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Hey there, it's Charlotte Dobre here, and let me tell you about a rollercoaster of dating disasters in less than 28 seconds! From spilling drinks on your crush to accidentally calling them by your ex's name, these mishaps will make you cringe and laugh at the same time! Join me in this hilarious journey as we explore the chaos that can turn a promising date into a total nightmare. Don't forget to hit that subscribe button for more entertaining tales of romance gone wrong! Let's commiserate and laugh together at the absurdity of dating fails! 😂✨ #DatingDisasters #Comedy #CharlotteDobre
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Asked a guy once, what's my name? He had no clue. We were on a 3rd date. Yes, I left.
How. 3 dates!! Gross. Excellent job walking away. This is such absurd behavior. Feels like they only see women as numbers not names. Ick.
Mulva?
… I mess up my own kids' names! Good thing I (hopefully) don't worry about dating anymore.
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To be fair, I mostly just use the wrong names without realizing it. I did mess up the name of my eldest when filling out the birth certificate information, but it was an I/Y substitution, and the "wrong" name is a perfectly normal alternate spelling, but it's still a funny story years later.
Some peopl3 cant remember names, or faces, both or one, same for voices. Eye colors. Instead they care about the person
@@draalttom844 no. I have face blindness. Sometimes my own face confuses me that that's what I look like. No. If you are dating someone, you do not get the luxury of not remembering their name. Especially not by the third date. What am I saved as in his phone if he doesn't know my name. Probably a number.
I got y'all beat. Met a guy online, who lived in my grandmother's town. We chatted for several weeks, mostly just friendly banter. When I planned a trip to visit my grandma, I told him I would be in town and said we should meet up. He suggested an ice cream palour that was popular in the area. Meet him there and immediately realize his pictures don't match what he had posted online. But, since we had friendly conversations, I told myself it wasn't a big deal. We go to order our milkshakes and he stopped me from paying for my own. Then we sit down outside to talk. He proceeds to tell me that freaking ADOLF HITLER wasn't that bad of a guy and that he was just misunderstood. I brushed that off as just being an awkward and horrible joke. Nope, he was serious. Then, in the same breath, he asks me how much longer it will be before I finish my shake, because he really wanted to take me back to his place "to get to know each other better." I told him, sorry I don't do that on a first date. He then proceeded to knock my shake over, spilling it all over the table and me, while yelling at me for leading him on, using him to get a free meal and accusing me of having another date later. I reminded him that I offered to pay for my $4.50 shake, which he insisted on paying for. I got up to walk away, and he jumped up to stop me, grabbing my arm. Unbeknownst to me, there was a table full of teenaged boys sitting behind me, who all jumped in to stop him. I ran to my car and quickly drove off. During the 20 minute drive back to my grandmother's house, he called at least 30 times, leaving messages ranging from apologetic to raging anger and a slew of profanities. I blocked and deleted his number and never spoke to him again. I spent the rest of my trip having a lovely time with my grandmother, aunts and cousins. Yep, I dodged a bullet with that one.
never mind all that. but did he make you laugh?
I hope you reported him to the dating service. He sounds like a psychopath and I’m glad those boys stood up for you.
Thank God for those fine teenage boys stepping in to help you.
Incels creating self fulfilling prophecies. Scary, I'm glad you escaped!
Wow... crazy af
Thankfully my dating days were before MySpace. On our first date, I knew my date (now husband) worked in construction and when he picked me up, it was a beat up xterra and it was plain to see that he took the time out to clean it and vacuum it, but it still had that kind of funky smell that won’t go away, but I noted the effort. We were going to an art show and the poor guy didn’t realize that there was a private event happening that night so when we drive up and realized we couldn’t get in, he looked so defeated. So we went out to eat at a place we were both familiar with, and we just had such amazing conversation. I could tell he was still bummed about the art show because he mentioned wanting to take me somewhere, but he wasn’t sure where. We decided to go to a pool bar and played pool all dressed up and just played and talked for HOURS. It’s been 22 years 🤗
So Sweet!
Happy tears for him and you! Lovely people, wish you all the happiness
This is so sweet 🤩
Beautiful! ♥️
Congratulations.
Glad two good people found each other.❤
God Bless you both, your Marriage, & your family, always. 💗
That is so sweet! I love y’all’s story!
The egg cutting machine is insane. It takes 1 minute or less to hand cut an egg. She spent 2 minutes machine cutting one egg, with a lot of it trapped between parts, and will spend 30 minutes cleaning the machine.
That wasn't even the weirdest thing... HONEY???? On avocados and eggs?!
@@Sindrijo I got stuck on the ridiculous machine. Good point, it's a no all the way around.
Once she started putting the eggs into the vegetable grater, I couldn't really pay attention any more.
@@carolinegrova8707 I want a video of her cleaning that hot mess out the machine.
It's not just for eggs. It's awesome for cheese and veggies too
Don't go on expensive date for the first time. Go for coffee, go for a walk - whatever. Nobody needs to pay and when and if you like each other, ask each other out for dinner for the second date.
Coffee dates are my go-to now. An excuse to hit up my favourite place which is a little out of the way for me to go to on a normal day, and it's so low commitment but still public. If he does want to pay for the coffee I don't feel bad about it cuz it's about 20 bucks for two people even with bagels. Now that the weather is nicer, if it's going well and we want to keep talking we can get more coffee to go and take a walk by the river that's right there!
Also, if the date is bad, it's a lot easier to end it sooner because you're not waiting for an entree to come out!
Literally met my fiancé online dating we went to Starbucks for 1st date and talked for hours.
Don't tell that to 90% of women that will burn you at the stake. The Wagyu A5 kinda stake 😂😂
That's a good idea !
@@thepkittyWhere do you live that two coffees & two bagels costs 20$? That's crazy to me! So glad i'm happily married !!
I once went on a date, reached the venue to get a text... He couldn't come?. Oh well, party on Wayne, party on Garth! ... I stayed at the venue cause it was a good vibe. 2 hours later he turns up with somebody else!. ... On a date! 😂. Had the audacity to ask me why I was still there because he felt awkward! 😂😂😂
Omg what did you say??? That’s so crazy!
@@powellinaALDAY oh I went straight up to him and asked him if I'd made a mistake, he said 'no I'm sorry, but I've liked him for a long time and he said he would go out with me tonight' then he asked why I would still be there? But the whole situation has made him feel awkward!.... I politely called him the 'c' word and went back my evening, and I had a great night! X
@@Luminara1981well deserved. The audacity.
@@gorosemonde the complete audacity, and to this day (over 10 years later) he still slithers in to my DMs every now and again, apologising and asking if we could meet up and catch up.🤣
@@Luminara1981 wow. Loooooser 🤌
My husband and I's first date was at a space invaders machine on the 7th floor of the college we attended. We were both nontraditional students, him a disabled marine veteran, me a newly divorced single mom. It was the BEST date. He bought me a grilled cheese with bacon sandwhich that we shared and shared a coke. 10 years later on our anniversary he still makes me grilled cheese with bacon. 2 kids, 4 cats and a homestead later, I can confidently say it was the best choice to tell him yes.
This is so cute!! 🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love it! My fiancé still makes me grilled turkey and cheese sandwiches. Food is so much better when you don't cook it yourself! ❤
the audacity of someone saying "you talk too much" on a date. like thats the point of a date, for you two to talk and get to know each other.
My thoughts exactly. That man has Patrick Bateman vibes.
When someone says you talk too much on the first date, it’s code for I’m a narcissist, your hear to listen to me.
What is sad in these videos is not the hurt feelings of the women, but the fact that in each story none of them left immediately when they felt uncomfortable :when the first rude remark was made, when they were ignored, when their date did something they didn't like, when they felt uncomfortable, or even when they didn't feel safe. Instead they tried to excuse the bad behavior and rationalize. Why does society teaches girls that above their safety, comfort and self respect is the opinion of others, and the most important thing is to not get angry and make a scene, because an angry or rude woman is despicable?
I don't think it is that. I think women are just naturally more compassionate than men and don't want to feel mean.
@@mistypedhi It’s not natural. Not wanting to be “mean” when some dude is making you feel unsafe is not at all natural. It’s one of the most unnatural states you can ever find yourself in, and it has nothing to do with “compassion”. It comes from years of conditioning and indoctrination that we’re not as important as anyone else, that some dude’s ego is more important than our own well-being. That’s not natural.
@@mistypedhi Nah, we are definitely taught to not make a scene and look “crazy.” We are told to minimize our feelings and our pain and “don’t make a big deal out of things” even if you really feel unsafe for uncomfortable. That’s not compassion, that’s brainwashing. We are also taught to be careful not to offend a man because he could hurt you, so don’t do anything to upset them. Basically we are taught that our safety and feelings don’t matter and if they do, don’t show it.
The way people emotions are these days… rejection could get you killed! So many stories of girls saying no and ending up dead. I think its pure survival. Last the date as long as possible while trying to find an escape route
It is called agency. Particularly the one with two girls and one is mostly ignored. Take control you. Introduce yourself then ask the man what is going on etc. Why are you sitting there like you are helpless? Oh, and don't make out him LOL. You just rewarded his bizarre and radically rude behavior thus make it virtually certain he will do it again. Stop it!!
‘she will steal your money and fart on your phone’
IS THERE A WORSE REVIEW A MAN CAN LEAVE ABOUT YOUR DATE? 🤣 im cryinggggg 😂
😂😂😂 I do love that he got to see it all on camera.
Dude reviews on dating profiles would be funny as hell. Also quite helpful.
For that second girl, I would have excused myself to the "restroom" and then left the 2 of them at the table to continue the "date" without me.
I would have flat out asked the dude what was going on. Wtf
I would have taken out my phone and made a date with someone else and then excuse myself and walk out.
On phone- Hey yeah, no, he's a loser. I'm bored. Want to meet at (name place)? K, see you in 20. Hang up
To the other female- Nice meeting you.
Leave.
that would be because you are a coward who cant deal with a situation that needs to be dealt with.
Same here
When I was in my 20s I was at a homespun version of Woodstock - 3 day music festival all my musician friends and I put on annually for a good 20 years(I'm a singer). I'm in a hottub with one of the guys that I happen to be attracted to, he starts fingering me, another girl gets in on the other side of him and before long his other hand went questing... she jumps up horrified, says "I'm NOT that kind of girl!" and runs off. I turned to him and said, "I am." I had so much fun that weekend!
- nobody likes anybody - we just tolerate other people. The motto of my life.
Theres no such thing as a good date, theres just some that are less horrible than others. If you EVER should find yourself on a "good date", rest assured, he'll turn out to be like a Manson Family grandchild or something.
@@RaptorFromWeegeeoh that's why I got ghosted all the time. Good date means I'm likely an insane maniac. Great, I should have been a dick. 😅
Moral of the story: If something feels off, just leave. You don't need to give an explanation other than taking care of yourself.
Amen! Best advice ever ❤
Yeah, I need to work on this!
Remember girl, remember
Safety first. Always ask for public places to meet. Maybe even in daylight. Have people you know in the neighbourhood or watching their phone for your emergency call.
@@glitterbomb7896 ❤❤❤
IF she did that, she'd never be on a date ever again lol. Cause her whole being is off.
That last guy read 50 Shades of Grey ad thought "yes I can do the exact thing this questionable fictional character does and it will definitely win me a submissive arm candy woman in one night".
The fact that people who are part of the BDSM community absolutely LOTHE that book should have told him something.
It works on the right person, she just wasn't the right person. When I was in college, plenty of my female peers had an older man that would spend on them. They were perfectly aware of the nature of the relationship, they found it fun. Nobody really judged them, we all thought it was funny.
Friend of mine is a full time professional model, and is into BDSM. She is a "true switch" she says. She was at FetCon one year, and met this cool lady. (She's bi BTW). This guy walks up, and the girl immediately kneels. My friend, looking towards some kind of a group fun evening, introduces herself. The guy yells at her "You WILL call me master!" She bitch--slapped him, and read him the riot act. Dude literally screwed up his chances with a gorgeous half-Asian professional model.
BTW my friend also teaches couples classes in BDSM. She made bank when "50 Shades" was popular.
@@geometerfpv2804It's the oldest trade in the world.. certain people are into it.
@@geometerfpv2804 Gross. I knew one girl like that and before we graduated she had turned herself into an actual hooker - sorry, ESCORT - and was trying to recruit me too since I'm 'so sex positive.' Yeah, I'm so sex positive I ONLY have sex with people I feel positively about, not just whoever pulls his wallet out quickest! Gross.
I’m very happily married but the guy in the hoodie with glasses would 100% be someone I would have dated when I was single. Kinda quirky but in such a sweet way. Hope his dating life is going much better!
Right? I thought he was cute
He'll definitely make a wonderful companion for someone special. I need someone like him but in their 40s 😂
He is so cute but idk about that lisp
The audacity of that girl to try and unlock his phone and steal the money from the food. I hope she has been found and charged with a misdemeanor.
Is theft only a misdemeanor charge ? It should be A felony. Maybe it depends on how much was taken.I don't know.😂
@@perfectlyimperfect9129last I checked theft over 500 is a felony
What the Heck..why? He seems like a nice friendly Guy. Why do they always get out with the weird beautiful ones? Is that only in US?
My guess is that she was probably going to try to get his card numbers from the wallet app.
She’s a vile cow!!! Definitely press charges! It’s all on video.
“Giving my home address to someone before our first date is my first mistake. Getting alone into the car of someone with whom I don’t know and already asked me for money was my second mistake. Getting back into his car after every moment of this date had been horrible was my third mistake.” I am so glad she got home safely.
Right! That's what I was thinking!!!
She was travelling so it's unlikely to be her home address .. but yeah . Don't take rides from men you don't know
honestly as a guy if a girl online gave me her home address I just met online I would see that as a red flag. Either she has no self preservation instincts or she's up to something and I'm putting myself in danger.
WOAH! That last one was literally CRAY CRAY! like who are YOU to start making demands on a first date like that? like WTF!?
My worst date was with a helicopter engineer who worked with a local EMS service and was ostensibly on call during our date...and was DEAD drunk when I showed up. Proceeded to tell me that he won't tell me his income bc he makes SO much money and kept touching me all night. Also wouldn't tell me his height because he hated that women hated "short kings" he was literally my height (which I don't care about) and then invited his ENTIRE friend group who came to the bar to come by and interview me one by one. VISIBLY disappointed when I said I don't sleep with anyone on the first date and just kept drinking...and drinking...and drinking. I called the sheriff's office the next day to let them know he needed to be tested regularly for alcohol at work bc we live in Colorado and I personally spend a good amount of time in the Backcountry and God help me if he ever showed up in a helicopter to help me if I broke my leg on an approach trail or something (or even if it wasn't me!! I wouldn't trust my bike lock with this guy much less MY LIFE if I had to be flight to lifed outta some situation. GOD!!)
Whoa wild!!! Im so glad you reported him. My husband works in EMS in Colorado and flight for life and the like have to do some crazy maneuvers out here to get to people. He could seriously hurt so many people. Honestly idk how long ago this was but it might be worth contacting whomever he works for. Thats scary
Good for you! He’s a danger to society
" she will steal your money and fart into your phone" 😂😂😂 I cant believe its real 😂😂😂😂
Honestly gave “The worst she can say is no” a whole new perspective lmao
can’t say I’ve heard that one before but now I have lol
i wonder how his eye is doing 🤔
You knew the Avocado toast was going south when she used a fork instead of a spoon to scoop it out of its skin. Also, the clean up on the 'egg grater" is not worth the effort.
The pushing-through egg slicer is much better! Then a few cuts to make slices into strips, bam, done.
That all I could think of.
Thank you I was thinking this the whole time lol
I came to the same conclusion! Who scoops out avocado with a fork?! She must be insane
Lmfao i just wrote about that. Whhhhhy didnt she use a knife on the eggs 😂 that veggie shredder probably still has egg stuck in it 🤣
When I met the love of my life, he was brave enough to approach me to talk to me, so I was brave enough to ask him on an informal date to the beach. I picked him up after the wedding we met at, went to the beach, shared a joint, and talked for hours. I also took him out to a water park like a week later. We’ve treated each other like a Prince and Princess since the day we met. We’re now happily married 8 years later💕🥰
Fellas, good ladies will happily accept coffee if they like you for real, or they’ll level up and do what I did! 💯
Never, ever, ever leave your phone on the table. You never know if your date will do crazy s**t.
the reason the mean and nasty ones get so many people is because they are willing to mow through as many people as possible regardless of how they hurt them until they find someone they can push around. it's not that people are drawn to assholes, its that assholes will play the field at an insane rate basically speedrunning from one relationship to the next because they are not emotionally invested. they are just slamming through as many people as possible until they find someone who is broken in a way that suits them so they can manipulate them to stay.
Lmao you just described my birth giver. On point.
100%. the whole "nice guy" whining they do about "women only go for assholes" is not true. They just run into a lot of assholes.
Men are the prize. We do as we please. Drizzle drizzle.
@@imeverywhereandnowhere56 lmao what are you, 14?
Sounds like a great lifestyle, actually. Thats the dream all guys want to life, and they all would too, if they had the mojo to be able to pull it off. These guys, Becca11389 describes are heroic figures in the finest traditions of the old west.
When paying at a restaurant, NEVER just leave the money on the table. always take it to the counter and pay for it there. That way, you have proof that it was paid for, and it can't get stolen. Even tips just lying in plain sight on the table could be stolen by someone walking by.
You’re right..I’ve seen people steal tips before. I always wait for the wait staff to return or I’ll hand it to them on my way out.
Not even just other patrons, I used to waitress and this lady Karen (her actual name) would steal people's tips for herself. We were not in a place that pooled tips.
My husband is totally paranoid about this, he always makes us wait until the server comes back to hand them their tip.
I will wait for the server to return to get the money before I leave. And I live in a place where no one would probably just take it. If you lose your wallet you will get it back with everything left (mostly) . My mom had her wallet stolen, the theif took 50€ the only cash in there & a few ibuprofen tablets 😂
Then the theif had left her wallet on the back off some random bike in town & the next morning someone saw it & called her.
@@ingridakerblom7577 : In certain cases when I can't leave a tip at the counter when I pay, and can't give it directly to the server, I'll tuck it under one of the plates so it can be found as the table is cleared.
Beware of the designated driver that can’t turn down a free drink 🤦🏻♀️
She was right about him telling who he was but no one said it the way I heard it, yes he committed a crime and tried blame other people
For his actions but also he admitted he was weak and is easily persuaded by bad people.
Has anyone ever crowned you the queen of the CRISPIEST "R"s on planet Earth? I mean this in the sweetest way because I adore you and your videos. I just have the hearing of a German Shepherd when it comes to them crispy R's.
the last one, Charlotte: if a man says, "You talk too much," get up and leave immediately. no comments, no glance. Don't go for a walk on any first date - you never know how it will end. I've heard other stories on your channel that I like: see if you can have a friend show up at the same location to observe & ensure your safety (possibly a ride home if needed).
Also there are safety bracelets that will send a fake call to your phone or message the police
@@AmethystEyes Really? I might buy those for my future daughters. Thanks for tell me that.
Well we went on a magical walk around a beautiful lake for our first date. But my love is a middle school friend of mine. Someone I've known since I was young that I know would never harm me. Someone who knows how well I can handle myself if he ever tried. And it was the greatest day of my life. After all these years he's still my best friend who makes my heart flutter faster than a hummingbird's wings.
I got told that I talk too much on a first date once lol 😂😂😂😂😂 I laughed and said well that's not gonna change so....
@@truthseeker9249, there's nothing like a first love. I still remember my first kiss.
The guy towards the end who had his phone sat on and got robbed of the check money seems like such a sweetheart! I feel so bad for him. He’s adorable. I hope he’s had a decent date since that experience! I’d usually recommend to be a petty potato and exact revenge but holy hell he doesn’t need to see that girl ever again
Thank God for security cameras
Was that your take? He seems nice but he really needs to learn some basic societal survival skills. He thinks WWIII is a conspiracy theory and that farts on your phone give you pink eye and leaves his phone with strangers then lets them use the phone after they try to unlock it while he’s gone. Man, she was a piece of work but it’s so frustrating to watch someone taunt fate like that. She saw him coming a mile away.
@@BeeWhistler what does "he thinks WWIII is a conspiracy theory" mean? I must have missed someething ☺️.
@@BeeWhistler a fart? No. 😂 An STD if her bits rubbing on his phone and leaving even trace amounts of fluids and those fluids coming in contact with the fluids of his eye? He's not wrong for getting tested.
@@BeeWhistler Most of that I agree w/ you on about him needing more survival skills. Have to admit, he was acting a bit more like woman often do, w/ being too agreeable and extending too much benefit of the doubt. it could be possible to get pink eye though. Pink eye can come from feces and that's pretty much what a fart is, in vapour form. Esp. if she got her actual ring touching his phone. I'd be freaked out at the possibility. Hope his immune system was good and strong.
About the who-pays-for-drinks-question: I am from Norway and we pay separately at the first date (A small beer is easily 13€/$/11GBP). However, I find if one person does not have an income (e.g. is a student) it is okay for the one with the income to pay --- OR you just go for a short hike together
I do NOT like hikes for dates unless it’s a popular trail and u decently know the person but even then, u don’t know who the hell ur going into the woods with😅 ppl can pretend to be good until they get the chance to get u alone and isolated
I'm in the usa and would say yes, pay separately, and a hike sounds nice.
A first date hike sounds dangerous for women (not in Norway I suppose it's really safe and ok in your country)
I once went on a tinder date and we brought beers and sat on a pontoon to chat in a an area where people walk by. We stayed friends for years. Lol nothing more, not my type.
Do men and women have equal pay in Norway?
The 2nd girl (?one with the little gray kitty attacking her) trying to gaslight herself into thinking she misunderstood the situation is very relatable 😬🙃 so glad im happily married now lol
I always pay my way when going on a date and as I don’t drink I drive myself to said date. My dad taught me that you pay your way whatever the situation is. Then you don’t owe any man anything. If I’m in a committed relationship then we take turns. My money is my money and his money is his. I’m nearly 50 years old and can’t be doing with all this 💩
Exactly!! When I speak like this, women around me look at me like I am crazy...
They even told me "oh, you like supporting men".. 😳
Supporting? I am a functional adult, he is not my father.
The only reason why I didn't paid on my husband's and I date, was because it was 2020 (pandemic), and the only thing we ate was ice cream, it was really cheap.
I do exactly the same. I only let a guy pay for me once because he insisted and I already knew him from high school so I had a good feeling about him (we did date for a while until he went abroad for a year). Other than that I always pay for myself or we take turns. I'm not going to owe anyone anything ever :)
I taught my daughter to drive herself EVERYWHERE even if she could ride with friends and it doesn’t make sense. My biggest fear is a friend taking her to a sketchy situation (usually for a loser guy) and then ditching her with creeps or drag her to a second location they didn’t plan to go to that is dangerous or could get her in trouble. Girl code flies out the window when guys or drvgs are involved.
Your such a wise women
Exactly! I have 3 daughters and I have drummed into them since they were small that you always, always, always go dutch on a first date.
"You talk too much when you drink wine."
This is the cue to stop drinking the wine, throw it in his face, and leave.
Why waste good wine? I would drink it as fast as I could, laugh in his face and get the f outta there!
She should not have accepted an expensive gift from a first date! He paid for an expensive dinner and sent a car to pick her up for the date. he did more than enough. She acted like an entitled gold-digger.
@@joycejones8070 Did you even listen to the rest of the story?
@@joycejones8070so you’ve never been given a gift and a dinner by your partner? that’s next level for you? that’s sad
Or if it's really expensive wine, finish the glass and order another bottle. Then excuse your talkative self to the restroom and then bounce out the back door!
It’s so messed up that girls have to worry about their safety to leave a date.. men worry about being catfished, we worry about being attacked or murdered.
First date with a fellow I met at an improv show (my son's first show with his troupe). He shows up for a "farm date" to ride horses with me (my horses) -- told me he could ride well. We went on a short ride through farm fields, very nice ride, very pretty, along a river. He had brought his dog, which he said ran five miles a day with him on his bike. He couldn't even get on the horse, let alone ride. I put him on a small horse (easy to get on) who was a sweetheart and would give him no trouble. She (the horse) was so pissed at his awful riding she pinned her ears the whole ride -- I'd never seen her do this before. His poor dog must have been laying next to a stationary bike for that "five miles a day." The dog had a heat stroke and DIED about 1/2 mile into the ride!!! I carried that dog (big dog!) to a pool of water as it was expiring, trying to cool it down, and gave it mouth to nose resuscitation three times to bring it back when it stopped breathing. The man was totally useless. When we got back to the farm, my dad (lived next door) handed him a shovel and showed him a place in the garden where he could bury the dog. Date guy was insulted that he was being asked to bury the dog, himself. Once it was buried he came into my house to shower!!! I'm the one covered in death slobbers and mud -- but he wanted to clean up first (while I made sandwiches because he was really hungry) and then (I've washed my hands, obviously, but still wearing muddy clothes) started angling for a pity fuck because "he was sad about his dog dying". Worst date of my life. The dog was a sweetheart and this asshole killed him by lying, lying, lying.
I feel so sad for the dog. And you did not deserve that sociopath who murders his dogs..
Kristi noem said hold my drink..
Thanks for being a good companion to the dog!
“Let’s be realistic-Nobody likes anybody. We just tolerate other people.” Dang, I’m alarmed by how much I agree with this.
FAt feminist logic over ahead ^^^ Talk about trash people. No wonder you guys suffer so much lol. Bad people!
Point period . Yes I agree so much with this haha
I meant point period . Lol I agree so much
I once rejected a girl i was talking to on a dating app because she randomly found my number started texting me, then she would drive by my house asking me "guess where i am right now? Looks like you must be at work.". I never told her my number or where i lived. Then, after i thought it couldn't get worse, she began to gaslight me, saying im not a man and must be intermediated and can't handle a committed relationship" etc. until i finally blocked her. Two months later, she popped up on Facebook with "just got married" 😳 like what the freak...
That creep is the perfect candidate for a restraining order.
She'll end up on 'snapped' one day, sounds like you dodged a bullet!
I always insist on paying my way on a first date. Like Charlotte said, if I get a “no second date” vibe, I am absolutely paying my way. If there is a connection and he pays, I tell them I’m covering it next time no ands ifs or buts.
I would have left at "he went into an alley and asked if my boobs were real?" But, hey, I have ignored waaay worse Red Flags when I was a lot younger. What a great lesson! I Love how Charlotte responded. She is kind, fair (looks at both sides), and has great advice.
I'm so glad no one is talking about my son not knowing how to act right on a date. My husband showed him how to treat a lady right. First date- picked her up in front of her apt building (good for her that she didn't give him her apt number), he hands her a bouquet of flowers, opens her door, they go to eat and he pays, they have a couple drinks and he pays, he drops her off and again opens her door and walks her to her building, tells her he had a great time and looks forward to seeing her again. Might sound old fashioned to some but he said the look of surprise and happiness on her face when he gave her the flowers was totally worth it💘
All I hear is he did, he did, he did and all she did was show up.
Fathers are important!
@@thetjdman If you want traditional shit then you act traditional or shut the hell up. Men like you need to get with the times or act right for the women you want.
You raised him well ❤
Son well raised!
For the guy where she was trying to unlock his phone, i would make sure all tracking is turned off, in case she was trying to case home.
After she stole the cash off the table, it makes me wonder if she was trying to get into his phone to venmo herself money or something.
that's what I thought, like she may have been tryna rob him
@@lynnettebelle3019I didn’t even thought about that 😱😱😱
You are probably right! Until I read you comment I was so puzzled about the trying to unlock thing… I was thinking if she wanted to check/stalk if he is maybe already dating
But with the stealing sending herself money … that would make so much more sense
@@lynnettebelle3019 Or get into his bank account if he uses his phone to do his banking. Her taking his phone outside to talk to her sister is very suspicious. She was probably setting him up to be robbed by her cohorts. The guy needs to check his Venmo, cash app, bank accounts.
Ewww. This poor guy!
🚨The first example had my red flags flying but about her. I understand the focus is red flags from your date but what about the red flags that should be known concerning safety and what to NOT do!! 🚨
1) Never never never meet a new person in your home or hotel room.
2) never allow them to pick you up at your home or B&B or hotel. Getting into a car with a stranger is an absolute red flag. Always always always drive yourself or get an Uber to where you’re meeting.
3) Never tell them your home address or the exact hotel you’re staying at before the date.
4) Meet at a restaurant , coffee shop or establishment that is well lite, busy with customers and not out and away from other businesses and people coming and going.
5) always gets to your date destination a half hour early so you can assess the safety of the location.
6) Always tell hotel staff/or one family member or friend where your meeting and your dates name.
7) For hotel stays, leave the name, address and a phone number of a family/friend with the front desk in case of an emergency.
8) when you arrive early to your date, speak to the hostess, manager and introduce yourself and let them know about your meeting a new person for a date. At a minimum they naturally will have more attention and concern .
9) I could go on but, if all people ( especially young people) did these few things then they would be safer on every date.
God bless!!!! 🥰🛐😇
Good morning.
Was up in the office at work yesterday, i called someone delulu.
On the way out new staff member grabbed me & said " omg you watch charlotte?"
A new friendship has formed 😁
So the next day you asked about the farting on phone story?
I completely missed the story cuz I was mesmerized by the quiet egg 🥚 thing
God 18:50 that guy with glasses dodged a crazy lady so many red flags on the first date 😂 like what the hell is wrong with some people ?
I know right? Who doesn't like Chinese food?
He didn't dodge her at all. He got run over head-on full force by her🤣
Got stolen from, farted on, THEN finally got the opportunity to run away in the opposite direction, yet is STILL suffering the consequences by being labelled a thief and has to go to the doctor for pink eye. Poor guy!
@@TattyLocks well at least got to see how psycho she is before he stayed longer to discover it later on 😂
@@TianaBarker I can only imagine it gets much, much worse... 😳
@@TattyLocks that’s why he’s got to run away before it got worse then it already was 😂
At this point I may stay single, living at my parents house, and take care of them. These stories make me feel okay about not going out with anyone in YEARS
That’s what I did. I helped them through ALS (Dad) and cancer (Mom). Now that they’re gone, I only regret their loss.
Legit hard same.
Same! I need to care for my parents, their 4 elderly cats. I work full time. And I have my 3 cats, i don't have the time or energy to go on crazy dates 😂 it's been easier to let the guy stay for the last 15 years 😅😂
@@amandagreen4332that must have been so hard. such cruel unforgiving diseases is terrible to see someone you love go trough. And you want to be able to help them more than you can, so there is a constant frustration about not being enough..
But I wouldn't want it another way I feel it would be extremely hard not to help care for the ones you love..
I have done the same cared for my Mom since her stroke. I get lonely but every time I try to date I end up with a pig or a freak. I’d rather be lonely then deal with these crazy mfs
That last guy is one of the reasons i don’t do drinks for a first date. I’m not letting them spend a bunch of money on something that with make me more compliant and/or unable to get away. I prefer to do like lunch or coffee and pay my own for the first date. If there’s more than one, then whoever invites the other or picks the place is the one who pays.
See this is why i talk to people for a couple weeks before going on dates. A lot of them weed themselves out within that time 😂
My boyfriend and I (both elderly) met online. He asked for a phone call and we went out for root beer. Five plus years of happiness and romance so far.
I always offered to split bills, suggested bike rides, picnics and such during early dates.
I am so happy for you both. Bless you.
Aaaaaaand this is why I stay single. I am at peace with myself. After a marriage, 2 kids, & a divorce almost 10yrs ago, I’m way too comfortable just being on my own.
Is this supposed to be a “I’m a strong woman now” type of comment or a just a sad one?
Cuz I can’t tell. I’m not trying to be funny or rude I just don’t get the message here.
But you got half his stuff right?
Omg it does hit different when the guys tell their horror dates. 😱 that is nuts. Wtf.
The last dood wanted to “own her” 🤮🤣
I wish it wasn’t true but I have a few that top these, one involved being a victim of a crime.
Thanks for your sanity and levity, Charlotte 💕✨💖
This is my competition!?!? What have i been worried about this whole time!, 🤦😂🤷
15:36 Yes!! I was also distracted by her pulverising the egg through the grater 😅 it was excruciating 😂😂
The strees of cleaning it after. I'd rather just cut it up as usual 😂😂
I had to rewind several times to actually listen to the story 😅
@@musicaldolliexI have the same grater. Luckily, it's really easy to clean
I met my husband on an online dating site. I asked him how previous date experiences were, since it was a dating app, and I was new to it. He told me one date he picked up to go to dinner, and in the car on the way there she pulled out a dog collar and leash and wanted him to wear it 😂😂😂😂. He pulled over to the nearest bus stop, and said bye, have a nice life 😅
Yeah that's definitely something you talk about BEFOREHAND. Anyone who's an ethical person into BDSM knows you don't just throw that on people, you have an open conversation first talking about wants and limits. You don't just throw that onto someone who has no interest. That makes everyone look bad, and is not caring at all of the other person.
At least she was direct, no gaslighting there
I asked one guy the same thing; apparently they met for brunch, and she put a WHOLE piece of toast, with a WHOLE fried egg, into her mouth, like a python. He never recovered from the image. I haven't either.
@@robinkholmes7127 I think the directness would have been better prior to meeting up, not pulling a leash and collar out of nowhere, with zero previous conversation.
@Kayenne54
I just spat out my drink
I’m guilty of a terrible date once. Like really bad.
I asked this girl to go out on a date with me. We would go out to eat, go to the movies, classic first date stuff. I was 17.
I told her real quick before we went to dinner I needed to swing by the mall to grab my brother a bday present as it was his birthday that day.
After the mall I start my car and there is this loud clanking noise from the engine. I tell this woman that my grandfather is good with cars and close by. Just to be safe, we would swing by.
Get there. He drives us around a few blocks. No noise. I feel dumb. So he floors it just in case. The pedal gets stuck to the floor. This poor woman in the front seat with me in the back as we are approaching 100mph in this residential area. Thankfully my grandfather just turns the car off and we glide to a stop. It’s mid November and freezing. She’s in this summer dress. I give her my jacket and we walk 6 blocks back to my grandparents house. They lend me their car so I can take her home.
She says she’s still hungry so I offer to get Boston market and some movies to try and salvage it. She agrees. I buy the food and we rent like 3 movies. We ate, watched one, and I than left telling her I would call her the next day.
We have been married for over 25 years now, with two beautiful children.
She told me it was me giving up my jacket that got me a second date and a second shot lol
I dated a stand-up comedian and it was the absolute worst 9 months of my life. He turned out to be abusive, both physically and psychologically, and he would yell at his audience if they didn’t laugh. Yeah, he was suuuuper funny.
You were the joke of his entire plot.
"abusive both physically and psychologically" i call BULLSHITT xD who learned you those big words, should get a slap on the wrist.
Omg he would YELL at his audience? This deserves a name drop lmao. I want to go to a show & yell back. 😒 What a baby lol.
Dated a comedian. It was not a good time. He was very insecure. Glad I didn't date him for long.
@@MsKwesi tears of a clown as they say. I met the guy I dated while I worked at s comedy club. I knew he was a wacko but he was cute so I went for it. As Julia Roberts said in Pretty Woman; Big mistake. Huge!
I saw a lot of fucked up things while I worked at the club. Some big names passed through and most of them had issues. Really dark world.
That chick that said "I am used to mirroring people"...... she is 1,000,000% a psychopath and her actions matched what i predicted!
@@Silence_between_waves yes, we all to tend to mirror people in one to one situations. But we do not announce it. And the fact that she recommended a food that she didn't like is a extremely not normal.
I have ADHD and I mirror. It’s a coping mechanism.
@@sd1660 i also have ADHD, but I'm very sure we do not announce our mirroring habits at all or even before a first date
Or she's trying to be open about her mirroring
Psychopath or some kind of undiagnosed or unmedicated scitso or whatever biochemical imbalance that makes stalkers.
I so try not to laugh at you!! But you have me in here cracking up girl❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😂🤣😂🤣
All my romantic partners were women I met at a coffee shop where I go casually to hang out with friends.
I met them organically with no pretense of a relationship and had coffee with them several times before ever going on anything that could be perceived as a date with them, so I already knew I enjoyed their company and conversation.
Even then, said date likely started with hanging out having coffee together and one of us saying something to the effect of "I'm hungry, you wanna get something to eat?"
No pretense, no expectations, just two people getting food together who enjoy spending time with each other.
For this reason, I have never in my life had a single bad date.
This. Please, print out the playbook and pass it around friend. Help us help them lol
I alwayssssss pay my own way on a first date for multiple reasons, 1. So if the date doesn't end well he can't say I used him for anything other than getting to know him. And 2. If they get super defensive over not paying that's a red flag for me like if they act like it takes away their masculinity me paying for myself. 3. So they can't use buying me food or something as an excuse to demand sex. I have genuinely gotten into fights with my dad about this I'm his only daughter and he raised me by himself, but I am constantly terrified up becoming financially dependent on someone or even worse using someone I care about without meaning to cuz I'm just used to the treatment.
Yeah - that first girl gave me red flag #1 with her "this is a date so you can't ask me to buy anything". Other than that, she seemed pretty nice overall.
You forgot the: "I pAiD fOr YoUr FoOd So nOw YoU HAVE TO sLeEp WiTh mE" reason. 😆😅
@@rolandhansen812 Thats not a red flag. Whoever asked for the date should be paying. If you both agree ahead of time to pay for yourselves then that is fine.
@@n.a.productiones_miss-y oh girl that never crossed my mind I dare a man say that to my face, I was raised by an old school Southern Man and I fight like one too 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 like I know men say it but I've been told I'm an intimidating woman so God help the brave one that tells me that.
Yes, exactly that! And also ☝️ that reason. I'm not about to give them ANY reason to think I owe them a damn thing!
Love Charlotte's face when she disagrees. And when people do makeup or food.
The chick-fil-a girl part took me right the fcuk out!! 😂😂😂😂😂 must've replayed it at least 10 times 😂😂
“theyre putting stuff in the water to make the frogs gay. theyre making everything gay y’know” lmfaoooo
"Xenoestrogens are synthetic chemicals released into the environment as pollutants from agricultural spraying (pesticides and herbicides), from industrial processes, and waste disposal (PCBs and dioxins)." He's got it mostly right, actually. It's also affecting human males, reducing libido and reproductive capabilities. Also increasing the chances that men end up with "breast" issues; it's very common. Muscle in men is replaced with fat, just like women's breasts are formed.
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4586825/
It’s an Alex Jones’ classic, which should speak for itself to the character of that dude 🙄
The second someone says Joe Rogan or Ben Shapiro or Jordan Peterson, I'm out the door. Bye-bye.
@@Tirani2Joe Rogan and Jordan Peterson are decent when it comes to being open minded, Joe Rogan is an old hippie who has smart people on his podcast. Jordan Peterson is a clinical psychologist. Sounds like you’re the problem.
So that story with the phone farter, I'm pretty sure she was like ACTUALLY trying to rob him and was probably not alone. She was acting skittish and weird, and then wanted to go to his place? What if she was unlocking his phone to find out where he lived or something?
I am worried thinking if she was trying to unlock his phone to get to his bank app or worse install a spyware to steal all of his information.
This is exactly what I thought, in both comments.
I absolutely thought the same thing when hearing the story... but the 8 year old in me thought she put his phone under her butt to fart on it and then he started talking about his possible pink eye infection 😂😂😂
@@candiromero22 I watched this at 2 am while doing my nails and absolutely lost it at that part. I couldn't stop laughing.
I think you're right. I bet she had friends nearby who'd follow them and then she would let them inside his home.
Watching this after having a really nice date today. We had coffee and walked to a park, sat on a park bench and enjoyed the breeze for a little bit.
I’ve been married to my husband sixty one years. When we went on dates I paid for myself. We both made less than minimum wage. He asked his older sister if it was ok. She told him sure if l volunteered. This was early in our courtship, sixty one years later we share everything to do with money. This makes me feel better about myself.
The reason that genuinely kind men and women, don't seem to get picked by their forever person until later in life, is due to the fact that most of us grew up in households with parents who didn't pattern "love" to us in an appropriate way.. if our parents loved toxicity, we also do, as a consequence to the fact that we grew up in that environment and it is all we saw. We are recreating the patterns of our youth, for better or worse.. that's also why so many people get divorced in their 30's-40's.. because one day they wake up and realize they married their parent, and that this was never really love at all.. but it's a hard lesson to learn, and it takes even those who do eventually learn, a very long time to get there.
We will be chosen my sweet friends. You are not alone in feeling lonely and unappreciated.
I see you and i appreciate you 🫶🏻🌌✨️
OMFG this is soooo true!! ❤❤❤
This is so encouraging thank you 🥲💕 33 feeling like I’m alone forever haha
I see & appreciate you too dear friend ❤
Agree kids learn from home - my mother father called her ugly when she was 8 . She became covet narsist and shaming and blaming and gaslighting and physical violence was her way to raise me I didn't continued our family because it's better that way. Pain and bad karma continues of her wrong doings ( 6 abortions+ my little brother self cancellation) mentally ill parents usually rase unstable children or at least children who would be door mats / victims of different abuse.
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I was so distracted by the egg shredding appliance too thinking it’s going to be such a hassle to clean! Just get a knife out! LOL😂
Same! I had to rewind it to listen because at first I was like...is she putting an egg in a juicer? Oh a cheese shreddar....but why???? Look how much egg is wasted! Aw man...so much to clean for a single piece of toast....
I was like how is that easier?? I had to skip the end of that story when she pulled out the second egg
How does she clean it?
Oh no! Not a feminist!!!
I was thinking the same thing about the egg slicer. So much to clean up, when you can just use the same fork you used in the avocado.
I was intrigued by the egg shredder as well! LOL. Fun video!
As someone living in London - the drinking and driving thing is so common here. Especially people living outside of London, commuting in who maybe drive to the train station in their home town. I've had a colleague say, multiple times, when I questioned why she was drinking if she has to drive when she gets home say "I have no other choice!!". Uhm, yes you do - don't effing drink!
I heard the Poles are considered to be drunks in general, but when we're designated drivers, we are sober.
Captain Hook! He had me at "going out to eat is one of my favorite things to do!"
He definitely deserves much better than Melanie!
“Let’s be realistic, nobody likes anybody, we just tolerate other people” best quote ever 😆
The egg grated thing was annoying me so much 😂 all the missed egg inside
Yeah that was the weirdest contraption ever since it just crushed most of the egg inside the machine. Also imagine having to wash the whole thing up rather than just cutting the egg up and making your own egg mayo?
@@Outnumberedbykidsandcats are you British? Because I have never heard the term "egg mayo".
@@Amanda-gg6kz yeah I’m English. What about you?
@@OutnumberedbykidsandcatsI have that grater. It's very good, tho i've never tried grating an egg. Easy cleanup.
@@Amanda-gg6kzfor some reason my comment isn’t showing. I said yes, I’m English - what about you?
On all my first dates, we went halfsies, that way there were no unreasonable 'but I paid for you' expectations.
I set my requirements ahead of time and tell guys that I'm not looking for intimacy and I'm on a budget and limited in funds. The ones that seem chill and ok with my requirements are the ones I hang out with. It turns out ok more oftentimes than not
I also love that they think spending a coffee or $30 on you means they can have expectations. I’m not an escort.
Absolutely love your content, you really brighten my day much love from the UK ❤❤❤❤❤
The egg thing was more distracting than the rest of the story! 😂
16:12
22:56 aww i wouldve legit been so relieved if i went on a date with a stranger and it was this guy. A sane, non-chauvanistic, handsome gentlemen. That story is so crazy. I hope he pressed charges against her for stealing his money.
The guy that got robbed - shows he’s a good dude tho since the restaurant know him well enough to call and let him know about the payment issue rather than calling the police
Ive had a man take me on a first date only to start breaking down his longterm 'plan' for us. He started talking about how we were going to shop for groceries together (but left at his home, of course), and then when I got off work I could come cook for him before making my way home. I laughed out loud and then promptly walked out on him. He showed up at my door about a month later, scared tf out of me because he had to be stalking me in some way to know where I lived. Luckily I had a make friend over who told him to leave and not return. I can't imagine what was going through his head. But that was weird af
I'm so glad you got out of this situation safe. Who knows what that dude could've done.
@@RhythmAddictedState How kind of you. Thank you. Yes, I was fortunate my friend was there at the time. I have no idea if he would have tried to hurt me. But just the fact that he showed up had me nervous for awhile.
A couple of comments on this:
1. Asking money for gas before even meeting you? Absolutely not!!! That`s not a red flag, it is a flaming one!
2. Was the girl putting eggs on a meat grinder?!! No, I also could not pay attention to the story while this was happening and
3. You have to be really naive or really realistically money-driven to think a guy you just met would buy you a Gucci purse and not expect anything out of it. That`s clearly a sugar baby/sugar daddy relationship. And yes, that guy was scary...
A friend called me to talk about her first date with this guy she had been crushing on for some time. He told her during this first date "I like to play with women's minds, like to play mind games with them, play them that way", she said, what do you think he meant. I told her he just told you to RUN, he told you this so he doesn't have to feel badly about toying with you in the future, as he told you up front what was going to happen, don't bother with him! What does she do, see him again!. Sees him for 1 1/2 yrs + yes he played her. Why do women not listen to what they say on the first date, it will save you a lot of heart ach + time. I no longer give her advise, its a waist of my time, she never listens to me. Oh by the way, asked him out + she paid for the first date, he never toke her anywhere.
Waste not waist
Oof
Girls grown up in abusive homes or dads like this can't see the red flags, their foundation's all twisted. This guy tried to push me down the stairs and I used to be like "hmm, what did he mean?" 💀🤦♀️
that kind of men sadly has the best feeling to find woman they can abuse. in certain situations he would not have mentioned it on first dates. or he would never go on dates with her. Wintessed it with two of my friends
I wonder about her home life
As a European, these date stories are bewildering. All of them!
Yeah we in the US we do not live in a homogeneous, civil society. Wish we did
Charlotte, I loved your reaction/monologue after the first girl! And also to the guy with a bad date (the one with a really mean girl lol). I feel like your reaction was more serious and mature, and like a big sister giving advice to younger ladies/men out there. I love this more serious side of you that's analyzing and reflecting on the deeper issues.
I met my significant other online in a game we both played. hit it off instantly. "dated" online for five years . talked on the phone and did skype calls . we never went on a "real" date until AFTER i moved in with him . Been with him for ten years now and couldn't be happier. Before i met him i had "dated a few guys who were local to where i lived and it was horrible, one was a drunk the other a meth-head . The one i found online is neither, does no drugs, does not drink , he is disabled , only has one leg ( happened AFTER i moved in, medical condition worsened and the leg had to be taken) his disability does not make me love him any less , if anything it made our love stronger. I almost lost him during his surgery.
My sister met her hubby on a chat server I was running and they dated online and travelled back and forth for 2 years then got married. She moved to England to live with him and they just celebrated their 23rd wedding anniversary and are still madly in love. You’re a lucky one!
May the universe bless your love 🥰🫶🏻🤍
I know a woman who did this exact thing with her husband of many years and a child together UNTIL oops he's a chester
This!!!! Congrats on finding such a good man! I LOVE hearing stories like these! I found my partner very similarly 🤍
I had just split from the father of my kids- together for 15 years, married 10. He had become a violently abusive alcoholic and I was raising four small kids alone with $0 help. I downloaded Instagram when we split just to make friends and met my now-partner.
For the first couple of years we just acted silly, exchanged memes, nothing much. Then became closer when my best friend died. My now-partner worried a lot so he began calling me often to check up on me and he and I then slowly became best friends. Still had not met at this point.
Ex hubs had begun terrorizing me and my now-bf drove across states to watch movies and eat pizza with me and take my mind off of things. This was our first meeting and we were inseparable after, although still just friends.
After a few months we both realized neither of us were seeing anyone else and he finally confessed it’s Bc when he tried to have dates, the other girls just “weren’t me”… so we began dating. He moved in two years ago (moving 7 hours and 3 states over to mine) and we’ve been together 4.5 years now. My kids adore him, and he loves them, and our families are incredibly close… I told him last night that now- at 40 years old- I am happier than I ever recall being in my whole life and it’s VERY much due to his love and kindness.
Sorry it’s so long, I just LOVE hearing other peoples similar stories and sharing ours. Love is something to celebrate 🤍
met a dude online and come to find out he was poly and his wife was around the entire time :) miss ya alex
I LOVE telling this story.
By far my worst date:
We met on OkCupid (I'm old, ok?), he lived in another town and drove in to meet me. Skipped dinner, went to a movie. He says something like "I guess I have to buy you a pop" and doesn't get one for himself. Proceeds to drink most of mine anyway. We run into one of my friends after, dude makes fun of my friend's name. Go to a bar that I frequented (friends with bartender and bouncers), dude makes fun of me for buying drinks and carrying a wallet (not a purse girl). Insults the bouncer. We go to a friend's apartment. Dude full-on misses the toilet and pees all over the bathroom floor. At this point, he is too drunk yo drive himself home. I agree to let him sleep on my couch. He got so upset that I wouldn't let him into my room, kiss me, or sleep with me. I locked my bedroom door. He was gone before I woke up.
Why didn’t u part ways way before a lot of this… I would have been done after insulting my friends name.
@@amandalongman737what’s your friends name? 😏
@@chincemagnetwhat I wanted you to know! Though he seems to make fun of and insult everything and everyone
He didn’t deserve to stay at your place with the way he treated you and everyone that you know.
Minus the gay frogs and crypto, I've made one of these dating mistakes before. I like to think of myself as a lifelong learner, mostly because it sounds better than huge nerd, and so I'm constantly buying textbooks or taking courses in things and I tend to get super excited by whatever subject I'm currently immersed in. I remember back at the beginning of the deep learning revolution I convinced my employer to invest in some hardware and I was starting to learn and develop software for it. Anyway, I went on a date and she asked me about what I did and I launched into a 30 minute breathless explanation of what I thought all the possibilities were (this would have been a 5-6 years or so before ChatGPT when others would be introduced to the field) and only realized when I saw her trying to politely stifle a yawn that I was probably becoming one of her "worst date" stories. I tried to recover by shutting up and only asking about her at that point, but I had already blown it lol.
"They're turning the frogs gay" - that's a line from another of his favorite thinkers, Alex Jones. This guy is just trolling her.
The whole thing seemed set up.
Had to pause this video and go hug my husband real quick and thank him for saving me from the crazy out there! WOW
Let me be an old lady (54) for a second. Single Ladies, be very picky. Get ok being alone with yourself and enjoying your own company. You are beautiful, smart, funny, and so special to this world! Believe it and the good guy will find you.
Meanwhile, I’ll be praying for y’all because damn it’s rough out there nowadays! 😳😫
Edit: finished the video now and whoa!! Praying for you guys too!
It really is rough out there especially when you're picky. I'm 32 and I'm really picky and I'm starting to think I'll never get married. I love that for you that you have your husband
So love your style and your uplifting message to other women! Good job! I too am even MORE EXCITED about my husband after watching this yikes 😮
@@what.the.whatever I met my boyfriend on tinder in the middle of absolutely nowhere and I'll be 30 this week. Your soulmates probably just still married to their highschool sweetheart who they secretly hate but won't divorce yet because of religion. You got this and just remember, being alone is ALWAYS better than sacrificomg your peace.
@@FantabulousFailhaha I'm a catholic and divorce is frowned upon there but I bet it's worse for the baptists lol
My worst date was in high school. The guy didn't have his own car yet so his parents took us to the movies and picked us up and it only got bad because before taking me home they had to go pick up his younger brother from practice. Considering it was my worst date, we are married now. XD
that's funny. I'm sure your parents were pleased - they didn't need to worry about you! lol
Omg please do more videos like this ❤
15:30 YEAH! I FOUND THAT SO DISTRACTING TOO! You basically said everything I was thinking after she made the egg avocado toast thing. 😂
I appreciate knowing the name trick. I found my husband as a teen and never had the issue of dating as an adult. However you never know what life has in store and these tips are always appreciated.
I was the first girl my boyfriend matched with on tinder after his divorce. He married his highschool sweetheart so it was all new to him. I'm sure he wished he had any tips. It was date 3 and he didn't think I liked him and hadn't tried to kiss me yet. Lol
Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤
Who's watching the eclipse today? 🌑
We say "Hello Petty Potatoes". Repeat after me; Hello Petty Potatoes
Good morning Bestie!❤
Hello petty potatoes! ❤
@@unichan5Yes. Hello. At least you do it right
Good morning! God bless you in the name of Jesus Christ, who is the name above all names & the only way to Heaven❤
MELANIE MARTINEZ FARTED ON HIS PHONE AND GAVE HIM PINK EYE 😂
😂😂😂😂 I was watching her make her food also, i got lost in trying to figure out the ingredients to make it. Love
You great videos
The guy talking about the girl who stole from him and sat on his phone was probably so pissed when he rejected her offer to go to his place because she was hoping she could rob more things from his home. That girl is scary, and it's good that he got away from her.
She was probably making arrangements for someone to follow her and help rob him.
I've never gone on an internet date and I have absolutely no regrets for it 😂
Good on you! I was catfished before the term existed
@@sweetreat30 oh nooo!!!! I've always found it funny when people catfish and expect you to be ok with them being nothing like who they pronounced themselves to be.initially. The audacity 🤣
same
my personal 1st date rule is SPLIT IT. even if you like them. that way if things go south on either end no one feels owed or obligated to someone else.
IDK I'd have noped outta there with the "are they real?" question and the alleyway parking.
This is why I've been single for almost 23 years!! The rare time I have tried to meet someone, they have been the absolute worst, and then i see these videos....no body is going to beat my peace and quiet, nor my safety. Be safe out there