I was behaving like an armoured woman both with men who I liked more than they did as well as with men who loved and adored me more than I them, until I met someone with whom I naturally became a truly feminine woman. This happened gradually. He opened me up like a flower. Not intentionally though. As if he wanted to get closer to a mystery. I remember the early days when we met - his eyes full of questions, and as if he felt I was hiding something, not showing my true self. Little by little he gave me security to be vulnerable - again I think he did that intuitively, not intentionally. And I was shining parts of me that were blocked, or I no idea I had - little by little. I was like his flower, he started to get more and more admired seeing me every time. This feels like a true magic - to feel this way. with all other men somehow I wasn’t feeling secure and my guard was on. And even when they were treating me like a queen, something didn’t feel right. Not sure why specifically he managed to open my heart… I was not planning t, and he also…
I’ve been watching your videos for about a month or so and it has been a game changer! I see how showing up vulnerable makes a huge difference! It’s not always easy, but if nothing changes, NOTHING CHANGES!! Thank you sooo much for teaching us to be vulnerable and feminine!!! I will also say though that I had to do a llloooottt of work and healing to even feel safe enough to be vulnerable, and emotional intelligent enough to know if I need to walk away.
Mind you, this advice only works with a HEALTHY minded and GOOD man. My ex husband was not, unfortunately. If I shared my feelings with him, like saying, "I feel sad because there is so much distance growing between us lately..." He would instantly cut me off and say, "Feelings are not real. Feelings are not facts, they're not tangible. You CHOOSE to feel however you feel. So if you are choosing to feel sad, that's not my problem. Keep your feelings to yourself. Don't bother me with them."
Yes unfortunately some men are deeply broken and not capable of showing care for a woman's heart, using our 90-Day Challenge it becomes very clear over time what type of man he is and if he can show care for your heart or not
The very first time I told him that I would miss him very much he got very mad at me and told me off: "So, you think I won't miss you! But we need to be strong".... And so on... I just didn't understand why he got such a defensive posture.... To me I was telling him beautiful words...
I had this very understanding and attitude. However, my husband did not want me to be so needy. He wanted to teach me how to be strong and to be able to survive on my own so that I could change my own oil if I needed to or what it takes to change a tire if I have to. And I’m so glad that he did because I lost him to Covid and now as I’m on my own, I don’t feel so desperate so useless. So I believe that there should be a balance.
Yes the key is that he was still leading and in his Masculine while teaching you things which I'm sure he loved being able to provide for you in that way
In order be able to walk away you need to be able support yourself , which is hard to do if all you have is your feminine energy. Woman can hope that energy thing will work but it may take years and still not work
Women need to seek Jesus first. I get marriage proposals all the time because I do not have sex with men. I take really good care of myself, exercise, juicing, skin care. After 4 divorces and countless proposals, now I just need to learn how to stay in a relationship.
Why do you need relationships? If you fix your insecurities you it don’t need any man, men need women not other way around. Women needed men maybe 100 years ago when they couldn’t support themselves financially. If you financially stable and emotionally mature most like you will not want to be in the relationship
Watching this and things make sense! I've been in a relationship for 8 months and last week I found myself just blurting out some personal things to him which made me feel very vulnerable and the last time we were together something felt different.. He was more loving and present with me than before. (We haven't gotten to the 'love u' bit yet..) The last couple months too he has been really sweet and helpful in doing things to help me etc and although we haven't verbalised it I sometimes feel love towards him.. I have always made a point in also telling him I appreciate him and thanking him for things.. He is a good person with a kind heart and I have also told him that too. I am unsure about the depth of my feelings as it takes me time to build particular feelings but I definitely think it is possible I may get to the L word stage in the near future if things keep up as they are... 😊❤
Hint ladies: Men like getting love letters and flowers too. If you want the romance, who says the man has to do all the effort. Reciprocate with romantic gestures. Don't expect men to do all the work, a man secure in his masculinity will appreciate your efforts.
Masculine men don't want to receive gifts from a woman as that will put them into the feminine role and reduce/eliminate polarity, however sharing appreciation through a letter is great but in person or over the phone is best.
The man I fancy is beginning to pursue. I am from a different generation so I was always comfortable being vulnerable & warm. Forget this boss babe persona. You can't be that in relationship. I feel for these young women with their 50/50 nonsense. They resist the polarity enigma & say its manipulation. Its not.
Do men enjoy being supportive towards women they are not romantically involved with as well? Or is the way for a woman to be safe in this world, to be one specific man's one and only specific dream woman - or she is, like, doomed and will not be taken care of and cherished for being good enough to be protected?
It's not just feminine energy. It's a matter of women healing their wounded masculine energy and then balancing not only that feminine and masculine energy, but also balancing her Dark and Light feminine energy. It is the dark feminine energy that knows her value and will not accept a man that is not in his own divine masculine energy. It is about knowing you are whole and you are unconditional love and fine on your own. You don't need to worry about 'trying' to attract a divine masculine. When you are truly in your DF energy, they come running to you. ❤
Yes the perfect balance becomes the Queen - Both highly open, feminine and vulnerable while also being self focused, valuing herself and willing to walk away
How do I be in the energy of my femininity when I want to know his plan for our marriage? How do I ask him about that? I love your advice very much. Thank you.
You have to share your feelings of anxiety or uncertainty using Magnetic Feminine Communication to present it as a problem that he can solve and be your Hero
I think you need to be careful with your messaging as you completely disregard the need for women to take care of themselves and remain safe. You lack context in a lot of things
@JustUsSysteminc , I agree with you completely! I have been through hell with a lot of men. This has made me strong, however, I am also very feminine. There is no way I will allow myself to be vulnerable. I have strong morals and values and Boundaries. If a man can't handle those things, walk away dude, I can take care of myself. Please, stop telling women that they have to act a certain way to get a man
Waiting, waiting for my boyfriend to be the provider and make plans for us, be it planning dates or Christmas day plans,, but he's 61, always been single, and I don't know that he knows how to do that. I have to hint and steer, feels like a deer in the headlights over taking the leaf. He's more than happy to have others do the work. I don't like the dynamic. He's got gal pals who are independent and I think he thinks I'm one of them. Hes all over when others orovide the party and the entertainment. Don't know he knows how to do it though.
8:49 I can aay the same thing about for a woman well. She doesnt and shoukdnt have to do the same for a man eirher if her feminine efforts are wasted on him when he isnt in his masculine energy for her but in broken energy on part. It wouldnt be a waste of time and am sure shell move on for a man that can make her feel excited and like the sexiest woman in room.
It will likely be an ebb and flow (especially in the beginning) we are having to peel back a lifetime of programming and experiences to get back to your feminine core you had when you were first born
@@MagnetizeYourMan So deep. Thank you so much. My friend has always done this w/ men and she is their obsession. She make her world their world and they eat it up. I'm the opposite! THANK YOU SO MUCH. Looking forward to this life change. :)
I dont know... I have cried to many recent men and have showed tons of vulnerabilty and openness to many men and they have all still run away so this recipe is not working for me.. I must be missing something here.
Yes it's a delicate balance which is why coaching is so important. Crying in front of a man is actually not typically true vulnerability because it is often used to try to manipulate or guide him to get an outcome that you want which is actually leading him.
The dumb part is that he needs her to provide the opportunity for him to be masculine. Just be a man, regardless of how many of her own problems she can solve. I'm not looking for a daddy
I wanted to be a sport l wish l could ice skate ⛸️ my goal is to get my tattoos removed it's going to take 3 sessions to get my tattoos removed l really need a coach for some lessons two ice skate ⛸️
Maybe all have a better new year 🎊 and l would like to look pristine and beautiful eyes my goals is to get 2 tattoos removed and get me a pair of ice skates ⛸️to look polished
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Amen 🙏🏽
I was behaving like an armoured woman both with men who I liked more than they did as well as with men who loved and adored me more than I them, until I met someone with whom I naturally became a truly feminine woman. This happened gradually. He opened me up like a flower. Not intentionally though. As if he wanted to get closer to a mystery. I remember the early days when we met - his eyes full of questions, and as if he felt I was hiding something, not showing my true self. Little by little he gave me security to be vulnerable - again I think he did that intuitively, not intentionally. And I was shining parts of me that were blocked, or I no idea I had - little by little. I was like his flower, he started to get more and more admired seeing me every time. This feels like a true magic - to feel this way. with all other men somehow I wasn’t feeling secure and my guard was on. And even when they were treating me like a queen, something didn’t feel right. Not sure why specifically he managed to open my heart… I was not planning t, and he also…
Amen I receive
I received it and make it mine by faith in God ❤
So sweet, thank you for sharing@@gemmahart3985
I’ve been watching your videos for about a month or so and it has been a game changer! I see how showing up vulnerable makes a huge difference! It’s not always easy, but if nothing changes, NOTHING CHANGES!! Thank you sooo much for teaching us to be vulnerable and feminine!!!
I will also say though that I had to do a llloooottt of work and healing to even feel safe enough to be vulnerable, and emotional intelligent enough to know if I need to walk away.
Mind you, this advice only works with a HEALTHY minded and GOOD man. My ex husband was not, unfortunately. If I shared my feelings with him, like saying, "I feel sad because there is so much distance growing between us lately..."
He would instantly cut me off and say,
"Feelings are not real. Feelings are not facts, they're not tangible. You CHOOSE to feel however you feel. So if you are choosing to feel sad, that's not my problem. Keep your feelings to yourself. Don't bother me with them."
What a demon glad you left him 😅
I'm sorry that he treated you that way. You deserve better than that. You deserve someone that loves you enough to care about your feelings.
I am glad you aren't together with him anymore!
Yes unfortunately some men are deeply broken and not capable of showing care for a woman's heart, using our 90-Day Challenge it becomes very clear over time what type of man he is and if he can show care for your heart or not
The very first time I told him that I would miss him very much he got very mad at me and told me off: "So, you think I won't miss you! But we need to be strong".... And so on... I just didn't understand why he got such a defensive posture.... To me I was telling him beautiful words...
I had this very understanding and attitude. However, my husband did not want me to be so needy. He wanted to teach me how to be strong and to be able to survive on my own so that I could change my own oil if I needed to or what it takes to change a tire if I have to. And I’m so glad that he did because I lost him to Covid and now as I’m on my own, I don’t feel so desperate so useless. So I believe that there should be a balance.
Yes the key is that he was still leading and in his Masculine while teaching you things which I'm sure he loved being able to provide for you in that way
@@MagnetizeYourMan and that he believed that I was intelligent enough to learn masculine things! Lol
i am very sorry that you lost him,that is terrible i a m very sorry.
Girls 🗣️Just BE YOU!
Be you but be wise. In my journey, I found that God was more than willing to guide me.
I don't want to be a man's weakness. I want to be one of his strongest strengths...
Yes, for sure! We want to bring out the best in our men...and we have the power to do it.
In order be able to walk away you need to be able support yourself , which is hard to do if all you have is your feminine energy. Woman can hope that energy thing will work but it may take years and still not work
Women need to seek Jesus first. I get marriage proposals all the time because I do not have sex with men. I take really good care of myself, exercise, juicing, skin care. After 4 divorces and countless proposals, now I just need to learn how to stay in a relationship.
Why do you need relationships? If you fix your insecurities you it don’t need any man, men need women not other way around. Women needed men maybe 100 years ago when they couldn’t support themselves financially. If you financially stable and emotionally mature most like you will not want to be in the relationship
Watching this and things make sense! I've been in a relationship for 8 months and last week I found myself just blurting out some personal things to him which made me feel very vulnerable and the last time we were together something felt different.. He was more loving and present with me than before. (We haven't gotten to the 'love u' bit yet..) The last couple months too he has been really sweet and helpful in doing things to help me etc and although we haven't verbalised it I sometimes feel love towards him.. I have always made a point in also telling him I appreciate him and thanking him for things.. He is a good person with a kind heart and I have also told him that too. I am unsure about the depth of my feelings as it takes me time to build particular feelings but I definitely think it is possible I may get to the L word stage in the near future if things keep up as they are... 😊❤
Hint ladies: Men like getting love letters and flowers too. If you want the romance, who says the man has to do all the effort. Reciprocate with romantic gestures. Don't expect men to do all the work, a man secure in his masculinity will appreciate your efforts.
Masculine men don't want to receive gifts from a woman as that will put them into the feminine role and reduce/eliminate polarity, however sharing appreciation through a letter is great but in person or over the phone is best.
@@MagnetizeYourMan Maybe it's because I'm a Sigma female and my husband is a sigma male that that worked for us, and he loved getting flowers at work.
Yeah, no thank you. That's too masculine for me.
I have spent money in a man. It was never reciprocated
Why should she when he does not?
1: Be in your feminine by being vulnerable and being in touch with your core emotions ( No brainer)
2
The man I fancy is beginning to pursue. I am from a different generation so I was always comfortable being vulnerable & warm. Forget this boss babe persona. You can't be that in relationship. I feel for these young women with their 50/50 nonsense. They resist the polarity enigma & say its manipulation. Its not.
Do men enjoy being supportive towards women they are not romantically involved with as well? Or is the way for a woman to be safe in this world, to be one specific man's one and only specific dream woman - or she is, like, doomed and will not be taken care of and cherished for being good enough to be protected?
It's not just feminine energy. It's a matter of women healing their wounded masculine energy and then balancing not only that feminine and masculine energy, but also balancing her Dark and Light feminine energy. It is the dark feminine energy that knows her value and will not accept a man that is not in his own divine masculine energy. It is about knowing you are whole and you are unconditional love and fine on your own. You don't need to worry about 'trying' to attract a divine masculine. When you are truly in your DF energy, they come running to you. ❤
Yes the perfect balance becomes the Queen - Both highly open, feminine and vulnerable while also being self focused, valuing herself and willing to walk away
Pointless. Occultism ultimately seeks a world consisting of men and their pleasure machines. This is an occult channel.
Hero never dies
this will not happen to any narcissistic people (men/women), unless they're ultimately changed to be a good/better person.
Thanks!
Thank you and glad it is helpful to you Florence! :)
Lots of women are not interested in playing vulnerable.
You dont have to be anything but yourself
I'm so used to being a place holder with a man am not ready for a relationship l think it will take up to much space
You are beautiful & precious to the Lord.
How do I be in the energy of my femininity when I want to know his plan for our marriage? How do I ask him about that? I love your advice very much. Thank you.
You have to share your feelings of anxiety or uncertainty using Magnetic Feminine Communication to present it as a problem that he can solve and be your Hero
He has to be mature enough to listen when you speak and care and understand, look at himself vs just defending excusing And attacking
I think you need to be careful with your messaging as you completely disregard the need for women to take care of themselves and remain safe. You lack context in a lot of things
@JustUsSysteminc , I agree with you completely! I have been through hell with a lot of men. This has made me strong, however, I am also very feminine. There is no way I will allow myself to be vulnerable. I have strong morals and values and Boundaries. If a man can't handle those things, walk away dude, I can take care of myself.
Please, stop telling women that they have to act a certain way to get a man
Merry Christmas 🎄
Merry Christmas! :)
Merry Christmas l think this is the worst Christmas l ever have my birthday is Christmas day am going through some things l need that perfect balance
Just show up and believe that's enough, if me truly showing up isn't enough, then I'm not interested anymore
It has to be showing up from your true feminine core to be effective however
Thanks for the videos, I am learning a lot
A new subscriber here. Thank you for your videos.
I have been stumbling on things for years
I probably won't never settle down ever again
Stop..
Waiting, waiting for my boyfriend to be the provider and make plans for us, be it planning dates or Christmas day plans,, but he's 61, always been single, and I don't know that he knows how to do that. I have to hint and steer, feels like a deer in the headlights over taking the leaf. He's more than happy to have others do the work. I don't like the dynamic. He's got gal pals who are independent and I think he thinks I'm one of them. Hes all over when others orovide the party and the entertainment. Don't know he knows how to do it though.
how do I do the 90 day challenge?
Here: magnetizeyourman.com/yt
8:49 I can aay the same thing about for a woman well. She doesnt and shoukdnt have to do the same for a man eirher if her feminine efforts are wasted on him when he isnt in his masculine energy for her but in broken energy on part. It wouldnt be a waste of time and am sure shell move on for a man that can make her feel excited and like the sexiest woman in room.
I really need to be a friend two myself l feel little bit broken
I got ugly emotions 😔 and a terrible behavior l do need a better behavior
That's a dangerous sport
Love your singing 😊
Good advice. Thank you
Wonderful. Thank you
You’re my hero
Love your videos ❤❤❤
You are soo awesome that you ❤️ know this!!!
Where to join the 90 days challenge ?
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So is this something the woman eventually ALWAYS does? Like changing her persona? Or does it ebb and flow? TY!
It will likely be an ebb and flow (especially in the beginning) we are having to peel back a lifetime of programming and experiences to get back to your feminine core you had when you were first born
@@MagnetizeYourMan So deep. Thank you so much. My friend has always done this w/ men and she is their obsession. She make her world their world and they eat it up. I'm the opposite! THANK YOU SO MUCH. Looking forward to this life change. :)
ALL people ebb and flow in their life.... That's why it's about growing TOGETHER, when in a relationship!! Not all changes are good, though.
I dont know... I have cried to many recent men and have showed tons of vulnerabilty and openness to many men and they have all still run away so this recipe is not working for me.. I must be missing something here.
Yes it's a delicate balance which is why coaching is so important. Crying in front of a man is actually not typically true vulnerability because it is often used to try to manipulate or guide him to get an outcome that you want which is actually leading him.
Good you messagr,and merry christmas you and your family
I wasn't living right years ago l don't know how am going to get my tattoos removed
What is the title of last song?
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BE NATURAL!! be playful, be sexy!!! that's it! 😅😅
Save sexy for marriage. God created sex for marriage!
Yes as long as you're connected to your authentic Feminine Core
The dumb part is that he needs her to provide the opportunity for him to be masculine.
Just be a man, regardless of how many of her own problems she can solve.
I'm not looking for a daddy
No daddy searching but biblically speaking the man provides & protects. This is God's command for husbands.
Masculine energy needs feminine energy in order to dance in relationship.
I like your hat 😊
My husband doesn't desire me in any way
Why?
Ask why? A co-worker who is now divorced , her ex said to her that he never complained but her weight gain turned him off.
I would like luv that
Just be the real you.
Connecting to your feminine core is the "real" authentic you so in that sense yes :)
I want someone that is ginuwine and sincere authentic transparent
What if you have autism and don’t feel emotional
You don't have autism. You have trauma and repressed emotion. Turn to Christ!
Then that's something you work on with whomever the potential partner is. Any partner will have to understand about your autism.
Usually the same subject matter in every video
My body used to be hot but my face is displeasing
Fix it
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The amount of time thid guy mentions "masculine" and "feminine " is insane. Hard pass.
It's the latest relationship advice rage.
I wanted to be a sport l wish l could ice skate ⛸️ my goal is to get my tattoos removed it's going to take 3 sessions to get my tattoos removed l really need a coach for some lessons two ice skate ⛸️
Maybe all have a better new year 🎊 and l would like to look pristine and beautiful eyes my goals is to get 2 tattoos removed and get me a pair of ice skates ⛸️to look polished
You'll have scars with your removed tats. Lol