Ironically, it seems that this entire monologue has fear at its core. Fear that we might actually step out of line and make the wrong move or play the erong game at the wrong time. There is no faith. It takes a lot more faith to be authentic and real than it does to enagage in toxic femininity.
My sons are 18 and 20. When I go to lunch with my older he offers to pay and I accept and appreciate. I don’t mother either of my boys anymore I say if you want to talk and need anything call me I listen and don’t offer advice unless they ask. They have learned to ask how I am feeling and I share my feelings even if I am sad or struggling. If I offer any advice it’s from knowing them and I ask “maybe you could try …” and it’s usually maybe and I’m like ok do what you feel is right. Most of the time it’s to my older - why not just simply say hi to a girl may be interested in and he is scared. To my younger I say please with your gf pay for her and care and listen to her feelings and ask her if you can do something for her. Provide and protect and cherish is your job.
Thank you for your message. Its beautiful you even took the time to write that here. You must be such a wise and patient woman. Such beautiful traits. Thank you!!❤
If you’re with a feminine man this doesn’t work. He loves all the attention and he wants you to give him a safe space to share all his emotions and talking about his needs. He also gets annoyed and gaslight you if you have your emotions. This behaviour sent me straight into survival mode.
Ditto. I lived in survival and masculine mode most of my marriage. I abandoned my feminine self worth to an emotionally wounded abusive feminine man🤮😪😪💔💔. It was hell. I'm working on rebuilding my life with alot of self love and living in my feminine radiance. Happiest I've ever been. Take care of yourself. You're a Queen. Never forget that❤️i🔥❤️
7. Never try to solve his problems. 6. Never withhold yr emotions frm him. 5. Never tell him what 2 do. 4. Never pay 4 dates. 3. Never assume he knw what u want. 2. Never 👎 interrupt him. 1. Remember 2 appreciate ❤him.
If a girl can’t give to her man or provide. What’s the point of a relationship. A woman wants to feel helpful too, so the man has to learn to accept assistance from us sometimes.
Glad that u mentioned this, I was bout to ask my new bae if he was turned off by my offering to help, or letting him know I'd liked to help... he never accepts, but says thank you, idk this kinda confusing 😂😂
@@sdotyvonneIf he is in financial need he have to settle that first be fore looking for a new girfriend. When these men stand on their feet again, they will look for someone they can help financially, because you are like his MOTHER! We are here to LEARN. You don't have to experience this above mentioned first
ITS ALWAYS SAID WHAT WE SHOULD DO TO GET OUR MEN TO ?????BS. ITS TIME THEY GET IN THE ACT,,,, IF THEY DNT HAVE SEX, THEY HAVE BLUE BALLS,WELL WOMEN GET BLUE CAT THEN,,HES NO MORE NEEDING
It feels like the woman has to really maneuver and twist and turn and cater to the man. Why can’t the man learn to be civilized and communicate with the woman. It’s compromise on both sides and working together.
This is a video designed to help women understand the mindset of men. Not liking the mindset of men is counterproductive. Men want to please us. But they are different and we need to understand their emotions.
@@firsttimehomebuyerspeciali4256 after being married for nearly 20 years and suddenly left one day (affair) men seem to be lead by their manhood (sweeping generalisation). After viewing many channels on UA-cam on how men really think, how they test women, value women etc, I’d rather be celibate and lead a peaceful life tbh. Do I hate men? No, I have a son but I’ve been in numerous relationships (I’m old now) and EVERY single man has cheated on me. EVERY SINGLE ONE.
Exactly, I do appreciate the insight shared here, but in the decades since my divorce, and now in a 3 yr relationship is so complicated. The burden is always the woman and what a woman has to do, understand etc. Most books etc are written for women and let's face it most men don't put in the time and research or self reflection on how to BE a good man and show up for the woman, whether she says or does just the right thing. Exhausting!! In this relationship I'm in now, anytime, I make my thoughts known and convey what I expect out of the relationship and try to break up and move on, it's my fault "I always leave, so how am I going to marry you". I am a Christian and it has been hard being in this committed relationship without any sign of a serious marriage future or even an engagement. How long do you "wait" after 3 yrs? I think he's kicking the can down the road and got the "cow and doesn't have to pay for the milk" as my mom always used to say...ugh! I give up.
#6....... He's always late and never communicates well. I was upset once again. The evening was perfect, as I believed once again he would be home in 45 minutes. After two hours, I lost the mood.... Candles, fresh sheets, jazz music, dim lights..... He texted his car battery died. His phone was 1%. This morning, I didn't ask how he was. I was deciding what to say to him. I was focusing on a Hallmark movie, seriously I was, and I immediately felt I needed to let go of my frustration and give myself to him. At the same time, he texted he was getting his alternator repaired. I texted him all the phrases I've heard from this channel. His response: I want you so bad. ❤
I'm 50, divorced twice, I'm very feminine, nurturing, and empathetic, Christian woman who loves to feel taken care of so I look for a man who pays for dates even though I am educated and have a high paying career. I love a man who, opens doors, and buys me flowers which I verbalize and I am very good at verbal affirmation, but I have only experienced men who are put off whenever I have a need so that's why I don't say anything about my needs beyond what things I like from a date. What I do is set boundaries, but then men like to push those boundaries and then they feel rejected when I verbalize what those boundaries are. Some examples of things I do is give him trust and respect his decisions but when I say my boundary is not getting intimate early on he feels rejected even though he knows I'm a Christian woman - but I'm attractive and I dress modest, I just don't think there are any good men anymore.
Those men you were connecting with are not real men (Kings). Wait on God, keep trusting and praying. He will keep simps and pimps away from you and HE will send you a KING. You seem like a very decent person. God will not withhold anything good from those of us who trust in HIM.
Now separated, my husband was very comfortable with me buying groceries and paying the bills. When he started fixing things around the house, he looks at me and says I just wanted him for stability. I had no words to say, the words I wanted to say were going to be very ugly. That never gets anything accomplished. So, that is why we are divorcing. Along with other issues.
This sounds like conditional relationship / love. I'm the only one in charge of making myself happy, that is my power and responsibility. I'm looking forward to unconditional loving relationship where we nurture each other but noone is in charge of others happiness.
ALL relationships should be conditional. The condition is LOVE and RESPECT. You should NEVER stay with someone "no matter what". That is soooooo dangerous and toxic. If they have toxic recreations and habits, if they are abusive in anyway, if they violent, or are cheating, or throwing your life off balance-- you should not stay with them.
I learned all the male, female chemistry from Dr John Gray who wrote men are from Mars, Women Are From Venus. This podcast sounds like he might have gotten this information from John Gray. Great information 😊
Thank you so much. This helped me see where I am unwittingly going wrong. Thankfully it also showed me where I'm getting it right. Invaluable. So appreciative
Define vulnerable, my definition is to be transparent about your thoughts and feelings for better communication and understanding. It does not mean you are a victim or men can walk all over you.
There are MUCH MORE than three things that women can appreciate in a man; as well as in other women. The problem arises when they are not willing to work on the few negative aspects ,or they may be even unwilling to admit them. These can become major issues and finally erode the relationship. Men are , in general,poor communicators snd this lack of communication can potentially cause serious harm to a relationship. Like you do not know where it is going; or it is heading for disaster!.💟
Vulnerability doesn't mean weakness. It actually takes strength being able to articulate our feelings and wants. Now, you coming with such rude behaviour to comment on someone's video, is very sad. You sound like a bitter feminist. You can't articulate a sound argument, yet you insulted the other user. That's all you have, a weak mind
I can't do this.i just can't. Basically we are constantly being asked to ignore who we really are because men have special needs. Meanwhile we bring valuable things to a relationship just as we are and we have to put those qualities on the back burner so we can have a 'fulfilling' relationship. The relationship I desire is one in which each person is allowed to bring authentic value. I refuse to be juvenalised and play games to defer to a fragile male ego.
I hear you. If I speak, and express my thoughts, the guy I'm with now says "You complain". So it's like I cannot say one negative thing. He says he doesn't complain...because he has it pretty good, IMO. If I do what HE wants everything is fine, if I say otherwise, boom, I :bitch and complain. I give up.
@@amyadams3215 Indeed, relationships are all about compromise and there are two people involved because it is meant to be a reciprocal experience. This is too one-sided for me. It is all about one person always getting what he wants and the other person showing up to serve his ego. I can't.
@@austyn5004 Wow! @austyn5004! Be careful with your rage and your advice. Relationships are all about reciprocity. Making the point that we are not hearing it here or seeing it out there has very little to do with our choices and a lot more to do with a disturbing trend that we are seeing in society to defer to men's needs while being encouraged not to take care of ourselves. No one wants to be in a one-sided relationship. I am angered by the fact that it is being suggested yet again. Perhaps the youtuber could present a more balanced and beneficial approach. And that is a far more helpful suggestion than lapping up verbal abuse, thank you.
Women need to be valued too. And when you do everything for your boyfriend and he doesn't give the same return that's not being valued. So why is everything towards the man what he wants? I'm a 60 year-old woman and I can tell you from experience that most of the guys are a-holes. They don't care about what the woman wants. It's always about them. I was in a relationship a couple years ago or 5 years. I did everything for him. I was always good to him and he treated me like s*** in return and yet he's still claimed that he loved me and then he misses me. That's a bunch of BS. He had a good woman which was me and he let it go. I don't know because I wasn't young. I wasn't his dream girl. Who knows but I get sick and tired of always hearing about what a man wants. Women want things to and it goes both ways. If you're good to a woman and you treated her right then everything's going to go good for the man just saying
excellent, excellent advice...as always...info from man's perspective is GOLD...(Yikes #2 😞was filed under "M" for memory - thank you.)....#1 Yes, yes, yes. Many thanks again for your videos!!
@@MagnetizeYourManCan you HELP, truly, with a concrete answer without making it all about going to purchase the program? I have listened to 4 videos and while there are points to think about, nothing concrete by way of examples is given. I guess it's all about "buying the program". Here's a piece of advise, sorry, YOU will get people to buy your program bc you are giving value for FREE...you give just enough information to bait but you have to buy the program for any real content. Just like your "free link". Giving you respect for wanting to make a living...
SOOOOO wrong!!! If you watch Emily Kings videos you will see from the comments that men CRAVE a womans sympathy and LOVE it when they do something nice for him and think about his needs. They cant stand it when a woman is all take take take. Yes, they dont like being lectured about how to do things, but not liking it when a woman gives to them? That's not true! I now read comments from guys to learn about what guys like, Ive given up on dating advice videos as the advice is always wrong and usually the exact opposite of what guys actually want.
Love is like a dance. You need two people to move to actually make it work. Not every man wants a woman that gives. There are different types of dogs. Not just Labradors. There's huskys, tibarian mantifs, Shibas, pomeranians and more. Men are not all at the same stages in life. Everyone's at a different time in their life journey. Some men have been abused by women soo much they desire to feel reciprocated. There's the knight, the prince, and the king stages. Brody and his wife Antia share wisdom and both sides of the story( man and woman) throughout all their videos. He's not wrong in what he shares he's a "man" himself.
@@aislinglove5219 Im just saying what I know from what men say. Most men hate it when all a woman does is take take take. A very wierd man that doenst want to be loved in return. Thats doesnt mean that I dont want him to give and be all protective too-as you say its a dance, and a dance needs two and it goes both ways
I listened to half of this reel and was taken back. Men have been emasculated not because women had to begin to play a more masculine role due to necessity. Why couldn’t men just realize that things changed in the world and almost required it not necessarily because their lack of, but because of supporting a family. And in a lot of those cases where they should be equals, the man is the one who chooses to take that perspective and so the woman Ends up doing even more. Times have changed and men could not accept it to me. That sounds like ego, and ego doesn’t go far. A woman will then start to become more independent due to the lack of participation in these changes in modern society. For these reasons more and more people are choosing to stay single or choosing not to have children also that stereotyping because every situation and every perspective is not the same. We don’t live in a barbaric world anymore, where the woman has to do the catering. It’s time for the men to step up and change their dynamics. It’s his choice how he feels about it. No one can make another person feel a certain way that is the responsibility of that person. Just some fax and food for thought…
Now I know girl should not pay any penny for dating when we are on vacation. I just want to share with him something I want to pay a little bit something but he really don’t want me to pay any provide me 100% a full trip travel ❤
Yeah, men and women need to meet each other half way. In my opinion this just enables unhealthy behaviors and makes things worse. People will only do what keeps being tolerated. 💁🏼♀️
Yes 🙌 if your with a man who dose not make good decisions sitting back & also being negatively affected! The leader must be better at whatever it is he’s leading in. So very nice to stroke his ego but this also IMO becomes the mother role of sitting back and watching your toddler figure out that the iron is hot! I’m “ready to follow someone as long as they are taking me where I want to go” My 1st husband of several decades was the leader I was mostly A ok 👌. 2nd long-term relationship was “the leader in his specialty” but he was not worthy of “all encompassing leadership” particularly in managing of finance. He used the 💳 CC. & only paid the minimum so he’s mounting 25% debt ’s complete folly…! even though he had a good paying job. I wondered what was he doing with his income I even wondered if he had a gambling or paid s$x or second family the money was going somewhere and he wouldn’t pay off a $10,000 credit card. I encourage frequent s$x between us + I am attractive. I’ve concluded his thrill is the control of having a secret life.
What would you say if a man asked you to pay for the date or the tip and you are not comfortable with it? Especially if he initiated the invitation and you end up going dutch. The worse is for something as small as coffee,
I am not an expert! Personally, I would say, I feel like I am not happy doing it. Will you please do it instead? And if he said no , I would ask. Please help me to understand, why you want me to pay? Just saying…
Exactly,never pay for a first date.Maybe later on but some men want to test you by asking that.He should always initiate the date and always pay.Remember girl,no commitment is the same thing as you being single,you owe him nothing...for now@@sarzysheart428
Question: would he be shifting to his masculine even if his mother is constantly treating him like a child and when he is on Autism spectrum? (He can take care of himself but he does need some help with certain things)
He isn’t fully healed or didn’t give himself enough time to process the loss. Either ways that’s unfair to you let him know your happy he’s comfortable talking to you about it however you can’t listen to it constantly and not feel like he’s still into her. Set boundaries for your emotional health
@recolcummings2833 Thank you so much your advice. He has been divorced 15years and he said he won't talk to me anymore but he didn't say he stop contect to her except children's matter. That's hurting me and Im thinking break ip..
Is it ok to text a greeting and ask how he is feeling today? I ask because we did not speak the night before and I know he was going to have an unpleasant journey
I met a man online. I reached out to him. We chatted and hit off. We met, he came to my House. He was so nervous but I thought it was adorable! He kissed me then we started to have sex. It was nice . One thing though he mentioned that we're friends. Period. We chatted online but no phone calls. Can't like his Facebook posts. We only use Messenger. He's a Loner he said. Just had a break up but his daughter & her mom live with him. I'm frustrated. We live over an hour away also. So really I'm a booty call. 😔 I ask questions and he doesn't really answer much. I say how I feel but it's like I'm being blocked out. I really was interested in him and he was So nice now I'm feeling like I'm no one.
Why would you have sex with a man you just met and barely know?. You deserve to have a man who takes his time to let you get to know him before you give yourself to him. Men get turned off my women who have sex with them to soon. I hope he calls you soon and not just for sex.
What do you guys think about way too many women, some pretty nasty on his social media? Repeated requests to terminate these profiles? Curious, not much support from some female fb groups on this..
I don't agree with this guy. Everyone needs help sometimes. It doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman. Everyone has different skills and abilities and a relationship should be complimentary and a partnership. You are supposed to help one another. Everyone has a masculine and a feminine side. Depending on the sex, one is more dominant than the other. That is all. I can't believe this guy is giving this kind of advice. It is very outdated.
@rebeccaconn389 Changed my number, he got mad and had the nerve to give me one of his spare phones to give to me so I can call him and if I didnt do that call him private from my new number... worst experience in my life but no CONTACT is Right!!
My man pays for events (dinner, dates) then complains about the expense and shares his money woes (making me feel guilty and wanting to reimburse or pay in the future….or avoid anything that costs money)…what to do?
Then as a man don’t ask for help. Y’all are such hypocrites.. you don’t support your man blah blah and then it’s don’t solve his problems. Go do one disrespectfully
Let me say this woman are Brian washed and did you know that woman that a thousand years a go woman were the leader and men used woman fore sex then thy thought we are weak so we will be the leader,s and took the power off the woman and u lot need a woman more than you lot has you need sex more than us,woman need too love them self's and look afere them self's and do what thy need too do I'd what there good at know I have told a man what too do nore do I care if I can get one but all ways have,true I neaver tell a man things yes if asked and not too yes every man is different and men need too talk more,man wad not all ways the hunter look up your history,
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Who else noticed the writing on his cap? That’s what attracted me. ❤
Ironically, it seems that this entire monologue has fear at its core. Fear that we might actually step out of line and make the wrong move or play the erong game at the wrong time. There is no faith. It takes a lot more faith to be authentic and real than it does to enagage in toxic femininity.
My sons are 18 and 20.
When I go to lunch with my older he offers to pay and I accept and appreciate.
I don’t mother either of my boys anymore
I say if you want to talk and need anything call me
I listen and don’t offer advice unless they ask. They have learned to ask how I am feeling and I share my feelings even if I am sad or struggling.
If I offer any advice it’s from knowing them and I ask “maybe you could try …” and it’s usually maybe and I’m like ok do what you feel is right. Most of the time it’s to my older - why not just simply say hi to a girl may be interested in and he is scared. To my younger I say please with your gf pay for her and care and listen to her feelings and ask her if you can do something for her. Provide and protect and cherish is your job.
Thank you for your message. Its beautiful you even took the time to write that here. You must be such a wise and patient woman. Such beautiful traits. Thank you!!❤
If you’re with a feminine man this doesn’t work. He loves all the attention and he wants you to give him a safe space to share all his emotions and talking about his needs. He also gets annoyed and gaslight you if you have your emotions.
This behaviour sent me straight into survival mode.
Ditto. I lived in survival and masculine mode most of my marriage. I abandoned my feminine self worth to an emotionally wounded abusive feminine man🤮😪😪💔💔. It was hell. I'm working on rebuilding my life with alot of self love and living in my feminine radiance. Happiest I've ever been. Take care of yourself. You're a Queen. Never forget that❤️i🔥❤️
7. Never try to solve his problems.
6. Never withhold yr emotions frm him.
5. Never tell him what 2 do.
4. Never pay 4 dates.
3. Never assume he knw what u want.
2. Never 👎 interrupt him.
1. Remember 2 appreciate ❤him.
I really need to work on #2. We get so excited in conversation sometimes 😅
If a girl can’t give to her man or provide. What’s the point of a relationship. A woman wants to feel helpful too, so the man has to learn to accept assistance from us sometimes.
Glad that u mentioned this, I was bout to ask my new bae if he was turned off by my offering to help, or letting him know I'd liked to help... he never accepts, but says thank you, idk this kinda confusing 😂😂
I agree. Partnership means helping each other. It means filling up what is lacking as well.
Some women wants to help a man from the time the relationship starts. It is not good. We are her to learn I think
@@sdotyvonneIf he is in financial need he have to settle that first be fore looking for a new girfriend. When these men stand on their feet again, they will look for someone they can help financially, because you are like his MOTHER! We are here to LEARN. You don't have to experience this above mentioned first
ITS ALWAYS SAID WHAT WE SHOULD DO TO GET OUR MEN TO ?????BS. ITS TIME THEY GET IN THE ACT,,,, IF THEY DNT HAVE SEX, THEY HAVE BLUE BALLS,WELL WOMEN GET BLUE CAT THEN,,HES NO MORE NEEDING
It feels like the woman has to really maneuver and twist and turn and cater to the man. Why can’t the man learn to be civilized and communicate with the woman. It’s compromise on both sides and working together.
Tbh it’s exhausting for women to keep up with the games men play. Personally I’d like a man to come to the table clean with no complications.
This is a video designed to help women understand the mindset of men. Not liking the mindset of men is counterproductive. Men want to please us. But they are different and we need to understand their emotions.
Too many rules.
@@firsttimehomebuyerspeciali4256 after being married for nearly 20 years and suddenly left one day (affair) men seem to be lead by their manhood (sweeping generalisation). After viewing many channels on UA-cam on how men really think, how they test women, value women etc, I’d rather be celibate and lead a peaceful life tbh. Do I hate men? No, I have a son but I’ve been in numerous relationships (I’m old now) and EVERY single man has cheated on me. EVERY SINGLE ONE.
Exactly, I do appreciate the insight shared here, but in the decades since my divorce, and now in a 3 yr relationship is so complicated. The burden is always the woman and what a woman has to do, understand etc. Most books etc are written for women and let's face it most men don't put in the time and research or self reflection on how to BE a good man and show up for the woman, whether she says or does just the right thing. Exhausting!!
In this relationship I'm in now, anytime, I make my thoughts known and convey what I expect out of the relationship and try to break up and move on, it's my fault "I always leave, so how am I going to marry you". I am a Christian and it has been hard being in this committed relationship without any sign of a serious marriage future or even an engagement. How long do you "wait" after 3 yrs? I think he's kicking the can down the road and got the "cow and doesn't have to pay for the milk" as my mom always used to say...ugh! I give up.
#6....... He's always late and never communicates well. I was upset once again. The evening was perfect, as I believed once again he would be home in 45 minutes. After two hours, I lost the mood.... Candles, fresh sheets, jazz music, dim lights..... He texted his car battery died. His phone was 1%. This morning, I didn't ask how he was. I was deciding what to say to him. I was focusing on a Hallmark movie, seriously I was, and I immediately felt I needed to let go of my frustration and give myself to him. At the same time, he texted he was getting his alternator repaired. I texted him all the phrases I've heard from this channel. His response: I want you so bad. ❤
Can you share some of the phrases you've used?
😂😂 men are funny
@sandysacrylicart6925 exactly what did you say?
I'm 50, divorced twice, I'm very feminine, nurturing, and empathetic, Christian woman who loves to feel taken care of so I look for a man who pays for dates even though I am educated and have a high paying career. I love a man who, opens doors, and buys me flowers which I verbalize and I am very good at verbal affirmation, but I have only experienced men who are put off whenever I have a need so that's why I don't say anything about my needs beyond what things I like from a date. What I do is set boundaries, but then men like to push those boundaries and then they feel rejected when I verbalize what those boundaries are. Some examples of things I do is give him trust and respect his decisions but when I say my boundary is not getting intimate early on he feels rejected even though he knows I'm a Christian woman - but I'm attractive and I dress modest, I just don't think there are any good men anymore.
I don’t think there’s any good men out there either.
Don't give up. I was 68 before I found a decent man.
@@brendabrinkerhoff1363 There are good men ; they just happen to be with the wrong women.
Those men you were connecting with are not real men (Kings). Wait on God, keep trusting and praying. He will keep simps and pimps away from you and HE will send you a KING. You seem like a very decent person. God will not withhold anything good from those of us who trust in HIM.
@@patriciasaldanha7243truth be told. yes!
Now separated, my husband was very comfortable with me buying groceries and paying the bills. When he started fixing things around the house, he looks at me and says I just wanted him for stability. I had no words to say, the words I wanted to say were going to be very ugly. That never gets anything accomplished. So, that is why we are divorcing. Along with other issues.
"Don't interrupt him" - you forgot to tell men to stop doing this to us. Because most guys do it all the time.
This sounds like conditional relationship / love.
I'm the only one in charge of making myself happy, that is my power and responsibility. I'm looking forward to unconditional loving relationship where we nurture each other but noone is in charge of others happiness.
ALL relationships should be conditional. The condition is LOVE and RESPECT. You should NEVER stay with someone "no matter what". That is soooooo dangerous and toxic. If they have toxic recreations and habits, if they are abusive in anyway, if they violent, or are cheating, or throwing your life off balance-- you should not stay with them.
I believe a man should accept a woman as she is and she should do the same ,because being your self is a big part of a relationship
I will have to listen to this over and over again.
I learned all the male, female chemistry from Dr John Gray who wrote men are from Mars, Women Are From Venus. This podcast sounds like he might have gotten this information from John Gray.
Great information 😊
Pat Allan also talks about respect fir a man & cherishing a woman . Both are useful & applicable and then find your own middle ground .
There are so many men who find it fairer if they don't always pay for dates. Really hard to behave properly.
My man keeps blaming me for his actions. I finally had enough. It’s all about him and he never thinks about my feelings.
True...man is a provider... I love this rule
Thank you so much. This helped me see where I am unwittingly going wrong. Thankfully it also showed me where I'm getting it right. Invaluable.
So appreciative
Thank you for your lesson. Blessed!
Men need to say that they appreciate women too
Define vulnerable, my definition is to be transparent about your thoughts and feelings for better communication and understanding. It does not mean you are a victim or men can walk all over you.
Totally
It makes sense. But it is hard in practice when he seems resistant because of how is mother treated him as a child.
1 is hard, rs. Sooo hard. I'm a doormat, just quiet and scared
Great advice & so true from all I have learned ❤️🙏🏻
There are MUCH MORE than three things that women can appreciate in a man; as well as in other women. The problem arises when they are not willing to work on the few negative aspects ,or they may be even unwilling to admit them. These can become major issues and finally erode the relationship. Men are , in general,poor communicators snd this lack of communication can potentially cause serious harm to a relationship. Like you do not know where it is going; or it is heading for disaster!.💟
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
Women do NOT have to be "vulnerable"
R U the expert???
@sept2866 That's a stupid thing to say.
Vulnerability doesn't mean weakness. It actually takes strength being able to articulate our feelings and wants. Now, you coming with such rude behaviour to comment on someone's video, is very sad. You sound like a bitter feminist. You can't articulate a sound argument, yet you insulted the other user. That's all you have, a weak mind
No, it isn't a 'stupid thing to say'!
@@clairemchugh2048 Oh yes!! Its an ABSOLUTELY stupid thing to say!
This is so true and why I lost attraction for him and the desire to be intimate
Me 2: men interrupt constantly, no matter the situation. Utterly frustratingly infuriating 😤
Excellent advice thank you!
You are so welcome!
I can't do this.i just can't. Basically we are constantly being asked to ignore who we really are because men have special needs. Meanwhile we bring valuable things to a relationship just as we are and we have to put those qualities on the back burner so we can have a 'fulfilling' relationship. The relationship I desire is one in which each person is allowed to bring authentic value. I refuse to be juvenalised and play games to defer to a fragile male ego.
I hear you. If I speak, and express my thoughts, the guy I'm with now says "You complain". So it's like I cannot say one negative thing. He says he doesn't complain...because he has it pretty good, IMO. If I do what HE wants everything is fine, if I say otherwise, boom, I :bitch and complain. I give up.
@@amyadams3215 Indeed, relationships are all about compromise and there are two people involved because it is meant to be a reciprocal experience. This is too one-sided for me. It is all about one person always getting what he wants and the other person showing up to serve his ego. I can't.
@@amyadams3215then leave him?? Clearly he’s not the one but go off on the advice because you don’t know how to pick them.
@austyn5004 Piss off. What kind of help is your comment, but being unhelpful. By the looks of your picture, you're a raging angry opossum. IMO
@@austyn5004 Wow! @austyn5004! Be careful with your rage and your advice. Relationships are all about reciprocity. Making the point that we are not hearing it here or seeing it out there has very little to do with our choices and a lot more to do with a disturbing trend that we are seeing in society to defer to men's needs while being encouraged not to take care of ourselves. No one wants to be in a one-sided relationship. I am angered by the fact that it is being suggested yet again. Perhaps the youtuber could present a more balanced and beneficial approach. And that is a far more helpful suggestion than lapping up verbal abuse, thank you.
Do what feels right to your situation
Women need to be valued too. And when you do everything for your boyfriend and he doesn't give the same return that's not being valued. So why is everything towards the man what he wants? I'm a 60 year-old woman and I can tell you from experience that most of the guys are a-holes. They don't care about what the woman wants. It's always about them. I was in a relationship a couple years ago or 5 years. I did everything for him. I was always good to him and he treated me like s*** in return and yet he's still claimed that he loved me and then he misses me. That's a bunch of BS. He had a good woman which was me and he let it go. I don't know because I wasn't young. I wasn't his dream girl. Who knows but I get sick and tired of always hearing about what a man wants. Women want things to and it goes both ways. If you're good to a woman and you treated her right then everything's going to go good for the man just saying
excellent, excellent advice...as always...info from man's perspective is GOLD...(Yikes #2 😞was filed under "M" for memory - thank you.)....#1 Yes, yes, yes. Many thanks again for your videos!!
Thank you 🙏
Well how do I not tell him what to do but still make him know what I want? 😊
Share your feelings and desires using Magnetic Feminine Communication
Tell him how you feel when he does something
@@MagnetizeYourManCan you HELP, truly, with a concrete answer without making it all about going to purchase the program? I have listened to 4 videos and while there are points to think about, nothing concrete by way of examples is given. I guess it's all about "buying the program". Here's a piece of advise, sorry, YOU will get people to buy your program bc you are giving value for FREE...you give just enough information to bait but you have to buy the program for any real content. Just like your "free link". Giving you respect for wanting to make a living...
all of this depends
people are different
it should be a symbiotic relationship
SOOOOO wrong!!! If you watch Emily Kings videos you will see from the comments that men CRAVE a womans sympathy and LOVE it when they do something nice for him and think about his needs. They cant stand it when a woman is all take take take. Yes, they dont like being lectured about how to do things, but not liking it when a woman gives to them? That's not true! I now read comments from guys to learn about what guys like, Ive given up on dating advice videos as the advice is always wrong and usually the exact opposite of what guys actually want.
Love is like a dance. You need two people to move to actually make it work. Not every man wants a woman that gives. There are different types of dogs. Not just Labradors. There's huskys, tibarian mantifs, Shibas, pomeranians and more. Men are not all at the same stages in life. Everyone's at a different time in their life journey. Some men have been abused by women soo much they desire to feel reciprocated. There's the knight, the prince, and the king stages. Brody and his wife Antia share wisdom and both sides of the story( man and woman) throughout all their videos. He's not wrong in what he shares he's a "man" himself.
@@aislinglove5219 Im just saying what I know from what men say. Most men hate it when all a woman does is take take take. A very wierd man that doenst want to be loved in return. Thats doesnt mean that I dont want him to give and be all protective too-as you say its a dance, and a dance needs two and it goes both ways
I guess if you want a more feminine man… If you want a more masculine man, he’s right
What if you’re in a long distance relationship and he wants you to pay for someone he’s going to send to pick you up?
That's nonsense
I listened to half of this reel and was taken back. Men have been emasculated not because women had to begin to play a more masculine role due to necessity. Why couldn’t men just realize that things changed in the world and almost required it not necessarily because their lack of, but because of supporting a family. And in a lot of those cases where they should be equals, the man is the one who chooses to take that perspective and so the woman Ends up doing even more. Times have changed and men could not accept it to me. That sounds like ego, and ego doesn’t go far. A woman will then start to become more independent due to the lack of participation in these changes in modern society.
For these reasons more and more people are choosing to stay single or choosing not to have children also that stereotyping because every situation and every perspective is not the same. We don’t live in a barbaric world anymore, where the woman has to do the catering. It’s time for the men to step up and change their dynamics. It’s his choice how he feels about it. No one can make another person feel a certain way that is the responsibility of that person.
Just some fax and food for thought…
I just came across this channel today and I am happy I listened to this video. Thank you for sharing this valuable information ❤
Now I know girl should not pay any penny for dating when we are on vacation. I just want to share with him something I want to pay a little bit something but he really don’t want me to pay any provide me 100% a full trip travel ❤
Yeah, men and women need to meet each other half way. In my opinion this just enables unhealthy behaviors and makes things worse. People will only do what keeps being tolerated. 💁🏼♀️
Not every man is like this. These days most men are looking for help! Some want to do this but can’t afford it, but they’re actually good men!
We need to be queens to be care for and protected by them. Then again not all men are up to that defiant task
Number 7 is hard for me
Yes 🙌 if your with a man who dose not make good decisions sitting back & also being negatively affected! The leader must be better at whatever it is he’s leading in. So very nice to stroke his ego but this also IMO becomes the mother role of sitting back and watching your toddler figure out that the iron is hot! I’m “ready to follow someone as long as they are taking me where I want to go” My 1st husband of several decades was the leader I was mostly A ok 👌. 2nd long-term relationship was “the leader in his specialty” but he was not worthy of “all encompassing leadership” particularly in managing of finance. He used the 💳 CC. & only paid the minimum so he’s mounting 25% debt ’s complete folly…! even though he had a good paying job. I wondered what was he doing with his income I even wondered if he had a gambling or paid s$x or second family the money was going somewhere and he wouldn’t pay off a $10,000 credit card. I encourage frequent s$x between us + I am attractive. I’ve concluded his thrill is the control of having a secret life.
When you know they have repeatedly lied to you & denied. Secret sex lives. It seems leaving clues & denying is his thrill.
You should leave then. It won't be easy but he's demonized. Know that.
Move forward and don't look back. You deserve better.
What would you say if a man asked you to pay for the date or the tip and you are not comfortable with it? Especially if he initiated the invitation and you end up going dutch. The worse is for something as small as coffee,
If you still like him, say that the next date is on him
I am not an expert! Personally, I would say, I feel like I am not happy doing it. Will you please do it instead? And if he said no , I would ask. Please help me to understand, why you want me to pay? Just saying…
Exactly,never pay for a first date.Maybe later on but some men want to test you by asking that.He should always initiate the date and always pay.Remember girl,no commitment is the same thing as you being single,you owe him nothing...for now@@sarzysheart428
He's a douche.
I saw a girl say to say “ ohhh I thought this was a date ???! “ and see his reaction then choose from there if you want a man like that
Question: would he be shifting to his masculine even if his mother is constantly treating him like a child and when he is on Autism spectrum? (He can take care of himself but he does need some help with certain things)
What about a situation where the woman's income is twice the amount the man makes😮
What if he isn’t solving his own problems
Are we sure we want to stereotype "criticizing energy" as masculine energy? (Edited)
Masculine energy is about making judgements so it would fall into the category although "criticism" can be a harsher form of that
You say even if he doesn't deserve it. How about men inspiring women to respect them? Are there courses and channels out there like that for men?
The nurse lol. This information is relationship altering.
He sometimes talks about his ex. What she wearing at concert, when she get botox on face, where she go with her husband...what is that tell me?
Lolol
meaning that he is still hurting n living in the past! … not letting go! It’s a big turn off, saying bad things about exes
Girl,he's not ready.Let him go,if it's meant to be,give it a few months
He isn’t fully healed or didn’t give himself enough time to process the loss. Either ways that’s unfair to you let him know your happy he’s comfortable talking to you about it however you can’t listen to it constantly and not feel like he’s still into her. Set boundaries for your emotional health
@recolcummings2833 Thank you so much your advice. He has been divorced 15years and he said he won't talk to me anymore but he didn't say he stop contect to her except children's matter. That's hurting me and Im thinking break ip..
No, thank you. I prefer to stay single.
Is it ok to text a greeting and ask how he is feeling today? I ask because we did not speak the night before and I know he was going to have an unpleasant journey
Best is to ask for a phone call and share how you are feeling using Magnetic Feminine Communication
Thank you. Your positive response tells me it’s ok
@ thank you and I will wait for his phone call. Then we will talk. I do not want to appear forward by calling first
I met a man online. I reached out to him. We chatted and hit off. We met, he came to my House. He was so nervous but I thought it was adorable! He kissed me then we started to have sex. It was nice . One thing though he mentioned that we're friends. Period. We chatted online but no phone calls. Can't like his Facebook posts. We only use Messenger.
He's a Loner he said. Just had a break up but his daughter & her mom live with him. I'm frustrated. We live over an hour away also. So really I'm a booty call. 😔 I ask questions and he doesn't really answer much. I say how I feel but it's like I'm being blocked out. I really was interested in him and he was So nice now I'm feeling like I'm no one.
Why would you have sex with a man you just met and barely know?. You deserve to have a man who takes his time to let you get to know him before you give yourself to him. Men get turned off my women who have sex with them to soon. I hope he calls you soon and not just for sex.
What do you guys think about way too many women, some pretty nasty on his social media? Repeated requests to terminate these profiles? Curious, not much support from some female fb groups on this..
What about you’re healed and he’s not!? Sick of everything being put on the women!
I don't agree with this guy. Everyone needs help sometimes. It doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman. Everyone has different skills and abilities and a relationship should be complimentary and a partnership. You are supposed to help one another. Everyone has a masculine and a feminine side. Depending on the sex, one is more dominant than the other. That is all. I can't believe this guy is giving this kind of advice. It is very outdated.
WHY is this SOOO counter intuitive to a woamn?
It might be due to our inner mothering skills
1. Maybe because the person needs to heal their feminine energy
2. Perhaps they have an over nurturing/maternal response to masculine energy
7 think not to doe to a women.
Do these work with a narcissist?
Nothing works with a narcissist … except “no contact”.
😂 no of course not. Get the fuck away from narcissist as fast as possible.
@rebeccaconn389
Changed my number, he got mad and had the nerve to give me one of his spare phones to give to me so I can call him and if I didnt do that call him private from my new number... worst experience in my life but no CONTACT is Right!!
My man pays for events (dinner, dates) then complains about the expense and shares his money woes (making me feel guilty and wanting to reimburse or pay in the future….or avoid anything that costs money)…what to do?
Stop cussing. Not cute.
I am sick of kissing a man’s ass and be controlled by him. Mine said quit crying every time.. I feel said..
No one wants a whiner
Boring...
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Then as a man don’t ask for help. Y’all are such hypocrites.. you don’t support your man blah blah and then it’s don’t solve his problems. Go do one disrespectfully
Zach Braff doppleganger!
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
Women do NOT have to be "vulnerable"
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Let me say this woman are Brian washed and did you know that woman that a thousand years a go woman were the leader and men used woman fore sex then thy thought we are weak so we will be the leader,s and took the power off the woman and u lot need a woman more than you lot has you need sex more than us,woman need too love them self's and look afere them self's and do what thy need too do I'd what there good at know I have told a man what too do nore do I care if I can get one but all ways have,true I neaver tell a man things yes if asked and not too yes every man is different and men need too talk more,man wad not all ways the hunter look up your history,
I ment too say I have neaver told a man what to do and I lisen too you lot,
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