Remarkable Interview With An Anxiety Sufferer Now Recovered...MUST WATCH

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  • Опубліковано 21 вер 2024

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  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 Рік тому +16

    The acceptance is so hard. Especially when more symptoms are being added on

  • @charlesbarkley4765
    @charlesbarkley4765 3 роки тому +55

    Love how Shaan got more personal in this interview every recovery story convinces me I will get out of this!!!

    • @ApulicaOfficial
      @ApulicaOfficial 2 роки тому +1

      i doubt if shan himself got out of it

    • @charlesbarkley4765
      @charlesbarkley4765 2 роки тому +6

      @@ApulicaOfficial lol I’m damn near fully recovered already

    • @ApulicaOfficial
      @ApulicaOfficial 2 роки тому +1

      @@charlesbarkley4765 it will always be near...not 100% ..never seen anybody telling he is 100% recovered..

    • @charlesbarkley4765
      @charlesbarkley4765 2 роки тому +10

      @@ApulicaOfficial na u can fully recovered trust me , I can see it and feel it I’m back to my old self going out with friends to bars have some drinks meet people I feel like this anxiety / depression open up my mind and made me a much better person

    • @ApulicaOfficial
      @ApulicaOfficial 2 роки тому

      @@charlesbarkley4765 that much I am always doing...the only thing is random thoughts..which sucks

  • @garyparker6583
    @garyparker6583 2 роки тому +23

    "freaking out cos you opened your fridge and thought about existence" lol
    I love it, absolute legend 👍👍👍👍

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  2 роки тому +2

      Glad you enjoyed

    • @figsworld6977
      @figsworld6977 10 місяців тому +3

      These are the kind of things I wish people would say. But I understand why you wouldn't want to. But I really believe these things are what resonate with people that have anxiety. The really strange intrusive thoughts.

    • @yashupadhyay1023
      @yashupadhyay1023 3 дні тому

      Means?

  • @yashupadhyay1023
    @yashupadhyay1023 3 дні тому

    I don't know how I'm feeling it but i feel like Nico has healed many people in his life from anxiety. He is really smart

  • @carliebryant7627
    @carliebryant7627 7 місяців тому +2

    I love hearing that others don’t notice you’re having panic symptoms. Hearing you guys talk about that really helps.. that he couldn’t see any signs of anxiety in you when you asked him for help at Apple.

  • @ilse-u6x
    @ilse-u6x Рік тому +5

    You are ALL AMAZING! The more i listen, the more i feel "normal", always feeling like im the only one "going crazy", you folks sharing your this issue is absolutely astronomical! Anxiety is an isolated, terrifying experience,thank you so very much

  • @AFrick-f3m
    @AFrick-f3m 9 місяців тому +2

    I’ve had intense generalized anxiety for 50 years. I had friends in high school, but was made fun of constantly. Since then I’ve had very low self esteem. I’ve been on medication but your videos are the first thing that has really helped. It helps to know I’m not alone.

  • @SeanLeonDrumz
    @SeanLeonDrumz 3 роки тому +15

    Tremendously insightful for those who are suffering. Nico the wise.

  • @hugo3conde
    @hugo3conde 3 роки тому +14

    "It feels like both your mind and body have betrayed you" - wow ...How I feel everyday. The physical symptoms, the intrusive thoughts, the derealization, I mean.... this is no easy feat. Wish he would have listed all 70 symptoms he wrote down :/

  • @ashishparmar2073
    @ashishparmar2073 Рік тому +4

    The way he puts that "its a new landscape" so simply and clearly ❤️

  • @pillsooshin
    @pillsooshin 7 місяців тому +1

    My favorite part from this is that “ The answer is to recognize the world you are in and learn from that. Don’t take the knowledge you had previously to solve the current problems “ Thank you!

  • @vinylg3421
    @vinylg3421 Рік тому +9

    I love this ❤ truly wise and inspirational .. hoping full freedom for myself and everyone going through this

  • @mouthearnose
    @mouthearnose Рік тому +6

    26:25 "Sitting with it"
    35:52 "We are here not to fix anything, but to point you to the understanding that there has never been anything to fix :)"

  • @friendofclaire
    @friendofclaire Рік тому +8

    Insightful and well delivered. Everything resonated with me. Well done and thank you for this labor you have taken on!

  • @deon_pet
    @deon_pet 3 роки тому +6

    Very great, insightful, and relatable interview. The Apple store story is so real. And I hate when people figuratively say they’re gonna have a panic attack when I’m like “you don’t know the half of it”. But that’s just shows the difference in baseline’s of the two

  • @Nick__E2
    @Nick__E2 3 роки тому +10

    You’re the man Nico!! Would love to see you become a coach!

  • @cardad2220
    @cardad2220 3 роки тому +8

    This has to be one of the best videos.

  • @pkc3168
    @pkc3168 Рік тому +2

    I desperately needed to hear your guest's genuine experience and advice. I hope to be like him.

  • @rickm6232
    @rickm6232 Рік тому +5

    Another great interview! A true blessing ❤ Thank you Shaan & Nico! 😊

  • @toshuarussell4703
    @toshuarussell4703 Рік тому +4

    Wow he’s amazing ! You two together are gold

  • @MyRedCarrot
    @MyRedCarrot 15 днів тому

    What a smart guy. Enjoyed listening. Thanks!

  • @amdphen
    @amdphen 3 роки тому +13

    Nico the philosopher!! 😁 . He's really good! 👍🏻

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  3 роки тому +4

      Nico is a sage.

    • @amdphen
      @amdphen 3 роки тому +1

      @@byebyepanic hehehe.. thanks Shaan for all the amazing work that you do!

  • @liztowers2058
    @liztowers2058 Рік тому +5

    I must have had 100 panic attacks in that SAME bathroom 😂😂 I needed a laugh today.. life is funny.

  • @aishabenyahya4125
    @aishabenyahya4125 3 роки тому +8

    AMAZING video!!! Iv watched all of Shaans content as I’m recovering on my own and this is a really good video! Thank you both so much for this 🙏🙏

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 Рік тому +2

    Nico is smart! Perceptive! And makes good metaphors. Such an inspiration!

  • @maralynrigby9157
    @maralynrigby9157 Рік тому +1

    Now I understand why I have been described as being aloof... This constant cultivation of my difference from others rather than the opposite...

  • @slv6470
    @slv6470 3 роки тому +7

    he seems super cool! also love listening to this.

  • @alphaomega7433
    @alphaomega7433 3 роки тому +8

    Great Interview!

  • @knowledgecorner2944
    @knowledgecorner2944 3 роки тому +6

    Shaan thnku for everything..:)

  • @smartpanna1975
    @smartpanna1975 3 роки тому +5

    wonderful story, Thank you so much.

  • @evatempleton5994
    @evatempleton5994 9 місяців тому

    Listening to this guy has helped me so much because he described how a change of weather could or hot it really shakes your system. That happened to me recently and it really scared me not knowing why.

  • @IrishMexican
    @IrishMexican Рік тому +2

    It's interesting how I hear different people's perspective on why "this" issue seemed like the most important to "me." Probably why the symptom/issue persisted - because of the fear of it.

  • @brianschnurr3254
    @brianschnurr3254 3 роки тому +6

    This is literally me. My entire life has been just like this, and i am 31 now and STILL struggling.

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  3 роки тому +6

      Stay strong!

    • @Idontknow-uq2ct
      @Idontknow-uq2ct 3 роки тому +5

      Looks like u still haven’t accepted your anxiety

    • @yassinechaouki4755
      @yassinechaouki4755 2 роки тому +4

      8 Months with dealint with gad and panic disorder , last 3 months my panic attacks are gone my normal life is back im not recovered 100% i still deal with my setbacks and my symptoms but i totally accept that its just anxiety i dont judge or justify any symptom you have to accept it like a sneeze and trust me you will start making progress im 19yo btw i had my first panic attack in my last 18y

    • @yassinechaouki4755
      @yassinechaouki4755 2 роки тому +3

      Another advice its the best for me , just live your life do what you used to do even if you are dealing with heart palpitations whatever you have to do that and live with the symptoms and they ll start disappearing

    • @privateeful
      @privateeful 17 днів тому

      Yes me too . What helps me is to talk to other people . Wish I had a person I can talk to .

  • @Truth_Bringerxx
    @Truth_Bringerxx 3 роки тому +5

    God bless you both

  • @sukhimahal5153
    @sukhimahal5153 3 роки тому +5

    Suffering as student from 2 years

  • @danielpolednik
    @danielpolednik 3 роки тому +7

    My story is very similar. Indigestion, Gad, terror.. Right now I'm in process of finding if my symptoms are physical. Blood testing tomorrow. After results it will give at least some certainty. I wish everybody to find certainty, I wish you to heal, we can do it!!!

    • @danielpolednik
      @danielpolednik 3 роки тому +1

      Just follow up. My blood is ok just low vitamin D + lower testosterone. I will take vit. D3. My nervous system is still very sensitive even if I'm calm. I'm gonna continue to apply acceptance. I will follow up with my progress later - i hope this could help at least one person in the future.

    • @בןארביב-ס1מ
      @בןארביב-ס1מ 3 роки тому +1

      @@danielpolednik hey daniel
      if i can suggest some tool to help while u doing this work
      try wim hof method watch it carfully and understand the process very well before u apply it
      its like anxiety meds without the side effects it will only take the edge off but wont fix everything but will help to work on urself calmer

    • @TheSpectraYT
      @TheSpectraYT Рік тому

      how you doing 2 years later?

    • @danielpolednik
      @danielpolednik Рік тому

      @@TheSpectraYT Hi, I'm doing well. If i can recommend something to other people -> Focus on something else (job, project, hobby, family). I know it's hard and you want to fix your problem now! But if you want to fix the problem you are telling your body there is a problem. Also don't consume coffein and go to sleep early (max 10pm). The other part is acceptance. How can you accept suffering? For me it was easier because i had this episode once before in my life. So i could assure myself, that i know what's going on and my body will come back to balance again. YOU WILL GET THROUGH AND OUT - ACCEPT!!!

    • @TheSpectraYT
      @TheSpectraYT Рік тому

      @@danielpolednik so are you fully recovered now? no symptoms?

  • @byebyepanic
    @byebyepanic  3 роки тому +8

    To accelerate your recovery journey, book a discovery call to see if the mentorship with Shaan will help your specific situation:
    byebyepanic.lpages.co/scq-funnel-optin-page/

  • @But_Whyyyy
    @But_Whyyyy Рік тому +1

    When they talk about the weight loss part, I was smiling cuz of happiness due to the fact that I am 88 pounds at 20 age

  • @evatempleton5994
    @evatempleton5994 9 місяців тому

    Thank you Nico! You describe just how I feel

  • @BrendaHall1
    @BrendaHall1 2 роки тому +1

    Great interview!!! Nice is very insightful

  • @umbertofurlan501
    @umbertofurlan501 3 роки тому +10

    anyone has persistent chronic muscle tension due to stressfull anxiety period? me its 1 year and a half without any improvements.

    • @hugo3conde
      @hugo3conde 3 роки тому +1

      I’m going on 6 months :(

    • @itsjen94
      @itsjen94 2 роки тому

      @@hugo3conde how are you feeling now? Still physical symptoms?

    • @hugo3conde
      @hugo3conde 2 роки тому +1

      @@itsjen94 I still have symptoms - but other ones now - the muscle tension is not as prominent but now I have migraines and tingling on my face that really freaks me out … it’s tough :( but we can do this !!!!

    • @mikepaquette1245
      @mikepaquette1245 Рік тому

      @max how you doing these days?

    • @crystalH30
      @crystalH30 9 місяців тому +1

      Yes lots of shoulder tension

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 Рік тому +2

    He quoted Joe Dispenza who is phenomenal!

  • @justinpemble7453
    @justinpemble7453 4 місяці тому

    Hello. My name is Justin. I have suffered with anxiety for so many years. I have now watched a number of your videos and would really like to join your program! Please let me know what I need to do or where to find your application? Thank you so much for all your content! Have a great day!!😃

  • @maepaderna20
    @maepaderna20 2 місяці тому

    I wish i found Shann’s video sooner

  • @suzanaflorestherapy
    @suzanaflorestherapy Рік тому +1

    Great discussion

  • @mandarsawale4596
    @mandarsawale4596 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for your guidance 😊

  • @alpal681
    @alpal681 3 роки тому +4

    Amazing video guys thank you

  • @evelyndaisy9722
    @evelyndaisy9722 Рік тому +1

    He gives me hope 🙏

  • @patdaniell5528
    @patdaniell5528 2 роки тому

    Just found you yesterday l can not believe l am hearing me in both of you 16y it started 71y now phobia of vomiting and the things that were said about going out the reason why different places in the house safe etc
    I am going through it at this moment as lot of health problems don't stop

  • @pillsooshin
    @pillsooshin 7 місяців тому +2

    Can I ask from what age did you start to have anxiety? Did you have that since you were a preteen?

  • @effortless4588
    @effortless4588 Рік тому +1

    Amazing content

  • @editinglearn4395
    @editinglearn4395 3 роки тому +5

    Suffering rn

  • @JerothyOle-pt2ee
    @JerothyOle-pt2ee Рік тому

    You both are amazing ♥️♥️

  • @dompurpura
    @dompurpura 3 роки тому +3

    Shaan, do you have a patrion? I would love to give back to you for giving so much to me. Thanks

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  3 роки тому +16

      Best way is to help someone else :)

    • @dompurpura
      @dompurpura 3 роки тому +8

      @@byebyepanic you are a legend.

  • @johnlant1730
    @johnlant1730 3 роки тому +8

    Shaan why does the body change up symptoms on you. Sometimes I feel like my body is saying this symptom isn’t getting a reaction from him anymore so let’s now send this. Sometimes I feel like I have the upper hand on this then I will get a new symptom and be like WTF is this now. Is your body intentionally looking to spark fear by doing this?

    • @ghassenbohli4056
      @ghassenbohli4056 3 роки тому +6

      U dont need books to move over anxiety , the easiest way to recover is to absolutely do nothing and live ur life back , u want the mechanism behind it ? Intense fear stored in the mind and body , does the body heal ? Yes . How ? By releasing the fear (aka u feeling rotten and fearful ) do u let it ? No , there u go u stay in the cycle , the longer u stay the longer the memory the longer the recovery . Its not magic its a pattern , and to answer ur question why the symptoms change because an anxious traumatised mind will play every trick in the book to survive ..... ur job is not even accepting ur job is to live ur life fully with or without anxiety

    • @johnlant1730
      @johnlant1730 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you friend. This makes complete sense.

    • @Idontknow-uq2ct
      @Idontknow-uq2ct 3 роки тому

      @@ghassenbohli4056 so acceptance

    • @ghassenbohli4056
      @ghassenbohli4056 3 роки тому

      @@Idontknow-uq2ct when u tell people accept , their anxious mind outsmart them and turn it to a technique to get rid of anxiety

    • @Idontknow-uq2ct
      @Idontknow-uq2ct 3 роки тому

      @@ghassenbohli4056 some do do that but acceptance is not supposed to be used as a technique

  • @evatempleton5994
    @evatempleton5994 9 місяців тому

    Could you please elaborate more on how or when is the insomnia gets better and how?

  • @ashishparmar2073
    @ashishparmar2073 Рік тому

    I would like to listen Nico more

  • @ashishparmar2073
    @ashishparmar2073 Рік тому

    Actually it's true' doing job helps 👍

  • @crystal_vvave9045
    @crystal_vvave9045 3 роки тому

    Speaking about health anxiety there is a 6 minute cartoon called kikoriki, episode: "Chiko and his health" which is very accurate

  • @MrSKlim
    @MrSKlim 2 роки тому

    Lol! So funny, Apple store was a trigger place for me as well. I would just be sitting waiting for a tech to help and it was I just wanted to leave. Shallow breathings, hard time swallowing, abdomen tightening, non stop restlessness lol.

  • @SoberAgoraphobic
    @SoberAgoraphobic Рік тому

    I get intrusive thoughts..I don't know how to move forward riding in car because my kids are with me and I fear if I react

  • @suukinsin6771
    @suukinsin6771 Рік тому +1

    My anxiety went away just after 1 week of black seed oil daily...all the inflamation and stress in my body dissapered..great oil..iherbs

  • @evatempleton5994
    @evatempleton5994 9 місяців тому +1

    My biggest symptom is insomnia and loss of appetite. And also loss of appetite. How did you start getting those things back?

    • @ElenaRata-iv5pk
      @ElenaRata-iv5pk 8 місяців тому

      Yeah me too exactly insomnia and loosing a appetite and loss weight. How you accept insomnia and be friend with when you feel so bad. But I’m still wake up and do lots of stuff. I’m not afraid to go out or in shop and if I sleep 4-5 hours I feel better. Pray for you to start feeling better soon!!

  • @kamaconnection
    @kamaconnection 3 роки тому +3

    That quote is from joe dispenza

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  3 роки тому +1

      Which one?

    • @kamaconnection
      @kamaconnection 3 роки тому +3

      Thoughts are the language of the mind and feelings are the language of the body

    • @nicopaolo
      @nicopaolo 3 роки тому +2

      😬

  • @tannerbrandon5211
    @tannerbrandon5211 3 роки тому +3

    Did he experience 24/7 depersonalization? Did he recover?

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 Рік тому

    Was Nico recovered when you two worked together?

  • @laurenbaldwin6068
    @laurenbaldwin6068 3 роки тому +2

    Is this fo DPDR i have it feel like giving up

  • @ashishparmar2073
    @ashishparmar2073 Рік тому

    It becomes familiar ....ya

  • @nitesh7397
    @nitesh7397 3 роки тому

    Is the freeze response also Anxiety?

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  3 роки тому +1

      It falls under the stress response. For simplicity we throw it under the anxiety umbrella. It’s a different mechanism, but the solution is the same . Good question tho h

  • @ApulicaOfficial
    @ApulicaOfficial 2 роки тому

    he says he still has some symptoms..how can u tell he is recovered...u can say he is managing

  • @katelyndefreitas2810
    @katelyndefreitas2810 2 роки тому

    I'm stressing out but only getting fatter :-(

  • @zoemilinkovic
    @zoemilinkovic 3 роки тому +4

    Great interview. 👏