Au Pair Affair Leads to Complex BDSM 'Self Defense' Killings | Juliana Magalhaes Case Analysis

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  • @dersolipsist3079
    @dersolipsist3079 2 місяці тому +457

    That poor little girl lost her whole world because her dad was a selfish coward.

    • @Oneorangejuice
      @Oneorangejuice Місяць тому +1

      😢

    • @blueStarKitt7924
      @blueStarKitt7924 27 днів тому +1

      😔😔😔 Yes. Disgusting and tragic.

    • @tenderstepsPaul
      @tenderstepsPaul 11 днів тому +2

      I don't understand these cases. I am an older single man who has always yearned for a partner, and to have a young daughter would be wonderful. The husband was very successful and had an attractive accomplished wife and he does what is alleged? I am nonplussed. And he kills an innocent stranger? The stranger is innocent whatever his unusual sexual proclivities. It is so saddening.

    • @marig9236
      @marig9236 10 днів тому

      yet another victim. smh

  • @LBdreamin
    @LBdreamin 2 місяці тому +521

    When Dr. Grande breaks out the hard party shirts, we know we’re about to speculate hard

  • @stkrdknmibalz8038
    @stkrdknmibalz8038 2 місяці тому +467

    Banging the nanny is so cliche.

    • @willer3399
      @willer3399 2 місяці тому +18

      “The Help”? 😷

    • @BigAura
      @BigAura 2 місяці тому +32

      Yep, no needed to be exceedingly-creepy, just run-of-the-mill-creepy.

    • @Heywood.Jablome
      @Heywood.Jablome 2 місяці тому +16

      Bow chicka bow wow

    • @captain_cgc2413
      @captain_cgc2413 2 місяці тому +5

      @@Heywood.Jablome spot on.

    • @Fractal_blip
      @Fractal_blip 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@@Heywood.Jablomethe 70s

  • @cybermandan1960
    @cybermandan1960 2 місяці тому +1066

    There's this super cool thing called divorce, where you can separate from your partner without serving a life sentence.

    • @ivannovotny4552
      @ivannovotny4552 2 місяці тому +28

      Great point!!

    • @bold810
      @bold810 2 місяці тому +13

      Well, most of these folks couldn't separate a S😢entence from a Conjugal.
      Verb, I mean. 😐

    • @nmccray4494
      @nmccray4494 2 місяці тому +26

      The only downside of that is that you can lose your money.

    • @wmpx34
      @wmpx34 2 місяці тому +14

      The Catholic Church: 😡

    • @cybermandan1960
      @cybermandan1960 2 місяці тому

      @@nmccray4494 Better to lose part of your money than all of your freedom.

  • @gregevans6044
    @gregevans6044 2 місяці тому +198

    I’ve never understood these affair partners believing they’ll just live happily ever after with one or more brutal murders as the means to their magical relationship. It seems even beyond a lack of conscience. Like extreme confusion.

    • @leekeene5889
      @leekeene5889 2 місяці тому +11

      Same thoughts. This may be extreme, but I also was thinking, how can she, he as well, sleep comfortably in this murdered woman’s bed? Aren’t they afraid of being haunted? Does any paranormal activity ever occur afterwards? What about the mental health consequences? How can they possibly have a healthy relationship moving forward and raising this woman’s child at that? And not even mentioning the whole investigation that’s going to cause anxiety and worry. I just don’t understand how they felt they were going to live happily after this.

    • @MH-ys2gd
      @MH-ys2gd 2 місяці тому +22

      also - if someone is capable of murdering his wife for an affair, that is driven by lust and dopamine and not love - who says he wont do the same to the new gf once the butterflies are gone ?

    • @theinnerlight8016
      @theinnerlight8016 2 місяці тому +12

      ​@@MH-ys2gdExactly!
      That's why you don't get involved with someone who is already in a relationship. Do they leave their partner for you, they'll leave you for the next person.

    • @Hud23
      @Hud23 2 місяці тому +6

      It's almost like they are insane

    • @alisonmercer5946
      @alisonmercer5946 Місяць тому +1

      Yep

  • @888Longball
    @888Longball 2 місяці тому +297

    Wow, wife killed and Juliana immediately puts up pictures and moves her clothes into the master bedroom. Psychopath!

    • @lf9341
      @lf9341 2 місяці тому +51

      When 2 psychopaths meet.

    • @musiczkl98
      @musiczkl98 2 місяці тому +30

      average latina

    • @Theeverydaymistic
      @Theeverydaymistic 2 місяці тому +10

      @@musiczkl98😂

    • @spacejaime
      @spacejaime 2 місяці тому +5

      @@lf9341 - exactly!

    • @emmel4fun
      @emmel4fun 2 місяці тому +6

      ​@@musiczkl98You've met Latinas who did this?

  • @GP-fw8hn
    @GP-fw8hn 2 місяці тому +222

    So reprehensible. And now this 4 year old little boy has to live with the fact that his father murdered his mother.

    • @ahalfemptycup
      @ahalfemptycup 2 місяці тому +22

      To hook up with his nanny.

    • @lf9341
      @lf9341 2 місяці тому +30

      Girl.

    • @jadeybaby007
      @jadeybaby007 2 місяці тому +14

      Girl, dude. Little girl. lol

    • @ronald3836
      @ronald3836 Місяць тому +1

      @@jadeybaby007 We don't know yet. They is just 4 :)

    • @jadeybaby007
      @jadeybaby007 Місяць тому +4

      @@ronald3836 In order to tell the accurate details of the case (as it stands today), the child in question is their daughter.
      Who that daughter chooses to be 20 years from now holds no relevance to the case nor is it any of our concern. 🙃

  • @RullXov
    @RullXov 2 місяці тому +184

    So an IRS criminal investigator fails at getting away with murder...kind of ironic.

    • @x77punk77x
      @x77punk77x 2 місяці тому +14

      Dude is (was) IRS not FBI (yet another presence in the DMV). Definitely not the logistical genius he thought he was, plus as fathers used to sagely say to their sons, “never let the little head think for the big head”…

    • @RullXov
      @RullXov 2 місяці тому +5

      @@x77punk77x - No one said he was FBI..😐

    • @xpallodoc1147
      @xpallodoc1147 2 місяці тому +5

      @@RullXovhe’s a government accountant of course he failed

    • @gobblegoblin
      @gobblegoblin 2 місяці тому +7

      This is the typical moral compass of an IRS agent.

    • @gymnast1284
      @gymnast1284 Місяць тому

      The delusion is STRONG in that one! Utterly disgusting.

  • @thelocalmaladroit8873
    @thelocalmaladroit8873 2 місяці тому +127

    I guess getting a divorce was just too simple.

    • @MiguelDLewis
      @MiguelDLewis 2 місяці тому +11

      Alimony.

    • @anonanon1982
      @anonanon1982 2 місяці тому +18

      @@MiguelDLewis Alimony beats prison, in my opinion.

    • @MiguelDLewis
      @MiguelDLewis 2 місяці тому +6

      @@anonanon1982 That's because you're a wise person.

    • @alisonmercer5946
      @alisonmercer5946 Місяць тому +4

      Idkhis they think theyll get away with it. What do they say aftef they get caught?

  • @DMRoper1
    @DMRoper1 2 місяці тому +187

    Born in the early 2000s. Gosh! That's like yesterday to me. Surreal to hear that someone born so recently now a front page murderess.

    • @otherworlder1
      @otherworlder1 2 місяці тому +9

      Then he said the couple was born in 1985. I graduated high school in 1985! God I’m old 😂😭😂😭😭😭

    • @FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij
      @FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij 2 місяці тому +3

      I hear you! Same with some of the more terrible crimes committed today!
      It feels like James Bulger’s deranged killers don’t seem as rare to me but maybe it’s because more coverage today?

    • @nixm9093
      @nixm9093 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ijI've often wondered about that... Are there more violent crimes or just more coverage. I think its both

    • @lololnope34567
      @lololnope34567 2 місяці тому +4

      Ikr. I was born in 1998 but anyone born after 2000 in the news makes me feel old 😂

    • @otherworlder1
      @otherworlder1 2 місяці тому

      @@nixm9093 I think it’s both too but more coverage for sure.

  • @megsley
    @megsley 2 місяці тому +47

    I was friends with Joe Ryan in real life - he was kind of a weird guy but not bad. He played Dagorhir with my husband (his game name was Korac) and he'd make us laugh doing his weird caveman yells and screeches all night. Joe had always been meeting strangers on the internet for hookups (one woman stole his dog Molly and disappeared the dog forever). Joe didn't deserve what happened to him at all RIP Korac.

  • @50sVintage
    @50sVintage 2 місяці тому +58

    I love that Dr. Grande brought back the brick wall background. I missed it! The neon(?) lower backlighting is cool also.

    • @garthg.6150
      @garthg.6150 2 місяці тому +4

      Looks like an upgraded brick wall.

  •  2 місяці тому +76

    They killed an innocent guy to cover up their nonsense.

    • @DevMfWalker
      @DevMfWalker Місяць тому +3

      They guy could've very well been innocent idk. But he did manage to get this guys wife completely naked, ontop of her in the bed with a knife to her throat and then stabbed the woman . So something doesn't seem right with that picture..

  • @mchristian99
    @mchristian99 2 місяці тому +93

    His wife had way more going on than the murderer.
    Rest well Christine

    • @DickyPasedena
      @DickyPasedena Місяць тому

      I agree. Christine was beautiful. Julianna looks like an ogre in comparison to her.

    • @blueStarKitt7924
      @blueStarKitt7924 27 днів тому

      Yes.😔

  • @jessicabrittany1682
    @jessicabrittany1682 2 місяці тому +110

    Also, if they were afraid someone was in the house, why did they bring the child in? Furthermore, how did the nanny know that the basement was safe and head directly down there? That detail is pretty incriminating to me

    • @paolavitale5013
      @paolavitale5013 2 місяці тому +3

      the only thing I don’t understand is why was the wife naked? did she accept to play along with this guy or was she forced to take her clothes off?

    • @MrTeshy1234
      @MrTeshy1234 2 місяці тому +3

      Also why did the guy kill Christine, that can’t have been part of the fetish, what did he aim to achieve by doing that? Did Brendan and Juliana kill Christine with knife after shooting the guy?

    • @beautifulsunset4071
      @beautifulsunset4071 2 місяці тому

      I thought the same

    • @daleycarter
      @daleycarter Місяць тому +3

      ​@@MrTeshy1234they shot the guy, then stabbed the wife, as explained in the video

    • @brightballoon
      @brightballoon Місяць тому

      @@paolavitale5013 I'm guessing she, like me, maybe is just naked at home all the time. You'll never find me wearing clothes at home, ever. Not for sexual reasons in the least bit, just how some ppl are comfortable when given the choice. (or maybe even just had taken a shower or was changing clothes, etc.)

  • @BigZebraCom
    @BigZebraCom 2 місяці тому +225

    Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating on the divisiveness of floral plants on my shirt versus the cacti in the background. It's botanical maddness! Madness!

    • @plantagardenforever
      @plantagardenforever 2 місяці тому +8

      😂

    • @yesyes3553
      @yesyes3553 2 місяці тому +5

      😂

    • @Eric-10101
      @Eric-10101 2 місяці тому +7

      @@BigZebraCom IT’S A MAD HOUSE!! A MADDDDD HOUUUSE!!

    • @BigZebraCom
      @BigZebraCom 2 місяці тому +4

      @@Eric-10101 Yes I believe you're right!

    • @MrCC82
      @MrCC82 2 місяці тому +5

      I can only read that with his voice.

  • @Kikinz87
    @Kikinz87 2 місяці тому +144

    She gets to live her dream in a very big house with lots of rooms.

    • @annacomnena217
      @annacomnena217 2 місяці тому +1

      4400 sq.ft. and five bedrooms.

    • @vickichristensen422
      @vickichristensen422 2 місяці тому +2

      Prison​@@annacomnena217

    • @Kikinz87
      @Kikinz87 2 місяці тому +18

      @@annacomnena217 and ensuite i was referring to prison lol

    • @pauguste6559
      @pauguste6559 Місяць тому +1

      We must be careful what we wish or ask for 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @CharlesVanNoland
    @CharlesVanNoland 2 місяці тому +59

    Imagine how often this stuff happens, except the people get away with it, so we never hear about it.

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva 2 місяці тому +9

      I always think of that with these cases. Because there’s quite a few of em.

    • @daleycarter
      @daleycarter Місяць тому +4

      Rarely, I'd imagine. The people willing to do these thing's are rarely as clever as they think they are.

  • @DottieMinerva
    @DottieMinerva 2 місяці тому +29

    Poor Christine. And the poor daughter who had the 3 adults she saw every day disappear. I hope she’s in a good situation now.

  • @carfo
    @carfo 2 місяці тому +191

    just. get. a. divorce.

    • @shamusosullivan5650
      @shamusosullivan5650 2 місяці тому +9

      If psychology was just that easy, right?

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 2 місяці тому +17

      @@shamusosullivan5650it really is that easy

    • @jhozthron4415
      @jhozthron4415 2 місяці тому +12

      Just stay single, problem solved. 😉

    • @davidglad
      @davidglad 2 місяці тому +7

      To be fair, if there was a Vegas style quick and inexpensive divorce process in the courts, there likely would be far fewer cases of this version of divorce. Which, given somebody is disproportionately rewarded for breaking a contract when it is no longer convenient, is why I choose not to marry in the first place rather than counting on a judge (and subsequent laws) to uphold a prenup.

    • @ivannovotny4552
      @ivannovotny4552 2 місяці тому +2

      @carfo
      That would be too logical.

  • @sweetjohnny8211
    @sweetjohnny8211 2 місяці тому +106

    Dr. Grande is always out here flexing his cool shirts!

    • @wobogoat3379
      @wobogoat3379 2 місяці тому +9

      I'm pretty sure he's doing this Videos Just to show His collections of shirts.

  • @sarahspencer-me1us
    @sarahspencer-me1us 2 місяці тому +88

    Hiring sexy young women to come and live in your home with your husband is such a strange choice.

    • @user-hj8vc2ix7p
      @user-hj8vc2ix7p 2 місяці тому +23

      Self control is also a thing. Maybe she thought even though she was attractive he could stay faithful to their wedding vows. Shocker

    • @justmeagain7
      @justmeagain7 2 місяці тому +6

      Everyday problems, combined with the challenges of raising a child, are difficult enough.
      Avoid adding tension to your marriage.Do not bring another woman into your home-whether it's a friend, sister, mother, or a babysitter. Sooner or later, it will lead to conflicts in your marriage.

    • @sunnydelight5255
      @sunnydelight5255 2 місяці тому

      @@user-hj8vc2ix7pAnd 99% of them never can control themself.

    • @johncmitchell4941
      @johncmitchell4941 2 місяці тому

      @@user-hj8vc2ix7p It was 100% up to him to be faithful to those vows regardless of the younger Woman's plan or appeal. Self vs sane behavior. Life w/o parole for both killers and prayers for the Daughter.

    • @rainbowsnsunshineverywhereigo
      @rainbowsnsunshineverywhereigo 2 місяці тому

      @@user-hj8vc2ix7pliterally, as if it’s her fault for hiring someone who happened to look good. Or her fault for looking good. And somehow not his fault for lying cheating being an adulterer and committing indefinitely and breaking his vows. Dumb

  • @cameronb851
    @cameronb851 2 місяці тому +68

    "... It was all perfect. One thing was for certain, nothing could possibly go wrong! Right after they executed the plan, something went wrong."
    Love the dry humour. Great video, as usual.

    • @gossamer9966
      @gossamer9966 2 місяці тому +3

      Their plan was just about the stupidest idea Ive heard in awhile! The whole scheme would be laughable if it weren't so tragic.

  • @canileaveitblank1476
    @canileaveitblank1476 2 місяці тому +89

    Hire a young, attractive woman to live in your home. How does any married couple make this choice?
    I’ll never understand.

    • @largeautomobile
      @largeautomobile 2 місяці тому +3

      Right, what kind of idiot wife trusts their husband not to cheat? /s

    • @maryrichardson6029
      @maryrichardson6029 2 місяці тому +17

      My best friend hired a college student.
      She wanted to let people she had live in hired help.
      It was all for show.
      Blew up in her face BIG TIME.

    • @GoAskAlice23
      @GoAskAlice23 2 місяці тому +16

      Especially when they come from a developing country.

    • @MonarchPoolPlaster
      @MonarchPoolPlaster 2 місяці тому +11

      Sheesh having female friends must be like being friends with a rattlesnake. Actually the rattlesnake gives you the benefit of a warning at least so it's worse.

    • @FreeminderXIII
      @FreeminderXIII 2 місяці тому +8

      Well his wife gave him the benefit of the doubt and he failed miserably

  • @paolavitale5013
    @paolavitale5013 2 місяці тому +62

    I was an aupair in the US 10 years ago. I went there to improve my English and learn how to be responsible for myself, I also loved taking care of children. During my time as an aupair I did encounter girls who slept with the husbands and voluntarily ruined marriages and children’s lives. The husbands are obviously to be blamed first, but I did hear these girls celebrating winning these men over, like they had some sort of sick challenge against the wives. I was young but deeply disgusted by their stories and unfortunately these girls were rematched by the aupair agency to other unknowing poor families.

    • @ninamartinez5596
      @ninamartinez5596 2 місяці тому +13

      I will NEVER understand the au pair thing!

    • @labotraduc8448
      @labotraduc8448 2 місяці тому +4

      That's appaling, so sad.

    • @augustek5382
      @augustek5382 2 місяці тому +10

      yeah, it is pretty gross going after someone's husband (or husbands going after aupair). You would think those aupair girls can date plenty of single men in the area.

    • @daleycarter
      @daleycarter Місяць тому +7

      Both equal in blame

    • @fimmt684
      @fimmt684 Місяць тому +3

      Which countries were these girls from? I was an Au Pair and never heard such a thing..

  • @ministerofdarkness
    @ministerofdarkness 2 місяці тому +100

    Juliana went for the American Dream and ended up with the American Nightmare.

    • @GoAskAlice23
      @GoAskAlice23 2 місяці тому

      Prisons in the United States are far superior to those in other countries.

    • @maddielu5286
      @maddielu5286 Місяць тому +3

      Or she became the nightmare herself. Imagine the victims' last moments

    • @juvskolimowzski8043
      @juvskolimowzski8043 Місяць тому

      As a Brazilian, I feel embarrassed by the murderous nanny.

  • @roberthopkins3621
    @roberthopkins3621 2 місяці тому +24

    Omg , Dr Grande , your shirt is fabulous and so are you .

  • @chris55529
    @chris55529 2 місяці тому +73

    A gun-safe in the BATHROOM?! Tony Montana was less paranoid.

  • @aurorincorporated
    @aurorincorporated 2 місяці тому +18

    Love the shirt, hate the tragedy.
    Go, Grande, go! :)
    Greetings from Estonia 😇

  • @christianebraga7551
    @christianebraga7551 2 місяці тому +204

    As a Brazilian, I can guarantee you that in Brazil, they would've gotten away with this stupid story 100%, so I can understand her reasoning, but for the guy to think that that was a good idea, is just beyond ridiculous.

    • @Olivier_Odorant
      @Olivier_Odorant 2 місяці тому +23

      Yep, certeza. Ela provavelmente ainda se tornaria uma influencer.

    • @ahalfemptycup
      @ahalfemptycup 2 місяці тому +10

      Hmm so she was the one talking him into it

    • @fritzidler9871
      @fritzidler9871 2 місяці тому +14

      @@ahalfemptycup Yes. I'm surprised he didn't try that one, "She did it! It was all her idea!"

    • @holdencawffle626
      @holdencawffle626 2 місяці тому

      Brazilian here. Your comment makes us Brazilians sound like morons
      Was that your aim?

    • @christianebraga7551
      @christianebraga7551 2 місяці тому +15

      ​@@Olivier_Odorantia vender curso de como vencer nos Estados Unidos 😂

  • @Stargazergirl104
    @Stargazergirl104 2 місяці тому +8

    I’m so glad you announced the husband was arrested! Did they really think they’d get away with it? So sad

  • @blkcat93
    @blkcat93 2 місяці тому +44

    Oh she found her "big house'. Savage!

  • @Drew-g5m
    @Drew-g5m 2 місяці тому +16

    That big-house joke was one of your best ever!

  • @Eric-10101
    @Eric-10101 2 місяці тому +63

    If this is truly how it played out, imagine how terrified the wife must have been with all this madness unfolding in front of her without a clue. So tragic. Also that poor SOB just wanted to have some fun. The story must have been too good to be true for him. What a story.

    • @annerose1925
      @annerose1925 2 місяці тому +16

      Yes. And the 4 year old in the basement? The basement? What parent would put a child in the basement if he or she knew there was a stranger in the house? Wouldn’t you tell the nanny to remain outside in the car with the 4 year old until you knew who the man who entered the house was!

    • @Eric-10101
      @Eric-10101 2 місяці тому +1

      @@annerose1925 I’m gonna need to listen to this again and pay more attention because I totally missed that since I had it on in the background! That sounds horrific.

    • @canileaveitblank1476
      @canileaveitblank1476 2 місяці тому +7

      ⁠@@annerose1925 Their cover story was horrible from the jump! Nanny doesn’t call 911 when strange man enters house? Husband doesn’t call 911 when he supposedly hears a strange man entered his house?
      And it went downhill from there!

    • @foxxrider250r
      @foxxrider250r 2 місяці тому

      @@canileaveitblank1476 Can you explain what actually happened? Grande didnt really even specify. The husband/nanny were charged with murder, for operating the fake account?

    • @Eric-10101
      @Eric-10101 2 місяці тому

      @@annerose1925 Yes!! Their stories don’t make any sense. They should have called 911 the second they saw a strange man enter the house and they should have just stayed in the car until the police got there.

  • @loiskondo8349
    @loiskondo8349 2 місяці тому +21

    And the poor orphaned little girl! Thank you Dr. Grande for another interesting video 😊

  • @frakismaximus3052
    @frakismaximus3052 2 місяці тому +34

    Infidelity doesn't lead to much good at all....

  • @LoxodontaZA
    @LoxodontaZA 2 місяці тому +17

    One of the most astonishing things about these cases is how different the people look in their mugshots. No makeup, drab, glamour gone. And the consummate ease which with people kill, fully expecting to get away with it.

  • @susanmann5286
    @susanmann5286 2 місяці тому +42

    It is interesting that someone who spent his entire career speculating about ways folks try to hide money from the IRS fell into this plan.

  • @platinumwarrior1309
    @platinumwarrior1309 2 місяці тому +16

    Can’t imagine Christine’s horror as she was tied down by a stranger at knife point. Stranger gets shot. For a moment she thinks she is saved by her husband and nanny but then Brendon and/or Juliana start stabbing her to death.
    That poor little girl has to grown up now with daddy killed mommy backstory. Extremely sad. Spicy af as far as murder stories go tho ngl

  • @ambergriffes6122
    @ambergriffes6122 2 місяці тому +12

    Good afternoon Dr. Grande! Thank you for your informative analysis on this despicable crime. How horrible and selfish of them. They seem to have no regard at all for the little girls' well-being, or the victims and their families 😢

  • @PukeyMcDork
    @PukeyMcDork 2 місяці тому +20

    "purchased by the death of two innocent victims." Dr Grande amazing volume of output this case was complex yours was the first time i understood what actually happened. This will be a Netflix movie soon i'm sure. The writing of this channel is absolutely top notch

  • @Constance-cl3wg
    @Constance-cl3wg 2 місяці тому +108

    His wife was much more attractive. What a heartless simp.

    • @d.h.fremont3027
      @d.h.fremont3027 2 місяці тому +2

      @@Constance-cl3wg his brain was obviously off kilter.

    • @FLAC2023
      @FLAC2023 2 місяці тому +10

      I dated a Brazilian woman... they love intimacy every day... don't underestimate that

    • @MiguelDLewis
      @MiguelDLewis 2 місяці тому +15

      As a man, I can see why he preferred the au pair. She was a younger, more energetic, more exotic Latina. His wife, on the other hand, was older and still carrying baby weight. But then again, even Kim Kardashian and Beyonce got cheated on so looks are irrelevant anyway.
      "Death and destruction are never full, so the eyes of man are never satisfied."
      - Proverbs 27:20✝

    • @user-hj8vc2ix7p
      @user-hj8vc2ix7p 2 місяці тому +9

      ​@@MiguelDLewishe was the one who contributed to putting the baby weight on her plus newsflash not every women can lose the weight afterward due to many reasons. It's shitty to leave your wife because of that.

    • @justmeagain7
      @justmeagain7 2 місяці тому +9

      ​@user-hj8vc2ix7p leaving her would have been very cruel, but at least she would still be alive.

  • @christiandulaney1638
    @christiandulaney1638 2 місяці тому +10

    Props for pronouncing her last name perfectly! Thats a tough one for non-Portuguese speakers

  • @JefftheSabaDude
    @JefftheSabaDude 2 місяці тому +34

    The safest use of an au pair would seem to be by a single working mother with parents nearby who are involved with the family. My British Mum was partially raised by a Danish and French au pair during WW2 while my Gramma worked in the war effort. That worked out well for all concerned.

    • @augustek5382
      @augustek5382 2 місяці тому +3

      In Europe people don't sexualize each other as much as in the US.

    • @elgrs5756
      @elgrs5756 Місяць тому +3

      @@augustek5382They do it all the time in Europe actually

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 Місяць тому +1

      @@augustek5382 People are people, this crap happens in Europe just as much. Europeans are in no way shape or form superior to others in morals or attitude.

    • @paradoxicalcat7173
      @paradoxicalcat7173 Місяць тому

      LOL! Europeans are way worse for this kind of thing! They just like to play the "holier-than-thou" card. It's part of the deception of being socialist.

  • @timekeeper13
    @timekeeper13 2 місяці тому +33

    Keep coming back every time in hopes of an actual diagnosis.

    • @lf9341
      @lf9341 2 місяці тому +5

      2 psychopaths.

    • @reingp
      @reingp 2 місяці тому +7

      you're not getting any of that here. Only speculation enjoyers around here

    • @nightcoreeclub
      @nightcoreeclub 2 місяці тому +5

      this is how i greet my psychiatrist each month

    • @PannaGiza
      @PannaGiza 2 місяці тому

      @nightcoreeclub LOL, I imagined myself saying this to my psychiatrist 😂

  • @wendybond2848
    @wendybond2848 2 місяці тому +14

    Why is life held so cheaply by some people? Not only the victims, but the poor little girl who is without a mother.

  • @karis7649
    @karis7649 2 місяці тому +43

    Why are all new houses so big and ugly like that? as a Designer, it absolutely bugs me how new (always overlarge) houses lack the attractiveness & style of the vernacular designs they’re meant to emulate by overblowing size at the expense of quality materials & craftsmanship. I know that’s not the whole point of this video. They just drive me nuts.

    • @kingcosworth2643
      @kingcosworth2643 2 місяці тому +3

      It will be the standard issue, as cost of labour and materials skyrocket, compromises need to be made, fine details are the first thing to be cut and the building style becomes far more cookie cutter because variety in building styles crushes efficiency. I'm sure America is the same as Australia and with our recent incredible inflation period, building companies have been dropping like flies, so increased efficiencies and cost cutting is the only way to keep operating, maybe....

    • @wendybond2848
      @wendybond2848 2 місяці тому +2

      I liked the house. Can’t say about the quality of the materials. One of the reasons I would visit the U.S. is because of the varied architecture.

    • @honeybadger4245
      @honeybadger4245 2 місяці тому +2

      It must be like that in a lot of places. I live in Germany, where spaces are (on average) much more tightly packed, and new houses here are usually ugly AND small. 🤣

    • @canary_inthecoalmine
      @canary_inthecoalmine 2 місяці тому +2

      Because architects don’t have a trade union …

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 Місяць тому

      @@honeybadger4245 I think it is the same in most countries these days whether the house is big or small. I kinda like that house though.

  • @philipwurm5121
    @philipwurm5121 2 місяці тому +43

    If you just shot a guy in the head why would you tell your babysitter to go get a gun out of a safe or whatever when you still have a full clip????

    • @TL-pb6sz
      @TL-pb6sz 2 місяці тому +9

      Doesn't sound like they were criminal masterminds

    • @blaisebaileyfinnegan8202
      @blaisebaileyfinnegan8202 2 місяці тому +4

      *Magazine. A clip is different.

    • @philipwurm5121
      @philipwurm5121 2 місяці тому +3

      @@blaisebaileyfinnegan8202 whatever ya call it. I’m sure he had More than 1 round

    • @danieledugre1837
      @danieledugre1837 2 місяці тому +2

      How would anyone know the difference between the different types of guns? He sent her for a Glock and she knew what to get? I live in Canada and have never seen more than one type and that was a shotgun owned by a farmer.

    • @leekeene5889
      @leekeene5889 2 місяці тому +3

      Right. Her sole priority should’ve been getting the baby to safety. The dad was armed and had it under control, very odd.

  • @JohnMack-f3f
    @JohnMack-f3f 2 місяці тому +10

    I know this is the most accurate, concise and thoughtful analysis on this case online.

  • @billiejodix4560
    @billiejodix4560 2 місяці тому +18

    This is my favorite shirt you have.

  • @ehrgeiz0
    @ehrgeiz0 2 місяці тому +11

    She wanted to live in a mansion, now she's in the Big House. Gotta love the irony. It also shows you to be careful what you wish for.

  • @bthomson
    @bthomson 2 місяці тому +35

    As an IRS investigator Brandon should have been well aware of the ability of the police to solve crimes! This ham-handed murder plot was ridiculous! To involve a young foreigner, who nevertheless should have behaved with much more morality, was horrible and totally selfish!

    • @ItsAllFakeAndGhey
      @ItsAllFakeAndGhey 2 місяці тому +9

      you must not be familiar with Brazil and 3rd world/developing nations. Money, not morality is king.

    • @davidyoung5800
      @davidyoung5800 2 місяці тому +5

      @@76UVBhe worked for the IRS so it’s safe to say that he was not one of the best and the brightest.

    • @FilmArtPhoto
      @FilmArtPhoto 2 місяці тому +2

      His Mid-Life Crisis went completely off the rails!

    • @rr-sp5ii
      @rr-sp5ii 2 місяці тому

      ​@@ItsAllFakeAndGhey money is king everywhere. Look at US politicians that are worshiped only for having money.

  • @rampant59
    @rampant59 2 місяці тому +14

    Bizarre behavior begets even more bizarre actions. Sad for the two victims who were probably unaware of what was going on w/o their knowledge of any of it.

  • @thereasonableconsumer
    @thereasonableconsumer 2 місяці тому +5

    Love that shirt, sir. Have a nice day, and thanks for your time and hard work on these segments.

  • @maryrichardson6029
    @maryrichardson6029 2 місяці тому +5

    Always interesting
    Digging the new background
    Crazy about your shirt
    Thank you❤

  • @shedokoye8314
    @shedokoye8314 2 місяці тому +14

    Why did it take them so long to arrest the husband? As per who created the fake account, all they need to do is to check the time when the entries were made. I can bet those were times when Christine was at work at the hospital

  • @SchachtStudio
    @SchachtStudio 2 місяці тому +5

    Boy, you are rockin' this shirt! Love it!

  • @cleopatra444
    @cleopatra444 2 місяці тому +9

    happy friday Dr Grande 🍸love the shirt!

  • @curtgomes
    @curtgomes 2 місяці тому +23

    There's no doubt that Brendan was a model IRS employee........

  • @heystarfish100
    @heystarfish100 2 місяці тому +7

    I hope to never become a subject of analyzation and speculation of Dr. Grande on this UA-cam channel. 😂

  • @stephenpemberton85
    @stephenpemberton85 2 місяці тому +18

    And the moral of this story fellas is keep it in your pants!

  • @mtonitonit2456
    @mtonitonit2456 2 місяці тому +8

    Great analysis of what possibly happened.

  • @cadillacdeville5828
    @cadillacdeville5828 2 місяці тому +6

    Dr. Grande, that shirt looks pretty good on you 👌🏾.

  • @hmmmmm64
    @hmmmmm64 2 місяці тому +124

    My wife wanted to hire a 21-year old Spanish nanny. I said no way. She couldn't understand why. I might send her this video.

    • @maestroslifestyle1519
      @maestroslifestyle1519 2 місяці тому +11

      😂

    • @MissysAngels
      @MissysAngels 2 місяці тому +35

      For once a smart married man… lol 😂

    • @Throatzillaaa
      @Throatzillaaa 2 місяці тому

      It appears some people think this is a wise decision on your part, but for me, it would cause some serious unease in our relationship if my husband outright dismissed my desire to hire a 21 year old nanny (regardless of ethnicity). I assume you have your reasoning, but my immediate reaction would be to think that my husband didn't trust himself around a woman in her young 20s. Or that even if my husband knew he would never make a move on her, he's still doubtful of his ability to remain faithful should a pretty young woman attempt to seduce him.
      I think that by sending her this video, you would be nearly admitting to the latter (since it sounds like Dr. Grande and many others in the comments seem to think that Juliana probably initiated this affair, as a way of securing her future in the US with a husband who is well-off financially). Worst of all, she could take this video as your way of saying that some men, yourself included, shouldn't hire a young, beautiful au pair because not only do you lack the conviction to remain loyal, but you could also be coaxed into coming up with a convoluted murder plot with said au pair in order to get rid of your wife 😅 I just thought you may appreciate the perspective of a woman who is (perhaps) close to you and your wife in age (I'm 36)
      I'm curious, if you see this and don't mind answering, would you be OK with her hiring a 21 year old male au pair?

    • @d.h.fremont3027
      @d.h.fremont3027 2 місяці тому +5

      @@hmmmmm64 remember Arnold.

    • @Angiesensei.
      @Angiesensei. 2 місяці тому +15

      maybe she wants to divorce hahaha, just kidding 🤭

  • @Robin-xt7yo
    @Robin-xt7yo 2 місяці тому +20

    Yay Dr. G with another one! Dr G is the GOAt 🐐

  • @kenmore01
    @kenmore01 2 місяці тому +17

    LOL I kept wondering why all the family photos with the baby were being taken behind an open laptop. Then I realized it's a blackout square to block the baby's identity. Guess I need more coffee!

  • @cale115
    @cale115 2 місяці тому +38

    Corrupt federal agent, shock

  • @maxshea1829
    @maxshea1829 2 місяці тому +15

    Why can't people play nice and respect marriage vows? I guess that's just no fun, right?

  • @Delicate_Disaster
    @Delicate_Disaster 2 місяці тому +14

    I will never understand cheating/affairs. Just leave!

    • @lf9341
      @lf9341 2 місяці тому +3

      money

    • @kingcosworth2643
      @kingcosworth2643 2 місяці тому

      There is massive financial losses and custody issues involved with divorce, a lot of false allegations. I understand why people try to avoid it, don't condone the actions, but I get their motivations.

  • @GeorginaJett
    @GeorginaJett 2 місяці тому +10

    NEVER NEVER NEVER invite a younger attractive female into your marital home. Really REALLY high percentage of affair happening. wives/mothers are completely deluded if they think its unlikely. It is HIGHLY likely.

    • @awi1316
      @awi1316 Місяць тому

      It's even better to avoid moids in general

  • @gaiaiulia
    @gaiaiulia 2 місяці тому +22

    Love the shirt!

  • @lexisdw
    @lexisdw 2 місяці тому +7

    an IRS agent needs to drive uber to make ends meet? That's incredible

  • @rosem5361
    @rosem5361 2 місяці тому +37

    I know a lot of Brazilians and this sounds 100% like what a Brazilian woman would do😂😂😂 beware!

    • @JIMMILLS-vo4dw
      @JIMMILLS-vo4dw 2 місяці тому +1

      Yes, they’re magnificent

    • @dianacosta1000
      @dianacosta1000 2 місяці тому +3

      As a Brazilian woman I completely disagree.

    • @dianacosta1000
      @dianacosta1000 2 місяці тому +3

      @BlackRock.Owns.America that's incorrect, ma'am/sir

    • @carsonc6659
      @carsonc6659 Місяць тому

      So. Let's see. I'm Italian German descendent. I'm American/Italian/Brazilian citizen. I'd never get involved with a married man.

    • @rosem5361
      @rosem5361 Місяць тому

      @@carsonc6659 you have 1/3 the chance then😂😂

  • @lifeontheX
    @lifeontheX 2 місяці тому +17

    Came for the jokes, stayed for the shirt.

  • @LúciaKitten
    @LúciaKitten 2 місяці тому +5

    Thank you, Dr. Grande!

  • @glendasully
    @glendasully 2 місяці тому +5

    I believe this convoluted plan is even more bizarre than Fotis Dulos & his mistress Michelle

  • @helenneka2049
    @helenneka2049 2 місяці тому +7

    I love your shirts Dr Drande

  • @kristentrep5038
    @kristentrep5038 2 місяці тому +2

    Another lovely shirt Dr!!

  • @ItsAllFakeAndGhey
    @ItsAllFakeAndGhey 2 місяці тому +7

    My God! So many problems here which contributed to this: buying a 800k mansion on an IRS agent salary...Importing a young nanny from a developing country (ostensibly to save money due to high mortgage payments)...hiring a young girl as your nanny in the first frickin place...talk about setting yourself up for problems!!!
    And as if IRS agents don't already have a bad enough reputation...this guy just comes in and proves to everyone that they're even worse than you thought lol.

  • @JFirn86Q
    @JFirn86Q 2 місяці тому +9

    "She got her dream, now in the Big House".... savage lol

  • @Dawn-f7g
    @Dawn-f7g 2 місяці тому +5

    Thank you❤❤❤Some very weird, evil, empty people out there😢😢😢

  • @lornaginetteharrison7168
    @lornaginetteharrison7168 2 місяці тому +5

    Crikey, when I heard the introduction I thought actress Julianna Margulies, best known for her role as Carol Hathaway in the NBC medical drama series ER, had murdered someone!😬

  • @sunnydelight5255
    @sunnydelight5255 2 місяці тому +7

    How did these two monsters think that no one would catch on to this? Investigators deal with these type of cases before and one suspicious thing will start them investigating.
    This reminds me of the case of Mark can’t remember the last name. He set up the taxi man to come to his wife. All 3 are pure evil.

  • @SprucedandGussied
    @SprucedandGussied 2 місяці тому +8

    The random dude paid for his fetish with his life. The lengths these two went to try to cover up their crimes is insane. They thought they were so clever and didn’t give to ffs about the other dude being collateral damage. They totally datelined the dude.

  • @awalkinthedark5267
    @awalkinthedark5267 2 місяці тому +6

    Nice shirt, doc!

  • @cosmicgirl1116
    @cosmicgirl1116 2 місяці тому +2

    Hi Dr Grande... what a weird story. Love your shirt! Thanks

  • @Low-KeyCollector
    @Low-KeyCollector 2 місяці тому +87

    A Brazilian au pair... what could go wrong?

    • @canileaveitblank1476
      @canileaveitblank1476 2 місяці тому +25

      That’s not at all an over sexualized culture! 😂

    • @captain_cgc2413
      @captain_cgc2413 2 місяці тому +7

      I thought the same thing.

    • @Eric-10101
      @Eric-10101 2 місяці тому +6

      She could have gotten a botched bbl 😂

    • @Eric-10101
      @Eric-10101 2 місяці тому

      That Brazilian booty could prove too much for that family

    • @alexsky104
      @alexsky104 2 місяці тому +8

      A white husband. What could go wrong?... That's how your logics work

  • @EarthIsSmall
    @EarthIsSmall 2 місяці тому +17

    Too speculative, needs more diagnoses.

  • @chrismahoney4972
    @chrismahoney4972 2 місяці тому +6

    Nice shirt Dr.!

  • @reggiebenes2916
    @reggiebenes2916 2 місяці тому +7

    I'm not diagnosing anyone in this comment, but Brendan Banfield suffers from what we psychology professionals would classify as
    "Acute Shady as Fu@% Syndrome". The symptoms for this condition can include "Dizzy Spells" and "Plowing the Brazilian Au Pair"

    • @j3suisd3
      @j3suisd3 2 місяці тому +1

      🤣😂

  • @rbffbvs
    @rbffbvs 2 місяці тому +8

    Wow! This case is really twisted!

  • @KimberlyLetsGo
    @KimberlyLetsGo 2 місяці тому +18

    Living in the BIG house. LOL

  • @unconditionaltruth6564
    @unconditionaltruth6564 Місяць тому +7

    Just here for the shirts

  • @TomN495
    @TomN495 2 місяці тому +6

    I’ve seen one of these Au Pair affairs happen to someone I know, and they were the only person I knew that had an Au Pair 😂

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 Місяць тому +2

      It happens often. If you value your marriage, never get an au pair.

  • @Eric-10101
    @Eric-10101 2 місяці тому +9

    Their stories don’t make any sense. They should have called 911 the second they saw a strange man enter the house and they should have just stayed in the car until the police got there.

  • @roberthopkins3621
    @roberthopkins3621 2 місяці тому +49

    I think the wife is more attractive than the Nanny , does anyone else agree?

    • @BraMoore
      @BraMoore 2 місяці тому +3

      No one cares what you think

    • @roberthopkins3621
      @roberthopkins3621 2 місяці тому +10

      @@BraMoore yeah and I don’t care what you think either.

    • @sophiaclark376
      @sophiaclark376 2 місяці тому +3

      🙋🏻‍♀️

    • @Abigurlrox
      @Abigurlrox 2 місяці тому +1

      I think you’re more attractive 😮

    • @roberthopkins3621
      @roberthopkins3621 2 місяці тому

      @@Abigurlrox thank you

  • @Weavemoss
    @Weavemoss 2 місяці тому +4

    Selfish to resort to this over divorce because of your own selfish affair. That is so foul.

  • @Su-mx7ix
    @Su-mx7ix 2 місяці тому +2

    I feel so, so, so sad for Joseph. Such pure evil. The fact that he was a human being with a whole life meant nothing to those vile creatures. They used him like a pawn, lured him into a trap he had no reason to suspect. Makes me physically ill to think how excited he must have been, how he must have had connection with a profile he had no clue was a bait…

  • @fightingtofillspace
    @fightingtofillspace 2 місяці тому +5

    "Keep it simple with food and murder." That's what my mom always said.

  • @animeaddict13
    @animeaddict13 Місяць тому +7

    One of the saddest things about this case is the amount of comments I see blaming Christine (the wife), saying she shouldn’t have used a nanny, women belong at home instead of having a career, etc. As if her husband couldn’t have asked for a divorce and avoided two lives being taken and a little girl’s life ruined forever. 🙄

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 Місяць тому

      I do not think anyone is blaming the wife at all as she is totally innocent in this. However, women should know that it is never a good move to bring a young, attractive or even not so attractive woman to live full time in your house with your husband. Most men are just not loyal and some of them like this one here are total psychopaths.