The BIGGEST stereotype in the RV Lifestyle and HOW we Deal with it!

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  • @IreneIronTravels
    @IreneIronTravels  Рік тому +13

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  • @deepowellexpectsuccess
    @deepowellexpectsuccess Рік тому +27

    I always drive. We bought our RV after my husband had open heart surgery. I thought once he was healed he would start driiving, Then he was diagnosed with early onset alzheimers and he didn't feel he could drive. So I continue to do all the driving. I like driving anyway and it's how we are making memories. We will continue to travel as long as we can. I love seeing Irene driving. I am encoraged to keep going.

    • @JohnnyLawBMC
      @JohnnyLawBMC 5 місяців тому

      Right on. We fill the roles needed so we can still live a happy life! Hooyah to you and him

  • @nancyskean6425
    @nancyskean6425 Рік тому +25

    “It shouldn’t even be a thing”, well said Chris! Being one of your older viewers, I LOVE the fact that Chris does most of the driving. It is empowering for women to see these stereotypes broken down. You two are a wonderful example of what partners look like. Sharing and respecting the work that each of you perform each and every day. Thank you for being who you are and for showing what love and respect looks like.

    • @arbonneladyTN
      @arbonneladyTN Рік тому +1

      Exactly!! I advocate for women to know how it ALL works.. and drive it!
      In 2000 we went from a small Class C to a 36’ TT & full size
      12 pass van!
      I went and asked RVers staying in the Carlsbad NM (where we lived at the time) Walmart parking lot .
      I asked a few simple questions , one being “What is your best piece of advise?”
      I will NEVER forget the small older man who firmly said to me “YOU need to DRIVE & know how to do it all!”
      He continued “ When you are on the road for any length of time you will find women STUCK in one place because the husband died or was injured!”
      He also told me to be sure my kids 15 down to 4 y/o know how it all works too!
      So our first big journey was to Northern CA for my family reunion. Hubby drove out with us , he flew back home for his job and… the 4 kids and I spent 6 WEEKS traveling on our own!
      It was AWSOME how we all (minus the 4 y/o) worked as a team!
      And during that time I DID meet 3 different women who were stuck due to a death or injuries.
      😉 I think I’m a better driver of our now 26’ TT & pickup than my hubby🤷‍♀️

  • @surfquest73
    @surfquest73 Рік тому +68

    It's just like KYD! Trici does the majority of driving while Marc is recording everything. Keep doing what makes you guys happy. Ignore the haters

    • @jordancook1668
      @jordancook1668 Рік тому +3

      I wouldn't say the majority...

    • @floridastate4604
      @floridastate4604 Рік тому +2

      they are all jealous because Irene is so Pretty and she spoils her husband

    • @marilynbedrosian4552
      @marilynbedrosian4552 7 місяців тому

      Good for you!! I do all the driving as well. Speaking of KYD, we were featured a couple years ago with our Peterbilt semi and 44’ fiver. Hubby has Parkinson’s disease so he “lets” me drive. We have had a couple other campers since that episode, and now we have a F-350 SD and a 35’ Brinkley 5th wheel. You have to do what works for you. Happy I found your channel…you guys rock!!😊

  • @Andrew_Happ
    @Andrew_Happ Рік тому +29

    Thanks to Chris I convinced my wife to tow our 20 foot boat 700 miles to Maine and back. I was incredibly proud of her as she had only towed twice a total of 14 miles and at the end of her trip she couldn’t believe she did it. In the beginning she didn’t think she could but no doubt there are more trips to come. Love your story.

  • @seahorsevista2254
    @seahorsevista2254 Рік тому +24

    I am a solo woman traveler towing a 28 ft trailer. I hauled horses for thirty years so wasn’t intimidated but I will say sometimes this is harder. I have wondered why Chris always drives but not due to stereotypes but rather switching off to give her a break. Sometimes I wish I had someone to drive to give me a break lol. Keep on trucking! You are awesome.

    • @IreneIronTravels
      @IreneIronTravels  Рік тому +11

      Kudos to you. The one thing that I wished I would have called out in this video and failed to was giving props to solo RVers, both male and female. Doing EVERYTHING on your own is such a huge task. You are a true road warrior! - Chris

    • @4strees
      @4strees Рік тому +3

      I too am a solo female travelling with my T@B trailer, with my dog. In the beginning it was a little intimidating but as I don’t have anyone to rely on and had to learn how to do it all myself. I love that Chris does the driving and find it refreshing/inspirational that there is a female, on UA-cam, doing the majority of the driving. I do have to say seeing the video clip of puppy Louis was certainly an ahhhh look how tiny moment. Keep being amazing Chris and Aaron. Love watching the channel.

    • @JeffKelley-j8p
      @JeffKelley-j8p 8 місяців тому

      Congrats to both of you. One thing people also forget is that shorter trailers are harder to backup. They make the turn a lot!!!! faster than longer trailers. Oh, my mom was a truck driver for decades.

  • @trish7042
    @trish7042 Рік тому +6

    First of all, I LOVE that you each have the jobs you love in following this lifestyle! My hubby has been pulling trailers all his life and is wicked good at it AND he LOVES to drive, so he does almost all of the driving. But every so often he will say, "you're up," and I drive for a while just so I know how to do it if we ever need me to take over. We have specific jobs when it comes to setting up, breaking down and maintenance but we each know the other's job just in case we need to step in! I absolutely LOVE your teamwork and that you are both doing the part of the experience that plays to your strengths!

  • @joanmcerlean7158
    @joanmcerlean7158 Рік тому +8

    This is such a great video guys. You handled this topic with such grace and lightness. I think it may have a greater impact because of the way you covered it. But then, that will be no surprise because it’s what you display on all your videos and why your channel has grown so much. It’s always informative, fun and inspiring to watch you two do your thing. Keep it up kiddos. And Aaron, the most mind-boggling content on your channel for me is all the electrical, fixing, upgrading and mechanical stuff. And you actually make it understandable and interesting. So, “what does he even do?”, is so ridiculous, that it’s just amusing.
    Love you guys. Great video. Chris, you look beautiful. You rock.

    • @IreneIronTravels
      @IreneIronTravels  Рік тому +1

      Ahhhhhh thanks Joan!!!!! Apprecaite this comment sooo much! 😊

  • @tonkadriver1082
    @tonkadriver1082 Рік тому +31

    I am a heavy equipment operator in an open pit copper mine in AZ. My first 4 years in the mine was as a haul truck driver/mentor. These are 240 ton trucks as big as a 2 story house. Tires that are 11 1/2 feet tall. I trained my wife to drive a haul truck 16 years ago. We have dozens of women operating haul trucks. From my 17+ years of observation I can say with some authority, the women are safer, more detail oriented, open to feedback and more concerned with doing a quality job whereas the men just assume they are good. They assume wrong and I can cite numerous safety incidents.

    • @bobabooie6389
      @bobabooie6389 Рік тому +1

      I used to operate a 777👍🇺🇲

    • @gailmcn
      @gailmcn Рік тому +2

      So great to have this comment here. There is nothing inherent in a woman that would make her an inferior driver, of any size vehicle.

  • @kristenmccreary8692
    @kristenmccreary8692 Рік тому +5

    Seeing Chris driving and towing the 5th wheel has proved to me that this is something I could do myself as a solo traveler! I know that I will need REALLY good cameras all around my truck and camper… but I got this! Thank you guys! 😊

    • @Mudbug2000
      @Mudbug2000 Рік тому

      You’re absolutely right!

  • @shellybudgett229
    @shellybudgett229 Рік тому +2

    It’s really crazy this is a thing. I’ve never even given this topic a thought. We traveled in a Super C flat towing a F150 for years and I have always done 90% of the driving for us.

  • @ipcamper9940
    @ipcamper9940 Рік тому +8

    So, the real story is that Aaron is an injury prone, and Chris has a backup career as a trucker if everything else fails 🙂. It doesn't matter which is doing what, you two are a team. That what what marriage is! both of you doing what you can, need, and want to make things work for the two of you. More power to the both of you, God Bless you, and hopefully keep Aaron healthy.

  • @darrellbice5551
    @darrellbice5551 Рік тому +8

    Absolutely loved this video! Thank you so much for inspiring other women to tow/drive an RV! I think it's so important for each person to at least be comfortable to drive/tow incase of a medical or other issues. In a past relationship I taught her to drive the class A. She was hesitant but afterwards she was comfortable. We would trade off driving and it was very comforting to know she could handle driving. Thank you so much for taking the time to make this video and showing other women that they can do it!

    • @IreneIronTravels
      @IreneIronTravels  Рік тому +2

      Thank you! Appreciate you sharing this and glad to hear you took the time teach her to drive the class A. 👍

  • @Fullboomers
    @Fullboomers Рік тому +7

    I am glad you guys talked about this, as an Rver I appreciate the information you guys bring to us in every video. Chris you’re a good driver keep on trucking, I also relate to the communication you have with truckers while on the road. Keep going the way you are.

    • @IreneIronTravels
      @IreneIronTravels  Рік тому +1

      Awesome! Thank you! Appreciate you watching all these years! 👍

  • @kericks1991
    @kericks1991 Рік тому +6

    Hi Chris and Aaron. After years of watching KYD, the RV Odd Couple, Unstoppable Morgan, and others, I found your channel and I gotta say I was instantly hooked by the positivity! Health, Fitness, travel and full-time camping? What's not to love?!! You guys are DOING what the rest of us dream about. We've had travel trailers for years but lament the fact that "the job" and farm animals keep us at home all but a week or two a year. 2023 I thought we were beyond stereotypes, but I think you two are awesome.

    • @IreneIronTravels
      @IreneIronTravels  Рік тому +1

      We'll thank you! Appreciate this nice comment!!! 😊

  • @davechristinemccullough7230
    @davechristinemccullough7230 Рік тому +12

    😢 It is a HUGE stereotype....if Aaron had been driving all along no one would have asked those questions. I ride my own motorcycle, drove our Class C while towing a enclosed motorcycle trailer...and I just took the RV Driving Class to feel comfortable to drive our new Class A. My husband will be the primary driver not because I can't but because we, as you two, make our partnership work through our strengths. My husband is glad I drive it gives him a break every day. I drive at least an hour of each travel day. I am saddened you two had to do this video!! But as always Great Job!!!

    • @IreneIronTravels
      @IreneIronTravels  Рік тому

      Great job!!!! Appreciate you watching!!!

    • @drinkinslim
      @drinkinslim Рік тому

      Do you have a gas Class A or diesel? If a diesel, did you do an air brakes course (or component)? Just curious, as I drive a gas Class A. :)

    • @davechristinemccullough7230
      @davechristinemccullough7230 Рік тому +1

      Class A Diesel with Air brakes. RV Driving School teaches you on your RV. So they teach to what your RV has on it.

    • @davechristinemccullough7230
      @davechristinemccullough7230 Рік тому +1

      To help break the stereotype....I am a 63 yr old Grandma of 8.

  • @marigoldenergy8512
    @marigoldenergy8512 Рік тому +6

    I do most of the towing until we get to the campground. My husband is better at backing up than I am. We usually get there when others are also arriving. I get anxious if I am blocking their way. My question is why does it matter who drives?

  • @cindylehman1016
    @cindylehman1016 Рік тому +2

    I’ve been towing since 2012 starting with a pop up trailer and now I tow a 27 foot trailer. My neighbors are so funny when I get home and back my trailer into my driveway. Most times not all I can get it in the first time. Lol
    Many people have stood and watched me back in at campgrounds. They have even asked if I can teach their spouse. I have been retired since 2016.

  • @patleonard2884
    @patleonard2884 Рік тому +3

    I knew why you each had these roles prior to this video. I think it is very inspiring to see women taking the wheel more. If for no other reason, it's good to have a second driver that feels confident driving any size rig, van, etc. I also love that you each have embraced your gifts and talents and have seemed to have settled in and are crushing them!

  • @peggyowens5475
    @peggyowens5475 Рік тому +3

    Honored to see my comment shared about Chris inspiring all of us women. I still haven’t driven our Class B much but know I need to as I have gotten older I have more anxiety driving. I now do the navigating and last minute adjustments when we are on long trips. I think that’s my forte and of course ensuring I am watching other drivers and the route we are on. Love the videos and seeing the pups as you travel.

  • @sandras1524
    @sandras1524 Рік тому +6

    You guys handled this topic so well. We're some of your mid-sixties aged viewers and you inspire us both.We just completed a 5k trip and I, the woman!!!, drove about 60% of the time. Chris's confidence gave me confidence and that grew with every mile. I found myself in numerous situations where I had tricky backing challenges but I did it. We all fall into what feels natural to us and sometimes that may be driven by the stereotypes. Your examples can help everyone see it's okay to break the stereotypes to open up a new world of talent and personal growth. Now if I could just get some muscles like Chris.....hehehe😂

  • @cindyfrakes3311
    @cindyfrakes3311 Рік тому +1

    I have a daughter that gets car sick. She does the majority of the driving for her family because it keeps her from getting car sick! Awesome that you both work so well.

  • @dougdickens2298
    @dougdickens2298 Рік тому +5

    I think it's great that Chris does much of the driving... I'm almost 67 and as a kid my family had a truck/camper. It was my mom's daily driver. A 4 speed and the camper never came off the truck. She had grown up on a farm and was familiar with driving trucks and heavy vehicles. She didn't do all the driving on trips but did a fair share of it. I'll never forget being in the cabover portion sleeping. My dad was sleeping in the front seat. I woke up to the sounds of doing about 95 mph, truck rocking violently. I hear my dad wake up saying what the f__. Come to find out, we were doing about 25 mph, in a 45 mph wind, going through the mountains of Colorado. My mom was about 5'2" hunched over the steering wheel like she was on the final turn at Indy... She told my dad to go back to sleep and let her drive 😂. Keep on Truckin' Chris... Hopefully you'll inspire my better half to give it a try. Keep up the good work, I really enjoy your channel.

  • @lindacarlson4876
    @lindacarlson4876 Рік тому +1

    You’re an awesome person Chris! I love watching your videos. Don’t let anyone shoot you down with their mean comments. They’re just jealous!

  • @Carol-lm4jd
    @Carol-lm4jd Рік тому +10

    Hey Y’all! Thanks for addressing the question. I was one of the ones who asked. It was just curiosity on my part. I’m all for whatever works out best for everyone. Sometimes people don’t drive at all. Sometimes there are medical issues, etc. I do admire a woman who can tow, back, navigate through heavy traffic. I can do it, have done it but DON’T enjoy it. I get a LOT of information from Aaron on the technical stuff and appreciate the great videos! You guys have an AWESOME channel!

  • @JodysJourney
    @JodysJourney Рік тому +1

    Good discussion. As a 60-year-old solo female full-time RVer, I always chuckle when they talk about inside jobs (women) and outside jobs (men). I do it all (even the stinky slinky) or it doesn’t get done. Was I nervous? Absolutely. Do I make mistakes? Absolutely. But it’s a lot better than not going. 😊

  • @richdv6800
    @richdv6800 Рік тому +2

    Have to say, I have only seen a handful of women pulling RVs, don't know why but usually it's the man driving/towing. Ok, so yes I was one of the people that asked the question a few months ago, and it was honestly driven by curiosity. If I remember correctly, I specifically asked if it was due to your ankle injury Aaron. Your situation makes a lot of sense, you have your roles and obviously love it, absolutely nothing wrong/odd about that. Thanks and love your channel!

  • @c1dancer
    @c1dancer Рік тому +1

    Whatever works for your traveling. And Chris you drive that rig like you were born to do it. Enjoy the journey and the RV lifestyle.

  • @shestudios
    @shestudios Рік тому +1

    Really no one's business, but I understand peoples curiosity. Traditional roles stand, even in the non-traditional RV World.

  • @susandumais8563
    @susandumais8563 Рік тому +2

    I'm in my 60's and my bf does 100% of the driving because he had a job of delivering rvs from Elkhart all around North America. So, he's got the experience. We've only had our rv for a year. Once we are able to get out of the Northeast I'm sure I'll start sharing the drive. I've never even given it a second thought that Chris drives. I figured you guys were doing what worked for you.
    Keep up the wonderful videos!

  • @rosemaryknoll5805
    @rosemaryknoll5805 Рік тому +1

    I love driving our class C. My husband has a heavy foot and I’m a nervous wreck! So I drive. We just drove our truck to Virginia & back, and he drove the first hour each way, and I drove the remaining 12 hrs. Also, I do like being in control too! 😂

  • @Hereandnow3
    @Hereandnow3 Рік тому +4

    But… most importantly, love the stuff I’ve learned watching your videos, from all your skills, from solar energy to those tips of zip lock bags, for the salad mix and of course watching the pups grow up! So, whatever makes your teamwork the very best! Thanks so much for sharing your journeys with all of us. 🐾💜🐾💝💕

  • @gregorymccaw2241
    @gregorymccaw2241 Рік тому +8

    Well, done guys! I love it when good influencers confront old stereotypes that need to be put away for good. Thank you for being brave enough to confront it! Keep up the good work!

  • @Bakr6432
    @Bakr6432 Рік тому +8

    Isn’t that what they call teamwork? ❤ I think it’s great that you both support each other and make it look so easy!

    • @patrilawson7829
      @patrilawson7829 Рік тому +2

      I LOVE that you had this conversation. Gently opening eyes to generation-long assumptions about gender roles. You both inspire me. Teamwork is the key.

  • @ClassicAutomotiveGarageInc.
    @ClassicAutomotiveGarageInc. 6 місяців тому

    Just letting you guys know I have six daughters. Two are airline captains, three are transport owner operators and one has her own business in landscaping with over 140 employees. I love watching your videos you both are a great team. Thank you

  • @Malember
    @Malember Рік тому

    Very glad to see you both driving. One thing to consider as you get older, or get injured, is that vehicles with automatic transmissions can have a removable horseshoe shaped adapter installed that moves the gas pedal to the left side so you drive with the left foot. This is what we do in our family. The cost is only a few hundred dollars, and it restores mobility and freedom for everyone.

  • @Campingphoebe
    @Campingphoebe Рік тому

    You two need to keep doing what works for you! Don't let those questions get you down. People who have never experienced pain in their legs, back, or hips while driving need to stay quiet. You are working together as a couple to keep your RV travel dreams moving forward. How wonderful! Irene, you are a rockstar driving that rig. Someday I hope to have your courage and skill learning when to drive our motorhome. In the meantime, I'm in the copilot seat, the one who needs to get up and move around when on the road. You two are a fantastic team! Keep doing what works best for YOU! Happy travels!

  • @Ck12340
    @Ck12340 6 місяців тому

    My guy prefers to drive and doesn’t like being a passenger. We have been talking about getting an RV. I want to make sure I can drive it. I love seeing a woman so confident and proud with her skills and abilities driving and backing up. I love seeing how supportive you both are of each other and truly being a team! Thanks for sharing.

  • @markm9550
    @markm9550 4 місяці тому

    Agreed, We both drive, it really helps with travel fatigue and when one of us is not feeling well, the other steps up. Its been that way for us for 15 years. We enjoy your videos-safe travels

  • @mwgill1
    @mwgill1 Рік тому +8

    Haters are gonna hate. I love that you’re both laughing at it .....for the most part.
    Hopefully this helps “Irene” get back to the #1 question slot! 😂😂😂

  • @MarieJessie-z1t
    @MarieJessie-z1t Рік тому

    You guys are awesome… I started driving 3 years ago but we’re only weekend warrior right now so I don’t have much on the wheel. Every time I drive I think of you Chris … you are always so calm in any situations and I always remember that. You guys rock

  • @ashleyantoine9902
    @ashleyantoine9902 11 місяців тому

    I just wanna say thank you so much Chris for doing what you do! My dad just got a 5th wheel and I'm a fairly new driver but after watching you drive, it has inspired me to try and learn how to tow. I learned how to drive in his truck but was scared to tow and now feel capable after seeing you. Keep doing what you do!! Safe travels!!

    • @IreneIronTravels
      @IreneIronTravels  11 місяців тому

      Oh, that is awesome. Thank you so much!! You got this!!

  • @MrOppie93
    @MrOppie93 Рік тому

    Me and my wife both tow. When we first got our camper she wanted nothing to do with towing. It was a bit of a challenge to get her to tow. Then o broke my foot . They changed her view point. Now she enjoys towing the camper, she still worries about backing but she can do it. Keep doing what makes y’all happy

  • @DavidHague-g4i
    @DavidHague-g4i Рік тому +1

    Enjoyed this video. I had noticed the driving/filming roles but just figured that's how you'd worked it out as a couple. My oldest sister who's in her 70s now when she was around 40 would take out my parents 5th wheel all by herself. And if you haven't traveled through Oklahoma I can tell you. She got tons of men in every campground coming over telling her she didn't know how to back so to let them do it for her. Different parts of the country definitely have different attitudes. Course that's one of the reasons I left Oklahoma and live in the west now.
    I'm fairly new to your channel but really enjoy your videos.

  • @joemiles6917
    @joemiles6917 Рік тому +6

    As a retired truck driver we prefer people to turn your lights to parking lights quickly instead of flashing the high beams. The reason those bright lights are very bright in a trucker's mirrors.

    • @IreneIronTravels
      @IreneIronTravels  Рік тому +1

      Good to know! I'll have to look into how to flash the parking lights instead! Thanks, Chris

    • @joemiles6917
      @joemiles6917 Рік тому +2

      @@IreneIronTravels You can't flash parking lights. What I meant was to turn your headlights off to the parking lights just for a second and turn the headlights back on. Don't turn your lights totally off because then you can't be seen. That is why just turning your lights to parking lights and back to headlights. I hope that clears it up? The truckers that realize about bright lights do what I just explained.

    • @barbarapadgett5538
      @barbarapadgett5538 Рік тому +1

      Sorry to flash bright lights but I’ve never been able to quickly turn on and off the lights. I drive with my lights on all the time. It’s just second nature to flash the brights for a split second!

    • @jumpoffjoe6572
      @jumpoffjoe6572 Рік тому

      ​​@@barbarapadgett5538
      and in a truck drivers mirrors when driving all night, it's like a camera flash, and actually blinds the driver momentarily.

    • @IreneIronTravels
      @IreneIronTravels  Рік тому

      @@joemiles6917 Ahhhhhh yes thanks!!

  • @SusanWright-zp7ue
    @SusanWright-zp7ue Рік тому

    Chris and Aaron, you are very complimentary to each other in multiple ways, as every couple should be, and I enjoy seeing that in action. Over the years of trailer camping, I've become a pro at loading and loading, but I need to learn to tow and maintain for a number of reasons. At fifty-five, I'm more nervous than I would have been in younger years, but watching you two overcome various obstacles inspires me to find my courage.

  • @betterwithrum
    @betterwithrum 8 місяців тому

    My bride drives most of the time because I'm typically working. Chris don't listen to the haters. I love the positive affirmation you both have for each other and having an open conversation with your community. If nothing else it is good for your marriage.

  • @WesMcCoy
    @WesMcCoy Рік тому

    I think its bad ass watching a confident woman pull a big rig like a boss. I do 99% of our towing, but I am a passenger princess the min we are unhooked. My wife has mastered daily driving our dually. Her confidence is building on towing its just a slow journey of successful trips. Please keep showing Irene drive. My wife watches her mannerism and her techniques as she pulls and thinks of ways to mimic them. Keep up the good work.

  • @suzannandelin1952
    @suzannandelin1952 Рік тому

    My husband and I do everything together, set up, take down, cooking, laundry, shopping and driving/towing. When we are on a trip pulling our Airstream I tend to do more driving because he is better or prefers to do the editing and filming. We don't really have a paid youtube channel but we like to post videos so our friends & family can be a part of adventures. (especially on long 6 month trips) We also get comments on me driving or doing the sewer etc... It really doesn't matter what other think positive or negative as long as the two of you are happy with the arrangements. The more power to you, especially for being so open on social media. Keep on trucking!!!

  • @brendaeldred815
    @brendaeldred815 Рік тому +1

    Life is short....enjoy the journey with whoever wants to drive it! You both rock!

  • @halfpint7717
    @halfpint7717 Рік тому

    When we had a pop up I drove it sometimes. I just felt like I wanted to know how to drive also. I never thought about it as his responsibility only and he never thought he should never let me drive. We are partners in this life! Some years later we now have a 34 ft fifth wheel and I drive too. We always ask before taking off, "Do you want to drive or do you want me to?" When we got the fifth wheel neither one of us had driven one. We had a small 23 foot travel trailer prior but it had been a while. I started out driving from our home to our storage lot. Then I started backing it in to the spot at our storage lot. I now drive on the highway and back it in regularly. My husband probably does most of the driving but we share the responsibility. We feel it's good to be flexible because anything can happen. Thanks for sharing your content! We love it! Happy Trails!

  • @cejones4210
    @cejones4210 Рік тому

    Enjoy your channel. You go Chris! I am 67 and the primary driver in our adventures. We have been RVing for 20 years and I, Candy, drive 99.9% of the time. I drove the whole trip to and back from Alaska. I love driving, my husband doesn’t, and until we retired, he worked on his laptop while we were traveling. We do have different roles, but driving is mine.

  • @habigscrapbooks
    @habigscrapbooks Рік тому

    I’m 68 and do almost all of our driving pulling our 32’ trailer. Years ago we fell into this pattern due to my husband being exhausted after doing all the hitching (at that time it was manual) so I would drive and let him rest. He also worked as I drove so that helped too. But I find I really enjoy the driving and do a good job with it. My husband recently fell and hurt his back. Doing the hitching and “outside” stuff has been a big deal for me but not the driving and I’m glad for that. This is definitely a stereotype that needs to be broken. Thank you for addressing this topic.

  • @wheresbrent
    @wheresbrent Рік тому

    I fully respect Chris driving and think nothing of it, she's calm and confident, this is all I need to see. My wife and I hopefully begin her tow training next season. I had a medical scare this year and she was not able to step up as needed. Her training regimen will start with driving the crew cab long bed empty and around town and down the freeway. Then we will hookup the trailer (30ft arctic fox) and do some back road towing, then graduate to straight line interstate towing, and finally a mountain pass to the coast... Moving at her comfort level I'm sure she can conquer some fears along the way, just needs the experience to draw confidence from. Wish her luck! You two take care!

  • @sargencharge861
    @sargencharge861 6 місяців тому +1

    I’m not sure I even noticed that Irene drove most of the time!! And the truth is some folks have medical conditions and cannot drive. Wasn’t relevant to me nor any of my business. Love the channel!!

  • @mikenowak2360
    @mikenowak2360 Рік тому

    My wife does about 30% of the towing does a great job. We knew we wanted her to learn so we could always be safe. Thanks for sharing

  • @susandt3856
    @susandt3856 Рік тому

    I took driving lessons at an RV rally to learn to handle our 40’ diesel class A. I was so proud of myself! Never once did I have a semi driver be rude on the road. My husband was very supportive and never nervous when I was at the wheel. I love seeing women RV drivers. As more do so, it will be less of a curiosity. You do you and everyone else stay in your lane!

  • @jessemartinez4712
    @jessemartinez4712 Рік тому

    I am a truck driver and appreciate when a flash is given to come back over. In certain situations visibility can make judging distance difficult for a safe pass. Don’t forget if a truck is approaching you and flashes you. There is something of importance ahead. Such as a brake check or law enforcement. Stay safe out there. Enjoy your videos.

  • @lindatimothy744
    @lindatimothy744 Рік тому

    Chris, you totally inspire me! I am 62 yrs old and my husband always drives our RV. But now I want to start learning to drive the RV just for a safety back up. thanks for you inspiration!

  • @janewardguaraldi7975
    @janewardguaraldi7975 Рік тому +1

    For the seven years we have had our Airstream, I tow, and Glenn navigates. Like you, Chris, I love to drive, always have. I am the ‘primary driver’ in this team. I am a better driver than passenger, definitely happier behind the wheel 😊
    Aaron, your comments about culture and stereotypes is pretty spot on. Most families in the 50s and 60s only had one vehicle, and mom’s were home during the day to manage the home and take care of the children. My mom went to night school to get her driver’s license when I was 9.
    Just be you 😉 It works!

  • @doratheexplorerbegins
    @doratheexplorerbegins Рік тому

    No matter how much you each drive, my advice is for both partners to do everything involved with rvlife. I recently lost my husband while we were on a great trip in Utah. What gave me comfort was knowing I could do 95% of the full-time rvlife.

  • @pupcamper58
    @pupcamper58 Рік тому

    I’ve been on the road six years now and it never ceases to amaze me when I hear women say oh I could never drive this RV. Numerous times I have said you need to learn because God forbid something happens to your spouse you may find yourself behind the wheel! Can’t even believe that this is a topic of conversation either LOL.❤

  • @jomcfarland3118
    @jomcfarland3118 Рік тому

    People and their negative comments. It's nobody's business, but it's great that you discussed it anyway. I have to do every mile of driving no matter where we go due to my husband's physical limitations. It's a good thing when we were younger, that we always shared the driving on long trips. Now I do it all by necessity. It works for us because he's a better navigator and I like driving. If we're ever so fortunate to have an RV, I'll be driving that, too. It's what works for us. I'm glad you've found what works for you!

  • @kimgiese3469
    @kimgiese3469 Рік тому

    I have been the primary driver in the family for our almost 36 year marriage. My spouse has issues with depth perception. When we started towing our 28 ft travel trailer I did as well. Until...I hit a deer while towing. Have not been able to get back in the drivers seat since. This has limited us in our journey and added stress on travel days. You are inspiring to watch as you work together! I will try again next season because of you both!

  • @GreenCtry
    @GreenCtry 10 місяців тому

    My wife has been driving/towing our 35’ rig for the past 7 months due to medical reasons and she’s been doing an amazing job. Luckily we had practiced a couple of times when we first started RV’ing for this very reason.

  • @BigfootBigTravels
    @BigfootBigTravels 6 місяців тому

    I think it’s great. I got injured in Yellowstone and we were not prepared for my wife to tow. Now she is great and we share the driving and she is awesome, I get to chill and take in the sights while we travel. Ignore the questions, I think it is great and I never understand why it’s an issue if a woman drives.

  • @thedavekeen
    @thedavekeen Рік тому +1

    You guys are great! Been watching for a long time. Way back from the van days. The progression made has been awesome to watch. It is amazing that you say that your demo is 60-80 year olds. I was hoping us younger crowd were taking over. We are a family of 4 full timing for 2 years now. Love it and yes she’s drives too. Lol. We is better than me right?!? Congrats on everything and keep it going. We will be watching and learning. Thanks for what you guys do!
    -Keens

  • @jvogel431
    @jvogel431 9 місяців тому

    Thanks for making this video. I drive 100% of the time while towing. My wife is willing to learn and take the wheel and Chris you inspire both of us to expand our horizons. Be well and proceed until apprehended.

  • @rojo9954
    @rojo9954 7 місяців тому

    Irene , I love that you drive. We have a truck camper with our F350. My dad was in contracting and at 12 years old I was driving a 10 wheeler Dump truck, no power steering manual Trans. Both my husband and I drive on our trips. However I love to drive and I believe to be more comfortable / confident on long travel. Glad to see you enjoy the driving also. Love your video’s ..

  • @NymsView
    @NymsView Рік тому

    My husband does most of the tow driving. If we travel on a work day, I drive while he works. I, however, do most of the backing. I was a long haul trucker years ago so backing is just faster and easier for me. We just are comfortable in these roles. He likes driving, and my back doesn’t enjoying being stuck in one position for long periods of time

  • @MyPettawayLife
    @MyPettawayLife Рік тому

    The thing I took the most from this video is you guys smiled the most I have ever seen especially Chris. You nailed it it’s just stereo type stuff. Keep doing what makes you happy as a family ❤💯💯💯

  • @JeffKelley-j8p
    @JeffKelley-j8p 8 місяців тому

    My mom in the 70s&80s was a truck driver. She was 5’ tall petite blonde. She outworked most of the guys and everyone she worked with respected her. In the 70s she and 80s she hauled tomatoes in the summers. She hauled rice, sugar beets, wheat, corn, peaches, pears, etc. The went to hauling bottom dumps. It is why the first thing I learned how to drive was a class 8 in the fields. I’m glad to see you have no issues driving with a trailer.

  • @roadtriplover.
    @roadtriplover. Рік тому

    I’m a single female who tows her own travel trailer and I completely agree that it is bazaar that the driving arrangement is such a big deal for people. Why do people even care? We all do what works best for us and you two have found what works. Hoorah!! People, get over it!!! I also agree that you provide us so much more practical and useful information. These are why I watch. I enjoy your perspective and I appreciate the tips you share. Now, I hope people will move on.

  • @The87driver
    @The87driver Рік тому

    My wife just got both of her eyes done. She had cataracts in both eyes and drove about 50 miles of highway on our last trip. She was 10 and 2 the whole way and did very well. She hasn’t really driven our new dually and it took some time to get used to the new dash layout and how the truck handles. Throw in the 38 foot fifth wheel and her being a bit nervous was totally understandable. She wants to drive more and that makes me happy.

  • @jackcondrey8264
    @jackcondrey8264 Рік тому +1

    I started watching your channel because I have Class B RV Sprinter Van similar to your previous Airstream. Several years ago you explained the reason for Chris doing most of the driving. I was envious of her “can do” attitude because my wife is intimidated by the size of the van and doesn’t drive it or have the self confidence to do so. You are correct, both couples need to be able to drive their rigs, whatever they may be. Oftentimes, men and women assume various roles based on custom. So it’s more usual and customary for men to drive bigger rigs. Obviously, that’s why you get asked that question. Hopefully, my wife will learn to drive our Sprinter van which would be a great help. ---I would guess that both of you drive equally well. Chris just likes the job better and it’s more efficient in each of your preferred roles as a couple. ---God bless!! Your channel is always enjoyable and informative. Thank you for your great content.

  • @raymondrussell6173
    @raymondrussell6173 4 місяці тому

    Kudos to you both! Both my wife and I both drive our TV. It is very important that both can tow our travel trailer and also important to recognize that the person in shotgun has other responsibilities.

  • @meganoneill4801
    @meganoneill4801 Рік тому +2

    So glad you brought up this topic. As a single older female part timing in my 24 foot class C, I can’t tell you how many people are in awe of me soloing it. I drove from central California to Canada in ‘22 and to Colorado in ‘23. Such a stereotype that women can’t drive. And as if driving the rig is the only thing. Thanks for sharing and pointing out the stereotypes that can use some adjusting. I just hope you didn’t feel the need to justify how you divy up the chores. PS: Chris’s makeup looks glamorous!

    • @IreneIronTravels
      @IreneIronTravels  Рік тому

      You go girl!!!

    • @IreneIronTravels
      @IreneIronTravels  Рік тому

      Hey there! Thanks for noticing my makeup :)
      I have recently become an ambassador for GXVE Beauty (by Gwen Stefani). So over the past 4 months I have shifted my makeup and have changed some colors and applications that I use. It's so fun for me to have a little bit of glam back in my RV life! For you or anyone else reading this, if you are interested in shopping the line I very much appreciate it if you shop using my ambassador link:
      💄 gxvebeauty.com/?affiliate-code=IreneIron
      Thanks!! - Chris

  • @carolyard8629
    @carolyard8629 Рік тому

    I had ALWAYS wanted to drive a semi, BUT 47 years ago “WOMEN “DIDNT DRIVE TRUCK” . Thru luck I finally got the chance to do a long haul.. so when I saw Chris driving, I cheered!!! You go girl!!!!

  • @edevoid
    @edevoid Рік тому

    Love this channel. Thanks for sharing about the driving thing. My wife and I share the driving and she needed to learn on the fly when I came down ill and we needed to travel 600 miles home. Bee lined it home and now she is a pro!!

  • @AJGUNNER
    @AJGUNNER 4 місяці тому

    So just an added point my friend and spirit sister Rebecca, drove from Minnesota to New Jersey all by herself in her Jeep and Nano 19' Trailer RV, and one of the most common question/comment was "wow, how did you drive by yourself?" and my respince was "cause she is BAD ASS"
    then drove me back to Toronto, and then the drove back to Minnesota. Now she and her boyfriend bought a 35' RV, and her and I will be doing a trip when I visit.
    So you go girl.🎉

  • @bmuzz1
    @bmuzz1 Рік тому

    I honestly can say that I never really noticed that Irene does “all” the driving. I think it’s great that you share in the responsibility!
    I’m hoping that my wife will be comfortable enough to take the wheel on our next outing!

  • @agelessrving
    @agelessrving Рік тому

    My wife and I started this fall, full time, after 2-years of mostly full-time. We are older, 66 and 70. We have so enjoyed your channel! Each week we look forward to your new podcast. My wife does not drive trucks which I am fine with as i love to drive. I so appreciate Chris driving. I continue to work full-time remote as an IT CyberSecurity consultant for a company in San Francisco. We had a 2019 Rockwood Lite, then a 2020 Grand Design Imagine XLS, and now a 2023 Grand Design Reflection 303RLS fifth wheel. I sure hope this is the last one we purchase! I'm trying to build a simple channel but it is harder than I anticipated. :-) In this short time we have learned some lesson, but have avoided some pitfalls by listening to your journey. Thank you for being there for the invisible RVers that are pressing forward on our journey.

  • @larrybennett1003
    @larrybennett1003 Рік тому

    That was my.number one question to you guys.But I figured it was medical. I've driven a tractor/trailer for 42 years. Retiring in 3 weeks . The RV is purchased the house is sold. Ready to hit the road. My wife has said she does want to learn how to tow. I think it does help her seeing other women towing. We do have a big 5th wheel for her to learn on 45 ft. 21000 lbs 5th wheel.

  • @raylee4931
    @raylee4931 Рік тому

    This video is interesting, I agree it really doesn't matter! My wife will not drive our truck when we are pulling the camper. She was driving with our first camper, and it was a windy day, and the trailer started to fishtail, when we stopped, she was done, it scared her too much. She may jump back into the driver's seat someday, but it really doesn't matter to me, I love to drive.

  • @ronwebb5754
    @ronwebb5754 Рік тому

    You have a great division of labour. Good for you! My wife was never comfortable pulling the trailer especially in the mountains so I did the driving. I'm sure that it was just a matter of confidence. We now have a class A and she will learn to drive it if only to know what to do if necessary. If she becomes comfortable driving it, I will be happy to be the passenger.

  • @T2M2.TenaMaloney
    @T2M2.TenaMaloney Рік тому

    Rock it Chris! I also do ALL the driving. Whether we are towing, not towing or even out in the woods in our RZR. The main reason?! I LOVE to drive. Anything and everything. I learned on my own to drive with a trailer shortly after getting my drivers license and just loved anything with a challenge. I would spend time in empty parking lots perfecting backing it up and into narrow spots. I even learned to drive a friends dump truck, for fun. My husband does not enjoy driving at all. He gets aggravated, bored, and in general has very little interest. He does however enjoy having his laptop on his lap and working remote. He also handles all the outside set-up if I'm not traveling solo.
    On more than one occasion, we have been approached at RV parks or truck stops giving him props for "teaching" or "letting" me drive MY lifted F-250. My husbands laughs and tells them "I'm not driving that thing!".
    Love watching your channel! Hope to run into you all some day!

  • @bethharper1311
    @bethharper1311 Рік тому

    While I don’t do the driving I could do the driving. What I do do is everything else. Planning trips, including where we go, which way we go, how long we travel each day, and where we stay and making any reservations. I’m also very good at telling him exactly when to turn and straighten the trailer while backing to squeeze it into the tightest spots on the first try. I also do all of the shopping and most of the cooking and the laundry. We hitch and unhitch as a team. I also do a fair amount of the maintenance on the trailer. So, he drives and is able to work remotely so that we can take these months long trips. For us this is what works.

  • @exploringcoasttocoast0203
    @exploringcoasttocoast0203 Рік тому

    The first thing that occurs to me is what does anyone care? I think they don’t have anything else to think about and they just want to stir the pot. We enjoy watching your travels and seeing your cute dogs. Your style belongs to you. Keep rockin’ it!

  • @ghostpepperrides4805
    @ghostpepperrides4805 7 місяців тому

    Over 41 years my wife has rode with me on my motorcycle, then wanted her own. Rode her own motorcycle and Her own ATV. Just sold her bike in 2023. Back riding with me. New RV Toy Hauler but she does not want to drive it. She’s a great driver. I’ve told her if I get hurt out on the road she will learn fast. Thing is you both appear to enjoy the things you do. Our full support.

  • @amybourgea4877
    @amybourgea4877 Рік тому

    Having had my husband have a health issue while on an RV trip I can say that all parties should have experience driving just in case. When in a crises you don't want to be just getting yourself familiar with driving the rig.

  • @pattya1679
    @pattya1679 Рік тому

    As a single lady with a travel trailer, I don't worry about driving and backing. My mom towed a horse trailer with 2 horses and a camper on the back of the truck for many years in the '70's. My dad maintained things for her but she learned to drive so she could go when he didn't want to. I had that wonderful example. I struggle with the maintenance aspect of taking care of a trailer and now prefer to travel in my truck with a tall camper shell. Freedom to go just about anywhere and more normal maintenance is much more do-able for me.

  • @danielreitemeier8435
    @danielreitemeier8435 Рік тому

    One comment on your “club” membership with us truckers…
    When signaling to a driver using your headlights as the form of communication, turn your headlights on and off three times. NEVER use your brights to signal a driver that it is safe to change lanes.
    Here is a small, quick test you can do next time your nite driving;
    Closely examine how clean your windows,mirrors & windshield are. If they are filthy, you will strain your eyes to see clearly to the point you will reach fatigue 60% faster than if you had clean glass to see thru. Even if the drive is under 10 minutes long.
    If your in front of a vehicle that flashes it’s brights at you signaling you to change lanes and you have dirty glass, it’s blinding and that can be dangerous if your traveling all nite long with dirty glass.
    RainX during the rainy/snowy seasons is worth it’s weight in gold. It keeps the glass work very clean for quite a long time.
    Pulling a trailer, the driver needs a clear view as possible at all times of their vehicle and it’s surroundings. Changing lanes in the dark, in the rain, in traffic is challenging enough. Clear, clean glasswork IS the difference between a good run and a bad one.
    Love your vids. We are pulling the trigger ourselves into the RV life and very much appreciate your video series. Keep ‘‘em coming & keep up the great effort you put in them.
    If your not having any fun,
    Your not doing it right…..

  • @kevinreed3339
    @kevinreed3339 6 місяців тому

    It does not matter gender, but competence. My wife does not like towing the camper but I feel it is important for her to know how and she understands why I feel she needs the knowledge.

  • @loriwhite9938
    @loriwhite9938 Рік тому

    I think if you do RVing both partners should be able to tow especially if someone gets sick or hurt. I showed my husband how to tow 21 years ago. Chris your a stud don’t let anyone talk you down. ❤

  • @susancrane9207
    @susancrane9207 Рік тому +1

    We wondered about it. Haven’t been following you guys very long. It’s unusual for one person to do all the driving & we just hoped there wasn’t a health reason for it. Never would have asked because we didn’t want to embarrass you. I think it’s great because we’ve seen a lot of women afraid to try or to do much towing or especially backing. Greg has terrible back problems so we know how that is. Hopefully you’ll stay healthy from now on. 💜

  • @jackmccarty1421
    @jackmccarty1421 Рік тому

    we have been full-time Irving for five years. My wife has driven our class A and pulled our flat tow every mile and enjoyed it! I do the outside stuff. I HAVE BRRN LOSSING MY EYE SIGHT AND ONLY HAVE ABOUT THREE PERCENT SIGHT LEFT. wIITH HER DRIVING WE GO EVERYWHERE WE WANT. I AM GRATEFULL SHE LOVES TO TRAVEL AND DRIVE. wE HAVE HAD SEVERAL WHEN MEN SEE HER DRIVING AND RUN OVER TO HELP AND WALK AWAY LOOKING DOWN WHEN SHE BACKS IT IN THE SPOT FIRST. I EVEN HAD A GUY SAY WOW SHES GOOD, I WOULD NOT LET MY WIFE DRIVER. SORRY ABOUT ALL THE. CAPS, BUT I AM NNOT GOING TO RETYPE IT. loving life on the road.

  • @blakep4082
    @blakep4082 Рік тому

    We drag our 5th wheel camper when we go camping and I do the majority of the driving but my wife can drag a trailer like a pro. We also mud race trucks and going to races my wife drags a trailer with her truck on it with no problems at all. Keep up the great work you two and ignore the so called experts and their opinions.

  • @rayanderson4119
    @rayanderson4119 7 місяців тому

    We are looking to purchase a 5th wheel in the next year or so. I do 90% of our driving, probably because of stereotypes, but also my wife has a tendency to get sleepy behind the wheel, especially in the early afternoon. We have rented a couple 29 foot motorhomes and I have observed that there is education necessary for how a trailer will cut the corners. I'm a farm kid, so a yard trailer or a longer trailer doesn't bother me, it's all the same thing, you just have to scale your actions accordingly. I will need to adjust my driving to match what we buy. But with the motorhome, I warned her that it would cut across and she still didn't allow enough room. I think this is a situation that some training and experience will resolve.
    I recently found this channel with more recent videos about overloading your Ford and getting the Dodge. Your insights are much appreciated.

  • @RamblinRoadies
    @RamblinRoadies Рік тому +1

    Great video guys. However, don't stereotype us old guys. It didn't even occur to me that Chris driving was "odd".
    My wife used to rude on the back of my Harley, but got bored as a passenger and felt that she was missing part of the experience. So she got her motorcycle license and her own bike. It turned out to be more fun for both of us. I lost my backseat driver, but gained a riding partner.
    We love following your adventures. You have a great attitude.

  • @nancyrojas1926
    @nancyrojas1926 Рік тому

    I have always been the driver on long trips because I enjoy driving I get motion sickness and prefer to drive ... I am grateful that I have a partner that understands that so he enjoys the ride. If I wasn't so intimidated by a semi I would definitely drive one, I love the feeling of open road highway driving.