed because they couldn’t keep up. Other than that, they had no intention of upping their game. Pretty gross actually. Like- get some ambition!
I just broke up with one. Constant state of negativity and would take my happy moods to a low place with a single look. He used me and other people and women. It was disgusting to watch.
I was dating someone who was financially unstable.... he had lots of debt and issues holding on to solid employment... which made me question his overall choices and why he was willing to still date when he needed to get his life together...people need to get right with themselves before investing in a relationship.
You should do a video on men who are not broke they are in fact well off and they are stingy they don’t give women anything and they act like they’re broke
Just don't involve yourself with them, don't even try to understand them. As we get old, learn to not try to change some situations when we know there are 90%it will not change.... Just move on.
My ex freaked out when I asked him to take me to a restaurant that he thought cost a lot when it really didn't ..that's where I knew this was a big red flag on how cheap and broke he was. Yes he was always stressed and counting every penny.
I completely agree with this!!! Been there & done that & I definitely did not feel feminine & had to constantly compromise...guys think that it is about being materialistic although there is so much more to it than that! Thank you Dereck for breaking it down exactly how we women feel 🥰
Interesting 🤔 I was with one that wasn’t broke financially but was cheap. He was comfortable being BROKE DOWN in his own dysfunction. No evolution and it will never change.
Dam i aint watched a video of his on a longgg time but I had to click on thos one!!! And its all FACTS!!! BROKE ANS BROKEN!!! Sheesh theh will beinf you down like that plane did the twin towers!!!
Ladies, don't do it. I've done it, and I wasn't appreciated. That was a double slap in the face. Leave those bums where they are.
Girl yessss
@@desireeangelicmelodies8709nope🤓🖕
AMEN
@desireeangelicmelodies8709 she's wrong don't listen to her, still encourage them but don't narrated them cause that is wrong and they just need a second chance
Evolved men dont date while broke, they will not risk losing your respect
Messageeeee!!!!! Yesssss
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Not completely
You lost my respect for being 37kg's overweight. Go on a diet fa atty...
So True !
Broke men are also manipulative too.
They love to guilt trip you and say hold them down at their lowest. Sorry get somebody else to do it.
@@desireeangelicmelodies8709
Virtual hi five bow out quickly
@@desireeangelicmelodies8709speak for yourself 🤓 🖕
And play victim when they don’t get their way
Yess
it’s puts women in masculine energy and it makes women loses attraction and interest.
Yesssssss
@@QueeninMeNO
True
So true, also generally men who are not masculine
Dating CHEAP men is also very hazardous!!!
Dating Gold diggers is hazardous also!
Dating anyone is hazardous you better off pumping and dumping also it helps keep you’re sanity bc women bring nothing but drama no matter what race
The are few financial stable single men...so they must share🤔🤔🤔🤔
@@holyghost8467go find you a boyfriend, that’s what you really want unc-auntie
@@layback76 you aren’t a target for gold diggers. You are broke and have no gold for them to dig. And how i know you’re broke is cuz only broke men use the term “gold digger”
I’ve dated many broke men and each of them were content. Never stressed. I was always the one stressed and used.
Stressing everyone out but themselves is a hallmark of men. The broke men I’ve dated were only stressed because they couldn’t keep up. Other than that, they had no intention of upping their game. Pretty gross actually. Like- get some ambition!
Yup because you have taken all the stress on your shoulders for him. Because he's been happy being lazy
Broke men can not help you. They can not help pay your bills, can not buy you flowers, gifts, buy u dinner, etc. You are wasting your time with them.
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Omg this is sooooo true! 🥲 I always felt stressed, used, unappreciated, neglected , out of place etc.
Broke men are not horrible. They are not datable and shouldn't be dating. They're still trying to find themselves.
Now it all makes sense. This is why my ex and i broke up. He was always stressed out cuz he was broke and relied on me to fix the problem.
Same to my ex girlfriend thx god I left her
Why didn't he just get a job or 2 jobs ?
This goes for emotionally mentally spiritually broke men too
That is so true! He has to be comfortable being broke because he’s DATING! Wow!
Not my truth 🤓 🖕
Ikr! Wow!
It end up being hell..I felt like I had another son..smh
Sounds like my ex! He was always stressed out,he was always tired,he was always mad, very stressful! It’s not healthy for me…
EXTREMELY..HAZARDOUS...LADIES HURRY UP AND DODGE THIS BULLET
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Lord Jesus !!! I wish I would of watched this video before I got myself into a mess 😢
I just broke up with one. Constant state of negativity and would take my happy moods to a low place with a single look. He used me and other people and women. It was disgusting to watch.
I was dating someone who was financially unstable.... he had lots of debt and issues holding on to solid employment... which made me question his overall choices and why he was willing to still date when he needed to get his life together...people need to get right with themselves before investing in a relationship.
Speak for yourself 🤓 🖕
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Men don't care, theres men living in Homeless shelters trying to date.
He’s too comfortable.🤦🏽♀️ Not stressed out per se but acts like a baby when he can’t get his way.😒
You should do a video on men who are not broke they are in fact well off and they are stingy they don’t give women anything and they act like they’re broke
Agree!!!
Just don't involve yourself with them, don't even try to understand them. As we get old, learn to not try to change some situations when we know there are 90%it will not change.... Just move on.
True and they blame you for everthing have dated one and never again i beter single off single
My ex freaked out when I asked him to take me to a restaurant that he thought cost a lot when it really didn't ..that's where I knew this was a big red flag on how cheap and broke he was.
Yes he was always stressed and counting every penny.
Oh wow
1000% true. Didn’t work.
So true. I felt like his mom. So draining. Frustrated all the time w him.
Exactly! Nothing to offer, uncertain future.
I just got rid of one
Much respect to men who are a jack of all trades and a master of none. They know how to get themselves out of hardship 👏
Aww ain’t that sweet
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You are one hundred percent correct. Ladies, please listen.
Dating him now! And what your saying is the truth.
Better you than me. I am not having that.
@@vanaphill2454 did I ask your opinion and what makes you think I'm not handling it?
How's it going?
@@antno_2064 she dead 😮
@@cassiewalker6667yall still together? ❤
I completely agree with this!!! Been there & done that & I definitely did not feel feminine & had to constantly compromise...guys think that it is about being materialistic although there is so much more to it than that! Thank you Dereck for breaking it down exactly how we women feel 🥰
Gold digger
I really understand when would do it. Even as a woman I wouldn't do it ( not that Iam the provider)
I wish I knew this 7 years ago.
If he broke n stressed he needs to work harder
Broke and broken men are a big NO NO....RED FLAGS
Interesting 🤔 I was with one that wasn’t broke financially but was cheap. He was comfortable being BROKE DOWN in his own dysfunction. No evolution and it will never change.
Then he has a bum mentality.
How cheap?
@@ure2grit931 cheap
Change is the only constant
This is true I am dealing with someone broke it’s too much and I already told him not helping him no more .
I’ve dated broke men in the past. Always a nightmare.
I did it was hell. Never again no peace constant mood swings
I'm glad to get ready to let broke men go 😉 I'm better when I'm single
Can't wait to say this
A broke person would drag you down financially to their level to not feel broke.
Oh my goodness 😳 I couldn't have said it better.
Thank you so much.
I...and it wasn't fun, glad to say that I have my peace back
OMG--You're speaking to where I was in the past!
I see why JESUS going to end this world. This is the low budget conversation s
yes this is the truth smh. It definitely is frustrating smh
Soo true 💯% ...speaking my life and getting out of it now... 😭
They have "lack mindset"
Speak on it Derrick. We shouldn’t get into situations when that’s not what we really desire. Know thy self and move as such!
This was everything of my ex-husband
I--My ex-husband
I did! He did not even have a phone and that was my stupidity!
Toxic men do this...just a question though...do they ever change? Will they change for another person ?
They only change if they get with a very toxic woman that won’t care about him at all and will empty his pockets.
NO
No!
Not unless God turns their heart. They might be motivated to do better for another women but it dwindles down eventually and the mask slips off
Dam i aint watched a video of his on a longgg time but I had to click on thos one!!! And its all FACTS!!! BROKE ANS BROKEN!!! Sheesh theh will beinf you down like that plane did the twin towers!!!
Women also have to work on themselves too.
This hit the nail on the head ! 🎉
I agree 💯..
“Expect the projection of their lack of peace onto you that compromises your peace” 💯
True***You're so right!
I have. NEVER AGAIN!
I’d say “why dating men is hazardous”
I am so glad men are calling out these men. They are in no position to be a provider or someone with a plan for his life. You're not his mother!
So many people I know need to see this video
Evolved yes… also #1 criteria emotionally stable
This is 100% my ex
I and I won’t do it again. .
Enough is enough
.... I'm just here for entertainment purposes... please... continue...
Nothing is free🤦🏻♀️
Wow... This is interesting.. Hazardous
Thank you for this hard lesson
Broken inside = Broken outside. Stay away
My fave topic
Everything you say is true because I've dated one
Ungreatful
So true...💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
What if he has a job
Dealing with this now
I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️
True
I rather stay single!
Facts
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I love you guys so much ❤️❤️
I am going thru it now
Y'all soft.
It’s the worst decision I ever made in my life worse pay for everything 😢😢😢😢😢
Team Jaxn! This entire video from my own experience is nothing more than 100% truth.
So true
Facts
Dating him now. 💯
Why is this the truth 😱😱😱
My ex wouldn’t even get me McDonalds because $7 is “expensive“ to him.
Disgusting
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I hope you dump him since he can’t even spend a meal on you.
Sounds like my dad
Damn my ex pay our Chinese food in Pennie’s dimes and quarter before
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Great Video keep bringing them !
Sooo true.
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Yep👍👍👍
perfect video
😭😭You are talking to me, exactly my experience.
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Facts!!!
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