72 - Chasing Unavailable Love and Unpacking Idealized Relationships with Matthew Hussey

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  • Опубліковано 23 лис 2024

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  • @ibekristen
    @ibekristen 7 місяців тому +8

    the contrast between you and matthew’s energies is so cool to see. i’ve been a follower of matthew for a long time but i’m so happy i came across your content. i loooove your straightforward no nonsense personality sabrina! love this episode!

  • @JeffersonRah
    @JeffersonRah 5 місяців тому +3

    I'm learning a lot from you two. I actually bought his book today. I wish I had come across you two 2 months ago. I'm 35 and have never been in a serious relationship and have a lot to learn. Dating around was great but when I came across a certain individual 2 months ago, I was just a happy go lucky guy that went with the flow and didn't know a thing about myself being in a relationship. This previous girl was a wake up call for me to really try and learn. Thank you both for doing what you do. She was probably watching a lot of you guys and had standards that I couldn't meet. I'm a good guy and a quick learner(but i know it'll take a long time to actually be it and implement). Unfortunately with no experience, it seems I've disqualified myself with certain things that was brought up. Though my anxious attachment style could be an excuse, I do believe it got in the way and I didn't know how to handle it.
    Thank you both

    • @bzarb14
      @bzarb14 4 місяці тому

      Wanted to see how you thought the book was and if you had any other books you found helpful. I feel like all help especially for anxious attachment are very much geared towards women.....trying to find something from a mans perspective. Thanks

  • @flyingmama3751
    @flyingmama3751 6 місяців тому +2

    Love! Just started dating again after coming out of an 18 year marriage and I never knew I was anxious until I came out here. It’s definitely been a learning experience!

  • @EverythingQueenshono
    @EverythingQueenshono 28 днів тому

    This was so great. I love how you both have this ability to evoke greatness in me. You have helped me to learn, love and live. Thank you Sabrina and Matthew for your amazing channels. This was an incredible conversation you two had.❤️

  • @Lihoradka-s6v
    @Lihoradka-s6v 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you guys, you are so wise❤ and Sabrina's mom seems so wise and accepting too, I wish I had her relationship advice growing up.
    I am single and looking for a relationship right now, and at some point it has grown into some kind of addiction. And after listening to the endless podcasts and reading posts and all that, I went for a walk yesterday and thought - well, I've dealt with some of my childhood issues, I have a job, a very cool hobby which I love, I have friends - who cares that I am 34, unmarried and not a mom? Maybe this is the most fun time in my life I will ever have! What am I going to do with my time before I marry and have kids (if ever?)? I let this thought simmer in my mind. Easier said than done though, because today I am procrastinating, and listening to podcasts, and thinking about a (yet another) disinterested guy I've been infatuated with - instead of moving towards my goals. But at least I have this idea, of the best time of my life, to go back to whenever I start feeling that I am not OK.

  • @shirleylo13
    @shirleylo13 7 місяців тому +4

    Hi Sabrina! Thank you for your videos on UA-cam and tiktok! It really helped me distinguish what’s more important - the texting versus the actions that he takes, you helped me feel more reassured in myself and communicate better❣️

  • @lilac2928
    @lilac2928 5 місяців тому

    Wow. Where were you 20 years ago? This episode made me cry. My therapist recommended your podcast and this episode in particular....thank you!!!

  • @MishasAdventures
    @MishasAdventures 7 місяців тому +2

    Dealing with this right now! It’s awful! Love Matthew!! So glad to see him on your show- love you both!!!

  • @toriholcomb8107
    @toriholcomb8107 7 місяців тому +5

    Sabrina you ate TF DOWNNNN with this so needed

    • @Sabrina_zohar
      @Sabrina_zohar  7 місяців тому +1

      🥹😘🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @alyssajune5747
    @alyssajune5747 7 місяців тому +2

    This is probably my favorite episode so far!! Thank you so much for this podcast ❤🙏🏽

  • @adelaideo7417
    @adelaideo7417 7 місяців тому +4

    Why don’t you have more subscribers?! I’ve gotten so much wisdom from your advice! Thank you!!! ❤ I wonder if you can also talk about why we do the things we do ie., self sabotage and focusing on fixing/healing ourselves

    • @Sabrina_zohar
      @Sabrina_zohar  7 місяців тому +2

      Thank you so much!! I’m newer to UA-cam (bigger on insta and tik tok) but hoping to grow this as well and help more 🫶🏼

  • @circlesthesun
    @circlesthesun 7 місяців тому +1

    I've used several of your insights in my 9 month relationship. I paid attention to the unfavorable patterns. We had those conversations but I needed to make a decision.

  • @xtinll54x99
    @xtinll54x99 16 днів тому

    My fave episode❤

  • @chanstoned
    @chanstoned 6 місяців тому

    You both are amazing - Love your perspectives on life! This was seriously so helpful after experiencing the end to a situationship in the past month

  • @ecalvill0
    @ecalvill0 6 місяців тому

    Love the motto. I'm happy enough and for now.

  • @viviguerra100
    @viviguerra100 6 місяців тому +1

    ❤ you both. You 2 are helping me a lot with my breakup 😢 yall are the best

  • @Boonie2727
    @Boonie2727 6 місяців тому +1

    Chasing emotionally unavailable people is my unfortunate default.. Im working on it

  • @mzunipeg67
    @mzunipeg67 6 місяців тому

    So can relate, followed both for a while. Loved this podcast.

  • @AmberS-sf9vc
    @AmberS-sf9vc 7 місяців тому

    Hey Sabrina. Thanks for saving my life. ❤

  • @sibelkusdemir
    @sibelkusdemir Місяць тому

    What’s the full episode of this short ?

    • @Sabrina_zohar
      @Sabrina_zohar  Місяць тому +1

      This is the full episode!

    • @sibelkusdemir
      @sibelkusdemir Місяць тому

      @@Sabrina_zohar Thank you 🙏 there was one that I want to keep watching you were talking about “you are an adult you get to choose your relationship, if somebody says they don’t want a relationship, walk away” - you were wearing a tshirt written Coca Cola, I need that video I have seen in Facebook! Are you talking about it here ?

  • @oliviaszeplaki4386
    @oliviaszeplaki4386 7 місяців тому

    Yuppies
    You two