Cheating Attorney Killed After Trying to Bully Lover's Husband | Rob Hall Case Analysis
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- Опубліковано 17 вер 2024
- This video answers the question: Can I analyze case of Robert Dean Hall and Emmett Corrigan?
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Emmett was a narcissist with arrested development, and Kandi is a compulsive liar and thief, a match made in hell.
Don't forget to mention that Candy is the most vile woman ever to live.
@@yellowjacket5995 Well, she's not quite in that league.
Candy was a psychopath, no doubt in my mind, and both men were fools.
@@miriam3730 Was she though? A psychopath? Really?
Not a great person to disregard her marriage and her husbands feelings, but let's not push the dramatic labels on to people.
@@It-is-me...Melsie people have a completely wrong picture of what a real psychopath really is. A psychopath is not only necessary a serial killer. There are psychopaths who live apparently “normal lives”, but who destroy their targets in many other different ways- psychological for example, financially, etc. I’ve read a lot about the subject. There are psychopaths that are so good at manipulating others that they can actually kill a person without touching a single hair, they can kill a person’s spirit and crush their soul or manipulate others into doing so. The trauma they cause can be worst than death itself. Psychopaths can’t have healthy attachments with other human beings, they disregards others, use them as objects for their own selfish needs, lie to, manipulate, have total lack of empathy…and so on and on. The list is long. Do not underestimate the damage these covert psychopaths cause, sometimes even greater than that of overt psychopaths. Just because some of them don’t physically kill doesn’t mean they can’t be one. Just look at most of the world’s politicians. Perfect cover psychos most of them, very well integrated in society, but psychopaths nonetheless.
Emmett initiated the confrontation on the phone, initiated the confrontation in person, escalated it to physical violence by laying hands on Rob, and then Rob defended himself. If I was a juror in that case, Rob would be a free man.
I absolutely agree with you.
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Same!
@@Danielle-nz9tn Yes, it does. It’s self defense. Especially for people who are physically weaker. If a man attacks me, a firearm will make me more equal in the fight.
I would have said not guilty. Emmit deserved his fate
Pro tip: if you're going to marriage counseling alone, things probably might not work out.
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If you were ever born, things probably might not work out.
Jesus, that's what you took away from all this?
Actually, a healthy exception to seek marriage counseling alone would be Weeaboos bringing their Waifu pillows for a consultation.😂😅
@@carriefawcett9990 it's a relevant observation and witty
I felt so sorry for Emmett's wife Ashlee. They had all those small kids and she was left to raise them all alone. Im glad she eventually remarried and got to live a happy life with her kids.
plus she had to bury her cheating husband
Emmett seemed like a total douche, she's better off without him imo
then we dont actually have to feel too sorry for her as this horrible event freed her from that giant psycho that was on speed and steroids
@@matthewfors114 he also had children its never good someone died. Their father cheated did that mean he should die?! My dad died and in life he cheated on some women. He did not die because of cheating but as his child his cheating was not on me and had nothing to do with me. His passing has ruined all me and my siblings childhood. Just because he cheated did not make him a monster. People who are glad people died just because they cheated sound like monsters to me. I hope you son brother or father never cheats on anyone or takes drugs because you'd want them dead for it. A bit extreme don't you think?
@@telsclarkHe didn't die because he was cheating. He was an arrogant bully who taunted and bullied the wrong person long enough.
Imagine being mad at your loyal wife because you cheated!
Yeah guy was a POS and deserved it. The other husband shouldn't have been charged for this.
@@majorpwner241😂😂😂
@@majorpwner241 Cheap lawyer!! At least not in a society with self-respect and honor, I hear the saying in my head again: "Tell me what you brag about, and I'll tell you what you lack of."
This is how men like this behave. He felt entitled to acting however he wanted and threw a tantrum because she dared to call him out on it.
Aye, women do it to us
I believe that Rob was not guilty of second degree murder, Emmett's behavior was consistent with abuse towards others, so he had every reason to fear for his life or safety. Emmett didn't do any favors to himself by "taking control of the situation" , AKA trying to push Rob around. Emmett was a horrible human being and got what he deserved.
Yea I’d have said not guilty. Emmett got what he deserved. Rob should be free
He went there to take Candy from a baby but ended up taking a baby from Candy. Doc you crack me up! Love your humor so much!
Yes! This was brilliant.
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This quip was pure gold 🌟
Why would you risk losing your freedom for a woman who had no respect for you by cheating?. This is ridiculous.
When cheating happens, is when people get there most violent and common sense goes ou the window.
Why would you let a lawyer cuck you?
I wouldn’t, but that’s not the only reason to do what Rob did.
Despite his conviction, I truly believe he acted in defense.
@@cocoval77nope he was just being a siimp. And look where it got him
Cheaters never seem to understand it is about their own morals and if a person is willing to cheat with you, they will cheat on you.
When I am with a married person I never expect to end up in a committed relationship afterwards 🎉
Once a cheat… always a cheat.
@@thatguy7085people are capable of change.
Rob was a fool. Candy is trash. Emmitt no longer having a pulse is not much of a loss to humanity. Ashlee is the only sympathetic character in that quartet.
I agree with the women have a larger dating pool commentary, the rest of it not so much. Your rhetoric suggests that Ashlee had a role in causing Emmitt to make the amoral decisions that HE chose to make. The latter is a premise I reject as that reeks of victim blaming. Emmitt was a grown man and made his own (disastrous) decisions all on his own.
I don't think one can call cheating being a monster . It's being human. Not acceptable and obviously letting your base desires RULE you....but not monsterous.....more undisciplined , selfish concupuscence typical to most humans. We are now TAUGHT to make decisions based on our emotions, we are teaching our children to follow their happiness, emotions, feelings.....and THIS is where it leads. So not monsters, just a bunch of humans being arseholes.
I don't know. 30 years in Hell is sympathetic to me.
@@deb9ragorton742 I think some humans are much worse than others, so much so that they could be considered monstrous, evil humans. All humans are imperfect but some are without conscience.
@@yellowjacket5995jesus Christ, who hurt you??? Are you an incel or something? How on earth can you blame Ashley in this? Narcissists and bad people and cheaters are very good at seeming wonderful in the beginning. We are told to trust our partner, trust is an important part of a relationship. But sometimes trust turns around and bites you. Ashley had no part in any wrong doing in all this. You must have rocks in your head.
The real victims are Ashley and her 5 children and Rob's two children. Affairs are so destructive, they destroy people's lives. Emmett had a woman who was better looking than Candy and she was the mother of his five children but he selfishly wanted more. Emmett and Candy's destructive behavior led to Rob committing a crime he would not have otherwise committed which destroyed his life too. I blame Emmett and Candy more than Rob. Rob should have said adios to Candy and made a new life for himself. Ashley should have picked up the pieces of her shattered life and went after Emmett for so much child support that his life with Candy would have been financially miserable. The two of them deserved each other.
True words indeed!
Cheating on your pregnant wife…. doesn’t get much lower. Hope his wife got a big fat life insurance pay out!
@@Nok112 I hope so too. She deserved it. A woman once told me that she was in the hospital and had just given birth to her 4th child when she saw her husband in the parking lot of the hospital with the woman he was having an affair with and they were hugging. I remember being completely shocked by it. I can't even imagine how she must have felt. She must have been completely devastated.
@@Nok112 i know i sound like a moron - isn't it just possible most people aren't made to exist in monogamous relationships, and yet that is what culture/society suggests is the norm and most healthy etc. I just wonder if people could be more open minded, rather than sexually repressed and rigid (no pun) re what they considered sexually appropriate, if people might be better off generally.
@@dissidentfairy4264 my ex husband was trying to get with his ex girlfriend when I was pregnant lol. I can relate to her a bit in that way. It is truly gross.
Nothing good ever comes out of infidelity - so hurtful and dangerous for many.
Yeah. If you want to play around don't get married and don't play with anyone who is married.
@@sr2291 I agree!
Specially when the cheating is in a passionate phase.
Rob should have separated from his "wife" as soon as he confirmed the affair and then filed for divorce. That was the only sane thing to do. How could a man ever respect a spouse who did that to him?
Monogamy is ridiculous.
I feel so sorry for all the children involved!
Seems to be a lot of sympathy for Ashley & I can understand she was trying to do what she thought was best for her kids, however most times there's zero chance of a cheater truly caring or changing.
Perhaps Ashley should have just left with the kids
But of course money & emotions & sex & steroids & ego all combine to produce volatile & destructive behaviours in most people
I feel much worse for Rob. Emmitt needed out of the gene pool. Rob actually did Emmitt's wife and kids a favor by removing this creep from their lives.
If I discovered that my wife had an ongoing almost public affair with a complete jerk like Emmett I would blame myself for my bad judgment in marrying her, also I would not pack a gun and look for a confrontation but just call a good divorce lawyer
Rob had an affair to before Candy did that's why they where in counseling. Almost like she did it to get back at Rob.
Monogamy is not the only option.
@@MackenzieCorkern17Interesting
I agree with you that Rob was "not guilty beyond a reasonable doubt," because once self-defense is asserted the State must disprove at least one of the elements of self-defense. Rob's assertions were plausible enough, at least by your reading of the facts, that a reasonable jury shouldn't have been able to conclude that any element of self-defense had been disproven. It hurts when a person who lawfully used self-defense gets convicted by similar juries.
This is one of those cases of 'Now I ain't saying he should've k****d him...but I understand.'
Self defense? By meeting up with a guy who threatens you? Bringing a guy because you know this guy means you harm? And still making the guy mad by having an affair which means it’s a ticking bomb
Lol, he brought a gun in his pocket to meet his wife's lover, after telling him he was going to crack his skull.
He just wanted any excuse to start a fight so he could shoot him.
Hardly a regular self-defense scenario.
@@whitedragoness23yes, using a gun to defend from someone that means harm to you is the exactly definition os self defense
@@thealexanderbond Emmet was the one making threats, if Rob was the one wanting any excuse to kill Emmet he would have used it before, every gun owner knows or should know that when you let an attacker tackle you it doesn't matter if you have a gun anymore because you lost all advantage and you are at maximum risk of losing the gun.
The threats are a good reason to bring the gun, Emmet charging Rob is good reason to use the gun, Emmet reaching Rob is proof that he was not prepared or willing to use the gun.
Rob's defence fumbled his case hard there.
Hearing Dr. Grande quote Emmett's social media posts at length was the highlight of my day. Those phrases coming out of a man's mouth that would never say such inane things😂
He was a lawyer and that immature and stupid?!
I remember this case. Emmett had a beautiful, devoted wife. I remember her saying that when he started the steroids his behavior became very aggressive. I've seen people taking steroids and it definitely makes one aggressive aggressive. I just hope that Ashley met a man who was worthy of her love and devotion. Rob and Ashley should of let their spouses have each other. They deserved each other.
Rob had an affair to and seems like from all I seen on the case Candy was kinda doing this to get him back. No telling what Candy told Emmett about Rob with him on steroids he was aggressive.
depends on the individual, the doseage and the compound
Rob shouldn’t have shot Emmett, but boy, Emmett Corrigan was a royal jerk. Incredible arrogance! Sad for Emmett’s wife and any kids involved.
Emmett initiated the confrontation on the phone, initiated further hostility in person, escalated the tension to physical violence by pushing Rob, and Rob defended himself.
@@blunderhappy8962 exactly, in fact Rob should have shot him when Emmet started charging him, because if Emmet had overpowered Rob or at any time got control of the weapon anything could have happenned including Rob or other people dying. If you are handling a gun it is your responsibility to not lose the gun.
He should have just kneecapped him.
Poor Rob. His worst decision was staying with Candy; She was a remorseless thief and a cheater.
Poor Rob?! LOL. He's a murderer.
@@lilithowl he didn’t have to be and probably wishes he left when he first got confirmation his wife was trash.
he deserved a much better wife and Ashley sure deserved a better man than "kermit" i hope her second husband has been a better man than kermit ever was. i wish her and her children all the best 👍🏼👍🏼
I agree. He was pushed.
@@lilithowlshe caused it
I say Dr grande’s line before giving my opinion on everything. No one argues with me now. They just sit and listen. Genius technique 😂
yassssss 😂😂😂
Emmit was out there wild like he didn't have a wife and 5 children. He went looking for trouble and found it.
He f**ked around and found out. He should have divorced that poor woman so she could have moved on.
How could they convict Rob ,of course it was self defense. Emmit had the chance to drop her off and leave. Rob was the least of his problems. He should have been worried about the divorce and five child support payments he was about to incure. Hope they let Rob out early
I agree mike.
He was a bull, and he knew his wife wouldn't leave him with five children in her care. Don't you know how this guy's mind worked? The guy went to make fun of his lover's husband at his house, and in addition to doing it with everyone he knew, he did it with everyone he didn't know in those posts on the internet, and from the results of the trial, I think he is a good representative of the area. No shame!!
@@JGARCIA2012FULLmaybe that's why he shuffled his 🐾
@@JGARCIA2012FULL Yep. And again another stupid dumbed down, easily manipulaterd jury decided to throw a man in a concrete cage for life when they don't know what really happened. It's pretty obvious that most likely the guy with the stupid name was the aggressor and most likely initiated the fight. i swear I think most juries are brain dead these days.
Rob needed a better lawyer
Sacrificing your relationship and your future for momentary pleasure seems so shortsighted. Affairs rarely lead to happiness and contentment, as we see here. Thanks for another insightful video, Dr. Grande.
Please please dont cheat. Its soul destroying for the person who still loves you
True but it seems like everybody is cheating and going out of their way to hide it. It is not only soul-destroying, but it destroys trust. It is an indication you are being used.
I do feel sorry for Rob, I think he was driven to the confrontation. Very sad for the wife who had just had a baby.
Feel sorry for the daughter that informed her dad where she saw her mom's car parked at. I consider it's possible she feels guilty. Have no idea if Rob would've located his wife without that information in the timeframe all this went down
Hello, this is Dr. Tortilla.
She doesn't feel guilty at all. She had an affair with her dad and her mom was her rival.
@@Dr.Pancho.TortillaShe had an affair with her dad? Her mom had an affair with her dad? That makes no sense ..
I would feel guilty if i was her. There's a very good case for it being her fault. In the end though the fault lies with Rob for bringing a gun and letting his emotions make an impulsive decision and the main fault lies with Candy for being a terrible wife and mother. She wanted her lover and she wanted her husband to just accept her lover. So selfish and gross.
@@dustin628and for Emmett pushing Rob on the ground (and possibly trying to strangle him) and provoking him, when the issue could have been dealt with without pushing him.
@@gabrielamartiniuc6322 Hello, this is Dr. Tortilla.
The daughter had an affair with her dad and the wife naturally had an affair with her husband, the same man "Rob"
Rob did what was necessary to survive. I hate that he had to go to jail
@traybern Sure he did. To find his wife.
@traybernEmmett laid his hands on Rob first.
@traybernthe man isnt allowed to go and find his wife?
@traybern yes he is. Guns are legal.......
@traybern yes there is. In self defense
Emmett was asking for it and he got it. Cared for no one, neither his innocent kids nor his wife, but only for his little willy. Instead of feeling shame he wanted to rub it in the husband's face too. Rob should be freed.
I agree. Emmett is clearly some sort of narcissistic sociopath who fucked with the wrong guy. My heart truly goes out to Rob, and I see him as the victim.
@@blunderhappy8962 statistics in some countries show that 20% of murders are committed by people who would not normally harm a fly, but have been pushed to the limits of their dignity and endurance. Rob is such a man.
@@christbanner3219
Sounds like Emmitt was an aggressive ROID RAT.
I hope Ashley, and her Children are doing well! And the same for Candy's Children.
Ashley and kids seem to be doing great.
Why do people feel the need to "confront" their cheating spouse and lover? Makes no sense. Rob already had the evidence and there was nothing that either of them could or would have said in the drug store parking lot that would've changed it.
Yes, I never felt a need to do that! He was already leaving, so I would have just left! Why didn’t he??! What is confronting them going to do??! Stupid idiot fighting over that Thing! Why would you still want them??! 😂🤣
Exactly, I have been cheated on twice. Both times I cut off the women who cheated, deleted them from my life and never looked back. In fact I was grateful to the opposite party for exposing those women. if someone cheats on you get the hell out asap, they are stinking garbage being alone is much better.
Why do people have the need to have wives ad children?, because it is an animal imperative. Now asking why do people feel the need to protect the unique transmission of their offspring or being territorial in that regard is part of the same thing.
Why do we do what we do and why it even matters. All matters because otherwise nothing matters. We can't choose what parts of our nature are important.
It is a complete lack of empathy not understanding the particular emotional state that a situation like that triggers on the subjects.
Any woman who’s attorney husband hires a para legal named “Candy” should be sus. Just saying!
When adults put themselves before their kids…sickening.
I read that Ashlee (Emmett Corrigan's wife) remarried and had two more children.
Has she not figured out how that happens yet? Good grief 😮
She is now on her 3rd marriage
a pretty girl with bills to pay finds love rather quickly l imagine
There's bringing a knife to a gun fight and then there is bringing verbal assaults to a gun fight, which is worse.
Love how Dr Grande ALWAYS let's us know what the guns are chambered in
We live in depressing, confusing times!
Sounds like Emmett and Candy were a good match, trash and trash. Too bad that Rob gave up his freedom for her. I would be careful with any woman who goes by that name. She has crazy eyes in that photo. How fitting that Emmett was a bankruptcy attorney, considering his own moral bankruptcy. I doubt that anyone was crying too hard at his funeral.
Ashley did
@@twincherry4958
Well yeah, she just had her suspicions confirmed that her husband was not only cheating, but died fighting for another woman. Then also, her children lost their father.
@SavvyMuhon Well, main comment doubted if anyone was crying at the funeral🙃
If I were her I wouldn’t have even given him one. He would’ve just sat in the morgue until someone else wanted to deal with him.
May sound weird, but I don't trust people with either of those names. They've been beyond trash,treated people horrendously damaging them so badly. Realistically, I know not all people with those names/nicknames are like that but I keep my distance due for too many reasons to state here.
I feel so bad for all of the children. Ashley told Candy and Robert’s daughter that she never blamed her. Some people actually did. There’s no way that she could have predicted how horrifying things would become
No but if she had kept her legs closed, been professional at work n stuck with the man she chose instead of a man another woman was married to…. Children would not be without their fathers. Just sayin’ she does have part in it.
@@sherrydmyterko-tramp8654 She also should have kept her big mouth shut, and he should have kept his pants on!!
Look at this WOMAN here defending that cheating, demonic witch Candy. Of course! I bet Elizabeth Hamm cheats on her husband every day.
They're talking about Candy's daughter. Not candy.
When you blame a daughter for asking about her mother, you know that society is beyond saving.
I just don't see how Emmett could've had residue on his hand if he didn't fire, or ar least handle the weapon after it had been fired? In that scenario would anyone have had the wherewithal to place it in his hands just to 'plant' the gs residue?
Loved the 'taking a baby from Candy' bit! Clever!
Thanks Dr Grande! 🌵
I know this case. Ashley is a wonderful woman. Kandi is a pffffftttttt.
Watched a program with both the ex-wives commenting, Kandi just told lies and made everything about herself. She also tried to dress like a teenager ...it didn't work for her at all.
Ashlee is either a total moron, or is strongly attracted to narcissistic psychopaths. She had children with that monster and passed down his corrupt genes. Terrible.
Kandi is dookie compared to Ashley.
Ashleighee is a Mormon puppet
Travesty that Rob got so much time. This is akin to walking into your own bedroom and seeing your wife in your bed with a much younger man and that punk tells him that he isn’t man enough. Wow! Most men would lose their mind. Let’s get real. That’s why there are states that have a ruling for crimes of passion. This is definitely one of those situations. It’s all so tragic
Why cheat.. just leave
cake eaters
Women who cheat but don't wanna divorce just don't wanna give up their financial safety net and image (sickening leeches). If they've found they married a doormat, he can get angry all he wants, but won't stop her so she is a total cake eater.
Men who cheat but don't wanna divorce don't wanna lose that emotional safety net, that person who's been there for them and does things for them that--if they actually think for five seconds--their affair partner would never do.
Sucks, but cheaters are greedy selfish people. Though divorce isn't the black mark on a person it used to be, it's still a blow to the ego for many and prompts questions. Cheaters hope to avoid 3 things: losing the illicit thrill, divorce, and accountability.
Life goals: making sure Dr Grande never talks about you or your sex life
Or a situation like yours
“Candy Crush” 😂 your story telling is the best! I remember this story, great analysis as always.
I live 8 miles from Meridian, Idaho, but I don't remember this case. I'm clearly not paying enough attention to things right under my nose.
Dr Grande: “blanking their pants” “I’ll kick your blank. L O L” …yeah this is the content I’m here for.
F around and find out.
Self defense is terrifying. You hope to never have to resort to it not only because the assailant might get the best of you, but also because it might not be legally viewed as such. Whether or not this was self defense… well the jury already spoke on that
I felt mostly upset for Ashley😢. I saw her being interviewed on Dr Phil, and the amount of pain inflicted on her from this munted shit show was phenomenonal. The betrayal was next level. The fact these two grown men ( one of them her husband!) were literally fighting over some washed up, overweight, middle-aged loser ( Candy) was astounding! Ashley being the gorgeous younger woman in all this! I really don't understand men, when I hear about this case. I'm so glad Ashley was able to find love again, but she describes the emotional scars and insecurities that were left on her and she's been incredibly brave and strong. I hope she's going well today, she deserves a real man who loves her and stays. Emmet was obviously a narcissist. She was too.good for him.
Well said!!!
You should know that Dr. Grande will never be heard saying "Dr. Phil". You will hear him, however, make references to interviews with a man named Phil McGraw.
"Dr." Drew exploits tragedy in the guise of helping. A total hack...
I feel like Ashley didn't have much self-esteem and this lowered her attractivenesss. Candy was also probably more manipulative. She should have just left him instead of wasting her time trying to convince him to not leave her. And Rob ...was simply an idiot. Stupid thinking can land you in jail for tens of years. I hope the "prize" was worth it. The thing is he knew his wife had been cheating for some time now and her affair-partner was very agressive. He should have divorced her and moved on. She set him up and he ended up in jail. Candy is said to have given him a gun... But she was still seeing Emet.
There's not enough hatred of Candy here. I suspect that's because a lot of Grande's viewers are women, and they see themselves in Candy.
I was out on our pontoon boat with family tryin to watch today's episode earlier once I saw that Dr Grande posted but wasn't working with my internet connection, I was all sad. But now fireworks are over, I made it safely back to shore and now can watch this episode.😂 Happy 4th of July weekend Dr Grande...thank you for all the work you put into these videos to entertain us. You're awesome ❤️
Wow!candy crush..she cheats, steals, and gets away scot free..everyone left in her destructive wake!
If you have time to do longer videos I’d be so glad. I love listening to you talk
Play stupid games ...win stupid prizes...
Great video Dr G ❤ have a happy Sunday all 🎉
Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande! Happy Canada Day 2023! Oh, I've heard of this case before. Looking forward to your analysis.
Candy is dandy, but lead makes you dead. Please cover the recent Scot Peterson trial case?
Thanks for your analysis, Dr. G. These cases never cease to remind me that my 5th graders behave better than many adults. 🙄
Ashlee seems to be doing so much better now. I read her books and watched the episodes on Dateline and Dr. Phil when they came out. This story always made me so sad. Ashlee’s children have been through so much but they are quite a bit older now and doing well from what is shown online! Seems like they offer advice and help to other kids their age who may go through trauma and tragedy like they have. The twin girls are in high school or college now. Hard to believe so much time has passed since this happened. I remember hearing about it on the news. The one solid truth out of all the versions of this story that are told: Ashlee and her children absolutely loved Emmett. She was trying to figure out what was wrong and what was going on with her husband while also taking care of their otherwise happy family and new baby. She found out he was cheating the same moment she found out he had been killed. So horrible to imagine. Knowing something is wrong but not knowing what and trying to keep spinning all those plates you are balancing above your head as a mother and wife. Then to have your world shattered like that in a moment. Changed forever. But, Ashlee has done an amazing job helping her children heal and continue on from this.
Thank you, Dr. Grande! Have a great weekend!
I feel bad for Emmett’s wife Ashley and all the children, but Dr. Grande’s continued puns bring me such joy. Crazy story 😬
Ok you got me with the "due diligence" thing
Free Rob! He doesn't deserve this, nor do his children.
BOOM!!!
Agree.
Wow, wow, wow! It brings up memories of a triangle in my former marriage forty years ago in my late twenties.
These two men did not learn the lesson that I learned when I was 13 years-old. The lesson is; it is not the person who instigates that gets in trouble. It is the retaliator who get in trouble. And violence begets violence. Also with the separation and divorce, I learned in a book that the man being cheated on wants to harm the male cheater.
I think in this case Rob was acting is self defense.
If you told me this story was about high schoolers I would have believed you easily. These are grown adult LAWYERS with a lot of children under their care.
Wow. I think the cases these people tried all need to be re-evaluated. Especially is everyone is under stress like this at home and this is how they handle it and they use drugs and cheat on spouses and talk smack and pull out fists and guns without a second thought. Nicely done guys. Now all these kids on both sides have no fathers and the other kids mom went to jail and is a criminal and can’t practice law. Good job guys.
Candy wasn’t worth going to jail for. Neither was Emmett. They deserved each other.
I feel for the kids and their families who had to deal the loss and grief of their loved ones.
The good news is… Apparently, Emmet’s wife is now a motivational speaker, got remarried and helping others who went through the same experience like hers. ❤
My impression from this is that Emmett was the primary aggressor overall, and Rob was majorly provoked by Emmett several times before finally fighting back. Of course, Rob holds responsibility for pulling the trigger, but if Emmett was the aggressor, that should eliminate all possibly of any degree of murder committed by Rob. I feel like Rob should have gotten a much lesser sentence than he did. He should have gotten manslaughter at best. I would even reduce that to aggravated assault, not murder. It makes me sad for Rob honestly. This is a shining example of the dangers infidelity actually presents in relationships. Moral- Don’t cheat. Make arrangements to leave… at least give your partner enough time to get accustomed to being without you.. someone could die…
And don’t bring a gun to a fistfight
@@infinitejest441 or don’t have a fist fight. Lol
What a f'n mess the kids are victims in this narcissistic affair.
Lives ended/ruined ..why not just end their relationships if they wanted to ..or stay faithful!?🙄sad
Good evening 🙋🌠🌆🏙️🪴🍀🌵 Dr. Grande! Are you relaxing, 😎 and enjoying the Holiday weekend? 🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲 Thank You!
💜💜💜you Dr Grande, but
those curtains? Making me
absolutely Psychotic!🤪
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I hate them too.
Doesn't anyone take their marriage vows seriously anymore? You made a vow/promise for better or for worse, but then break it any chance you can. Your word means nothing. You only think about yourself.
Hard to believe that a lawyer, especially one opening a criminal practice, would make the kinds of threatening statements and use the kind of language towards Rob, knowing what usually happens to people who make such threats. Also hard to imagine how he could feel entitled to be so hateful towards Rob, knowing that he was Candy's husband and the father of her two children. And cheating on his sweet wife Ashley. Absolutely no regard at all for the sanctity of marriage. Rob deciding to confront them both was a bad idea, but when your marriage is being literally threatened like that, good judgment often goes out the window and the primal need to preserve the family often kicks in. If I were Rob, instead of confronting them both, I'd have saved all the evidence I had and communicated it all to Ashley, then immediately got an attorney and started divorce proceedings.
YOU are right. But as one who worked around lawyers for years I can honestly say that Emmett's behavior is the rule far more than the exception.
They are arrogant, nasty pieces of 💩 and think nothing of screwing over their family, clients, other lawyers etc.
Lawyers set up the game in their favor and we see that even with SCOTUS. They do all kinds of crazy, bizarre and unethical things but cover for each other-but if the average joe/Jane does it, theyll quickly find a "rule to make you pay.
Look at our politicians and leaders. Mostly lawyers on power trips who want to rule over the masses and they rig the game to do just that.
Emmett was well on his way but overreached because his lust went way out of control coupled with amphetamine abuse. A recipe for the disaster that happened.
Hitting on speed makes you super crazy and it's only a matter of time before you go too far.
Good luck to the other spouses. They deserved so much better.
As always thanks for your analysis Dr Grande! That “taking a baby from Candy” bit was too perfect lol
I would've just thrown Candi's stuff out on the lawn.
bye candi!!!
I've heard something about this story.
I love your clever play on words.
Thank you
Peace 💕🇺🇲
Imagine losing everything for a broad that looks like that?
😂😂😂
NO p*ssy is that important.
Right? And Ashley is so gorgeous 😢
@@user-lq9es6wm9s Yeah but he already had Ashley, you could be with the hottest chick in the world but would do anything to smash that 6 at work. Human nature sadly.
So look is everything ?
Great video as always 😍
Wow. Wtf. Why wouldn't he get self defense? Both men were shot so obviously one was self defense, and since you can't prove beyond a reasonable doubt it wasn't Rob he should have gotten off. Our justice system is so screwed up. They only care about quotas and convictions not about actual truth or justice.
Absolute tragedy that Rob was convicted. He's the victim in all of this.
Cheating doesn’t justify murder. However, toying with someone’s emotions and family can unleash rage. Be prepared for the wrath. You never know who you’re dealing with.
Yet, no Walgreens video.. 🤔
My favorite is when Dr Grande reads or recites what people say. So deadpan! 🤣
The real victims were the kids
Agreed
And Ashley.
@@lf9341 true
I never heard about the speed an steroids in his system before. But I heard that Candy was telling Emmett that Rob was violent to her.
Who else was thinking: Thou shall not kill. Thou shall not commit adultery. These are rules we need to follow if we are going to live in a civilized society.
Your comment has no meaning.
Yeah right
@@johndoee3850 you may want to seek a second opinion from someone you trust and respect. You appear to have no grasp of human nature or reality. 🤪🤪🤪
It's, "thou shall not murder."
Thank you for gracing us with that "baby from Candy" line
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about a situation where the Power of Attorney is insufficient like this.
For some people, violence isn't the question, just how far you're willing to go with it.
I remember this story. Weren’t Ashlee and Candi on the Phil McGraw’s show?
Your puns, whilst dreadful, do make me smile!
Well, they eventually found out, after an ill-advised bout of reckless fcukaround.
How did Candy's previous employer not notice she'd stolen $32,000 until months/years later?
After watching over a hundred of your videos over the past few years. I have come to the conclusion, we need a new kind of Prosecutor. The Attorney with Psychology Doctorate PhD.
My heart goes out to Ashlee and her children. Emmett destroyed their lives, but thankfully she has healed since then and is now married to a loving and supportive husband.
Lol Ashlee is also terrible. Why on Earth did she choose Emmett? Think about all the decent guys she turned down for that BLATANT psychopath. She absolutely deserves some blame for that astonishingly poor judgement.
@@yellowjacket5995 - Exactly, Ashlee had to be twisted to be married to that whacko. And who knows if the next guy she married is not crazy too, because who else would marry someone like her.
@@yellowjacket5995a lot of abusers initially act really kind and caring, and it's further into the relationship that the red flags become more numerous. Emmet also wasn't like that before he started taking steroids
Also, we have no idea whether she turned a bunch of other guys down or not. That still doesn't make this her fault. He chose to mistreat her, and some possible past partner isn't entitled to a relationship with her just because he may have been "decent."
@@yellowjacket5995so there’s no way Emmet could’ve been a decent or different man in the beginning and over the years turned into an arrogant jerk? People change, and it’s not always for the better. Otherwise the divorce rate wouldn’t be what it is. Emmet had also been taking steroids which made him even worse. He passed the bar, had his own law firm, and got a big head. Who are you to call her a terrible person based off of your assumptions? Maybe she knew and maybe she didn’t. You don’t know these people personally. None of us do.
RIP. Candy is the bad apple, She told Emmet that Rob doesn't want to give her her freedom, and this infuriates Emmet and is consistent with Emmet constantly talking to Rob, Convincing him to let Candy go. But to Rob Candy kept the carrot of saving all, in the end, she cost a life and so much hurt for what? Rob should not be convicted, not in my view, this was the only time he went towards Emmet, and it was to collect his wife, albeit cautiously, (I might have taken an axe along as well) with the gun, but he did conceal it, I think it was not to show Emmet he "hides" behind a gun. If he wanted to shoot Emmet, he would have shot him right then and there, so I believe the events happened as Rob described them. Good Luck Rob, and good luck Ashlee, and ALL the children.
I thought when something like this happens- in the heat of the moment,- it's only considered manslaughter?
It might depend on state law.
Dr. Grande, your observations are spot on. Anyone can be pushed too far, and Candy seemed to be enjoying both men fighting for her affections. Rob probably shouldn't be in prison for the term he was given, especially since speculation of how the shooting happened. When Rob gets out of prison, he should only talk to Candy through his attorney. If the woman didn't cheat, none of this would have happened. Are they still married?
I never ever believed that Emmet had said, “what did you make last year” I make that in a week “. That’s bull shit. But a very good excuse for Robert to get enraged.
Yay! Can’t wait to hear this! This story has always made me feel conflicted. Ashley didn’t deserve to be treated like that.
You can say that again. Emmet was a loser.
I lost it at, "Candy Crush". 😂🤣😅😆😅🤣😂