Buying Bags Online Sucks - Beware Of Vestiaire Collective, Italist & Farfetch...

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
  • Let's discuss some of my tales of woe with regards to buying handbags online - both luxury and contemporary, preowned and brand new. I will feature drama with Vestiaire Collective, Italist and Farfetch. The bag brands I tried unsuccessfully to purchase were Marc Jacobs, Fendi & Gucci. This video contains my own personal experiences and may not reflect the experiences of others. I express my own personal opinions and this video is for entertainment purposes only.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 67

  • @thehandbaghousewife
    @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому +4

    Tell me about your bag buying fiascos - help me not want to shop online😂😂😂

  • @contentwithcandace
    @contentwithcandace 6 місяців тому +15

    I don’t purchase preloved anymore, because I had a bad experience with Poshmark 3 years ago with purchasing vintage Coach handbags. A year after I purchased the vintage Coach handbags, I had the bags authenticated in a Facebook group, and 2 of the bags were fakes. I contacted Poshmark and they insisted the bags were authentic. The bags have since left my collection. Call me crazy, but I will only purchase directly from the retailer. All of my contemporary bags except for one, and all of my luxury bags came directly from the retailer. It is just too much stress and anxiety for me to purchase preloved. However, I do realize there will be times when I will have to purchase preloved. For example, if I plan to get that vintage Chanel one day, I am sorry about your purchasing experience from pre-love vendors. Thanks for sharing. It is greatly appreciated.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому +3

      I have had a similar experience with Poshmark and it sucked but I had a better outcome! I don't blame you - any savings isn't worth months of stress - and there will always be a bag you like that's brand new 🩷

  • @LuMiLevelUp
    @LuMiLevelUp 6 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for adding to the conversation and the shoutout Erin 💕 - glad you always got a refund, when there were issues with VC! But I absolutely agree: the stress we sometimes have to go through, takes all the joy out of it 😕

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому

      Of course - your video was fantastic and it's important to spread the word! 🩷

  • @JerseyJuliaStyle
    @JerseyJuliaStyle 6 місяців тому +4

    I'm glad you were able to handle those issues, but that's so stressful to be excited about an item and to have to deal with a headache.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому +2

      It is stressful! It's not limited to these three companies either, I've had many issues with Coach, and several department stores as well:(....🩷. Ty so much for watching!

  • @TheHopefulminimalist
    @TheHopefulminimalist 6 місяців тому +3

    Hi Aaryn - this is the not so luxurious side of luxury shopping. I watched your MJ tote bag video dozens of times when I was considering buying one from eBay and after I received it. Online and pre loved shopping can definitely make you feel helpless and at the mercy of another. We can only hope the reward will be worth it 😢 TFS.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому +1

      It can be a nightmare - and I totally agree! For me, however, it's not worth it most of the time at this point bc I have so many great bags! Thanks so much for watching and commenting🥰🥰🥰

  • @dianeprince3444
    @dianeprince3444 6 місяців тому +4

    Great content! These types of videos helps us "new to the pre-loved buying market" tremendously! Thank you, again!

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому

      thanks and of course! just a reminder, 2 of the three companies mentioned here were not preloved purchases, but brand new!!! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @Solacefoundandcurated
    @Solacefoundandcurated 6 місяців тому +3

    l never understood why people would send bags or other items bag from the boutique …until it happened to me…lol. I had gone to Coach and tried on a ball cap in Chicago. I should’ve bought it, but I didn’t. Well, I couldn’t get it out of my head, so I ordered it a few weeks later… and It was not the same hat i had tried on. The Cs should’ve been debossed and these were like printed on. I was so disappointed. So that was my first ever send back. I get it now. Since I’m fortunate enough to have both a boutique and the outlet close by, I go to the store to see them in person, so I know what they look and feel like before I buy. 90 percent of my bags are preloved. I just can’t buy them new. I think I love the thrill of finding a bag I like/love and buy at a third of the price. Lucky i have amazing consignment stores where I live. And I have a plan. I only want three bags this year, so it’s always exciting. love that you are tackling topics, rather than unboxing. Giving reviews of usage than first impressions.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому +1

      I wish I had stores close to me because buying remotely is tough. I try to get as many photos as possible from the boutique so avoid returns but sometimes the SAs miss something and sometimes bag styles just don't work! Also, to take advantage of online deals and cashback it's just a much better deal to order online...Thanks so much for watching and sharing!!!🩷

    • @Solacefoundandcurated
      @Solacefoundandcurated 6 місяців тому +1

      @@thehandbaghousewife True… I only discovered Rakuten from you earlier this year!

  • @sloftin
    @sloftin 6 місяців тому +3

    I had an issue with TRR and Poshmark but both did the right thing and reimbursed.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому

      thank goodness - I'm so glad for you. It worked out for me too but was such a headache😩🩷🥰

  • @rhondamarcelissen2919
    @rhondamarcelissen2919 6 місяців тому +1

    I’ve never purchased preloved before. I perhaps would if there was one here in Canada where I wouldn’t need to pay duties? That being said I would very much like to hear more about your buying handbag stories. Sounds interesting to me. Thank you so much for the story time. It was interesting to watch. Much appreciated. Take care and have a fabulous night.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому +1

      what's crazy is 2 out of 3 of what I discussed today was new, not preloved! A LOT of the stories of drama are not preloved but brand new purchases from boutiques and authorized retailers...Thanks so much for watching and commenting Rhonda🥰!

  • @claudinecorcho7070
    @claudinecorcho7070 6 місяців тому +2

    Yes, please tell us more. Very educational. Sorry also that you went through all of that though

  • @kimmcgirt9056
    @kimmcgirt9056 6 місяців тому +2

    I guess i’ve just been fortunate. I have ordered from Vestiaire 3x and farfetch 3x without issue.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому

      That's great - I'm so happy you haven't had any drama 🩷🥰🩷.

  • @starreh6
    @starreh6 6 місяців тому +1

    I usually just go to the boutique or order from their official website at this point. I've had so many handbags that I purchased online with issues and problems. I'm done with ordering from all these websites where ppl scam. Either the bag was fake or the bag wasn't in great condition. It's just been a mess.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому

      That's smart and I think a lot less stress is probably worth a little less of a deal...🩷

  • @melodie973
    @melodie973 6 місяців тому +1

    Fantastic, informative video!! I just ordered the MJ camo tote from the brand site, I love that cement color Hope you are well 💖💚

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you! That's exciting🥰🥰🥰. You too! Thx for watching:)

  • @user-nl3li2ek9c
    @user-nl3li2ek9c 6 місяців тому +1

    This is a shame that those platforms are putting their customers through a total nightmare. Fakes should not be on platforms in the first place. Secondly- I have a question about their authentication team.. how come they let it happen .

  • @TracyJoy
    @TracyJoy 6 місяців тому +1

    Almost all preloved items I have purchased I end up returning for quality issues (which can be extremely frustrating). Too much of a hassle and disappointment. I would rather pay full price or wait for a sale/discount on a brand new item.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому

      I have had my share of issues - but also with the boutiques themselves! If you have a good preloved reseller at least you can see pics of what you are getting instead of chancing a defective preorder from LV dot com. Nothing is completely safe unless you are physically there with your hands on the bag - and I rarely have that option:(...Ty so much for watching & sharing!!!🩷🩷🩷

  • @oe7697
    @oe7697 6 місяців тому +1

    I would add Vinted to the list. Been scammed on there and Vinted customer service is non existent. Had to open dispute with my bank. Almost 2000 dollars lost but received back thanks to my bank.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому

      Oh wow! I had totally forgotten about that platform - there is also Depop too...thanks for sharing! I'm so glad you got you money back🩷

  • @ginamorris4520
    @ginamorris4520 6 місяців тому +1

    I don't have the energy to go thru all that that's why I buy on boutiques only. I would love to save but these issues will give me more stress than pleasure.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому

      I'm pretty much to that point but I don't even have a Coach store where i live:(..😢

  • @karinabalazon1393
    @karinabalazon1393 6 місяців тому +1

    Stopped purchasing from VC. I found instead a reliable and honest online seller direct from Japan. So much more worth it.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому

      That's awesome - the stress of not knowing what you are gonna get isn't worth it to me!🥰

  • @dendee1148
    @dendee1148 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this video...Yes I would like to see more

  • @claudinecorcho7070
    @claudinecorcho7070 6 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for letting us know!

  • @cosmeticsandpurseswithevelyn
    @cosmeticsandpurseswithevelyn 5 місяців тому +1

    I did see the Broken Chanel yesturday and I would never purchase from that website.

  • @Neetabeeta1972
    @Neetabeeta1972 6 місяців тому +1

    I've had a bad experience with Vestiaire Collective. I purchased a bag but it was not as described. They reinspected and said it was fine and refused my request for a refund. I have never used the bag and it still has their tag on it. I've had it 5 months and am still disgusted.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому +1

      Awe I'm so sorry that's horrible:(. Marie ended up involving a lawyer writing a letter to get her money back I think...

    • @tintofpeony6269
      @tintofpeony6269 2 місяці тому

      Could you please tell me was the seller professional or private? Tnx

    • @Neetabeeta1972
      @Neetabeeta1972 2 місяці тому

      @@tintofpeony6269 professional

  • @i.m.m.2966
    @i.m.m.2966 6 місяців тому +2

    What insert do you have in your that cement the tote bag?! Thanks.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому

      I think it's Zoomoni (most of my inserts are now) and the website is is linked in my description box with a discount code 🩷🩷🩷.

  • @DaniOchannel
    @DaniOchannel 6 місяців тому +1

    You definitely have to be so careful buying pre-loved. It can be really touch and go.😅

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому +1

      I know, and it turns out from online new sellers too like farfetch and italist😩😩😩

  • @sharonmcmanus2019
    @sharonmcmanus2019 6 місяців тому +1

    Looks like you have a new profile pic. Very nice.

  • @katy3mpress
    @katy3mpress 6 місяців тому +1

    Yes please to more videos like this x

  • @Restless318
    @Restless318 6 місяців тому +1

    too scary for me so sad it happen to me with macys

  • @ThekimG313
    @ThekimG313 6 місяців тому +1

    It’s a no for me. Not worth buying luxury items from those places. I can see if it’s a vintage item but not to save $100 bucks.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому

      It's not just luxury - it's contemporary too! It's even buying directly from coach and department stores like Belk:(....

  • @JoleeSO
    @JoleeSO 6 місяців тому +2

    Love it? Do more❤

  • @bluegumbo6014
    @bluegumbo6014 6 місяців тому +1

    Real life has so many stress factors. I’ve been on a mission to eliminate UNNECESSARY stress and anxiety. I followed your channel for a long time but I realized that watching your frustrations dealing with multiple issues from various vendors was raising MY anxiety levels. Crazy, huh? I totally understand that you expect to get what you pay for but, for me, no bag is worth dealing with all the frustrating variables you mention. You had a rough period with multiple problems, even getting banned from one of the services (Vestaire?). So for my own peace of mind I unsubscribed from your channel. This morning this video and “I’m bagged out” popped up in my feed. Sounds like you need a break so your hobby can bring you pleasure again. Wishing you all the best.

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому +2

      Awe i'm sorry I stressed you out! Hopefully my future content will be more relaxing🥰. I'm really trying to turn over a new leaf and not buy so much. I am going to try to appreciate what I have and make content with it - I have plenty of bags to talk about after all! If I do talk about past frustrations I won't be so irritated because it's history at this point🥰. I have two bags and two straps yet to show, but after that I'm going to make myself give something up if I buy something and that's going to be challenging bc I love everything I have! Hence, buying less is the best option. So glad to have you back - thx for watching and commenting🩷.

  • @carolbrown6765
    @carolbrown6765 6 місяців тому +1

    Good morning 🌞😃

  • @missdior7764
    @missdior7764 6 місяців тому +1

    I will say Ebay is authentication team is crazy thorough I was selling one of my new Chanel bags never used had the tags on it had that plastic on the hardware still and they rejected it just because there was a tiny bit of dust inside I end it up reaching out to the girl and selling it anyways it was in immaculate condition but ebay is crazy with authenticating but absolutely great for the customer

    • @thehandbaghousewife
      @thehandbaghousewife  6 місяців тому

      I have had fantastic experiences with their authentication center!🩷🥰