@Telanic me too 🙈 But I think it's about for how it's okay for boys to date but girls "need to be protected! Cause they can't make their own rational decisions" ? Or something? Like the overprotective dad you sometimes see in American t.v. shows?
It's a thing called misandry where a woman forces you to be in a relationship or else she will hurt your loved ones, take everything from you, or threatens you with a false allegation. We are straight for women who are actually nice and see us as human beings not toys or atms. There are of course those mysoginist guys who had no good father figures and or were mentally unstable. Also people dont choose to be straight or gay they are just born that way via hormonal balances and genetics.
Well, that is kind of people who probably think the purpose of their life is to follow "the right way", the right meaning "how everyone else lives". Marriage just because everyone does it, breeding just because everyone does it etc.
This was exactly one of my arguments to my dad when we were arguing about marriage equality - he kept carrying on about how his generation and the ones before respect the sanctity of marriage and take it seriously, and I pointed out that his generation and the ones before literally invented a whole genre of jokes based on how miserable married people (especially men) are. Being the kind of person who actually makes those sorts of jokes, he quickly changed the topic.
“Lesbian relationships are unhealthy because the women understand each other so they will feel bad if they want to break up so they never break up, therefore making it unhealthy and toxic.” -some guy on the r/AreTheStraightsOk? Subreddit that I saw when I was scrolling through it
Well, it's never healthy to stay in a relationship that you're not happy in. Although it depends on how bad the relationship is. It takes work to maintain a healthy relationship, you shouldn't just cut and run over something petty. But there is a point where the relationship is so damaged it's not worth saving. Of course, that post totally ignores the fact that straight people will also stay in loveless marriages "for the children"
That’s literally just like.. wow. That’s not a lesbian relationship trait 😭 that could be an any relationship trait and then many lesbian relationships are very happy. I love my girlfriend!
I am bi, but married to a man. The amount of shitty comments we got before we got married were outrageous! Ranging from the classic ball and chain stuff, telling me that he would become lazy once we’re married, comments about how our sex life will stop existing (?! Like, how rude), telling me I should get pregnant ASAP so I could „bind“ him to me... disgusting. My go to answer was something along the lines of „we’re getting married because we actually like each other??“. Crazy how that seems like a strange concept to some Straight People™️. My husband is my best friend, not just someone who, idk, provides for me and who I do the dishes for 🤦🏼♀️
I'm a straight woman. Straight relationship culture is so f'ed up. You have someone like my younger sister who was a little disappointed my dad never threatened any of her boyfriends with a shotgun - I told her it's probably because I'm the oldest and I would have been LIVID if he pulled that type of sexist crap. It's just so weird and messed up.
@@NameName-yj7lp The way I understand it is that many straights™ are Christian, and in the strict Christian belief once you knock a girl up you have to get married and stay with her for the rest of your life, if you aren't already married (not all Christian's are like this, but the strict ones are.) Not onlt this but these Christian ideologies have bled into societies ideology, plus you just look like a heartless asshole if you abandon a pregnant women, cuz its your kid.
LOL at the kid thing. I have 3 kids and am single :D My ex was told I got pregnant to "keep him" ... I found out 2 months after he dumped me... we never got back together. Oh how I laughed
My mom is like this and I’m t r y i n g to pass as a male I asked to cut my hair, she said that’s for guys. I wear this baggy T-shirt to hide my chest, she says it looks like for guys. I told her I don’t like girl clothes because they make me uncomfortable, she said get used to it. She told me to wash the dishes because that’s a “women’s job” My brother said she’s sexist, and she said what’s his point I tried telling my mom I like the same gender, she said I’m just confused and that she prays to god that it’s not true How am I supposed to pass as male if my mom is like this??
I understand the struggle but maybe you should show her a few videos of trans videos to make her understand the pain as well as transphoic attacks. Maybe educating her will help. It has taken my mother almost two years to semi accept me as her son and not daughter.
... What Valor Studios says might work or it might make things worse, it really depends on your parents. But if it doesn't work, there's something else you need to know. It is very hard to wait. To get through high school, perhaps even college, or reach the point where you can rent a place of your own one way or another, and to live like this until that moment. It's terrible, and it should not be forced on people, but it is *possible*. Thousands of people before you have gone their entire lives hiding what they were and marrying a person they did not want to marry and having kids with them because EVERYONE was like that, and letting anyone found out could be a literal death sentence. The world is not like that anymore. Once you are financially independant and out of your parents' house, they cannot tell you what to do. Yes, if Valor Studios' suggestion doesn't work, it is possible that your relationship with your parents will be permanently broken. But if they can't ruin you (by kicking you out of the house, cutting you off while you have no way to make money on your own etc), then you will still have your life to live as you want to. So if they do refuse to accept you, don't fight them. Don't be difficult. Pretend to be a girl and just don't date. I know it's gonna suck monkey balls to have to spend so much time out of your life sitting around waiting before you can finally start living, but at this point they can still take your future away. The best thing you can do to make sure you actually will be able to live later, is to wait for it now. Study hard and try to find some kind of side job, especially if you're going to college - whether you need it to pay for college or not - because if you have job experience of ANY type you'll have a big edge on a lot of other fresh college graduates looking for jobs. And another life tip I can give you is, figure out what you prefer: living in a warm, comfortable house where the food is good and the internet fast but having to hide your true identity; or sharing an apartment with no heating and thin walls with three other people and eating ramen most nights but being able to be yourself. If you're not willing to share a bad apartment with strangers, you will probably not be able to move out of your parents' house before you make it to Middle Manager because of shitty pay (and be very very careful moving in with a partner. You do not want to become dependent on a single person if there's nowhere else you can go - abusers don't show that they are abusers until you can't get away anymore. Do not EVER let anyone cut you off from your friends if you can't go back to your parents). This is something I personally wish someone would have told me before so I would've had time to come to grips with it before it actually happened, but I did the sharing in a shitty apartment. A hot water bottle, water kettle and eiderdown duvet are your best friends in winter.
Im sorry shes like that! You can try to educate her & change her views (only if its safe to do so) but otherwise just try not to let her get to you- be you and when u can, find ppl who support you being you.
I'm so sorry this happened to you I went through something similar with my parents but I think it wasn't as heart breaking as your experience. parents really got mad at me when I came out to them as bi and they think I have demons they also say shit like "It's not natural for you to be bisexual you should start liking only women because because liking guys is weird and it's not natural" or "you don't know your sexuality you're only 16" and they have said many other stupid things to me... oh well just try to not let her bother you and just do what you want that's what I did or if she is super abusive you might want to find someone to help you or at least someone to talk to🖤
Obviously don’t do this if your mom is insane & will react really badly if you do but....when I was a teen my mom wouldn’t let me get a short haircut & my solution was to take the kitchen scissors & chop off my ponytail myself. She had no choice but to get me a shorter haircut then, just to fix the terrible hack job I had done. Might be worth a try lol
@@NameName-yj7lp Also, don't stay together for the sake of a kid. The kid will be much happier if they don't have to see the tension between their parents all the time
@@maximusmidnight2591 As someone whose parents stayed together because of me, YES DON'T DO THAT PLEASE!!! It ended up w me taking a side (my mom) and not bonding at all with my dad. Now he just makes me uncomfortable as shit whenever he walks into a room
@@feckethbalcony3666 i begged my mother to divorce my father because he was tearing the family apart. He was physically abusing all of us. She never left him. The only thing that brought her freedom was his death last year. Karma got his ass but I really wish they split up sooner. I basically had no childhood because I had to babysit my parents so they don't tear eachother to shreds. I don't even wish my worst enemy the fate I had. Please people, if a relationship isn't working, you're better off separated;;
As a straight cishet, I do not claim these people. Everyone deserves to LOVE whoever and BE LOVED by whoever they want. Everyone deserves to BE who they wanna be.
In the 50’s managing the household money was actually considered the woman’s job in the marriage. Because she would be the one doing the grocery shopping and getting their clothes.
Ok so I’m black and seeing homophobic black people pisses me off so much because we used to be hated and discriminated because of our skin and now you’re doing it to other people based on who they love.
Exactly!! There was a really homophobic black girl at my high school and it always confused me as to why because she deals with sexism and racism and yet she doesnt understand how that stuff can hurt LGBTQ+ people?? It just didn't make sense
This is reminding me of something that happened the other day with my dad. My 2 year old brother was going around pretending to be various animals, and he came up to my dad being "mommy fox." I didn't see it as a big deal, he's just a toddler pretending to be different animals, but my dad got SUPER mad! He spent soooo much time trying to get my brother to change what he called himself in his game, and yelled at me when I said "Hi momma fox" a few minutes later. Am I the only one who finds this a little ridiculous?
Hey, Jammi! It’s really cool to see you dive into this subreddit, too. It has been a really popular one, and as much as it teases people, I feel like it brings us all closer together. Anyways, cheers. 💜
OMAHGAWD ONE TOPIC IT'S YOU AAAAA I just came here from watching your r/sapphoandherfriend video and I wanted to say that you're such a sweet, wonderful guy and your videos make me so happy ❤❤
My friend talking about her kid when he is near any woman ever "Ohh hes gonna be SUCH A LADIES MAN He'll have to beat them away with a stick" When her daughter who sees me as an uncle asks me about if i have a girlfriend" Well actually sweetie for me id have a -----*She interupts* Hey go get mommy water, then to me "Thats not really okay to mention ya know" HAHA yes "Look at my toddler when he's older hes gonna have so much sex" is fine but saying id have a boyfriend is ewwwwwwww
@@hayleyblanch5895 lol trust me shes at whatever the thing above arms length is. Problem is shes not really a friend. More a friends partner. It's a whole thing but trust me I hear ya
One of my favorite comedians is John Mulaney because he genuinely loves his wife. Every joke he's delivered with her in it has mentioned how wonderful he thinks his wife is. This is how you treat your beautiful spouses, Straights™. If it's not John Mulaney I don't want it.
“My wife said I could make jokes about her as long as I didn’t call her a bitch and say I hated her. The bar is SO MUCH LOWER than I ever expected! I would never say my wife is a bitch and I hate her- my wife is a bitch and I LOVE HER.”
I've never understood people who complain about their spouse (and it always seems to be straight couples). Like, if you partner/spouse pisses you off that much, leave. It's not the most complicated thing ever. If it makes you so insecure when your girlfriend asks you to do laundry or your boyfriend looks at another person, gtfo. No one is forcing you to be miserable.
@Ashooley ! Have you never had conversations outside the internet? I'm 24, and I've known people both older and younger than myself who refer to their partner as a "pain" or a "drag" or whatever. Joke or not, that's stupid and shitty. If you're going to talk shit about someone, even if you call it a joke, that tells me there's some underlying issue.
@Ashooley ! I can hardly read that first sentence. 404: Grammar not found. Anyway, dude. You're wrong. It's ok to be wrong; there's no shame in it. Pretty much any job I've worked is primarily people between 18 and 35. Of those people, just about all who are married have, at some point in time, refered to their spouse in a negative way. It's the same with people who aren't married but are in a committed relationship. Just because you personally have never experienced that doesn't mean it's not true. Stop being so ignorant, my guy :/
@Ashooley ! ok maybe in your alternate universe it's a gay/boomer thing but in this world it really is quite common with 25-45 year old cishet couples.
Honestly that's one of the things that sometimes makes me insecure in my marriage; I hear all my friends on co-workers shitting all over their partners, like everyone does it. I can't help but wonder what my husband says about me behind my back. And he's so sweet and caring, and then I feel guilty for even thinking about such nonsense. Straights can be really toxic sometimes.
It's definitely more prominent in the US just because of social media, but there are countries out there that are V E R Y strict and homophobic. Predominantly Muslim countries, for example, are very homophobic and strict towards women (which is why alot of them moved to the US, to escape that kind of bullshit). Social media has definitely allowed the homophobic and xenophobic people to voice their loud opinions and it's aggravating to no end for the rest of us lol
Every country has homophobic, sexist, transphobic, biphobic, racist etc people. I just think it is shown and expressed very differently in different cultures and countries. Obviously this doesn’t make any of it ok and it needs to be fought against in everyplace that it can be. But it’s just different, especially in western vs other cultures.
There's a difference between straight people and The Straights™️. Straight people are people that are attracted to the opposite gender. The Straights™️ are problematic straight people that invalidate LGBT people or say terrible things about relationships. Most people are generally lovely. It's The Straights™️ that I don't care for, not straight people in general. If you're straight or even an ally, I love you. I hope you're doing okay during this time. Have a great day :)
Ok gen Z, despite how much our deep-fried humor sucks, is better than boomer humor. Millennial is ok but eventually turns into the gen Z disorder idolization we see today.
Straight people: children shouldn’t see gay couples in media! They’re too young!! Don’t push lifestyles on them!!!!!1!1! Also straight people to a literal baby: ooo look at this little man! I bet he gets all the ladies!
I agree, I hate it how they can do that shit to kids, but if a gay person were to say the same exact thing except that they switched the gender, it would've been a big deal
For all the straight men out there: Problem: I hate my wife/girlfriend. Women bad. Solution: Date men. Being flexible makes things easier. Get with it bros.
The problem is heterosexuality is well, a sexuality and therefore not something you can change. You can't just tell a straight person to go for the gender they're not attracted to. It's disrespectful and ignorant. It's the same thing if person A told gay person B to start dating women because person B's previous relationships didn't work out. *It doesn't work that way, does it?* Edit: people in the comments telling me it's a joke, didn't seem like that to me at first, some crazy enough people genuinely think that way. I'm wrong though, so yeah, I'm a walnut ha.
Also, can straight men stop memeing about cheating on their gfs and wives? Like cheating is never funny. It’s never cute. I’ve seen so many memes about cheating and then they also wonder why they’re single. Not to mention those are the types of dudes to say “cut out your eyes and your leg and prove you love me”.
@@anidiot192 Yeah I think she's referring more to like those memes you see on instagram that meme pages spam to cause controversy because it gets them comments 🤷♀️
When I saw the broken makeup I was actually shocked, makeup is SO expensive sometimes. When me and my ex broke up and he left his wallet and stuff at my place, all I did was leave it by the door and ask him to pick it up (we didn't even end on good terms) really shows how scary these people are.
Narcissistic Personality disorder ruins too many innocent lives. I'm sorry it ruined being a therapist for you. I don't think I would be able to handle that job either. I let a narcissist dominate over me for 17 years before I broke free and watching anyone else choose to stay in a situation like that would be too triggering for me. Bless you for helping everyone you did help! You're a rockstar!
This was both a tragic, and funny comment to read. Guess I laughed because it hit home from living with a narcissist in the past. I am sorry though. Props to you.
Jamie: "I'm not making fun of straight people" Straight people: "maim yourself so your man can have a car"??? Jamie: *suddenly realises straight people are actually not ok*
not all straight people are like that, but people that are like that are straight, and the biggest/clearest reason they're like that is that they're straight. If you wrote "moronic conservative" and not just "conservative" then you should understand the distinction
@@buchelaruzit I feel like a solid 30% of people telling these jokes are in the closet. 70+ if you only count the wife hating ones. I know it's weird to think about people still needing to be in the closet if you're not around conservatives, but, well just look at these memes.
Me: gay, watching videos of LGBT youtubers, recommendations is as colourful as a kid's colouring book. UA-cam: here is an ad about how to have a heterosexual relationship
Ads promoting straight relationships are stupid, they act like straight…ness and gayness is contagious, straights aren’t in need of "support” when they are never hated on, denied, not allowed to be married to WHO THEY LOVE, not painted as villains, not unrepresented in tv and media, it’s so dumb!
The game over picture kind of reminds me of how sometimes in tv shows they'll emphasize bachelor parties being their "last day of freedom and fun" as if they weren't already in a relationship with the person beforehand and just fine.
“Even selling her legs and two eyes to make sure he’s happy.” WAIT, NO I NEED TO KNOW, ARE YOU STRAIGHT PEOPLE ACTUALLY, HONESTLY OK??? My god, that’s the most intense one I’ve seen, that’s just terrifying. O_O
I like this subreddit because it reminds me that the grass is greener on THIS side The whole "marriage should be between a man and a woman" argument really falls apart when you consider just how many men and women should NOT be together I'm not saying that NO straight people should be in a relationship, just that not ALL straight people should be in a relationship To everyone who was also disgusted by the actions of those featured on this subreddit, I wish you a lifetime of happiness with your soulmate ❤️
Billy D Cheers! I’m a cishet myself but I got subscribed to so many pages like hets_explain_yourselves which finally defined something I couldn’t quite put my finger on for years (to me it was “your basic suburban aunt/uncle culture”). There was a tweet somewhere from a cishet who wrote “I don’t know what cishet is but it sounds like they are insufferable and don’t deserve rights”. The irony 😂
@@v0idvice209 no? I have many cishet men and they are absolutely amazing, please stop generalizing, it hurts to see actual good sweet supportive men getting generalized into such a horrible stereotype. If a person's an asshole, they're an asshole. Their sexuality and gender literally has nothing to do with it. Sorry if this was too long, but I've seen this a lot.
I feel bad cuz you went from "this should be funny" to very disturbed & frustrated. You are the best, Jamie. Sucks that there can be such a toxic mysoginistic culture around relationships, but I'm glad so many of us are breaking that culture down & fighting it. Have you considered doing a video where you rate fictional relationships? Either relationships from movies & TV shows or OTPs that ate not cannon? I feel like it would be fun to hear you & Shaaba discuss what's healthy or not or who has the best chemistry.
@@bruh-kj1qw but straights aren't all like that, there are many who educate themselves. By society I mean all the people who try to conform to a certain standard, so it's not every straight on the planet like that.
I like who always straight people implies that they hate marriage and relationships while still getting into them... like dude, that's some strong masoquist energy
I'm straight, cis, and have been with the same person for 54 years, since we were both in our teens. Sure, everyone likes to gripe about their life partners' less endearing foibles. Because, guess what, nobody is perfect. It's better to do it with humor, and we can all recognize it in ourselves and have a good tension releasing laugh. That's what humor is for, something the younger generations seem to have forgotten.
My friend: I feel like shit everytime I'm with my boyfriend and he refuses to engage in a conversation about our relationship Me: sounds like you are no longer happy and maybe ending the relationship would be fot the best My friend : But it's winter and then I won't have anyone to cuddle with! Me:
Ah, they put the wrong word in caps lock on the: "This is *NOT* a familiy"- t-shirt. Probably meant: "This is not *A* family" (because, you know. it looks like two families)
May I say: You have a really soft and relaxing voice. I like it. And I like how you are confused of the most stuff. You're too precious for this world :)
My college's son was brought in the office last year, young kid maybe 6? All the women in the HR department were calling him a playes and oh he is gonna have all the ladies drooling for him one day... I just was like he is 6, how is it okay to put into his mind that women are objects for his acquiring that will need him, let alone assume his orientation hahah.
I see this a lot in my cis straight friends relationships. That women are nags and more like mothers, and men are reluctant incapable toddlers. It's scary really. I think that these are less in LGBTQIA+ community because so many of us spend years examining ourselves, and our roles, and our communities. We also didn't and don't have even the privilege to get married or have families, or even be in a relationship. 🤷🏼♀️
I was taught that if you're going to be in a relationship it needs to be 100%. Straight or not, they're supposed to be your bestfriend. They're not supposed to be someone doing your chores, giving up their lives for yours, etc. We're all here by chance and just want peace and love. The pain stops with us.
When I was 10 my mom and stepdad got married, and he got one of those "game over" shirts from his buddies and had to wear it all day. Even at that age I was like "but you like my mom... what about this is signifying an end?" I'm a bisexual cisgender woman and truly I don't know what's wrong with the majority of straight people.
Personally I think the feeling of Game Over comes from government and society enforced monogamy. No one assumes you'll stop loving your 1st child when you have a 2nd child but they freak out at the idea that anyone could love more than 1 adult at once. Polyamory done right, where everyone is loved and respected equally is amazing and truly enhances lives. Love really can keep growing after marriage, just ask my husband and our girlfriend. We were happily married, just the 2 of us, but then we met her and she's amazing and only adds to our happiness. Now I can't imagine a future without all 3 of us in it. If government allowed it, all 3 of us would be married to each other but since the powers that be insist they know better than us what will make us happy, we just have to wait until the LGBT community tackles Poly marriage like they did same sex marriage.
It's starting to feel like they are afraid to show they are happy to get married so they just repress their feelings and decide to show the opposite emotion. I also think there is some truth to the idea that people get married not because they want to, but because they think it's what society ask them to do.
@@krystlepoulin6382 I've personally thought about polyamory but haven't completely decided. When it comes to marriage, I really want to get married, but I feel like it would be shitty to leave the other person out. Does it really affect your relationship with your girlfriend?
I hate that shirt. If my potential spouse feels that negatively about marrying me, we can just not get married and both be happier for it. (Yes, I know it’s supposed to be a joke. I don’t see the humor in it.)
My hubby: 'im the only straight thing in this house!' *me bi, roommates gay, and every reno project in our house is crooked cause its old* Me: *cant stop laughing*
in case anyone is curious about the convo at 5:21, the girl had "finance" in her bio as her job/career, but the douchebag thought it said fiancee (because what girl could possibly work with money). thus, he was like 'being engaged cant be a job!!'
"Don't men do the fiances?" Me who took AP European History: "Actually, during the industrial revolution (at least in Britain) women would manage the money and would allow men to have a certain amount of money." AKA where allowance comes from.
I feel quite sad for these people. I love my husband and being at home with him more has been the one benefit of this situation. He doesn’t like sport and we have the same friends. He also grabs his face a lot when something bad happens 😂 The people that make these memes are unhappier relationships than us and that is the only reason for them.
You're straight, that's completely fine! These people are straight™ (stereotypical homophobic/transphobic, strict gender role follower straight people.)
Ugh yes! Sexualizing children's/baby clothes and the whole "ball and chain" concept of getting married or being in a committed relationship is disgusting.
"Are the straights okay?" As a rule, the answer is generally "no". Same goes if you substitute straight with: men, cis people, white people, etc... Source: my experience as a cishet white man who knows other cishet white people.
@@cursedinferno9904, sorry that you lack the sense of humour to be able to tell that I'm laughing at white privilege and how uptight some people get when I poke fun at whiteness in general, myself included.
skunkii Is that how the TERFs identify trans people? Geez, it's really telling that they use the same symbolism as neo-nazis when they talk about jews.
To everyone who has stood up for me, thank you but don’t give them the satisfaction of upsetting everyone. I’ve heard it all before and it’s something that’s gonna continue to be said by tons of people who aren’t ready to have the conversation about how trans men can get more ass than a cis man
Sweetheart I have been married to my hubby for 43 years and we are still in love and best friends ,not all relationships are bad and you and Shabba are wonderful togeather ! Love you both !
why do so many straight men just flat out hate their wives? just get a divorce and date someone else
misogyny and the need to have control over someone elses live to the most miniscule degree
You've gotta remember that most straight relationships work great, it's social pressure to get married, got nothing to do with sexualitu
Are they sure they’re straight? Cos they obviously don’t like any women
It reminds me of the normality of elderly couples just despising their marriage. How is that normal?!
No no, don't date anyone.
i saw gendered onesies one time and the pink one said “i can’t date. ever” and the blue one said “one at a time ladies”
confirmation that the straights are definitely not ok
I hate that
@Telanic me too 🙈
But I think it's about for how it's okay for boys to date but girls "need to be protected! Cause they can't make their own rational decisions" ? Or something? Like the overprotective dad you sometimes see in American t.v. shows?
What ladies are supposed to be fawning over the boys if the girls aren't allowed to date?
d i s g u s t i n g
Why are people in so called relationships if they hate each other?
I also don't get how a dude can be straight but hate everything about women
you can be attracted to women physically but hate everything else about them. it's called misogyny
Those are usually called incels.
They're only called incels if they remain single. Against all reasonable expectations, misogynists frequently get married.
DrTssha right? I honestly don’t know how, my father’s a misogynist and hates us all but the funny thing is, almost everyone in my family be girls 😳
It's a thing called misandry where a woman forces you to be in a relationship or else she will hurt your loved ones, take everything from you, or threatens you with a false allegation. We are straight for women who are actually nice and see us as human beings not toys or atms. There are of course those mysoginist guys who had no good father figures and or were mentally unstable. Also people dont choose to be straight or gay they are just born that way via hormonal balances and genetics.
(Some) Straight people: SANCTITY OF MARRIAGE
Also (some) straight people: Marriage, amirite? We hate each other, but we married
Well, that is kind of people who probably think the purpose of their life is to follow "the right way", the right meaning "how everyone else lives". Marriage just because everyone does it, breeding just because everyone does it etc.
Declan Leith facts. Pretty sure that’s my parents, they just don’t want to admit it to each other.
Also don't forget that while they're saying that they are often on their second/third marriage...
This was exactly one of my arguments to my dad when we were arguing about marriage equality - he kept carrying on about how his generation and the ones before respect the sanctity of marriage and take it seriously, and I pointed out that his generation and the ones before literally invented a whole genre of jokes based on how miserable married people (especially men) are. Being the kind of person who actually makes those sorts of jokes, he quickly changed the topic.
@@pszczolka80 yeah, it's weird, especially since men hate marriage so much, but it usually benefits them more than anything else.
“Lesbian relationships are unhealthy because the women understand each other so they will feel bad if they want to break up so they never break up, therefore making it unhealthy and toxic.” -some guy on the r/AreTheStraightsOk? Subreddit that I saw when I was scrolling through it
Well, it's never healthy to stay in a relationship that you're not happy in. Although it depends on how bad the relationship is. It takes work to maintain a healthy relationship, you shouldn't just cut and run over something petty. But there is a point where the relationship is so damaged it's not worth saving. Of course, that post totally ignores the fact that straight people will also stay in loveless marriages "for the children"
That’s literally just like.. wow. That’s not a lesbian relationship trait 😭 that could be an any relationship trait and then many lesbian relationships are very happy. I love my girlfriend!
No not really, lesbian relationships are more healthy because they understand eachother
I saw that post and it was actually someone talking about what the catholic school they went to taught them
I wonder if that person has ever actually been in a relationship
I am bi, but married to a man. The amount of shitty comments we got before we got married were outrageous! Ranging from the classic ball and chain stuff, telling me that he would become lazy once we’re married, comments about how our sex life will stop existing (?! Like, how rude), telling me I should get pregnant ASAP so I could „bind“ him to me... disgusting. My go to answer was something along the lines of „we’re getting married because we actually like each other??“. Crazy how that seems like a strange concept to some Straight People™️. My husband is my best friend, not just someone who, idk, provides for me and who I do the dishes for 🤦🏼♀️
Right! And it’s okay to maybe make a joke about it every once and a while but it’s crazy how people genuinely think that.
I'm a straight woman. Straight relationship culture is so f'ed up. You have someone like my younger sister who was a little disappointed my dad never threatened any of her boyfriends with a shotgun - I told her it's probably because I'm the oldest and I would have been LIVID if he pulled that type of sexist crap. It's just so weird and messed up.
I don’t get how a baby makes a relationship unable to get out of it makes it worse for everyone
@@NameName-yj7lp The way I understand it is that many straights™ are Christian, and in the strict Christian belief once you knock a girl up you have to get married and stay with her for the rest of your life, if you aren't already married (not all Christian's are like this, but the strict ones are.) Not onlt this but these Christian ideologies have bled into societies ideology, plus you just look like a heartless asshole if you abandon a pregnant women, cuz its your kid.
LOL at the kid thing. I have 3 kids and am single :D My ex was told I got pregnant to "keep him" ... I found out 2 months after he dumped me... we never got back together. Oh how I laughed
Imagine a baby trans touching her face, and it not burning and whispering, “I always knew I was a real girl”
**whispers trans-like**
That’s... really sweet, actually.
*exists in trans*
As stupid as it is that the gesture itself is seen as feminine, that's actually adorable.
I read this before watching the video completely without context and it sounded like the end to a very strange but progressive fairytale lmao
My boyfriend is like a Venus Flytrap plant. He’s really cool and I wish I had him at my house right now.
BlackOnyx This is the most adorable comment I read today :D
You are an adorable person, and this is an adorable comment.
The only acceptable venus flytrap analogy
venus flytraps are pretty cool unless you're a fly. but you aren't a fly, so its chill.
Wholesome 💕
Just as long as your boyfriend isn’t Audrey II
My mom is like this and I’m t r y i n g to pass as a male
I asked to cut my hair, she said that’s for guys.
I wear this baggy T-shirt to hide my chest, she says it looks like for guys.
I told her I don’t like girl clothes because they make me uncomfortable, she said get used to it.
She told me to wash the dishes because that’s a “women’s job”
My brother said she’s sexist, and she said what’s his point
I tried telling my mom I like the same gender, she said I’m just confused and that she prays to god that it’s not true
How am I supposed to pass as male if my mom is like this??
I understand the struggle but maybe you should show her a few videos of trans videos to make her understand the pain as well as transphoic attacks. Maybe educating her will help. It has taken my mother almost two years to semi accept me as her son and not daughter.
... What Valor Studios says might work or it might make things worse, it really depends on your parents. But if it doesn't work, there's something else you need to know.
It is very hard to wait. To get through high school, perhaps even college, or reach the point where you can rent a place of your own one way or another, and to live like this until that moment. It's terrible, and it should not be forced on people, but it is *possible*. Thousands of people before you have gone their entire lives hiding what they were and marrying a person they did not want to marry and having kids with them because EVERYONE was like that, and letting anyone found out could be a literal death sentence.
The world is not like that anymore. Once you are financially independant and out of your parents' house, they cannot tell you what to do. Yes, if Valor Studios' suggestion doesn't work, it is possible that your relationship with your parents will be permanently broken. But if they can't ruin you (by kicking you out of the house, cutting you off while you have no way to make money on your own etc), then you will still have your life to live as you want to.
So if they do refuse to accept you, don't fight them. Don't be difficult. Pretend to be a girl and just don't date. I know it's gonna suck monkey balls to have to spend so much time out of your life sitting around waiting before you can finally start living, but at this point they can still take your future away. The best thing you can do to make sure you actually will be able to live later, is to wait for it now. Study hard and try to find some kind of side job, especially if you're going to college - whether you need it to pay for college or not - because if you have job experience of ANY type you'll have a big edge on a lot of other fresh college graduates looking for jobs. And another life tip I can give you is, figure out what you prefer: living in a warm, comfortable house where the food is good and the internet fast but having to hide your true identity; or sharing an apartment with no heating and thin walls with three other people and eating ramen most nights but being able to be yourself. If you're not willing to share a bad apartment with strangers, you will probably not be able to move out of your parents' house before you make it to Middle Manager because of shitty pay (and be very very careful moving in with a partner. You do not want to become dependent on a single person if there's nowhere else you can go - abusers don't show that they are abusers until you can't get away anymore. Do not EVER let anyone cut you off from your friends if you can't go back to your parents). This is something I personally wish someone would have told me before so I would've had time to come to grips with it before it actually happened, but I did the sharing in a shitty apartment. A hot water bottle, water kettle and eiderdown duvet are your best friends in winter.
Im sorry shes like that! You can try to educate her & change her views (only if its safe to do so) but otherwise just try not to let her get to you- be you and when u can, find ppl who support you being you.
I'm so sorry this happened to you I went through something similar with my parents but I think it wasn't as heart breaking as your experience. parents really got mad at me when I came out to them as bi and they think I have demons they also say shit like "It's not natural for you to be bisexual you should start liking only women because because liking guys is weird and it's not natural" or "you don't know your sexuality you're only 16" and they have said many other stupid things to me... oh well just try to not let her bother you and just do what you want that's what I did or if she is super abusive you might want to find someone to help you or at least someone to talk to🖤
Obviously don’t do this if your mom is insane & will react really badly if you do but....when I was a teen my mom wouldn’t let me get a short haircut & my solution was to take the kitchen scissors & chop off my ponytail myself. She had no choice but to get me a shorter haircut then, just to fix the terrible hack job I had done. Might be worth a try lol
IF YOU HATE YOUR PARTNER THIS MUCH YOU CAN LEAVE THEM.
Its not the middle ages anymore.
jeova0sanctus0unus true. It's an easy solution.
And don’t have a kid
Many relationships that were failing had a kid and thought it would fix it
@@NameName-yj7lp Also, don't stay together for the sake of a kid. The kid will be much happier if they don't have to see the tension between their parents all the time
@@maximusmidnight2591 As someone whose parents stayed together because of me, YES DON'T DO THAT PLEASE!!! It ended up w me taking a side (my mom) and not bonding at all with my dad. Now he just makes me uncomfortable as shit whenever he walks into a room
@@feckethbalcony3666 i begged my mother to divorce my father because he was tearing the family apart. He was physically abusing all of us.
She never left him. The only thing that brought her freedom was his death last year. Karma got his ass but I really wish they split up sooner.
I basically had no childhood because I had to babysit my parents so they don't tear eachother to shreds. I don't even wish my worst enemy the fate I had.
Please people, if a relationship isn't working, you're better off separated;;
"This is not a family", yeah because they're two families
Dude Guy lmao that’s what I was thinking!!
No it’s cause. THEIR ONE BIG FAMILY. The parents our obviously friends. And so they are a big family.
As a child of my lesbian moms I love this 💕•w•
As a straight cishet, I do not claim these people. Everyone deserves to LOVE whoever and BE LOVED by whoever they want. Everyone deserves to BE who they wanna be.
Dakota Klaas Thanks!
The fact that we need to Say that IS a problem, WE shouldn't apologize bcs of our sexual Orientation
Same bro like what is wrong with those people
Ah, a cishet of quality! :)
We stan the true cishet allies, like my little sister.
"man and a woman toilet door sign, holding hands with a tiny toilet door sign"
Well if all those straights™ don't want their wives I'll keep them
Mood lmao
Omg mood
Save some for me!
Nice try but you can't for I never had even a gf.
yo is that reyna?
In the 50’s managing the household money was actually considered the woman’s job in the marriage. Because she would be the one doing the grocery shopping and getting their clothes.
Ok so I’m black and seeing homophobic black people pisses me off so much because we used to be hated and discriminated because of our skin and now you’re doing it to other people based on who they love.
@Aurora The Trap Exactly the hypocrisy stinks smh.
Ikr, I still don't understand the type of logic those people have-
Exactly!! There was a really homophobic black girl at my high school and it always confused me as to why because she deals with sexism and racism and yet she doesnt understand how that stuff can hurt LGBTQ+ people?? It just didn't make sense
I know! The same with my family.
Equality only matters if it only involves and benefits them. I guess.
This is reminding me of something that happened the other day with my dad.
My 2 year old brother was going around pretending to be various animals, and he came up to my dad being "mommy fox."
I didn't see it as a big deal, he's just a toddler pretending to be different animals, but my dad got SUPER mad!
He spent soooo much time trying to get my brother to change what he called himself in his game, and yelled at me when I said "Hi momma fox" a few minutes later.
Am I the only one who finds this a little ridiculous?
Two year old playing as a mama fox: exists for half a second:
Dad: Your living privileges have been revoked
Ask your dad why he finds, being a woman, such an insult?
@@ellie8574 just gender normativity for conservative people 💀
wtf
Smh
He be fighting all evils in society saying "That's rude" with the purest voice and face and honestly I'm here for it
Hey, Jammi! It’s really cool to see you dive into this subreddit, too. It has been a really popular one, and as much as it teases people, I feel like it brings us all closer together.
Anyways, cheers. 💜
It's so nice to see you here! :D
OMAHGAWD ONE TOPIC IT'S YOU AAAAA
I just came here from watching your r/sapphoandherfriend video and I wanted to say that you're such a sweet, wonderful guy and your videos make me so happy ❤❤
collab with Jamie incoming question mark?
oop, look who's here 💛 i like this crossover
Oh hey OT is here :00
As a straight person: no, we are not okay.
Grace Keller is any body ok?😅
Need a hug? :)
Patriarchy really did you bad
d-do you need a hug?
FREE HUGS FOR EVERYONE HERE!
My friend talking about her kid when he is near any woman ever "Ohh hes gonna be SUCH A LADIES MAN He'll have to beat them away with a stick"
When her daughter who sees me as an uncle asks me about if i have a girlfriend" Well actually sweetie for me id have a -----*She interupts* Hey go get mommy water, then to me "Thats not really okay to mention ya know"
HAHA yes "Look at my toddler when he's older hes gonna have so much sex" is fine but saying id have a boyfriend is ewwwwwwww
Stop... being her friend.
@@hayleyblanch5895 lol trust me shes at whatever the thing above arms length is. Problem is shes not really a friend. More a friends partner. It's a whole thing but trust me I hear ya
“Let’s get straight into it” and totally misses that pun, I love this man!
The StraightsTM only have two jokes:
“I identify as an attack helicopter”
and
“My wife sucks, am I right dudes?”
Alex Fajen Haha I also hate my wife, good one bro. See you at Jim’s barbecue on Sundee.
Alex Fajen the attack helicopter meme is actually a transphobic cis joke
Hey I have a few jokes that aren't those
@@unikracoon1913 well can we hear them?
ジェシージューシー・ yeah...
One of my favorite comedians is John Mulaney because he genuinely loves his wife. Every joke he's delivered with her in it has mentioned how wonderful he thinks his wife is.
This is how you treat your beautiful spouses, Straights™.
If it's not John Mulaney I don't want it.
“My wife said I could make jokes about her as long as I didn’t call her a bitch and say I hated her. The bar is SO MUCH LOWER than I ever expected! I would never say my wife is a bitch and I hate her- my wife is a bitch and I LOVE HER.”
Huh- this is interesting to read after his divorce. Wonder what happened.
My favorite trait in any man that I watch in something is “I love my wife SO MUCH you guys!!” Gomez Addams, Vision, John Mulaney the list goes on
This comment did not age well, lol.
Victoria Coren Mitchell and David Mitchell are two spouses who both are delightful about the other too. It’s lovely.
"My hair is short, my beard is long, and my shirt is cute."
*likes video*
This is the kind of wholesome content the world needs
I've never understood people who complain about their spouse (and it always seems to be straight couples). Like, if you partner/spouse pisses you off that much, leave. It's not the most complicated thing ever. If it makes you so insecure when your girlfriend asks you to do laundry or your boyfriend looks at another person, gtfo. No one is forcing you to be miserable.
@Ashooley ! Have you never had conversations outside the internet? I'm 24, and I've known people both older and younger than myself who refer to their partner as a "pain" or a "drag" or whatever. Joke or not, that's stupid and shitty. If you're going to talk shit about someone, even if you call it a joke, that tells me there's some underlying issue.
@Ashooley ! I've definitely met people in their mid thirties who talk like about their partner.
@Ashooley ! I can hardly read that first sentence. 404: Grammar not found. Anyway, dude. You're wrong. It's ok to be wrong; there's no shame in it. Pretty much any job I've worked is primarily people between 18 and 35. Of those people, just about all who are married have, at some point in time, refered to their spouse in a negative way. It's the same with people who aren't married but are in a committed relationship. Just because you personally have never experienced that doesn't mean it's not true. Stop being so ignorant, my guy :/
@Ashooley ! ok maybe in your alternate universe it's a gay/boomer thing but in this world it really is quite common with 25-45 year old cishet couples.
Honestly that's one of the things that sometimes makes me insecure in my marriage; I hear all my friends on co-workers shitting all over their partners, like everyone does it. I can't help but wonder what my husband says about me behind my back.
And he's so sweet and caring, and then I feel guilty for even thinking about such nonsense.
Straights can be really toxic sometimes.
The fact that you’ve not seen these type of things before is astounding. Is this toxic crap only in the US?
It's definitely more prominent in the US just because of social media, but there are countries out there that are V E R Y strict and homophobic. Predominantly Muslim countries, for example, are very homophobic and strict towards women (which is why alot of them moved to the US, to escape that kind of bullshit).
Social media has definitely allowed the homophobic and xenophobic people to voice their loud opinions and it's aggravating to no end for the rest of us lol
I think it is cause I'm from Brazil and this subreddit confused me just like him
**Mexico enters the chat whit extreme gender roles**
Every country has homophobic, sexist, transphobic, biphobic, racist etc people. I just think it is shown and expressed very differently in different cultures and countries. Obviously this doesn’t make any of it ok and it needs to be fought against in everyplace that it can be. But it’s just different, especially in western vs other cultures.
No definitely not just in the US
There's a difference between straight people and The Straights™️. Straight people are people that are attracted to the opposite gender. The Straights™️ are problematic straight people that invalidate LGBT people or say terrible things about relationships. Most people are generally lovely. It's The Straights™️ that I don't care for, not straight people in general. If you're straight or even an ally, I love you. I hope you're doing okay during this time. Have a great day :)
Love this! Completely agree. X
They are the Karens™️ of the sexuality world
This needs to be common knowledge, because this is it chief
Can gay be trade marked too? xD
Yeaaaah thank you from a French straight cis girl!!!
Alternative title: *Jamie progressively becoming sadder (featuring Reddit posts)*
This is why I don't redit
This is why I Reddit
There are two types of people
@@domenicobocchetti532 Those who Reddit, and those who cannot bear the pain
666th like
Im the devil yall
boomer humor: i hate my wife
millennial humor: i hate my life
gen z on the other hand: eAtiNg a cLoCk iS vErY tiMe coNsUmiNg
To be honest that's a good joke
As a millennial, I do be hating my Iife, so...
JDJDJDJDJXHDM THE JOKE 😭💀
boomer humor: i hate my wife
millennial humor: i hate my life
gen z: *Compressed picture of a dog* Yesmn't
Ok gen Z, despite how much our deep-fried humor sucks, is better than boomer humor. Millennial is ok but eventually turns into the gen Z disorder idolization we see today.
Straight people: children shouldn’t see gay couples in media! They’re too young!! Don’t push lifestyles on them!!!!!1!1!
Also straight people to a literal baby: ooo look at this little man! I bet he gets all the ladies!
Moss Patch not straight people, homophobes. I’m straight and I hate it when people do that.
@@gezi5927 It's nice to see a straight person like you, I hope you have a lovely day
I agree, I hate it how they can do that shit to kids, but if a gay person were to say the same exact thing except that they switched the gender, it would've been a big deal
YES THANK YOU
"Straight people" ❎
Straights™ ✔
For all the straight men out there:
Problem: I hate my wife/girlfriend. Women bad.
Solution: Date men.
Being flexible makes things easier. Get with it bros.
The problem is heterosexuality is well, a sexuality and therefore not something you can change. You can't just tell a straight person to go for the gender they're not attracted to. It's disrespectful and ignorant. It's the same thing if person A told gay person B to start dating women because person B's previous relationships didn't work out. *It doesn't work that way, does it?*
Edit: people in the comments telling me it's a joke, didn't seem like that to me at first, some crazy enough people genuinely think that way. I'm wrong though, so yeah, I'm a walnut ha.
It's called a fucking joke, you walnut
@@insertnamehere6434 r/wooosh
@@insertnamehere6434 It was a joke, chill.
@@GorpGlop Walnut??! I can't stop laughing at such a beautiful insult!! Thank you for unintentionally making my day! 💚
"Let's get straight into it"
I see what you did there
Also, can straight men stop memeing about cheating on their gfs and wives? Like cheating is never funny. It’s never cute. I’ve seen so many memes about cheating and then they also wonder why they’re single. Not to mention those are the types of dudes to say “cut out your eyes and your leg and prove you love me”.
Anything can be funny with the right sense of humor and timing.
@@anidiot192 Yeah I think she's referring more to like those memes you see on instagram that meme pages spam to cause controversy because it gets them comments 🤷♀️
Insecurity is the highest thrown they'll ever sit on
@@trappedcomputer6213 do you mean throne?
I mean aside from the jokes , statistics actually show that women cheat more than man do ;)
the straights really are not ok, jamie. but tbh who IS ok right now?
i’m ok..
ratboy genius I’m trying
Wtf
People like u r not ok
I’m not okay (I promise)
Mood
When I saw the broken makeup I was actually shocked, makeup is SO expensive sometimes. When me and my ex broke up and he left his wallet and stuff at my place, all I did was leave it by the door and ask him to pick it up (we didn't even end on good terms) really shows how scary these people are.
Some people need an enemy in order to feel whole, so they sleep with them & even marry them.This is why I gave up being a therapist.
Narcissistic Personality disorder ruins too many innocent lives. I'm sorry it ruined being a therapist for you. I don't think I would be able to handle that job either. I let a narcissist dominate over me for 17 years before I broke free and watching anyone else choose to stay in a situation like that would be too triggering for me. Bless you for helping everyone you did help! You're a rockstar!
This was both a tragic, and funny comment to read. Guess I laughed because it hit home from living with a narcissist in the past. I am sorry though. Props to you.
diana povero oh. my.
Jamie: "I'm not making fun of straight people"
Straight people: "maim yourself so your man can have a car"???
Jamie: *suddenly realises straight people are actually not ok*
As a straight, leftist cis guy...
... Yeah conservative men are just utterly idiotic. I'm baffled by the subreddit.
"No car is worth that"
"No man is worth that"
"No body is worth that"
Just, no
me, a lesbian expecting comments to be mostly a bunch of lgbt people:
the comments: “im str8 and we arent okay”
Same
same
nobody is ok
Your not alone
Shit straight people say: I'm straight and I don't say that!!
This ain’t “straight humour”
This be “moronic conservative humour”
👏PREACH👏
not all straight people are like that, but people that are like that are straight, and the biggest/clearest reason they're like that is that they're straight. If you wrote "moronic conservative" and not just "conservative" then you should understand the distinction
EXACTLY
Str8 humor is like 100 times better than this lol
@@buchelaruzit I feel like a solid 30% of people telling these jokes are in the closet.
70+ if you only count the wife hating ones. I know it's weird to think about people still needing to be in the closet if you're not around conservatives, but, well just look at these memes.
Are straights okay?
Me: *_no. I have seen enough. It was time for thomas to leave_*
My alternate meme format: It was time for Thomas to leave, he was tired of this *beep*
Holy crumpet last time I was this early I was cis
Same
Same
yep, same
HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA samE
Bread.
As a straight cis female, I can confirm the answer is no
Kate E
Lol There there! Just be happy you’re an awesomely smart one! 💜
Do you need a hug?
Vinny who doesn’t need a hug?
Daydream Fuel thank you!
ME
Me: gay, watching videos of LGBT youtubers, recommendations is as colourful as a kid's colouring book.
UA-cam: here is an ad about how to have a heterosexual relationship
lol I get Trump ads all the time even though I literally have "Gay" in half of my searches
@Stefano Raul Febles Verastegui that's a good way of thinking about it 🤔 lol
you mean classically abby's ad? lol
Ads promoting straight relationships are stupid, they act like straight…ness and gayness is contagious, straights aren’t in need of "support” when they are never hated on, denied, not allowed to be married to WHO THEY LOVE, not painted as villains, not unrepresented in tv and media, it’s so dumb!
I came out to some more of my friends as Non-binary and they all support me so I’m happy
oh I'm happy for you!
aww i'm so happy for you!
Good :)
I'm happy for u 😊
Congratulations!
Some guy: **talks with his hands**
straight man: **insert greatest freak out ever video**
They aren't ready to learn about sign language
Heyden Jaye
Mute guy using sign language: *why do I hear boss music?*
Antoine WithAFunnyNameForHisAcount too true 😔
Toxic masculinity at it’s finest
bruh i wanna like but it’s at 420. anyways, like
The game over picture kind of reminds me of how sometimes in tv shows they'll emphasize bachelor parties being their "last day of freedom and fun" as if they weren't already in a relationship with the person beforehand and just fine.
The tinder one was that the guy thought "finance" (her job title that she put in her bio) was "fiancee" and that she was getting married. Smh.
Painful, I wonder how many times that's happened...
Ohhhhhh thank you for clearing that up! I thought she meant she was managing her marital finances 😅
No one:
Millenials:
Gen Z:
Boomers: *i HaTE mY WifE*
Gen X left out again. It's ok. We're use to it.
@@RandomJane104cause some gen x-ers have boomer energy
Boomers: I hate my wife
Millenials: I hate my life
Gen Z: E
@@RandomJane104 gen x are just boomers with iphones.
Also Boomers: wHY DON'T THEY JUST LEARN ENGLISH?
“Even selling her legs and two eyes to make sure he’s happy.” WAIT, NO I NEED TO KNOW, ARE YOU STRAIGHT PEOPLE ACTUALLY, HONESTLY OK??? My god, that’s the most intense one I’ve seen, that’s just terrifying. O_O
I like this subreddit because it reminds me that the grass is greener on THIS side
The whole "marriage should be between a man and a woman" argument really falls apart when you consider just how many men and women should NOT be together
I'm not saying that NO straight people should be in a relationship, just that not ALL straight people should be in a relationship
To everyone who was also disgusted by the actions of those featured on this subreddit, I wish you a lifetime of happiness with your soulmate ❤️
there’s also one called r/straightsbeingokay which is just the opposite, wholesome version
sylas wechkin I’d really like to see the other side of the spectrum and compare lol
There's also r/rolereversal , very wholesome 10/10
He's also already made a video on that
the likes are 333 and i dont want to ruin it
"Today my hair is short, my beard is long, and my t-shirt is cute"
-Jamie 2020
a male: [just casually touches his face]
the Straights™: HOW DARE YOU
Man tries warm hands, man excommunicated.
Cishet: my relationship sucks. Whose fault is that? GAYZ’.
Billy D Cheers! I’m a cishet myself but I got subscribed to so many pages like hets_explain_yourselves which finally defined something I couldn’t quite put my finger on for years (to me it was “your basic suburban aunt/uncle culture”). There was a tweet somewhere from a cishet who wrote “I don’t know what cishet is but it sounds like they are insufferable and don’t deserve rights”. The irony 😂
I hate that a lot of straights blame stuff on gays.
I feel like most of these posts are just misogynistic
FR
because cishet men are misogynists.
@@v0idvice209 no? I have many cishet men and they are absolutely amazing, please stop generalizing, it hurts to see actual good sweet supportive men getting generalized into such a horrible stereotype. If a person's an asshole, they're an asshole. Their sexuality and gender literally has nothing to do with it.
Sorry if this was too long, but I've seen this a lot.
Wow thank you very much captain obvious
@@v0idvice209 they are so many of them i can’t even find a single one in real life😔
I feel bad cuz you went from "this should be funny" to very disturbed & frustrated. You are the best, Jamie. Sucks that there can be such a toxic mysoginistic culture around relationships, but I'm glad so many of us are breaking that culture down & fighting it. Have you considered doing a video where you rate fictional relationships? Either relationships from movies & TV shows or OTPs that ate not cannon? I feel like it would be fun to hear you & Shaaba discuss what's healthy or not or who has the best chemistry.
This is more like "Is society okay?" rather than straights
And the answer is no
@@mossbox8852 ain't news, and it won't be for a long time
Exactly
Society is straight
@@bruh-kj1qw but straights aren't all like that, there are many who educate themselves. By society I mean all the people who try to conform to a certain standard, so it's not every straight on the planet like that.
I like who always straight people implies that they hate marriage and relationships while still getting into them... like dude, that's some strong masoquist energy
Always? Well you're ignorant
I'm straight, cis, and have been with the same person for 54 years, since we were both in our teens. Sure, everyone likes to gripe about their life partners' less endearing foibles. Because, guess what, nobody is perfect. It's better to do it with humor, and we can all recognize it in ourselves and have a good tension releasing laugh. That's what humor is for, something the younger generations seem to have forgotten.
My friend: I feel like shit everytime I'm with my boyfriend and he refuses to engage in a conversation about our relationship
Me: sounds like you are no longer happy and maybe ending the relationship would be fot the best
My friend : But it's winter and then I won't have anyone to cuddle with!
Me:
simple: learn intimacy with friends is no lesser than intimacy with partners, and go cuddle ur friends
@@juliuspearson4202 I agree, but she didn't really understand that
She needs an electric blanket, and a body pillow, stat.
;-;
That's what blankets, hoodies, and all that are for
Ah, they put the wrong word in caps lock on the: "This is *NOT* a familiy"- t-shirt.
Probably meant: "This is not *A* family" (because, you know. it looks like two families)
Marlene Lindtner
Grammar lesson ;D
LOL good point!
Defeating them with grammar >:)
May I say: You have a really soft and relaxing voice. I like it. And I like how you are confused of the most stuff. You're too precious for this world :)
I honestly don’t think the straights are ok. I mean, girls are hot, and boys are also hot. How do you be straight? I really don’t know.
Same
Same
Ok, but same
Frr why pick when both are good ;))
@Brett Wagland pretty sure they were joking
i was going to comment i’m not okay (i promise) but i’m bisexual
We love a good mcr reference
Miles Thompson 😏
the killjoys are everywhere
@@corson37 true
my d i s c i p l e s
we are multiplying
The title "Are the straights okay?"
Me, a straight person who supports LGBTQIA+: No. The straights are not okay. Especially the ones against LGBTQIA+
Thanks for being an ally
Thank you for supporting us
You're saying i'm not okay, that's insulting, and what do you know about the fact that i'm okay or not? Nothing 😑
@@RuxM_ calm downnnn its just a jokeeee dont be presseddddd
Except they're. Being straight is okay and normal.
I saw a 12 year old wearing a shirt that says virginity rocks and it made me cringe so hard
Walking home from school one day and a a highschool kid at that on. Lmaoo
Two different kids had those on at my school I thought it was a reference to something but it's just weird
My college's son was brought in the office last year, young kid maybe 6? All the women in the HR department were calling him a playes and oh he is gonna have all the ladies drooling for him one day... I just was like he is 6, how is it okay to put into his mind that women are objects for his acquiring that will need him, let alone assume his orientation hahah.
A Guy In My High School Yearbook Wore A Hoodie Which Said "Virginity Rocas"
Everyone at my middle school had shirts and stickers that said virginity rocks
One sign of someone being abusive is when they break *your* stuff or stuff that isn't necessarily theirs.
Bruh why do some people change their mentality towards dating as if it suddenly changes everything about your lifestyle
I hate those shirts. Somebody gave me a, "mommy's arm candy" onsie for my son and he's never worn it. Just feels like lowkey creepy to me
I see this a lot in my cis straight friends relationships. That women are nags and more like mothers, and men are reluctant incapable toddlers. It's scary really.
I think that these are less in LGBTQIA+ community because so many of us spend years examining ourselves, and our roles, and our communities. We also didn't and don't have even the privilege to get married or have families, or even be in a relationship.
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I'm starting testosterone on May 1st! I'm so excited it's making me twitch lmao
ITS MAY FIRST! CONGRATULATIONS MAH GUY/GORL!
@@NB-nl4ks they just said testosterone, it's not gorl at that point XD
CONGRATS! How's it going?
I was taught that if you're going to be in a relationship it needs to be 100%. Straight or not, they're supposed to be your bestfriend. They're not supposed to be someone doing your chores, giving up their lives for yours, etc. We're all here by chance and just want peace and love. The pain stops with us.
"For why are you getting married if that's how you feel about it?"
1. Oh my god, good shirt.
2. No, we’re not. Please help.
Do you need a hug?
Also sending good vibes, and another virtual hug!
Sending more good vibes and hugs
"managing money is a man's job"
Vikings laughing in the distance
When I was 10 my mom and stepdad got married, and he got one of those "game over" shirts from his buddies and had to wear it all day. Even at that age I was like "but you like my mom... what about this is signifying an end?" I'm a bisexual cisgender woman and truly I don't know what's wrong with the majority of straight people.
Personally I think the feeling of Game Over comes from government and society enforced monogamy. No one assumes you'll stop loving your 1st child when you have a 2nd child but they freak out at the idea that anyone could love more than 1 adult at once. Polyamory done right, where everyone is loved and respected equally is amazing and truly enhances lives. Love really can keep growing after marriage, just ask my husband and our girlfriend. We were happily married, just the 2 of us, but then we met her and she's amazing and only adds to our happiness. Now I can't imagine a future without all 3 of us in it. If government allowed it, all 3 of us would be married to each other but since the powers that be insist they know better than us what will make us happy, we just have to wait until the LGBT community tackles Poly marriage like they did same sex marriage.
It's starting to feel like they are afraid to show they are happy to get married so they just repress their feelings and decide to show the opposite emotion.
I also think there is some truth to the idea that people get married not because they want to, but because they think it's what society ask them to do.
@@krystlepoulin6382 I've personally thought about polyamory but haven't completely decided. When it comes to marriage, I really want to get married, but I feel like it would be shitty to leave the other person out. Does it really affect your relationship with your girlfriend?
I hate that shirt. If my potential spouse feels that negatively about marrying me, we can just not get married and both be happier for it. (Yes, I know it’s supposed to be a joke. I don’t see the humor in it.)
I asked my husband are straights ok? He replied "no, we are not" (for context I'm bi, he's straight)
Your husband sounds like a cool dude.
My hubby: 'im the only straight thing in this house!'
*me bi, roommates gay, and every reno project in our house is crooked cause its old*
Me: *cant stop laughing*
@@tesreso5448 lol. That's a good one :)
I laughed harder at the "snickers do have nuts though." Joke then any of the memes in this video.
I hated every one of those "memes." Every single one of them was either insulting toward women or LGBTQ people. I'm a bisexual woman.
Toxic memes.
Literally one insulted men but ok
Memes are supposed to be funny
That was the point.
"This subreddit makes me smad :(" awwwwe 😭😭
Please never change Jamie
in case anyone is curious about the convo at 5:21, the girl had "finance" in her bio as her job/career, but the douchebag thought it said fiancee (because what girl could possibly work with money). thus, he was like 'being engaged cant be a job!!'
And then he went and sprayed his misogynistic ideals all over the place because he misread one word.
Pathetic.
I saw a baby bib at the grocery store that said "Just a cutie pie looking for a stud muffin". Why would you put that on a baby?
These are the same people who enter their 3 year old in 'beauty pagents'.
It's a joke tho..?? I still don't see what's funny about sexualizing kids clothes. Like bruh. Let kids be kids.
me at 2 am: let's see if the straights are okay
Did you check up on the straights, sweetheart?
"Don't men do the fiances?"
Me who took AP European History:
"Actually, during the industrial revolution (at least in Britain) women would manage the money and would allow men to have a certain amount of money." AKA where allowance comes from.
Lots of men do their fiancees. And the finances like it.
I feel quite sad for these people. I love my husband and being at home with him more has been the one benefit of this situation. He doesn’t like sport and we have the same friends. He also grabs his face a lot when something bad happens 😂 The people that make these memes are unhappier relationships than us and that is the only reason for them.
and that's why it's called: are the straights okay
Also for the record: some of these are textbook abuse :s
The issue with a lot of straights is that they don’t like being in a relationship but feel like they have to. I think
They get in relationships just to show off they have a gf/bf to their friends.
4:44 is technically right.
It’s actually two different families.
Marshmallowcat18 i wanna take that shirt, take a sharpie and write in brackets "its two families" under the text
For that one text exchange, the dude misread "finance" as "fiancee" and then continued to be very confusion
Me, a straight girl, sees this video: Hmm. This looks interesting.
After watching it: Am I even straight? wtf
labels are shit, aren´t they
@@luciasoosova2182 yes, they are T-T
You just exist dawg, date who you’re into. Life is hard enough as it is without trying to box ourselves in 😤😤
You're straight, that's completely fine! These people are straight™ (stereotypical homophobic/transphobic, strict gender role follower straight people.)
Join the cult (jk you don't have to)
Me: *sees the title*
Me: *the answer is no*
Short answer: no
@MorCell longer answer: noooooo
Jake-lynn Dobos longest answer: nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Three paragraph thesis:
No. Absolutely not. Nooo. Nein. Noooooo. Nœ. Nah.
Noooooo. NOOOOOOOOO. No
No.
Ugh yes! Sexualizing children's/baby clothes and the whole "ball and chain" concept of getting married or being in a committed relationship is disgusting.
"Are the straights okay?"
As a rule, the answer is generally "no". Same goes if you substitute straight with: men, cis people, white people, etc...
Source: my experience as a cishet white man who knows other cishet white people.
Ew this post is gross, smells like white male guilt
Shit dude I admire your self-awareness, and now you know there's a problem, you can work on making it better 💙
is anyone really ok? you need to tone the cringe down
@@cursedinferno9904, sorry that you lack the sense of humour to be able to tell that I'm laughing at white privilege and how uptight some people get when I poke fun at whiteness in general, myself included.
@@violetsparkles5453, sorry you're so easily offended at my ability to laugh at myself. It must be hard going through life being so fragile.
i once saw a baby onsie that said "lock up your daughters!!!"
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julianna moore oh... oh no
@Telanic as in like, the baby is so hot that he attracts all the girl babies... the fbi is gonna kick down my door any minute now.
Ew that is absolutely horrid i hate it so much. That should be illegal for anyone of any age to print on thier clothing, espically a baby.
Meme: “This is not a family!”
Me: “No, that looks like TWO families, well done you, counting and everything!”
Then again, it could ofc be one very big family, but from how they were grouped, it looked like two.
It’s two, one with two women and one with two men
Most of those are just misogynistic. Not about bad straight relationships.
As a straight trans man it’s very interesting to see these things
Being a straight trans man is like being a man without the toxicity that's imposed on all cis guys
skunkii Is that how the TERFs identify trans people? Geez, it's really telling that they use the same symbolism as neo-nazis when they talk about jews.
@@lurji okay
Do you anything else to do or is your existence that pathetic?
@@lurji NO 🤢
To everyone who has stood up for me, thank you but don’t give them the satisfaction of upsetting everyone. I’ve heard it all before and it’s something that’s gonna continue to be said by tons of people who aren’t ready to have the conversation about how trans men can get more ass than a cis man
If my girl was dressing revealing I’d be showing her off and telling everyone how much I love her
Sweetheart I have been married to my hubby for 43 years and we are still in love and best friends ,not all relationships are bad and you and Shabba are wonderful togeather ! Love you both !
wholesome! best of luck to you two and I hope you'll be forever happy together