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  • Опубліковано 15 лип 2024
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  • @MagnetizeYourMan
    @MagnetizeYourMan  14 днів тому +12

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    • @rediettadesse2828
      @rediettadesse2828 4 дні тому

      I definitely dress down n give dark energy to avoid men 😂
      Im hot good looking but no guy aproachs me, it from past trauma ,
      Im okay with it

  • @Steff579
    @Steff579 13 днів тому +49

    To be calm and stable you men need to meet our needs and listen.

  • @ruthlandis7911
    @ruthlandis7911 13 днів тому +63

    It's more meaningful to me as a wife what my husband does for me then what he says, if he has a good attitude and serves and blesses then his words are meaningful. And when a woman talks and shares her emotions, she doesn't want to be fixed. So a man can be a hero, just simply by listening to her with interest.

    • @strawberryme08
      @strawberryme08 9 днів тому +3

      Acts of service is my love language but I’ll say when he’s angry with kids or just angry and negative it’s the biggest turn off ever

  • @cgc1581
    @cgc1581 11 днів тому +24

    The issue discussed around 30 minutes in…I got drunk in front of him. I drank something I never had before, didn’t know the proof on the cooler, and acted a fool. He pulled away. Contrary to that day, I’m not a drinker. I’ll have half a glass of wine, if that, about 2-3 times a year. I just don’t like alcohol and feel great without it. Anyway, that day he really questioned who I was. It was a horrible feeling and I apologized so much about it. I allow him to be in his masculine and I thrive in my feminine. We’re about to move in together after a year of being together. We don’t fight, there’s so much care and respect both ways. We’re both rebuilding our lives and families together after each of our ex’s took everything from us. We’re both healthy and happy and fulfill the others life. I’m very grateful for this man.
    The point is, we ladies just don’t like to take responsibility when we mess up. However, that’s the key to a healthy relationship. On both sides ❤

  • @seacoast4950
    @seacoast4950 9 днів тому +18

    I like what you said " just don't play games. " Both men and women should listen to this video.

  • @la4828
    @la4828 7 днів тому +10

    15 years together with 3 wonderful boys, my husband works so hard to give us a comfortable life where I can be a SAHM in this 15 beautiful years together.. I guess I figured it quite right.

  • @oar-N-oasis
    @oar-N-oasis 6 днів тому +11

    Yep, though my past experiences taught me a lesson to be independent but in my heart, I desired a leader. My real freedom is my submission.

  • @octobersky8694
    @octobersky8694 10 днів тому +19

    I would also put forth the idea that women put up these protective, drawing inward mechanisms, to fit in with other women, peer groups, family. It’s not always about men and I’d venture to say that most of the time it has nothing to do with men. It was never my father that put me and my two sisters against each other in the looks competition . It was my mother. It was never my male friends that insulted my looks as a teenager to make themselves feel better because all they had were giant breasts and I had the model figure, it was my female friends. It was always the females guests that would give me nasty looks as they caught their husbands looking at me, they weren’t getting on to their husbands. This is my experience, however, I doubt I’m the only one. Females do this to other females from their place of insecurity.

  • @user-yq4xm2cd7b
    @user-yq4xm2cd7b 8 днів тому +9

    When I was vulernable, I was tanken advantage of & just used in what ever way he wanted until he found someone else, then he just kicked me to the curb. I'm not sure if I can ever trust again !!!

  • @TheMallyjoe
    @TheMallyjoe 13 днів тому +29

    Agree why do men give you so many problems and then get mad if we say we are bothered by all the problems he gives us?

    • @TheMallyjoe
      @TheMallyjoe 13 днів тому +2

      Now do one for the girls

    • @shanchan8247
      @shanchan8247 9 днів тому +2

      Emotional immaturity on both sides. If the man and woman are Emotionally settled, things will run smooth. If either is out of balance, resentment will build.

    • @medievallady
      @medievallady 6 днів тому

      That means you always pick the wrong guys and can't see red flags

  • @JoyleiaJo
    @JoyleiaJo 9 днів тому +7

    Narcissists are Selfish

  • @hummingbird4934
    @hummingbird4934 9 днів тому +4

    I did all this and still ended up single! 😢 mostly because when I fell short and was no longer ‘perfect’ I didn’t feel deserving of him anymore. So be careful of your self image because that can completely colour your relationship even the strongest ones

  • @krystiegagnon748
    @krystiegagnon748 10 днів тому +9

    I'm in a 6 months situationship w my ex boyfriend from 20 years ago. We've both admitted this last week STILL loving the other person and don't see that changing.
    I'm letting him know he IS my hero. He wants to be the one I can turn to for whatever human interactions I need...
    He's avoidant attachment and actually SAYING this stuff now, after I went "vulnerable" and was brutally honest about my anxious issues from my own anxious attachment. 😅 It's working, and taking time and space has helped.
    Eventually I hope he gets that he always has been able to be everything I wanted and needed from a man - now to scare our 18 year old daughter that we actually like one another 😅
    We both ended up in bad relationships in the past 20 years, wishing we were with the other but giving up and taking whatever we found instead. Now? We shall see what happens long term.

    • @w00tastic
      @w00tastic 9 днів тому

      Hi. Not sure this will help, but there's someone named Adam Lane Smith who specializes in male Avoidants. He has a lot of videos posted on his UA-cam channel.

    • @ClaudiaM-om4em
      @ClaudiaM-om4em 7 днів тому +1

      you still acting like teenagers. Grow tfu!

    • @medievallady
      @medievallady 6 днів тому +2

      Situationships are never a good thing to be in. As you said he's avoidant or he might have never wanted you for real that's why the only thing he wanted with you is a situationship because he is not willing to open his heart to you and invest for real. Relationships end for a reason and if you are letting him have the benefits of a relationship without him even committing to you, then you don't respect yourself and you seem desperate to be with him. And he also doesn't respect you if he can tell you he loves you but still doesn't want to be in a fully committed relationship with you

    • @krystiegagnon748
      @krystiegagnon748 5 днів тому +1

      @@ClaudiaM-om4em In some ways, but the BIG issue is we've barely communicated in a deep level for most of the last 20 years. I was married for 13 of them, and we legit only reconnected and started talking at ALL in the last 6.
      It's a process, and a slow learning to trust again. That's what it boils down to - we are both working through past hurts, seeing each other only every 2 weeks due to life and distance. We'll get there. But he's avoidant, aka has a DIFFICULT time opening up. :) Good luck on your end!

  • @pricesunbury59
    @pricesunbury59 10 днів тому +4

    I have a great relationship with my man. I am 72. It is the best relationship I have ever had. He has bought me s house,, neither one of us want any kids. But he is a great man,

  • @sweetdaisy9918
    @sweetdaisy9918 13 днів тому +7

    What a nice, easy-to follow interaction, guys. I really enjoyed listening to you 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @ginaliggi3541
    @ginaliggi3541 12 днів тому +9

    This has been so helpful love your laughs as I continued to listen bam! You you explained exactly why he was ignoring me physically for a while! It made sense acting jealous trying to get him to like me and self worth looking weak. I worked on myself and took a step back went to work working out not working on watching him! Thanks we are back

  • @eunjihong2554
    @eunjihong2554 11 днів тому +4

    Two wise man can have great conversation and helping many. Thank you for solving mysteries of man’s world. 😅❤

  • @curiousgirl.4134
    @curiousgirl.4134 9 днів тому +4

    I agree with teaching this in high school ❤

  • @SharieFoster
    @SharieFoster 10 днів тому +3

    Very thorough and very enlightening. THANK YOU! More please : )

  • @seacoast4950
    @seacoast4950 9 днів тому +1

    This is one of the best videos on relationships.

  • @madelineasmr926
    @madelineasmr926 10 днів тому +3

    This has been such a great and informative video, thank you!! I believe everything you’ve said 100%. Happiness is a choice even in hard times, and a gratefulness mindset changes everything ❤ I’m married but I love listening to these kind of videos because I want to be a great wife. Thanks 🙏🏻

  • @2013december
    @2013december 8 днів тому +2

    Thank you very much Wow. I was told I am bossy and controlling. Which I didn’t get it on how and what makes him said that.
    I am 70 years old and financially secure but very soft at heart and showed my feminine energy.

  • @meeperbird
    @meeperbird 13 днів тому +14

    Permission to speak. Him: sure. I feel fear. Him: why do you feel fear? I feel fear that every time the slightest disagreement comes up, you’re going to pout and stomp out of the house like a two year old. I feel fear because during our first conflict you behaved like a jackhole. I feel fear that while you’re promising the world, my friends are still seeing you on dating apps. I feel fear that you might be the 50th narcissist in a row.

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  12 днів тому

      First part you had him, 2nd part... we'll see ;)

    • @bethdouty4591
      @bethdouty4591 6 днів тому

      Not understanding why you are with him.

    • @meeperbird
      @meeperbird 6 днів тому +1

      @@bethdouty4591 haven’t spoken to this date since.

    • @GoodVideos-ry5ie
      @GoodVideos-ry5ie 5 днів тому +1

      Who is the common denominator in those relationships? You. Stop dating 8s, 9s and 10s when you are a 4, 5 or a 6. That's it. Most men, most women can qualify for do not have visible six abs, or are 6 feet tall or have millions in the bank. They are carpenters, plumbers and firefighters. Go find some, plenty around.

    • @meeperbird
      @meeperbird 5 днів тому

      @@GoodVideos-ry5ie I’m a 6/7 and I’ve never dated above a 2. I married a 5’4” car painter troll. The common denominator is they’ve all been ASD like my dad.

  • @PetsNPatients
    @PetsNPatients 13 днів тому +6

    I remember the DINKS...lol😅
    Boomer here and enjoying your observations. Superman does exist. It's really being with someone who's a kind and loving best friend, passionately.

  • @JadeMoniqueEvelynElizabe-kn3dd

    Thank you so much, I get guys much better now. Been sad for 2 weeks cause I "really," felt the young man and I clicked on a few levels.

  • @donnakelley4006
    @donnakelley4006 7 днів тому +1

    Very true,,mature fun loving feminine woman here. This is very interesting and good information for women and men! Very informative Read !

  • @analynsilvia3485
    @analynsilvia3485 8 днів тому

    I love watching giving us more tips about men having a relationship ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @2013december
    @2013december 8 днів тому

    Wow. So goood to hear how man feels when he is with strong independent woman. Thank you.

  • @tess7798
    @tess7798 13 днів тому +3

    Great discussion…. I learned a lot about what I’m doing right and what I’m doing wrong! Thank you!

  • @rubyroque8227
    @rubyroque8227 12 днів тому +3

    Thanks Coaches👍🏽
    Watching from the Philippines 🇵🇭❤️

  • @empower_angel5892
    @empower_angel5892 12 днів тому +5

    Thank you so sweet guys share good experiences

  • @user-yq4xm2cd7b
    @user-yq4xm2cd7b 8 днів тому +2

    Why not share all thoughts & emotions with each other aren't you both suppose to be working with each other ? Helping each other to figure it out together ? I don't understand why either one has to bring someone else into it, when the situation belongs to the couple it should be the couple working it out !!! Now if one if them refuses to listen or cooperate together with the other one, then it's time to talk to a friend or councilor !!!

  • @user-ej5jc5dk1e
    @user-ej5jc5dk1e 12 днів тому +1

    I think it's very good that men learnt to share their emotions on many different levels . For me it's a fuller and richer relationships . You are talking about very stereotypical rules of men and women .

  • @MariahFan09
    @MariahFan09 8 днів тому +1

    Great video

  • @alexlee9109
    @alexlee9109 6 днів тому +1

    Nice video... please make more videos like this...More interesting to see how is two view points than listening to just one person. 😊

  • @julieanne25
    @julieanne25 5 днів тому

    Love this. So much masculine toxicity talk these days. It's refreshing to hear men still like to be the hero and take action. New subscriber! 👋🏽

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  5 днів тому +1

      Glad you liked it and great to have you here! :)

  • @LizzieSutton
    @LizzieSutton 6 днів тому

    what a wonderful insightful lesson. you guys are great and so blessed and I just pray that God keeps blessing you and that purpose is helping so many people in the world.
    love the raise a family off the Grid love that. Family is indeed our most sacred mission for life. Amen thank you 🙏

  • @ragga7862
    @ragga7862 11 днів тому +3

    3:27 so basically, men and women want the same.

  • @barbarawinslow6895
    @barbarawinslow6895 10 днів тому +6

    Staying single is the best option 🎉

    • @amandabotterill1000
      @amandabotterill1000 8 днів тому

      Yup becuease these guys coukd obs afford to give u that home to be the wife in but there not bieng real maybe about the caring part of course but we don't live in a world that men have the wrong idea about how too attract us plus giong thru date sights at 57 with men that are soo not looking to put the work in talk to u like ur a hooker within an hour or do at most no ways wrn uve got ur kids in there thirties I musta had ten trys in ten years nope no ways last one were married I like my own time they'd just get on my fucking nerves all the texting all the looking out fr signs both of u x

  • @DianeHarris-k1z
    @DianeHarris-k1z 10 днів тому +2

    Want to know what it means and why a man decide to finally tell a women he loves her after seeing if the grass is greener on the other side.

    • @bethdouty4591
      @bethdouty4591 6 днів тому +2

      Idk. The grass is greener on the side you water.....a cheater will most likely always be a cheater.

  • @MichelleSantiago-uv4dp
    @MichelleSantiago-uv4dp 5 днів тому

    I was taught that .

  • @dynsporting3
    @dynsporting3 12 днів тому +4

    You’ll are on point I have never heard of so much sensitivity in Men! Omgness !
    My husband was nothing like the men today. Wow!!!
    I just said that last week.❤️🥰

    • @lisabarcia7107
      @lisabarcia7107 10 днів тому

      I would love to have the Man actually want to take care of me in these ways.

  • @qatarrarre30
    @qatarrarre30 6 днів тому

    Its amazing class room to be

  • @PamelaSalas-up3ne
    @PamelaSalas-up3ne 13 днів тому +8

    I'm need to improve my communications skills towards men ✨

  • @MirandalindaL.A
    @MirandalindaL.A 13 днів тому +9

    You two are so adorable and funny 🩷 great advice 🙏

  • @braineytroyandbracci
    @braineytroyandbracci 10 днів тому +2

    Why not Write a book of scripts for men and women to open up to each other Then!

  • @kaitlinmiaka3818
    @kaitlinmiaka3818 4 години тому

    the exes i knew who got married ended up with women I would definitely not called physically attractive- in fact, quite the opposite. But i never met them so don’t know what made them tick. All the men I knew play so much games

  • @krystiegagnon748
    @krystiegagnon748 10 днів тому +2

    Kevin - your shirt looks inside out 😂

    • @KevinandCeline
      @KevinandCeline 9 днів тому +3

      LOL, yeah I've heard that before. Obviously it's not. ;-)

  • @Snowystardust12
    @Snowystardust12 6 днів тому

    Should a woman ask her husband what’s wrong, or what he’s feeling, when he withdraws and doesn’t talk to her?
    My husband regularly did that, and I never knew what i had done wrong. When I asked him about it, he got more angry. Years later, I saw that he was imagining I was doing or saying the negative self talk in his head…stuff I had no connection with. He couldn’t separate his perception of me from his negative self talk.
    Should a wife ask him about it, and try to create a reconnection …or wait for him to open up on his own?

  • @Jibbo76
    @Jibbo76 5 днів тому

    All of the information applies to men equally as it does to women. The wounded masculine displays the same behaviour /Archetypes.

  • @MichelleSantiago-uv4dp
    @MichelleSantiago-uv4dp 5 днів тому

    I'm tired of being the rock in the relationships

  • @Snowystardust12
    @Snowystardust12 6 днів тому

    Any examples of movie characters of a radiant flowing woman, emotional mature and receptive to masculine devotion. I would love to see a show where you two discuss various woman movie characters from this perspective.

  • @JoyleiaJo
    @JoyleiaJo 9 днів тому

    24:12 self sabotage

  • @sportybutterfly6220
    @sportybutterfly6220 4 дні тому

    Curious as to why the man in blue would be initially annoyed when his wife presents a need/problem to be solved.🤔

  • @amandabotterill1000
    @amandabotterill1000 8 днів тому +2

    U are complety saying u have to look amazing in begining ok then where i think it goes wrong escpicialy now where we are living where people can barley afford to live buy homes have familys you guys are talking ftom people who woukd be easy to please ur saying u want to come home from a busy day with work obviuisly then youve provided this home for her becuease if shes working too shes giong to have to be professional too soo if u have kids then if they have been home ok i could make u feel listened to cook n clean n pbviously have sex but few men coukd provide these days n its not there fsults .

  • @ho11z
    @ho11z День тому

    Too. Many. Ads

  • @JoyleiaJo
    @JoyleiaJo 9 днів тому

    Do men really search for purpose, or just ease????

  • @numindmeditation8192
    @numindmeditation8192 4 дні тому

    How to apologize for emasculating my husband

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  4 дні тому

      Share how you feel vulnerably and ask for his help with being more respectful moving forward

    • @numindmeditation8192
      @numindmeditation8192 3 дні тому

      Thank you for your support. How would you address betrayal from your husband?

  • @JoyleiaJo
    @JoyleiaJo 9 днів тому

    33:26 bossy?

  • @aloishe
    @aloishe 12 днів тому

    I'm a separated Entrepreneur mum of two. Formally a dink as well, lol. But I'm still smoking pot and eating the odd ice cream for lunch. lol this is all true currently 2024 with children for this former dink hahaha

  • @jess77surfs
    @jess77surfs 2 дні тому

    Men want all that, pay the bills. That way we can be available and you feel needed/wanted, and you don't feel like you are competing. 👏Pay 👏the👏bills.

  • @jan1451
    @jan1451 13 днів тому +1

    He is going to Europe with his mother. Yes I would like to go, but I would be the third wheel, and I wasn't invited

    • @lisajohnson6351
      @lisajohnson6351 11 днів тому +5

      Being the “third wheel” against someone’s mother is not someone I want to be with!

    • @whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607
      @whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607 10 днів тому +2

      I bet he comes back totally missing you if you give him the space to enjoy the trip without you constantly contacting him .make sure you do some nice stuff for you while he’s gone .

  • @GoodVideos-ry5ie
    @GoodVideos-ry5ie 9 днів тому +5

    Men are looking for youth, beauty, fertility, emotional availability, femininity, no kids from previous relationships, a body count as a low as possible (1-3). He also wants someone who is fit, nice, compassionate, peaceful, understanding, not argumentative, not competing with him and not controlling. She should have similar values as he. She should prioritize family. Her job should be secondary to her job as a mother, preferably a side gig, she is not going to be able to do a full time job with 2 or 3 kids in diapers anyways. She can build a career later in life. Marriage for a woman is something she should engage in around 21 not when she is 35. By the time she is 30 most men will not consider her wife material, she is just too old. Just because a woman may get sexual interest in her 30s even into her 40s does not mean that the man is interested in a long term relationship/marriage with her, especially if he is her age. Also while a woman can date a man her own age when she is 20 (I would advice against that) it is unrealistic for her at 30 to expect to marry someone her own age. At 30 she should be looking for someone in his 40s. Men peak in their 30s, women peak in their early 20s.

    • @madhuryabalan4118
      @madhuryabalan4118 8 днів тому +1

      I think this is a convenient narrative and not biology. What sort of a society does this benefit? Are there examples of societies several generations down who have followed this ? You know where it leads? It ends up with uneducated, powerless girls and women, with boys in charge (not men) and a society that exploits nature.

    • @UnicRat
      @UnicRat 6 днів тому +4

      Funny men are still interested although I'm over forty, and several (female) relatives got married only in their mid-forties.
      Maybe you should re-check your tight-minded ideas.

    • @farymaa
      @farymaa 6 днів тому +1

      Thanks for the laugh! 😂🤣

    • @GoodVideos-ry5ie
      @GoodVideos-ry5ie 5 днів тому

      @@UnicRat I think you are lying. Women are reckless with the truth. Yes, you may still get interest from men, but you will never get them to marry you. Unfortunately a lot of men will sleep with just about anything. Sexual interest is not marriage interest. If these oldies were able to marry, it would surely have been with a much older simp, or a nerd, someone with money, oblivious to the nature of women. He probably thinks her body count is less than 5, when in fact it would be closer to 500 making pair bonding impossible. He will surely wake up in a few years divorced. She will have run off with most of his money.