I'm 46, nearly 47. I've just done 1 year at college and got a diploma with distinction and I'm going to start university in September, full time 3 years doing a degree. I can't wait. This is the best thing I've ever done and I'm living my best life. I'm autistic and a single mum to 2 boys and I'm a carer for my eldest. Anything is possible. Thank you for your videos. Sending love to you all from here in UK 🇬🇧 ❤
47 is young you’re doing great the boys will be proud of you I’m sure they’re already! I’m proud of you, I’m a mom of 3 with a very hands on providing husband. I really appreciate you all single moms I have so respect for you.
You are a gem to the universe! Thank you for your passion & gift to help others be better and GET better for themselves! Lots of love to you all coming from Louisiana!⚜️🔥
I really needed to hear this and I will rewatch to remind myself because I continue to sabotage and hold myself back with these types of limiting beliefs 🙏🏽
This video made me cry. I’m 42, divorced after 20 years of DV, two beautiful children and no career. I’m proactively healing, therapy, Emdr, yoga, researching spirituality.. this underlying current of time running out , yet a deep belief I am too old to find a healthy partner, I’m a mom, too old to find a lucrative career, too busy for school. All of it. Thank you for this video, I will rewatch again and again.
Believe me, it’s not at all to late. The sooner you start taking action, the sooner you get there. The best time to things is always now. Sending love ❤
Here in Africa we have a saying that goes thus, "a living dog is better than a dead lion." You are alive, that is one thing to be grateful for. You got this, sending you love 💕 and light 🕯️.
The man for you is for you angel. The best is yet to come! Every single one of my men has gotten better angel. Every single one. You be the best version or you. Your man will come love. Hugs. Love to those babies! Healing to them too. Prayers and blessings!❤
At 53, I graduated with a masters degree and at 55, I am definitely thriving. She is so on point with this, I am definitely peaking in my 50s. Limiting beliefs will definitely hold you back, let go of those internal negative cognitive beliefs and bloom 🌺
Girl… I am in grad school at 58 and will be done at 60 and I am 100% with you… I’ve spent alot of years worrying about it being too late or that I am too old but not anymore … I am feeling my best most beautiful self and truly coming into my own… we can all do this - this myth of youth being the only value in our culture - time time this paradigm 😊 thank you 🙏🏼
I’m 58. Divorced after 30 years. Starting my life over again. I got so much from this. It was excellent! Good work. Thank you for addressing this issue that affects so many of us as we have been giving for so long and now struggle to find ourselves and move forward with confidence. It’s very hard not to feel like you’ve given all your best years away. This video has resonated and restored me! ❤
What a brilliant video. I am 72 years of age and have lived through two unsatisfactory relationships. I am in the process of convincing myself that I^m better off alone...except that I still do want to be in a loving equal relationship. Perhaps I should still believe it is possible.
I’m a 71 yr young man and I’m so inspired by this wise woman. Lived through 2 relationships that took so much more from me than I gave IMO. Now I’m feeling free to transition into my whole self. Looking for the quality - high value relationships that I’m certain are looking for me. Not just sig other relationships but all relationships together with the things I love in my life. 🇨🇦 good luck to you. 😊
My grandmother is 84 and widowed. She grieved him for a long time before my sister eventually convinced her to date again and helped set her up on some app for her age group. Grandma got a boyfriend a year ago who spoiled her 🥰 She broke up with him (she’s high maintenance 💅) and then got herself another boyfriend who spoils her even more. As they say, it ain’t over until it’s over 😉
I am 45, separated from a 16-year marriage about 2 years ago and then divorced. I spent a very difficult period of time in my life feeling lost, angry, disappointed and ... I restarted all the things I used to enjoy when I was young - piano, painting, roller skating, travel etc. I started to learn how to maintain household stuff, paying my bills and assembling furniture. I started to laugh and to dream. I started to achieve things I never dared to think about. I finally get to know myself and my potentials. I feel young again, not superficially but deep in my heart.
Good for you Once you escape from a bad and limiting relationship you will blossom. I know I was married to a narcissist and what I have achieved since he discarded me is amazing I am now 63 and still have goals My mother is 87 and still very enthusiastic about life 😊
@@inatwirlingram2540 thank you for sharing your story. It’s never too late to click that start button to rewrite our present and future. I’m happy for you and your mom. 😊
Wow! I as well was in a 16 yr marriage, n 18 yrs together. He recently asked for a separation and I feel lost and wondering if things would’ve been different or I would’ve been more understanding and less needy. Yet I also think that for someone else I won’t be those things he hated so much about me n I’ll feel like I’m not crazy and I’m not too much. But I’d like to find myself again. I’ve forgotten who I am. I want to enjoy life with my kids and be happy within myself. Ur comment and the comment section makes me feel that I am not alone. ❤
I just wanna thank you,Margarita I have been struggling with the fear of aging. I’m 35 and I feel like I’m starting to look older at a so much faster pace compared to the past years. And I was so afraid like crazy. I felt so lost and even started to doubt if it’s even worth keep living my life because of the fear of “just aging”. And that’s when I found this video and I just really want to thank you for saving my life. Loved the entire message. You gave me hope.
@@Margarita.Nazarenkothank you so much! I have been listening to this video ever since. And each time I feel more and more encouraged to keep living. Thank you for creating this video.
I'm 45, soon to be 46, and have never been in a serious relationship. I haven't gotten much attention from men in my life. It's a struggle to stay strong; believing that this will change and that I'll have love one day. I felt really down yesterday. Thank you for your message!
Don't give in. You're at the age where you will start to notice you feel more comfortable in your own skin. I find it ironic the timing of this. Just ad our looks begin to go we suddenly have this new found confidence. It's a fact though so if you haven't noticed it yet you will I promise you. With that comes a new attitude of having lived long enough to know a thing or two and you'll see there will be this new found sense of worth and confidence. If I were you I would lean into that. I'm 50. I consider myself a good looking woman but nothing that would end up on the cover of vogue lol and I still get hit on my 19 20+ yr Olds. 35 seems to be my target age for what ever reason. The only way this could be possible is because I had that change in attitude. I felt this sudden I dont give a shit what anyone thinks anymore attitude. With that comes a vibe of confidence that people pick up on. Give it a little time. You'll see. I wish you all the best. Keep the faith my friend
Love that you spoke on this and shed positive light on age! I just turned 35 and people have the nerve to be trying to put that mess on me because I’m not married yet. Appreciate you ❤
I love your no nonsense, direct approach. In the last few years, I have helped my son to graduate HS at 17, I got remarried after being a single mom for over 12 years, and I have fought breast cancer with only surgery/lifestyle changes and just got reconstruction and I am now cancer free. I’m going to be 50 next year and I really needed to hear this. I used to be a badass. I can be badass me version 2.0.
I graduated college at 47 in 2018. Late bloomer due to a difficult start in life. Lots to heal and overcome from. I'm 51 now. I'm still feeling like "is it too late?" I'm an artist. I feel there's so much to create. Life is amazing. 🌟 love this content. Especially for us women.
Very inspirational and hardcore truthful. You had me at Dylan Thomas. At some level, we must learn to be grateful for our trials and tribulations. I urge anyone alive on a journey to watch this. Video and grab onto your own inner power. Great Video.
I sent this to my mom, she is the most amazing mama that raised me and my 2 younger siblings on her own, and she needs to hear this! Thank you for this message 💜
I was married for 4 years and just recently separated and during that separation it became very clear that it was toxic and therefore I am better alone, as hard as it is. I’m 30 and I identified with being a family woman, a wife and a mom - hopefully. But now I’m alone, with no prospect of that now. And I’m at peace. Thank you for your wisdom during this time. You’ve helped me more than you could believe.
Hey!! Would you like to chat some time? (I don't mean to sound like a creep. Sorry if sounds like that). I'm 30 too. Soon to file for a divorce after 2.5 years of toxic marriage. And... I'd LOVE to connect with someone who's my age and have gone through similar experiences. Do you think we can share our experiences?
After 14 years of not being in a band, today I had my first practice with two great dudes and we are gathering up a set list! I WILL MAKE MY DREAMS COME TRUE!! You’re only as old as you feel, and right now I feel 18 again! I’m ready to jam baby!! 😂
At 49 I made the decision that I was going to feel great on my 50th birthday. First, I quit drinking. That was the domino for so many positive changes. I'm now 53 and for the past 3 years have never felt so comfortable in my own skin and never felt so powerful.
I am forever thankful for this topic and this community. I am 46, got dumped after 27 years. I had not much self worth, i was very low for months, but this is my biggest wake up call. On some days i dont even know what to do first, i see many area that need work and it feels overwhelming. But doing nothing , is guaranteed failure , and i decided to try and give my best, for me ❤
Love you. Thank you. I’m 39, just broke up w a guy after almost a year and discerning marriage. I want to be married and a biological mother so much. This is really helping me to push forward!! 💗💗
My friend's mum has recently started rock climbing and now she's addicted to it. She lives for her new hobby and the excitement and the focus that you get while conquering those sheer faces of cliff&rock. She started at 63.
I needed this so bad. I woke up in a panic about money, my living situation and my healing. Absolutely worried and scared. I need a push and positive energy. I often think at 40 that my life is over and I screwed it up so bad to the point of no return but that isn’t true. Thank you.
Just wanted to thank you for doing this. I am 58 and reinventing my life. Not out of choice, but necessity. Almost three years ago, my wife of almost 22 years said she was done and left me in the home we created. I was devastated. After spending almost a year recovering from that, I decided I needed to just move forward and create what I wanted for my life. I knew that I didn't want to spend my remaining years alone, so I put myself back out there. After a number bad experiences, I have now found someone who is full of life, loves me and has a positive life energy that is incredible. I am doing things I have never done in my life and as I write this now, I am sitting at my girlfriends house, on a three week visit, in Northwestern Washington state. I work from home and can work from anywhere, so I decided to come out here and spend some significant time with her and see how things would go. I have to say that there are challenges within myself to all the change in my life, but it has been a positive experience and I am happy that I am where I am now. I just wanted to share this as I watch your videos and though I am not your target demographic, I find great value in your videos and messages. This was an encouraging reminder to stay the course. Keep up the great work and I will be watching for more great stuff coming from you.
I'm 59 and only just now realizing what I came here to do. And I've often thought I was late, but then I realized it took all this time to learn everything I needed to learn in order to step into the role I'm meant to step into. I realize now it's perfect timing.
Girlll this was an amazing message that truly resonated with me at 54. I’m NOT going gently into the night!!! DON’T BE DONE BEFORE YOU’RE DONE !!! That part…🙏🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
I love this. I shared a post this morning on Twitter that said "oh did you think women over 40 begin to go downhill? Cute! I'm just getting started." lol I'm 43 next month. I truly feel as if I'm not just coming into my own, but really. This is the beginning for me. We gain so much wisdom in our youth. When we get older, we finally figure out how to implement it. Love your videos.
I’m getting ready to turn 40 in September. I’ve put a lot of pressure on myself with entering this chapter and for some reason I came across you while scrolling UA-cam and this is exactly what I needed to hear. I wish I could have had my mother speak this much life into me, so at this age I wouldn’t desperately need guidance and encouragement as I do now. Thank you so much!! 🙏🏾
Really needed to hear this.. I felt like I lost my “youth” with a man that didn’t find me attractive. I couldn’t figure it out until many years later he admitted he was gay. Earth shattering. And then I was 43.. now I’m 47 and still haven’t gotten the courage to open back up again. I’ve been struggling ever since to get my self esteem back. Even if he biologically wasn’t into me, he gaslit me so badly, wasted all those years, it has been hard to recover. So I’ve been binge watching your videos. And really love your strong spirit. You inspire me to get back into my feminine and try again after all these years. I’ve waited so long to date, and I’m not letting just any loser in again -because of low self esteem about my age. I’m going to go see what’s out there.. and now I believe I could be a 2.0 version too! My life isn’t over yet to find love before I leave. Thank you for your videos. They sure are helping me find myself again. ❤
Thank you for this! I will be 60 soon. After experiencing a brain bleed then a divorce I’m starting a new life! So yes you can! It’s challenging but it’s all in your outlook!
I'm 16, i'm still young and youthful and even I feel left behind sometimes for other reasons, I feel like I've learned so much at THIS age, I can't imagine how much more there is to learn, learning and growing is a lifelong process which varies for everyone and some people find themselves at an older age, and some of us at a young age. like mentioned in the video, I really do have a deep intuition, a deep knowing that I will make it, I have an unbreakable self-belief and I always have, I take it as a gift bc without it I don't know if I'd be able to keep going.
I'm proud of you that at age 16 you are watching this where most young people would be involve in some juvenile delinquency. I see already a great potential in you. Keep on learning and never stop.
2 divorces, relationships don't last, No children (I've always wanted children) and at 49 years old I'm heartbroken at the thought of never finding true love and a child at my age. ....this video gave me a spark of life..hope maybe, listening to your words made me cry
I needed this. Thank you so much. I am in my mid 30s. Don't be done before you are done. I did waste many years of my life being someone else, unhealed and wounded. Now I know why I had to go through it so I could step into my power
This video's message is so nice! Reminds me of a quote about people wanting to change and do new things but scared of going for it because they think they're too old. "I can't start anything now, how old will I be by the time I finish this task/degree/project? The same age you'd be had you not done it" You've got this, everyone! Let's go for our dreams!
Thank you! I'm 55 and I believe every word you've said. Out of a really complicated relationship that sucked alot of life out of me but I'm not defined by that. Listening to your words just made me even more determined to push and fight to make a better life and become the best me ever. Thank you again for making these videos ❤.
I’m 50 and going back to college, it was daunting to say the least. My thoughts were at my age go back to school and then realized if not now when …never, and that was not an option. It propelled me to do it. Thank you for this beautiful message❤🙏🥰 and for the accountability you take for your viewers.
I had goose bumps listening to you 💓 Thank you for this powerful message and for being accountable to your audience 🙏🏾 you're AMAZING ❤ so much love and support 😘
thank you for this. I think the hardest part for me personally is tuning out the unwanted opinions. I always felt I had a very strong sense of self and an optimistic attitude but it’s like the second I turned 30 suddenly this wave of expectations came flooding in and every question serves as a reminder that I’m failing at life.
I was literally just looking at pictures from 2016-18 when I was at my best. 2019-20 wore me out for various reasons. I have a plan to regain my health and happiness. I will be 45 in 2 months 💖
I was ready to give up and stay unhappy forever at 34.. Reading everyone's comments here...i can't thank you all enough ❤ Deeply humbled and so happy for everyone! Thank you for sharing. It's not too late for me 😊
Margarita, I hope you plan to write a book. You are the most profound healer I’ve found. Thank you for the guidance and these videos. Write that book girl, it’s can only be successful and a guide to women everywhere.
Watching your videos helps me a lot, I am anxious avoidant which is almost a cruel joke because as soon as someone does want me, I get scared and no longer want them, it is a constant push and pull and very lonely, sometimes I feel like I deserve being treated by men the way I am because of the men I have pushed away in a similar fashion. I am trying to work on myself and concentrate on myself and push through until it becomes a habit, it is hard to look at my life (I am 45) and where I am and see what I have given up or passed up in striving to please and control other people. Even now, there is someone I can't stop thinking about even though he has shown me who he is and what he wants and it is not good for me, it is so hard to let go and accept people for who they are and what they have shown you and not internalize that. I still have a lot of work to do, but your videos help renew my motivation.
I am 50 and building my dream life and refuse to live in the Matrix as much as possible. I feel fantastic to be in my authenticity. My Ikigai life! 👍 We ment to expend just like the universe… keep growing and that’s it.
You’re direct, no nonsense yet encouraging approach is very touching. Not a lot of people can do that. I always love your videos. Thank you for this one 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I'm only 25 but I have felt it with new, younger colleagues at work. I guess we struggle with change, but this change is actually seen on our body and inside of us, and that's what scares us probably. But as the age changes, our value doesn't decrease, actually we become more valuable. As a woman, as a mature woman, as an older woman and later as a beautiful old lady, I think that's beautiful. Some teens lose their youth and beauty early, but some women in their 50s or 60s still keep their youthfulness and beauty and grace. We can't all age, as you've said it's a privilege. But we all can get there, we all go forward and life isn't stopping. What stays beautiful for the longest, forever even, is the spark in your eyes, love for life, graceful and strong feminine energy, the way you carry yourself, love yourself and care for others. I haven't given up, I've matured. I'm becoming a beautiful young woman, and I'm really thrilled to see myself older and aging. I know it's gonna be beautiful too, the fact I'm alive is already beautiful. Take care and stay well ❤️
Absolutely, every bit of this. People look at me with disbelief! Ha! And we are also going to be living so much longer than we have been. Kids overly influenced by fast food mentality and the digital perspective are foolishly dismissing the elderly experience. Life is not linear. We grow older and younger again, in and out, round about.. Thank you 🧡
Margarita may I ask for some advice and also to any of you ladies… I recently met someone from my past we had a brief little childhood love affair he’s just come out of a long term marriage but says he wants me however he does keep going cold and says he keeps needing to see me to “know” this keeps repeating. Is it just too soon for him (split a year and not divorced yet) I don’t know if my heart is safe? He’s kind and lovely but he does seem to like me but I don’t think he’s ready? What do I do? I like him so so much. X
Amazing video! I left my abusive ex husband at 44 years old and I'm nearly 46 now. I made a whole new life, being myself! I've never been happier in my life!
I literally stood up and cheered when you said if a man does not want you [if you have children] then you don’t want them!! So true!! Love this whole video ❤
Love this so much, M. Thank you. I needed to hear this as I have been feeling exactly how your followers have been: that I may have allowed the best part of my life to pass me by. But now you've reminded me that it is now a different, brand new season of my life. A whole new book and not just a new chapter. Learning to embrace my feminine energy as I have lived in the masculine all my 40+ years of my life. Embracing being and allowing things to flow into my life. Thank you. 💜🙏
@mikepiccolo32 are you making fun of my weight? I put on weight cos I've been sick the past 5 years, due to years of being on medications like steroids. I was always an xs all my life before. It's something I'm struggling to accept today. I proudly post pics of where I am because my body survived a difficult & lengthy illness. One day the universe will show you what this experience is like or you'll see it with your loved one. You will eat your words then.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! This is your best video yet & made me cry. I turn 49 this week and my new affirmation is “I’m only halfway through my movie”. It’s not too late. You’re a wise woman Margarita, thank you for everything you do 💖💖💖
I am 35, single and I ruined my reputation because of bad decisions and I feel lost sometimes but recently got helped by one friend who never doubted helping me. Thank you so much for this. I am starting over and it’s really still hard for most days, but I’m alive and fighting.
@@francesca2317 thank you so very much for your kind words! It’s really tough when nobody’s kind of willing to help and like no matter what you do, bad days still happen.
THANK YOU! I needed these words today! Was feeling a bit (lot!) old and defeated. I can change this to “wise and powerful”. That is what I learned from your counsel in this video! 👍
I just stumbled onto your channel and I really needed to hear this today. I am 41, 42 in a month, and (oddly enough) have decided to study astrology to start the business I have wanted for so long. Thank you for this message!
I just want to say thank you! This was just what I needed. I'm 22 years old and was about to give up. I've been comparing myself to people on social media recently. I desire their life and sometimes I feel like I was born with bad luck because no matter how hard I work, I'll never be successful. So appreciate you very much for making this video.
Beautiful, wise, uplifting, honest, authentic, LOVELY message, thank you ❤❤❤😊! Closer to 50 than 40, mother of 3 kids and wife for 22 years, up until 2 years ago I thought I had learned my lessons...haha, life has been gracious enough to show me these last 2 years that not only had I new lessons/new sides of me to learn, earn and earn up to, but some important old ones, too. I'm thankful for these lessons, life's graves and for being healthy, strong and full of energy to meet myself in new challenges and find myself again and again 😇🥰🙏 Love your messages❤❤❤
Thank you for loaning your strength to us. It's up and down for me at times but laying on my back and feeling sorry for certain choices I've made is just simply not an option 💪🏾
I pray I will get money to rent my apartment. I sometimes feel am late in life. Am working too.Thank you for your video. Greetings from Ghana 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭.
I just wanna say that those of you who are 35+ you really are lucky to be that age I keep seeing people my age 28 or younger dying I do worry sometimes that I'm not gunna reach 30(i dunno why) I prayed the night before my 28th b'day that see the day.. Thankfully I did.. But please enjoy your lives don't no one tell you that your too old for shit! Do you!(as long ur safe nd no one else is being harmed) 💅🏾❤
Just found you randomly after struggling with self image and feeling stuck in life. You came in at a crucial time and i strongly believe it was meant to be. I went from being lost, sad, miserable and unmotivated to waking up early, making connections, going back to my fitness routine and embracing myself as the fearless woman i know i am, flaws and all. I've always been in abusive relationships with dominant and avoidant men and you helped me break that cycle. I now know my worth and i KNOW what my spirit is craving in this world. It is such a humbling experience to finally sit back and accept everything that went wrong and deciding to own it, learn from it and grow from it rather then escape using useless connections and wasting time questioning my existence and my role on this floating rock we call earth. At the end of the day our window of time on this planet is so short and we would be fools to not use it carefully and with our heads held high. From the bottom of my heart and soul, thank you. Much love from Sweden
Wow..thank you. I want to be a model, singer and actress, I am 26. I know it is not late, but sometimes I did think it was..now with your video...not anymore !!
I'm 46, nearly 47. I've just done 1 year at college and got a diploma with distinction and I'm going to start university in September, full time 3 years doing a degree. I can't wait. This is the best thing I've ever done and I'm living my best life. I'm autistic and a single mum to 2 boys and I'm a carer for my eldest. Anything is possible. Thank you for your videos. Sending love to you all from here in UK 🇬🇧 ❤
47 is young you’re doing great the boys will be proud of you I’m sure they’re already!
I’m proud of you,
I’m a mom of 3 with a very hands on providing husband.
I really appreciate you all single moms I have so respect for you.
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@cathlocke5359 bravo! You are a true inspiration 😊
YOU GO GIRL ❤️❤️❤️ this is so inspiring for me
Very awesome! 🤗
Exactly what I needed to hear at 28 😩
You are a gem to the universe! Thank you for your passion & gift to help others be better and GET better for themselves! Lots of love to you all coming from Louisiana!⚜️🔥
I really needed to hear this and I will rewatch to remind myself because I continue to sabotage and hold myself back with these types of limiting beliefs 🙏🏽
You are amazing! You are so divinely beautiful. Thank you for your light
64 here with two divorces behind me. That is what makes the time ahead of me and my future decisions much more precious. ❤️🔥🙌 Life is life, live it!!
your a natural teacher! thank you!
Please , more of this !!
BEAUTIFUL thank you
My first time here watching your channel. I love the way you explain things. Thank you for this video.
I've subscribed 🙂❤
Love you
This video made me cry. I’m 42, divorced after 20 years of DV, two beautiful children and no career. I’m proactively healing, therapy, Emdr, yoga, researching spirituality.. this underlying current of time running out , yet a deep belief I am too old to find a healthy partner, I’m a mom, too old to find a lucrative career, too busy for school. All of it. Thank you for this video, I will rewatch again and again.
Believe me, it’s not at all to late. The sooner you start taking action, the sooner you get there. The best time to things is always now. Sending love ❤
Here in Africa we have a saying that goes thus, "a living dog is better than a dead lion." You are alive, that is one thing to be grateful for. You got this, sending you love 💕 and light 🕯️.
Same, girl ❤
Your best ears are ahead of you...believe this.
The man for you is for you angel. The best is yet to come! Every single one of my men has gotten better angel. Every single one. You be the best version or you. Your man will come love. Hugs. Love to those babies! Healing to them too. Prayers and blessings!❤
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It will take more then 50…😖years to believe in You 2
At 53, I graduated with a masters degree and at 55, I am definitely thriving. She is so on point with this, I am definitely peaking in my 50s. Limiting beliefs will definitely hold you back, let go of those internal negative cognitive beliefs and bloom 🌺
Bravo 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Girl… I am in grad school at 58 and will be done at 60 and I am 100% with you… I’ve spent alot of years worrying about it being too late or that I am too old but not anymore … I am feeling my best most beautiful self and truly coming into my own… we can all do this - this myth of youth being the only value in our culture - time time this paradigm 😊 thank you 🙏🏼
Wow! Best of luck in your studies and your future! 🎉
I doubt you’ll get a job init though
It's never too late to learn!
I’m 58. Divorced after 30 years. Starting my life over again. I got so much from this. It was excellent! Good work. Thank you for addressing this issue that affects so many of us as we have been giving for so long and now struggle to find ourselves and move forward with confidence. It’s very hard not to feel like you’ve given all your best years away. This video has resonated and restored me! ❤
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Finally now you can get your sexy guy. And not your snoring ex.. lol.
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What a brilliant video. I am 72 years of age and have lived through two unsatisfactory relationships. I am in the process of convincing myself that I^m better off alone...except that I still do want to be in a loving equal relationship. Perhaps I should still believe it is possible.
Yes you should.
I’m a 71 yr young man and I’m so inspired by this wise woman. Lived through 2 relationships that took so much more from me than I gave IMO.
Now I’m feeling free to transition into my whole self. Looking for the quality - high value relationships that I’m certain are looking for me. Not just sig other relationships but all relationships together with the things I love in my life. 🇨🇦 good luck to you. 😊
I'm 29, and I've already accepted my life as a lone wolf. I think you'll live
You deff should, you’ve got this and I’m excited for you!
My grandmother is 84 and widowed. She grieved him for a long time before my sister eventually convinced her to date again and helped set her up on some app for her age group.
Grandma got a boyfriend a year ago who spoiled her 🥰
She broke up with him (she’s high maintenance 💅) and then got herself another boyfriend who spoils her even more.
As they say, it ain’t over until it’s over 😉
I love all your talks, but this one was the most powerful you've ever posted. Thankyou Margarita 🌼
I am 45, separated from a 16-year marriage about 2 years ago and then divorced. I spent a very difficult period of time in my life feeling lost, angry, disappointed and ... I restarted all the things I used to enjoy when I was young - piano, painting, roller skating, travel etc. I started to learn how to maintain household stuff, paying my bills and assembling furniture. I started to laugh and to dream. I started to achieve things I never dared to think about. I finally get to know myself and my potentials. I feel young again, not superficially but deep in my heart.
Good for you
Once you escape from a bad and limiting relationship you will blossom.
I know I was married to a narcissist and what I have achieved since he discarded me is amazing
I am now 63 and still have goals
My mother is 87 and still very enthusiastic about life 😊
@@inatwirlingram2540 thank you for sharing your story. It’s never too late to click that start button to rewrite our present and future. I’m happy for you and your mom. 😊
Wow! I as well was in a 16 yr marriage, n 18 yrs together. He recently asked for a separation and I feel lost and wondering if things would’ve been different or I would’ve been more understanding and less needy. Yet I also think that for someone else I won’t be those things he hated so much about me n I’ll feel like I’m not crazy and I’m not too much. But I’d like to find myself again. I’ve forgotten who I am. I want to enjoy life with my kids and be happy within myself. Ur comment and the comment section makes me feel that I am not alone. ❤
I just wanna thank you,Margarita
I have been struggling with the fear of aging. I’m 35 and I feel like I’m starting to look older at a so much faster pace compared to the past years.
And I was so afraid like crazy. I felt so lost and even started to doubt if it’s even worth keep living my life because of the fear of “just aging”.
And that’s when I found this video and I just really want to thank you for saving my life. Loved the entire message.
You gave me hope.
I know how you feel. fight it. you are worth it
This. I can relate
Omg, same here. I’m 36 and keep fighting those thoughts 💪🏻thank you Margarita!
Same here. I’m 32.
@@Margarita.Nazarenkothank you so much! I have been listening to this video ever since. And each time I feel more and more encouraged to keep living.
Thank you for creating this video.
I'm 45, soon to be 46, and have never been in a serious relationship. I haven't gotten much attention from men in my life. It's a struggle to stay strong; believing that this will change and that I'll have love one day. I felt really down yesterday. Thank you for your message!
I’ll be the wing woman !
Don't give in. You're at the age where you will start to notice you feel more comfortable in your own skin. I find it ironic the timing of this. Just ad our looks begin to go we suddenly have this new found confidence. It's a fact though so if you haven't noticed it yet you will I promise you. With that comes a new attitude of having lived long enough to know a thing or two and you'll see there will be this new found sense of worth and confidence. If I were you I would lean into that. I'm 50. I consider myself a good looking woman but nothing that would end up on the cover of vogue lol and I still get hit on my 19 20+ yr Olds. 35 seems to be my target age for what ever reason. The only way this could be possible is because I had that change in attitude. I felt this sudden I dont give a shit what anyone thinks anymore attitude. With that comes a vibe of confidence that people pick up on. Give it a little time. You'll see. I wish you all the best. Keep the faith my friend
Love that you spoke on this and shed positive light on age! I just turned 35 and people have the nerve to be trying to put that mess on me because I’m not married yet. Appreciate you ❤
I love your no nonsense, direct approach. In the last few years, I have helped my son to graduate HS at 17, I got remarried after being a single mom for over 12 years, and I have fought breast cancer with only surgery/lifestyle changes and just got reconstruction and I am now cancer free. I’m going to be 50 next year and I really needed to hear this. I used to be a badass. I can be badass me version 2.0.
You ARE STILL a badass. Now more than ever!
I graduated college at 47 in 2018. Late bloomer due to a difficult start in life. Lots to heal and overcome from. I'm 51 now. I'm still feeling like "is it too late?" I'm an artist. I feel there's so much to create. Life is amazing. 🌟 love this content. Especially for us women.
Very inspirational and hardcore truthful. You had me at Dylan Thomas. At some level, we must learn to be grateful for our trials and tribulations. I urge anyone alive on a journey to watch this. Video and grab onto your own inner power. Great Video.
I sent this to my mom, she is the most amazing mama that raised me and my 2 younger siblings on her own, and she needs to hear this! Thank you for this message 💜
I was married for 4 years and just recently separated and during that separation it became very clear that it was toxic and therefore I am better alone, as hard as it is. I’m 30 and I identified with being a family woman, a wife and a mom - hopefully. But now I’m alone, with no prospect of that now. And I’m at peace. Thank you for your wisdom during this time. You’ve helped me more than you could believe.
Girl, same age and same situation. And it's my birthday today. In a year from today, I am sure our situations would be the best.
Hey!! Would you like to chat some time? (I don't mean to sound like a creep. Sorry if sounds like that).
I'm 30 too. Soon to file for a divorce after 2.5 years of toxic marriage. And... I'd LOVE to connect with someone who's my age and have gone through similar experiences.
Do you think we can share our experiences?
Everything is perfect, remember that ❤
@@ardently750HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! ❤️🎂
Sweetie I am 65, you have plenty of time to recreate that dream with the right person!! Plenty of time to be you v.2.0
Woke up at 55 after 35 yr narcissist marriage so it's possible to find ur best self by self! Never give up on yourself ❤️🕊️🙏⚖️💪🩰🌟 Shine on 🌟
After 14 years of not being in a band, today I had my first practice with two great dudes and we are gathering up a set list! I WILL MAKE MY DREAMS COME TRUE!! You’re only as old as you feel, and right now I feel 18 again! I’m ready to jam baby!! 😂
Congratulations! Wishing you all the Success on your journey!!!
At 49 I made the decision that I was going to feel great on my 50th birthday. First, I quit drinking. That was the domino for so many positive changes. I'm now 53 and for the past 3 years have never felt so comfortable in my own skin and never felt so powerful.
So wonderful to hear that, thanks for sharing 😊
I am forever thankful for this topic and this community. I am 46, got dumped after 27 years. I had not much self worth, i was very low for months, but this is my biggest wake up call. On some days i dont even know what to do first, i see many area that need work and it feels overwhelming. But doing nothing , is guaranteed failure , and i decided to try and give my best, for me ❤
Love you. Thank you. I’m 39, just broke up w a guy after almost a year and discerning marriage. I want to be married and a biological mother so much. This is really helping me to push forward!! 💗💗
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My friend's mum has recently started rock climbing and now she's addicted to it. She lives for her new hobby and the excitement and the focus that you get while conquering those sheer faces of cliff&rock. She started at 63.
I needed this so bad. I woke up in a panic about money, my living situation and my healing. Absolutely worried and scared. I need a push and positive energy. I often think at 40 that my life is over and I screwed it up so bad to the point of no return but that isn’t true. Thank you.
Just wanted to thank you for doing this. I am 58 and reinventing my life. Not out of choice, but necessity. Almost three years ago, my wife of almost 22 years said she was done and left me in the home we created. I was devastated. After spending almost a year recovering from that, I decided I needed to just move forward and create what I wanted for my life. I knew that I didn't want to spend my remaining years alone, so I put myself back out there. After a number bad experiences, I have now found someone who is full of life, loves me and has a positive life energy that is incredible. I am doing things I have never done in my life and as I write this now, I am sitting at my girlfriends house, on a three week visit, in Northwestern Washington state. I work from home and can work from anywhere, so I decided to come out here and spend some significant time with her and see how things would go. I have to say that there are challenges within myself to all the change in my life, but it has been a positive experience and I am happy that I am where I am now. I just wanted to share this as I watch your videos and though I am not your target demographic, I find great value in your videos and messages. This was an encouraging reminder to stay the course. Keep up the great work and I will be watching for more great stuff coming from you.
So proud of you 👏
I do hope this are going well❤
I'm 59 and only just now realizing what I came here to do. And I've often thought I was late, but then I realized it took all this time to learn everything I needed to learn in order to step into the role I'm meant to step into. I realize now it's perfect timing.
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Right there with you sistah!!
I opened UA-cam and thought “I need to see something good and uplifting right now” and boom!! Thank you ❤
Girlll this was an amazing message that truly resonated with me at 54. I’m NOT going gently into the night!!!
DON’T BE DONE BEFORE YOU’RE DONE !!!
That part…🙏🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
I love this. I shared a post this morning on Twitter that said "oh did you think women over 40 begin to go downhill? Cute! I'm just getting started." lol I'm 43 next month. I truly feel as if I'm not just coming into my own, but really. This is the beginning for me. We gain so much wisdom in our youth. When we get older, we finally figure out how to implement it. Love your videos.
Turning 44 in 2 weeks and this video couldn’t be more perfectly made for me and what I’ve been confronting!! Thank you, sister goddess! ❤
I’m getting ready to turn 40 in September. I’ve put a lot of pressure on myself with entering this chapter and for some reason I came across you while scrolling UA-cam and this is exactly what I needed to hear. I wish I could have had my mother speak this much life into me, so at this age I wouldn’t desperately need guidance and encouragement as I do now. Thank you so much!! 🙏🏾
Really needed to hear this.. I felt like I lost my “youth” with a man that didn’t find me attractive. I couldn’t figure it out until many years later he admitted he was gay. Earth shattering. And then I was 43.. now I’m 47 and still haven’t gotten the courage to open back up again.
I’ve been struggling ever since to get my self esteem back. Even if he biologically wasn’t into me, he gaslit me so badly, wasted all those years, it has been hard to recover.
So I’ve been binge watching your videos. And really love your strong spirit. You inspire me to get back into my feminine and try again after all these years. I’ve waited so long to date, and I’m not letting just any loser in again -because of low self esteem about my age. I’m going to go see what’s out there.. and now I believe I could be a 2.0 version too! My life isn’t over yet to find love before I leave.
Thank you for your videos. They sure are helping me find myself again. ❤
It is never too late and you are never too old to live out your dreams.❤️
And age only matters if you're a wine or cheese.✨️
I‘ve never listened to something so empowering! Wow, you‘re simply amazing. Thank you for your words and your wisdom! ❤
Thank you for this! I will be 60 soon. After experiencing a brain bleed then a divorce I’m starting a new life! So yes you can! It’s challenging but it’s all in your outlook!
I'm 16, i'm still young and youthful and even I feel left behind sometimes for other reasons, I feel like I've learned so much at THIS age, I can't imagine how much more there is to learn, learning and growing is a lifelong process which varies for everyone and some people find themselves at an older age, and some of us at a young age.
like mentioned in the video, I really do have a deep intuition, a deep knowing that I will make it, I have an unbreakable self-belief and I always have, I take it as a gift bc without it I don't know if I'd be able to keep going.
That's beautiful ❤️
I'm proud of you that at age 16 you are watching this where most young people would be involve in some juvenile delinquency. I see already a great potential in you. Keep on learning and never stop.
@@sylviculture thank you!!! that really means a lot. 💗
2 divorces, relationships don't last, No children (I've always wanted children) and at 49 years old I'm heartbroken at the thought of never finding true love and a child at my age. ....this video gave me a spark of life..hope maybe, listening to your words made me cry
42, two divorces and no children as well. I feel the same fears. Loved this message. Best of luck to you.
I needed this. Thank you so much. I am in my mid 30s. Don't be done before you are done. I did waste many years of my life being someone else, unhealed and wounded. Now I know why I had to go through it so I could step into my power
Activation 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. God is so good thank you Lord for sending me this message from this beautiful vessel
This video's message is so nice!
Reminds me of a quote about people wanting to change and do new things but scared of going for it because they think they're too old.
"I can't start anything now, how old will I be by the time I finish this task/degree/project? The same age you'd be had you not done it"
You've got this, everyone! Let's go for our dreams!
Thank you! I'm 55 and I believe every word you've said. Out of a really complicated relationship that sucked alot of life out of me but I'm not defined by that. Listening to your words just made me even more determined to push and fight to make a better life and become the best me ever. Thank you again for making these videos ❤.
Your Such a Gifted Speaker🙌🏾
I Drool at your Every Word🤤The way you Deliver the Message, Paired with the Expressions🙌🏾🙌🏾
So true xxx
I’m 39 a single mum and picking up my career again and going back to college as well as working 2 jobs! I can’t wait for my 40’s xxx
Me being 24 in tears, I needed this because why am I giving up before even starting? I LOVE YOU!!
Thank you so much for posting this. It couldn't have come at a better time ❤ much love
By far this is your best video yet! The words you have used are life changing, empowering & inspirational. Keep doing these types of videos❤
Was feeling so down today and this video came in the perfect time. Thank you! Sending love to everyone .. each day is a blessing
The divine is timeless, always right on time. Thank you for this beautiful message.
I’m 50 and going back to college, it was daunting to say the least. My thoughts were at my age go back to school and then realized if not now when …never, and that was not an option. It propelled me to do it. Thank you for this beautiful message❤🙏🥰 and for the accountability you take for your viewers.
You are inspiring others!! ❤
@@annlathamDid Lizzo go to college?
I had goose bumps listening to you 💓 Thank you for this powerful message and for being accountable to your audience 🙏🏾 you're AMAZING ❤ so much love and support 😘
You are a gift to all of us who are heartbroken.
thank you for this. I think the hardest part for me personally is tuning out the unwanted opinions. I always felt I had a very strong sense of self and an optimistic attitude but it’s like the second I turned 30 suddenly this wave of expectations came flooding in and every question serves as a reminder that I’m failing at life.
I was literally just looking at pictures from 2016-18 when I was at my best. 2019-20 wore me out for various reasons. I have a plan to regain my health and happiness. I will be 45 in 2 months 💖
I was ready to give up and stay unhappy forever at 34..
Reading everyone's comments here...i can't thank you all enough ❤
Deeply humbled and so happy for everyone! Thank you for sharing. It's not too late for me 😊
Margarita, I hope you plan to write a book. You are the most profound healer I’ve found. Thank you for the guidance and these videos. Write that book girl, it’s can only be successful and a guide to women everywhere.
She already wrote a book !
Watching your videos helps me a lot, I am anxious avoidant which is almost a cruel joke because as soon as someone does want me, I get scared and no longer want them, it is a constant push and pull and very lonely, sometimes I feel like I deserve being treated by men the way I am because of the men I have pushed away in a similar fashion. I am trying to work on myself and concentrate on myself and push through until it becomes a habit, it is hard to look at my life (I am 45) and where I am and see what I have given up or passed up in striving to please and control other people. Even now, there is someone I can't stop thinking about even though he has shown me who he is and what he wants and it is not good for me, it is so hard to let go and accept people for who they are and what they have shown you and not internalize that. I still have a lot of work to do, but your videos help renew my motivation.
I am 50 and building my dream life and refuse to live in the Matrix as much as possible. I feel fantastic to be in my authenticity. My Ikigai life! 👍 We ment to expend just like the universe… keep growing and that’s it.
Thank you for posting on my last night of being 30 and completely alone.
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girl, it's my 30th bday too. Happy birthday to us!
You’re direct, no nonsense yet encouraging approach is very touching. Not a lot of people can do that. I always love your videos. Thank you for this one 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I'm only 25 but I have felt it with new, younger colleagues at work. I guess we struggle with change, but this change is actually seen on our body and inside of us, and that's what scares us probably. But as the age changes, our value doesn't decrease, actually we become more valuable. As a woman, as a mature woman, as an older woman and later as a beautiful old lady, I think that's beautiful. Some teens lose their youth and beauty early, but some women in their 50s or 60s still keep their youthfulness and beauty and grace. We can't all age, as you've said it's a privilege. But we all can get there, we all go forward and life isn't stopping. What stays beautiful for the longest, forever even, is the spark in your eyes, love for life, graceful and strong feminine energy, the way you carry yourself, love yourself and care for others.
I haven't given up, I've matured. I'm becoming a beautiful young woman, and I'm really thrilled to see myself older and aging. I know it's gonna be beautiful too, the fact I'm alive is already beautiful.
Take care and stay well ❤️
Absolutely excellent video. Thank you!! I’m 55. Your content is amazing and are changing my outlook on life.
Absolutely, every bit of this. People look at me with disbelief! Ha!
And we are also going to be living so much longer than we have been.
Kids overly influenced by fast food mentality and the digital perspective are foolishly dismissing the elderly experience.
Life is not linear. We grow older and younger again, in and out, round about..
Thank you 🧡
Margarita may I ask for some advice and also to any of you ladies… I recently met someone from my past we had a brief little childhood love affair he’s just come out of a long term marriage but says he wants me however he does keep going cold and says he keeps needing to see me to “know” this keeps repeating. Is it just too soon for him (split a year and not divorced yet) I don’t know if my heart is safe? He’s kind and lovely but he does seem to like me but I don’t think he’s ready? What do I do? I like him so so much. X
Amazing video! I left my abusive ex husband at 44 years old and I'm nearly 46 now. I made a whole new life, being myself! I've never been happier in my life!
At 47 and divorced after 20 years I’ve just started an apprenticeship and I’m loving learning and the process of starting anew… thank you ☺️
I literally stood up and cheered when you said if a man does not want you [if you have children] then you don’t want them!! So true!! Love this whole video ❤
Your the best. You've said things my own therapist could not!
your hair looks amazing
I JUST STOPPED EVERYTHING
Love this so much, M. Thank you. I needed to hear this as I have been feeling exactly how your followers have been: that I may have allowed the best part of my life to pass me by. But now you've reminded me that it is now a different, brand new season of my life. A whole new book and not just a new chapter. Learning to embrace my feminine energy as I have lived in the masculine all my 40+ years of my life. Embracing being and allowing things to flow into my life. Thank you. 💜🙏
I LOVE YOUR INTELLIGENCE
@@mandeeqahmed9225is it wise to get advice from Lizzo?
@mikepiccolo32 are you making fun of my weight? I put on weight cos I've been sick the past 5 years, due to years of being on medications like steroids. I was always an xs all my life before.
It's something I'm struggling to accept today. I proudly post pics of where I am because my body survived a difficult & lengthy illness. One day the universe will show you what this experience is like or you'll see it with your loved one. You will eat your words then.
You know how toxic today's culture is when I am 28 and I am here seeking reassurance
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! This is your best video yet & made me cry. I turn 49 this week and my new affirmation is “I’m only halfway through my movie”. It’s not too late.
You’re a wise woman Margarita, thank you for everything you do 💖💖💖
If you are not dead you are NOT done.
I am 31 but this made me cry .. so beautiful
I am 35, single and I ruined my reputation because of bad decisions and I feel lost sometimes but recently got helped by one friend who never doubted helping me.
Thank you so much for this. I am starting over and it’s really still hard for most days, but I’m alive and fighting.
Never give up. You made bad decisions. You are not bad. We all do. Don’t judge yourself anymore. Let it go and be your truest self.
You got this!
@@francesca2317 thank you so very much for your kind words! It’s really tough when nobody’s kind of willing to help and like no matter what you do, bad days still happen.
@@jamikatechaos9972 thank you so much! I appreciate it.
@@mischa6688 I am there. I understand. But time will heal. We have to hold onto that.
I know a lady who had healthy triplets at 49 with her own eggs!!! She presisted and refused to give up on the dream of becoming a mother.
I love this woman like how I love my mother. I’m so thankful that I found her channel
THANK YOU! I needed these words today! Was feeling a bit (lot!) old and defeated. I can change this to “wise and powerful”. That is what I learned from your counsel in this video! 👍
I just stumbled onto your channel and I really needed to hear this today. I am 41, 42 in a month, and (oddly enough) have decided to study astrology to start the business I have wanted for so long. Thank you for this message!
That's sad. God prohibited astrology. You may get some money but in exchange of your soul and paradise
@@BlueBlue23 That would require me to believe in God, which I do not.
Almost brought to tears, we need to hear this more than you know !
I just want to say thank you! This was just what I needed. I'm 22 years old and was about to give up. I've been comparing myself to people on social media recently. I desire their life and sometimes I feel like I was born with bad luck because no matter how hard I work, I'll never be successful. So appreciate you very much for making this video.
Beautiful, wise, uplifting, honest, authentic, LOVELY message, thank you ❤❤❤😊! Closer to 50 than 40, mother of 3 kids and wife for 22 years, up until 2 years ago I thought I had learned my lessons...haha, life has been gracious enough to show me these last 2 years that not only had I new lessons/new sides of me to learn, earn and earn up to, but some important old ones, too. I'm thankful for these lessons, life's graves and for being healthy, strong and full of energy to meet myself in new challenges and find myself again and again 😇🥰🙏 Love your messages❤❤❤
Thank you for loaning your strength to us. It's up and down for me at times but laying on my back and feeling sorry for certain choices I've made is just simply not an option 💪🏾
I must say
Profound thoughts
Ms.Nazarenko
I pray I will get money to rent my apartment. I sometimes feel am late in life. Am working too.Thank you for your video. Greetings from Ghana 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭.
I absolutely love the completely unexpected "You're not Pikachu you're Raichu. Or whoever he evolves to" Pokemon reference😭. And yes it's Raichu. ✨
I just wanna say that those of you who are 35+ you really are lucky to be that age I keep seeing people my age 28 or younger dying I do worry sometimes that I'm not gunna reach 30(i dunno why) I prayed the night before my 28th b'day that see the day.. Thankfully I did.. But please enjoy your lives don't no one tell you that your too old for shit! Do you!(as long ur safe nd no one else is being harmed) 💅🏾❤
I’m Muslim woman nearly 42! Single and Feeling stuck and honestly like it’s over for me. Thank you!
It’s the beginning of something new and amazing
Just found you randomly after struggling with self image and feeling stuck in life. You came in at a crucial time and i strongly believe it was meant to be. I went from being lost, sad, miserable and unmotivated to waking up early, making connections, going back to my fitness routine and embracing myself as the fearless woman i know i am, flaws and all.
I've always been in abusive relationships with dominant and avoidant men and you helped me break that cycle. I now know my worth and i KNOW what my spirit is craving in this world. It is such a humbling experience to finally sit back and accept everything that went wrong and deciding to own it, learn from it and grow from it rather then escape using useless connections and wasting time questioning my existence and my role on this floating rock we call earth. At the end of the day our window of time on this planet is so short and we would be fools to not use it carefully and with our heads held high.
From the bottom of my heart and soul, thank you.
Much love from Sweden
Wow..thank you. I want to be a model, singer and actress, I am 26. I know it is not late, but sometimes I did think it was..now with your video...not anymore !!