🔴The Narcissist's Blame: How New Supply Factors into Losing You | Narcissism | NPD
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Hello everyone, welcome back to our channel. Narcissists do not respect individuality. They fail to acknowledge that each of us is unique, with our own strengths and superior qualities. When a narcissist steps out of their illusion and mindset-believing they have discovered something better than what they had with you-they often fall into what is known as "shiny object syndrome." This refers to their tendency to jump from one person to another, thinking the new person is the best thing ever.
Once they move on to this new relationship, they often take to social media to showcase their new partner. By doing this, they aim to provoke feelings of jealousy and insecurity in you. They want you to feel inadequate, as if their new choice is somehow better than you. You might find yourself thinking, "Wow, they have moved on to someone else." However, it’s essential to recognize that sometimes this new relationship is actually a downgrade. Many of us can look at their new partner and think, "They really downgraded; that’s what they did."
But let’s be honest, not everyone sees it that way. Sometimes, due to circumstances beyond our control, we might find ourselves comparing our worth to that of the new supply. The devil, so to speak, loves to make you feel ungrateful about your unique qualities and who you are as a person. This can lead you to question your creator and wonder, "Why do I look this way?" Even if you realize that the new supply is not an upgrade, you might still find yourself comparing yourself to them, thinking, "Hold on a minute, I am much better than they are."
Meanwhile, the narcissist is caught up in a chaotic phase. They experience a transition from the relationship they had with you to the new supply. In their minds, they believe they have found a gift from above, and they view the new supply as something special and extraordinary. However, the new supply is often unaware of the full truth. They might have been in contact with the narcissist while the narcissist was still with you, and they likely heard a one-sided story about how poorly the narcissist was treated in the previous relationship. The new supply may also offer the narcissist support, promising to be there for them in ways that others have not.
Many of these new supplies are toxic individuals themselves. While some people enter relationships without knowing the full context-such as a narcissist pretending to be single-others knowingly engage with someone who is still attached to another person. While I am not here to judge anyone’s choices, pursuing a relationship under these circumstances is unlikely to lead to a positive outcome.
A lot of these new supplies are aware of our existence. They have in-depth knowledge about us, including personal details and secrets that we shared with the narcissist. This information is not just surface-level; it includes the emotional stories and intimate moments that we confided in the narcissist. The narcissist often shares this information with the new supply as a way to bond with them, telling them our whole story. This is part of how the narcissist processes their feelings after a breakup, but it also reveals their manipulative nature.
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Funny you say that … the narcissist I’m my life tried hovering today and I solely told her good bye and you reap what you sow…
My X husband moved out of our home & immediately shacked up with his next fuel source (who knew about me) coworker. After 14 plus months, HIS divorce was finalized last week. 2 cheaters united, good luck to them. Im now free from his manipulation. Honestly, he didn't give a damn,hes content in that situation, hes free to destroy his liver with alcohol
I'm glad to hear that you’ve found freedom from that toxic situation! It’s empowering to break free from manipulation and start anew. Wishing you all the best on your healing journey and a brighter future ahead!
Abusing us isThe only thing they miss is
It’s true that for many narcissists, the cycle of abuse can become a twisted form of attachment. Recognizing that is a key step in healing and moving on. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
It’s so hurtful , Lord heal me
I’m really sorry to hear that you’re hurting. Healing takes time, and it’s important to be gentle with yourself during this process. I’m sending you positive thoughts and hope you find the strength and support you need. Take care! 💖
It's VERY painful, be gentle with yourself ❤🙏
Everything you share is truly amazing…. 17 years… and I’m still reflecting on my change she cause me… sometimes I still blame myself.. but as I listens to you more.. I’m feeling more confident.. thank you!
Thank you so much for your kind words! It's completely normal to reflect on the past, but remember that healing takes time. I'm glad to hear that my videos are helping you feel more confident. Keep moving forward-you’re doing great!
This one is so good I learned a lot. I empower myself because this person in life had to break down so many times like criticizing my appearance , the look of my hair, and the skinny of my body. I suppose trying make me loose my confidence. He had played several mins games on me, of course with all the knowledge I have now it just makes me laugh at him when I’m along. Seems so funny to I respond with confidence and I when he realizes he can’t bring me down he accumulates more resentment against me. There are some reasons why I can’t run away from him right now but keeping certain distance he doesn’t like that and lashes at me. I just asking God to provide me with a lot of strength to continue fighting to free myself completely of this person. Thank very much for the way you express yourself I can that person lose a diamond God bless you.
You could reply with: "Thank you for sharing your journey! It’s inspiring to hear how you’ve empowered yourself despite the challenges. Your strength and resilience shine through, and it’s great that you can find humor in the situation. Keep trusting in yourself and asking for strength-you're on the right path! God bless you too! 💖
Narcissist needs too take accountability for there own actions straight up and their losses it comes with consequences own up to it..
Absolutely! Accountability is crucial for personal growth, and it's important for everyone, including narcissists, to recognize the impact of their actions. Acknowledging consequences is the first step toward change.
Don’t waste your energy with that! They lack the human capacity for introspection. Accountability doesn’t exist for them. But your absence will make a HUGE impact in your life as your life will flourish ❤. They’re stuck in Purgatory and who the Fuck cares? NOT I 😂. FREEDOM is up to you and me.
Don’t waste your energy with that! They lack the human capacity for introspection. Accountability doesn’t exist for them. But your absence will make a HUGE impact in your life as your life will flourish ❤. They’re stuck in Purgatory and who the Fuck cares? NOT I 😂. FREEDOM is up to you and me.
It must speak of a lack of discernment for a soul because 90 something percent of us are listening to these videos because we were misled and it doesn't mean that we're not good people it just means that we were fooled
You're absolutely right. being misled doesn't reflect our worth or goodness as individuals. Many of us have been in similar situations, and it's part of the learning process. Recognizing what we’ve experienced is a sign of growth and self-awareness. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and remember that healing takes time!
Thank you for your video, everything you say is true. My ex narc tried to replicate me in the new supply by getting her to loose weight, cut and color her hair like mine, dress in a stylish way like I do and has failed miserably because she and I are 2 different people and she doesn't have the oomph to carry off the new look. I have improved my situation in every way possible and know that this bugs them both and he is angry and she is jealous....😂 this boosts my efforts and acknowledges my resolve to be a better mew person ❤
Thank you for sharing your experience! It's empowering to hear how you've focused on your personal growth and embraced your unique qualities. It sounds like you've turned a challenging situation into an opportunity for self-improvement, and that’s truly inspiring! Keep shining and being the amazing person you are! ❤️
Preach?!!
Thank you! I'm glad you feel that way! It's important to share these insights and support each other in recognizing and overcoming toxic behaviors. Your engagement means a lot!
They can't comprehend in their mind was right and what wrong have no
conscience
That's a key point! Narcissists often struggle to understand the difference between right and wrong due to their lack of empathy and self-awareness. It's frustrating, but recognizing this can help us navigate our interactions with them more effectively.
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Do they really struggle with this? Or is that part of the mind games being played? I believe some maybe not all are aware and know right from wrong, I just think they don't care. Their needs are far more important than anyone else's
No, they don’t struggle with it. They do what’s best for them regardless if it’s right or wrong. They don’t give a shit if it hurts you. And they enjoy your pain.
Thank you
You're welcome! ♥️
Stay off the crazy dating sites they full of waking dead ❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂
That's an interesting point! Navigating dating can definitely be challenging, especially in those spaces. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! ❤
@@tammyfitzgerald5336 THATS TRUE 💯
That's exactly what i think.. dating sites are full these devils, it's their hunting ground!!! If they're on dating sites.... Red flag!
I was monkey branched after 20 years by my partner that I gave everything to make her life Fulfield, in terms of love emotional, financial, unquestionable loyalty & support ,not just for her but also to her 2 young children that were abandon by her ex-husband, ( One of them severely
autistic)to Discard me this way for someone that she thought she could get more out off because he had a higher status than me!( Even thow we had everything we could possibly want in our lives that was in my eyes a true blessing, that still was not Enough for her)!!
She was Dumped with in 3 months but knowing that I found out & made it very clear early on that I would never except & take her back, she became very bitter & angry towards me By denying the whole affair & accusing me of what she's done!
And then refuse to give me back some of my personal items left behind in our formal home as Punishment for exposing all her lies & betrayal!!
I'm really sorry to hear about your experience. It sounds incredibly painful and difficult to go through such betrayal after giving so much. Recognizing your worth and standing firm in your boundaries is essential for healing. Thank you for sharing your story; it’s a powerful reminder of the importance of self-respect.
Let us empaths accept that we made the wrong choices from the go get . . . The red flags were always there but we chose to ignore them out of desperation to be loved. Who tje narc moves on with is of no value , whether they downgrade or upgrade is inconsequential. They are moving on with their lives as we sit here wondering about their new supply 😂😂😂
You make a great point! It's important for empaths to recognize those red flags and learn from past experiences. Focusing on our own healing and growth is what truly matters, regardless of who the narcissist moves on with. Let's keep prioritizing our well-being and moving forward!
this video is 100% correct and ife rather be alone for rest my life that be with my ex partner
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's empowering to recognize what you truly deserve, and prioritizing your happiness is so important. Wishing you strength and peace on your journey!
Run disappear they are the walking dead and have no hope pray for them 🙏🙌😘
That's a powerful perspective! It's often best to prioritize our own well-being and step away from toxic situations. Praying for healing and hope for everyone involved is a compassionate approach. Thank you for sharing your thoughts! 🙏
Thank you ❤
You're welcome 😊
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You're welcome!
this video is very informative , and I personally appreciate the narrative and the truth in it, the narcissistic persons I'm thinking about here are two, my own father unfortunately was a man that did not care about anybody around him, he made a lot of people uncomfortable and I was looking, now the other one is a guy who happened to be my supervisor, instead of helping the guys that work with him he ended up sabotaging their efforts and, too many people come and go,no body wants to talk, he is so good, he is mocking me by calling me using different phone numbers
but the narcissist is not aware of the fact that we are here and there is no way they can hide
Thank you for sharing your experience; it sounds incredibly challenging. I'm glad you found the video informative and relatable. Dealing with narcissistic individuals, especially in personal and professional settings, can be very difficult. Remember to prioritize your well-being and seek support if you need it. You're not alone in this!
The ex narcissist want come back to me he is happy with new supply and want even talk to me thank you for your videos
I'm glad you found the videos helpful! It's important to remember that if he's happy with someone else, it’s best to focus on your own healing and well-being. Sometimes, the past can be tempting, but prioritizing yourself is crucial. Wishing you strength as you navigate this!
Mine told me his ex cheated on him 23 years later he tells me no she never cheated on him... i was horrified he ran of with a homewreaker left us for dust a son and a wife i found out what he was upto no decency of explanation
I’m really sorry to hear about your experience; that sounds incredibly painful. It’s so frustrating when someone we trust betrays us and creates such chaos in our lives. It’s important to recognize that their inconsistency is a reflection of their character, not yours. Your strength in facing this situation is commendable, and I hope you continue to find healing and support.
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Thank you for watching and your support! 💙
He won’t come back I divorced him
It sounds like you've made a tough but important decision for your well-being. Moving on from a relationship like that can be challenging, but it's also a chance to embrace new beginnings. Wishing you strength and happiness in this new chapter of your life!
@@NarcPedia 31 yrs together married after a while than he was caught cheating. The emotional abuse went on for years and I was in and out of hospital for yrs. I also took counselling for 20 yrs and he went to one session. I was suicidal for many yrs and took medication for anxiety and depression. The divorce took 3 yrs to process all and I was officially divorced August 2023. I been single ever since and was single since I left him in 2021 still healing. I had a first husband was the same … I was with him 10 yrs and he passed away in 1988 .. car accident. So the second one like said I divorced and now I’m on my own at 63 . 41 yrs total of being with narcissistic men that’s why it takes me so long to process everything and learn the healing journey. Thanks for the video 🙏
America 🇺🇸 getting smarter look out woke 😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
It’s great to see people becoming more aware and educated about these issues! Awareness is a powerful tool for change. 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you
You're very welcome!