This was very good. As a 60 year old, I have been through alot of it. My best few friends were older, and have passed away. I may be alone, but I am still kicking it. Everyone out here should be grateful for the Internet to have people like Kam to help you along. Thank you. Smitty.
Funny thing is I haven’t talked to my closest friends for like 8+ months now and coincidentally in those months I went through some metamorphosis shit, like I’ve become more ambitious and I’ve gone through some difficult things in my life that I’ve never experienced before. Shit is really bittersweet I think I’ve grown apart from them now.
I'm so sick of being abused, and used, and taken advantage of by people who call me their friends. Sometimes I get so I tired I can'te ven filter what's real and what's a joke from them. One of my so called friends owes me like 3,000. Never understands when I bring it up that I struggle and I do. A lot with a lot of issues. He just gaslight says he'll pay me but it never happens. I always helped him but when I need help he's no where. I feel like a loser, and failure all because the money I let him steal from me I could've used to build something for myself. I feel like a fool. It's hard knowing they don't care the same way I care for them.
I listened to this while eating my meal b4 my workout. This is the most realistic video ever. Smaller social circles is the way to go cuz u get to be yourself. in my school, I hang out just with one homie. If he’s not in school, I go chill by myself. Guy’s stop trying to fit in.
Real shit 💯 a lotta people are either fake lazy or both, it’s hard to find like minded people in this world but you just gotta keep moving forward in life
@@johnredcorn1649 yeah, I got friends who are tryna form a business atm, I'm also in the studio producing some music with my broskies to make it in the music industry, I also got some others who are doing mechanics to make some bread for the summer
At 7:44 Kam brought out a great point on how people act like they have to change their “personality” just to fit in with people. Im still In Highschool nd I never really understood why people gotta do tha, tha kinda shi is fake and it’s screaming tha you to afraid to trusty be yo self nd tha you rely on the validation of others opinions
This video dropped on the same day that one of my closest friend groups totally abandoned me as a friend. Over some drama that we had a convo about and I wanted to move past. So true what he says about the people you hang around you really don’t know who they are sometimes. Hoping to find my way to better people soon.
Kam's videos are getting more and more relatable. This my first year in college and I have 0 friends there. The only friends I have are the ones in my hometown. I don't mind being alone, but I kinda feel like a lotta people dont fck with me and that's ok
Funniest thing is that my friends always say "it would be cool to be jacked" or "it would be cool to have ton of money" but when I say "let's go to gym" or "do 10 mins of *insert thing they like* and I'll just be there and watch 10 mins is all it takes" noone is there... It's all just a play, and if I want to be a real playa I'll probably need to get this straight. Which is hard cause I won't leave people when I don't have anywhere to go....
Its true, i hung out with the quiet kids the last 4 yeard now im here watching vids on how to socialize. Before i met them i was the class clown, thats how much they changed me.
Your video helps me a lot.Regently i have experienced the contradiction between losing friend and doing my own things in my own styles.As you say,fake friends will not care about you really want to do,they just wanna drag you down in their ways.I feel uncomfortable about that because my own life is disturbed by them.But I'm a little reluctant to leave the wonderful time we both have.Now,maybe decision must be given,and your video give me motivation to cut off them.BTW,i have made progress in listening by you high speed speaking,hhh.
aye kam you should talk about how charisma is different than character, charisma is the short term and character is what makes you valuable and people fail to recognize the difference
The best thing your homie can do, besides being there for you emotionally, is encourage you to take risks. Don't let you bitch out Take girls for instance. A bad homie would be like "no don't talk to her" or "I don't trust you to pull it off, just chill bro cmon" Good homie says "bro why is you still talking to me go do it"
It doesn't take too much to know this. Just pay attention to their body language when you are sharing a story for example, you can tell who cares about you and who don't.
one night i was talking with my friend about the gym, he recently got a membership and stuff and how he likes it and he's motivated to keep going. but then a bit later, i kid you not this nigga sends a vid of himself eating some sort of donut treat. mind you this was like 8-9 pm or smth too. 💀
What if I don't have dreams? I consider them only as dreams and as something I can really achieve. And do I really want to acheive them anyway? As they say be careful what you wish for. So I'm so confused already
This was very good. As a 60 year old, I have been through alot of it. My best few friends were older, and have passed away. I may be alone, but I am still kicking it. Everyone out here should be grateful for the Internet to have people like Kam to help you along. Thank you. Smitty.
Thank you for your wisdom sir
Funny thing is I haven’t talked to my closest friends for like 8+ months now and coincidentally in those months I went through some metamorphosis shit, like I’ve become more ambitious and I’ve gone through some difficult things in my life that I’ve never experienced before. Shit is really bittersweet I think I’ve grown apart from them now.
Yeah fr same shit for me I feel like I can’t really connect with them no more like we on different timing
Same
I'm so sick of being abused, and used, and taken advantage of by people who call me their friends. Sometimes I get so I tired I can'te ven filter what's real and what's a joke from them. One of my so called friends owes me like 3,000. Never understands when I bring it up that I struggle and I do. A lot with a lot of issues. He just gaslight says he'll pay me but it never happens. I always helped him but when I need help he's no where. I feel like a loser, and failure all because the money I let him steal from me I could've used to build something for myself. I feel like a fool. It's hard knowing they don't care the same way I care for them.
I listened to this while eating my meal b4 my workout.
This is the most realistic video ever.
Smaller social circles is the way to go cuz u get to be yourself.
in my school, I hang out just with one homie.
If he’s not in school, I go chill by myself.
Guy’s stop trying to fit in.
Real shit 💯 a lotta people are either fake lazy or both, it’s hard to find like minded people in this world but you just gotta keep moving forward in life
i'm lucky to have a friendship circle of people who are tryna improve there life and make a career for themselves..
Bro you mad lucky, no body in my old friend group on self improvement
@@johnredcorn1649 yeah, I got friends who are tryna form a business atm, I'm also in the studio producing some music with my broskies to make it in the music industry, I also got some others who are doing mechanics to make some bread for the summer
At 7:44 Kam brought out a great point on how people act like they have to change their “personality” just to fit in with people. Im still In Highschool nd I never really understood why people gotta do tha, tha kinda shi is fake and it’s screaming tha you to afraid to trusty be yo self nd tha you rely on the validation of others opinions
Very true words in this video,your friends don’t care as much as you think and they love bitching
This video dropped on the same day that one of my closest friend groups totally abandoned me as a friend. Over some drama that we had a convo about and I wanted to move past. So true what he says about the people you hang around you really don’t know who they are sometimes. Hoping to find my way to better people soon.
Same brother, I got chucked out of my friend group today. The fakest people alive are there in high school.
Thanks Cam, this one is especially true in high school. All my friends fake af
True friendships merely exist these days.
It is too funny when Kam is straight up 😂
Kam's videos are getting more and more relatable. This my first year in college and I have 0 friends there. The only friends I have are the ones in my hometown. I don't mind being alone, but I kinda feel like a lotta people dont fck with me and that's ok
Funniest thing is that my friends always say "it would be cool to be jacked" or "it would be cool to have ton of money" but when I say "let's go to gym" or "do 10 mins of *insert thing they like* and I'll just be there and watch 10 mins is all it takes" noone is there... It's all just a play, and if I want to be a real playa I'll probably need to get this straight. Which is hard cause I won't leave people when I don't have anywhere to go....
Its true, i hung out with the quiet kids the last 4 yeard now im here watching vids on how to socialize. Before i met them i was the class clown, thats how much they changed me.
Your video helps me a lot.Regently i have experienced the contradiction between losing friend and doing my own things in my own styles.As you say,fake friends will not care about you really want to do,they just wanna drag you down in their ways.I feel uncomfortable about that because my own life is disturbed by them.But I'm a little reluctant to leave the wonderful time we both have.Now,maybe decision must be given,and your video give me motivation to cut off them.BTW,i have made progress in listening by you high speed speaking,hhh.
feel you
After highschool, you'll see who really around. Keep that circle true!
aye kam you should talk about how charisma is different than character, charisma is the short term and character is what makes you valuable and people fail to recognize the difference
Bro ong this guy posts the vidoes i need at the exact right time
The best thing your homie can do, besides being there for you emotionally, is encourage you to take risks. Don't let you bitch out
Take girls for instance. A bad homie would be like "no don't talk to her" or "I don't trust you to pull it off, just chill bro cmon"
Good homie says "bro why is you still talking to me go do it"
“Trust nobody!” - Tupac Shakur
It doesn't take too much to know this. Just pay attention to their body language when you are sharing a story for example, you can tell who cares about you and who don't.
man was speaking fax and sayin some real shi this whole vid. very motivational and inspirational
u funny tho fr and u helped me a lot i never had real friends
close that backdoor can’t get snaked out by my homie
How often do you change the hair color brodie ?
Kam I just wanna thank you opening my eyes to things I thought were normal but realize are weird keep grinding
My girlfriend is more on self improvement than my friends, but that's because of me.
one night i was talking with my friend about the gym, he recently got a membership and stuff and how he likes it and he's motivated to keep going. but then a bit later, i kid you not this nigga sends a vid of himself eating some sort of donut treat. mind you this was like 8-9 pm or smth too. 💀
facetime patbat so we can see that werido
Fr he weird
these titles be killing me but bro be spitting
I’m starting to think @PatBat69 is actually just kam trolling us 💀
This guy always speak fax..
Yo Kam what r your thoughts on weed
nah bruh i got real friends who care about me help me when i’m down this doesn’t apply to everyone
You missed the point of the whole video.... maybe he explained it a little wrong, but this doesn't apply to you it applies to THOSE people.
Yo Kam could you please make a vid on how to know if a shy girl likes u
Good idea
What if I don't have dreams?
I consider them only as dreams and as something I can really achieve. And do I really want to acheive them anyway?
As they say be careful what you wish for. So I'm so confused already
who is this patbat69 kid bro 😭
Why tf he got like 20 comments on here bro 😭😭
Then ig im already doing this but i just gotta cut off my two last homies cuz they hatin on me and never support me
No cap in his rap
Love this bro 😂
Bro pls tell me how to pull her even though she don't like me
@PatBat69 Wow I never expected a W comment from you, anyway you're right
@@DannyVibes1 Ikr
You probably won’t see this, but I was wondering if you could make a video for us girls? Like what guys really want/what makes a good woman. Thanks😊
Talkin that truth
I have like 60 "friends" and outta all of them I really only got 2 who actually give a fuck about me :/
11:09 😂😂😂
kam speakin facts
Thanks bro
the group of people you hang with determines your life
good thing I don’t have friends 😌
Well said
That’s a fact
I don't have friends 🥲
That’s a good thing no distractions get to work self improve or get left behind
Before patbat
fr.
Real
@Patbat69 kid do your homework