10 Signs of a Bad or Toxic Relationship

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  • @cindimurphy6994
    @cindimurphy6994 5 років тому +130

    If someone talks down to you, if they make you feel less than...RUN, run fast!!!

  • @edb.9196
    @edb.9196 4 роки тому +83

    I was in a toxic relationship for 7 years , I prayed to the lord and he took me out that relationship 3 days before 2020 , I feel much much better ... I know the Lord has something for me I store I’m currently working on my self ... The Lord is about to do something big for me ....

  • @Lily59265
    @Lily59265 5 років тому +209

    TY TY
    10 signs of toxic relationship
    1. Any type of abuse
    2. Unequally yoked
    3. Someone doesn't want to respect your boundaries
    4. Someone pulls you away from God (relationship become idol)
    5. They don't believe in you or push you to be better or encouragement; don't push you toward your purpose. Tears you down & don't help you to move & grow in your purpose.
    6. They don't know you after long period of time (Don't learn & grow with you) Don't listen to you.
    7. They are selfish: it's always about them & they don't appreciate it & always making them a priority. Don't show up for you & value you
    8. Bad communication: don't talk, don't know how to argue. Don't listen to each other. Not able to have a conflict & resolve it, so can leave past behind. Keep bringing up the past. Don't argue fairly.
    9. They are not showing much change or progress. Can't control their addictions. Leave them with God to work it out.
    10. Someone who is unstable:they are not ready to commit & don't know what they want or don't know of they want to be with you
    I love you, praying for you. I feel like we can't be in a relationship right now. I love myself enough from this toxic environment. I am a for sure & first & priority not an option.

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 5 років тому +3

      I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

    • @mofimTV
      @mofimTV 5 років тому

      Thank you xxx

    • @rebirthed1274
      @rebirthed1274 4 роки тому +6

      I just came out of a relationship like that,all 10 pointers were there....am glad to have walked out

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому +2

      Yes these are really good examples of a toxic relationship. Thanks for summarizing the video/topic at hand.

    • @deelightful9730
      @deelightful9730 4 роки тому

      This describes my relationship with my adult bi polar...narcissist daughter

  • @christinakinney9170
    @christinakinney9170 5 років тому +121

    Unfortunately I married somebody when I was way too young that fit every single toxic trait and caused me so much heartache and depression, etc. Two years of separation later I'm going to finish up my divorce paperwork and am back on track to God. Ladies listen to the red flags don't be foolish, marriage doesn't change or fix anything.

    • @intheknow2868
      @intheknow2868 4 роки тому +3

      Christina Kinney Wow, that sounds just like what I’m going through!

    • @WendyPurity2016_
      @WendyPurity2016_ 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah marriage doesn’t,it even makes things worse especially when it’s the wrong person.

    • @elizabethann5164
      @elizabethann5164 3 роки тому +1

      Sometimes going back to God isn't running from a marriage thats hard, but loving them even though they don't deserve it.

  • @jesusislord7919
    @jesusislord7919 5 років тому +140

    U are so beautiful gal!
    I will never trade my relationship with Christ with anything.
    A Christian is known by their fruit..
    I'm a daughter of the Most High King and I deserve God's best. I refuse to settle. I won't live on crumbs..
    Much love from Nairobi, Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

    • @rosecoleman9090
      @rosecoleman9090 5 років тому +2

      Jesus Is Lord AAAMEN 🙏🏾 My sister!!!!

    • @TheeBadKids
      @TheeBadKids 5 років тому +1

      🙏🙏 love you sister

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 4 роки тому +1

      Smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years wife cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned her cell and i got access to all her Text messages, Whats-app, Facebook, Snap-chat, Instagram, Twitter, Email and i was able to read both her new and deleted messages without touching it. I was hurt when i saw a picture of my wife and her lover, i feel so bad about infidelity. I’m here in Australia and was able to access her phone while she was away cheating in UK and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned . He also does university grade hack, Yahoo, wiping and upgrading of credit card and hacking of account or any other type of hacking. His services are trusted and guaranteed and also affordable. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) or Via Whats-app +1 (724) 330-3252 and you can also text/call him +1 (601) 287-5528. Thank me later...

    • @FleurDeLysPTV
      @FleurDeLysPTV 4 роки тому +1

      Indeed..

    • @abconey1052
      @abconey1052 4 роки тому +1

      Beautifully said. 💞

  • @crisalider1398
    @crisalider1398 3 роки тому +2

    "I'm not a maybe, I'm a for sure"👏👏 God bless you!

  • @ugonnae5504
    @ugonnae5504 4 роки тому +18

    You are God sent to me. I stumbled on your page some days ago and it is been life-changing. Every time i listen to your video, i'm literally in tears. God bless you Karolyne.

  • @juliascott1618
    @juliascott1618 4 роки тому +42

    This video is on time I just left my marriage a few months ago it was very toxic with verbal abuse I was depressed and suicidal several times. Thank god I'm here

    • @LOVEbelOwable
      @LOVEbelOwable 4 роки тому +6

      We love you Julia, I'm happy you're still here to live & replace the trauma with Jesus' peace, love & joy. We all have experienced trauma & as God's children we're here to help each other get through it in his name ❤

    • @akekejihofaakoji4889
      @akekejihofaakoji4889 3 роки тому +1

      Enjoy peace from God and I pray you find true love soon.

    • @michaeljohnson-ws7xd
      @michaeljohnson-ws7xd 3 роки тому

      God bless you

    • @danetspeaks8708
      @danetspeaks8708 2 роки тому

      Thank God you’re here with us. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @whitneyw3219
    @whitneyw3219 4 роки тому +48

    I’m not a Christian but I truly enjoy the Christian perspective on God.

    • @juniacelestin4326
      @juniacelestin4326 4 роки тому +9

      You should definitly try being a Christian!!(☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)☞

    • @theyellowqeid2740
      @theyellowqeid2740 4 роки тому +22

      What do you practice? If you’re enjoying the Christian perspective then maybe God is calling you to get closer

    • @chelseajoy254
      @chelseajoy254 4 роки тому +7

      That's Yahweh for you fam. 🙂
      His ways just give you such life in abundance that the more you know him, the more you're drawn to him.

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому +12

      It is nice that you are being respectful. I pray that you truly hear the voice of the Lord, and accept Him into your heart as your Lord and Saviour that died on the cross for your sins.

    • @erickasimonewat
      @erickasimonewat 3 роки тому +3

      Bless You Whitney! I love the Christian perspective as well! I would love you to check out The Book of Matthew in the msg bible! I love the break down and I believe you will too! It is an amazing display of Jesus mind and just really caused me to develop the closest bond with His ways, beautiful heart and straightforwardness is my number 1 go to for peace of mind and understanding the gift of humanity and humility! Check it out some time! GOD bless you everyday and always!!

  • @sharzx5725
    @sharzx5725 4 роки тому +8

    6 sign in my relationship... time to run away from this relationship..A very good video.. thanks..

  • @soniawhite5453
    @soniawhite5453 5 років тому +75

    Sis you just told my life story.That why I let it go ,and let GOD✌🏽

  • @CurlyGirlLife1
    @CurlyGirlLife1 5 років тому +85

    Whew sounds like my past relationships...thank God for growth, great points!

  • @tripleekitchen...6676
    @tripleekitchen...6676 5 років тому +46

    Yes,that addiction situation, we can't heal them, they've to want to get healing for themselves..
    Leave,pray and let God have his way.

  • @YoungG704
    @YoungG704 5 років тому +69

    I needed this today. Remind me why I left my past relationship.

    • @lifeasaleina1343
      @lifeasaleina1343 3 роки тому

      Thank you dear Sister !
      I feel so much relieved . To God be the Glory
      I thank God for giving you such great brains

  • @TriniRoyQuiReyes
    @TriniRoyQuiReyes 4 роки тому +2

    I do agree with all your points Especially somebody who doesn't know how to say sorry or apologise.👍and still practice psychological violence, not respecting family dinamics, yes this week they want to be with you and next week they don't want to grow with you. You nailed it absolutely no relationship is perfect,but someone that has all these and more girl that relationship is Toxic. It's not healthy at all.

  • @rayalee1382
    @rayalee1382 5 років тому +17

    Just got delivered from a relationship that fit most of all of these points and recognize that these signs were showing early in the relationship and I stayed in it for 9 years and two children later. Thank you Most High!

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 4 роки тому

      Smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years wife cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned her cell and i got access to all her Text messages, Whats-app, Facebook, Snap-chat, Instagram, Twitter, Email and i was able to read both her new and deleted messages without touching it. I was hurt when i saw a picture of my wife and her lover, i feel so bad about infidelity. I’m here in Australia and was able to access her phone while she was away cheating in UK and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned . He also does university grade hack, Yahoo, wiping and upgrading of credit card and hacking of account or any other type of hacking. His services are trusted and guaranteed and also affordable. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) or Via Whats-app +1 (724) 330-3252 and you can also text/call him +1 (601) 287-5528. Thank me later...

    • @danetspeaks8708
      @danetspeaks8708 2 роки тому

      I can relate 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @medline5140
    @medline5140 5 років тому +27

    Great video! I've been dating men who claimed that they were Christians but were not! I need to be with someone who is equally yoked like me!! My relationship with God is one of the negotiable for me. All of your 10 signs are valid!

    • @KG0737
      @KG0737 4 роки тому +2

      Medline Nonnegotiable

    • @momentoftruthchannel2045
      @momentoftruthchannel2045 3 роки тому +1

      According to you, "been dating men who claimed that they were Christians but were not!" Any person who believes in Christ aand repents of his or her sins goes for a Christian. That does not make you perfect. Our walk with (Christianity) is a process of becoming perfect like our only perfect God (Matthew 5:48), neither is anybody infallible. In Luke 18:19, Jesus said, “none is good, save” (except/unless) “one, that is God”. Christianity is only the beginning of our walk and relationship with God.
      Here is the mistake most Christians - men and women, pastors inclusive, make about Christianity.
      Christianity changes your believe in Satan to God, from your obedience to Satan to God through Christ. Formed habits and characters acquired through process of socialization or growing process remain. And because our social backgrounds are different, upbringings, education and learning are different, there are possibilities that we cross one another. There has to be agreement not only in our faiths but also in our values, culture, and ambitions, and expectations in life for us to make good relationships. Human Science calls it human chemistry or soul mate. In Amos 3: 33, the Scripture says that "two can not walk together except they be agreed." There has to be agreement not only in faith but also in our social values. That is the bases of godly marriage as in Genesis 2:23, "And Adam said, this is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man." Now as you read from verses 20 - 25 you learn the divine principle of marriage.
      All what we complain, "I thought he is a Christian" can be understood in verse 25, "They were naked (open, exposed, ugly because human being could be ugly without clothes, only carnality make us to sexualize - lust human body), yet there was no complaint, rejection, dissatisfaction or what have you, "and not ashamed." The Scripture says, "and they shall be one flesh
      " No true Christian, man or woman, is "bad" in marriage and or relationship. The problem is that we choose and pick whom we like and not who God made for us. Even when God shows you your real man or woman it takes grace - dependence on, and obedience to God. Sometimes we want our will to suppress God's will in our lives because we are carnal and can not discern spiritual things.
      For you to understand the mystery of marriage and relationship, consider what happened in the fall of man. Adam accepted Eve even when she made him to suffer the punishment of God because of that oneness. There was no record of Adam complaining and blaming her for his fall. He didn't divorce Eve. We can save ourselves from heart aches and stress and suffering by seeking God's will in relationships and marriage.

    • @danetspeaks8708
      @danetspeaks8708 2 роки тому

      Amen 🙏🏾

  • @wupnyongaloveline2301
    @wupnyongaloveline2301 5 років тому +13

    wow I thank God for my fiancee who always push n encourages me even when I don't have the strength to do some things. spiritually he pushes me in everything I do. I just pray God perfect our heart desire for us to finally settle as husband n wife. I just see how important he has been in my life while we r still getting to know each other. nothing is as sweet as dating someone you both have the same foundation who is christ Jesus

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 4 роки тому

      Smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years wife cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned her cell and i got access to all her Text messages, Whats-app, Facebook, Snap-chat, Instagram, Twitter, Email and i was able to read both her new and deleted messages without touching it. I was hurt when i saw a picture of my wife and her lover, i feel so bad about infidelity. I’m here in Australia and was able to access her phone while she was away cheating in UK and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned . He also does university grade hack, Yahoo, wiping and upgrading of credit card and hacking of account or any other type of hacking. His services are trusted and guaranteed and also affordable. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) or Via Whats-app +1 (724) 330-3252 and you can also text/call him +1 (601) 287-5528. Thank me later...

  • @thesage250
    @thesage250 5 років тому +17

    As long as u not with a toxic person u can work anything out but when the person is trying to get a negative emotional reaction even when you’re both supposed to be happy then no type of “communication” is gonna work

  • @francie.6200
    @francie.6200 5 років тому +10

    Thank You God for this video ! I did good in walking away. It hurts but God wants better for me ♥️

    • @angelamoreno1428
      @angelamoreno1428 4 роки тому +1

      Francy Escobar amen I so feeling this after 11 yrs in a relationship god help me 🙏😓 I want what god wants for me

  • @MadeByTriniLena
    @MadeByTriniLena 4 роки тому +3

    So very true sis, sadly to say there married couples that have these sings, oh Savior deliver & restore

  • @anamarieflores2801
    @anamarieflores2801 3 роки тому +1

    Karolina, I will be passing this onto my daughter, nieces and single friends! Thank you so much!

  • @seekerofjesuschrist536
    @seekerofjesuschrist536 5 років тому +25

    I know that GOD sent you to deliver your last 3 or 4 videos for me, ESPECIALLY this one! BIG FACTS!!! Thank you sooo much for the inspiration, knowledge, and wisdom that you share. I wish you could be my mentor. BLESSINGS to you, your husband and family 🙏🏽🥰

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 4 роки тому +1

      Smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years wife cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned her cell and i got access to all her Text messages, Whats-app, Facebook, Snap-chat, Instagram, Twitter, Email and i was able to read both her new and deleted messages without touching it. I was hurt when i saw a picture of my wife and her lover, i feel so bad about infidelity. I’m here in Australia and was able to access her phone while she was away cheating in UK and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned . He also does university grade hack, Yahoo, wiping and upgrading of credit card and hacking of account or any other type of hacking. His services are trusted and guaranteed and also affordable. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) or Via Whats-app +1 (724) 330-3252 and you can also text/call him +1 (601) 287-5528. Thank me later...

  • @armfuntimes5215
    @armfuntimes5215 3 роки тому +2

    Great words of advice. Thank you so much I needed to hear this. It cleared up many questions I had concerning my relationship.

    • @janetmirembe8178
      @janetmirembe8178 3 роки тому +1

      All these signs are going on but am still praying for him hopefully he will change

  • @abbyhernandez3635
    @abbyhernandez3635 5 років тому +24

    Wow im amazed at how all of these describe my past relationship. Moving on to the next chapter in my life. God Bless!

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 4 роки тому

      Smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years wife cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned her cell and i got access to all her Text messages, Whats-app, Facebook, Snap-chat, Instagram, Twitter, Email and i was able to read both her new and deleted messages without touching it. I was hurt when i saw a picture of my wife and her lover, i feel so bad about infidelity. I’m here in Australia and was able to access her phone while she was away cheating in UK and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned . He also does university grade hack, Yahoo, wiping and upgrading of credit card and hacking of account or any other type of hacking. His services are trusted and guaranteed and also affordable. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) or Via Whats-app +1 (724) 330-3252 and you can also text/call him +1 (601) 287-5528. Thank me later...

  • @audreydee7487
    @audreydee7487 4 роки тому +4

    Amen! I love how you broke every sign down. Also this can be applied to platonic relationships as well.
    Thank you woman of God! May God continue to use you to further the gospel

  • @avzjay9772
    @avzjay9772 5 років тому +28

    I see signs of him and me in this 😢 so sad that we did this to each other 💔

    • @m.h6858
      @m.h6858 4 роки тому +3

      @@iniubongnkanga9390 I hate to say this, but sometimes simply leaving and letting go is best. You didnt need to do all of this to know what your wife was doing...I hate that this happened to you, but moving forward, learn yourself, put GOD FIRST, and allow Him to send you your spouse that you can build a relationship on trust. Dont put yourself thru this. You're worth so much more! Take it from someone that use to snoop on past boyfriends, it only lead YOU to be hurt and depressed. Love yourself enough to walk rather endure further humiliation and pain.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @diannamc367
      @diannamc367 3 роки тому

      @Avz Jay Amen! I understand completely.

  • @curtistinemiller8038
    @curtistinemiller8038 4 роки тому +12

    Two cannot walk together unless agreed....

  • @Jettingred4
    @Jettingred4 4 роки тому

    I finally went no contact from my alcoholic toxic unstable Narc! Known. For years but now he’s widowed and off the hook and thank the Lord living on separate coasts! You were absolutely on point on every item! New life ahead!

  • @samiam12blessed
    @samiam12blessed 2 роки тому

    Wow I saw myself in some of these areas… I’m not always looking for the instabilities in my partner I look at myself first…. And boy do I have some healing to do . I’m not ashamed to say it … thanks for sharing

  • @servantofchrist5085
    @servantofchrist5085 3 роки тому

    Oh the end!! 😩👌🏾✨ Leave them alone with God is the best decision you can do sis even if its not easy at all, trust me God will give you strenght if you are willing to take that leap of faith, you’re going to get through it! 🙏🏾💪🏾🙌🏾

  • @chosennotforsaken
    @chosennotforsaken 4 роки тому +3

    Gosh this applies to friendships too hey. I am at a point where I have come to realise how needy I was that I opened myself up to people too much and now they treat me like a project. Meanwhile, I have matured in God and way over my past pain. They still remind me who I was and treat me like I am the broken person they met. It is so overwhelming. I honestly feel like I Need a fresh start and clean friendships with the new personality and new people. I just don't want to be reminded who I used to be when I have worked so hard to change and grow. It is draining!!!

  • @Heavenismytruehome88
    @Heavenismytruehome88 5 років тому +13

    I needed to watch this. Gloryyy be to God

  • @ROCKNROLLFAN
    @ROCKNROLLFAN 5 років тому +25

    and I know that its a red flag when a woman says that I have to see her EVERYDAY cuz you cant get nothing done seeing anyone EVERYDAY and you get tired of them real quick.

  • @pualo9263
    @pualo9263 4 роки тому +4

    You are blessed with beauty. Im glad you look so healthy.

  • @Truthseeker.1111
    @Truthseeker.1111 5 років тому +11

    Praise God for speaking through you to clarify some things for us. Continue to be blessed :)

  • @rosecoleman9090
    @rosecoleman9090 5 років тому +5

    I am so glad I subscribe to your channel you are a blessing for me! I really enjoy 😉 hearing the truth about how a real relationship should be, because I am strongly into the Lord, and nobody is going to change that!!!

  • @LaFemmeAlexa
    @LaFemmeAlexa 4 роки тому +4

    This video 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾! I’m so grateful that God was able to reveal to me the toxic traits of this man I was talking too before even entering a relationship with him !

  • @denisem5437
    @denisem5437 4 роки тому

    Karolyne, you hit the nail. I'm in a toxic relationship, at this moment. We have 10 out of 10. You are so correct. It's not a good feeling being with someone who doesn't take the time. I have my faults in this relationship but for the most part, I have tried my best. Thank you for this much-needed video. I deserve more and want more with the grace of God. Thank you

  • @kimberlypope9653
    @kimberlypope9653 5 років тому +10

    All I have to say is AMEN

  • @curtistinemiller1560
    @curtistinemiller1560 5 років тому +15

    Toxic people are a fact of life our family ,coworkers,neighbors,friends they are people you spend as less time as you can.Keep. your distance from these 😈 😈 😈!.........

    • @lyndapeoples8127
      @lyndapeoples8127 5 років тому

      Curtistine Miller....please explain your comment.

    • @curtistinemiller1560
      @curtistinemiller1560 5 років тому

      @@lyndapeoples8127 I did Clearly ,Toxic People are everywhere
      . 😉

  • @kiaracrystal9503
    @kiaracrystal9503 5 років тому +5

    Thank you sister for sharing the good encouragement! We woman we need to hear some point in our lives.

  • @reneemartin8626
    @reneemartin8626 3 роки тому

    Thank you karolyne roberts for the information and the look out very on point 👌 👍 i am a single Christian woman dont want to do the wrong thing i love god to much for that there is some one i am praying for for his salvation. We are unequally yoked. Will not work. I have prayed about it my salvation means a lot🖐👍💐💐💜💜💜✡✡✝️✝️

  • @blessedchild1981
    @blessedchild1981 4 роки тому +1

    Amen! This video was discovered right on time! God gave me multiple confirmations.

  • @maureenwright3470
    @maureenwright3470 5 років тому +1

    Thanks. Now I'm 100% sure I did the right thing leaving my previous relationships, I finally got closure☺

  • @nikkisia755
    @nikkisia755 3 роки тому

    Hello Karolyne, you don't know how much you have helped me spiritually and I am really inspired on how you are able to explain your faith. God Bless you!

  • @afrokatsis5708
    @afrokatsis5708 5 років тому +2

    Omg girl ur awesome everything u said on this video is 100% accurate that was the life I lead he was toxic and before I knw it became toxic my self I lost my faith in god I stopped worshiping him but no matter what I would always come back to my father after 22 long agonising years I ghosted him with no communication what so ever it’s been 11 months now living a single life, I’m in therapy getting counselling I have good days and some days there not so good in time my heart will heal so will my wounds and most importantly my mind and with gods love I will overcome anything that comes my way. God bless u sister girl 🇦🇺❤️✌️

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 5 років тому +1

      I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

  • @YollyB
    @YollyB 5 років тому

    I just recently came across you and these videos have been everything to me. I needed to hear this. I'm currently in a toxic marriage and he has currently moved out which has been a blessing because I've went through hell with this man. I just need God to hold my hand through this it's been tough because I have 2 kids who has looked at this man as father because he has been with me since my kids were 4 and 1 yrs old. I know I have to walk away from this completely because this relationship has just depleted me.

  • @patriciammokwa9558
    @patriciammokwa9558 5 років тому +1

    Sis you've described my relationship to the T, it's time to remove bad energy and ask God to enter and change my life for the better 🙏❤️

  • @gabj4665
    @gabj4665 5 років тому +29

    Thank you Sis. Can you also give some examples where a friendship can be toxic.

    • @jakeniemiec8559
      @jakeniemiec8559 3 роки тому +1

      Hi, I think this video is very good for friendships also!

  • @seashells4879
    @seashells4879 5 років тому +7

    Stop the madness..we know the problem, ok , now the solution. For him/ her , me . Find someone else, move the heck on . Don’t look back. Move forward, a much better you for the future. I’ll wait on S.O .S . Or vise / versa ...

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  • @ressahall9098
    @ressahall9098 5 років тому +2

    Wow this were meant for me to hear. Because I was in a 7 year relationship and it were hard, I thought that I could save him from hos addiction, but it only got worse and I tried staying. I knew that it was a toxic relatonship. I have been through having a sword put to my face , knife to my throat to walking about 8 miles homes at 3 one morning . I tried 3 times to make it work. But God placed this video especially so I can see it. Hearing this has really put me at ease forf thinking I was wrong gor leaving. Amen Thank you Jesus

  • @dean314videos9
    @dean314videos9 4 роки тому

    I will say... there are people like myself that have a TBI... it makes remembering extremely hard and many loose memories over time... and we are discriminated over it... ijs. I love your messages. Thank you.

  • @jayleenjimenez9346
    @jayleenjimenez9346 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video, this video brought even more clarity into my situation & a reminder that I have taken the correct steps walking away from an unhealthy man. Absolutely blessed by this💕🙌

  • @joyceowobu916
    @joyceowobu916 4 роки тому +2

    you are right, I wish I was wise like you when I was younger. God bless you

  • @tragicsevens_
    @tragicsevens_ 4 роки тому +1

    12:44 🙌🏻 that passion came through! Thank you for what you do ✨

    • @abconey1052
      @abconey1052 4 роки тому

      "STAAHP!! wastin ya time!!" LoL 😅
      loved it

  • @yvettetalley4067
    @yvettetalley4067 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for your insight. I am in a marriage now 2 years and it has been a whirlwind of downs rather than ups. At this point, I am disconnected and uninterested in speaking to him now. I am contemplating divorce and plan to file soon. I really believe that he needs to grow up. Truth be told I have to some growing up myself especially when it comes to choosing the person I want to spend my life with. W-I-P! (work in progress)

  • @amparosanchez2669
    @amparosanchez2669 5 років тому +5

    I love the way you explain thins by giving 10 signs or 5 ways.... keeping Christianity simple, not a sermon. Not saying sermons are bad, in this video I would suggest have more scriptures supporting this important points.
    Keep reaching people for God.👍🏼🙏🏼👌🏼

  • @marya.631
    @marya.631 5 років тому +7

    Amezing i need It to hear this . .. I love this guy but the way he treat me he didn’t deserve me.. I give him a Chance after breaking up , but Yesterday I walk a way for good this time. ‘This video support me that I make a right decision. Thank you Love💕🙌🏼

  • @CynthiaShephardhospitality
    @CynthiaShephardhospitality 4 роки тому +1

    God bless you! Thank you for your advice! Really helping me through this process.

  • @marrymagda8140
    @marrymagda8140 4 роки тому

    Thank God for inspiring you to be so open about it all. Self awareness and healing from past relationships is important to moving on so those toxic habits are not transformed on to the next person

  • @latoyaspaulding4436
    @latoyaspaulding4436 5 років тому +21

    God is good he is talking to me thru you God bless💯

  • @shad5637
    @shad5637 3 роки тому

    I really needed this today as i have been highly confused for a very very long time

  • @AngieB_916
    @AngieB_916 Рік тому

    This was a really good video. Lots of good information presented here. Thank you very much!

  • @LovesofJBNeet
    @LovesofJBNeet 5 років тому +7

    Great video!!! So true! Thank you for Sharing😊

  • @ReneelovesGod
    @ReneelovesGod 4 роки тому +1

    What if your toxic relationship is your husband and he is just not doing what God requires?And you’ve had counseling secular and Christian counseling. When we married we were equally yoked.
    He doesn’t care about God the way he did in the beginning of our marriage of over 10 years.
    He does not encourage.. never recognizes anything that God is doing in my life? Not even for our son
    He doesn’t listen, he’s so selfish .. in fact he’s never listened .. I was just so positive and content. I’m still positive and content but God opened my eyes.

  • @millicentsimelane3193
    @millicentsimelane3193 4 роки тому +2

    I can relate to everything that has been said in this video, thank you😇🙌

  • @qu33niemonroe64
    @qu33niemonroe64 5 років тому +11

    I was in relationships like this we well argue a lot I left him and he agree on it so yeah

  • @Sunshine-ms4ih
    @Sunshine-ms4ih 5 років тому +6

    Should have seen this video 7 years ago, before I get in trouble.

  • @ForessaAnn
    @ForessaAnn 5 років тому +6

    Amen....thank you for this Queen!

  • @mees2751
    @mees2751 3 роки тому

    God bless you women of God. I was in a relationship and unequally yoked.

  • @lindydinaze1800
    @lindydinaze1800 5 років тому +1

    Thanks ...ur my inspiration...relationship life is so exhausting n horrible

  • @yolandawooten-mitchell1404
    @yolandawooten-mitchell1404 4 роки тому +1

    God bless you, Godly woman!!! I truly appreciate your gifts and the anointing on you. Do you have any videos on Christian friendships and Non-Christian friendships? Does unequally yoked apply to friendships too? Continue to walk in your calling. We need more videos like this. Thank you. God bless.

  • @JK-bi2jl
    @JK-bi2jl 5 років тому +3

    Beautiful exposition my sister. God bless.

  • @gloriajayson6226
    @gloriajayson6226 5 років тому +9

    Am trying to put my life back together/ in place after 2yrs of being in an abusive relationship.am broken💔

  • @daniellawanson3205
    @daniellawanson3205 5 років тому +7

    Great Points. Thank You. God Bless You

  • @michealraybradford9894
    @michealraybradford9894 5 років тому +2

    I truly do thank you my mind says one thing but my heart says another I like to thank you because she is so toxic

    • @jesusislord7919
      @jesusislord7919 5 років тому +3

      Yes bro don't settle. What's of God should give u peace and joy even in the midst of differences.
      But if something just drains u, go back on your knees and seek clarity before making any decisions...

  • @Anna-cr5iu
    @Anna-cr5iu 3 роки тому

    The best devotion is how to discern

  • @christinakinney9170
    @christinakinney9170 5 років тому +3

    I love your videos I just found them tonight and they helped me a lot. Also by the way you always have the cutest lipstick on xD

  • @simonebrown3750
    @simonebrown3750 3 роки тому

    A lot of those things he spoke about it's just both of us but don't listen to anyone I'm not trying to speak and I'm being ignored I need to interact with a smile on his face anime playing anime part in our lives thanks for your words

  • @pacethebeat8090
    @pacethebeat8090 4 роки тому +4

    This spoke to my soul.....I need to cut this off now!

  • @ROCKNROLLFAN
    @ROCKNROLLFAN 5 років тому +2

    Especially if youre doing for a woman day in and day out and then you need something, they say its not my problem or just someone who just doesnt understand you and makes arguments over petty stuff or NOTHING and there is nothing worse than a woman who just doesnt understand you.

  • @ceceliadiaz8989
    @ceceliadiaz8989 3 роки тому

    U are so amazing, and smart I love everything u said, and you open my eyes to lots of stuff I went through in the past, thank you and God bless you 👍

  • @mkhulekomasondo8730
    @mkhulekomasondo8730 3 роки тому

    These points are 100% true

  • @victoriousglendy
    @victoriousglendy 4 роки тому

    Sooooo goood!!! Wish I would have heard this before! Thank you for this video beautiful sister!

  • @priscillaneela3793
    @priscillaneela3793 4 роки тому

    Thank you Karolyne god bless you for sharing to open up our eyes.god bless you and your ministry

  • @rhondadaniels3587
    @rhondadaniels3587 3 роки тому

    God Bless you Sister...this is a great ministry for you.🙂

  • @tropicalsunshine4689
    @tropicalsunshine4689 3 роки тому +1

    I wish I saw this 10 years ago!!!

  • @bluephone1328
    @bluephone1328 4 роки тому

    I agree with what she says. I'd just add however that the same points she is making about someone else, make sure you arent like that as well.
    Example, you say your partner verbally abuses you but you do the same thing to other people. Or you do things to torment or pick with someone else but when they get mad, you play the victim and say you are being verbally abused.
    In communication, make sure YOU communicate well and dont just expect your partner to do it when you dont.
    But I agree with what was said.

  • @pastoral4297
    @pastoral4297 5 років тому +4

    Hello and thanks for your message! You look nice on camera... keep it up!

  • @sylvianejudith121
    @sylvianejudith121 5 років тому +1

    Thanks for those advices. Though they are to be considered in all relationships such as friendship, professional, neighborhood, etc ...

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      @iniubongnkanga9390 5 років тому

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  • @fabiennewhitten9798
    @fabiennewhitten9798 5 років тому +3

    Thank you for your words. You are amazing!!!

  • @ChiefCedricJohnson
    @ChiefCedricJohnson 4 роки тому +1

    Genesis 2:18
    And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

  • @marywilliams3520
    @marywilliams3520 2 роки тому

    Very helpful tips thanks Mrs. Roberts

  • @whitneymiller6733
    @whitneymiller6733 4 роки тому +2

    The only one that applies to me is being unequally yoked, we have been together for years and now that I have accepted Jesus truly I don't know what to do about it

  • @JoanVegas_
    @JoanVegas_ 5 років тому +7

    Thanks for sharing this ❤🙏

  • @vanessachambers697
    @vanessachambers697 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this message much needed to hear 😊

  • @barakajacobs4539
    @barakajacobs4539 5 років тому +5

    On point. Thanks for this.. my almost 4yrs bf is still unsuree. At times I think he's just confused 🙃

  • @blessingsofuniquenesspierc454
    @blessingsofuniquenesspierc454 5 років тому +7

    Verbal abuse got that demon Capricorn banished from my life. With tendencies to be violent. I agree its a manipulative plan of the 😈.

    • @randallfinley7966
      @randallfinley7966 5 років тому +11

      Horoscope is of the devil. And zodiac signs , don't let the devil deceive you. I used to read my horoscope and follow my zodiac sign religiously and it eventually messed me up mentally

    • @jesuslovesme3263
      @jesuslovesme3263 5 років тому +4

      Very true. Horoscopes are demonic. Verbal and violence is under the demon of anger. He just needs deliverance from his demons. Perhaps tell him to repent, pray and get delivered.
      Go watch UA-cam videos of people being delivered from the spirit of anger

    • @jesusislord7919
      @jesusislord7919 5 років тому +5

      Star reading is idolatry. Repent about it. Let's see others with love even when they hurt us.. Only fruitful, inspiring words should come out of our mouths

    • @jesuslovesme3263
      @jesuslovesme3263 5 років тому +1

      Jesus Is Lord . Just noticed that you’re from kenya 🇰🇪. I’m from Nairobi Kenya too

    • @jesusislord7919
      @jesusislord7919 5 років тому

      @@jesuslovesme3263 oh I'm happy to hear that Siz.. Let's connect on IG or FB.. Check me @Reverie Events Nairobi Kenya

  • @kevinbrooks4898
    @kevinbrooks4898 3 роки тому

    God bless you..thank you for your insight and Godly wisdom.