I don't understand these cases. I am an older single man who has always yearned for a partner, and to have a young daughter would be wonderful. The husband was very successful and had an attractive accomplished wife and he does what is alleged? I am nonplussed. And he kills an innocent stranger? The stranger is innocent whatever his unusual sexual proclivities. It is so saddening.
I’ve never understood these affair partners believing they’ll just live happily ever after with one or more brutal murders as the means to their magical relationship. It seems even beyond a lack of conscience. Like extreme confusion.
Same thoughts. This may be extreme, but I also was thinking, how can she, he as well, sleep comfortably in this murdered woman’s bed? Aren’t they afraid of being haunted? Does any paranormal activity ever occur afterwards? What about the mental health consequences? How can they possibly have a healthy relationship moving forward and raising this woman’s child at that? And not even mentioning the whole investigation that’s going to cause anxiety and worry. I just don’t understand how they felt they were going to live happily after this.
also - if someone is capable of murdering his wife for an affair, that is driven by lust and dopamine and not love - who says he wont do the same to the new gf once the butterflies are gone ?
@@MH-ys2gdExactly! That's why you don't get involved with someone who is already in a relationship. Do they leave their partner for you, they'll leave you for the next person.
@@ronald3836 In order to tell the accurate details of the case (as it stands today), the child in question is their daughter. Who that daughter chooses to be 20 years from now holds no relevance to the case nor is it any of our concern. 🙃
I was friends with Joe Ryan in real life - he was kind of a weird guy but not bad. He played Dagorhir with my husband (his game name was Korac) and he'd make us laugh doing his weird caveman yells and screeches all night. Joe had always been meeting strangers on the internet for hookups (one woman stole his dog Molly and disappeared the dog forever). Joe didn't deserve what happened to him at all RIP Korac.
I hear you! Same with some of the more terrible crimes committed today! It feels like James Bulger’s deranged killers don’t seem as rare to me but maybe it’s because more coverage today?
Dude is (was) IRS not FBI (yet another presence in the DMV). Definitely not the logistical genius he thought he was, plus as fathers used to sagely say to their sons, “never let the little head think for the big head”…
Also, if they were afraid someone was in the house, why did they bring the child in? Furthermore, how did the nanny know that the basement was safe and head directly down there? That detail is pretty incriminating to me
Also why did the guy kill Christine, that can’t have been part of the fetish, what did he aim to achieve by doing that? Did Brendan and Juliana kill Christine with knife after shooting the guy?
@@paolavitale5013 I'm guessing she, like me, maybe is just naked at home all the time. You'll never find me wearing clothes at home, ever. Not for sexual reasons in the least bit, just how some ppl are comfortable when given the choice. (or maybe even just had taken a shower or was changing clothes, etc.)
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They killed an innocent guy to cover up their nonsense.
They guy could've very well been innocent idk. But he did manage to get this guys wife completely naked, ontop of her in the bed with a knife to her throat and then stabbed the woman . So something doesn't seem right with that picture..
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating on the divisiveness of floral plants on my shirt versus the cacti in the background. It's botanical maddness! Madness!
Everyday problems, combined with the challenges of raising a child, are difficult enough. Avoid adding tension to your marriage.Do not bring another woman into your home-whether it's a friend, sister, mother, or a babysitter. Sooner or later, it will lead to conflicts in your marriage.
@@user-hj8vc2ix7p It was 100% up to him to be faithful to those vows regardless of the younger Woman's plan or appeal. Self vs sane behavior. Life w/o parole for both killers and prayers for the Daughter.
@@user-hj8vc2ix7pliterally, as if it’s her fault for hiring someone who happened to look good. Or her fault for looking good. And somehow not his fault for lying cheating being an adulterer and committing indefinitely and breaking his vows. Dumb
I was an aupair in the US 10 years ago. I went there to improve my English and learn how to be responsible for myself, I also loved taking care of children. During my time as an aupair I did encounter girls who slept with the husbands and voluntarily ruined marriages and children’s lives. The husbands are obviously to be blamed first, but I did hear these girls celebrating winning these men over, like they had some sort of sick challenge against the wives. I was young but deeply disgusted by their stories and unfortunately these girls were rematched by the aupair agency to other unknowing poor families.
yeah, it is pretty gross going after someone's husband (or husbands going after aupair). You would think those aupair girls can date plenty of single men in the area.
"... It was all perfect. One thing was for certain, nothing could possibly go wrong! Right after they executed the plan, something went wrong." Love the dry humour. Great video, as usual.
As a Brazilian, I can guarantee you that in Brazil, they would've gotten away with this stupid story 100%, so I can understand her reasoning, but for the guy to think that that was a good idea, is just beyond ridiculous.
To be fair, if there was a Vegas style quick and inexpensive divorce process in the courts, there likely would be far fewer cases of this version of divorce. Which, given somebody is disproportionately rewarded for breaking a contract when it is no longer convenient, is why I choose not to marry in the first place rather than counting on a judge (and subsequent laws) to uphold a prenup.
Sheesh having female friends must be like being friends with a rattlesnake. Actually the rattlesnake gives you the benefit of a warning at least so it's worse.
"purchased by the death of two innocent victims." Dr Grande amazing volume of output this case was complex yours was the first time i understood what actually happened. This will be a Netflix movie soon i'm sure. The writing of this channel is absolutely top notch
One of the most astonishing things about these cases is how different the people look in their mugshots. No makeup, drab, glamour gone. And the consummate ease which with people kill, fully expecting to get away with it.
The safest use of an au pair would seem to be by a single working mother with parents nearby who are involved with the family. My British Mum was partially raised by a Danish and French au pair during WW2 while my Gramma worked in the war effort. That worked out well for all concerned.
@@augustek5382 People are people, this crap happens in Europe just as much. Europeans are in no way shape or form superior to others in morals or attitude.
LOL! Europeans are way worse for this kind of thing! They just like to play the "holier-than-thou" card. It's part of the deception of being socialist.
Can’t imagine Christine’s horror as she was tied down by a stranger at knife point. Stranger gets shot. For a moment she thinks she is saved by her husband and nanny but then Brendon and/or Juliana start stabbing her to death. That poor little girl has to grown up now with daddy killed mommy backstory. Extremely sad. Spicy af as far as murder stories go tho ngl
Good afternoon Dr. Grande! Thank you for your informative analysis on this despicable crime. How horrible and selfish of them. They seem to have no regard at all for the little girls' well-being, or the victims and their families 😢
As an IRS investigator Brandon should have been well aware of the ability of the police to solve crimes! This ham-handed murder plot was ridiculous! To involve a young foreigner, who nevertheless should have behaved with much more morality, was horrible and totally selfish!
How would anyone know the difference between the different types of guns? He sent her for a Glock and she knew what to get? I live in Canada and have never seen more than one type and that was a shotgun owned by a farmer.
If this is truly how it played out, imagine how terrified the wife must have been with all this madness unfolding in front of her without a clue. So tragic. Also that poor SOB just wanted to have some fun. The story must have been too good to be true for him. What a story.
Yes. And the 4 year old in the basement? The basement? What parent would put a child in the basement if he or she knew there was a stranger in the house? Wouldn’t you tell the nanny to remain outside in the car with the 4 year old until you knew who the man who entered the house was!
@@annerose1925 I’m gonna need to listen to this again and pay more attention because I totally missed that since I had it on in the background! That sounds horrific.
@@annerose1925 Their cover story was horrible from the jump! Nanny doesn’t call 911 when strange man enters house? Husband doesn’t call 911 when he supposedly hears a strange man entered his house? And it went downhill from there!
@@canileaveitblank1476 Can you explain what actually happened? Grande didnt really even specify. The husband/nanny were charged with murder, for operating the fake account?
@@annerose1925 Yes!! Their stories don’t make any sense. They should have called 911 the second they saw a strange man enter the house and they should have just stayed in the car until the police got there.
Bizarre behavior begets even more bizarre actions. Sad for the two victims who were probably unaware of what was going on w/o their knowledge of any of it.
Why did it take them so long to arrest the husband? As per who created the fake account, all they need to do is to check the time when the entries were made. I can bet those were times when Christine was at work at the hospital
As a man, I can see why he preferred the au pair. She was a younger, more energetic, more exotic Latina. His wife, on the other hand, was older and still carrying baby weight. But then again, even Kim Kardashian and Beyonce got cheated on so looks are irrelevant anyway. "Death and destruction are never full, so the eyes of man are never satisfied." - Proverbs 27:20✝
@@MiguelDLewishe was the one who contributed to putting the baby weight on her plus newsflash not every women can lose the weight afterward due to many reasons. It's shitty to leave your wife because of that.
Why are all new houses so big and ugly like that? as a Designer, it absolutely bugs me how new (always overlarge) houses lack the attractiveness & style of the vernacular designs they’re meant to emulate by overblowing size at the expense of quality materials & craftsmanship. I know that’s not the whole point of this video. They just drive me nuts.
It will be the standard issue, as cost of labour and materials skyrocket, compromises need to be made, fine details are the first thing to be cut and the building style becomes far more cookie cutter because variety in building styles crushes efficiency. I'm sure America is the same as Australia and with our recent incredible inflation period, building companies have been dropping like flies, so increased efficiencies and cost cutting is the only way to keep operating, maybe....
It must be like that in a lot of places. I live in Germany, where spaces are (on average) much more tightly packed, and new houses here are usually ugly AND small. 🤣
It appears some people think this is a wise decision on your part, but for me, it would cause some serious unease in our relationship if my husband outright dismissed my desire to hire a 21 year old nanny (regardless of ethnicity). I assume you have your reasoning, but my immediate reaction would be to think that my husband didn't trust himself around a woman in her young 20s. Or that even if my husband knew he would never make a move on her, he's still doubtful of his ability to remain faithful should a pretty young woman attempt to seduce him. I think that by sending her this video, you would be nearly admitting to the latter (since it sounds like Dr. Grande and many others in the comments seem to think that Juliana probably initiated this affair, as a way of securing her future in the US with a husband who is well-off financially). Worst of all, she could take this video as your way of saying that some men, yourself included, shouldn't hire a young, beautiful au pair because not only do you lack the conviction to remain loyal, but you could also be coaxed into coming up with a convoluted murder plot with said au pair in order to get rid of your wife 😅 I just thought you may appreciate the perspective of a woman who is (perhaps) close to you and your wife in age (I'm 36) I'm curious, if you see this and don't mind answering, would you be OK with her hiring a 21 year old male au pair?
The random dude paid for his fetish with his life. The lengths these two went to try to cover up their crimes is insane. They thought they were so clever and didn’t give to ffs about the other dude being collateral damage. They totally datelined the dude.
How did these two monsters think that no one would catch on to this? Investigators deal with these type of cases before and one suspicious thing will start them investigating. This reminds me of the case of Mark can’t remember the last name. He set up the taxi man to come to his wife. All 3 are pure evil.
NEVER NEVER NEVER invite a younger attractive female into your marital home. Really REALLY high percentage of affair happening. wives/mothers are completely deluded if they think its unlikely. It is HIGHLY likely.
My God! So many problems here which contributed to this: buying a 800k mansion on an IRS agent salary...Importing a young nanny from a developing country (ostensibly to save money due to high mortgage payments)...hiring a young girl as your nanny in the first frickin place...talk about setting yourself up for problems!!! And as if IRS agents don't already have a bad enough reputation...this guy just comes in and proves to everyone that they're even worse than you thought lol.
LOL I kept wondering why all the family photos with the baby were being taken behind an open laptop. Then I realized it's a blackout square to block the baby's identity. Guess I need more coffee!
I'm not diagnosing anyone in this comment, but Brendan Banfield suffers from what we psychology professionals would classify as "Acute Shady as Fu@% Syndrome". The symptoms for this condition can include "Dizzy Spells" and "Plowing the Brazilian Au Pair"
Why any wife would agree to bring a young single woman into her home is beyond me. What did she think was going to happen? (Not the murder part, but definitely the affair. It's pretty much a given.)
Crikey, when I heard the introduction I thought actress Julianna Margulies, best known for her role as Carol Hathaway in the NBC medical drama series ER, had murdered someone!😬
Their stories don’t make any sense. They should have called 911 the second they saw a strange man enter the house and they should have just stayed in the car until the police got there.
There is massive financial losses and custody issues involved with divorce, a lot of false allegations. I understand why people try to avoid it, don't condone the actions, but I get their motivations.
I feel so, so, so sad for Joseph. Such pure evil. The fact that he was a human being with a whole life meant nothing to those vile creatures. They used him like a pawn, lured him into a trap he had no reason to suspect. Makes me physically ill to think how excited he must have been, how he must have had connection with a profile he had no clue was a bait…
That poor little girl lost her whole world because her dad was a selfish coward.
😢
😔😔😔 Yes. Disgusting and tragic.
I don't understand these cases. I am an older single man who has always yearned for a partner, and to have a young daughter would be wonderful. The husband was very successful and had an attractive accomplished wife and he does what is alleged? I am nonplussed. And he kills an innocent stranger? The stranger is innocent whatever his unusual sexual proclivities. It is so saddening.
yet another victim. smh
When Dr. Grande breaks out the hard party shirts, we know we’re about to speculate hard
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That’s riteeeeee
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Bruh I’m speculating sooooo hard right now!
This shirt’s my favorite
Banging the nanny is so cliche.
“The Help”? 😷
Yep, no needed to be exceedingly-creepy, just run-of-the-mill-creepy.
Bow chicka bow wow
@@Heywood.Jablome spot on.
@@Heywood.Jablomethe 70s
There's this super cool thing called divorce, where you can separate from your partner without serving a life sentence.
Great point!!
Well, most of these folks couldn't separate a S😢entence from a Conjugal.
Verb, I mean. 😐
The only downside of that is that you can lose your money.
The Catholic Church: 😡
@@nmccray4494 Better to lose part of your money than all of your freedom.
I’ve never understood these affair partners believing they’ll just live happily ever after with one or more brutal murders as the means to their magical relationship. It seems even beyond a lack of conscience. Like extreme confusion.
Same thoughts. This may be extreme, but I also was thinking, how can she, he as well, sleep comfortably in this murdered woman’s bed? Aren’t they afraid of being haunted? Does any paranormal activity ever occur afterwards? What about the mental health consequences? How can they possibly have a healthy relationship moving forward and raising this woman’s child at that? And not even mentioning the whole investigation that’s going to cause anxiety and worry. I just don’t understand how they felt they were going to live happily after this.
also - if someone is capable of murdering his wife for an affair, that is driven by lust and dopamine and not love - who says he wont do the same to the new gf once the butterflies are gone ?
@@MH-ys2gdExactly!
That's why you don't get involved with someone who is already in a relationship. Do they leave their partner for you, they'll leave you for the next person.
It's almost like they are insane
Yep
Wow, wife killed and Juliana immediately puts up pictures and moves her clothes into the master bedroom. Psychopath!
When 2 psychopaths meet.
average latina
@@musiczkl98😂
@@lf9341 - exactly!
@@musiczkl98You've met Latinas who did this?
So reprehensible. And now this 4 year old little boy has to live with the fact that his father murdered his mother.
To hook up with his nanny.
Girl.
Girl, dude. Little girl. lol
@@jadeybaby007 We don't know yet. They is just 4 :)
@@ronald3836 In order to tell the accurate details of the case (as it stands today), the child in question is their daughter.
Who that daughter chooses to be 20 years from now holds no relevance to the case nor is it any of our concern. 🙃
I was friends with Joe Ryan in real life - he was kind of a weird guy but not bad. He played Dagorhir with my husband (his game name was Korac) and he'd make us laugh doing his weird caveman yells and screeches all night. Joe had always been meeting strangers on the internet for hookups (one woman stole his dog Molly and disappeared the dog forever). Joe didn't deserve what happened to him at all RIP Korac.
Born in the early 2000s. Gosh! That's like yesterday to me. Surreal to hear that someone born so recently now a front page murderess.
Then he said the couple was born in 1985. I graduated high school in 1985! God I’m old 😂😭😂😭😭😭
I hear you! Same with some of the more terrible crimes committed today!
It feels like James Bulger’s deranged killers don’t seem as rare to me but maybe it’s because more coverage today?
@@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ijI've often wondered about that... Are there more violent crimes or just more coverage. I think its both
Ikr. I was born in 1998 but anyone born after 2000 in the news makes me feel old 😂
@@nixm9093 I think it’s both too but more coverage for sure.
So an IRS criminal investigator fails at getting away with murder...kind of ironic.
Dude is (was) IRS not FBI (yet another presence in the DMV). Definitely not the logistical genius he thought he was, plus as fathers used to sagely say to their sons, “never let the little head think for the big head”…
@@x77punk77x - No one said he was FBI..😐
@@RullVoxhe’s a government accountant of course he failed
This is the typical moral compass of an IRS agent.
The delusion is STRONG in that one! Utterly disgusting.
I love that Dr. Grande brought back the brick wall background. I missed it! The neon(?) lower backlighting is cool also.
Looks like an upgraded brick wall.
I guess getting a divorce was just too simple.
Alimony.
@@MiguelDLewis Alimony beats prison, in my opinion.
@@anonanon1982 That's because you're a wise person.
Idkhis they think theyll get away with it. What do they say aftef they get caught?
Also, if they were afraid someone was in the house, why did they bring the child in? Furthermore, how did the nanny know that the basement was safe and head directly down there? That detail is pretty incriminating to me
the only thing I don’t understand is why was the wife naked? did she accept to play along with this guy or was she forced to take her clothes off?
Also why did the guy kill Christine, that can’t have been part of the fetish, what did he aim to achieve by doing that? Did Brendan and Juliana kill Christine with knife after shooting the guy?
I thought the same
@@MrTeshy1234they shot the guy, then stabbed the wife, as explained in the video
@@paolavitale5013 I'm guessing she, like me, maybe is just naked at home all the time. You'll never find me wearing clothes at home, ever. Not for sexual reasons in the least bit, just how some ppl are comfortable when given the choice. (or maybe even just had taken a shower or was changing clothes, etc.)
They killed an innocent guy to cover up their nonsense.
They guy could've very well been innocent idk. But he did manage to get this guys wife completely naked, ontop of her in the bed with a knife to her throat and then stabbed the woman . So something doesn't seem right with that picture..
Poor Christine. And the poor daughter who had the 3 adults she saw every day disappear. I hope she’s in a good situation now.
His wife had way more going on than the murderer.
Rest well Christine
I agree. Christine was beautiful. Julianna looks like an ogre in comparison to her.
Yes.😔
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating on the divisiveness of floral plants on my shirt versus the cacti in the background. It's botanical maddness! Madness!
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@@BigZebraCom IT’S A MAD HOUSE!! A MADDDDD HOUUUSE!!
@@Eric-10101 Yes I believe you're right!
I can only read that with his voice.
She gets to live her dream in a very big house with lots of rooms.
4400 sq.ft. and five bedrooms.
Prison@@annacomnena217
@@annacomnena217 and ensuite i was referring to prison lol
We must be careful what we wish or ask for 🤷🏾♀️
Imagine how often this stuff happens, except the people get away with it, so we never hear about it.
I always think of that with these cases. Because there’s quite a few of em.
Rarely, I'd imagine. The people willing to do these thing's are rarely as clever as they think they are.
Hiring sexy young women to come and live in your home with your husband is such a strange choice.
Self control is also a thing. Maybe she thought even though she was attractive he could stay faithful to their wedding vows. Shocker
Everyday problems, combined with the challenges of raising a child, are difficult enough.
Avoid adding tension to your marriage.Do not bring another woman into your home-whether it's a friend, sister, mother, or a babysitter. Sooner or later, it will lead to conflicts in your marriage.
@@user-hj8vc2ix7pAnd 99% of them never can control themself.
@@user-hj8vc2ix7p It was 100% up to him to be faithful to those vows regardless of the younger Woman's plan or appeal. Self vs sane behavior. Life w/o parole for both killers and prayers for the Daughter.
@@user-hj8vc2ix7pliterally, as if it’s her fault for hiring someone who happened to look good. Or her fault for looking good. And somehow not his fault for lying cheating being an adulterer and committing indefinitely and breaking his vows. Dumb
Dr. Grande is always out here flexing his cool shirts!
I'm pretty sure he's doing this Videos Just to show His collections of shirts.
I was an aupair in the US 10 years ago. I went there to improve my English and learn how to be responsible for myself, I also loved taking care of children. During my time as an aupair I did encounter girls who slept with the husbands and voluntarily ruined marriages and children’s lives. The husbands are obviously to be blamed first, but I did hear these girls celebrating winning these men over, like they had some sort of sick challenge against the wives. I was young but deeply disgusted by their stories and unfortunately these girls were rematched by the aupair agency to other unknowing poor families.
I will NEVER understand the au pair thing!
That's appaling, so sad.
yeah, it is pretty gross going after someone's husband (or husbands going after aupair). You would think those aupair girls can date plenty of single men in the area.
Both equal in blame
Which countries were these girls from? I was an Au Pair and never heard such a thing..
"... It was all perfect. One thing was for certain, nothing could possibly go wrong! Right after they executed the plan, something went wrong."
Love the dry humour. Great video, as usual.
Their plan was just about the stupidest idea Ive heard in awhile! The whole scheme would be laughable if it weren't so tragic.
As a Brazilian, I can guarantee you that in Brazil, they would've gotten away with this stupid story 100%, so I can understand her reasoning, but for the guy to think that that was a good idea, is just beyond ridiculous.
Yep, certeza. Ela provavelmente ainda se tornaria uma influencer.
Hmm so she was the one talking him into it
@@ahalfemptycup Yes. I'm surprised he didn't try that one, "She did it! It was all her idea!"
Brazilian here. Your comment makes us Brazilians sound like morons
Was that your aim?
@@Olivier_Odorantia vender curso de como vencer nos Estados Unidos 😂
Omg , Dr Grande , your shirt is fabulous and so are you .
A gun-safe in the BATHROOM?! Tony Montana was less paranoid.
😂
And u see what happened to Tony....
Wouldn't the humidity be bad for the guns?
Love the shirt, hate the tragedy.
Go, Grande, go! :)
Greetings from Estonia 😇
Estonia.
Juliana went for the American Dream and ended up with the American Nightmare.
Prisons in the United States are far superior to those in other countries.
Or she became the nightmare herself. Imagine the victims' last moments
As a Brazilian, I feel embarrassed by the murderous nanny.
just. get. a. divorce.
If psychology was just that easy, right?
@@shamusosullivan5650it really is that easy
Just stay single, problem solved. 😉
To be fair, if there was a Vegas style quick and inexpensive divorce process in the courts, there likely would be far fewer cases of this version of divorce. Which, given somebody is disproportionately rewarded for breaking a contract when it is no longer convenient, is why I choose not to marry in the first place rather than counting on a judge (and subsequent laws) to uphold a prenup.
@carfo
That would be too logical.
I’m so glad you announced the husband was arrested! Did they really think they’d get away with it? So sad
Hire a young, attractive woman to live in your home. How does any married couple make this choice?
I’ll never understand.
Right, what kind of idiot wife trusts their husband not to cheat? /s
My best friend hired a college student.
She wanted to let people she had live in hired help.
It was all for show.
Blew up in her face BIG TIME.
Especially when they come from a developing country.
Sheesh having female friends must be like being friends with a rattlesnake. Actually the rattlesnake gives you the benefit of a warning at least so it's worse.
Well his wife gave him the benefit of the doubt and he failed miserably
"purchased by the death of two innocent victims." Dr Grande amazing volume of output this case was complex yours was the first time i understood what actually happened. This will be a Netflix movie soon i'm sure. The writing of this channel is absolutely top notch
That big-house joke was one of your best ever!
One of the most astonishing things about these cases is how different the people look in their mugshots. No makeup, drab, glamour gone. And the consummate ease which with people kill, fully expecting to get away with it.
Oh she found her "big house'. Savage!
He is SAVAGE!
The safest use of an au pair would seem to be by a single working mother with parents nearby who are involved with the family. My British Mum was partially raised by a Danish and French au pair during WW2 while my Gramma worked in the war effort. That worked out well for all concerned.
In Europe people don't sexualize each other as much as in the US.
@@augustek5382They do it all the time in Europe actually
@@augustek5382 People are people, this crap happens in Europe just as much. Europeans are in no way shape or form superior to others in morals or attitude.
LOL! Europeans are way worse for this kind of thing! They just like to play the "holier-than-thou" card. It's part of the deception of being socialist.
Why is life held so cheaply by some people? Not only the victims, but the poor little girl who is without a mother.
Can’t imagine Christine’s horror as she was tied down by a stranger at knife point. Stranger gets shot. For a moment she thinks she is saved by her husband and nanny but then Brendon and/or Juliana start stabbing her to death.
That poor little girl has to grown up now with daddy killed mommy backstory. Extremely sad. Spicy af as far as murder stories go tho ngl
Good afternoon Dr. Grande! Thank you for your informative analysis on this despicable crime. How horrible and selfish of them. They seem to have no regard at all for the little girls' well-being, or the victims and their families 😢
I know this is the most accurate, concise and thoughtful analysis on this case online.
And the poor orphaned little girl! Thank you Dr. Grande for another interesting video 😊
As an IRS investigator Brandon should have been well aware of the ability of the police to solve crimes! This ham-handed murder plot was ridiculous! To involve a young foreigner, who nevertheless should have behaved with much more morality, was horrible and totally selfish!
you must not be familiar with Brazil and 3rd world/developing nations. Money, not morality is king.
@@76UVBhe worked for the IRS so it’s safe to say that he was not one of the best and the brightest.
His Mid-Life Crisis went completely off the rails!
@@ItsAllFakeAndGhey money is king everywhere. Look at US politicians that are worshiped only for having money.
It is interesting that someone who spent his entire career speculating about ways folks try to hide money from the IRS fell into this plan.
Maybe he was the mastermind?
If you just shot a guy in the head why would you tell your babysitter to go get a gun out of a safe or whatever when you still have a full clip????
Doesn't sound like they were criminal masterminds
*Magazine. A clip is different.
@@blaisebaileyfinnegan8202 whatever ya call it. I’m sure he had More than 1 round
How would anyone know the difference between the different types of guns? He sent her for a Glock and she knew what to get? I live in Canada and have never seen more than one type and that was a shotgun owned by a farmer.
Right. Her sole priority should’ve been getting the baby to safety. The dad was armed and had it under control, very odd.
If this is truly how it played out, imagine how terrified the wife must have been with all this madness unfolding in front of her without a clue. So tragic. Also that poor SOB just wanted to have some fun. The story must have been too good to be true for him. What a story.
Yes. And the 4 year old in the basement? The basement? What parent would put a child in the basement if he or she knew there was a stranger in the house? Wouldn’t you tell the nanny to remain outside in the car with the 4 year old until you knew who the man who entered the house was!
@@annerose1925 I’m gonna need to listen to this again and pay more attention because I totally missed that since I had it on in the background! That sounds horrific.
@@annerose1925 Their cover story was horrible from the jump! Nanny doesn’t call 911 when strange man enters house? Husband doesn’t call 911 when he supposedly hears a strange man entered his house?
And it went downhill from there!
@@canileaveitblank1476 Can you explain what actually happened? Grande didnt really even specify. The husband/nanny were charged with murder, for operating the fake account?
@@annerose1925 Yes!! Their stories don’t make any sense. They should have called 911 the second they saw a strange man enter the house and they should have just stayed in the car until the police got there.
Bizarre behavior begets even more bizarre actions. Sad for the two victims who were probably unaware of what was going on w/o their knowledge of any of it.
Why did it take them so long to arrest the husband? As per who created the fake account, all they need to do is to check the time when the entries were made. I can bet those were times when Christine was at work at the hospital
His wife was much more attractive. What a heartless simp.
@@Constance-cl3wg his brain was obviously off kilter.
I dated a Brazilian woman... they love intimacy every day... don't underestimate that
As a man, I can see why he preferred the au pair. She was a younger, more energetic, more exotic Latina. His wife, on the other hand, was older and still carrying baby weight. But then again, even Kim Kardashian and Beyonce got cheated on so looks are irrelevant anyway.
"Death and destruction are never full, so the eyes of man are never satisfied."
- Proverbs 27:20✝
@@MiguelDLewishe was the one who contributed to putting the baby weight on her plus newsflash not every women can lose the weight afterward due to many reasons. It's shitty to leave your wife because of that.
@user-hj8vc2ix7p leaving her would have been very cruel, but at least she would still be alive.
Keep coming back every time in hopes of an actual diagnosis.
2 psychopaths.
you're not getting any of that here. Only speculation enjoyers around here
this is how i greet my psychiatrist each month
@nightcoreeclub LOL, I imagined myself saying this to my psychiatrist 😂
Why are all new houses so big and ugly like that? as a Designer, it absolutely bugs me how new (always overlarge) houses lack the attractiveness & style of the vernacular designs they’re meant to emulate by overblowing size at the expense of quality materials & craftsmanship. I know that’s not the whole point of this video. They just drive me nuts.
It will be the standard issue, as cost of labour and materials skyrocket, compromises need to be made, fine details are the first thing to be cut and the building style becomes far more cookie cutter because variety in building styles crushes efficiency. I'm sure America is the same as Australia and with our recent incredible inflation period, building companies have been dropping like flies, so increased efficiencies and cost cutting is the only way to keep operating, maybe....
I liked the house. Can’t say about the quality of the materials. One of the reasons I would visit the U.S. is because of the varied architecture.
It must be like that in a lot of places. I live in Germany, where spaces are (on average) much more tightly packed, and new houses here are usually ugly AND small. 🤣
Because architects don’t have a trade union …
@@honeybadger4245 I think it is the same in most countries these days whether the house is big or small. I kinda like that house though.
This is my favorite shirt you have.
Props for pronouncing her last name perfectly! Thats a tough one for non-Portuguese speakers
She wanted to live in a mansion, now she's in the Big House. Gotta love the irony. It also shows you to be careful what you wish for.
Love that shirt, sir. Have a nice day, and thanks for your time and hard work on these segments.
Infidelity doesn't lead to much good at all....
Always interesting
Digging the new background
Crazy about your shirt
Thank you❤
My wife wanted to hire a 21-year old Spanish nanny. I said no way. She couldn't understand why. I might send her this video.
😂
For once a smart married man… lol 😂
It appears some people think this is a wise decision on your part, but for me, it would cause some serious unease in our relationship if my husband outright dismissed my desire to hire a 21 year old nanny (regardless of ethnicity). I assume you have your reasoning, but my immediate reaction would be to think that my husband didn't trust himself around a woman in her young 20s. Or that even if my husband knew he would never make a move on her, he's still doubtful of his ability to remain faithful should a pretty young woman attempt to seduce him.
I think that by sending her this video, you would be nearly admitting to the latter (since it sounds like Dr. Grande and many others in the comments seem to think that Juliana probably initiated this affair, as a way of securing her future in the US with a husband who is well-off financially). Worst of all, she could take this video as your way of saying that some men, yourself included, shouldn't hire a young, beautiful au pair because not only do you lack the conviction to remain loyal, but you could also be coaxed into coming up with a convoluted murder plot with said au pair in order to get rid of your wife 😅 I just thought you may appreciate the perspective of a woman who is (perhaps) close to you and your wife in age (I'm 36)
I'm curious, if you see this and don't mind answering, would you be OK with her hiring a 21 year old male au pair?
@@hmmmmm64 remember Arnold.
maybe she wants to divorce hahaha, just kidding 🤭
an IRS agent needs to drive uber to make ends meet? That's incredible
The random dude paid for his fetish with his life. The lengths these two went to try to cover up their crimes is insane. They thought they were so clever and didn’t give to ffs about the other dude being collateral damage. They totally datelined the dude.
Boy, you are rockin' this shirt! Love it!
Great analysis of what possibly happened.
How did these two monsters think that no one would catch on to this? Investigators deal with these type of cases before and one suspicious thing will start them investigating.
This reminds me of the case of Mark can’t remember the last name. He set up the taxi man to come to his wife. All 3 are pure evil.
A Brazilian au pair... what could go wrong?
That’s not at all an over sexualized culture! 😂
I thought the same thing.
She could have gotten a botched bbl 😂
That Brazilian booty could prove too much for that family
A white husband. What could go wrong?... That's how your logics work
Came for the jokes, stayed for the shirt.
happy friday Dr Grande 🍸love the shirt!
NEVER NEVER NEVER invite a younger attractive female into your marital home. Really REALLY high percentage of affair happening. wives/mothers are completely deluded if they think its unlikely. It is HIGHLY likely.
It's even better to avoid moids in general
"She got her dream, now in the Big House".... savage lol
And the moral of this story fellas is keep it in your pants!
There's no doubt that Brendan was a model IRS employee........
My God! So many problems here which contributed to this: buying a 800k mansion on an IRS agent salary...Importing a young nanny from a developing country (ostensibly to save money due to high mortgage payments)...hiring a young girl as your nanny in the first frickin place...talk about setting yourself up for problems!!!
And as if IRS agents don't already have a bad enough reputation...this guy just comes in and proves to everyone that they're even worse than you thought lol.
LOL I kept wondering why all the family photos with the baby were being taken behind an open laptop. Then I realized it's a blackout square to block the baby's identity. Guess I need more coffee!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀
Corrupt federal agent, shock
I'm not diagnosing anyone in this comment, but Brendan Banfield suffers from what we psychology professionals would classify as
"Acute Shady as Fu@% Syndrome". The symptoms for this condition can include "Dizzy Spells" and "Plowing the Brazilian Au Pair"
🤣😂
Yay Dr. G with another one! Dr G is the GOAt 🐐
I hope to never become a subject of analyzation and speculation of Dr. Grande on this UA-cam channel. 😂
Why any wife would agree to bring a young single woman into her home is beyond me. What did she think was going to happen? (Not the murder part, but definitely the affair. It's pretty much a given.)
Dr. Grande, that shirt looks pretty good on you 👌🏾.
I love your shirts Dr Drande
Hi Dr Grande... what a weird story. Love your shirt! Thanks
Another lovely shirt Dr!!
Why can't people play nice and respect marriage vows? I guess that's just no fun, right?
I believe this convoluted plan is even more bizarre than Fotis Dulos & his mistress Michelle
Thank you, Dr. Grande!
Crikey, when I heard the introduction I thought actress Julianna Margulies, best known for her role as Carol Hathaway in the NBC medical drama series ER, had murdered someone!😬
I’ve seen one of these Au Pair affairs happen to someone I know, and they were the only person I knew that had an Au Pair 😂
It happens often. If you value your marriage, never get an au pair.
Love the shirt!
Wow! This case is really twisted!
Thank you❤❤❤Some very weird, evil, empty people out there😢😢😢
Nice shirt, doc!
'Schtupping your foreign housekeeper? How low can you go, bro?' - Arnold Schwarzenegger
Their stories don’t make any sense. They should have called 911 the second they saw a strange man enter the house and they should have just stayed in the car until the police got there.
Living in the BIG house. LOL
I will never understand cheating/affairs. Just leave!
money
There is massive financial losses and custody issues involved with divorce, a lot of false allegations. I understand why people try to avoid it, don't condone the actions, but I get their motivations.
Selfish to resort to this over divorce because of your own selfish affair. That is so foul.
"Keep it simple with food and murder." That's what my mom always said.
Nice shirt Dr.!
"...One thing was for certain: nothing could possibly go wrong..."
"On the day of the execution, something went wrong..."
Lmao
I feel so, so, so sad for Joseph. Such pure evil. The fact that he was a human being with a whole life meant nothing to those vile creatures. They used him like a pawn, lured him into a trap he had no reason to suspect. Makes me physically ill to think how excited he must have been, how he must have had connection with a profile he had no clue was a bait…
How do a irs agent and nurse afford a 700k home and pay a nanny???
Too speculative, needs more diagnoses.