Enneagram type 7 | Overview | seven
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- Опубліковано 31 лип 2024
- Enneagram 7 Overview
0:00 - Intro
12:08 - Beware of Success
20:22 - Idealists
28:09 - Fear Triad
32:25 - Snoop Dog & Pain
37:44 - Childhood Roots
43:32 - Relational Anxiety
51:23 - Opportunity Anxiety (Viriditas)
57:47 - 3’s and 7’s
1:03:03 - Stress and Security 1’s & 5’s
1:11:42 - Solitude & Silence
Just trying to help you get a good look at how the enneagram 7 functions in the world. I’ve worked with the Enneagram for years with my clients. I am an enneagram 4 and love helping folks walk through this life with more confidence, exploration, and fun taking themselves seriously as a heart attach and not taking themselves too seriously. Feel free to reach out for individual work at these contact points.
DrewNewkirk.com
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I’m a 4w5 married to a 7 and I am STOKED for the 4&7 episode!! I love your content. I’m so glad you’re putting out new episodes. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience.
No problem Meg. The 4&7 video might take a bit but it is going to come down the road. Be patient with me 🙏🏼
But it will come
Thanks for watching and I’ll keep pumping them out
Drew
For me this is the hardest of the types to learn, know and relate to. If you're a seven and finished this video give me a thumbs up??? As a 4 this is a healthy integration line for me through 1. Haha.. Snap me out of the melancholy hahahahahaha. ❤️ you 7s.
Exactly! A very nice number for us 4’s to learn if we want to chill a bit. But very frustrating for us when they are unhealthy
I am shocked as a 7 who mentioned enneagram and milan kundera’s that spesific book to my friend today. I even quoted the same sentence you did. Just wow
The nicknames are so true! My type 7 calls me Jack Jack, Punkin, Punky (as in Brewster), Sweet Pea, and more. I’ll be downloading this one for my plane ride today! Keep ‘em rolling, Drew!
Oh yeah! You’ll need to make him watch this Jackie. Let’s mess with his head. My 7 friend make her boyfriend watch the 8’s videos, he was resistant but I think it ultimately sunk in. Can’t wait to hear how it works on you and maybe on him 🤔
Drew
Wow I’m a 7 which lots of knowledge on enneagram already and this video is incredible. I love your energy and it’s fascinating to see the 4’s wisdom on the 7. You might be one of my favourite enneagram creators already:)
I'm not going to resist that affirmation... So sorry for the delay. Thanks so much for watching! I put a hard boundary on my time in the last year so I could write a book, which I just finished the first draft 🙌🏼 Know that I always appreciate every remark/response and try to get back to each and every one.
If at all interested send me your email through instagram or my email to be on my mailing list
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Hope all is well and thanks again
Drew
Wow! Thank you for being honest about us 7s and giving it to us straight! I will be thinking about these ideas for at least the next few seconds 😆 no seriously…especially the way we disregard our bodies and are hard on them, they may carry the weight we have put out of our minds and hearts. I so appreciate this video and will watch more of your content ❤ you are so authentic and real!
Thank you Meredith, I love doing these and am often just full of joy that it reaches the right people. I appreciate these words 🙏🏼
Omg I think I’m a 7! The way you explained how we can gloss over darn things especially.
Best enneagram video I've ever watched. My wife is a 1 and an enneagram coach and has been putting a lot of effort into getting me to really embrace the enneagram with limited success. I could see the good but just didn't make that connection I needed to really dig in. So she sent me this video and I've got to say, the way you speak and teach really works for me. Even though a lot of what you've said, my wife has said and laid the groundwork, your technique was exactly what I needed. You really opened my eyes and given me a passion to know more and go deeper. Looking forward to leaning into your challengers and digging into the homework of studying the 1 and 5. I thank you, my wife surely thanks you and I'm so ready to not only your content but other learning opportunities now that you have made me understand the power of becoming a more complete and happier 7. Excellent work, my friend.
I love this message so much man. If you’re like me you only certain people really resonate. And if we find them we can geek out about things we otherwise wouldn’t without that voice. Anyway, I’m a hard sell and sounds like you are to and I had folks like you and me in mind when doing these.
Now go watch more episodes and download so you have better sex and better conversations and more authentic fun and all the other things. Really appreciate you man,
Drew
@@drewnewkirk you got me!! lol May look into some personal coaching with you because I listened to your video on 1 and I got it more than anything before. Problem is my biz has brutal road construction out front causing lean times. But I feel like this is pretty important. Where should I contact you about rates? It may not be immediately but it’s on my to do list. lol Again, thank you for your videos, brother. You really speak to me and make me get it.
@@Kindred420 drew@drewnewkirk.com and remind me of our back and forth here so I know it’s you. I get it on the lean times tip. As a client before ever a practitioner I know it can be a stretch but also radically life changing and worth the hit to the pocket when the time is right
Excited for the 4 / 7 video. Need that
Ugh, the pressure is on. I’m in the dungeon working my friend
Grinding
I would love to see something on the difference between a social 9 and a 7. I see a lot of similarities. The escapism. The optimizing scenarios. And more. Thanks for your videos. Yours have been very real and deep- true to your 4 enneagram- which I really appreciate as I’m often looking for more depth about the enneagram in videos
Still patiently waiting on the 4&7 video! Please Drew, I think my relationship depends on it at this point. J/k but we could use the insight with your delivery. 🙏
4w5, I have a type 7 friend who is a hell of a lot of fun to be around. He’s the only person I allow to call me “Ali”. I won’t accept it from anyone else. I generally loathe nicknames. But it’s impossible to get mad at him. His other nicknames for me are Gorg and Gorgeous so I feel it would be churlish to complain!
Ha! Anyone calls me gorgeous or gorg I too am like, “yes please!” Classic 4 move on our parts, it’s not ok till you totally affirm us then our rules are gone. I love me a 7 as long as I can take them to hell and back every once in awhile to keep them real. 😂
@@drewnewkirk 💯😆
Lol did she always try to cheer you up Drew? I kid I lid IKWYM!
you, dear Drew, are such an amazing teacher, especially because you put yourliterature and music joy into your fabulous explanations ... thanks so much from Germany, Pat
I appreciate that Pat. Waving to you from Switzerland.
So sorry for the delay. Thanks so much for watching! I put a hard boundary on my time in the last year so I could write a book, which I just finished the first draft 🙌🏼 Know that I always appreciate every remark/response and try to get back to each and every one.
If at all interested send me your email through instagram or my email to be on my mailing list
Insta - @drewnewkirkpsychotherapy OR Drew@DrewNewkirk.com
Hope all is well and thanks again
Drew
@@drewnewkirk Hi dear Drew, thanks for this appreciative lovely little letter. Time is precious and retreats are awesome refreshment - I I appreciate that you took your time and wish you great inspirational new adventures this year... thanks with a smile from Pat ... being on retreat mode myself at the moment ;-)
Yay!!!!
Wanting to look up that pastor now from 1800s, who’s quote you shared. Trying to find the spot where you quoted him
Charles Spurgeon
Could your friend be a healthy social 8
He’s actually right on the line but definitely leans a bit more 7. But a very hard 8 wing
My favorite 7 songs. Don't Bring Me Down by Electric Light Orchestra and Let's Get it Started in Here by Black Eyed Peas!!!
There were so many but I had to restrain myself and stick mainly to quotes otherwise I’d have lost all the 7’s in the meantime 😂
😆❤️ I've been waiting for this one. It'll be so fun finishing it today! Thank you Drew 🎇🎆🧨
@@larrycheek3588 always Larry! Was fun to do and hope it lends some additive pieces to what you already know
@@drewnewkirk Key take aways! Thanks Drew!!!!
7s "not being poor" boom
7 chasm "How do I perform to help others"
Reinforcement of sevens disintegrating to one. And yeah! Let's go!!! Bruv.
I plan on rewatching fight club ;)
Does this guy cover this 7 wings?
He does not
Hi 👋🏼
Drew
@@drewnewkirk thanks for reply do you have a video on the wings?
@@isaacmcconkey171 read above. I was hearing you
I unfortunately didn’t do the wings on the 7’s
@@drewnewkirk could have been a good day
@@isaacmcconkey171 truth!
Anyone else coming very close to throwing in the towel but the optimism in you won't allow you? I am wasting one day after the other, from morning to night failing to forcing myself to do the things I need to do, in order to reach some minor level of success in my life. Well it's Wednesday 9PM and still nothing achieved this week except spending majority of time considering which e scooter I am going to buy. (sigh)
Hang in, Hang in
Let the darkness help you grow deeply and fully