I was molested by my grandfather and had a very challenging childhood from being hungry to physically/emotionally abused and after doing CBT I still find it hard to have sexual desire and it worries me cause I find my husband incredibly attractive but it's like my body is dead when it comes to sex. I know this is TMI but I find this video interesting and maybe I could get some help.
Hi Tatiana. Sorry for my delayed reply. I get busy and now I am trying to catch up on those that I want to respond to. I may be the right person to help you out. I would use another approach that is different than CBT that could hopefully overcome your traumas and help you reclaim your sexual responses. I have had success before. Feel free to email me at todd@toddcreager.com and I will respond more quickly. Take care.
This was a really interesting video for me as an aspiring sex therapist. I wonder about the actual techniques you do in therapy to help the clients see others avenues of thoughts or behaviors. What if the client presented with just lack of desire due to lack of achieving orgasms? Nothing mentally or physically wrong on the medical side of things. Some people just have a difficult time orgasming, and partners feel the need to make a person climax so they know the other person enjoys the act. When one person has difficulty climaxing, it creates a form of anxiety and stress to engage in sex. Which then lowers the sexual drive. I did find this video full of very useful and practical information. Thank you for sharing.
Sue- EMDR could very well help. I got trained in it for that reason, even though I use it now for many other challenges as well. I know I was slow at responding but feel free to contact me at todd@toddcreager.com if you want to inquire more.
I was molested by my grandfather and had a very challenging childhood from being hungry to physically/emotionally abused and after doing CBT I still find it hard to have sexual desire and it worries me cause I find my husband incredibly attractive but it's like my body is dead when it comes to sex. I know this is TMI but I find this video interesting and maybe I could get some help.
Idk you but i am sorry for what you endure. 😥 i hope you can figure it out
@@nicolasrosario2037 Aw thanks, that's very kind of you.
@@tatianafraserA Maybe this will help?
Hi Tatiana. Sorry for my delayed reply. I get busy and now I am trying to catch up on those that I want to respond to. I may be the right person to help you out. I would use another approach that is different than CBT that could hopefully overcome your traumas and help you reclaim your sexual responses. I have had success before. Feel free to email me at todd@toddcreager.com and I will respond more quickly. Take care.
Thank you for talking about sensitive and important issues. I am curious about how you treat the religious shame?
This was a really interesting video for me as an aspiring sex therapist. I wonder about the actual techniques you do in therapy to help the clients see others avenues of thoughts or behaviors. What if the client presented with just lack of desire due to lack of achieving orgasms? Nothing mentally or physically wrong on the medical side of things. Some people just have a difficult time orgasming, and partners feel the need to make a person climax so they know the other person enjoys the act. When one person has difficulty climaxing, it creates a form of anxiety and stress to engage in sex. Which then lowers the sexual drive. I did find this video full of very useful and practical information. Thank you for sharing.
what about sexual abuse for a man ? who was sexually abused by his mother. Does EMDR help? med has not help with getting hard . I am at a loss
Sue- EMDR could very well help. I got trained in it for that reason, even though I use it now for many other challenges as well. I know I was slow at responding but feel free to contact me at todd@toddcreager.com if you want to inquire more.