@@yumekou6619 having a father means a man will always protects you. Loves you dearly and treats you right no matter what. For me, having a father in my house means strength, a sign to move on. He always supports me, my brother and my mother. It breaks my heart, knowing how rare it is for someone to have a father. And a loving father at that. A father gives you security, a father works hard in his job, a father takes you anywhere in his car, a father buys you what you want. But what you must know is that a father won't praise you all the time. A father is truthful man that disciplines his children. A father brings respect into his children. I am my father's girl, he gives me the love the most. He's the first man to make my heart where it is now, and is the first man I ever loved
@@cloydxx he seems like a wonderfull person ! I wish for hjs happiness and yours to last It was a really nice explaination ! I wish i could experience them , but its ok ! Life goes on ! And i have a wonderfull mother to fill the hole ! So as much as i want to see my father , i try not to feel sad...
@@yumekou6619 yes he's the best! And yea it's always for the better to look onto the brighter side. Thank you for your kind wishes 😁 i hope you and your mom can fulfil your happiness together , god bless 💗
Same! My dad passed away when I was young! My mum never got remarried why does this have to be me in the future?😕 i miss my dad sm and every father’s Day it’s tough. It’s just hard. One time I couldn’t hold back my tears because everyone else was posting pictures of the dads on Instagram Snapchat and I just couldn’t bare it any more. ☹️☹️ so it’s not fair for daughters without fathers it doesn’t have to be biological either 🙏🏼 I would take anyone who would step up in my life
I don't know my dad, and because of that I made mistakes in life. I'm proud to say, I will be having a baby girl soon, my husband and I are thrilled! He is a good man, he patient, he is a provider and he is loving. My daughter is already set to be a good kid, because her dad is going to love her. Something I never experienced, I am happy 😊
I am a single father and it’s the best job on earth. Men don’t leave ure kids never!!! They will always be your responsibility. Trust me u will never regret it.
I wish my dad was like you, (I turned 15 yesterday) he’s still in my life but emotionally he is with his new family. For my step sisters birthday, it was a whole ordeal, yesterday he didn’t even call. I used to be a HUGE daddy’s girl until my parents got divorced, then I turned to my mom who now didn’t know how to raise me, so I raised myself. I’m still expected to be the ‘perfect child’ even though I have never had a stable parent.
@@littlewhale8086 it's okay, i get this. And it's worse when you realise there's little or nothing you can do to make it the way it should have been. Don't let the standards of the society crush you. You need to be there for yourself. And i know you'll find your way. It'll never be easy, but it'll be worth it, to survive and thrive for yourself. Sending you my love
@@famefatal666yah u right,...and owr real father is in heaven. Just believe in him,...we all will be in heaven with biological father. Jesus Christ blessings you and all humanity AMEN.
Don't feel bad. I DREAM of having a father and I'm an adult! What I do to cope with the pain my father put me through is tell myself that my real dad is a random angel in heaven and he's going to be happy to see me one day. 💔💔💔
I'm a firm believer in fathers being the difference makers in children lives. Part of the problems we face in society today is because the lack of good strong fathers being present in the lives of their children. I will continue to do my part to break this awful generational curse.
@Vladimir Routing idk abt the punishment part but kids need both parents - although i believe once a child reaches 7 or 8 the father is more important to them. before that the mother is
Same, I've a daughter with no father too. I am more open with my daughter though, we talk about the impact not having a father might make, whereas my lack of father was that my mother was / is a narcissist and my weak father always backed her up when she was projecting the flaws she wouldn't acknowledge in herself on to me.
Instead of bearing the pain knowing my father molested me and my sister for years, I tell myself that my real father is an angel in heaven and one day we're gonna meet each other. 💔😭
Kobalt Fusion really really sorry ! A father who can’t tell the difference between his daughter/daughters n his wife/ other women ought to sentenced for life! It’s sad that media n it’s stars and porn as taken it so far that a normal father who as a twisted mind or out for a revenge would actually act on his actions instead of controlling his desires. We have gone back dark ages where they had no shame in incest. Bottom of my heart 💓 God grants you n many more patience n not to do the things that hv been mentioned in this video . Aameen. You have the most caring and loving understanding partner. Aameen
Had a father once - he was a misogynist (treated his wife and all women as second class) , treated his children with physical and mental abuse, ignored me as a daughter - that has caused endless problems in my life. So to all those daughters who had wonderful fathers, consider yourself extremely blessed.
I always wanted a daughter, never understood why shitty people get blessed with them. Use to babysit a little girl who was really attached to me so it hurt to see her go. Real sorry you had to deal with that.
I wish my daughters mother would watch this, allow my daughter to have what many can't have. A father that would sacrifice anything for and has just to have her near.
Hard to be a father when the mother denies your rights through false allegations manipulations and Alienation. Without a rich uncle or source of income to be able to afford these gut wrenching attorney fees to still get nothing out of court. After thousands spent . Mothers still Denies a fathers right to help rear his children .
Exactly. I've been lied about. Thrown in jail, gangstalked and all kinds of crazy shit trying to be in my second daughter's life. One more crazy ,insane untrue accusation and I'll be charged with a felony. Can't do it anymore.
Hang in there brothers and continue the battle and pray. I'm going through the same thing. Our daughter's will see the real us in time. Really looking forward to that day.
I am a lucky man, I have a father. My dad has been with my mother for almost 20 years. He has taught me so much and has helped me throughout my life. I am the son of a Mexican immigrant, and his hardships have helped me become a better man, and I myself have gone through just as much as him. I feel sad for those with no fathers, divorced parents, and people who have lost their fathers.
Unfortunately, there are those among us who like to use the phrase, " i was raised by a single mother and I came out just fine" Like really?? And they suppose that other women should raise children without their fathers. There we go! That's it. Raising children who grow up to be dysfunctional.
Mariam Baraka They may have grew up "just fine" but if they look back on their life their is always that void that was to be filled by a loving father. Man, bless those without a dad.
Mariam Baraka uhm the people who said that they grew up without a father had a history with the father and that he left. My father said to me these words:"if I would need to choose between my girlfriend and my daughter........ I would choose my girlfriend." He didn't show any emotion. That were his last words to me and now I haven't seen him in 3 years. I don't miss him, i don't love him. I hate him! He left me for dead and my mom did everything so I could have a normal life. He left ME for his girlfriend. So let's just say that if you have an opinion on somwthing, watch out with what you say
@@eloramidoriWe are not talking about your father or other types of dysfunctional fathers here. We need real fathers as growing up fatherless or having dysfunctional fathers lead to people having all sorts of psychological problems in society.
yeah broken homes are the norm in the west these days. i look around and i see it everywhere. but the rare ones are out there. and iam thankful for them. if you know what you want and take action towards getting it , it will show up.
I have an abusive father, and I just cry every time I see videos like this, or when I see other people have a kind father, or even when I just see or hear the word “Dad/Father”.
i wish i had a relationship with my dad, and we used to, but now we never talk we haven’t talked properly in years... i’m around him wbut it’s like he’s just a roommate - i’ve never had his support or care and now i’m starting to wake up to what that has caused me
I feel the exact same way. It’s like it crept up on me. It all makes sense now, this was kind of like the missing piece of the puzzle. I never knew why I didn’t know how to have a healthy relationship until I had to go back to where it all started, childhood. Perhaps you can one day talk to him about it and heal that part of you. 🖤
I had the BEST Father in the whole world--and I heartily agree with this "Tomorrow's World Viewpoint" segment: GIRLS NEED FATHERS!!! My Father, especially, had a very keen mind and he expected me to LEARN TO DISCERN--and, I can tell you, that having a Dad who has CONFIDENCE in your mental and academic abilities (AND ENCOURAGES YOU IN THESE AREAS) makes all the difference in the world. I am so thankful to God that I had a loving and attentive FATHER.
@P Vincente It messed me up not having a mother around. She died when I was 3. I don't know how to function as a young woman. I don't even know how to do my hair properly or even put on make up. If I need to talk about girl stuff or just something emotional I have to go to my dad for that. And sometimes it's really uncomfortable to talk about such things with my dad. I don't even know how to walk in heels. I don't even know what the proper undergarments to wear are. I have no mother figure. While it's great to have your father around he can't connect with you emotional like a mother can. I'm an emotional stunted young woman because I grew up never feeling that it was okay to show my emotions. i was raised to be a man essentially.
@Angry Hothead You ate an uninformed moron. There exists the masculine and the feminine for a reason. To very similar but different forces get together and they create a new life form. The feminine has its very specific energy, just as the mascukine ahas its own very specific energy. A mother cannot discipline a child the way a father can. A mother can't teach a boy how to be a man. A mother can't fulfill a girl's need for male attention. Thats why there are so many crooks, street kids, and criminals out there. Boys growing up without a positive role model who cares deeply about their well being. Boys growing up without someone that is like them, but older, that they respect and trust, can confide in, and can follow, leads to misguided youth looking at local crooks as role models. Boys wabt to be who they see the men around them are. Thats why there are so many loose women, slits, prostitutes, and jezebels out there. Girls growing up need the love and respect of a male figure they can trust. Otherwise when they grow up, they will be seeking male attention by any means necessary. Even if it means trading sex for attention.
What I find more depressing when you find great fathers who give his daughters all the love, care, and attention they need but then still have their daughters end up as a person that would make their father feel as a failure.
If your daughter is a “failure” then you weren’t as good as a parent as u think u were and probably a lot of secret negative feelings she has towards her parents. duh
@@Themsbeatlesrock Falae, while parents are a big factor in how they shape their kids the environment around them also plays a role. And it is almost impossible to know the outcome of such environment.
I'm so sorry to all the daughters who lost their fathers or don't have a good relationship with them. I lost my dad 6 years ago, but he taught me so much about unconditional love and life. I miss him so much.
i remember being young and going over to my friends house, she would play and talk with her dad. it felt so off to me because i didn’t grow up with a father, i didn’t know what daughters and fathers do. how they bond, and i remember watching a movie and the girls bf was very toxic and possessive. and i found it so attractive it’s odd, when a boy gives me affection i just push him away. i don’t know how to take it you know? i never had it. and the worst thing is that he left me and my mother and left to a new place and is raising a new family. i’m glad his new kids have a father that i didn’t have, well i guess i’ll keep going without him. all i need is my mom❤️
Dang it really hurts me to see everything I missed out 😓 The thing is I cant even say the word dad outloud. If I do I start having a panic attack. Yeah not the best
Yeah, growing up I thought all fathers were violent peverted b*$teds. I was shocked when I found out some fathers are actually human beings who care about their children and protect them.
I love my kids so much it makes me emotional thinking about it. I have a wonderful son who is 9 but my daughter is 2 and i have to move out their home tomorrow. Just being in these 4 walls one more night is torture for the simple fact that after tonight i wont be here to be apart of their everyday life anymore. My son understands and is strong about it (for the most part at least) but she is a daddys girl 100% and she will not like this at all. Praying for strength right now because this is really hard.
I'm in my 40s and my dad has never paid me a compliment or given me a single word of encouragement. He hardly spoke to me when I was a teenager and when he did it was insults about how useless I was. It has been devastating to me as an adult. I always had no confidence and so much self loathing. Then it came to me one day that if my own father can't stand me, surely no one else can right? A father's role to his daughter is so important.
I cried when I watched this because my dad left me when I was dying in the hospital as a newborn and he didn't want to deal with having 5 children I'm so pissed at my dad I have so many emotions like anger and sadness all I can say is that I'm so pitiful of my father that he missed out on having an amazing daughter like me! And he just didn't want anything to do with me and he kept my older brother a secret from me!!!! But I got revenge by texting my brother (my brother and three sisters live with my dad) and we had a nice conversation and I asked my brother if I could talk to my dad and my brother let me, I was so happy but then I wasn't ally dad said was "hi" in the text and that was it I was expecting him to say "I'm sorry I left you and your mother" or "I'm so glad to hear from you" no instead he just said "hi" now I know I'm sounding a little rude when I said that but it's true and I'm really hurting and not having a dad caused me depression I'm not kidding me not having a dad at all in my life gave me depression 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
My daughter is about to turn 14, when she was months old her mother cheated with my best friend. The break up was bad. Spent years in family and criminal court over trumped up charges. In that time apart my ex and my daughter's grandmother convinced her I am evil incarnate. I was awarded visitation in family court. My daughter refuses to see me. She went on 5 of 26 visits the 1st year and hasn't done any the past 2 years. Not much more I can do. Here's the cherry: my dad gave me and my siblings up for adoption when his wife left him, I was 2 yrs old. I grew up in foster care, was adopted to a family at 7 and I was kicked out at 16. I turn 33 and meet my father once more. He wants to have a relationship and I allow it despite awkwardness. Whilst I was fighting in family court for several years my dad had visits. He became her surrogate father. She adores him and gets whatever she wants from him. She tells me "I don't need you, I have grandpa Jerry" So the piece of shit that didn't raise his own children is my kids hero while to her - I'm the piece of shit. Now he's asking me to pay for her college and he is a millionaire while I just barely survive. My life is apparently god's joke
Single dad to a young daughter here. I am sad she doesn't have a good female role model but I was glad to see this video. She means the world to me. She is an amazing little girl and I feel so blessed having her and so good contact with her.
@P Vincente Single moms raise whores and sluts, and that's a fact. They don't call it "daddy issues" for no reason. When the girl grows up without fatherly male attention, she will be desperate for it from other men and will do just about anything to get it.
Why do you keep on saying that? MY DAD WAS IN THE WAR HE SERVED FOR OUR COUNTRY, WHY DO YOU THINK THEY DONT DESERVE ATTENTION?! I LOST MY DAD BECAUSE OF THE STUPID PEOPLE WHO MADE DRUGS AND BEER! DO YOU THINK I CAN JUST FORGET ABOUT THAT? I CRY MY EYES OUT ALMOST EVERY DAY THINKING ABOUT MY DAD! IF YOU DONT HAVE ONE, THAT DOESNT MEAN YOU CAN CRITISIZE THEM! I HATE PEOPLE LIKE YOU!!! DONT YOU KNOW SAYING STUFF LIKE THAT CAN CRUSH A KIDS FEELING!? This is for you P Vincent...
@P Vincente actually father's are the most important. more than mother. the mother is really only needed for the youth years. but once kids hit puberty and start to grow up father's teach boys to become men. to treat women right. fathers, show daughters what to look for in a good man.
I been raised by divorce parents,...and I'm staying with my mom. 6 of siblings staying with,...I remember correctly when my father is not behaviour like what is sepoursed to be,...my parents divorced when I only 11 years old. Too young to understand about life,... It's very much hard for me to,..my self confidence is lower, my younger ages is broken heart,...I become sensitive,...but at least I learned from my life experiences. When I get married and have 2 children,..I promise,...I will protect my children what ever the cost. Because my father is lifted as and remarriage again.
I’m a dad of a three year old girl, I view my role in her life as the single most important job I’ll ever have. I don’t get it right all the time, in fact I probably make a lot of mistakes but I always try my hardest to be the best dad for her.
My dad has not been in my life until I was seven, he lived in the US and my mom, my siblings, and I were living in another country. It was hard to grow up without a father, but when we moved to live with him my mom and him always fought, verbally and physically. It ruined my siblings and I.
I was your little girl I loved you with all my heart You took care of me You were my hero What changed Why did you abandon me Why haven't you come back Why don't you love I've waited all these years With the the hopes that maybe this year But you cut me off How do you think I feel
I am a father, and my daughter has just turned 1. Me and my daughters mother aren’t together but we get along for our daughters sake, without court(blessing). It’s really hard sometimes but the way I see it is that I just mind my business and worry about my daughters needs. I found this video very helpful 😊 if anyone has any tips on being a better father please reply to this comment 🙂
It's a shame you have to apologise to mothers and sons to talk on this subject. Would have been stronger without that. Too much emphasis is put on the mother daughter relationship, and way too many women I've met literally "hate" their mothers. Yes I totally applaud this video well done
The family unit is important! Even if your mother or father are separated, it doesn't mean they still can't be there for you. To have a stable relationship with both is important.
Makes me feel good about being a dad. Everytine I come home from work my 3yr old daughter runs to me for a hug and everytime I'm spending time with her im never on my phone I play with her read her books so she knows I'm more than a dad but her best friend 💗
Aww U must keep this especially when she is a teenager I needed my father at that time a lot but all i got was criticism of my body and how bad I do at school So I developed BED I wish u guys the best !!! Take care of her hug her, kiss her and talk to her She will grow up fatser than u think and she will remember every second of it and be thankful It's like planting a seed and taking care of it Be happy !
i’ve never had a dad just abusive step dads and i am so proud of myself for being able to be the person i should’ve been if i had that person in my life
I agree its really important to have a dad in the picture.My dad was an alcoholic and watched movies mostly.I remember him promising he wouldn't drink so thats probably why I don't trust easily.I had sexual experience too early because I wanted to have closeness and feel loved.My mom always was cleaning and cooking and didn't spend time with me playing .I think that is also important for parents to play and spend time with kids.I also think my mom focused on her boyfriends or my dad more than me.
Miss my lil girl so damn much,..whats a father to do if the mother doesnt allow or want any part of the dad in her daughters life...even when the dads never once physically hurt or abused the mother...i have so much fear and guilt about my lil innocent girl growing up without me...im not perfect but im a good man. Just dont wanna fight the mother for bub. ,.tired of missing my lil girl whose 10months now and the last time i saw her wa when she was only 3mnths...trying so hard to keep alil faith hoping the mother comes around and relaises what shes doin is wrong. Has an ivo and made false accusations of me. Im fine with accepting that the mother and i can never be together but why can we as adults work together to bring up our lil girl safely n with the love of both of ua and our familes....really hesistant to get the courts involved but im running out of patience and options...plz help.
Developing good fathers in society needs to also have the nutured support from a society that positively uplifts men. Unfortunately, I just finished watching a UA-cam video of how boys are undermined at school. So, ladies and gentlemen, we have a conundrum on our hands. Of you want men to be good fathers, treat the boys well, nurture their accomplishments, build their esteem, give them the strength of wisdom and knowledge, teach them to respect themselves and others, make them feel valued and advise them to develop themselves. A lot of good behaviour men pick up is from the love of their mothers and the strength of their fathers.
Im thankful to my father. He is a typical asian parents. A strict yet loving father. He pay for my college and give my first downpayment house(he insist to give it to me) If he need a kidney, im willlingly to give mine to him.
Exactly. I have told my male friends that. I think men feel as they are just figureheads and not important due to societal brainwashing. Mine was not a good father. Never present and attentive among other things. It really made me cry, everything you said is true. It is better, though, to be without a father than to be with one who does not care or is abusive. It really does make you feel like you have no importance other than what you can do for them...including other relationships.
Hoped my father loved as much as i want. Its so hurting!!!!!!!!!!!!! He gives everything but........ My father never give the love i wanted from a long time..... Its kinda I want to die What is the use if a daughter Dont have a father even if she have one Pls god take me And give my father a long life
My daughter grew with an absent father and she did well with her high education due to me , her mother . Same about me - my mother encouraged me to do well with education , influence of strong women in the family has been immense . When men around us are not pulling their weight then we women learn how survive and thrive . Everyone with a great mother knows this !
My Dad is so weak. Never stood up for me. It did have an effect on me, what I thought I had the right to (respect/opportunities). I never came near to prostitution but I did endure a lot of disrespect from boyfriends, employers, even my female friends. They were always late, I never complained. When we stayed over at each others' houses and there weren't enough beds, I ended up with the floor. It's sad, in a way, but I don't crave the attention of unworthy men. I have a daughter with no father, no father at all......... it's a cycle innit. I have tried to ask my daughter how she feels instead of telling her what she ought to think. I am not deluding myself that that's enough, but it's what's in my hands. I love my daughter and she can talk to me. I couldn't talk to my mother, or father.
I don’t know my father and I’m so scared to be a mom because I don’t want my child going through the trauma I went through. Men change and it scares me.
I am 28 years old, married, no children. I grew up without a father. My mother left me to my grandparents when I was 25 days old so she can work abroad and provide my financial needs. Later on my mother married and had her own family. Its not easy to growing up without knowing who my father is. No phonecalls, i didnt know his name, his nationality . Ive asked my mother many times about my father but she always change the topic and even blocked me on facebook. Today , 26 Jan 2019 I tried to ask my mother and she finally able to tell me the name, the nationality. The things is she doesnt even remember the family name.
Hey, I'm not sure if you have thought about doing it but I suggest looking up www.ancestry.com/ and finding out who your father is and any other family member that comes up. Hopefully this can bring you some closure and maybe find your father and make a relationship with him. :)
Well my dad he wasn’t always around me he always thought the streets was more important until the youngest came along and then he left out to go with his friends and we aren’t very close because he never gave me attention when I was younger
Makes me want to cry reading the comments realizing how many girls don’t get along and hate there fathers. My father is the most important person in my life and the thought of not having him scares me more than death
P Vincente I disagree that a daughter needs her mother more than her father. Idk wtf ur even talking about at this point. I’m not diminishing women and girls, in my case my father has been a bigger part of my upbringing, but in any case I think a father is just as important as a mother to any kid, sure in very early child development the mother plays a bigger role to ALL children but as you age it changes. I’m sorry it sounds like you didn’t have the best relationship with your father and that saddens me, circling back to my original point in this post, I feel bad for girls who don’t have a good connection to there fathers, there #1 male influence growing up and so many girls hate them or feel hated by them. It’s upsetting. U can stop getting upset about some random crap now, I’m not even talking about what ever the hell ur talking about.
I wanna be in my daughter life but her mother keeps her away not letting me to see her or visit . thats sad because i wanna be there for my daughter .😞😞😢
Everything makes sense.. i know now as to why i kept on going after emotionally unavailable men. Its because my dad practices polygamy, treats my mother poorly, doesnt respect my grandmother, is absent from my life and he never asks how im doing or anything anymore. Ive come to understand and accept the fact that he is a terrible and irresponsible father, son and husband. I dont hate him, but it explains my views on men. Its toxic for me. i was in denial as i still really wanted to believe that hes a good dad, but the truth is he isnt.
I am the useelesss everrrr in thesee earth because of the absence of my dad. I know that He loves me a lot. But he doesn't know how to express. We talk each other a single word once in a month.... I didn't even get a single hug from my dad. Because he don't know how to hug me. He even don't know how to talk to me. I really miss a tight hug and kiss from any man who have the age of my dad..
What happens when an abusive women call 5 times police on me for text harrassment yet takes money from me and goes out for close to a year yet calls police and get hit by the system and children services and called terrorist and abusive and after 9 months the fatherhood relationship died in me and I see my kids 5 and 3 as source of pain and unable to trust any woman in my life ... that’s the system in Canada and these are the women of Canada
I miss my dad...well i miss having a dad..my dad isint dead or anything just went off to have another familiy 😶man that really messed me up..whoever is reading this plz pray?
I’m starting to realize just how blessed I was to have a loving father and mother
Me too
I hope you treasure them , i wish you guys can live happily
Can i ask how does having a father feels like ?
@@yumekou6619 having a father means a man will always protects you. Loves you dearly and treats you right no matter what. For me, having a father in my house means strength, a sign to move on. He always supports me, my brother and my mother. It breaks my heart, knowing how rare it is for someone to have a father. And a loving father at that. A father gives you security, a father works hard in his job, a father takes you anywhere in his car, a father buys you what you want. But what you must know is that a father won't praise you all the time. A father is truthful man that disciplines his children. A father brings respect into his children. I am my father's girl, he gives me the love the most. He's the first man to make my heart where it is now, and is the first man I ever loved
@@cloydxx he seems like a wonderfull person ! I wish for hjs happiness and yours to last
It was a really nice explaination ! I wish i could experience them , but its ok ! Life goes on ! And i have a wonderfull mother to fill the hole ! So as much as i want to see my father , i try not to feel sad...
@@yumekou6619 yes he's the best! And yea it's always for the better to look onto the brighter side. Thank you for your kind wishes 😁 i hope you and your mom can fulfil your happiness together , god bless 💗
imagine having a father.
Fusion Bolt it’s hard to say I love you when you don’t mean it
@꧁ Gacha Author ꧂ oh my what happened
Exactly
imagine..
I have a father.
Ouch, this hurt to much. It's hard to see what i missed out on and how it affected me.
Well now you know how to do better when you have your own kids. It's never a lose when you have the right attitude.
My dad Left me when I was 1 almost 2
Same here, I know exactly what you mean!
At least you had a mother :)
S Malachit It does it does
Explains why i dated the wrong guys ... and ..have depression... danggg cant believe i figured out my problem
Jessica M same
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Same
Cuse U a b that is dumb as hell
Same! My dad passed away when I was young! My mum never got remarried why does this have to be me in the future?😕 i miss my dad sm and every father’s Day it’s tough. It’s just hard. One time I couldn’t hold back my tears because everyone else was posting pictures of the dads on Instagram Snapchat and I just couldn’t bare it any more. ☹️☹️ so it’s not fair for daughters without fathers it doesn’t have to be biological either 🙏🏼 I would take anyone who would step up in my life
shit hits differently when you see your friends have better dads :'(
definitely I know that for sure
I know right :'(
Yes
I hope her dad could be just like mines ❤
Appreciate your father, there is people that dont have them
I don't know my dad, and because of that I made mistakes in life. I'm proud to say, I will be having a baby girl soon, my husband and I are thrilled! He is a good man, he patient, he is a provider and he is loving. My daughter is already set to be a good kid, because her dad is going to love her. Something I never experienced, I am happy 😊
Ohh I hope is everything good with you and your family, may God bless you
What's her name?
@@giselengimbi2705 why would you ask that
That's an absolute success!!! You are an absolute winner 👏 whatever you went through- you came out of it victorious if you can say that today 😭💐
I am a single father and it’s the best job on earth. Men don’t leave ure kids never!!! They will always be your responsibility. Trust me u will never regret it.
I wish my dad was like you, (I turned 15 yesterday) he’s still in my life but emotionally he is with his new family. For my step sisters birthday, it was a whole ordeal, yesterday he didn’t even call. I used to be a HUGE daddy’s girl until my parents got divorced, then I turned to my mom who now didn’t know how to raise me, so I raised myself. I’m still expected to be the ‘perfect child’ even though I have never had a stable parent.
Littlewhale 808. best of luck for u little girl. And do it better when u have kids by your own!
@@littlewhale8086 it's okay, i get this. And it's worse when you realise there's little or nothing you can do to make it the way it should have been. Don't let the standards of the society crush you. You need to be there for yourself. And i know you'll find your way. It'll never be easy, but it'll be worth it, to survive and thrive for yourself. Sending you my love
I wish my father can be atleast one of these😢😢
Ariana Duncan same 😭
Ariana Duncan my dads dead
@@Heyitsayoutubechannal
I'm so sorry for you but your fathur probely is watching over you💜
@@famefatal666yah u right,...and owr real father is in heaven. Just believe in him,...we all will be in heaven with biological father. Jesus Christ blessings you and all humanity AMEN.
Don't feel bad. I DREAM of having a father and I'm an adult! What I do to cope with the pain my father put me through is tell myself that my real dad is a random angel in heaven and he's going to be happy to see me one day. 💔💔💔
I'm a firm believer in fathers being the difference makers in children lives. Part of the problems we face in society today is because the lack of good strong fathers being present in the lives of their children. I will continue to do my part to break this awful generational curse.
yup BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD
@Vladimir Routing idk abt the punishment part but kids need both parents - although i believe once a child reaches 7 or 8 the father is more important to them. before that the mother is
FBI I think the punishment was in the medieval years
Happy to hear that. We gotta do what we can
Same, I've a daughter with no father too. I am more open with my daughter though, we talk about the impact not having a father might make, whereas my lack of father was that my mother was / is a narcissist and my weak father always backed her up when she was projecting the flaws she wouldn't acknowledge in herself on to me.
Instead of bearing the pain knowing my father molested me and my sister for years, I tell myself that my real father is an angel in heaven and one day we're gonna meet each other. 💔😭
Sorry you had to go through that sis may God bless you and and your sisters
@@pacedeli24 awe thank you. It can be difficult some days... 💙 Much love to you 💙🥊🌴🖤
Kobalt Fusion really really sorry ! A father who can’t tell the difference between his daughter/daughters n his wife/ other women ought to sentenced for life!
It’s sad that media n it’s stars and porn as taken it so far that a normal father who as a twisted mind or out for a revenge would actually act on his actions instead of controlling his desires. We have gone back dark ages where they had no shame in incest.
Bottom of my heart 💓 God grants you n many more patience n not to do the things that hv been mentioned in this video . Aameen. You have the most caring and loving understanding partner. Aameen
kobalt fusion I am so sorry about what your father did to you and also you are right your do have a father in Heaven who loves you
So sorry to hear that.omg I'm crying now
I never had a dad but thats so heartbreaking to hear
Had a father once - he was a misogynist (treated his wife and all women as second class) , treated his children with physical and mental abuse, ignored me as a daughter - that has caused endless problems in my life. So to all those daughters who had wonderful fathers, consider yourself extremely blessed.
I always wanted a daughter, never understood why shitty people get blessed with them. Use to babysit a little girl who was really attached to me so it hurt to see her go. Real sorry you had to deal with that.
Daughters need good fathers!
Just give me father , i do not care how bad
@@yumekou6619 I am sorry but bad fathers are worse then none.
@@chhavisingh2671 so yeath , since a week ago i had a change of heart and agree with you ... cause turned out my best friends father abused her...
@@yumekou6619 totally can relate to her... the thing is since they are the fathers, we can't say anything
@@helialycoris4464 i am sorry to hear that
I wish my daughters mother would watch this, allow my daughter to have what many can't have. A father that would sacrifice anything for and has just to have her near.
You are a good man and an even better father.
My dad is none of these, I wish he was at least one, but you know you learn to move on without one basically
Get a fatherly figure in life..my sis...father can be any man in your life....
You have god..your relationship father..
Thanks dad!
_Never once said by me. Never will be._
same
Same 😭😭😭😭
@masa musa rather not be tho O_o
@masa musa you too my dude and anyone who sees this- you were given a life whether u like it or not might as well do what you want with it!!
My daughter is one month old and this just hit home thank you.
I have the best poppa, and his love for me has ALWAYS lead me in the right direction #fatherpower
Worst part of being a father, the mother would keep the daughter away from her father just because she is mad at him.
I'm about to see my daughter after SEVEN years. She was six, now 13. This video made me emotional. I can't wait to see here again.
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It’s been 2 yrs. How did it go??
Imagine you're father loving someone else's daughter than you his own daughter 😭💔
That's really sad. 😢
Hard to be a father when the mother denies your rights through false allegations manipulations and Alienation. Without a rich uncle or source of income to be able to afford these gut wrenching attorney fees to still get nothing out of court. After thousands spent . Mothers still Denies a fathers right to help rear his children .
J C ya, thank radical feminists and the nanny state as well as generations of crappy parenting.
J C i feel brother i am in the same boat
Exactly. I've been lied about. Thrown in jail, gangstalked and all kinds of crazy shit trying to be in my second daughter's life. One more crazy ,insane untrue accusation and I'll be charged with a felony. Can't do it anymore.
Hang in there brothers and continue the battle and pray. I'm going through the same thing. Our daughter's will see the real us in time. Really looking forward to that day.
Zadose. If i were married to her I would be homeless. Never date a sociopath.
I am a lucky man, I have a father. My dad has been with my mother for almost 20 years. He has taught me so much and has helped me throughout my life.
I am the son of a Mexican immigrant, and his hardships have helped me become a better man, and I myself have gone through just as much as him.
I feel sad for those with no fathers, divorced parents, and people who have lost their fathers.
My dad is dead I’m my dads daughter he told me and everyone he knew I was his treasure.......
there insane the video makers. they like generalizing things
Unfortunately, there are those among us who like to use the phrase, " i was raised by a single mother and I came out just fine"
Like really??
And they suppose that other women should raise children without their fathers. There we go! That's it. Raising children who grow up to be dysfunctional.
Mariam Baraka They may have grew up "just fine" but if they look back on their life their is always that void that was to be filled by a loving father. Man, bless those without a dad.
My mom is a single mom, I don't wanna grow up as a dysfunctional person. I really, really dont. Ughhh, I guess I'll be Asexual
Mariam Baraka uhm the people who said that they grew up without a father had a history with the father and that he left. My father said to me these words:"if I would need to choose between my girlfriend and my daughter........ I would choose my girlfriend." He didn't show any emotion. That were his last words to me and now I haven't seen him in 3 years. I don't miss him, i don't love him. I hate him! He left me for dead and my mom did everything so I could have a normal life. He left ME for his girlfriend. So let's just say that if you have an opinion on somwthing, watch out with what you say
@@eloramidoriWe are not talking about your father or other types of dysfunctional fathers here. We need real fathers as growing up fatherless or having dysfunctional fathers lead to people having all sorts of psychological problems in society.
yeah broken homes are the norm in the west these days. i look around and i see it everywhere. but the rare ones are out there. and iam thankful for them. if you know what you want and take action towards getting it , it will show up.
anyone else without a dad cried while watching thiS
Me 😭😭😭😢😢😢
Yeah
Oh I’m crying Rn! My father passed away when I was young ❤️💔🥺
I have an abusive father, and I just cry every time I see videos like this, or when I see other people have a kind father, or even when I just see or hear the word “Dad/Father”.
@@Pampered_Princess that's actually concerning, is he still being abusive?
i wish i had a relationship with my dad, and we used to, but now we never talk we haven’t talked properly in years... i’m around him wbut it’s like he’s just a roommate - i’ve never had his support or care and now i’m starting to wake up to what that has caused me
I feel the exact same way. It’s like it crept up on me. It all makes sense now, this was kind of like the missing piece of the puzzle. I never knew why I didn’t know how to have a healthy relationship until I had to go back to where it all started, childhood. Perhaps you can one day talk to him about it and heal that part of you. 🖤
Tell him how you feel.
@zadose i bet u still have parents for writing " they get annoying "
I had the BEST Father in the whole world--and I heartily agree with this "Tomorrow's World Viewpoint" segment: GIRLS NEED FATHERS!!! My Father, especially, had a very keen mind and he expected me to LEARN TO DISCERN--and, I can tell you, that having a Dad who has CONFIDENCE in your mental and academic abilities (AND ENCOURAGES YOU IN THESE AREAS) makes all the difference in the world. I am so thankful to God that I had a loving and attentive FATHER.
Celtic Jewel you're lucky then
Celtic Jewel Wow...I am going to share the testimony of your father when am teaching my students online... Bravo....
@P Vincente It messed me up not having a mother around. She died when I was 3. I don't know how to function as a young woman. I don't even know how to do my hair properly or even put on make up. If I need to talk about girl stuff or just something emotional I have to go to my dad for that. And sometimes it's really uncomfortable to talk about such things with my dad. I don't even know how to walk in heels. I don't even know what the proper undergarments to wear are. I have no mother figure. While it's great to have your father around he can't connect with you emotional like a mother can. I'm an emotional stunted young woman because I grew up never feeling that it was okay to show my emotions. i was raised to be a man essentially.
@Angry Hothead You ate an uninformed moron. There exists the masculine and the feminine for a reason. To very similar but different forces get together and they create a new life form. The feminine has its very specific energy, just as the mascukine ahas its own very specific energy. A mother cannot discipline a child the way a father can. A mother can't teach a boy how to be a man. A mother can't fulfill a girl's need for male attention.
Thats why there are so many crooks, street kids, and criminals out there. Boys growing up without a positive role model who cares deeply about their well being. Boys growing up without someone that is like them, but older, that they respect and trust, can confide in, and can follow, leads to misguided youth looking at local crooks as role models. Boys wabt to be who they see the men around them are.
Thats why there are so many loose women, slits, prostitutes, and jezebels out there. Girls growing up need the love and respect of a male figure they can trust. Otherwise when they grow up, they will be seeking male attention by any means necessary. Even if it means trading sex for attention.
@@sparklingdaisy3169 That's funny. Now imagine being a little boy growing uo without a father and having nobody to teach you how to he a man.
What I find more depressing when you find great fathers who give his daughters all the love, care, and attention they need but then still have their daughters end up as a person that would make their father feel as a failure.
Some people just fall through the cracks. It's sad.
If your daughter is a “failure” then you weren’t as good as a parent as u think u were and probably a lot of secret negative feelings she has towards her parents. duh
@@Themsbeatlesrock Falae, while parents are a big factor in how they shape their kids the environment around them also plays a role. And it is almost impossible to know the outcome of such environment.
Sad that this is a contentious point to make today. Just pure truth.
This is so true. We need fathers in our lives to love us, protect and guide us.
I'm so sorry to all the daughters who lost their fathers or don't have a good relationship with them. I lost my dad 6 years ago, but he taught me so much about unconditional love and life. I miss him so much.
This is so sad on how I missed out on so many thing seen I was 4 I missed on how a father can love his daughter but I never had that😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢
i remember being young and going over to my friends house, she would play and talk with her dad. it felt so off to me because i didn’t grow up with a father, i didn’t know what daughters and fathers do. how they bond, and i remember watching a movie and the girls bf was very toxic and possessive. and i found it so attractive it’s odd, when a boy gives me affection i just push him away. i don’t know how to take it you know? i never had it. and the worst thing is that he left me and my mother and left to a new place and is raising a new family. i’m glad his new kids have a father that i didn’t have, well i guess i’ll keep going without him. all i need is my mom❤️
@Nexrues i’m honestly questioning if i’m Bi rn HAHA
“All children deserve parents, however not all parents deserve children...”
Thank God...I will always be my daddy's girl..no one dare to hurt me because he knows my dad is there..love you papa
Some of these comments are so heart breaking. Love to you all.
Dang it really hurts me to see everything I missed out 😓 The thing is I cant even say the word dad outloud. If I do I start having a panic attack. Yeah not the best
Everytime If somebody ask about my father i switch the talk😔But my mom is gonna to talk about him and i’m scared
Yeah, growing up I thought all fathers were violent peverted b*$teds. I was shocked when I found out some fathers are actually human beings who care about their children and protect them.
My father did nothing for my family and left all the responsibilities on me. I don’t know how it feels to have a good father 😔
I love my kids so much it makes me emotional thinking about it. I have a wonderful son who is 9 but my daughter is 2 and i have to move out their home tomorrow. Just being in these 4 walls one more night is torture for the simple fact that after tonight i wont be here to be apart of their everyday life anymore. My son understands and is strong about it (for the most part at least) but she is a daddys girl 100% and she will not like this at all. Praying for strength right now because this is really hard.
I'm in my 40s and my dad has never paid me a compliment or given me a single word of encouragement. He hardly spoke to me when I was a teenager and when he did it was insults about how useless I was. It has been devastating to me as an adult. I always had no confidence and so much self loathing. Then it came to me one day that if my own father can't stand me, surely no one else can right? A father's role to his daughter is so important.
I missed u ....
Missing u every day
N I know will missing u always
But trust me i need u as always be with me... Lv u dad....
My father played an active role in my and my sisters's lives. He wasn't perfect, but he was always very understanding and accepting.
I cried when I watched this because my dad left me when I was dying in the hospital as a newborn and he didn't want to deal with having 5 children I'm so pissed at my dad I have so many emotions like anger and sadness all I can say is that I'm so pitiful of my father that he missed out on having an amazing daughter like me! And he just didn't want anything to do with me and he kept my older brother a secret from me!!!! But I got revenge by texting my brother (my brother and three sisters live with my dad) and we had a nice conversation and I asked my brother if I could talk to my dad and my brother let me, I was so happy but then I wasn't ally dad said was "hi" in the text and that was it I was expecting him to say "I'm sorry I left you and your mother" or "I'm so glad to hear from you" no instead he just said "hi" now I know I'm sounding a little rude when I said that but it's true and I'm really hurting and not having a dad caused me depression I'm not kidding me not having a dad at all in my life gave me depression 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I had both a mother & father (married). They later divorced, but I always had both. So grateful.
I wish I could have a dad like this, I wish I could see him one last time...😞
My daughter is about to turn 14, when she was months old her mother cheated with my best friend.
The break up was bad. Spent years in family and criminal court over trumped up charges.
In that time apart my ex and my daughter's grandmother convinced her I am evil incarnate.
I was awarded visitation in family court. My daughter refuses to see me. She went on 5 of 26 visits the 1st year and hasn't done any the past 2 years.
Not much more I can do.
Here's the cherry: my dad gave me and my siblings up for adoption when his wife left him, I was 2 yrs old.
I grew up in foster care, was adopted to a family at 7 and I was kicked out at 16.
I turn 33 and meet my father once more. He wants to have a relationship and I allow it despite awkwardness.
Whilst I was fighting in family court for several years my dad had visits. He became her surrogate father. She adores him and gets whatever she wants from him.
She tells me "I don't need you, I have grandpa Jerry"
So the piece of shit that didn't raise his own children is my kids hero while to her - I'm the piece of shit.
Now he's asking me to pay for her college and he is a millionaire while I just barely survive.
My life is apparently god's joke
I know there's no words I can say to help. But I hope you can get through this man God k own your strong then me.
Single dad to a young daughter here. I am sad she doesn't have a good female role model but I was glad to see this video. She means the world to me. She is an amazing little girl and I feel so blessed having her and so good contact with her.
This brought me to tears irl
@P Vincente Single moms raise whores and sluts, and that's a fact. They don't call it "daddy issues" for no reason. When the girl grows up without fatherly male attention, she will be desperate for it from other men and will do just about anything to get it.
Thanks I have a parental figure, thanks for having attention for that! 😀
Why do you keep on saying that? MY DAD WAS IN THE WAR HE SERVED FOR OUR COUNTRY, WHY DO YOU THINK THEY DONT DESERVE ATTENTION?! I LOST MY DAD BECAUSE OF THE STUPID PEOPLE WHO MADE DRUGS AND BEER! DO YOU THINK I CAN JUST FORGET ABOUT THAT? I CRY MY EYES OUT ALMOST EVERY DAY THINKING ABOUT MY DAD! IF YOU DONT HAVE ONE, THAT DOESNT MEAN YOU CAN CRITISIZE THEM! I HATE PEOPLE LIKE YOU!!! DONT YOU KNOW SAYING STUFF LIKE THAT CAN CRUSH A KIDS FEELING!? This is for you P Vincent...
@P Vincente actually father's are the most important. more than mother. the mother is really only needed for the youth years. but once kids hit puberty and start to grow up father's teach boys to become men. to treat women right. fathers, show daughters what to look for in a good man.
@P Vincente I agree...a daughter doesn't need a father
I been raised by divorce parents,...and I'm staying with my mom. 6 of siblings staying with,...I remember correctly when my father is not behaviour like what is sepoursed to be,...my parents divorced when I only 11 years old. Too young to understand about life,... It's very much hard for me to,..my self confidence is lower, my younger ages is broken heart,...I become sensitive,...but at least I learned from my life experiences. When I get married and have 2 children,..I promise,...I will protect my children what ever the cost. Because my father is lifted as and remarriage again.
Cherish and value the loved ones you got. They won't be here forever, but their memories will.
I’m a dad of a three year old girl, I view my role in her life as the single most important job I’ll ever have. I don’t get it right all the time, in fact I probably make a lot of mistakes but I always try my hardest to be the best dad for her.
Every time I see a dad and daughter bond I always cry it’s like a trigger lmao
My dad has not been in my life until I was seven, he lived in the US and my mom, my siblings, and I were living in another country. It was hard to grow up without a father, but when we moved to live with him my mom and him always fought, verbally and physically. It ruined my siblings and I.
I was your little girl
I loved you with all my heart
You took care of me
You were my hero
What changed
Why did you abandon me
Why haven't you come back
Why don't you love
I've waited all these years
With the the hopes that maybe this year
But you cut me off
How do you think I feel
I'm crying😭😭
Those words are also mine😭😭😭
Lulu Charlene My dic is big my dic is very big
I know 😭😭😭🥊
Lulu Charlene damn I’m truly sorry to u all I’m realizing just how blessed I am for having a dad and a mom in my life
I am a father, and my daughter has just turned 1. Me and my daughters mother aren’t together but we get along for our daughters sake, without court(blessing). It’s really hard sometimes but the way I see it is that I just mind my business and worry about my daughters needs. I found this video very helpful 😊 if anyone has any tips on being a better father please reply to this comment 🙂
@Nexrues yes exactly!
It's a shame you have to apologise to mothers and sons to talk on this subject. Would have been stronger without that. Too much emphasis is put on the mother daughter relationship, and way too many women I've met literally "hate" their mothers. Yes I totally applaud this video well done
Now I wish I had a dad, i missed out on alot
The family unit is important! Even if your mother or father are separated, it doesn't mean they still can't be there for you. To have a stable relationship with both is important.
Makes me feel good about being a dad. Everytine I come home from work my 3yr old daughter runs to me for a hug and everytime I'm spending time with her im never on my phone I play with her read her books so she knows I'm more than a dad but her best friend 💗
Aww
U must keep this especially when she is a teenager
I needed my father at that time a lot but all i got was criticism of my body and how bad I do at school
So I developed BED
I wish u guys the best !!!
Take care of her hug her, kiss her and talk to her
She will grow up fatser than u think and she will remember every second of it and be thankful
It's like planting a seed and taking care of it
Be happy !
@@Emilysworldisbeautiful thanks I appreciate it and I hope all is well with you 🙏❤
@@werewolfking2249 thank u
God bless u 🙏🏻 ❤
I'm glad I have a good strong father.
Every Man with a daughter needs to watch this.
i’ve never had a dad just abusive step dads and i am so proud of myself for being able to be the person i should’ve been if i had that person in my life
Father? Love?
*_*Laughs in emotionally, mentally, & verbally abuse father & stepmother*_*
I'm so sorry for ur experience.. I hope u find happiness and peace
@Puja Panache Pandey thanks!
Me too :,(.
Take a big hug my lovely sister.
Well, about half my life was going ok.
I agree its really important to have a dad in the picture.My dad was an alcoholic and watched movies mostly.I remember him promising he wouldn't drink so thats probably why I don't trust easily.I had sexual experience too early because I wanted to have closeness and feel loved.My mom always was cleaning and cooking and didn't spend time with me playing .I think that is also important for parents to play and spend time with kids.I also think my mom focused on her boyfriends or my dad more than me.
Miss my lil girl so damn much,..whats a father to do if the mother doesnt allow or want any part of the dad in her daughters life...even when the dads never once physically hurt or abused the mother...i have so much fear and guilt about my lil innocent girl growing up without me...im not perfect but im a good man. Just dont wanna fight the mother for bub. ,.tired of missing my lil girl whose 10months now and the last time i saw her wa when she was only 3mnths...trying so hard to keep alil faith hoping the mother comes around and relaises what shes doin is wrong. Has an ivo and made false accusations of me. Im fine with accepting that the mother and i can never be together but why can we as adults work together to bring up our lil girl safely n with the love of both of ua and our familes....really hesistant to get the courts involved but im running out of patience and options...plz help.
very informative ,but we need to consider as well the single parent ( family) effect and influence of the mother on the child .
Honestly my father is the best men in the world , love you papa's ♥️♥️
Well, shit. I'm crying now.
Developing good fathers in society needs to also have the nutured support from a society that positively uplifts men. Unfortunately, I just finished watching a UA-cam video of how boys are undermined at school. So, ladies and gentlemen, we have a conundrum on our hands. Of you want men to be good fathers, treat the boys well, nurture their accomplishments, build their esteem, give them the strength of wisdom and knowledge, teach them to respect themselves and others, make them feel valued and advise them to develop themselves. A lot of good behaviour men pick up is from the love of their mothers and the strength of their fathers.
Im thankful to my father. He is a typical asian parents. A strict yet loving father. He pay for my college and give my first downpayment house(he insist to give it to me)
If he need a kidney, im willlingly to give mine to him.
Exactly. I have told my male friends that. I think men feel as they are just figureheads and not important due to societal brainwashing. Mine was not a good father. Never present and attentive among other things. It really made me cry, everything you said is true. It is better, though, to be without a father than to be with one who does not care or is abusive. It really does make you feel like you have no importance other than what you can do for them...including other relationships.
My dad ignores me he refuses to spend time with me I try but he gets so angry.
Who is the speaker?
Thank you. Very important video!
Dayam! I thought I was listening to a Friday sermon at a Mosque. I agree with you a thousand.
Hoped my father loved as much as i want. Its so hurting!!!!!!!!!!!!! He gives everything but........
My father never give the love i wanted from a long time.....
Its kinda
I want to die
What is the use if a daughter
Dont have a father even if she have one
Pls god take me
And give my father a long life
My daughter grew with an absent father and she did well with her high education due to me , her mother . Same about me - my mother encouraged me to do well with education , influence of strong women in the family has been immense . When men around us are not pulling their weight then we women learn how survive and thrive . Everyone with a great mother knows this !
Children need a mother and a father.
I. Never had a father. Or. Father figure in. My life. Xxand now think. Am. To. Old. For. One. Xx
Never to old for anything 💙
I have a Father ,he doesn 't Love Me
My Dad is so weak. Never stood up for me. It did have an effect on me, what I thought I had the right to (respect/opportunities). I never came near to prostitution but I did endure a lot of disrespect from boyfriends, employers, even my female friends. They were always late, I never complained. When we stayed over at each others' houses and there weren't enough beds, I ended up with the floor. It's sad, in a way, but I don't crave the attention of unworthy men. I have a daughter with no father, no father at all......... it's a cycle innit. I have tried to ask my daughter how she feels instead of telling her what she ought to think. I am not deluding myself that that's enough, but it's what's in my hands. I love my daughter and she can talk to me. I couldn't talk to my mother, or father.
It's sad how my mom never most of theses things but my dad does and then he has to go because of his work.
Wish my dad was like this. 😭
Who else is watching this crying with dad that passed away💔☹️?
I don’t know my father and I’m so scared to be a mom because I don’t want my child going through the trauma I went through. Men change and it scares me.
I wish I had a father growing up 😭
Saaaaame 💔💔💔😭
I am 28 years old, married, no children. I grew up without a father. My mother left me to my grandparents when I was 25 days old so she can work abroad and provide my financial needs. Later on my mother married and had her own family. Its not easy to growing up without knowing who my father is. No phonecalls, i didnt know his name, his nationality . Ive asked my mother many times about my father but she always change the topic and even blocked me on facebook. Today , 26 Jan 2019 I tried to ask my mother and she finally able to tell me the name, the nationality. The things is she doesnt even remember the family name.
Hey, I'm not sure if you have thought about doing it but I suggest looking up www.ancestry.com/ and finding out who your father is and any other family member that comes up. Hopefully this can bring you some closure and maybe find your father and make a relationship with him. :)
Well my dad he wasn’t always around me he always thought the streets was more important until the youngest came along and then he left out to go with his friends and we aren’t very close because he never gave me attention when I was younger
Makes me want to cry reading the comments realizing how many girls don’t get along and hate there fathers. My father is the most important person in my life and the thought of not having him scares me more than death
P Vincente respectfully disagree
P Vincente I disagree that a daughter needs her mother more than her father. Idk wtf ur even talking about at this point. I’m not diminishing women and girls, in my case my father has been a bigger part of my upbringing, but in any case I think a father is just as important as a mother to any kid, sure in very early child development the mother plays a bigger role to ALL children but as you age it changes. I’m sorry it sounds like you didn’t have the best relationship with your father and that saddens me, circling back to my original point in this post, I feel bad for girls who don’t have a good connection to there fathers, there #1 male influence growing up and so many girls hate them or feel hated by them. It’s upsetting. U can stop getting upset about some random crap now, I’m not even talking about what ever the hell ur talking about.
@pk pk are you telling people Fathers are useless for daughters?
I didn't need him then and I don't need him now.
I wanna be in my daughter life but her mother keeps her away not letting me to see her or visit . thats sad because i wanna be there for my daughter .😞😞😢
javier Ortiz if you really want to see her then fight for her.
Hang in there buddy. Don't give up.
Life is so hard and I miss him SO MUCH
Everything makes sense.. i know now as to why i kept on going after emotionally unavailable men. Its because my dad practices polygamy, treats my mother poorly, doesnt respect my grandmother, is absent from my life and he never asks how im doing or anything anymore. Ive come to understand and accept the fact that he is a terrible and irresponsible father, son and husband. I dont hate him, but it explains my views on men. Its toxic for me. i was in denial as i still really wanted to believe that hes a good dad, but the truth is he isnt.
@Unicorn Unicorn singapore
I am the useelesss everrrr in thesee earth because of the absence of my dad.
I know that He loves me a lot. But he doesn't know how to express. We talk each other a single word once in a month....
I didn't even get a single hug from my dad. Because he don't know how to hug me. He even don't know how to talk to me. I really miss a tight hug and kiss from any man who have the age of my dad..
Never date a woman without a father. NEVER.
I miss my father very much 💔
Imagine having a father who spent time with you.
What about a father who is physically present but emotionally absent?
What happens when an abusive women call 5 times police on me for text harrassment yet takes money from me and goes out for close to a year yet calls police and get hit by the system and children services and called terrorist and abusive and after 9 months the fatherhood relationship died in me and I see my kids 5 and 3 as source of pain and unable to trust any woman in my life ... that’s the system in Canada and these are the women of Canada
Why does it matter if a couple is married or goes to church? Makes no sense - those things don't make you a good person, partner and a parent.
I'm glad I found this video. I now know the reason why I am like this.
I miss my dad...well i miss having a dad..my dad isint dead or anything just went off to have another familiy 😶man that really messed me up..whoever is reading this plz pray?
I am praying for you Jennifer.