Yeah, in real life you get assault charge and you teach your kid that problems are solved with violence. Was the guy an absolute dickhead? Yeah. Did Ray achieve anything by throwing him through the window? No. Brilliant show though, shows more realistic view of a sociopath.
@@hisdud3ness93I think you don't understand. It's not really about the candles here. It's a dad being pissed because another grown ass man took his daughter's present and was being an absolute asshole about it. And the whole thing of this show is not withstanding a-holes.
I couldn't agree more. It's absolute shit. Truly sad to attach hurt and ugliness to what should be a really fun and special celebration. I'm sure the guy is sharing a cell with the inventor of musical chairs...
@@johnnyrocket9372 ""I sent him a picture of his house," the former US President insisted of Abdul Ghani Baradar, who is now the deputy prime minister after the Taliban seized power in Afghanistan. "He said, 'But why do you send me a picture of my house?' I said, 'You'll have to figure that one out,'" Mr Trump claimed. "I said, 'If you do anything - from that point on we didn't loose one soldier - we're going to hit you harder than any country has ever been hit.' He said, 'I understand, your Excellency,'" he continued. " Sounds legit, except for two facts; -Trump lies about anything to make himself look better -the 'your excellency' bit really sank the whole credibility
@ johnny rocket No no, nothing specific or recent. I just meant in US history. It was a “pro America” statement in General. I love history and tend to speak out loud unnecessarily.
brmbkl2015 Yeah except one problem with your little scenario. No US soldiers died after that for the first time since the war began. Trump was an excellent president. Life was so much better with him then the corpse we have now.
“Wait, your daughter actually liked that candle? Shit mate I’m sorry I didn’t realise, yeah of course she can have it back. Nah put the money away mate it’s my pleasure. Fuck I was just playing the game I didn’t know she really liked that unicorn candle, sorry I’ll get it now.”
@@thechoosentwice1312 Why should people not be assholes? Because it screws over other people or if you wanted to be self-serving, people won't wanna associate woth you if you're an asshole towards them.
I like the way Ray always offers the other guy the chance do the right thing, sometimes more than one chance but when they choose to be an asshole there's a beat down coming.
You have a room full of adults (along with his wife) sit back and witness a grown adult man take advantage of a child … in full view, yet they frown upon the man who states that it’s not proper behavior ? Seriously. How does a grown male open his own, walk over to someone’s daughter and snatch her gift out of her hands then give the father an “F you”? That’s just begging for a beatdown.
I think this was a fault of adult people. They should have learnt a kid did not like this and should have changed things back. It is a proper behaviour with a kid and guests...
like most things in this show, it's a complex situation. yes, the guy was a dickhead to do what he did. yes, he was a particular dickhead to act like a pompous douche when ray reasonably asked for it back. did he deserve to get thrown through a plate glass door over it? should ray have done it, knowing the consequences? should he have taken the high road and bought her some cute unicorn thing instead of choosing the most destructive response possible? in the end some pompous douche knows to be less pompous in the future. but at what cost? what cost to his family, who did nothing wrong, what cost to ray, his girlfriend etc? i think even ray in the end learned that this life of violence that he led in the name of respect wasn't the right way to live, as it brought him little to no happiness and was a net negative to society.
By the way the guy he throws through the window is Nash Edgerton. Director of Mr Inbetween, stuntman (so that's him going through the window) and brother of Joel Edgeton.
@@maxwellbarnhart1375 His brother got the movie star looks lol. But Nash is a very good director (as is Joel), he did a great Australian film called The Square which is well worth checking out.
As gratifying as this scene is, in real life you can't just dish out violent retribution every time someone's an a**hole to you. The best we can do is avoid people like that, or better yet realise when we're being one.
@@mohammadalirashed3103 While avoidance is ideal in the wider scheme of things, it doesn't work practically in a situation where someone is actually being an asshole. Instead, it ends up leaving them unchallenged and "right", which is what lets them feel comfortable enough to continue in their shitty behavior. There are ways of not letting assholes get away with it which don't involve throwing them through a glass window, to me, the key is to make them feel self-conscious and small by emphasizing how ridiculous and pathetic they are. Even if they're such dick-heads that they don't actually care in terms of values/basic decency, they probably *will* care about collective approval and how they come off to others. I (perhaps naively) sincerely believe that the vast, vast majority of folks are decent and are generally on the same page values wise and want to "do the right thing", but they're generally too polite or shy to act on it. Someone else breaking the ice can help heaps.
i found this scene heartbreaking, Ray knew very well what he was doing, in that moment he had to chose between his love and daughter, and chose to be a man and chose his daughter and sacrifice his own love life. Its sad but its the way its gotta be sometimes.
The parable I take from this show, especially his conversations with the anger management counselor, is that Ray believes in giving dickheads consequences.
I took a fish pillow as a white elephant gift to a company Christmas party. It was a great big green trout that somebody gave me and I didn't want. It became a prize in the Christmas bingo game. The rules were that you could pick a prize and then you could steal/trade for a prize that anyone had already picked. I know, really stupid game. A little boy got bingo and went up there and grabbed that fish. He was over the moon thrilled. Funny, 'cuz I hated that thing. A grown man later took that fish from that little boy. The boy started crying, and the man did not bring it back. The next grown man to claim bingo went and took the fish from the idiot. Then he gave it back to the boy. Good thing too, 'cuz all the windows were on the second floor and the idiot might not have survived the fall.
I feel sorry for all the people who work with this high salaried man. Laugh when he's lying on the floor calling out his mum. What a tough guy. I met guys like him. Director knew what he was doing.
The subtle acting is what takes this show the extra mile. Love how you can tell Ally knew what happened immediately even before looking at Ray and you can see her disappointment.
I think we all know that Ray really, really shouldn't have done that. We all know that it was very, very wrong. And I think we are all really, really glad that he did it.
Clever dialogue. After the guy acts all big and tough, and then gets put through the glass, he’s laying on the floor and says “mum” in a wimpy kind of way. Point being made is not so tough now dickhead, but Ray is still a rock.
He should have just given the unicorn back and told Ray he can keep his money after all it was Christmas surely the other guy saw how sad the little girl was
I’m watching this episode right now, and Ray did what needed to be done. Probably going to pay for it with the girlfriend, but he got his daughter the candle. Love this show.
And now he’ll think twice before he ever does anything like that again…just like how Ray explained it in therapy. His logic is absolutely flawless tbf 😂😂
This was the most unbelievable part of the entire show. I love the show and don't mind some of the ridiculous situations that Ray gets out of but this goofball wanting a unicorn candle because it was "kitchy"... I'm afraid thats just too much to be believed.
You know when you're the Producer and Director of a hidden Gem of a Show and you cast yourself as the Grade A Douchebag, quite literally stealing a toy from a child at Christmas... that you are in fact, a Real One.👍👏👏👏 Phenomenal show, with top notch acting, directing and producing. Well done!!
Ahhhh I remember Brooke satchwell in neighbours especially that pool scene she had a cracking set, being a lad at 14 watching neighbours she blew my mind
The only thing that Ray screwed up was making his retribution public. If he had assaulted him in private and threatened his life, no one would be any the wiser, his daughter would have her candle, and everything would be handled and peachy.
The guy playing the brother is also the director IIRC. People in this show are such naturally good actors.. EDIT: I love how the dad hardly gives a shit about the son lmao
I feel bad for Ray losing his girl over this. The brother had something coming, but knocking him through the sliding door was over the top. Entertaining, though.
If you haven't seen the show, do watch, he's absolutely captivating as Ray Shoesmith. 3 short seasons, but packs more substance into 25 minutes than most hour long dramas.
I've never liked the white elephant Christmas, my sister in law used to do it every year, I always picked my gift and never participated in the stealing another gift, she finally got the hint I didn't like it
Now he's laying on the floor in the kitchy.
And will need several stichies.
😂
Lmfao
Just found this show. I'm loving it
Best line ever.
On behalf of society we thank you Ray.
x10
Yeah, in real life you get assault charge and you teach your kid that problems are solved with violence. Was the guy an absolute dickhead? Yeah. Did Ray achieve anything by throwing him through the window? No. Brilliant show though, shows more realistic view of a sociopath.
I read that in his voice xd
well he achieve in getting back the unicorn candle for his daughter lol
@@hisdud3ness93I think you don't understand. It's not really about the candles here. It's a dad being pissed because another grown ass man took his daughter's present and was being an absolute asshole about it. And the whole thing of this show is not withstanding a-holes.
Whoever invented that steal-another's-gift game is burning in hell right now.
no, he went through a glass window. 😂
I couldn't agree more. It's absolute shit. Truly sad to attach hurt and ugliness to what should be a really fun and special celebration.
I'm sure the guy is sharing a cell with the inventor of musical chairs...
Nobody is making people play that game, they choose to do it.
@@AlphaQHardwow I hope you don't reproduce
@@AlphaQHardso the 8 year old chose to play 😂
"Because people let them get away with it."
@ Thomas Pedersen
The best US Presidents knew that to be true, as well.
@@blfzhn7716 are you referencing a certain recent president sending a picture of a certain terrorists house to said terrorist and saying knock it off.
@@johnnyrocket9372 ""I sent him a picture of his house," the former US President insisted of Abdul Ghani Baradar, who is now the deputy prime minister after the Taliban seized power in Afghanistan.
"He said, 'But why do you send me a picture of my house?' I said, 'You'll have to figure that one out,'" Mr Trump claimed.
"I said, 'If you do anything - from that point on we didn't loose one soldier - we're going to hit you harder than any country has ever been hit.' He said, 'I understand, your Excellency,'" he continued. "
Sounds legit, except for two facts;
-Trump lies about anything to make himself look better
-the 'your excellency' bit really sank the whole credibility
@ johnny rocket
No no, nothing specific or recent. I just meant in US history. It was a “pro America” statement in General. I love history and tend to speak out loud unnecessarily.
brmbkl2015 Yeah except one problem with your little scenario. No US soldiers died after that for the first time since the war began. Trump was an excellent president. Life was so much better with him then the corpse we have now.
The double man bun gave it away, the rest just followed naturally from that fact.
Lmfaooo 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
double man bun is crazy.
"do you have any idea how much money i make?"
buy your own friggin candles asshole.
I love how he can bring common sense and perspective to every situation.
The minute he said "kitchy", Ray knew what he had to do🤣🤣🤣
“Wait, your daughter actually liked that candle? Shit mate I’m sorry I didn’t realise, yeah of course she can have it back. Nah put the money away mate it’s my pleasure. Fuck I was just playing the game I didn’t know she really liked that unicorn candle, sorry I’ll get it now.”
Or even better ‘oh yeah Ray, of course, I actually just gave it to her before I came out for a smoko’ haha
...and why should every person bend to your moral standards?
@@thechoosentwice1312 Why should people not be assholes? Because it screws over other people or if you wanted to be self-serving, people won't wanna associate woth you if you're an asshole towards them.
So they don't get thrown through a glass for stealing a gift from a child @@thechoosentwice1312
@thechoosentwice1312 i bet your the type of shrimpin overweight dude that wishes he could say something in person to anyone.
I like the way Ray always offers the other guy the chance do the right thing, sometimes more than one chance but when they choose to be an asshole there's a beat down coming.
Arse hole in Aussie that’s how we speak
What kind of absolute piece of shit would rather disappoint a child than walk away with a hundred bucks?
3:30
The confused "M--Mom?" from Ally's brother after he gets yeeted through the glass gets me every time.
Mum* for Aussies.
that sealed the fact that her brother is a spoiled little punk
You have a room full of adults (along with his wife) sit back and witness a grown adult man take advantage of a child … in full view, yet they frown upon the man who states that it’s not proper behavior ?
Seriously. How does a grown male open his own, walk over to someone’s daughter and snatch her gift out of her hands then give the father an “F you”?
That’s just begging for a beatdown.
And he got one
@@pip12111
No … he only got “touched up” a little and balanced out.
Per Ray’s standards that was very controlled.
I think this was a fault of adult people. They should have learnt a kid did not like this and should have changed things back. It is a proper behaviour with a kid and guests...
like most things in this show, it's a complex situation. yes, the guy was a dickhead to do what he did. yes, he was a particular dickhead to act like a pompous douche when ray reasonably asked for it back. did he deserve to get thrown through a plate glass door over it? should ray have done it, knowing the consequences? should he have taken the high road and bought her some cute unicorn thing instead of choosing the most destructive response possible? in the end some pompous douche knows to be less pompous in the future. but at what cost? what cost to his family, who did nothing wrong, what cost to ray, his girlfriend etc? i think even ray in the end learned that this life of violence that he led in the name of respect wasn't the right way to live, as it brought him little to no happiness and was a net negative to society.
The guy who took the unicorn is the real life father of The girl playing Ray’s daughter. 😮
He's also the Producer & Director of the series
I really, really enjoyed the show, but I didn't know that. Nice one!
Talk about a creator cameo.
Step dad
Yeah and he is Joel Edgertons brother
By the way the guy he throws through the window is Nash Edgerton. Director of Mr Inbetween, stuntman (so that's him going through the window) and brother of Joel Edgeton.
And, I believe Nash is also the stepfather of the actress who plays Ray's daughter. So, a scene with all kinds of crazy connections.
@@randomtruths3400 Indeed he is.
Ahh that explains why he looks like a weird Joel edgerton
@@maxwellbarnhart1375 His brother got the movie star looks lol. But Nash is a very good director (as is Joel), he did a great Australian film called The Square which is well worth checking out.
Very cool. He doesn't look much like his brother though.
Really like the message of this show
Its true
"Assholes only exist because people let them get away with it"
As gratifying as this scene is, in real life you can't just dish out violent retribution every time someone's an a**hole to you. The best we can do is avoid people like that, or better yet realise when we're being one.
Your theory doesn't work in practice mate. And you know it.
Idk what these 2 are on about but yeah. Ppl need slapped around some times to second guess actions
@@mohammadalirashed3103 While avoidance is ideal in the wider scheme of things, it doesn't work practically in a situation where someone is actually being an asshole.
Instead, it ends up leaving them unchallenged and "right", which is what lets them feel comfortable enough to continue in their shitty behavior. There are ways of not letting assholes get away with it which don't involve throwing them through a glass window, to me, the key is to make them feel self-conscious and small by emphasizing how ridiculous and pathetic they are.
Even if they're such dick-heads that they don't actually care in terms of values/basic decency, they probably *will* care about collective approval and how they come off to others. I (perhaps naively) sincerely believe that the vast, vast majority of folks are decent and are generally on the same page values wise and want to "do the right thing", but they're generally too polite or shy to act on it. Someone else breaking the ice can help heaps.
Ray is also an asshole for getting physical. He's no angel in this.
So satisfying watching Mr. Kitchy going through the patio door
One of my favorite moments ever, on any show. It just warmed my heart.
Makes me want to rewatch this show. Good Australian series.
One of the very best series I've ever seen.
It’s absolutely brilliant.
I wanna see this show now. Looks so good.
it's the only Aussie show I've ever seen or heard of and it's one of the best things I've ever seen in my life
"One of us is being a dick" guy who gave a little girl a set of mugs
I love the fact that "Deck The Halls" was playing as somebody was LITERALLY decked just through glass ..... gotta love near and subtle irony
The first word that came out of his mouth after breaking through the glass says everything bout him.
He really did deserve it. Ray seems legit like a nice guy.
i found this scene heartbreaking, Ray knew very well what he was doing, in that moment he had to chose between his love and daughter, and chose to be a man and chose his daughter and sacrifice his own love life. Its sad but its the way its gotta be sometimes.
Sooooo true. He made the right decision though.
I’m all for bashing the dude. But alternatively he could have called him a dickhead and went and bought another unicorn for his daughter.
The parable I take from this show, especially his conversations with the anger management counselor, is that Ray believes in giving dickheads consequences.
@@cannibalchainsawthat’s the same way Jack Reacher thinks. It’s only worth it if you can do it and get away with it
Bro it’s just a candle.
One hundred dollars for a freaking candle. It’s yours mate.
EXACTLY 😂 Easiest choice ever
keep the 100 bucks a favor from Ray would have been the real prize.
The douchey guy who stole the toy was actually the director. He did a good job portraying such an unlikeable character who just couldn’t be bothered.
The guy who plays ray is the director if I’m not mistaken maybe he’s the co director or lead writer tho idk
@@ThomasSchwietert Scott Ryan (Ray) is the creator and writer but this guy was the director for that episode
@@Benjy1 ahh ok that makes sence thank you for the info
@@ThomasSchwietert No problem at all
that director is also the father of ray’s daughter in real life.
This guy does to pricks what I only think about doing.
Why only think about doing it? That only makes you secrete more estrogen...
@@fleatactical7390 yeah righto tough guy talk more rot. whats the bet you're a seppo?
@@fleatactical7390you only think about it too hero
@@L1VE3V1L Such an edgy screen name! I bet you dress completely in black, don't you?
@@fleatactical7390 Because I don't feel like serving a jail sentence
That man bun was reason enough to put him through a window…😂
Ray is a proper old school lad
I took a fish pillow as a white elephant gift to a company Christmas party. It was a great big green trout that somebody gave me and I didn't want.
It became a prize in the Christmas bingo game. The rules were that you could pick a prize and then you could steal/trade for a prize that anyone had already picked.
I know, really stupid game.
A little boy got bingo and went up there and grabbed that fish. He was over the moon thrilled. Funny, 'cuz I hated that thing.
A grown man later took that fish from that little boy. The boy started crying, and the man did not bring it back.
The next grown man to claim bingo went and took the fish from the idiot. Then he gave it back to the boy.
Good thing too, 'cuz all the windows were on the second floor and the idiot might not have survived the fall.
This series is soo f'n satisfying to watch. He gives people exactly what they deserve!
He looked like he wanted something else… and he got it.
Him going through that window is one of the most entertaining TV shots I've seen in years.
The fact he calls for his mom is icing on the cake. What a coward.
Ray reminds me of my dad. Without the murdering. As far as i know.
But this unicorn business, 100% something he would do.
"As far as I know" 😂😂
As any good dad would do.
Well ray also wouldn’t let you know about the murder
Calls for mum after being hurled through a glass door
Ah! Too good! That series is the best thing to come out of Australia in years. Ray Shoesmith for PM!
Even if Ray offered a 100 for the candle
I would have given the unicorn for free.
That guy got what was coming.
Excellent Australian series. From Russia with love.
3:10 the way he said kitchy is what got him pushed thru the glass door lmfao
I feel sorry for all the people who work with this high salaried man.
Laugh when he's lying on the floor calling out his mum. What a tough guy.
I met guys like him. Director knew what he was doing.
He is the director.
@@DROP_BEARZ Yes. Congrats on the observation.
3:14 The man by the fridge doesn't even flinch when the glass explodes 🤣
I mean, really, who didn't see that coming a mile away.
It reminds me of these happy meals for adults at McDonald's now.. it's "kitchy" 🤣
Everyone just just live by Ray’s mantra in life. The world would finally sort itself out! 😂😂😂
This scene reminds me of Nobody, and the line Give me the goddamn kitty cat bracelet.
Gotta love the writer and star of a series beat up the director on screen lol
Never seen a whole episode of this…but love Ray in every single clip I’ve seen…you respect me…I’ll respect you….damn right
You’re missing out
The subtle acting is what takes this show the extra mile. Love how you can tell Ally knew what happened immediately even before looking at Ray and you can see her disappointment.
The biggest issue is whether the homeowners insurance will cover the glass door replacement.
He good ya know how much he makes a
years
@straycatttt2766
Ray is a stand-up guy.
He paid for the glass replacement...plus interest.
Every man that has a manbun needs to be dropped like a bad habit.
i like Ray.
I love how he "tripped" through the window.
Had a bit too much to drink.
@@mikeincanada_ indeed he did 😋
I don't think any man would take a present from a kid in reality.... but it's fun to watch the rage that we feel from time to time :)
Its not kitchy anymore
I think we all know that Ray really, really shouldn't have done that. We all know that it was very, very wrong.
And I think we are all really, really glad that he did it.
Not wrong at all.
Misdemeanor assault at best, I think that was a teaching moment for the guy.
@@rickbartle2486 made a scene in front of the children
@@feralingo Good they can learn about the consequences of ones actions
That's not very nice just let him keep it ," charity Burbage" 🖕😉🖖😎
Yeah that's exactly what bullies do. They take advantage of kids and call for Mum when their asses get whipped.
I've yet to scratch "throw someone through a plate glass window" off my bucket list. Eh, I'm young; there's still time.
That's safety glass.
Clever dialogue. After the guy acts all big and tough, and then gets put through the glass, he’s laying on the floor and says “mum” in a wimpy kind of way. Point being made is not so tough now dickhead, but Ray is still a rock.
Guy has no clue who or what he's f@cking with, he's not met anyone like Ray before.
Reminds me of Gran Torino:
“Ever notice how you come across somebody, once and a while, that you shouldn’t have fucked with?”
He should have just given the unicorn back and told Ray he can keep his money after all it was Christmas surely the other guy saw how sad the little girl was
I’m watching this episode right now, and Ray did what needed to be done. Probably going to pay for it with the girlfriend, but he got his daughter the candle. Love this show.
Ray Shoesmith will either be your best pal or your worst enemy, you pick which one.
The series is engrossing and a good watch!
And now he’ll think twice before he ever does anything like that again…just like how Ray explained it in therapy. His logic is absolutely flawless tbf 😂😂
One of the best scenes ever
As soon as he started speaking I was hoping Ray would do him 😂
😂😂😂 same here
Grown man lying on the floor after stealing a little girl's unicorn candle, crying for his mom.
Guy who went through the window was the producer. He did a great job selling it.
Pathetic right😂😂😂
I laughed so hard when he went through the glass
This was the most unbelievable part of the entire show. I love the show and don't mind some of the ridiculous situations that Ray gets out of but this goofball wanting a unicorn candle because it was "kitchy"... I'm afraid thats just too much to be believed.
The way he says “mum?” Like he has no idea what just hit him.
Looks like Justice is served …!
He’s lucky coming out alive
You know when you're the Producer and Director of a hidden Gem of a Show and you cast yourself as the Grade A Douchebag, quite literally stealing a toy from a child at Christmas... that you are in fact, a Real One.👍👏👏👏
Phenomenal show, with top notch acting, directing and producing.
Well done!!
When he says "mom" is a cherry on top to who he is as a a person and character haha
You just gotta love Ray
Her family was not harsh enough. Ally should have had Britt's back.
The way he squeaks "Mum!" as he's lying there bleeding....😂😂
Ahhhh I remember Brooke satchwell in neighbours especially that pool scene she had a cracking set, being a lad at 14 watching neighbours she blew my mind
Guy goes “mooom?!” in 10 seconds 😂😂
Family wasnt even really shocked, like they knew their son/brother had that shit coming.
He shoulda folded him the second he took it
You've gotta love Ray
The only thing that Ray screwed up was making his retribution public. If he had assaulted him in private and threatened his life, no one would be any the wiser, his daughter would have her candle, and everything would be handled and peachy.
Ray: Let me introduce you to the kitchy floor
Pure gold this show.
I feel a sudden urge to binge this show now
The guy playing the brother is also the director IIRC.
People in this show are such naturally good actors..
EDIT: I love how the dad hardly gives a shit about the son lmao
M m mum😂😂😂 typical manbun pfft should have known
That was beautiful…
I feel bad for Ray losing his girl over this. The brother had something coming, but knocking him through the sliding door was over the top. Entertaining, though.
Dude has a bad ass Willem Dafoe vibe
If you haven't seen the show, do watch, he's absolutely captivating as Ray Shoesmith.
3 short seasons, but packs more substance into 25 minutes than most hour long dramas.
I love this bloke! Way to go!!!! 😃😃😃😃
- Ray, why did you knock my brother through the window???
- Because it's kitchy
The whole scene I was going “ray, please don’t crash out, PLEASE RAY DON’T CRASH OUT!!” He literally proceeded to crash out.
Ray just can’t let it go. Gotta respect that.
I’d do the same damn thing
Violence is not always the answer, buuut…that guy was overdue
I've never liked the white elephant Christmas, my sister in law used to do it every year, I always picked my gift and never participated in the stealing another gift, she finally got the hint I didn't like it
I can’t remember what people call them but these “steal the gift” exchanges suck. I hate them.
Yankee swap. Fucking stupid idea. Ruins Christmas.
@@Ogrematic thanks, I only ever heard of “Pollyanna,” another stupid gift game.
White elephant and dirty santa are common names around my area.
That was some of the best stuff I've seen in a long time
"Maahum?"
There is something beautiful in the straightforward brutality of resolute violence.
Maybe he’s not the best person. But he’s a great father. ♥️