REACTING TO MY COMING OUT VIDEO | NOAHFINNCE
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- Опубліковано 20 лют 2021
- I CAME OUT AS TRANS IN 2017... I MADE A COMING OUT VIDEO.. IT WAS AWKWARD.. AND CRINGE.. AND WAAAAY TOO PERSONAL.. SO HERE I AM REACTING TO MY COMING OUT VIDEO
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HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT THAT OLD VIDEO?!? LMAOOOO
LOVE U NOAH
YOU SHOULD COLLABORATE WITH SAM COLLINS IT WOULD BE SO FUNNY
Honestly, I don't think it was that awkward but my opinion is tainted because im always awkward so for me the video is just normal
@@Emily-om6sp YES I SUPPORT THIS
@@Emily-om6sp YESSS NOAH
I can actually smell the internalised transphobia in the coming out video
Same and it’s painful cuz this is how I felt when I realised I was nonbinary back in October 2017. Idk how I survived it tbh, I still struggle but not in the same ways that I did back then. I’ve now started realising I may be nonbinary, but uses they/ he pronouns. Idk I will get there in the end, we all will and even if we all don’t, that is okay too. I felt so upset watching old Noah, just reminds me of my young self, too. Geez. Broke my heart.
Literally, it's okay yall. I know you want to apologise for behaviour and that's completely fine, but it's completely understandable, yall handle this like kings
@@cyrglynn8744 TRU🙌🙌
@@cyrglynn8744 ❤❤
@UK BTS ARMY "It'll all be okay in the end, if it's not okay then it's not the end"- John Lennon
"When did I stop being *this*?!" oh god I have never related to a single statement more-
M O O D.
Same haha
Same.....but not from like years ago...NO....from like a month ago 😂
Same
✨ *This* ✨
he looked like a 14 year old boy who just hasn’t hit puberty yet
Pre T Noah has me shook
Puberty is 13 years old
@JaxRelz Puberty starts from 12 years
@JaxRelz Yes, that's right
@@hitlarhitlar8407 Different parts of puberty start at different times for different people, there's no recipe for when puberty 'hits'. Basically some still look very young at 14 or 15 but then they might take a spurt. I remember in secondary school some boys basically growing 10 cm and having an octave lower voice over summer break.
Edit: While many young people go through puberty over many years, and in different order than the next person.
i came out last night with a letter because i was too scared to do it face to face but this morning when i woke up they didnt make a big deal out of it and just started using my name and pronouns :)
omg that's so nice!
omg yay i wish me for the same 🗿👉🏻👈🏻
@@liam_er Good luck!
omfg congratulations, i’m so happy for you, that's so amazing, yay
ngl its making me very depressed but that's not ur fault
if ur wondering why (ur probably not) but i came out to my parents months ago and they haven't used my name or pronouns at all
ok wow coming back to this 3 months later, um they have used them but they still don’t get it right 1/3 of the time so that's fun and then theres my transphobic brother-
anyways sorry for the life rant
@@quinnstrashbin685 same, i came out about 7 months ago and they haven’t used them at all... not once- they call it “baby steps” .... how...?
Nobody:
2017 Noah every three seconds: **leg slap**
Oh god yeah-
The mosquitos be attacking his legs
@@Oliver-zn5my HELP LMAOOO NOOO 😭
*slaps leg* this bad boy can fit so much dysphoria in it
“Every trans guy nowadays is called Alex.”
Me coming out as Alex in 2016: O .o
+_+
@@quinnstrashbin685 omg oliver and alexander are the most trans guy names no offence if ur not trans
Edit: frickin hell if your nonbinary or anything else your valid aswell I didnt think-
@@greysonholtz that comment was so wholesome. also lol alex is such a trans name but then again AIDEN... i didn't think oliver was that common and apparently my parents hate it? and yes i’m trans howd you know lol.
also that edit was so cute oml
@@greysonholtz omg im a closeted trans girl and my name's still oliver (though i want to be called mia)
@@sand747 Mia is such a nice name (*´ω｀*) I bet it fit really well ✌️
He hit us with the "I'm not like other trans guys 😏"
👉🏻👈🏻🤧🤫😤🏳⚧
Noah’s exclamation of him saying “when did I stop being like this” was beautiful
I made this 1 thousand likes
ooh I feel uncomfortable seeing your old self being so uncomfortable
Yea me too
Second hand embarrassment am I right
I third this
hahaha same
idk why i always feel uncomfortable when trans people are uncomfortable with themselves... like not that I'm uncomfortable with them being trans, but the fact I can't help them in any way other than just supporting them..
I find it funny that he refers to the old Noah as "him" Instead of "I"
it's crazy how dysphoria distorts the way you see yourself, you didn't look like a girl then, you just looked young. I wonder how differently I'll see myself in a few years.
"im gonna try not to pause this every two seconds"
*Proceeds to pause it two seconds later*
*ads immediately proceeds pause*
“i really did forget all these bad things that happened to me”
me, vibing with Life’s a Bit: *got some damage from the past i’d rather just forget, i’m terrified of the future and stuff i might regret..*
HONESTLY LMAOOOO
@@NOAHFINNCE ikr
also i’m currently having an identity crisis and your videos are HELPING ME THRU IT SO THANK YOU lmao
@@p0tat0s0up oh my god same
YESSSSSS
Sameee
Young Noah: all trans guys nowadays are called Alex
Me: called out
My name was alexis but now its alex my parents dont like trans pple so im hiding it from them but my friend's know
Update its now chase. alex didnt fit me and it felt to close to my real name
my name was alex lol, and I almost stayed with alex when I transitioned, but I let my best freind name me insteas
we stan Noah
When he does something stupid or rude on the internet he can straight up say "I was a dick"
young noah has the same energy as the "I'm weird" monologue
Old Noah: “if it wasn’t already pretty f**kin’ obvious,”
New Noah: 🤭😦
Noah:*talks about recent ADHD diagnosis*
Me: *happy ADHD flailing *
That actually made me giggle it was that cute
Lmao, same
same but me reading ur comment lol
*happy neurodivergent flapping*
Happy ADHD leg shakes
“I feel for the guy” when talking abt himself 😂
I HEARD HIM SAY IT AS I READ THIS PLS
Noah: "I really did just forget all this bad stuff that happened to me"
Me: Noah, have you heard your songs
Literally *His* songs
Noah: "I swear I can't get a single word out without fiddling."
also Noah: *gets diagnosed with ADHD*
noah: hello underachievers
me: HELLO KIND SIR
GREETINGS NOBLE SIR, HOW DO YOU DO!?
GOOD DAY TO YOU, MY FINE YOUNG ESTEEMED GENTLEMAN
"SHUT UP NOAH" SKFAEIGFKEUIU WHY IS THIS SO FUNNY TO ME
This time on noah judging himself
In third person
last time i was this early i was ‘cis’
S A m E
@@mosscandle whoo! You got this! :D
💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
hey same just realized i’m trans like two weeks ago
@@mosscandle im questioning right now lol might be wrong tho
Projecting your insecurities onto other people when you're pre-T is such a MOOD. I am so glad I grew out of that shit when I started T LMAO
Noah: "Im gonna try not to pause this every two seconds."
UA-cam: time for advert.
SAME
For me it was
Old Noah: "I'm trans"
UA-cam: *Zalando ad*
Pain.
literally tho
Well is it weird that i got his underachiever hoodie in WAYYYYYYYYY to big and literally live in it ???
i do the sameee
I NEED THAT
COSY🥰
When you flashed your chest with that grin...like, “Look baby Noah, you made it!” I could cry. It must have been so weird looking back and seeing yourself like that, if I saw a video of myself from 3 years ago I would be deeply uncomfortable, and I’m still pre everything 😂
💜
I deadass did start crying I had to pause that shit because I want that so bad for myself
You're so hard on yourself! Almost everyone is awkward as a teenager. You just have it preserved to all to see online ;)
Camera quality looking sick
My mom FINALLY let me get a binder 👍
CONGRATULATIONS
Yay!! I'm so happy for you!
@@hvasomhelst thanks ✨
Yay!
OH MY GOODNESS CONGRATULATIONS
It feels like yesterday I was following sugardaddydonald and seeing everyone argue about whether your name was Noa or Noah and now you're you and it's so so lovely. Couldn't be happier for you !!
🥺🥺🥺
first clip of noah comes up:
current noah: EUghhHh
Hello fellow directioner... 🙃
nice pfp 😏
@@oa5538 hello :)
@@miless4839 thanks you too😈
@ash HI
HEY LOOK IT’S MY FAVOURITE WHITE BOY
YESSSS
THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING LMAO
absolutely my favourite.
OMG STOOPPPP😭😭😭
(but actually don’t 😔😩)
THERE HE HIS! THERES MY FAVORITE WHITE BOY!
The raw adhd energy small Noah gives of really gets to me
Noah: i recently got an ADHD diagnosis which explains a lot
Me: NOAH HOW DID IT TAKE THIS LONG LOL
I remember watching this video years ago
Same
same
Same
It's so interesting to see how much you've grown, but it also makes me sad how much you said you can't remember. Depression definitely impacts memory so that is probably a big part of why you can't fully remember (ADHD does that too). I struggle with that a lot in my life.
Young noah just sounds like a teenage boy before he hit puberty
You did it, enjoy, and shut up already
@@jeanbannon1783 wtf
3:01 Noah: “I’m transgender”
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There were these two kids at my school. They were siblings. Anyways, the one came out as non-binary and the other came out as trans. Everyone supported them unconditionally and fought for the trans girl to be able to go to the girls locker room and for their to be a non-binary locker room. In the end we did end up getting those. Love you guys.
That's so cool! Good for them! 🥺😁
@@wondertyzipp8260 right?!?
So upset about what’s happening in the country right now.
@@crybaby-zo9fw which country?
@@wondertyzipp8260 America
@@crybaby-zo9fw ah. Then yes. 😔
ok, but teenage noah is literally me rn, I hope I'll grow out of this when I start taking t
i used to be kinda annoying and i still am and really the first thing to changing is accepting it which is good. im also trying to have character development and for me accepting was the hardest thing so good for you for being able to do that :)
u will hehe
Its not down to the "T" but to you as a person. But T will help, because you will hopefully more comfortable once your appearance starts matching your identity. Acknowledging that you might project, that you might be insecure or passive agressive or or or etc. is a step towards growth already. You will get there. And I am sure you are fabulous. Hope you feel increasingly better and loved and accepted. 🙂
it annoys me when people say you've made it ur whole identity u haven't ur allowed to talk about it
Thankyou:)
when i came out to my mum i was crying and like "mummy.." and i was crying then she was like "your scaring me now what the fuck is it?" "im bi" "and its the 21st fucking century no one cares what you are or who you like" and when i tell you that made my YEAR that MADE my year
i just binged watched all the "are the ___ okay" next we need a "are the bi's okay?" pls
No apostrophe needed
not were not💔
You didn't look like a girl, you just looked young.
True, he looked quite boyish lol
OK this video sent me down the rabbit hole of old videos. I just watched the video Q&A with your mum. Comments are turned off but i need to say I LOVE YOU MOTHER! What a wonderful mother and person. If only all parents could be like that.
WAIT BUT U CHANGED SO MUCH I- IT'S SO STRANGE IT'S LITERALLY WATCHING U GROWING UP
I just came out as transgender to my whole grade and everybody supports me I’m getting the haircut for it next weekend
edit: ty for all the support!! It means so much :D
yes!!! happy for uuu
Happy for you 👍👍
Congratulations 👏
i’m so happy for you !
awww congratsss
These types of "then & now" videos are very good for young LGBTQ+ youth to watch. Such a great way to show pre-teens & teens that life DOES get better and many of the insecurities of youth are irrelevant later on. So glad that you are much happier and comfortable now!
I'd cool with a reacting to young Noah series
Welcome back to Noah judging his younger self, today's episode...
Good evening, Mr. Adams.
I _did_ knock.
Well shit, that’s an obscure reference lol. A surprise, to be sure, but a welcome one.
@@Aspensauce64 Hmm.
omg
@@NOAHFINNCE Your past self requires five lessons.
Its you. Mmm
I'm just smiling at the fact that he seems so happy with realising that he is happier
This is the character development we want. 😭♥️
I'm glad everyone's over the using the t slur all the time for no fucking reason thing like why what was the reason
think it was an edgy thing tbh
I remember I did it because my internalized transphobia made me uncomfortable to refer to myself directly as trans...
Then I got over it
Tbh, I cope with humour & sometimes use the t slur to joke about myself with very close friends. I also do the same thing about my disabilities [referring to myself as a cripple or gimp]. While I recognize it isn't healthy to use self-effacing humour as a crutch, it sometimes helps... I feel less likely to avoid a difficult situation if I can laugh at it on occasion. However, I'd never say that kind of shit TO somebody, or around someone who is dealing with similar issues. I'm not going to negatively affect someone else's ability to cope.
Sorry for rambling, hahah. I just had a bit to say on the subject -- even though it's an old thread, IDK if someone might relate to my gallows humour & feel reassured that they aren't a bad person for sometimes being indelicate.
OMG I JUST CAME OUT TO MY PARENTS AS NON-BINARY OMG AHH
I hope it went well!!
How’d it go?
I came out a few months ago... My mum said that its a stupid phase and such things doesn't exist.
Since then she constantly make fun of me for wearing mens clothe and make me down. She's telling me that i will never be boy, because it doesn't work or exists.
She just doesn't understand and makes me feel even worse.
She said I don't need help, a psychologist. Even after my suicide attempts she still say I don't need help..
I'm so sorry to hear that hope things get better for you❤
You are in control here, and you got this.
I'm sorry this happened to you but remember you are loved and accepted and part of a family that cares about you and supports you, even if that family is online and virtual.
really sorry to hear that man i hope everything gets better soon- your mum sucks but you sound great
thoroughly enjoyed watching his attention span slowly deteriorate
Honestly, seeing this gives me hope as a late-bloomer who came out at 30. I'm in this stage where I'm inching closer to getting the name change and hormones on the way and yet it all still feels an eternity away and as I don't get any support from my family I often feel alone when tackling the steps needed to go on. Seeing how much confidence you got at such a young age makes me a lot more optimistic. Thank you.
What I thought this video would be: Noah reacting to his coming out video.
What Noah made me think it was by the end: How not to come out
HOW THE HELL DID I JUST FIND OUT YOU WROTE ASTHMA ATTACK
"When did I stop being like this!?".
That's the most relatable thing I have ever heard
LMAO i just read this comment as he said it in the video
So like today marks 1 year since I started transitioning! And I'm starting T in a month :D I'm so fortunate to be able to start T as early as I am. Just wanna say thank you Noah, without your videos I probably wouldn't understand myself as well as I do.
That’s so amazing you should be so proud of yourself ❤️❤️
Good job man. I came out as trans and started transitioning last April and will be going on T this April so I’m excited too. But congrats 💪
I'm a 54 yof who just came across your videos on youtube. I don't care that you are who you are, but I just want you to know your talented and don't need to explain your life. I enjoy your music and wish you God's Blessing with your future self and career💙
I am speaking for every one here, we're proud of how far you've come regarding your confidence and we're also glad you got better at editing videos.
Dude I felt it when you said "when did I stop looking like THAT"
I remember when you were allowmetomeme, sugardaddydonald and triggerwarningrat, and briefly, your band fanpage, bandsthatmakemetingle. Damn, so happy you're in a better place now.
my youngest sibling has recently asked us to use the pronouns they/them and i couldnt be happier for them and i plan to introduce them to your channel the next time i visit them (also they are 11)
Well my support goes out to them!
Congrats to them!
I still do a double take when Noah says anything about freezing his eggs. Cause I'm like... oh yeah, he had those...
i remember watching your stand by me song cover over and over a few years back, like to the point of my family and friend members getting annoyed and telling me to shut it off, and your voice has changed so much since then. good to see you’re doing well!
I want to come out as a trans male to my parents, but as a POC it is so hard and scary. Any advice? I'm involved in a lot of sports and have a good social media standing with my friends, so I'm so scared to not only come out to my parents, but also to my teammates who would see me everyday...
I’m a trans male poc and it was hard for me too. It took me a long while to come out as trans because I thought it was weird and wrong and less accepted. I had came out as a lesbian or whatever and after that I had to reason with myself and realize that I was trans. I had to be ok with it and come to terms with it myself before I could tell anyone. I knew my family was ok with me being lesbian but I didn’t know how they’d react to me being trans. I told people I was comfortable with first like close friends and close family members and then I told everyone else. It’s really all about trust and knowing the people you interact with and the kind of people your family is. But just tell your parents when you’re ready and comfortable. And remember that it’s your happiness at the end of the day.
I am not a poc but I can relate to the struggle of coming out, I came out in November as non binary without being ready to and I was misgendered on a daily. I later came out as trans to my teacher who helped me tell my parents and after a bit of time I finally got called the right pronouns by my family. I wish you nothing but luck on your journey.
I waited until I was 18, personally, because I knew one of my parents wouldn’t be supportive/would be violent. Don’t come out as a minor unless your sure you’re safe! Because when ur 18 u can do whatever u want!
It’s also best not to beat around the bush and just say it very concisely so they don’t get confused
I'm not poc, (or out for that matter) so obv I can't give you advice, I j hope u r ok
Also if u haven't come out as of rn,
When u do decide to come out make sure to have a support network and like come out to someone u trust like a friend first in case things get rlly ugly so u have a place to stay for a bit
Also maybe test the waters by bringing up the topic of trans ppl w ur parents and stuff
Idk how you're doing rn or if u have come out yet
But I hope u r doing well
Stay safe 🖤
i’m extremely proud of you and who you’ve become. you’re an amazing person and inspire many others including myself. your content has helped me so much. i’ve known i am trans from a young age, and i just recently came out. watching your content has helped me so much, thank you! i can’t wait to see more of your content and i hope you have a good day!
The thing is, even before T, you just look like a guy, if someone saw you on the street they’d think boy. No questions asked. Which I will always be jealous about lmao
Same, honestly I hate that I have such feminine features. People immediately assume that I am a women.
Whats bizzare is you sounded nothing like a girl. Those people were weird, dude
Bro the comment about hating your hair cut because it didn't cover your face and that made you look like a girl....hits so fucking hard. Literally the exact reason I hate my haircut rn
It's interesting to see how your own views have progressed and changed
Im pre medical transition. And you talking about how much happier you are gives me a lot of hope.
will we ever get to meet noah's brother?? (if he's down)
Don’t worry im cringing with you, not at you😭I can’t look at old videos of myself without wanting to dieee💀
I just came out as ftm to a few of my family members and they supported me and were accepting of me. Of course they had questions, but I thought it was very endearing.
Please make a Noahception every 4-5 years :D You watching you watching your coming out video :D would love that
honestly 2017 noah is so agressive id be scared of him if I met him irl
I remember watching this video like ages ago omg, I remember it helping me a lot when I was first figuring out who I was as a baby trans because it showed me that I wasn't alone, but seeing how much more happy you are compared to then is amazing!!!
Alternate title : Noah roasting past Noah
The confidence you’ve gained since the OG video is so amazing to see. I’ve been a follower since like before sugardaddydonald or w/e the tag was and I’ve always looked up to you. So it’s pretty awesome to see how far you’ve come :’)
The clip after young Noah said he is hoping to get top surgery and present Noah saying "ah! oh my god it happened" is everything. I'm so glad to see him happy ❤
"why we back on the intro bro, just finish the video" lmao
Please dont take it down, it is so raw and honest and i love that its unedited. I started with all your old videos and I feel like your honesty is genuinely why I subscribed. I love seeing you say it gets better and that youre miles away from this today but I also love that little baby trans. I'll respect your decision to do what is best for you but I just think its such an amazing part of your journey.
I got my first binder Friday.. Here’s to day 2 of binding! ALL HAIL KING NOAH!
Congratulations
aw congrats !
Keep safe and good luck! Binders make a world of difference!
Aw congratulations!
you’ve changed so much like personality wise it’s unbelievable but also really like. hopeful :)
It's so cool hearing people talk about their coming out, my plan is to just send my parents a text sometime after I move out and be done with it.
Ah damn. I lowkey felt the anxious energy radiating from that video 😅
" people discussed: they were born as a girl they were born as a guy" honey thats called androginy
androgyny btw but ya
@@liam_er im bad at english srry but u get the picture
@@frangodrigo lol it’s fine it’s just for future reference :)
Dang, I wish I was more androgynous, but I also wish androgynous was more feminine. From my perspective, I feel like androgynous isn’t really a good mix between masc and fem, I feel like androgynous leans more towards being masc :/
@@lostotter1956 id recommended checking out iris olympias androgynous outfit ideas videos :) they style a skirt and some other "feminine" clothing in an androgynous way and theyre really good at putting together outfits
80 likes, no views, and 26 comments that youtube won’t let me see.
ah yes, youtube is drunk again
This comment reminds me of almost every first comment on someone called ash-is-trash’s vids
Don’t know if you know them
@@AndYouDidItAtMyBirthdayDinner i think i might have seen some of their videos
"there's a lot of memories I don't have, apparently this is one of them" has literally been me for the past few years whenever anyone mentions anything in the Missing Memories Files
And I identified as trans and then non-binary. Funny how everyone’s experiences can be so different.
I came out as non binary without being ready in November last year. Then thought I was trans and told a teacher at my school, head teacher(principal for anyone in America) called my parents and told them. Then something in my mind just clicked and I realised I am actually non binary. The journeys all of us go through can be very different and it’s both interesting and sad to see everyone’s experiences
I realized I am actually trans now.
@@danielhilderbrand7393 i’m so proud of you for going through this journey of figuring yourself out, its always difficult but i wish you all the luck in the world
I'm not trans but I'm so glad I'm not the only one who went through the "i'm not a SJW i swear" phase