They're Not Really Your Friends

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  • @israeljaimes8309
    @israeljaimes8309 2 роки тому +52

    A true friend is a person who motivates you and helps you when you need him or her. Love your videos, Kam! 🏋🏽‍♂️

  • @ZaeRackzz
    @ZaeRackzz 2 роки тому +69

    These the topics we need you to keep delivering bro 💯

  • @mikehawk9099
    @mikehawk9099 2 роки тому +18

    Wow, this is basically what I've realized while doing my first heroic psychedelic dose. My ego was entirely shattered and I realized that everything, and I do mean EVERYTHING, every SINGLE thing I do is to embellish myself in the eyes of others. The hobbies I have, the major I'm studying, the friends I have, the clothes I wear, the way I speak and carry myself, EVERYTHING is done for social status even though we may not realize it as it's usually a subconscious process. Personal identity is an illusion, our selves are fundamentally rooted in social hierarchies. I subscribed.

    • @aidinlayne
      @aidinlayne 2 роки тому +2

      yeah truly saddening experience, but being enlightened like that can really help you progress in the right direction which is why i fw psychedelics so heavy

    • @Shahshdh6
      @Shahshdh6 2 місяці тому

      excellent comment

  • @huzzos
    @huzzos 2 роки тому +37

    Ain't got no real friends rn. A "close" friend to me was fake. Somehow now I feel less lonely though. Hopefully real friends will come my way♥️

  • @PAWLOTEAM
    @PAWLOTEAM Рік тому +3

    This video is deep.

  • @mikey5878
    @mikey5878 2 роки тому +42

    These deep topics and harsh truths are too dope. Realest shit on YT

  • @pandaketamine
    @pandaketamine 2 роки тому +12

    I find it interesting that as soon as we reach adulthood we really start to reveal our true selves. I wish I would’ve met someone like you or someone similar that was just trying to find their purpose in life.

  • @pandaketamine
    @pandaketamine 2 роки тому +14

    Im 17 right now and i’m really starting to gain a new perspective on this life stuff.

  • @newnengates3764
    @newnengates3764 2 роки тому +3

    I can relate. I used to try to fit in from middle to high school but was always looked as uncool by many people. A lot people told me when I was young that I had a terrible personality lol. Even in college the narrative never really changed. Even with the girls that I tried to be friends with lol. I just decided to do things to please myself and become more open to other possibilities that extended towards many different interest. I am a divergent thinker and I love being open minded that is why I love traveling! I might be alone forever. I don’t give af no more. Lots of people (especially popular females) got issues lol. You are right about a lot people being hurt these days. Lots of people need love and compassion. My biggest best friends that have been in my life are mommy and daddy.

  • @parthdattani1997
    @parthdattani1997 2 роки тому +12

    Realest shit ever bro! You hit the nail on the head! Everyone moves on recently I lost two of my friends I thought were my boys but cancelled on meeting up with me eventually I got the idea they don't want to see me even though they used to WhatsApp in a group everyday for 8 years.

  • @Javier300k
    @Javier300k 2 роки тому +24

    I’m 23 years old and I have no friends it’s all good tho bc im self improving mentally physically and spiritually

    • @yourdaughtersaddiction888
      @yourdaughtersaddiction888 2 роки тому +2

      As you should bro. Don't stop.

    • @Bomaximus9
      @Bomaximus9 2 роки тому +4

      Friends overrated. Keep ya family close bro

    • @mundofanuu
      @mundofanuu 2 роки тому +1

      Remove the illusion on connection tap in love yourself and company then you will attract a soul tribe

  • @mikepalmeri6782
    @mikepalmeri6782 2 роки тому +7

    This dude is hard core!love him.he is keen sharp and sees through this social media crap and he has truth to expose the junk of society and the social construct......

  • @pandaketamine
    @pandaketamine 2 роки тому +9

    I want to find my tribe of like minded people fr. I’m tired of being the outcast in this world and I really wanna get out there. Cause once your in a room by yourself alone, you just lose yourself mentally and it just ruins your mental state.

  • @hoodiiekjj3511
    @hoodiiekjj3511 2 роки тому +4

    words of wisdom , I respect your mindset n hustle. keep doin wha you doin 🙌🏾
    I see greatness🚨

  • @troysparks3772
    @troysparks3772 2 роки тому +3

    I’m an old man, and this info is true. Young men please listen to this whole video. I sure hope people’s listening,and then doing! How he know dis? Because some people think about shit,and he doing the dam thing! Peace ✌️

  • @glodykabange
    @glodykabange 2 роки тому +1

    'The real you has no friends,your ego does'. Man that shit hit different.

  • @2easy4gaming12
    @2easy4gaming12 2 роки тому +6

    Man I've really been struggling in my head and lonely in this first year of high school. It's like I'm always trying to talk to someone and check up on them but it's like they never do so to me and it makes me feel a little ostracized. Everybody's is kinda stuck up and distrustful and for some reason they would joke around with me and say my appearance is similar to NBA Yb's but never actually go up and spark a conversation with me. I've had only two people to converse with at lunch. The first one (me and him fell back) 2nd one (we were on edge but were trying to get on line with this) But yeah I'm not no unattractive looking dude, I have decent dress game and I can talk well it's just that people cant take the time out for me and try to converse with me.

    • @2easy4gaming12
      @2easy4gaming12 2 роки тому +1

      I am pretty quiet as well but when someone talks to me (especially a female) I talk more and try to get to open up but then they just leave me and act like I'm just the wind/ignore me and probably wait for me to say something. (Not sure)

    • @2easy4gaming12
      @2easy4gaming12 2 роки тому

      And I am trying to improve and work on myself to get ready for college and I'm starting to get used to not having anyone to talk to. The only thing that really gets to me when alone is when I start seeing other people talk and everything but wont even take time out of their day for me for whatever reason. Like give a dude a chance to open up‼

    • @fvrlit
      @fvrlit 2 роки тому

      @@2easy4gaming12 men don’t open up around women unfortunately

  • @visionarytopfloor
    @visionarytopfloor 2 роки тому +2

    genuine facts cause you gotta be with people who resonate with you

  • @miniyggdrasil4952
    @miniyggdrasil4952 2 роки тому

    Love this, thank you for helping me realize it's better to be alone than surrounded by insincerity.

  • @DJRaxeh
    @DJRaxeh 2 роки тому +2

    Same spot, this video resonated. Liked & subscribed...

  • @rodgalaurius7956
    @rodgalaurius7956 2 роки тому

    Kam spoke str8 facts on this one like I’m going into my sophomore year of college and I’m out of state and my bsf I thought who was ride or die or w3 we haven’t talk in a long time about to be a year over some bs idk it felt not genuine then the closer was “we grew apart don’t feel we need each other in our life” ts craxy

  • @pandaketamine
    @pandaketamine 2 роки тому +2

    “The real you is not defined by the sized of your office
    The real you is who you are when ain’t nobody watching”

  • @ericreviewsfragrances1395
    @ericreviewsfragrances1395 2 роки тому

    bro speaks from the heart and i appreciate that.

  • @MilitantMicah
    @MilitantMicah 2 роки тому +2

    I can relate to you a lot In this video Great! Message 👍🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯

  • @Chev1212fresh
    @Chev1212fresh 2 роки тому +4

    Appreciate your stories and honesty 🔥🔥👍

  • @tiburonista
    @tiburonista 2 роки тому

    Thanks for posting this Kam. Really resonated.

  • @thehooper9578
    @thehooper9578 2 роки тому +2

    Realest video you’ve made. Needed this right now man. Thanks a lot.

  • @name-tr4qw
    @name-tr4qw 2 роки тому +2

    i agree with this but some parts don't apply if I want a luxury car I would want it because I like how it looks and I want those extra comfort things so this applies to many things but it also can vary for some things

  • @defaultemail5636
    @defaultemail5636 2 роки тому +2

    this guy knows everything. very mature

  • @luisvelez8096
    @luisvelez8096 2 роки тому

    You're the realest UA-camr. I'm glad I discovered your channel. Thank you for this video bro.

  • @durag2x
    @durag2x 2 роки тому

    damn Kam i been here for a min n i think this yo best video yet, the honesty is just refreshing. keep grinding bro

  • @hybridous
    @hybridous 2 роки тому

    this is literally one if the best stories
    ever told

  • @daxel152
    @daxel152 2 роки тому +2

    This videos is why I follow you bro real asf 🙏

  • @tabasco9070
    @tabasco9070 2 роки тому +9

    I had a homie who was like a brother and I was the one who left him, I still think about him no homo

    • @yourdaughtersaddiction888
      @yourdaughtersaddiction888 2 роки тому +2

      I relate to that. It's a part of life I guess.
      From my side homie switched up outta nowhere so we had to cut ties
      What actually happened?
      You don't gots to share if you don't want to.

  • @MBLIFESTYLE20
    @MBLIFESTYLE20 2 роки тому +4

    Good shit my boy, needed to hear this 💯

  • @sanzen3694
    @sanzen3694 2 роки тому +2

    Kam i aprecate your wisdom

  • @gangatalishis
    @gangatalishis 2 роки тому +2

    That’s some real shit, always stay genuine and keep improving 💪🏽

  • @mechspectral3232
    @mechspectral3232 2 роки тому

    One of the hardest videos right here 💯💯💯 Needed this

  • @kamesprods
    @kamesprods 2 роки тому +7

    We do care about you bro. Keep spitting facts🔥❤️

  • @evresmaro3102
    @evresmaro3102 2 роки тому +3

    I appreciate the realness bro society needs this

  • @6riannn
    @6riannn 2 роки тому

    Love your transparency bro 🤞🏾❤️💯💯

  • @monurajput5608
    @monurajput5608 2 роки тому

    Love how u talk about Ego 🙏🏻reminds me of my Guru

  • @mikepalmeri6782
    @mikepalmeri6782 2 роки тому +4

    Keep it real!you are deep thinker and a clear informative presentation.

  • @tyrondokijauni
    @tyrondokijauni 2 роки тому +8

    people in high school gotta take notes from dis fr fr 💯💎

    • @JAS0N5K
      @JAS0N5K 2 роки тому

      im in middle school and i gotta take notes badly bru

    • @Bumblitz0
      @Bumblitz0 2 роки тому

      @@JAS0N5K same in 8th about to be in high school soon

    • @fvrlit
      @fvrlit 2 роки тому +1

      Be ready highschool changes you a lot I’m going to 11th and I’ve changed so much that I never thought when I was in 9th

  • @scottysatpanalysis
    @scottysatpanalysis 2 роки тому +6

    I aint even talking bout the females, I see hella people not able to make new actual friends not just people who be using them for a specific purpose and don’t even realize…. How for these guys to develop a core friend group? It’s a weird topic but people really try to be liked so hard

  • @tommyhoward7341
    @tommyhoward7341 2 роки тому +3

    This video killed my narcissism

  • @user-ib2ge5yr1n
    @user-ib2ge5yr1n 2 роки тому

    im listening man pls make more of these i love your viedeos man you rlly change my life rn

  • @zyvensanchez4716
    @zyvensanchez4716 2 роки тому +2

    Appreciate this type of content!!

  • @DPD162
    @DPD162 2 роки тому

    This was nothing but straight facts💯

  • @bioshock9998
    @bioshock9998 8 місяців тому

    Some people genuinely appreciate cars dude. I agree with everything else though

  • @strongprimate4235
    @strongprimate4235 2 роки тому

    W videos man you've really helped me.

  • @ybuzzard4861
    @ybuzzard4861 2 роки тому

    100% worth the watch.🙏🏽🔥

  • @legrealtrolling9693
    @legrealtrolling9693 2 роки тому

    thanks bro fr opened my eyes

  • @pngo522
    @pngo522 11 місяців тому

    I love this video

  • @LoganBramwell27
    @LoganBramwell27 2 роки тому

    you're a king bro holy shit

  • @aidinlayne
    @aidinlayne 2 роки тому

    15:05 damn the lunch thing hit home

  • @sadincel1967
    @sadincel1967 2 роки тому +6

    My friends talk shit behind my back

  • @madmax7965
    @madmax7965 2 роки тому +2

    appreciate you dawg

  • @wspadrian
    @wspadrian 2 роки тому

    I appreciate you man 🙏🏽

  • @Nobodyknowisaac06
    @Nobodyknowisaac06 2 роки тому

    I love your videos and I expecaly love this one this is so much like me

  • @slashscythe1463
    @slashscythe1463 2 роки тому

    Imma meet u one day I can relate to u so much I was at a low point a few months ago and still kinda am

  • @matoviche
    @matoviche 2 роки тому

    thank you bro fr i appreciate u

  • @nathanwalker2710
    @nathanwalker2710 2 роки тому

    Good video homie

  • @melons6709
    @melons6709 2 роки тому +2

    do more of these

  • @Say2Cups
    @Say2Cups 2 роки тому +2

    Bro you should make a discord for the community you built

  • @ohyoulame7269
    @ohyoulame7269 2 роки тому

    These videos really help bro

  • @idontknowwhattowrite797
    @idontknowwhattowrite797 2 роки тому

    Great video

  • @Shahshdh6
    @Shahshdh6 2 місяці тому

    they have no friends. their ego/persona has friends.

  • @cyprianovv
    @cyprianovv Рік тому

    Back to reality...

  • @Elusivemoney1
    @Elusivemoney1 2 роки тому

    But bro what is there’s no like minded people but me (not trying to boost my ego) but literally im the only conscious one in my school

  • @DanielGarcia-hq9gg
    @DanielGarcia-hq9gg 2 роки тому

    We love to see it

  • @growthhacker2369
    @growthhacker2369 2 роки тому

    My man spitting them facts💯

  • @AlexHernandez-xh8ei
    @AlexHernandez-xh8ei 2 роки тому

    How old are you kam u have so much knowledge for ur age

  • @yotoe6991
    @yotoe6991 2 роки тому

    you got me thinking hard🤌🏿

  • @azteckkboy5748
    @azteckkboy5748 2 роки тому

    I heard that voice crack in the beginning

  • @OLAKEMFA
    @OLAKEMFA 2 роки тому

    You real bro

  • @sipagain
    @sipagain 2 роки тому

    Fax 🙏🏽

  • @GeniusVisualss
    @GeniusVisualss 2 роки тому

    w vid

  • @idontknowwhattowrite797
    @idontknowwhattowrite797 2 роки тому

    W

  • @Prodpercy._
    @Prodpercy._ 2 роки тому

    I’m that one person

  • @AnthonySmith-tz3kh
    @AnthonySmith-tz3kh 2 роки тому

    First

  • @RonStayDolo
    @RonStayDolo 2 роки тому +2

    Jesus is coming back soon you guys repent🙏🏾

  • @ZaeRackzz
    @ZaeRackzz 2 роки тому +2

    These the topics we need you to keep delivering bro 💯