From someone whose father has just removed himself from my life, be there how she needs you. Tell her she’s strong, tell her you love her for who she is, whoever that might be. Don’t just say the words, mean them and act on them. Grow with her and you’ll get to know one of the most amazing people you’ll ever know in her ❤ Be strong, it’s tough but you have to choose to be what she needs, not what you think she wants xx keep asking the hard questions and do your best to honestly answer when she asks you and you’ll be great 🥰
This hit me hard. To see fathers talk about the love they have for their daughters and the women in their life is beautiful 🥹 thank you for sharing so we can see that there are good dads out there 🖤
Mine, didn’t fight for me…to my mother who is a narcissist. She always “won” if the debate had something to do with me. I overheard a screaming debate about my needing ointment to soothe my chicken pox when I was probably 7-8. He, was pleading with her to “let him” go out and purchase it……her word was final “NO!!!” I suppose the dynamic in their relationship was more important than my being comforted 💔😢. I was the scapegoat of the family from an early age 🙁 and he was always willing to sacrifice me.
To all dads,kindly be there for your daughters, My dad was a polygamous man,he married 10wives and he had 76 children,i am child no 76. I have grown to the age of 32yrs now and i really miss to have a daddy. Since mine was never there for me. Please,Responsible dads,be there fir your daughter.
Funny cause my dad is WAYYYY too defensive (angry) and that's what bothering me...My dad also doesn't know when to make jokes and it just makes me and my brother furious.
He’s probably hurting from earlier painful experiences that he doesn’t know how to process. Disarm him by saying I love you sincerely when he’s getting angry.
I have 2 beautiful girls ages 11 and 13. I have had them for 11 years now. And it is getting hard I dont know what they are going through. Have been having to be the referee between them. And my oldest says that I don't love her as much as the younger one. How do I prove to her that i love them the same? Mom isn't really in the picture. Only when she wants to be
Ask them, your presence is vital !! You are their first male encounter in life ! How you treat them and how you make them feel will determine their future relationships ! Wish you the best :) take care
I'll make this easy...pick the right male or female first that shates the same values. Having a child by mistake from there or without planning out that value system is nearly, if not fully, impossible to control the outcome. You can be a great parent all day, but if that partner isn't, you're going need Jesus and all his forces
Make sure your relationship with your parents is strong and work also and a place to stay if needed as long as you have a job, a home, and support system you can't go wrong. I have full custody of my daughter for 8 years
why do i feel it always goes back to religion? im a dad soon to be but im sorry i cant get behind jesus bein the savior, i truely feel like i can raise my daughter to be a loving respecful woman without religion then if she chooses to pursue religion on her own then i dont care, i wont disown her for different beliefs but i just want some advice not based around religious views. or maybe i read this video wrong, i just want something to help me give my baby girl advice when we are having rough times
They're obviously religious. As I've grown, I realized not to only judge people based on their beliefs but to take into consideration the intent behind their beliefs. Most people have good intent and mean no harm to others through it.
And to love is a “religious” principle in my faith as well as others so you are actually practicing a de-facto religious principle…so you see it’s not that bad. At least I feel that way via my faith. We are on the same page tho regarding love for our daughters. 👍
Found out im having a daughter today. I'm so excited, I hope I get it right. I want to end the broken home curse placed on my family tree.
congrats！
Congrats!
The fact that you’re even asking the question ensures you’ll get it right.
From someone whose father has just removed himself from my life, be there how she needs you. Tell her she’s strong, tell her you love her for who she is, whoever that might be. Don’t just say the words, mean them and act on them. Grow with her and you’ll get to know one of the most amazing people you’ll ever know in her ❤
Be strong, it’s tough but you have to choose to be what she needs, not what you think she wants xx keep asking the hard questions and do your best to honestly answer when she asks you and you’ll be great 🥰
This hit me hard. To see fathers talk about the love they have for their daughters and the women in their life is beautiful 🥹 thank you for sharing so we can see that there are good dads out there 🖤
Its so endearing to see there is dads that actually did their homework
There is no manual. But being present, open minded, listening, and laughing together. This is much more important than DNA.
Great video! I have 3 daughters. Trying my best everyday.
Mine, didn’t fight for me…to my mother who is a narcissist. She always “won” if the debate had something to do with me. I overheard a screaming debate about my needing ointment to soothe my chicken pox when I was probably 7-8. He, was pleading with her to “let him” go out and purchase it……her word was final “NO!!!” I suppose the dynamic in their relationship was more important than my being comforted 💔😢. I was the scapegoat of the family from an early age 🙁 and he was always willing to sacrifice me.
To all dads,kindly be there for your daughters,
My dad was a polygamous man,he married 10wives and he had 76 children,i am child no 76.
I have grown to the age of 32yrs now and i really miss to have a daddy.
Since mine was never there for me.
Please,Responsible dads,be there fir your daughter.
OH. MY. GOD.
My dad protected me so much, he was my heroe untill à leave the family town at 21.... I have great memories from him
😢😢I love this so much I was my dad showed his love and protectivesness. He's so passive...your daughters must be so lucky and loved aww
so shanicey
I bet your dad loves you with all of his heart even if he doesn’t show it!
i love my sweet baby girl
I wish all dads understood. My poor daughter is so distraught over her dad not fighting for her😢
Wonderful thank you for sharing brothers.
Funny cause my dad is WAYYYY too defensive (angry) and that's what bothering me...My dad also doesn't know when to make jokes and it just makes me and my brother furious.
He’s probably hurting from earlier painful experiences that he doesn’t know how to process. Disarm him by saying I love you sincerely when he’s getting angry.
My dad could write a hundred excellent books on this topic
Where are the comments?
I have 2 beautiful girls ages 11 and 13. I have had them for 11 years now. And it is getting hard I dont know what they are going through. Have been having to be the referee between them. And my oldest says that I don't love her as much as the younger one. How do I prove to her that i love them the same? Mom isn't really in the picture. Only when she wants to be
Ask them, your presence is vital !! You are their first male encounter in life ! How you treat them and how you make them feel will determine their future relationships ! Wish you the best :) take care
Talk to her. What makes her think that you don't love her as much as you love the other one? Learn what love means or looks like to her. All the best.
I'll make this easy...pick the right male or female first that shates the same values. Having a child by mistake from there or without planning out that value system is nearly, if not fully, impossible to control the outcome. You can be a great parent all day, but if that partner isn't, you're going need Jesus and all his forces
great video
Here’s a comment , man I could use some coaching now Gf an I have a 3 year old n we might b separating
Make sure your relationship with your parents is strong and work also and a place to stay if needed as long as you have a job, a home, and support system you can't go wrong. I have full custody of my daughter for 8 years
Try to explain asap that things are going to be ok, but some small changes happen in life.
why do i feel it always goes back to religion? im a dad soon to be but im sorry i cant get behind jesus bein the savior, i truely feel like i can raise my daughter to be a loving respecful woman without religion then if she chooses to pursue religion on her own then i dont care, i wont disown her for different beliefs but i just want some advice not based around religious views. or maybe i read this video wrong, i just want something to help me give my baby girl advice when we are having rough times
They're obviously religious. As I've grown, I realized not to only judge people based on their beliefs but to take into consideration the intent behind their beliefs. Most people have good intent and mean no harm to others through it.
And to love is a “religious” principle in my faith as well as others so you are actually practicing a de-facto religious principle…so you see it’s not that bad. At least I feel that way via my faith. We are on the same page tho regarding love for our daughters. 👍