The comments are not for her there for us . Every comment or view she gets is cash in her pocket! Like the rest of us she just wants to get paid. Lol all and we’re all doing the work for her!
Either way it's telling truth for the new age. Decent guys who know of situations female have ruined the guy over stupid stupid things are becoming more passive and bachelor. It used to be women fear crazy guys but now adays
Why women should not be putted in masculine roles? I think it should not be case of feminism or anti-feminism, it should be just freedom of choice. No one should train me to act any social role.
She’s referring strictly to relationships. If you want to take on a more “masculine” role in your life, your career choice, your educational, your hobbies, interests, clothes, etc then that’s totally fine. But when it comes to a relationship there needs to be polarity. That’s a very important dynamic. Having 2 masculine or 2 feminine energies from both sides just won’t work. So if a woman is on the more masculine side, chances are she’ll attract a feminine guy. If that works for you then great but the majority of the time women want to feel feminine in a relationship. They want to be pursued. They want to be looked after and taken care of. Feminine men are weak. They’re the ones who want women to chase them while they sit back and relax. They are unwilling and/or unable to provide and protect their woman. Personally it’s not what I like. A man should be strong, disciplined, ambitious, rational and a good leader. He knows what he wants and goes for it. I wouldn’t want some overly emotional, scared, weak, submissive, confused man. But hey, if that’s your thing then go for it
@@raincoathavelinah let her cook she’s right women want to be pursued tf shut up ur just mad she’s staying her opinion from her experience and I agree !!! Stay mad
They brought women to this point!! Women are scared and terrified in the first place by the toxicity and danger (also physical!!) of maschilism and machism to the point of reacting this way. If you look at history, men and a society built for them have always been the problem in the first place.
*It's not a woman's job to be a man's therapist. And I feel the same vice versa. These "disenfranchised men" you speak of are not wronged. They're creeps. They think messaging a woman over and over again while getting increasingly creepy and threatening is the way to go. I, among many many women in this world, have given at least ONE of these types of men a chance and ended up either broken or trapped in a cycle of abuse and manipulation by these men. Women's response to this is to be much more selective and careful when choosing a man so we don't end up getting murdered like hundreds of abuse victims every day. If men are scared to attack, insult, or dehumanize women GOOD. I want them to walk on eggshells around women because too many of us have paid the price for a man's selfish needs.*
I agree, with the caveat being that 'waking on eggshells' should be if that man feels the being disrespectful and abusive is okay. These men need therapy and need to work on themselves. They need professional help because they seem to think toxic masculinity is acceptable. They are not 'disenfranchised' they are toxic.
@@raincoathaveli Anyone is capable of hurting another person. Some people don't even know it themselves. I want everyone in this world to feel TERRIFIED to do bad shit. I want EVERYONE to be afraid of doing things that hurt another person.
These men are disenfranchised for a reason. The type of rehab they need could never come from a relationship, they need professional help. They’re people with deep-rooted issues that really don’t have much to do with modern feminism, but are maybe exacerbated by modern feminism. If they can’t meet the social standard, they need to do the work to figure out how. That’s always been the way for everyone.
Rehab we need! Check yourself. No woman has the right to tell a man how to be a man!!! Just as no man has the right to tell a woman how to be a woman. Do better!!
Batra, from a personal standpoint, if you would drop the whole "I'm a sociopath..." thing, once in a while, I agree with you. I don't think you should drop "feminism" just because of one person (or several?), because the opposite side at least borders on women as being inequal. I heard somewhere your husband is this huge manosphere misogynist--I don't personally know you of course, so I don't know how much that is true, but on the chance it is, I can see why you might be influenced to adopt his views. But aren't you stronger than that? On the other hand, from a branding POV, keep the sociopathy thing but stress it and only it. Your gimmick is that you're telling things as they are from the POV of someone with ASPD right? Well, this is kind of genius...if you do it right. I say this because for now, you've pretty much got that market cornered. But lately you're sprinkling in this advice that drifts too far from having anything to do with the sociopathy angle. I think pick one (sociopath or dating advice) and do that, but don't mix them unless there is a very clear connection (which some of your videos have but consistency would help). Just letting you know this outsider's view--i.e., what someone approaching this intelligently, objectively, and with some experience sees.
Maybe read in between the lines? People forget shes an honest sociopath. She made money off her own branding and advertising "Cinderella's revenge." I think it's very obvious this is her getting a niche following in the manosphere side of the internet. Makes money here, makes money there, she doesn't care who she's talking to, she's a sociopath remember?
@@setme4ree Sadly it gives "pick me women" vibes lately. Kind of sad. I followed because I was interested in the unique view of a sociopath. Also, feminism isn't meant to put men down. It just means we want equality. But if Batra wants to demonize feminists now, too to reach a specific bubble and grow her channel with them, she is absolutely entitled to do so, of course. I don't need to approve nor support it, though.
Same, I have unsubscribed for now. Shame, because I really liked learning about sociopathy from her, and want to support destigmatising and promote awareness. I think dating advice is related to sociopathy... She has to learn how to and choose to treat a partner well. People who struggle to connect aren't automatically connecting, they may benefit from learning social rules rote. I think this often comes from the relative lack of socialisation common in male upbringings.
@@laurenscool1 It Isn't "By Design" Tho. Have You Never Heard The Term "It Takes A Village" To Raise Kids? That's Bc It DID Take A Village. Do Some Basic Research Please Lol.
@@septimaserpent "village" = family Grandmothers, Grandfather's, sisters, bothers, aunts, uncles etc And the community. A happy and thriving community build by happy, well adjusted and thriving people raised by a nuclear family. It's crazy to me people are pretending they don't see the benefits of that lmao
@@septimaserpent a community of broken families is what makes up the ghetto. Children raised by single parent households That village will not help you raise a child. That community cares only about themselves
feminism should be about equality and “live and let live”, not the war it has seemed to become. Nothing wrong with being a masculine woman or a feminine man, nobody should feel pressured to fit any role. Feminism used to be about women fighting for equal rights to men, now there’s a whole load of other shite added onto it that has nothing to do with feminism. It’s mad
That’s the point equality! So more women working in mines, construction, military. More men in health care, libraries,and infant care. Or is that the wrong equality? Equality doesn’t have anything to do with gender “masculine “ or “feminine “ , Traditional values or rolls.
3rd wave feminism is very influenced by marketing that's why no one can agree on what feminism should be anymore. Somehow, we allowed the porn industry to convince us that worling for them is fighting for feminism and we will always have someone criticizing us for being a mother or not being one, for not x but also not being y. At this point, everyone has their own version of feminism and use it exclusively for their own advantage, like not taking accountability.
I'm normally usually on board with what you say but this.... isn't it. Women should be allowed to pursue men and men aren't suffering because of "feminism." Im not saying that men don't get a lot of support. They don't. But Patriarchy and misogyny and how it often divorces men from being more open and communicative as well as concepts such as intersectional feminism is the root cause. Not. Feminism? Men can be and are apart of feminism. Teaching men to be better and more in touch with themselves, and their feelings is a good thing. It should be your focus. But women in "masculine roles" like you claim just because they're pursuing men aren't bad. Men and women should be on equal footing. Not forced into roles like what you are preaching here. It is natural for women to pursue men just as it's natural for men to pursue women.
The pursuing thing isn't merely us women moralizing about whether doing so is morally wrong or right. Masculine energy pursues, feminine energy receives. When a woman is forced to be a pursuer in masculine energy when she has mostly natural feminine receiving energy, it HURTS her emotionally, puts unnecessary pressure on her nervous system, and has the ADDED BONUS of making her feel undesirable and not seductive. If a naturally feminine woman has to be forced into her masculine energy and happens to have any children, they are prone to end up having an overworked, stressed out mother who has to be in both a feminine energy and masculine energy, fending for her family, cleaning up after it, nurturing it, financially supporting it, and protecting it - a job meant for at least 2 people. A mature man in his masculine energy pursues, contains, protects, and fends for his lady. I agree men should be less suppressed about emotions. It is good for women to be pursuers if they naturally have more masculine energy. Nothing wrong with that. This video isn't addressing women like that.
@@karasmusic123 Yeeeeah no. Thats just some social engineering crap there. People are free and equal to do pursuing/be persued as they please. Theres no "masculine energy" that hurts women emotionally. Thats a total load of garbage. Come on now. Be stronger than believing that crap. As humans we are capable of emotionality no matter how we behave.
@@karasmusic123 there is no such thing as anything that you just talked about. Women aren't "more masculine" for pursuing men. There's no such thing as inherent masculine or feminine energy. Y'all aren't doing anything to challenge gender roles when you do this you're just reinforcing them.
@@Valentine-kx7fk Masculine-feminine energy IS a real thing that plays a role in gay dynamics as well. It's not just a sexist hetero man-woman thing. MJ Harris (a gay man in his feminine energy) and Teal Swan suggest the same. ua-cam.com/users/shortsKRLIWxXebKg?feature=share
I am also an ex-feminist but for a different reason. This happened over a period of years as I watched it disintegrate into a shell of its original self. I agree with you. It became like so many other things that were born out of a need for correction. However, instead of leveling out it snowballed into a severe over correction as those with more extreme goals & ideas took over. My change happened when I saw women chastising other women for their personal choices. It was like those women’s choices were wrong because they weren’t the choices they thought were best for them. It was mostly regarding women who chose to not work and stayed at home and took care of their families. I questioned some of these women about why they would say these things about another woman’s choice. All I got were arguments without answers to my questions. Wasn’t this whole movement about women having a choice no matter what their choice was? So what if you don’t agree, as long as a woman has the right to choose. I don’t see the movement as a colossal failure because there was change that needed to happen. It just became like too many other good ideas that formed movements with good intentions that morphed into something it was never intended to be. Now it just seems to serve confusion and injects it into society like a virus wrapped in a pretty package. Once you get past the pretty paper and go deeper into the box you can see it for what it is- just another organization trying to tell you what you need to do, how you need to think, and how you need to act. So, at this point, how is it any different than the original problem it was created to tame? It’s not.
Completely agree with you. The lack of communication is preventing men from understanding women and vice versa. Antagonising men and calling them names doesn't make anything better.
Lots of women I know love talking about feelings and relationships with just about anyone. It is kind of a thing. What kind of communication is lacking?
@@LC-uz3og Women love talking. But they don't listen. Their ears receive the sounds we know as words and then their brains interpret what was said into something totally different.
@@LC-uz3og It's not even just about love, it's about mutual understanding in general. Women have challenges in life, men have some too. I'm a woman, got some friends of both genders that just don't feel acknowledged. We all have our struggles and seriously need to learn to talk calmly about it. It's not a competition of who is the most misunderstood/victim, and random strangers don't have to pay for poor experiences people of any gender went through.
Comunication issues, unempathy etc is so common when i found my man i was shocked He and me have better communication than some married people I feel save talking about my issues and boundaries with me and he told me he is save with me too We know we wont ever fully understand eachother but with empathy and trying we doo out best We arent eaven married yet but we have full Respekt for eachother , most people these days are full Me me me me me And dont see the opposite gender as people, just as a sex object and a companion to them /like a doll they can do whatever And lie around, and want just fun and no responsibility I wanted to get married since i was 16 but iv meet mostly woman hating passport bros who just wanred to be violent without consequences My partner is Turkish and he wouldn't never dare to touch me and we have mutal respect and sees me as a person Saddly hes a rarity these days since "common sense, basic human decency" Arent common but im gratefull iv meet him and have someone in this sea of toxic people
@@levtieart3409 Wishing you both happiness and a peaceful life! You said it, empathy is key. Life is something easier and enjoyable when it's not a fight but teamwork 😊👌
The pursuing thing isn't merely us women moralizing about whether doing so is morally wrong or right. Masculine energy pursues, feminine energy receives. When a woman is forced to be a pursuer in masculine energy when she has mostly natural feminine receiving energy, it HURTS her emotionally, puts unnecessary pressure on her nervous system, and has the ADDED BONUS of making her feel undesirable, "unchaseable", and not seductive. If a naturally feminine woman has to be forced into her masculine energy and happens to have any children, they are prone to end up having an overworked, stressed out mother who has to be in both a feminine energy and masculine energy, fending for her family, cleaning up after it, nurturing it, financially supporting it, and protecting it - a job meant for at least 2 people. A mature man in his masculine energy pursues, contains, protects, and fends for his lady. It is good for women to be pursuers if they naturally have more masculine energy. Nothing wrong with that. This video isn't addressing women like that.
@@shamanahaboolist it’s just wild to blame feminism for that. Especially considering her history with stalkers and married men who she outed to their wives or smt. But I do see your point
@@karasmusic123 I see where you are coming from. A want to be accepted in a society in your expected role and have the benefits of that expected role… but don’t try to justify it with evolutionary psychology or some stuff about “masculine/feminine energy”, it is simply trying to justify your biases
@@riari6980 Not really. Feminism is misandry and one of the key negative aspects of modern feminism is that it exposes that misandry to men and causes them to reject relationships all together instead of being open and vulnerable to manipulation.
I can't believe this. I used to like your channel and now you're saying women shouldn't be equal to men and be more submissive instead of being "masculine"?
Yes! I've noticed that it's basically a lack of respect for each other whether in a relationship or on the dating scene. How do you expect your partner to respect you when you don't respect them?
I am a third wave feminist, and support having men's spaces where men learn wholesome masculinity which includes being able to express their emotions and communicate. I hope there are more spaces in third wave feminism for men to be able to learn third wave feminism and learn to live healthfully.
@@DellaDykeborn It's usually just a roll of the dice to a man if it's welcome or not. There's nowhere near enough able to be communicated between people, before an approach, to be certain of anything. One flash of a lack of confidence and a man will be deemed a creep unless he's very good looking. That's just the way it is for men.
That's fine, but it doesn't make a woman "more masculine" or unnatural for pursuing men like this video claims. It's weird to be making up "energies" around things like "who approaches who to date."
I know a lot of women who don't hate men, they're scared of them because they've been abused. You're going to behave defensively if you're scared of something. A guy posted on Facebook a few days ago, 'men deserve a woman that's going to stay loyal to them no matter what', I pointed out that I wouldn't stay with an abuser, he said I turned it negative and I pointed out that he said no matter what meaning that they expect to treat a woman how they want and the woman stay with him, he said, sorry you read it this way, I then commented that this response was very narcissistic and it was perfectly fine to admit that you didn't see that bit of the post the way that others saw it, he then removed me as a 'friend' so I couldn't comment but him and his friend continued to tag me in stuff and troll me. This is the type of idiocy we're up against. Unfortunately these arseholes are so loud and try to be overpowering that it leaves the nice guys nowhere to be seen and I know there are nice guys, I have a lot of male friends, some I've been close with for over 20 years and 3 brothers
@@5EmBem Men getting help for whatever issues they have is not women’s responsibilities. Most men don’t try to be understanding of each other and they don’t try to help each other. Women have their own issues, so if men really need help and they actually they’d try to do something about it.
@@iammar1159 your comment doesn't make any sense as I didn't mention it being a woman's responsibility or men getting help. I simply made the point of the arseholes overpowering the nice guys so a lot of women get scared by men in general and act defensively to the person that think that women hate men.
and why do you think it is men have to walk on eggshells? Yes because of other men women need to constantly be on guard and in returne are not as trustworthy towards men
Something tells me one of her friends pissed her off, her videos are slowly starting to repeat the manosphere points. She is smart enough to know the answers to all the dumb questions she's asking, guess she is on her way to grift men like she used to grift women.
I like this new angle Kanika, yes to having someone out there taking it upon themselves to take a more human approach with men, hope to see more in the near future, thanks for pioneering this on the YT streets though
I think you got many things wrong. And the sequence of some phenomena and their causes. But I'd say the most disturbing thing is saying women shouldn't be in masculine roles. What is a masculine role? And if we use the traditional concepts of masculine and feminine roles why shouldn't men and women share them both in any extent each individual wants? And based on what research are you saying people are not making families anymore bc I don't think it's the case. But if it was, why should people think more about making a family?
Kanika, you need to look into bell hooks and Terrence Real. Or just admit to being a grifter. I used to have so much respect for you and was learning so much about cluster b personality disorders from you but now that's not even what your content is about anymore. Guess I'll have to find others with lived perspectives on cluster b disorders if I want to actually continue to learn anything useful so as a neuroscientist a psychologist, I can help people of all backgrounds with as much information and as little judgement as possible.
No she’s right, when do u see someone talk about the good ways men & women’s differences compliment each other instead of y they despise of each others differences. ❤️🩹
come on, she’s trolling, or y’all forgot who she is?💀
The comments are not for her there for us . Every comment or view she gets is cash in her pocket! Like the rest of us she just wants to get paid. Lol all and we’re all doing the work for her!
Either way it's telling truth for the new age. Decent guys who know of situations female have ruined the guy over stupid stupid things are becoming more passive and bachelor. It used to be women fear crazy guys but now adays
We are too individualized to date in 2023. Men and women need to work together to solve the problems together before we get anywhere.
Exactly!
Lol she was a feminist just a couple weeks ago
Your point?
She says whatever gets her more views
@@laurenscool1She even openly admits that. Sociopaths are social chameleons
@@jourdonpatron212 yea so idk why anyone puts any weight into the things she says. Seems like her following is just a social experiment for her
Hahahahahahaha! Now that's funny!
Why women should not be putted in masculine roles? I think it should not be case of feminism or anti-feminism, it should be just freedom of choice. No one should train me to act any social role.
She’s referring strictly to relationships. If you want to take on a more “masculine” role in your life, your career choice, your educational, your hobbies, interests, clothes, etc then that’s totally fine.
But when it comes to a relationship there needs to be polarity. That’s a very important dynamic. Having 2 masculine or 2 feminine energies from both sides just won’t work. So if a woman is on the more masculine side, chances are she’ll attract a feminine guy. If that works for you then great but the majority of the time women want to feel feminine in a relationship. They want to be pursued. They want to be looked after and taken care of. Feminine men are weak. They’re the ones who want women to chase them while they sit back and relax. They are unwilling and/or unable to provide and protect their woman. Personally it’s not what I like. A man should be strong, disciplined, ambitious, rational and a good leader. He knows what he wants and goes for it. I wouldn’t want some overly emotional, scared, weak, submissive, confused man. But hey, if that’s your thing then go for it
@@TravelBug189 you made some huge generalizations not based on studies on the issue. Your entitled to your opinion, but its not based on facts.
@@raincoathavelinah let her cook she’s right women want to be pursued tf shut up ur just mad she’s staying her opinion from her experience and I agree !!! Stay mad
@@Inkbkank.2029 an unintelligent 'response' doesn't warrant any response.
@@loumona76 You're great as well! All the best!
They brought women to this point!! Women are scared and terrified in the first place by the toxicity and danger (also physical!!) of maschilism and machism to the point of reacting this way. If you look at history, men and a society built for them have always been the problem in the first place.
Yeah and litterally I'm being creeped on by my fucking old ass boss. This is why feminism exists
Boo! I’m the boogeyman!
*It's not a woman's job to be a man's therapist. And I feel the same vice versa. These "disenfranchised men" you speak of are not wronged. They're creeps. They think messaging a woman over and over again while getting increasingly creepy and threatening is the way to go. I, among many many women in this world, have given at least ONE of these types of men a chance and ended up either broken or trapped in a cycle of abuse and manipulation by these men. Women's response to this is to be much more selective and careful when choosing a man so we don't end up getting murdered like hundreds of abuse victims every day. If men are scared to attack, insult, or dehumanize women GOOD. I want them to walk on eggshells around women because too many of us have paid the price for a man's selfish needs.*
I agree, with the caveat being that 'waking on eggshells' should be if that man feels the being disrespectful and abusive is okay. These men need therapy and need to work on themselves. They need professional help because they seem to think toxic masculinity is acceptable. They are not 'disenfranchised' they are toxic.
@@raincoathaveli Anyone is capable of hurting another person. Some people don't even know it themselves. I want everyone in this world to feel TERRIFIED to do bad shit. I want EVERYONE to be afraid of doing things that hurt another person.
These men are disenfranchised for a reason. The type of rehab they need could never come from a relationship, they need professional help. They’re people with deep-rooted issues that really don’t have much to do with modern feminism, but are maybe exacerbated by modern feminism. If they can’t meet the social standard, they need to do the work to figure out how. That’s always been the way for everyone.
100%.
Rehab we need! Check yourself. No woman has the right to tell a man how to be a man!!! Just as no man has the right to tell a woman how to be a woman. Do better!!
THIS
A lot of them need serious help but they refuse to get it because they refuse to acknowledge that they have problems.
@@iammar1159 , women need just as much if not more help then men! Don’t blame men for what your mothers raised! Aka the fault of women.
since when are you empathising with men lmao this is so forced and clearly a move on expanding your audience
It feels exactly like that!
she’s going to try to start grifting from the manosphere lmao
I mean I fail to see why anyone is surprised at the self proclaimed sociopath have zero compunction about jumping all over on topics to get more views
Batra, from a personal standpoint, if you would drop the whole "I'm a sociopath..." thing, once in a while, I agree with you. I don't think you should drop "feminism" just because of one person (or several?), because the opposite side at least borders on women as being inequal. I heard somewhere your husband is this huge manosphere misogynist--I don't personally know you of course, so I don't know how much that is true, but on the chance it is, I can see why you might be influenced to adopt his views. But aren't you stronger than that?
On the other hand, from a branding POV, keep the sociopathy thing but stress it and only it. Your gimmick is that you're telling things as they are from the POV of someone with ASPD right? Well, this is kind of genius...if you do it right. I say this because for now, you've pretty much got that market cornered. But lately you're sprinkling in this advice that drifts too far from having anything to do with the sociopathy angle. I think pick one (sociopath or dating advice) and do that, but don't mix them unless there is a very clear connection (which some of your videos have but consistency would help).
Just letting you know this outsider's view--i.e., what someone approaching this intelligently, objectively, and with some experience sees.
Maybe read in between the lines? People forget shes an honest sociopath. She made money off her own branding and advertising "Cinderella's revenge." I think it's very obvious this is her getting a niche following in the manosphere side of the internet. Makes money here, makes money there, she doesn't care who she's talking to, she's a sociopath remember?
I think shes trying to get new/more viewers based on the caption. Like appeal to more people
Exactly perfectly said clap 👏🏾
@@setme4ree Sadly it gives "pick me women" vibes lately. Kind of sad. I followed because I was interested in the unique view of a sociopath.
Also, feminism isn't meant to put men down. It just means we want equality. But if Batra wants to demonize feminists now, too to reach a specific bubble and grow her channel with them, she is absolutely entitled to do so, of course.
I don't need to approve nor support it, though.
Same, I have unsubscribed for now. Shame, because I really liked learning about sociopathy from her, and want to support destigmatising and promote awareness.
I think dating advice is related to sociopathy... She has to learn how to and choose to treat a partner well. People who struggle to connect aren't automatically connecting, they may benefit from learning social rules rote. I think this often comes from the relative lack of socialisation common in male upbringings.
why does everything have to circle back to starting a family though lol
Reproducing is our biological imperative. A 2 parent household is the best way to raise children
It's by design
Thank Youuuuy
@@laurenscool1
It Isn't "By Design" Tho. Have You Never Heard The Term "It Takes A Village" To Raise Kids? That's Bc It DID Take A Village. Do Some Basic Research Please Lol.
@@septimaserpent "village" = family
Grandmothers, Grandfather's, sisters, bothers, aunts, uncles etc
And the community. A happy and thriving community build by happy, well adjusted and thriving people raised by a nuclear family. It's crazy to me people are pretending they don't see the benefits of that lmao
@@septimaserpent a community of broken families is what makes up the ghetto. Children raised by single parent households
That village will not help you raise a child. That community cares only about themselves
feminism should be about equality and “live and let live”, not the war it has seemed to become. Nothing wrong with being a masculine woman or a feminine man, nobody should feel pressured to fit any role. Feminism used to be about women fighting for equal rights to men, now there’s a whole load of other shite added onto it that has nothing to do with feminism. It’s mad
That’s the point equality! So more women working in mines, construction, military. More men in health care, libraries,and infant care. Or is that the wrong equality? Equality doesn’t have anything to do with gender “masculine “ or “feminine “ , Traditional values or rolls.
idk what third wave feminism has to do with any of this. 😐
3rd wave feminism is very influenced by marketing that's why no one can agree on what feminism should be anymore. Somehow, we allowed the porn industry to convince us that worling for them is fighting for feminism and we will always have someone criticizing us for being a mother or not being one, for not x but also not being y. At this point, everyone has their own version of feminism and use it exclusively for their own advantage, like not taking accountability.
It destroys men and women
I'm normally usually on board with what you say but this.... isn't it.
Women should be allowed to pursue men and men aren't suffering because of "feminism." Im not saying that men don't get a lot of support. They don't. But Patriarchy and misogyny and how it often divorces men from being more open and communicative as well as concepts such as intersectional feminism is the root cause. Not. Feminism?
Men can be and are apart of feminism. Teaching men to be better and more in touch with themselves, and their feelings is a good thing. It should be your focus. But women in "masculine roles" like you claim just because they're pursuing men aren't bad. Men and women should be on equal footing. Not forced into roles like what you are preaching here. It is natural for women to pursue men just as it's natural for men to pursue women.
The pursuing thing isn't merely us women moralizing about whether doing so is morally wrong or right. Masculine energy pursues, feminine energy receives. When a woman is forced to be a pursuer in masculine energy when she has mostly natural feminine receiving energy, it HURTS her emotionally, puts unnecessary pressure on her nervous system, and has the ADDED BONUS of making her feel undesirable and not seductive. If a naturally feminine woman has to be forced into her masculine energy and happens to have any children, they are prone to end up having an overworked, stressed out mother who has to be in both a feminine energy and masculine energy, fending for her family, cleaning up after it, nurturing it, financially supporting it, and protecting it - a job meant for at least 2 people. A mature man in his masculine energy pursues, contains, protects, and fends for his lady.
I agree men should be less suppressed about emotions.
It is good for women to be pursuers if they naturally have more masculine energy. Nothing wrong with that. This video isn't addressing women like that.
@@karasmusic123 Yeeeeah no. Thats just some social engineering crap there. People are free and equal to do pursuing/be persued as they please. Theres no "masculine energy" that hurts women emotionally. Thats a total load of garbage. Come on now. Be stronger than believing that crap. As humans we are capable of emotionality no matter how we behave.
@@karasmusic123 there is no such thing as anything that you just talked about. Women aren't "more masculine" for pursuing men. There's no such thing as inherent masculine or feminine energy. Y'all aren't doing anything to challenge gender roles when you do this you're just reinforcing them.
@@Valentine-kx7fk Masculine-feminine energy IS a real thing that plays a role in gay dynamics as well. It's not just a sexist hetero man-woman thing.
MJ Harris (a gay man in his feminine energy) and Teal Swan suggest the same.
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I’m not pursuing no man it rarely ever works out tf
I am also an ex-feminist but for a different reason. This happened over a period of years as I watched it disintegrate into a shell of its original self. I agree with you. It became like so many other things that were born out of a need for correction. However, instead of leveling out it snowballed into a severe over correction as those with more extreme goals & ideas took over. My change happened when I saw women chastising other women for their personal choices. It was like those women’s choices were wrong because they weren’t the choices they thought were best for them. It was mostly regarding women who chose to not work and stayed at home and took care of their families. I questioned some of these women about why they would say these things about another woman’s choice. All I got were arguments without answers to my questions. Wasn’t this whole movement about women having a choice no matter what their choice was? So what if you don’t agree, as long as a woman has the right to choose. I don’t see the movement as a colossal failure because there was change that needed to happen. It just became like too many other good ideas that formed movements with good intentions that morphed into something it was never intended to be. Now it just seems to serve confusion and injects it into society like a virus wrapped in a pretty package. Once you get past the pretty paper and go deeper into the box you can see it for what it is- just another organization trying to tell you what you need to do, how you need to think, and how you need to act. So, at this point, how is it any different than the original problem it was created to tame? It’s not.
Completely agree with you. The lack of communication is preventing men from understanding women and vice versa. Antagonising men and calling them names doesn't make anything better.
Lots of women I know love talking about feelings and relationships with just about anyone. It is kind of a thing. What kind of communication is lacking?
@@LC-uz3og Women love talking. But they don't listen. Their ears receive the sounds we know as words and then their brains interpret what was said into something totally different.
@@LC-uz3og It's not even just about love, it's about mutual understanding in general. Women have challenges in life, men have some too. I'm a woman, got some friends of both genders that just don't feel acknowledged. We all have our struggles and seriously need to learn to talk calmly about it. It's not a competition of who is the most misunderstood/victim, and random strangers don't have to pay for poor experiences people of any gender went through.
Comunication issues, unempathy etc is so common when i found my man i was shocked
He and me have better communication than some married people
I feel save talking about my issues and boundaries with me and he told me he is save with me too
We know we wont ever fully understand eachother but with empathy and trying we doo out best
We arent eaven married yet but we have full Respekt for eachother
, most people these days are full
Me me me me me
And dont see the opposite gender as people, just as a sex object and a companion to them /like a doll they can do whatever
And lie around, and want just fun and no responsibility
I wanted to get married since i was 16 but iv meet mostly woman hating passport bros who just wanred to be violent without consequences
My partner is Turkish and he wouldn't never dare to touch me and we have mutal respect and sees me as a person
Saddly hes a rarity these days since "common sense, basic human decency" Arent common but im gratefull iv meet him and have someone in this sea of toxic people
@@levtieart3409 Wishing you both happiness and a peaceful life! You said it, empathy is key. Life is something easier and enjoyable when it's not a fight but teamwork 😊👌
Feminism isn’t about women being better than men. It’s about equality.
I’m disappointed in you. Why are you trying to jump on the right wing pickup guru grift and demonize feminism 😭
The pursuing thing isn't merely us women moralizing about whether doing so is morally wrong or right. Masculine energy pursues, feminine energy receives. When a woman is forced to be a pursuer in masculine energy when she has mostly natural feminine receiving energy, it HURTS her emotionally, puts unnecessary pressure on her nervous system, and has the ADDED BONUS of making her feel undesirable, "unchaseable", and not seductive. If a naturally feminine woman has to be forced into her masculine energy and happens to have any children, they are prone to end up having an overworked, stressed out mother who has to be in both a feminine energy and masculine energy, fending for her family, cleaning up after it, nurturing it, financially supporting it, and protecting it - a job meant for at least 2 people. A mature man in his masculine energy pursues, contains, protects, and fends for his lady.
It is good for women to be pursuers if they naturally have more masculine energy. Nothing wrong with that. This video isn't addressing women like that.
Probably isn't a grift. She believes that women SHOULD use men for access to money and status.
@@shamanahaboolist it’s just wild to blame feminism for that. Especially considering her history with stalkers and married men who she outed to their wives or smt. But I do see your point
@@karasmusic123 I see where you are coming from. A want to be accepted in a society in your expected role and have the benefits of that expected role… but don’t try to justify it with evolutionary psychology or some stuff about “masculine/feminine energy”, it is simply trying to justify your biases
@@riari6980 Not really. Feminism is misandry and one of the key negative aspects of modern feminism is that it exposes that misandry to men and causes them to reject relationships all together instead of being open and vulnerable to manipulation.
I'm happy to see you speaking on these issues.
Grindr has spiked in popularity
I can't believe this. I used to like your channel and now you're saying women shouldn't be equal to men and be more submissive instead of being "masculine"?
It’s not natural for a woman to chase a man I agree completely
Yes! I've noticed that it's basically a lack of respect for each other whether in a relationship or on the dating scene. How do you expect your partner to respect you when you don't respect them?
People miss the point of this video. She'll say anything to get her views and cash, but she warned you at the start when she said she's a sociopath
I am a third wave feminist, and support having men's spaces where men learn wholesome masculinity which includes being able to express their emotions and communicate. I hope there are more spaces in third wave feminism for men to be able to learn third wave feminism and learn to live healthfully.
I don't care anymore I got my passport ✈
Fuck yeah! I second this. say it loudeeerrrrr ❤❤❤. You have my VOTE
Cause men like to play games with good ass females and wonder why we fed tf up 🤷🏻♀️
I completely agree. I want a man who pursues me. I am old fashioned that way.
I'm tired of men pursuing me as I'm not interested. And yes, it still happens.
We're damned if we do and damned if we don't. At least if we don't we just get to enjoy our lives.
@@shamanahaboolist How are you damned? Ask if someone is interested before making overtures. It's only damned when unwelcome.
@@DellaDykeborn It's usually just a roll of the dice to a man if it's welcome or not. There's nowhere near enough able to be communicated between people, before an approach, to be certain of anything. One flash of a lack of confidence and a man will be deemed a creep unless he's very good looking. That's just the way it is for men.
That's fine, but it doesn't make a woman "more masculine" or unnatural for pursuing men like this video claims. It's weird to be making up "energies" around things like "who approaches who to date."
Real feminism has always been beneficial to men as well. If it hurts women or men, it's not real feminism.
I dont think anyone should walk on eggshells, I just want everyone to at least try to see the others POV
Fact I agree with you100%
Very astute, I concur! It seems very combative a desired opponent instead of partnership Many women too, looking outside the states?
The book "The Dating App Confessions" by Logan Tindell has given me some good insights about dating today.
Btw this woman is a sociopath. Lol ironic
Another insightful video!
Is this a parody?
As a gay man I agree 💯
Social engineering is a dangerous thing...
@jaumartinez9006 How so?
@jaumartinez9006…
I actually agree with this one
Girl, it's not just a communication issue. See what society expects from women now. Gosh. Such a narrow view of looking at the world. Gees
Could’ve definitely blended the makeup better.
And your parents could have done a way better job, but here we are.
@@JB48632pointfour😂😂😂 love this.
How is that relevant? 😂
I don't think she cares about your irrelevant opinion. She probably prefers it this way so you wasted your time pointing this out. 🤷🏽♀️
Thats not nice!..... but honestly, she is such a beauty, I bet she looks amazing without makeup and doesn't need it at all.
Idk me pursuing a guy feels pretty natural to me 🤷♀️
Oh it needs to happen but right now it's pointless seeing how most women "hate men" so we just stay single and not worry about it
I know a lot of women who don't hate men, they're scared of them because they've been abused.
You're going to behave defensively if you're scared of something.
A guy posted on Facebook a few days ago, 'men deserve a woman that's going to stay loyal to them no matter what', I pointed out that I wouldn't stay with an abuser, he said I turned it negative and I pointed out that he said no matter what meaning that they expect to treat a woman how they want and the woman stay with him, he said, sorry you read it this way, I then commented that this response was very narcissistic and it was perfectly fine to admit that you didn't see that bit of the post the way that others saw it, he then removed me as a 'friend' so I couldn't comment but him and his friend continued to tag me in stuff and troll me.
This is the type of idiocy we're up against.
Unfortunately these arseholes are so loud and try to be overpowering that it leaves the nice guys nowhere to be seen and I know there are nice guys, I have a lot of male friends, some I've been close with for over 20 years and 3 brothers
@@5EmBem Men getting help for whatever issues they have is not women’s responsibilities. Most men don’t try to be understanding of each other and they don’t try to help each other. Women have their own issues, so if men really need help and they actually they’d try to do something about it.
@@iammar1159 your comment doesn't make any sense as I didn't mention it being a woman's responsibility or men getting help.
I simply made the point of the arseholes overpowering the nice guys so a lot of women get scared by men in general and act defensively to the person that think that women hate men.
Then don’t cry about about male loneliness epidemic…? Besides, you ain’t going to be missed.
and why do you think it is men have to walk on eggshells? Yes because of other men women need to constantly be on guard and in returne are not as trustworthy towards men
I hate third wave feminism
Shes not a sociopath shes a narcissist
she has both she said
AGREE!!❤
We dont need anymore narcs being opportunists and using people which most are doing in the dating world. Id say 89% of them are. Playing games
I'm not scared of none of y'all.
Something tells me one of her friends pissed her off, her videos are slowly starting to repeat the manosphere points. She is smart enough to know the answers to all the dumb questions she's asking, guess she is on her way to grift men like she used to grift women.
I like this new angle Kanika, yes to having someone out there taking it upon themselves to take a more human approach with men, hope to see more in the near future, thanks for pioneering this on the YT streets though
Should go and get money back from surgeon!
True❤
I need to see a psychologist
True
I agree, I appreciate this perspective 🤍
Very well said! You have outstanding communication skills!
I think she just said it : she saw the third way part of being a feminism. And it’s messed up the family as a whole.
Yes
correct
So fucking true
i love hows shes pandering to me
Please stop assuming everyone has the same journey.
Some people genuinly do not want families.
And that’s okay!
❤❤❤ YES
Jordan peterson..
Off topic she’s stunning
I think you got many things wrong. And the sequence of some phenomena and their causes. But I'd say the most disturbing thing is saying women shouldn't be in masculine roles.
What is a masculine role?
And if we use the traditional concepts of masculine and feminine roles why shouldn't men and women share them both in any extent each individual wants?
And based on what research are you saying people are not making families anymore bc I don't think it's the case.
But if it was, why should people think more about making a family?
Looking stunning
This is sociopath lady?
Baby, I love you. But I also love masc. women.
I want to know what this woman thinks of trans people.
As an ex feminist, what do you think of the Barbie movie?
Bravo❤🎉
😮 Oh im surprised..
love her
You are super good x
This is so true tbh
Niiiicccce lipstick!!!
why do you even care for men if ur sociopath?
Gaslight much
Ohhh you’re on your anti-feminist grift now lol
❤❤❤
Gave up on feminism. Went towards Islam
Even Muslim men are scared of starting a family. It’s exhausting.
U really look great with that hair colour beautiful
Kanika, you need to look into bell hooks and Terrence Real. Or just admit to being a grifter. I used to have so much respect for you and was learning so much about cluster b personality disorders from you but now that's not even what your content is about anymore. Guess I'll have to find others with lived perspectives on cluster b disorders if I want to actually continue to learn anything useful so as a neuroscientist a psychologist, I can help people of all backgrounds with as much information and as little judgement as possible.
Truth!!🙏👍
Smart girl you. ❤
You so right!
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Bye !
Whats going on with that make-up?!? It looks like a Halloween mask.
Evolution bb 😊
MGTOW!! All the way!
indeed my brudda #monkmode
Why Would You Be An Ex Feminist Bc Of Third Wave Feminism? That Makes No Sense To Me I Don't Get It Lol
I've been saying that for a long time....
Very good advice. You are a beautiful trans woman ❤💖🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤
She’s not trans.
Hahahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣
No she’s right, when do u see someone talk about the good ways men & women’s differences compliment each other instead of y they despise of each others differences. ❤️🩹